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Japanese_Bush/r/seduction23/12/15 09:47 AM
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Replace those negative thoughts: "They are laughing about me" to something positive, "She is talking me up, and wants me". You already realize that it sounds stupid when you say it out loud, don't let negativity run your mind like that. Also, girls, especially hot ones, get hit on all the time. They have guys in their lives, so understand that there will be no girls who will only be talking to one guy. Are you in high school by the way? It sounds like a problem with immaturity too. Also, you get…
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:28 AM
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That's kind of awkward to be honest. If you are an alpha male, why are you not clear on your desires? Why are you trying so hard not to say hi? Plus, opening lines don't really matter...
/r/seduction23/02/16 10:56 AM
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Maybe, I guess that depends on the girl, but if college girls, who are constantly on their phones, or on social media, don't really care about how active you are on facebook, I don't see how that would affect you negatively after college. Having a good profile might help you, but not having one won't hinder you if that makes sense.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:27 AM
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It seems like you think you're being genuine but you're really not. Getting girls and speaking on their level is all about subtleties, you express your desire subtly, and just because you're not a nice guy, doesn't mean you turn into a sexual deviant. You don't say they are hot verbally, in front of everyone, though some people might, you show them, you imply it.
/r/seduction17/12/15 10:29 PM
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Well for the Facebook not mattering, I say this from experience. I've had hot friends (girls) tell me they didn't have a Facebook, and ask me if they should get one. I have had girlfriends that don't really use their Facebook themselves. I also haven't updated my Facebook since my senior year in high school (3rd year in college now). There was never a time when a girl rejected me from not having an updated Facebook account. It wouldn't really hurt to have it updated, but it is definitely not nec…
/r/seduction17/12/15 10:04 PM
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No, Facebook is literally not necessary in getting attractive women. There are probably other things that are holding you back that has a bigger effect.
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:45 PM
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It's pretty unlikely EVERY girl you interacted with found you unattractive. I don't know how, or where, you are approaching them, or if your're doing all the talking, but asking them value eliciting questions, and then listening, might help them to talk more. To be honest, there's no way to answer this question without more information but the answer is definitely not the conclusion you came to.
/r/seduction15/12/15 11:29 PM
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Well, I don't know if approaching a girl at the supermarket is the best place to meet girls your age man. I started dedicating a lot of my time to getting girls at around that age, and in retrospect, the best thing for you to do is to either try to meet girls at the mall, or meet a girl in one of your classes and slowly develop a relationship. Around sophomore or junior year is where a lot of girls start experimenting with sexual stuff, so just learn to socialize and talk to people for now. Just…
/r/seduction15/12/15 11:18 PM
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Yeah, I see what you mean, but all the hugging and touching the face is a facade, and the real show of affection happens with a kiss, and unless you kiss her when you can, and not when you think it's right, the girl will lose interest in you. If the thought of kissing her pops up in your mind, you could of kissed her 10 minutes ago. It seems like you have this idealistic idea of a kiss, the "perfect kiss" where everything aligns and both of you share your love for each other. This doesn't really…
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:41 PM
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Yeah, you should probably make a move soon. You could triangular gaze, and if she does the same for you, take the risk, and just go for it. Or, you could somehow, in a normal way, hold her hand and caress her hand (rubbing her hand with your thumb) while you're talking about something else. Basically, you want to create sexual tension, because kissing is the realization of the sexual tension, and when done right, you should feel like your in a bubble and your surroundings feel a little distorted…
/r/seduction13/12/15 08:21 PM
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The most simple step you could probably take is to talk about her. By listening to her talk, and being engaging, it puts the pressure off of you because she's doing all the talking. You have to be interested, or at least seem like you are interested in what she is saying to you. Basically, you ask a good question, usually an open ended question and about her values. During this, you would listen engagingly and say a statement that pertains to her answer. The statement could be something you've r…
/r/seduction13/12/15 08:05 PM
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Well, I wouldn't say this can't be fixed, but yeah, usually when you miss what I call the "critical point", when you are both alone and have the opportunity to escalate with each other, and it doesn't happen, the girls usually move on emotionally. I would say only time or other girls could fix this, as she lost emotional interest in you.
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:49 PM
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She was probably interested in you initially, but you "missed" a lot of the signs she was giving you, and now she acts cold. If I have to guess, maybe you had an opportunity to kiss her but you didn't? It seems like you had trouble showing sexual interest with her...
/r/seduction13/12/15 12:05 PM
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