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yeah of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 06:20 AM
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Dude you asked the same question I had! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 06:42 AM
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Do you mind pointing me in the direction of the psychology/sociology research you did?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:39 AM
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How did you get to this point, if you don't mind me asking? I find it difficult to read people/situations effectively enough to get what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:59 AM
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YOU CRAZY GIRL!! XD And I mean that in the most complimentary way possible. I don't think I'm nearly as attractive for this to work, but who knows? Seduction and attraction is all about psychology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:58 AM
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I sometimes wish there were no sexes. Like we were all a unisex species. It sucks that I am biologically attracted to humans that I don't understand and am so different from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:48 AM
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YES. someone should compile the best posts from FDS and make it into an ebook or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:49 AM
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Would you pursue these coworkers or would they pursue you? My last potential sexual partner was a coworker but he seemed a bit predatory, so I passed. I asked for a date, and instead ended up in a hookup type situation. Just not sure how to navigate going from coworkers/friends to having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:54 AM
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I agree. Why do you think you are better at getting sex from people you trust, just out of curiosity? I really struggle with finding potential sexual partners other than online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:39 AM
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Have we all dated the same guy? Why does this type of person abuse adderall?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:34 AM
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there's no "dating the halal way" in Islam. Get educated about your own religion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 10:10 AM
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Could RSD be why I've always struggled to talk to guys I liked? I always thought I had some severe rejection phobia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 01:34 AM
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Thanks for your thoughtful response. Just FYI, I do all of these things. I go out, take fun classes, get my hair done, eat yummy meals etc. I've been working out consistently but still cried after my last workout since I felt so shitty. I've just accepted there's just something about my brain that doesn't allow me to feel happiness like others do. Haven't tried affirmations though - I'll give it a shot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 01:19 AM
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Yeah I've been reading more about ADHD and it's shocking how much I identify with the symptoms and experiences of women diagnosed with ADHD. My social skills are absolutely affected. I feel like I can't even hold a conversation like a normal person. Though the stimulant was life-changing (made me way more social at parties and I spoke up more in class), I'm currently off it due to side effects, but I'll work out a different one with my doctor this week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 12:24 AM
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Thanks for the honest reply, but trust me, if I wait to feel better (like what I have been doing for the past 10 years or so), I'm going to end up a 40 y/o virgin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:28 PM
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>good looking men often do have a better personality than ugly and average men. It's kind of a sad fact of life. It probably is because other interesting people were drawn to them and they started having more interesting experiences and then they turn out to have a better lifestyle and personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 05:56 AM
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And the funny thing is, is that a lot of attractive men actually do want monogamous, loving relationships with the right partner. This idea that attractive men want to sow their wild oats, and the less attractive ones would actually want to settle down is such BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 05:53 AM
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Is he trying to look like salt bae?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:18 PM
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Cool, sounds good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 06:56 PM
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Great thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 06:56 PM
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I should have clarified - he's in the class below me, so it's unlikely we'll see each other in person except for maybe at the next school-wide party. Because they have different schedules
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:11 AM
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I don't have a nurturing bone in my body, for real. It sucks because I feel like a lot of guys out there are looking for a girl to mother them. Even my mom was like "yeah you probably shouldn't have kids." I probably won't have kids unless I meet the right person who I KNOW will contribute his share to childrearing. There ain't no way in hell I'm doing it all by myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:57 AM
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ok seriously where is all this confidence coming from? Goddamit I wish I was born a guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 12:03 AM
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I'm 25 and very inexperienced. Had my first kiss this summer with a guy I met IRL who didn't care about me. Refused to do anything else with him though. I feel like my inexperience is actually a good way to weed out guys who just want sex. I feel like age gives you an advantage too - you know men better than I do, for example. You'll find your guy. Don't settle for the older ones if that's not what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:30 PM
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I've been relatively successful online - but it's entirely by accident. I really hate online dating, so I have no patience with the guys. I basically don't really get into a conversation unless it feels normal, relaxed, and comfortable. The onus is on the guy to entertain me since I'm bored out of my mind. It's such a simple weed-out process. When I meet them in person, they're way more invested in me than I am in them (another accidental FDS situation). One guy said he'd wait 50 dates to kiss m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:10 PM
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I think online dating in general is the way to go for women these days, since we have the upper hand there and guys have to pursue us because there are just so many of them. This guy that I was talking about above actually messaged my friend on Hinge like a week after our first date (not knowing she was my friend). Of course, he was making so much more effort in his messages because online, guys have to - otherwise they get nothing. I'm curious though - how's your relationship now with him? I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:06 PM
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I know the focus is on the guy's response, but I can't help but comment on what /u/reddituser39682 said. What I like about this sub is that you guys don't advocate chasing a man or making the first move. I wish I knew that before I asked out a guy I liked. Same thing the user talked about was going to happen to me. I gave him all the power and he wielded it on our first date by setting his own standards for our arrangement - he would be non-monogamous and emotionally unavailable and his attitude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:13 AM
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Wait, but are there guys who don't watch it.. like at all? I admit I watch porn occasionally, but only when erotica can't get me off. I've never had much luck with guys, so masturbation is my only option for sexual release. I feel like the guys who don't watch porn may be on the more religious/conservative side, which also comes with its own host of problems (since I'm staunchly anti-religion).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:53 AM
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Right? I feel like I could easily do one or more of these things without realizing it could have serious long-term consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:22 AM
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y'all are so supportive, hah! We don't choose specialty until residency (which is a whole 'nother application process). I do hope to be one of those compassionate and understanding doctors! I've been scoring high on empathy during our proctored patient encounters, so I hope I don't lose that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 11:44 PM
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Wow there are a lot of ways to screw up your kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 07:07 AM
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> but every attempt at befriending them never works out. Girls look me up and down at parties and laugh at me and I’m too scared to ask why. What am I doing wrong? Honestly, I find this really surprising. Most girls are very naturally comfortable around their own gender and much more welcoming than guys, I've found. When I'm nervous at a party, I'll just start talking to a random girl I don't know because it takes the edge off a bit. Talk about what you like to do! Girls are much better conversa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 07:02 AM
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What a vile person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:54 AM
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It sucks. Don’t know your guy personally, but I do know that I don’t have time for anything serious, although I would like really love a relationship. I tried to do a FWB and told him I couldn’t check in on him and it ended up fizzling out. The glamorous life of a single med student :/ Edit: find that guys always expect the girl to reach out and be more nurturing, which is impossible for me rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 01:26 AM
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I'm an FDS newbie, but also a medical student, so I know first-hand how insane medical school is. If you haven't been through it, it's hard to believe how busy med students are and furthermore how it affects our emotional and mental health. In second year for example, we are often scheduled 3-4 hours a day for mandatory classes and on top of that have to study 8-12 hours a day. That's like, sitting in a chair 12 hours a day studying, only getting up to use the bathroom, work out or cook quickly/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:55 PM
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