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JapaneseStudentHaru/r/MGTOW12/09/16 01:59 PM
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Then they probably have a pretty poor understanding of objectification. Context matters. If we’re at a bar and you come up and call me pretty, I might not reciprocate, but using pickup lines is appropriate in that area. At a grocery store? Creepy. At a business meeting? Objectification. When flirting is appropriate, the only time I’d consider it objectification is if you refuse to talk about anything other than sex or attraction. I’ve had guys straight to ignore me when I ask them about themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:52 PM
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People in this thread are confusing flirting with objectification. Flirting is selectively acceptable, objectification is not acceptable. Even if I’m planning to fuck someone, I want to still feel like a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:40 PM
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Anyone who commits to someone with a backup plan isn’t truly committed. There are people out there who just don’t have monogamous minds. People who seek monogamous relationships because it’s the norm but not truly what they want. The idea of having a backup to my husband feels wholly wrong to me because I’m monogamous. Just because some people are not, doesn’t mean monogamy doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:16 PM
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If you’re certain, why are you looking for debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:08 PM
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I’ve never had a backup plan guy nor have I thought about it. You have to understand the difference between dating around, which is not a committed relationship, and being exclusive. Both sexes go into the dating pool in order to find someone they want to commit to, but just because you went to dinner with someone does not mean they want to be exclusive with you. As for me, I’ve never been comfortable with that scene because of how many close calls with random men I’ve had. I never felt safe dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:03 PM
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I like to look nice, but I don’t like it when people use my clothes as an excuse to make me uncomfortable. I don’t like it when any guy objectifies my right out of the gate. If we get to the point where we wanna have sex or get physical, that’s cool. But I don’t want the first thing you say to me to be a wolf whistle or sexual comment. That’s just creepy. You should treat us like people first and foremost. That’s the problem with objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:59 PM
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See? You can’t
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 01:59 AM
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When? Getting IVF doesn’t make you entitled
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 01:51 AM
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I asked how she’s being entitled, you couldn’t answer
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 01:47 AM
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I like how you’ve decided to act like a troll now that you can’t defend yourself when you were clearly invested in your point of view.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 01:31 AM
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Aight lol, obviously you can’t defend your stance without sounding sexist like your previous comments.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 01:23 AM
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When does it say she thought she was entitled?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 12:17 AM
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So you’re just against IVF in general? I don’t see a problem with her trying it since it’s her choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 11:56 PM
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I just legitimately don’t see the issue. Why can’t she try, even if it fails? It’s her body. I just don’t understand how trying makes her a bad person My mom had my naturally at 35 so it’s definitely not impossible. Also, many young couples struggle to conceive and use IVF.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 11:40 PM
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You answered nothing but okay I’m gonna assume you just realized you were being ridiculously judgy for no reason
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 11:32 PM
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So she’s evil because she failed to get pregnant?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 11:22 PM
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You realize sperm isn’t free right? She paid to have this done and the man was paid to provide the sperm. She’s not forcing a man to help her conceive. This is a process where people are willing to participate in all sides. I don’t see your point honestly. She’s just trying to have a baby using the means that have been willingly provided to her and that she’s paid handsomely for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 11:12 PM
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Oh my God, the backbend required for this lol Why does this woman owe a man a child? She’s getting sperm from a sperm bank from a man who donated it specifically so it could be used to help a woman conceive. I do not see the problem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 11:02 PM
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How? What did she do wrong? And you’re being EXTREMELY sexist
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 10:49 PM
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What the fuck lol Man you need to talk to someone about your inner demons. It’s not normal to hate a whole gender.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 10:39 PM
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But no where am I seeing anything that says the parenting will be bad? Most people I know were raised in divorced families, but their parent cared about them and took care of them. You guys are sounding real bitter over a woman’s decision to have a stable career before having children just because she chose to have them alone and without one of you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 09:14 PM
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Why do you think they’d be raised poorly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 06:08 PM
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It’s upsetting to find out you can’t have kids. I don’t know what reaction you’d expect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 06:05 PM
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If caring for children makes it impossible to move up them how do men who have children do it 🤨
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/20 06:01 PM
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I don’t really see ones you need someone else for. People have jobs and can therefore buy houses to fulfill the need for shelter and food. Self actualization means different things for different people. Could be having a successful career which can be done without a romantic partner. Esteem can be built from friendships. The need for friendship can be a friend of either gender and not necessarily the opposite one. Homosexuality exists as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/19 10:27 PM
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What society do you live in? I might not have made it obvious but I'm a woman too. Society tells me no such thing. Society tells me that as a human who wasn't born into a privileged lifestyle, I have to work for everything I have. I work full time and go to school and so does my husband. There are plenty of people who are irresponsible, but society doesn't tell women they should be irresponsible, bad parents don't teach they children to take responsibility. It's not gendered, and in my experienc…
/r/PussyPassDenied12/07/17 12:20 PM
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You guys have serious issues with women.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/07/17 02:46 AM
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Am I on r/incels2.0?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/07/17 12:58 AM
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We go to the same fucking schools lol You guys need to get out. Like shave your neckbeard, take a shower, put on something nice, and talk to a real woman instead of your Waifu pillow
/r/PussyPassDenied12/07/17 12:57 AM
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He's really not. You guys are way too sheltered. Go outside and talks to an actual woman for once
/r/PussyPassDenied12/07/17 12:45 AM
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Are you for real lol
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/17 07:41 PM
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women are devastated when they actually have to take responsibility for what they do Have you ever met an actual woman before?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/17 07:08 PM
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They don't need your help. They want to help. And you don't understand what I was saying obviously
/r/MensRights22/06/17 02:16 AM
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You're getting my point mixed up. I'm saying many women are feminists and posts and mentalities like this are excluding them from the movement for no good reason. You need all the support you can get but you're already writing off a lot of women.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 01:43 AM
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But I'm not. My point is getting muddled with all this crap. My original point was that women didn't do it on their own. The had men help them, they didn't push them away. Posts like these are telling thousand of women to not even bother trying to help and that they're not welcomed simply because they're feminist. That's what I've been trying to say. That's what I have been saying. I was replying to a guy saying feminist bashing was the only way to get attention when you showed up. My other repl…
/r/MensRights22/06/17 01:11 AM
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I literally said in previous replies that men and women made the vote and that the men in this sub shouldn't push women away just because they're feminist because they could really help, but I got a bunch of replies denying that feminists would want to help and a bunch of unrelated crap. I'm getting pretty sick of replying to all this nonsense I shouldn't have even replied to those people in the first place because it's obviously taking away from my message. People won't listen to what I'm sayin…
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:59 AM
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I think you haven't seen the sheer amount of replies I'm getting. I don't know who I'm talking to it's all just people bashing feminism for no reason. I'm over here thinking I'm being a perfectly rational person and all people are doing is lumping me in with their idea of tumblr extremist crap. I came here to say that I believe in men's rights, and I'm a feminist. OP didn't provide any evidence that these laws in France are because of feminists, but is essentially bordering off this sub to anyon…
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:54 AM
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This post. This thread had gotten so long and full of so many people. This post is what I'm talking about! Not anything else!
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:45 AM
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I'm talking about the us because that's where I'm from. That's where my rights come from and that's where I vote. I also don't know where you're going with this. I said women fought for their rights over centuries and they won. All you're doing is arguing about British suffragettes. I'm saying men can make the same strides and they don't have to throw people under the bus. So are you fighting for permission to throw people under the bus or something?
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:43 AM
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But why does it make you any better when you do the same. You're saying this is wrong but you do the same. Also, I'm an American so I was only taught/talking about the American suffrage movement.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:39 AM
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That's not what most feminists believe though. If I hadn't done my own research I would've just assumed MRM was a bunch of bitter woman haters. I know people like that exist but I don't attribute it to everyone. So I expect you to do your own research and realize that most feminists are rational caring people who aren't like that. And what policy do you mean?
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:21 AM
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What's wrong with what I said? What I said here is all shit I learned in high school. The people who were originally allowed to vote in America were white male property owners. When blacks gained the right to vote, the property owning clause still existed. The same with women. So if that's wrong tell me why. Also, what I originally said was that women fought for the right to vote on the basis that it was a human right, not by fighting men. Which really had nothing to do with the men and women wh…
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:15 AM
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Again, what's wrong with fighting for your own rights? That's what you're doing right now.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:08 AM
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How have they reduced your rights. Name one right you no longer have because of feminism. Also, you're doing the same thing. Bashing them to get your point across. So why are you doing the same thing and simultaneously thinking you're better because the other person does it?
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:07 AM
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How am I stepping on you
/r/MensRights22/06/17 12:00 AM
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Feminism does have a lot of influence and we've worked for it over centuries. You guys aren't gonna get what you want over night. Women aren't fighting against you. Societal change takes time. You have to change how people think. You have to get laws through. Even perfectly reasonable laws never make it through. You have to keep trying. You're pretty naive to expect that things change so quickly when you're not using the influence you already have correctly. You should be focused on helping men …
/r/MensRights21/06/17 11:06 PM
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But I never said men didn't have issues? In fact I've been saying the opposite in this whole thread. My point is that it takes more than a few decades as the original commenter wrote. Saying you tried being nice for a few decades is nothing. When you let your movement start attacking other groups and movements, you lose credibility and your movement goes under.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 10:36 PM
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Wasn't bashing MRAs. I was saying posts like this are bashing feminists and I makes me feel unwanted in the movement. I was relating experiences with the people of this sub having a warped view of feminism. I never said anything bad about MRAs other than this sub just bashes feminism too much. Also how is that second post really a men's rights issue? It's just some guy saying feeling safe isn't a right? Also I don't really understand why the first one got that person banned. Stealthing is someth…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 10:29 PM
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And I have to make the post relevant to the sub to keep it from getting removed. If I made a post on this sub about women's rights it would be removed because it has nothing to do with this sub. I put men's rights issues in the perspective of feminist issues because it fits the sub. My goal wasn't to be banned or be disrespectful it was to see if people agreed with me. My post didn't get a lot of attention either. What is a controversial issue in your opinion? Controversial means many people don…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 10:10 PM
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If you read my post I did talk about men's rights. How men shouldn't be circumcised for cosmetic reasons and how judges shouldn't be biased against men during custody hearings
/r/MensRights21/06/17 10:00 PM
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What do you mean? You said for me to say I support men's rights in a post on feminism and I would get trashed and I didn't. I was complaining about you guys saying I wasn't a real feminist because I supported men's rights. My post was about me believing the two weren't mutually exclusive. What would you have written?
/r/MensRights21/06/17 09:55 PM
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And if you think fighting for your own rights undermines the rights of others why are you here fighting for men's rights?
/r/MensRights21/06/17 09:52 PM
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Men couldn't vote based on class. Women couldn't vote period. When they gained the right to vote the classist laws stayed. The majority of women couldn't own property unless they were widows. Classism and keeping women from owning property was another battle altogether.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 09:50 PM
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So I did post in r/feminism a few hours ago. My post didn't get a lot of attention. Only two people commented on it. Basically said that feminism is focused on women but certain men's rights issues are issues for women too. Specifically parental ones. Fathers should get parental leave/equal custody because it promotes the 50/50 parent model instead of the woman being the caregiver. Nobody disagreed with my views.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 09:25 PM
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Of course it does. men's rights does too. Men's rights takes stands against more than just legal issues like the fact that male rape victims aren't beloved or that judges take women's side in custody battles. Those are social not legal issues.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 07:32 PM
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Im gonna be honest. I don't how how to do that quote formatting so I'm just gonna have to do this: "Feminists posting about the wage gap is" This post is literally blaming feminism for something it has nothing to do with. It's the same shit. And I will Edit: I have made a post but so far it only has 2 views and I have viewed it twice so this might take a while lol
/r/MensRights21/06/17 06:02 PM
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I didn't even know who Paul Elam is. You're oversimplifying millions of people. The majority of feminists aren't radfem and believe in men's rights. You guys have put a bad taste in their mouth by posting antifeminist stuff. It's the same when radfem complains about the MRM and it puts a bad taste in your mouth. People care about these issues but because of shit like this, when people say "hey do you agree with the MRM?" People respond "you mean those bitter guys who do nothing but complain abou…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 05:42 PM
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Doesn't that say something? People come for the feminist bashing and leave the issues at the door. Feminist and MRA don't have to be mutually exclusive. I think people like you get a lot of their opinion of feminism from r/kotakuinaction and similar subs. I never see any people in my group saying men's rights don't matter. I think the reason feminists don't like the MRM in general are posts like this blaming feminism for something feminism have nothing to do with. Just a knee jerk blaming of us.…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 05:23 PM
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Show people this picture with the bottom cut off and I guarantee people will see a problem and they'll have to reservations about agreeing with you. The problem with these movements is to get people to fight. That's way harder than getting people to agree. Reddit is a huge platform that news sites rip stories off of all the time. You could really make a difference here. If this sub became less whiny and more issue-driven, people would see this and go "that's not right" instead of "oh no not anot…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 05:08 PM
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I think that's where you're wrong. Like I said in my other comments, hostile posts like these are why people have a bad opinion of feminism. I'm telling you this is the same reason people don't like MRAs. The see the same whiny vendetta. I'm a feminist and I think we should be truly equal, but posts like this make me and other feminists fell like our help isn't welcomed. When people look at just the issues the answer is simple. Should women be blamed for being raped? Should men be circumcised fo…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 05:05 PM
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I don't think my goals are any different from the goals of the majority of MRAs. I think that, like feminism, people like this hurt the movement. I want men and women to be truly equal. But when stuff like this gets posted, I feel like MRAs don't want my help or any other feminist's help. I don't think circumcision should be performed just for cosmetic purposes. That should be your personal choice when you get older. Many of the issues our genders face in modern society aren't legal, but social.…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:58 PM
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Established by who? What do you think feminism is?
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:41 PM
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Paternity issues have always been here. Feminism hasn't changed them. Men have always been expected to take care of a child. You're pointing your guns in the wrong direction. Just like women's issues have always been here. We fought to change the laws and the way society thought of us. So you do it. Feminism was not just women. We had men help us. What are women supposed to do for you if you keep shitting on the women's rights movement while promoting the men's? Us vs them doesn't work. When eve…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:23 PM
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I'm saying the people here are stepping on the women's rights movement while fighting for men's rights as if the two can't coexist
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:13 PM
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Don't remember the women who fought and won the right to vote as saying "fuck men's rights" to get attention. They said "these are human rights" and people agreed. I agree that men should have the right to know if their child of theirs or not. If this was a simple message of outrage, more people would join your movement, but it isn't. The message is hostile towards a whole group of people who could help you. It turns people off of your message.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:11 PM
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And it takes more than decades. Do you know how long women fought before people started listening to them? They didn't get the right to vote by saying men were evil. They got there after centuries of convincing other women they deserved to have the same rights. You need to be patient and work on real shit instead of just shitting on people on Reddit. Get real people making real laws. Take real action. We took action and it worked but it doesn't happen in decades.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:05 PM
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What does shitting on feminists do for you besides make people think you're just as bad as radfem?
/r/MensRights21/06/17 04:01 PM
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What? Lol you can fight for your rights without fighting to take the rights of someone else or shit on other people
/r/MensRights21/06/17 03:55 PM
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I'm not against men's rights. I think we should be equal. That's what feminism is. But this sub is toxic. False information and propaganda all the time. I don't understand why they have to be so "us vs them"
/r/MensRights21/06/17 03:01 PM
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They were and this tweet was a while ago too
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/17 01:42 PM
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It definitely is. It's a copy pasta joke that's been around for years
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/17 12:45 PM
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R/incels2 strikes again
/r/PussyPassDenied06/04/17 02:43 PM
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?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/17 11:27 PM
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I liked it on the other subs but it's plain to see that this place has just become an incel circlejerk where anytime a girls gets roasted online they jizz in their pants lol
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/17 11:26 PM
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What? Edit: at first I was confused as to why you said that but I realize you're referring to me using the term "incel". I don't give a damn about male virgins. People who identify as "incels" are bitter disgusting human beings. Just check out their many subreddits. Oh wait, most of them have been quarantined because they ADVOCATE SEXUAL ASSAULT AND PEDOPHILLIA!
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/17 12:13 AM
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This sub has completely gone to the shitter. Is literally anything to do with women seriously material for this place? Of course it is, it's been taken over by bitter incels.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/17 06:48 PM
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This seems like it's very clearly a joke
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 11:32 PM
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Breaking news: hookups are much better with attractive people
/r/MensRights03/03/17 04:07 PM
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Well I wouldn't use "what would you do" as a source. I seriously suspect they fake a lot of their experiments. The acting is just so bad.
/r/MensRights25/02/17 01:37 AM
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Yeah sentimental stuff often gets shared on that site but that website name...
/r/MensRights24/02/17 09:45 PM
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I don't think it's stable women sharing these memes. A lot of ghetto people on Facebook and women with mental issues. The only people I've seen agreeing with those "if she hits you she cares" posts are bipolar or have serious anger issues. A lot of people grow up in abusive homes and in neighborhoods where this kind of thing is seen as normal. You start to learn "hey this is how you deal with anger". The other day my husband told me about his friend and his new wife. They got in fights all the t…
/r/MensRights24/02/17 09:43 PM
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I'm hesitant to say he should respond in the same way because I'm pretty sure a body builder could do some serious damage if he punched her in the face. If at all possible I would restrain her or push her to the ground or hit her in an area that isn't likely to cause serious damage. You kick her hard enough in the legs she'll probably go down.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 09:33 PM
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You guys complaining about washing dishes. If you make a mess clean up after yourself. It's not anyone else's job.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/17 06:31 PM
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You TiA guys are always saying "reee feminism has not place in modern society! Quit getting triggered over little things!" Then they post shit like this all the time...
/r/MensRights10/01/17 07:13 PM
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I don't care that you guys choose to be single but you can do that without being total dicks. I don't hate the guys that recognize its not the collective fault of women that their single. Though just wallowing in self pity doesn't help either
/r/MGTOW12/09/16 07:10 PM
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Just the fact that sexism exists doesn't mean you should hate women for it. I don't have men because some of them are sexist. Most men are nice to me Edit: and what is sitting around calling women bitches and sluts gonna do about it? It's only gonna make things worse if anything
/r/MGTOW12/09/16 06:52 PM
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Whatever you say man
/r/MGTOW12/09/16 06:39 PM
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But that's all that gets posted on here. Just you guys complaining about women
/r/MGTOW12/09/16 06:17 PM
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Let me ask, why did you post it in the first place? Do you think you would go up to a guy with a gun and risk losing your life in the same situation? Security guards are not cops. They're hired to try and deescalate situations and call the cops. They aren't heroes, they get paid very little. She probably has just as much combats training as you, little to none. I've dated guys who worked security. They even tell you to walk away when shit gets rough and call the cops.
/r/MGTOW12/09/16 12:58 AM
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This is ridiculous. Security guards don't make near enough money to run head on into an armed assailant. It was his choice to do something, but most people would run. It was smart for her to run. I highly doubt she even received training to disarm an armed man. The only reason you posted this is because she's a woman. There are plenty of men who would do the same thing.
/r/MGTOW12/09/16 12:45 AM
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I'm on mobile so I couldn't find that lol thanks
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