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| 1 | I’ve (27M) got 5 dates booked this week, but I suck balls at escalation. Any tips or advice?Why dont you use 4 dates to try different things out and bundle your findings for the 5th | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Could this be the reason women say they want nice guys?When people say they want xyz for their partner. What they mean with that is "on top of all the rest" You can be the best person for someone, the nicest of nice.. At the end of the day, if the woman doesnt fancy you, wheter it is looks or other aspects of your life.. She will not want you near her romantically when i hear someone say i want a nice guy i think of this list Someone who is well spoken and looks attractive enough to show her friends and family Is able to provide for her and her (/yo… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Can you live a happy life without women?Keydifference women. Having yourself a woman and eventually kids can make you feel complete as a man to be able to provide for the ones that make your life happy. The new generation minions of yourself | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Cannot find any girls on OLD that I am attracted toWhere do you live and maybe try creating a new profile... it might be so that youre placed into these "leagues" becuase that type mass likes you and/or the ones you seem pretty dont reciprocate the feeling | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | How to stay away from logical conversation?If you have a hard time coming up with topics in the moment. Maybe its a good idea to prepare strokes of paper with things you like to talk about or have talked about with previous dates. You put them in your pocket and take one out at a time. Bonus points if you make a lot and put them in for a date in the "far" future so it feels like a new topic for yourself too and have no chance to prepare your logical answer | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:01 PM |
| 77 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meIt shouldnt feel as such. You should come to realise that now your league has moved, the ones that are "easy" will help as experience for the women you truely connect with. Now you date from an abundance mindset, meaning you should no longer be hypnotised by the posibilty of getting pussy. You can now weed girls on how good you two match. Now that you know how to obtain iron, you have the potential of gathering you diamond | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to go to a bar alone?It mainly comes down to you expectations. Do you enjoy just sitting and having a drink? by all means do that. Is it because you watched a youtube video about someone saying it was a great way to meet a love interest? Then you probably wont be really enjoying it. Because you keep your focus on escalation with someone rather than it being relaxation. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:44 PM |
| 0 | why do people think I'm gay?I honestly have no idea really.. If these were straight people only you could assume that.. but since there are kind off a lot of actual gay people who also thought thought that. Would you call them narrowminded aswell? I mean.. i dont, so i dont really see the reason as to why you would call non gay people narrowminded for the same thing :o | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | why do people think I'm gay?i have to say, thats a narrow view on the matter lol. I have had pretty much everyone think im gay.. the people who think that just made an observation and probably want you to feel like you can come to them if you have struggles. List of people who thought i was gay: New class mate (he was gay himself) New classmate (he came out of the closet like 4 years later) a few Bullies (i never been bullied but they would be the closest thing to that) a bully (who now turns out to be gay) a few Gay peopl… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?doesnt have to be true, we can have our group of friends come together. have a great day evening like we often used to have when we were younger. They say we should do this more often when leaving. When a few of us arrange the dates 3/4 girls often say they are preoccupied everyday for the next 5 weeks or some bs excuses no dating aspect here Its just a tick a lot of people have, just like asking how you are without wanting a real answer | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Try to fit into a "scene" if you can, you'll have a lot more success.You are thinking of this the wrong way. Fitting into a scene doenst exclude you from standing out. Your just more aproachable when you are part of the group it is you being the same as others on basic levels you can stand out by having more to your personality beyond that first common scene layer | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 12:40 PM |
| 1 | You guys need to stop putting women and sex above your values, self respect and goals.I suggest seeking help for that. Better in one way doesnt mean better for other parts in your life keep that in mind. Unless your hobby or work is cooking related, the way you explain how you think about it has the potential the ruin friendships, relations or your financial state | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | She offered to cook for methanks :) | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | She offered to cook for meIm asking because i will prob be around 4 to 5 hours alone with her until we go to meet up with other people And im stressing out since idk what and how to do that.. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Really stuck on escalationSure yeah, respecting the girl and asking permission are things you have to do ofcourse But thats about bigger things, such as asking to hold hands or trying to go in for a kiss. Sitting next to her isnt one of those. since you have to sit down anyway It is a dumb and basic thing to read i know, but the respect and confidence camps intertwine where you shouldnt do too much of either. i dont really have list with the big and small things sitting somewhere is def a small one tho unless its on top … | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The girl now likes me, how do I complete the next level 👀yeah.. I know.. So I agreed to come, the only thing now is: im kinda afraid that I will be boring or awkward in her group of friends. I dont really know what im supposed to do, I have never been invited like that. Should I bring something? What things should I definitely not do? Maybe I will be the only guy in the group, am I supposed to choose the venues in the city (which I dont know that well)? Do I order drinks for everyone? This part is where im uncertain about tho | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 12:25 PM |
| – | Really stuck on escalationNot everyone is as comfortable with kissing on a first date. Next time dont joke or ask to sit next to her, if you want to sit next to her, just do it like this is the normal way. When you go to a restaurant or cafe you limit yourself any "way of escalating any kino" and the focus lays on the conversation, this isnt a bad thing. But as you said can be hard if you dont know how to flirt, and indeed something you can only learn by practice. Is that like a pickup artist term or anything, doesnt rea… | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Girl bit me during sexDepends. If it was in you dick, no.. If it was in your neck, ear or maybe arm/torso even, it can be a thing. DO tell her if you dislike biting, that is the important aspect here. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 11:03 AM |
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