JaneIre Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
99	After years of fuckery, I’m free.	FDS SUCCESS!	JaneIre	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 01:05 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	FDS is changing how I view the beginning of my relationship with my husband You can’t push someone into therapy for an issue that only you are really struggling with. It’s one thing for you to do couples counseling to come to terms with the beginnings of your relationship and to move forward together with more consideration, but it’s entirely different to send him to an individual therapist for, what exactly? By all means, if he feels he has individual work to do, great - but therapy only works if you want to be there and have specific intentions. It’s not a catch-all s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 04:33 AM
3	I’ve always wondered why my dad tells me to lock my balcony door even though my apartment is not on the first floor. Surely no man is depraved enough to climb up to a second or third story to attack a woman, right? WRONG! Yeah, I had the choice between a second floor apt with a balcony or one on the same floor with a walk-in pantry. I chose the pantry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/20 04:44 AM
8	For all the women out there thinking about giving up their career opportunities for a man Yup, they didn’t even make it through August!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 07:48 PM
30	For all the women out there thinking about giving up their career opportunities for a man Reminds me of Lauren not going to Paris for Teen Vogue on The Hills so that she could spend the summer playing house with Jason 🤦🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 06:06 PM
39	Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality... IMO, you have sex when you want and how you want. It’s fun, low stress, on your schedule and on your terms. There is no hope of a relationship on either end and you’re both simply looking for a little sexual satisfaction/intimacy without strings. No overdrawn text conversations or deep friendship. Just lust and respect. I think it’s pretty hard to do but I’ve had a fwb like that. I cut it off when he started cumming too quickly and I stopped having fun. Sounds heartless but... 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/08/20 10:37 PM
49	Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter? It’s interesting because the most HVM I’ve been with was also the shortest (5’2) but he was busy taking care of ALL of his business financially and otherwise and didn’t have time to be hampered with nonsense like height insecurities. I swear all of these forever alone incels just have too much damn time on their hands so they spend it obsessing over their physical flaws, mindlessly watching anime, video games or porn and trying their damnedest to bring us down to their level of worthlessness and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 01:30 AM
12	Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter? Thank you for this. Made my day to read!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 01:20 AM
14	I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort. You’re correct. Some people treat this sub like a cult. Suggestions and advice are welcome, but no one should be barking orders or demanding explanations. We’re all learning and growing in our own right. Obviously you recognized this guy for who he is and ended the conversation. Well done!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 08:28 PM
97	Forever relevant The music group TLC had a song in the 90s called “No Scrubs”. Basically singing that they weren’t going to give the time of day to the LV men without jobs, cars, etc. trying to pursue them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 11:05 PM
13	Lust can lead to bad decisions Absolutely. I miss the intimacy and touch more than the actual sex act but I’d rather read some romance and pull out the vibe than give someone else pleasure as a reward for hurting me. I’m saving up all my lust for someone worthy. And don’t feel bad about slow fade, we all have to do things in our own way. You can always mute or hide him for awhile and see how that feels. I’m finding that my empowerment comes from making decisions that feel right for ME and not just listening to friends, etc. I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 03:44 AM
7	Movies and TV that aren't filled with Pickmes or Toxic Hollywood Romances Yeah molly was in a relationship with a married man that was in an open relationship. Her dating history has been pretty sad until Andrew who left because she is so damn annoying. Issa is a cheater, she also got angry when the guy she cheated with came in her face, but ended up back in his bed soon after. Only healthy woman who knows her worth is Tiffany and she is treated as the high maintenance one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 03:35 AM
44	Lust can lead to bad decisions Yes. Yes. Yes. I spent so much time on a man that I finally dumped today and was utterly dickmatized. So much so that I accepted every little scrap of his time. He asked me to come over tonight at 5pm. An hour drive when I have work tomorrow and hadn’t heard from him all weekend. I almost did it too. But I changed my mind and ended things instead. In the last few hours, I’ve been thinking of the great sex I’m missing. The intimacy. But I can build that with someone else, along with a lasting mut…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 03:22 AM
11	After years of fuckery, I’m free. Thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 03:16 AM
4	Feeling lonely today Same here! I initiated the breakup today. My BFF is very unsympathetic because she doesn’t form attachments the same way I do. I wish I could be so detached and eventually I’ll feel better but right now I’m drowning in uncertainty and fear. But on the other side of it, there’s pride. We’ll all make it through!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 03:14 AM