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That only applies to white women though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:33 PM
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Okkk... then dont get mad when women dont like fat guys or guys with poor jawlines, bald, old etc since that isnt the beauty standard either instead of playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:37 PM
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How is that any different from this sub? This entire sub is composed of incels/femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:31 AM
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He said the criteria for men in his comment, not women. Plus, many Asian guys seem to want east Asian, white stacys. Several girls of other races (including me) have tried and given up on them because they are just so hyperfocused on one type of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:54 AM
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I know several women who are not fat nor masculine and not even options, including myself. It's messed up that men automatically assume that a light/fairer skinned woman is more "feminine" when these Same sentiments aren't applied as often to men. (Ie darker skinned men do not completely dominate the dating scene)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:23 AM
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You forgot to add 7) Must be white or east Asian and definitely not black... Also, what do you mean by don't be too old. Who are all rhe old men gonna date?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:15 AM
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Um, at least you even get dates. I don't even get told it's being cancelled, guys just stand me up. And that's on the very rare occasion I haven't been ghosted before that point. I don't even bother trying to date because it's inevitable I'll be ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:01 AM
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Not in my case. If I don't do anything, nothing will get done. I even tested this guy out because he never would put in an ounce of effort into me to see what would happen if I just stopped messaging him. He went TWO MONTHS without even bothering to send me a message and see if I'm okay, and would have gone longer if I didn't end my experiment. It's like guys don't want to bother with women who are actually nice to them and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:56 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:51 AM
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Well of course some women only look for validation too. I never said they didn't. Many people nowadays constantly feel the need to hear positive things about themselves. FA = forever alone What do you mean by this? Did you expect them to be different? Well yeah because a good chunk of the guys on here complain about how impossible it is for men to date, and how they never get any attention. So I thought, well, here is my chance! Here are guys who are serious about having a gf. But it turns out n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:17 AM
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My criteria is that he asked me out lol. He is the only guy I've dated thus far (even though, it didn't really feel like we were dating since he didn't want anything to with me, and didn't even call me his gf). And yes, before anyone asks, I do ask guys out myself now and I do go on apps, but they all are either uninterested, taken, ghost, or just put in zero effort, or stop talking to me due to something stupid. On my first ever date, this guy blocked me because I had the audacity to eat bread …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:59 PM
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I dont understand how the women here are so lucky. My ex has never done anything for me except scream at me over the tiniest thing and get super passive aggressive. He couldn't even say a measly thank you. I got him all this nice stuff for his birthday, yet he screamed at me that I didnt buy him enough things. Even though I was without a job at the time because i had just graduated from my masters degree. Yet when my birthday rolled around, he couldn't even bother to say happy birthday. And that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:40 PM
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I dont understand how all these women here are so lucky. I wish I could have a bf who would love me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:38 PM
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Maybe for some relationships, but I'd be lucky if I could get a guy who can make it to one week without getting bored of me. They also expect me to buy them stuff and do all these things for them that they don't really show appreciation for. It makes me wonder why I'm even dating in the first place if all my purpose is to be eye candy for them and an atm. It's more stressful than anything else. Statistics even say women are happier when single Not saying it isn't rough for guys too, but you can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:37 PM
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I know what it's like to approach and get rejected. I have to do it too because guys don't come up to me. So I have to do 100% of the work, even online. I have to make sure I'm pretty, smart, charismatic, funny, witty, kind, feminine, etc, just like everyone else does. It's hard work, but maybe it'll pay off one day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:33 PM
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Guess you've got me there. Lol, these people all just look like mass shooters. You could tell they're crazy from a mile away
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:24 PM
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Yeah, I know. I agree with you. I just made a comment on 2xc yesterday saying that the US has never been a free or equal country, and that they should check their privileges. The women on 2xc are complaining about their rights taken away due to being unable to have abortions even if their health is being compromised, but they only now recognize how messed up the US is after this has occurred. This country has never given the same privileges to minorities, LGBTQ members, and those with disabiliti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:10 PM
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That doesn't apply for darker women though. Only 300lb white/Asian women have simps. All those e-girls would have zero followers if they were darker skinned women. You have to be 8-9/10 as a black woman to be seen as human, and even then you'll still be overlooked for 3/10 white or Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:30 PM
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Well, you kinda are describing my situation. Most guys around me do only want a robust outgoing blonde girl, and I'm a thin nerdy dark black/Indian girl, so I am literally as opposite from that as it gets. I have spent months trying to talk to guys only for them to randomly ghost me out of nowhere, or get a new gf who looks absolutely nothing like me. And before you ask, no these aren't Chads. Some of them I have even met on reddit and claimed to be FA. One of these guys recently ghosted me, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:10 PM
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Why do guys say stuff like this, but then turn around and say they only like feminine women? It takes effort to looks feminine. Are you saying we should show up having no makeup and hair undone in sweats too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:28 AM
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Same exact stuff going on all over this sub buddy. This place reeks of privilege and entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:22 AM
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Yep, trying to work on it lol. Its hard since approaching guys and trying to seem as charismatic, charming, funny, and smart as possible is a bit nerve wracking, especially since most make it obvious they don't want to talk to me, but I'm slowly getting there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:41 PM
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I dont go on dating apps anymore, they give me too much anxiety. I hate getting my hopes up and inevitably getting let down by guys who want to waste my time, ghost, give one word answers, or hookup. It has never not happened. And bumble is the worst app imo. Because the guys swipe right on everyone, so since women have to make the first move, they ignore you because they aren't interested. With other apps, you kinda know if someone is interested if they message you. So all my likes are essentia…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:25 PM
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Well because guys assume it's easy for all women when it clearly isn't! I mean, I want to be part of the discussion too. And since I can't relate to many of the things a lot of people are saying, about women, I have to play the devils advocate and remind them it's not everyone. It's true that black women have it really bad, so I'm hoping maybe it'll open some people's eyes since we're usually invisible to everyone and no one cares about our problems. Why is everyone so close minded here anyway? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:44 PM
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Yeah, I guess there are many different struggles and perspectives to it. I feel like I'm not good enough to be given any basic level of effort, and you feel like you're not really desired but just settled on because the guy doesn't want to be lonely. So you don't really feel important and like you can easily be replaced. I hear you. It's really tough dating honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:46 PM
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In my experience, guys have only wanted to be in relationships with pretty girls, but will casually be with ones they aren't attracted to. They won't even hide that they aren't attracted to the casual ones though, so there is no benefit. They won't put any effort into her. I'm always on this side as a darker ethnic woman and constantly deal with guys who insult me and put me down and don't take me seriously and only view me as an object they can use and put away when they want, but my friends wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:12 PM
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I didnt say anything asinine about you though? How come guys expect to coddled so much when women don't like them, but when I as a darker woman also struggle to date as well (because of race) guys try to pass it off as preference? Guys hold darker women to extremely high standards or just flat out won't date us, yet when I ask them why they just say they have a preference for lighter features. Isn't it the same thing like what you're asking? People just have preferences I'm a less desired ethnic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:50 PM
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Is this a real question? For centuries and still in many parts of the world, women were not allowed to go school and/or are heavily discouraged from getting an education. Of course if you can't go to school, you'll be dumber. And there are different types of intelligence. It doesn't necessarily mean someone is book smart and can mirror Einstein. They could have high emotional intelligence or high musical intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:34 PM
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Well, I'd say that people have become very picky due to the advent of social media and online dating apps. People are exposed to more attractive people on a daily basis than ever before, and falsely believe that there are more attractive people out there. Therefore their standards are much higher than every before, because everyone wants the best. Many men do have very high standards just as many women do. Many don't want to date me just because I'm black/Indian. Many other women are also reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:31 PM
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No the average man is much better off than the average woman. Not just the top ones but all men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:21 PM
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Yeah, but the only value we would have is for breeding. We wouldn't be able to live our own lives and enjoy freedoms guys would (and do)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:19 PM
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Yes, I definitely feel good that I have to work 100x harder than than the average does just to get a fraction of the amount of money and opportunities he does. I'm so lucky. Women have to work much longer and harder just to make the same amount a guy makes in an even shorter time. I'm black, so I make even less money than the average man makes My boss isn't even paying me right now and has never made me feel comfortable the entire time I've been there. That doesnt happen to the other people ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:08 PM
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Nah, men are more valued. Its messed up, but its true. They're paid more, seen as smarter and more capable, and always given the benefit of the doubt. Men only value women for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:02 PM
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I think western societies would be even more patriarchal though. Men already make most decisions that dictate women, and if less women make up the population, they'd have even less of a voice. Men already make up the most powerful positions too in 50/50 populations, so women would hold zero power if they were greatly outnumbered. I shudder to think of a world where men vastly outnumber women. It would be really scary imo. Thank goodness realistically, that could never happen. Women would just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:56 PM
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Yeah, but I (and many other women) don't want to be with someone who looks and dresses like an old man. We like youth too. Men just think we dont and use that as a excuse not to take care of themselves. I've been preferring guys younger than me lately because so many look so much older the second they hit 23. Perhaps because they don't feel a need to take care of themselves anymore after that age. But that's exactly why so many women aren't attracted to them. You guys complain that women won't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:50 PM
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Well, I guess those guys just like chubby women? What's so bad about them being attracted to them? Besides, many overweight women are badly treated by the guys they are with. I'd much rather be single, than with someone who doesnt respect me. I'm not overweight, but I am black, and I'm often in a position where I'm not respected by someone because of it. It's made me give up on dating honestly. Not all women are treated well by the guy they're with, and often feel even more lonely and sad than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:38 PM
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So you first said "we wear it for men" then you change it and say "We don't wear it for men" It's not that hard to think about. If you had a pool of 100 women, maybe 80 of them are wearing makeup, and of those 80, 50 are wearing it for themselves and 30 are wearing it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:34 PM
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Well the average man in America is pretty overweight as well. So unless fat people are going to date each other or lose weight instead of getting mad about it, nothing will change. People always complain that no one finds them attractive when they barely look like they take care of themselves. The vast majority of the guys who complain they can't get women are seriously overweight/obese. Most people don't want to date someone who is very unhealthy and will probably die early from heart disease. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:04 PM
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We do because men don't take us seriously if we don't. If men faced the same amount of pressure we do about looking good, they'd wear it too And also, many women wear makeup because they like it and it makes them feel good. Lots don't even wear it for men, they wear it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:00 PM
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Nah, the average guy is much worse looking than the average woman. This is more apparent when guys age after 25. Many of them have wrinkles, big belly due to drinking and partying, are bald, and look way older than women of the same age. This is because guys aren't as pressured to maintain youth and attractiveness as much as women are. So because of men's laziness to just take general care of themselves, they get mad that no one wants them. Well no shit. No one wants to be with santa claus or bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:57 AM
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Now you guys see exactly how you look to everyone else complaining about everything. I wasnt serious in my comment, I knew it would get a rise out of you incels seeing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:05 AM
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Pretty sure having a dad bod, nerdy, and wearing the exact same clothes every single day doesn't count as being better looking lol. I was far out of that assholes league. For all you incels, he was also under 6ft and Asian (which people say have a harder time dating).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:03 AM
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Affirmative action just gets your foot in the door, nothing else. It also benefits (minority) men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:00 PM
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Okay, but guys in their 30s look even worse? It's rare to find a guy who is over 30 and doesn't have a pot belly, is bald, wrinkly, jaded, bitter, and is masculine. So many of them at that age are just looking for a gf aka mommy who'll do everything for them. And they're upset because no one wants them because they're leftovers and they've wasted they're younger years partying and getting wasted. Most of the HVM have already been married and settled down by 25. People who are still single beyond…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:56 PM
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Same... no one is safe in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:47 PM
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Not sure what's so funny about that, but whatever. Ignorance is what makes a fool out of someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:41 PM
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Men like to whine about their problems too, but Reddit bans all subreddits where men whine about women. Would you say the vitriol on /r/Incels was evidence of how hard men have it? If not, why do you expect me to take the whining of privileged women of 2XC any more seriously? R/trufemcels were banned too. All subs where people whine are banned. I've cited several real word sources to support my arguments. You haven't I can, but I'm too lazy right now because I dont think it's worth my time. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:39 PM
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Women face the additional risk of date rape, which I think is worse than just an unrewarding date. Or possibly being killed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:30 PM
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Darn, guess I better make an insta account. I am in a state with a lot of very good looking and fit people, so I was quite confused why they weren't on the apps when I tried looking. Now I know they're elsewhere. But it's so hard to compete with the super attractive people on insta. A lot of the women on there are very pretty. It's really intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:01 PM
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Well, yeah. That's why I don't think old is a good idea for most people. People don't want to put in effort and many people just hit the apps for hookups and/or validation. No one takes them seriously. Most people just have a bio that says "hi" or something. I don't use apps anymore because I'm tired of running into overweight guys who are just looking waste my time by ghosting or sending one word answers. And I personally don't recommend them to anyone, both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:58 PM
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Lol, sure. I'm sure that happens all the time... in your imagination I'm not going to argue with you over this anymore since you're just making me run in circles, but if you don't believe, just go on r/twoxchromosomes for like 1 minute, and you'll see just how unfair this world is to women. And if all of this in my head, I dont understand why I'm arguing with you in the first place since clearly all of this in your imagination too. You're just choosing made up things you believe to be real and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:47 PM
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Maybe you don't. In the Srebrenica massacre 8000 boys and men were killed, while the women were spared. This is not uncommon. In fact, I'd argue that the opposite is what's rare. Either people are killed regardless or sex, or the males are singled out. Rarely will “genocide” be committed by killing women and sparing men. You act as if women are the ones going around killing all these people. Literally men went and killed all these other guys. It's not my fault that many men are violent af. Men o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:26 PM
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I've had to deal with the same exact thing as a woman. I have to do all of what you just listed, and more. I have to get the guy interested, ask him questions about himself, attempt to set up dates that he'll just stand me up to anyways, initiate all communication, initiate affection, the list goes on and on. And yes its exhausting. But I mean, if you're putting all that effort into someone, it just means that maybe you should find someone else. Why are you with someone who keeps you guessing li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:54 PM
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I basically am guilty of what you are telling here, not that i don't like black women, as in darker women, but the overall features and appearance usually doesn't appeal to me, but some black girls who are maybe mixed or truly gigastacys, are indeed attractive, hell i got rejected by those a couple times sadly. You just admitted you're going for gigastacy women, of course they're going to reject you. I don't see why you think you're too good for the less attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:50 PM
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Yes! Exactly. The OP doesn't realize he's only focusing on a very specific subset of women, yet he's making generalizations to all women. We as black women have very different experiences than the kinds of girls that he's referring to when he says they enjoy dating. Most black girls I know do not enjoy dating in the slightest, because they're constantly holding their breath to figure out if a guy even likes black girls in the first place! And if he does, then we have to prepare for him to ghost …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:42 PM
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Then explain why subs where men upload images of women they find attractive like r/prettygirls or r/beautifulfemales all have women look the exact same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:30 PM
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Well who starts the wars in the first place? Men! Who decided that men have to go fight in wars and defend their countries and take part in your so called "androcide"? MEN. Who also decided to put women in such narrow roles and limit the amount of freedom and equality and happiness they enjoy? Also men. Its your own faults. In most places, women aren't even seen as other human beings. They aren't valued at all. Only men are. And the reason why women don't fight in wars is because men dont think …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:23 PM
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Well of course it's hard. Approaching and facing rejection is always going to be tough. I approach and get rejected a lot too, and I just suck it up because I know guys won't approach me either. And yes, a more attractive guy will be chosen over a less attractive one. But women have different ideas about what they find attractive. I feel like men tend to like the same cute young looking sorority type women, whereas women can like skinny, fat, muscular, older, etc. guys. Look at all the women in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:57 PM
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But I also see the same women getting attention and the same women being ignored...sooo of course the pretty girls at the top are going to ignore the guys at the bottom because they get so much attention everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:44 PM
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Not barely. And when Asian guys date, they always end up with beautiful smart and sophisticated women who are doctors and lawyers and scientists. I'm in grad school and know many professors who are with Asian men and are extremely brilliant. Whereas black women are usually stuck with guys who won't even do bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:25 PM
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Not in all cases. Certainly not in mine. The entire relationship always sits on my shoulders, because I'm the only one who actually puts in effort since guys think they're too good for me. Same for many other women. You're just thinking of examples where that isnt the case and making entire generalizations about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:22 PM
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Then why are you on this sub where sweeping generalizations and sexist comments are made in literally every post/comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:19 PM
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Yeah, because you men are the ones who put them on a pedestal in the first place. If I were a girl who got loads of attention, I'd be really picky too simply because I can
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:18 PM
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They have an easier time finding jobs, making money, getting promotions, society doesnt scrutinize them for their looks nearly as much. Since when is it easier for women to find jobs? Guys always have it easier finding jobs and making good impressions on people. In many cases, women can't even get a job because they aren't allowed to where they're from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:17 PM
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Girls are more widely liked than boys I think the vast majority of the world begs to differ. Girls are more likely to be treated badly and even face genocide because of their sex. You don't hear of male genocide. They are kept in strict gender roles and dont get to enjoy getting an education and a life in the majority of the world. They are shamed for natural bodily features and functions. Even in the US, we are constantly fighting for our rights. I basically am guilty of what you are telling he…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:14 PM
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Lol I dont give attention to men and I do move on. That's why I block
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:09 PM
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Guys do the same thing when it comes to weight, race and looks soo...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:56 PM
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Perhaps, but I've tried talking to several short Asian men (I've always thought their eye shape was pretty and I dont really care about height) and literally every single one of them has either put me down, ghosted, or treated me as a sex object. And they've said some extremely racist and mean things to me. And I'm not overweight or anything like you mentioned. I have a pic on my profile if you want to check. Sure I'm not the prettiest, but I do try and put effort into the way I look and how I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:46 PM
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Not really. It depends on the person. If it's a pretty bubbly thin gorgeous girl, then sure. But most guys will push a different woman who doesn't tick every single one of their narrow boxes to the side and not even pretend to like her. I guess it does make it easier in the grand scheme of things because these guys show you who they are from the get go, so you can just remove them from your life immediately. But it gets old after a while when ALL of them are like that. Because guys will only put…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:43 PM
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Yeah, most of the guys on OLD, I wouldnt touch with a 10 ft pole. Many of them just have to be fake. They have low effort bios and are like 50+ lbs overweight. I'm not looking for Arnold Schwarzenegger, but at least put a little bit of effort into the way you look if you're going to be on an app. It's not like they don't know apps judge very heavily on looks. And them they complain that they can't get anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:40 PM
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I would say that dating is only fun for a small subset of women and men. Most people run into jerks who either want to manipulate them, take advantage of them, or hurt them. Women may just run into a higher amount of men who do this, than men run into women who do this. But for the vast majority of us, dating is just an exhausting game that makes us feel worse about ourselves the more we try to play it. It doesnt help that a lot of people have mental issues and refuse to seek treatment for it. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah, but men also won't look at girls who also don't meet their criteria. And usually the criteria is things women have little to no control over. It's all a 2 way street. So they keep chasing the girls who do meet their criteria in hopes that one of them will pay him attention. But ignore all the other great ones who may not be as perfect looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:25 PM
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Dating for women is also only fun if you aren't ugly and fit into the beauty standards. But honestly, I can say, for several of us women, it is not fun whatsoever to date and just be ignored or wanted to sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:23 PM
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Lol, why? Well, sure most guys will still chase after stacy their whole lives and never settle down. But the desperate ones who come back and realize that I'm the best they can get, just get blocked. Because I'm not going to let someone disrespect me and then try and pretend it didnt happen, just so they can disrespect me all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:20 PM
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Yeah, idk why people do this. They complain about not having someone in their life, but then only chase attractive people ffs. So many guys just ignore the girls that would treat them right, and run for attractive women who will break their hearts. And I just sit back and watch because when they try and come back because they realize they can't get a stacy, I just laugh in their faces. It's pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:30 PM
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Not sure how that's a dumbquestion, but whatever. To each their own. People who put down genuine curiosity are the real dumbs ones anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:22 PM
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Yeah, that's why I deleted my post and decided to post elsewhere. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:07 AM
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Yeah, but the porn categories just prove my point further. We are only seen as sex objects, not actual people, especially black women. On reddit, there are several subs that show the beauty of white or Asian women in a non-sexual way like r/prettygirls or r/Asiangirlsbeingcute. But every single sub catering to black/darker skinned women are sexual in nature. It's annoying and demoralizing seeing your friends be well taken care of and in happy relationships, when guys just want to hit you up when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:07 AM
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Yeah but how do you even know what your level of attractiveness is? WOC are rated much lower, especially black women, so even if I'm not too bad looking, most people will put me at a 2-3. And guys who are at this level dont want a 2-3 or a black girl in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:32 PM
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None of these stuff matter if you're not a stacy though... that's the biggest thing it seems like. Or having high value. Guys want a woman they think other guys will think is pretty and desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:28 PM
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Me and most girls don't want someone who doesnt go outside. We want someone who will just be normal and have fun and treat us well. No one wants to be with someone who only wants to stare at a wall all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:27 PM
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But guys don't care if a girl has all these characteristics unless she's extremely attractive and is assumed to be very valued. And that usually doesnt include women like me because woc are assumed to have less value, so guys don't go for them as much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:26 PM
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I think guys do care what their friends think. They want to show they have a pretty, hot gf that all their friends will high five them for. If they think their gf isnt hot enough, they'll hide her and keep her behind closed doors until they find someone they can show off. My ex did this, and never went out in public with me. The only "dates" we had were at my apartment. One time his roommate saw me, and he quickly told him I was just his "friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:22 PM
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Guys do it too. They want a hot stacy and ignore anyone who will actually treat them well if they don't find them pretty enough. They just push them to the side and treat them terribly until they get the girl they really want. The guy who treated me like shit thought he was so hot and even told me he wanted a better girl, even though he literally looked like a nerd with a dad bod and wore the same exact clothes everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:18 PM
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Yeah, but I'm not going to do all that for guy who's just going to sit on his ass all day. A guy needs to put in effort too. It's a two way street. It's so annoying running into guys who won't do shit. Not even spend a measly 10 minutes with me without going on their damn phones and treating me with respect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:17 PM
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Yea, I am feminine. I had one bf and I would leave love notes and bake him cookies/sweets and buy him gifts and send cute messages, but he just still treated me like an object. He was even embarrassed of me and put me down a lot and just overall abused verbally, mentally, emotionally and sexually. I felt more alone and sad when I dated him than I as a single woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:15 PM
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Well, no I don't fit those requirements because they all want hot blond white or Asian Stacys. So I'm automatically disqualified as a nerdy dark girl. Im working on losing the nerdy look, but I dont think it'll help tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:12 PM
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Guys who look like me say the most racist things. And they say it in front of everyone and dont care if they hurt my feelings. I just saw a post of a black guy saying black girls squirt motor oil when they give birth and a bunch of other mean things. How someone looks means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:11 PM
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I'm smart (going for my PhD), I do my best to seem interesting and ask guys about themselves, and send them love notes and bake cookies and sweets. Yet, I keep running into guys who make it very obvious I'm nothing to them and that they only view me as a sex object. I'm not the kind of girl guys take on dates or send cute messages to or ask them how their days were or want to spend time with. I'm just the girl that they only want to spend 10 minutes max with when they're horny. Is it the vibes I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:07 PM
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The weight distribution in men isn't as variable as it is in women. Women can store fat in the butts, thighs, boobs, stomach, etc. Men mainly only store weight in the stomach due to different hormones. Due to heavy drinking and/or not working out, a lot of men develop a pot belly look, which looks bad especially when coupled with skinnier arms and legs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:33 AM
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Ugh, is this what I have to do too? I'm 25 as well, and the 21-28 guys never pay attention to me because they're all out partying and thirsting over Stacy's at that age and not really looking to settle down. I don't drink or party or hookup, so I'm not interested in these types. It's only guys in their 30s and up who pay attention to me (online not in real life lol), and I'm not really interested in people twice my age. The last time I got attention was from a guy who was already married and alm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:28 PM
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Idk, I've noticed it's worse in guys because they dont apply lotion or anything to their skin. But even though I'm super glad I don't have any, I feel like wrinkles can be cute sometimes. Sometimes people's eyes crinkle up when they smile which is cute imo lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:34 PM
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Idk, I see people all the time who are 30+ and straight up look 40 or 50. Some people start getting wrinkles and stuff at 21-22. Maybe it's just weird for me since I age differently due to having thicker and darker skin. But it is weird to see people the same age as me or younger than me looking decades older. Yall need to lather on the sunscreen and drink more water lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:15 PM
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Yeah but even so, you get the wrong kind of attention. No one wants to be seen as just an object to men for to use when they're horny and put back on their shelf when they're done. We want to be seen as partners and companions, not just moving fleshlights ffs Plus you barely see different body types of women being seen as attractive. It has to be an hourglass or a pear shape. Nothing else. And this body type is very hard to get. Most women don't naturally have that body type. Having a belly or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:07 PM
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Not true bro, try again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:05 PM
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Being young sucks fr. Im in my 20s too, and I feel like guys are constantly just getting drunk and just want sex, it's so annoying. I'm not into partying and hookup culture at all, and I dont even drink. People say guys slow down when they get older, but then they end up on the opposite side of the spectrum and just don't want to do anything at all. They'd enjoy staring at a wall all day if they could. Absolutely nothing, unless it's with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:02 PM
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Lol, so true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:47 PM
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Well, I mean, I'm a woman, and I have to learn game too. It's not just guys. It's even harder as a woman because there aren't much tips for us, and it makes us feel weird and less of a woman since the usual message is that women dont have to do all that extra work. I know this sub doesnt like to bring race into things, but as a black woman, I'd be sitting there forever if I never approached guys. I still get turned down for non-black girls, but I'm hoping one day my game will be good enough to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:41 PM
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How do you know if a guy likes you though? It's hard for me to distinguish (at first) whether he's just horny for sex and will talk to anything and anyone or seriously is interested in me. They often aren't clear with their motives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:36 PM
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Yeah, but also because guys will stop talking to you and make you feel bad if you flirt and they're not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:34 PM
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Idk, as hard as it is being a women sometimes, I must say it would be cool to flash money in people's faces, especially as a minority woman since people tend to think we're poor and/or gold diggers. So it would be funny to shut them up by showing off my billions of hard earned cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:31 PM
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Exactly! Everyone says how men have no standards, but that isn't true. They are still going to try to get a woman who is the most attractive they can get who is still their type. So you're right, a bigger blonde woman would still have many guys attracted to her. And I hate how all these people are saying to just date black/ethnic men, as if they don't know that those men are the most discriminatory when it comes to race. They are the biggest culprits of falling for women with light features, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:48 PM
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Idk, as a black woman, guys have thought I was absolutely disgusting and were embarrassed and ashamed at the thought of being with me, so they would only want to be with me behind closed doors. It's been practically all guys. I managed to have one bf a few years ago who literally wore the exact same clothes everyday and was below attractive, but he thought he was too good to be seen with a girl like me because he was Asian. It was humiliating being treated the way I was treated by him. There was…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:10 AM
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Awww pretty boys are the best boys. I love those cute e-boys like the Elevator boys and tik tok and stuff. We all have different tastes. Some women like big, bear looking guys, others like the Jason Momoa types, others like the Machine Gun Kelly types. I happen to like the pretty boy types. There's no right or wrong answer for who you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:02 AM
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Yeah, I'm honestly a bit afraid of being a cougar when I get older. I rarely see attractive guys my age (25) and older. I keep being attracted to guys who are younger than I am, who still have hair and no wrinkles/beer bellies. It's fine now, but I don't think huge age gaps are appropriate beyond a certain threshold. I wish more guys would take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:59 PM
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I've experienced the same but with guys. They act like they're better than me and like they're doing me a favor, just because I'm black and "supposed to be happy for any and all crumbs of attention". One guy was super embarrassed of me and treated me worse than actual shit, yet wore the exact same clothes every single day and was not attractive in the slightest. But because he was Asian, he felt that he was too good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:56 PM
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Everyone struggles in dating. Unless you're a 10/10 white model, you're going to have some sort of struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:52 PM
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I dont think so. They want the best looking woman that they can get and can proudly show off to their friends. So they ignore the other women who are interested in them because they don't want those.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:51 PM
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It's both. Men and women will always want the most attractive person they can go for. However, women's standards are less stringent then men's are. So the type of guys she may go for won't all be super hot underwear models. Many women find fat hairy bald guys with dad bods attractive. The only people who aren't told to date up are black women. We are told that we should "love ourselves" and that we are too strong to be tied down. It's annoying because you can still love yourself and want someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:45 PM
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Yes, so true. Another thing is, if a question is made here towards men, they just say more general answers or "youd need to ask that specific guy because we're all different", but for women, guys will just lump all women into one category and make sweeping generalizations about all of us and absolutely will try and prove you wrong if you disagree with their statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:27 PM
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Yes, that's all they want. They lie to you and make you believe they don't, but they do. So many guys I've talked to that claimed they had no one were single forever, just to ignore me and/or ask for nudes and that's it. If I steer the convo away from anything sexual, they'll ignore it unless it becomes sexual again. It drives me nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:03 PM
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Exactly! And if you don't send nudes or sext, they will ignore you and block and move onto the next person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:01 PM
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Yep, until the guys ghost. I'm tired of that honestly. Especially when they trap me into thinking they're so lonely and I forever alone. Bullshit. They're only forever alone because they want a certain type of women to message them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:44 PM
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But anyone can have a symmetrical face regardless of race. And many dark skinned women also have wide hips and large chest. So it doesn't make sense that most people don't count non-white or non-asian women as potential partners
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:59 PM
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Sent you a chat answering this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:12 AM
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Yeah, women may have all the cards in terms of sex, but men are still the gatekeepers of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:59 PM
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I have tried to talk to many Asian men, and all of them treated me with contempt and basically spat on me. None of them were particularly handsome, none of them had lots of money, they all had dad bods. One of them literally wore the exact clothes everyday. These guys I spoke to were wefinitely not the top 15% of men like everyone claims all women go for. I'm sure they would have acted differently if I weren't a woc. The guy who wore the same exact clothes every day would whip his head around to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:42 PM
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Why is it that whenever a woman had problems dating, it's her fault? But if a guy has problems, its women's fault? I could write out how I've treated guys and did my best to be a good gf and tried to be engaging when talking to guys online but I'm too tired to write it all out and it's not like anyone would care anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:23 PM
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Can't be cap if it's the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:22 PM
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What are you talking about? I was busting my behind trying be as best of a gf I could. I tried making excellent convo with guys on apps. I could dm you how I acted in more detail. I wasn't always like this. It was when I was naive still and didnt understand how dating was. Now I don't really bother dating because I know guys won't even give me a chance to show my personality in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:18 PM
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No it's because guys dont see me as human like they see attractive women. They were the ones with the poor social skills and they were the ones being picky. They gave one word answers and ghosted me. My ex even ignored me whenever I'd talk to him and told me there were better girls out there than me. I'd never think of saying such a thing to him. And he was the kind of guy who wore literally wore the exact same clothes every single day, had a dad bod, nerdy, no personality, etc. So it's certainl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:15 PM
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Many women including myself will not engage in hookup culture whatsoever. It's frowned upon. Perhaps not for some women in the US where there is more open mindedness, but certainly outside of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:24 PM
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Okay, so it goes in both directions then. Sure many women want the top percent of men, and many men want the top percent of women. Everyone else in between is ignored. And the average dude look abysmally worse than the average woman, so of course women are going to go for the top men. The average man is fat with a beer belly and very questionable hygiene. Women take much better care of themselves. They take care of their skin so there's less wrinkles, they dye their hair so its not full of greys…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:15 PM
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Yeah, but if a woman is willing to date you, then you know she actually likes you. You dont run into a bunch of guys who just want to waste your time like we do. You still lose both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:47 PM
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Okay, well then you shouldn't complain that it's harder for men then to date if there are so many fat ones out there who dont want another fat women. They want skinny thin ones. And as a thin woman myself, you guys expect me to lower my standards for a fat guy which I'm not doing. If the top 15% of men are guys in my area aren't fat and take care of themselves, so be it. I'm going to go for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:43 PM
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No because I was very sweet and kind to guys and they decided to take advantage of that and treat me terribly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:23 PM
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There are at least 4 different parts, not all of them are fat. I just posted part 1, because that's the first one, but there are several more videos with the same things Besides, studies show that there are more fat men than there are fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:21 PM
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No because many of us swipe on less attractive guys and they dont give us the time of day. Many guys just want the top 15% of women too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:47 PM
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I didnt know obese meant of a normal weight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:31 PM
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No, you can see who has liked you and I swiped only one these people to increase my likelihood of a match. And many of these people are just bots or dont even respond. Therefore, they technically aren't really a match or a like then because a real match is someone who wants to get to know you and form a meaningful connection with you. Not someone who's a bot. Not someone who just wants to hookup and ghost you after. And definitely not all those guys who never even respond or make it obvious they…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:28 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:07 PM
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Can you prove to me that my male equivalent gets less. Stop just saying stuff that you believe to be true without backing it up. You basically just went through my entire post and just disagreed with it just because you're a male and you feel entitled to ignore me and gaslight mine and other woc experiences, just because they dont align with your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:06 PM
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Well if these women are getting men, then the men they are with by default are getting women. And I'm sure the men that these women are dating aren't 10/10. And its guy's fault for this. They're the ones who dating these women to begin with. I would much rather be single than be with someone who I'm not attracted to. And notice how you know many men who haven't had sex in years. Well, lots of women just have the option of having sex, not having a fulfilling relationship. And Casual sex isn't a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:01 PM
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Are the women you're asking white or Asian? I feel like the standards are kinda lower for them. Are they obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:51 PM
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How do you know the women have options? Are you assuming they have options? Have you asked them all about their dating history? What about the men? Are you assuming they have no options? Are they fat and don't take care of themselves? Then that's on them. A lot of guys I see don't look like they even shower
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:41 PM
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That's you though. You can't assume all men think the same way you do. Just as you can't assume all women think the same. Everyone is different. Lots of guys have very high standards and lots of girls have very low standards and vice versa. If guys didnt have high standards, explain videos like these: https://youtu.be/vgJCKvgSlgk Notice the part 1 because there are multiple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:09 PM
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Okay, perhaps a lot of women will only go for the top guys. But many men do the exact same thing. They also only go for the top few women. You may not, but many men do. So the women who are just like you who also go for unattractive men tend to be ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:56 PM
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Maybe if you live in an area full of fat people and there's no escaping them and you have to lower your standards or leave the city. But in places where everyone is thin and young, they will all go for the top of men AND women. So maybe none of the women will want to average/ugly men, but the men are the exact same way. They want the hot fit blonde girls and ignore everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:54 PM
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Yes, I am trolling that post. Notice how everyone there is making wide assumptions about women, but when I make wide assumptions about men, everyone is quick to say I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:51 PM
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I'm guessing she's white? Standards are different for white women vs woc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:10 PM
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Okay. A lot of women I know are like this too. I'm in grad school, so I'm basically surrounded by women like this. And it's still a struggle for all of us. A lot of men are "intimidated" by this. In my case however, a lot of guys see my skin tone and decide to put me down and make racist comments like how surprised they are by how smart and well-spoken I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:08 PM
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Was she white though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:19 PM
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That's you though. Just because you haven't had a hard time doesnt mean a lot of us don't. Read a lot of the comments made by other bw/woc. They're struggling too If I lowered my standards, I would just be seen as a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:15 PM
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Did you read the post? I said I've tried to talk to guys of all races? White guys, and also black guys and Asian guys? Most woc are rejected by all guys, including those in their own race
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:38 PM
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Uhhh, no. Did you read the post? While I am looking for an educated man who at least has his bachelors because I myself am pursuing my masters and soon doctorate, I have tried to date many men who were not white, were not handsome face-wise, were not fit in any way shape or form, and were not tall. I could literally dm you a picture of some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:14 PM
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You're not worthless. It's just that the guys on this sub don't want to hear that it isn't easy for all women. They want to blame all of us for their failures in dating. They can't open their eyes and see it's hard on both sides. Men have more privileges in everything except for dating (because that's the only time when it's a two way street between both women and men, not just men) and they're mad that they can't rule that arena as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:10 PM
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Obviously people weren't serious about it then. Its guys fault that they swipe right on everything. But then they don't do anything after because they're waiting for a hot woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:03 PM
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Yes, a subset of woc! Not all of us. Just lighter woc that have more eurocentric features. Just like a subset of men will of course do better than other men. It's just the way life is. So please stop saying "all women"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:55 AM
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I didnt see your other point, but yes. That's what I'm saying, most guys want white and Asian women, so they will be the most picky when it comes to dating. But tons of black women will fawn over you if you're an average black guy And no, because of racism, black women are seen as manly, so we have it harder than BM where manliness is seen as a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:53 AM
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I did. I found a pic of a guy that looked lowkey like shrek, and he got tons of likes (on bumble). It was at the height of the pandemic though, so everyone was dating online at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:51 AM
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All the "attractive " BW you know. What about the regular and below average? That's like saying how the top 15% of men get their inboxes full. You're just disproving yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:50 AM
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Not nowadays? Maybe in the 1800s when women didnt have money. But now, pretty much all women I see go 50/50. I get rejected at high rates too. It's worse because people say, all girls just have to do is take the initiative and the guy will instantly like her because that rarely happens, but that is false
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:48 AM
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Well, isn't this exactly what guys do too? If you look at the top posts of the month for this sub, they all say the exact same thing! That women see them as invisible because they're not the top 15% of men and treat them bad? How is it any different than what I said? I get matches on a per year basis too. After I got the initial surges of likes in the beginning when I first joined the app due to bots and some guys swiping right on everyone, I got nothing. And even if I do get likes? What's the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:46 AM
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5'2 ish and around 100-103lbs. I don't think this matters much tbh because I see men and ( richer white/Asian) women that are quite big getting tons of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:42 AM
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Well there's your chance! Go for those girls who swipe right on you and see where it goes! Isn't that what most guys want anyways? White girls and ABG type girls? I'd just try to see where it goes honestly, you might be surprised. I don't get any matches/likes. When I do, it's with the guys who just swipe right on everyone, so when I send them a message, they just ignore it and don't answer since they don't want someone like me. Or I just match with bots. So I don't use OLD anymore, it gives me …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:56 AM
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Same honestly. When I was in HS, the black guys were the unapproachable type too. There weren't very many of them, but if I ever even glanced in their general direction, they'd give me a glare so strong, if looks could kill, I'd be 6 ft under. The black girls all simped over them, but they only wanted the white/Asian/Latina girls. When I got to college, all the black guys would use any excuse to publicly shame and put black women down, and it was very embarrassing when I was the only or one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:24 AM
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Idk I'm going to see if maybe I can make a post on this since as a black woman, my experience with dating is very different than other women's and I want to set myself up for success moving forward and figure out what I'm doing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:49 AM
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I don't care about height but I do care about weight. A lot of guys just seem to let themselves go and don't take care of themselves imo. I don't want to be with someone who never works out and looks like an overweight hobo which a lot of guys seem to think is an attractive look
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:10 AM
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Yeah, but I feel like so many Asian guys don't even try. Being a black girl, I have to put myself out there, so I've been trying to engage with Asian guys online and in real life, and none of them bother trying. Online, I'm met with one word responses and ghosting from them, and irl I'm just seen as a last resort so they treat me badly. One wouldn't even let me be seen with him in public, would stand me up to every date, would ignore me the few times I got him to spend time with me (which lasted…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:57 AM
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This is why I'm kind of jealous as a black woman. No wonder all the Asian guys I've run into and have tried to date have been rude to me and thought they were better than me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:50 AM
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Not all women. Perhaps Asian or white women. But darker skinned women do not unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:51 PM
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This makes me so sad. I wish there was a way to scoop all the women and children up from the world and bring them somewhere they will be safer and cherished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:33 PM
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Yeah, but guys past 25 not only are uglier but less likely to put in effort. They have too much baggage and you're basically just dealing with the leftovers at that point. They're entitled, misogynistic jerks and think they're God's gift to women. I've have to learn quite quickly how to deal with NVM because I'm a WOC who men think they can get away with treating worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:21 AM
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Yaaas, this is what I realized when I got my first bf. I was 22, so older than most people when they start dating, and I was a little hesitant about breaking up with him because I was afraid I'd never find someone else. But I just couldn't deal with him. We only dated 4 months, but I really should have left his ass on day 1 when he revealed his disgusting self. He wouldn't allow me talk to him in public, he would talk down to me, ignore me, gaslight me and more I don't want to get into. I would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:19 AM
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*slow clap * I have never heard truer words spoken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:03 AM
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Thank you! I wish more women sang more songs like this. I hate how so many women sing lovey-dovey songs whereas guys have no qualms about making songs disrespecting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:52 PM
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Which of course they try to play off as the women's fault if anything bad happens. And women are the ones who have to go through pregnancy and thus are the ones hit with the effects of preeclampsia and gestational diabetes. And it won't even be their faults. Plus, if a woman can't bounce back to "normal" right after pregnancy (whatever "normal" is since everyone is different but men can't acknowledge that), then the LVM will just leave her for someone else or put her down when she's at one of he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:25 PM
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Ugh, it seems like a lot of car sales men in general are complete jerks and sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:09 AM
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This hits on so many different levels....until I throw the LVM into the fire and run off into the sunset holding hands with myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:07 AM
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It's so crazy how men will do such horrible things to women, yet it's all swept under the rug to protect their careers. Halle has to live the rest of her life now with a disability and with these painful memories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:57 AM
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Thanks! I actually did find this AMAZING perfect guy, he was potentially a HVM, but he broke up with me because I was too distant. But I didn't get to tell him that I was going through a lot since my mom was sick due to cancer, coronavirus made my job get hectic, my roof in my apartment was leaking terribly, and a plethora of other things. But hopefully one day I'll be able to tell him how much he means to me 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:21 AM
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