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Male physiology and female physiology have widely associated psychological characteristics that may or may not manifest in an individual to varying degrees. This is an empty sentence. Something may or may not be somewhere in some degree. Uh... agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 08:51 PM
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How many times have you seen your buddies with women that you can spot as bad news from a mile away? Too true, just had this exact situation play out with a buddy of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 04:44 PM
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I work in a business field that is built upon the foundation that entire classes of people are both quantifiable and predictable. When I started I had this conceit that I was a unique snowflake. A professional decade of harsh statistical reality has disabused me of that notion. Everyone loves to think of themselves as outliers but the truth of the matter is that very, very few are. TRPs AWALT fits well into that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 01:19 PM
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Bicycling will get you out of the house and introduce you to some cool people. If you're looking for some unique ways to stand out, spend 15-20 minutes a day improving your handwriting. It's a skill like any other and responds to practice like any other. Costs nothing, start with some penmanship/handwriting subreddits and go from there.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 04:18 PM
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Things to expect: Lots of sex, probably pretty damn good Saggy bits, just FYI. At 21 you don't have a lot to offer her except for a dick and she's not looking for more than that. Take it from a guy in his 30s - women in their 30s (and up) know what they want sexually and the insecurities of youth have left the building.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:25 PM
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AF/BB: It's not that they're trying to screw over betas, it's that many guys feel slighted or that they're getting a raw deal. Consider this image - she's trying to say "I love my husband" but anyone with a RP background will see her saying "Remember all those years we spent screwing bad boys while ignoring the betas?" That shit hurts and if I were her husband I'd be rightfully pissed. It's emasculating but lots of women don't realize it - they can't see it from a man's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 03:28 PM
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Women dislike (and will eventually leave) a man who is ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 03:20 PM
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...and Thomas Jefferson owned slaves. It's a mistake to judge historical people on today's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 12:33 PM
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The thing about intentional dread game is that it places a big burden upon the guy to be a high quality man. If you want to dg - at all -you need to have your ducks in a row or she will. laugh. at. you. If she doesn't feel threatened then she's not into you or - worse - considers you to be such a poor prospect that you couldn't jump. For some guys this can be a cold bucket of water. Ultimately the idea of dread leads to better men because shit men cannot dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 12:05 AM
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I understand what you're saying, but you might be missing the target market of the advice here. Many of the guys reading struggle with frame and maintaining mindset. Saying "Fake it until you make it" is more valuable to them as advice than "This comes to self-actualized men automatically."
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:23 PM
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Those dudes really are invisible to the dissenters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 02:32 PM
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Money and status always help, never hurt. I'm a minority in the midwest and here's what works around here: use the positive stereotypes of your culture to your advantage. Be awesome but in addition be sure to be awesome at your particular background because you'll never be as good of a white guy as a white guy will. Bring something interesting to "Here's how I'm awesome" table and that seems to lead to good returns for me.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 02:47 AM
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This may also be why TRP appears to be so repetitive to some people. Not all explanations click right away and many men have to be told several times in several ways before understanding occurs. (re: point #7)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:48 PM
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Right. To make an analogy to a movie - it's very similar to the "Three Seashells" running joke in Demolition Man. "He doesn't know how to use the three seashells!" and everyone condescendingly chuckles at Stallone. Ha, what a dolt, it's common sense, right? All my life I heard variations of "Don't put women on a pedestal" and I'd nod head and say "ok, no pedestal, got it." but I failed to put it into practice again and again. It wasn't until I read the numerous breakdowns in TRP that it finally …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:42 PM
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6 - Red pill has some good advice, but the advice is nothing new or ground breaking. I'm always irked by this, because this is a veiled form of sneer. "Oh TRP? That old thing? Whatever, it's just common sense."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 05:54 PM
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Have you considered wearing long pants with stilts hidden underneath them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 12:36 AM
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Is there any reason to believe women were not more choosy before than they are today? Good question but I don't think we'll ever know. Have you read Main Street by Sinclair Lewis? Written in 1920 (almost satisfying your 100 year goalpost) the husband of the protagonist, a small town doctor, is sleeping with three different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 02:12 PM
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How do Red Pillers feel about research on egalitarian societies? Before agriculture, most anthropologists agree some level of sexual egalitarianism existed. Pre-agricultural sexual egalitarianism? And you accuse TRP of having 'misplaced nostalgia'? (kidding) With no access to birth control or abortions casual sex would be hard to find. Casual sex is still difficult to find for a large percentage of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:58 PM
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If subverting gender roles has been so successful for women, why does TRP cling to them so fiercely? Uh, it hasn't been successful? Women's happiness has been in decline for decades. TRP isn't clinging to them as much as they're reacting economically - determining what the market wants and giving it to them. When women start fantasizing about Bronies, TRP will go all-pony, all-the-time. It's a reflection of the idea of "Don't tell me what you value, show me what you spend your time and money on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 12:37 PM
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Don't worry, a reddit upvote poll will clear up that misogynistic misconception forever. Right? Share if you agree, like if you disagree, vote yes if you don't agree that we can stop the disagreement over not hating non-men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:16 AM
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RP. No Eh Yes Zuh? Probably. Even the critics begrudgingly admit (between the lines if nothing else) that it'll work to get you laid. Men who are struggling with that/sexually frustrated will gravitate like moths to a flame. More than anything else, I find descriptions like this enlightening as they almost always ignore the fraternal aspects of TRP. (From an American perspective) Men struggle mightily with finding and maintaining close male bonds and TRP is consistently delivering on both frater…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 02:38 PM
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A portion of RP is also learning how to connect with other men. Holding up a model of a man that - using your words here - "Men don't respect them much, rather find them borderline disgusting" seems to be counter-productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 01:05 PM
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One more - https://twitter.com/KirillWasHere/status/443185794250199040
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:49 PM
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(First comment was improperly formatted, let me try again...) KWH has been on RP before: screenshot. Essentially many of the girls are trying to hide their activities by getting him to take down the shots: https://twitter.com/KirillWasHere/status/430742877753606144/photo/1 https://twitter.com/KirillWasHere/status/430741671790538752/photo/1 https://twitter.com/KirillWasHere/status/430740647801536512/photo/1 https://twitter.com/KirillWasHere/status/430738968414789632/photo/1 post-hoc edit: This sh…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 04:05 PM
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What is often labelled as 'hateful' and 'misogynistic' is often just pent-up frustration. Perpetuating the idea that expressed anger in a safe location is misogyny just shames other men further into the closet to avoid being unfairly labeled. edit: Be slow to criticize what you don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 04:35 PM
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I think it has some good ideas but some RPillers some off as hateful and really judgemental so most people consider TRP misogynistic Society: Men should be allowed to express their emotions! Man: Okay - I'm really angry about this!!!1!oneone Society: Hateful misogyny!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 04:28 PM
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I'd like to highlight a couple of your points: Treat me like someone they look up to, all the time Are more receptive to my needs Lots of guys will gloss over these points and focus on the sexual ones, but these two are great LTR qualities to seek if you're a guy in the market for one.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:35 AM
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The best time to plant a tree is twenty years ago. The second best time is right now.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:18 PM
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In the end, it all boils down to how you allow yourself to be treated, and what you're willing to put up with. That's exactly why he's ending the marriage. He's not allowing himself to be deceived by his wife and it's more than he's willing to put up with.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:55 PM
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Ah, I get you. Sorry - the use of 'she' made me think that you were mentioning this story specifically. (Meaning she will never be looked up as a marriage) In general? Every guy has to decide for himself but many find it unpalatable and unacceptable. On a larger scale - RP contains the idea that it's ok for a man to exercise his agency and reject women like this. Society at large seems to pressure men into overlooking these sorts of things, even if that man might find it objectionable. You are t…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:50 PM
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Outside of the lies she told? If those acts are 'no big deal', why did she conceal them? If he doesn't want her, she's available now - why don't you wife her up? What a catch.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:34 PM
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It's the lies she told. What's to fix or figure out?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:29 PM
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Like others have said, what you're seeing is manifested pain. Many of us have been mistreated by women and this is a common way to express the pain. It makes some people uncomfortable and they want to bottle those guys back up rather than give them a place to mourn. Most men will eventually come to terms with it and heal.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:30 PM
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Yes. It's been said many times before, but LTRs require a different approach. If you're in a committed, recognized, public LTR with a quality woman, you should definitely let her know.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:00 PM
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You got played by a better player, sorry.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:58 PM
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https://youtu.be/T3JzcCviNDk A really good speech about death and focusing on what's important to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:53 PM
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AWALT is just a way to move our conversations forward - if it helps you try thinking "EWALT" - Enough Women Are Like That. Keeping AWALT alive prevents every single story from getting bogged down into fights over "many/most/some". What's more, AWALT is a simple crutch that fights off the temptation to classify your girl as a unicorn. If it was Many/Most WALT then we'd be overrun with even more "Guys I can't believe it happened to me" stories than we already are. It's normal to want to believe th…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:46 PM
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Go with your gut and take a shot. If you're feeling the sparks like you think you are, then you're not going to find that connection with many people through your life. How often has this happened with you? I hope you've got your personal ducks in a row? In shape, budgeted and balanced bank accounts, learned a few skills, etc? Don't let a good thing get away because you're a more interested in having pizza.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 02:30 AM
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Ha ha, your current standards are the opposite of high! Why are you creating LTRs with terrible people? I'm not joking. Don't LTR terrible women, dude. Seek quality.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:54 AM
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In general... "You're too nice" means 'I find you boring/supplicating', sorry. 'Nice guys' are doormats. "Moving too fast" means 'Not interested' or possibly literally 'moving too fast'. Did you start talking about having kids with her? Where are you meeting these women? People in bars/clubs usually aren't in the market for an LTR.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 08:55 PM
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What reason for leaving did the two/three most recent ones give?
/r/askTRP14/03/15 08:27 PM
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Helps to understand that no one is perfect and we all have an Achilles' heel or two. You're experiencing regret, learn from it before you make a mistake that can't be undone. All the best, my man. Dust yourself off and excel in life.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 08:26 PM
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Don't tell her. If that LTR is important to you, you need to stop putting yourself in compromising situations. Stop 'walking randoms home', especially after drinking.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 07:14 PM
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TRP fits well with the passionate personality type.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:04 AM
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A rule of thumb for smoking weed is "If life is going badly, do the opposite of what you're doing with weed." If life sucks and you're smoking a lot of weed, time to stop. If life sucks and you're not smoking weed, time to start.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:52 PM
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Sup. I'm going to take a stab at things and guess that you started from a place similar to where I started. Chaotic home, no father/loser father, poor. Shit sucks, we got dealt a crappy hand while others got lucky. Can't change the past, can't choose the family you're born into. Don't spend any of your limited money on a gym - save that for the time in the future where you've got a little extra. Google "YAYOG" or visit /r/bodyweightfitness (iirc). You can make a lot of progress without equipment…
/r/askTRP20/02/15 04:14 AM
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Stress feeds unhappiness. If you think you can remove men's stress by saying "At least you're not in Syria; hashtag first world problems" then you're wrong. Play the hand you're dealt.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 08:54 PM
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The general consensus is that to be desired in a relationship requires adoration. The handbook states it like this: If a woman thinks she is better than you she can't respect you, if she can't respect you she can't love you. Women love men differently to the way men love women. Woman's love is based on adoration, adoration is a concentrated amount of respect. Respect is derived from power. Be powerful if you want to be loved, or you will never be loved. You will be held in contempt for being wea…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:19 PM
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You'll often see 'gym anxiety' posts in /r/fitness and trp. These are people feeling the same thing that you do, only in a different situation. The answers for the gym anxiety are always the same: Learn by doing/don't get stuck in 'analysis paralysis'. No one is looking at you No one cares what you are doing Check Youtube during your downtimes for more information. You'll figure out it. Practice really does make perfect.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:08 PM
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Red pill/blue pill uses the Matrix as an analogy. Read the Redpill Handbook for information about the roots and it's relationship to feminism/women.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:04 PM
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Do your best to socialize in your new areas of interest. Hypothetical Joe: - Instead of hanging out with his old buddies in a basement, smoking weed and playing vidja, he's attending a full load of classes and starting recreational (insert sport) in the evening. Be regular, be mentally 'present', demonstrate improvement. (Improvement will require non-class practice/study.) How did Ray Bradbury put it? "We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by dr…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:03 PM
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When it comes to phenibut and kratom, be very wary. Extended use of both will cause physical dependency and withdrawals upon quitting.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 04:31 PM
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Slapping a score on things is such a masculine trait. We gotta know ourselves right? This is one of the things we do.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 05:11 AM
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Who's the target for this article? Moms? Who reads Boing Boing and can't google something?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:10 AM
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He charmed her, she gave out her number, and then immediately regretted it. "Too nice to say no" just means he was too attractive at the moment to turn down. Consider it a shot across the bow from the men of the world.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:42 AM
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