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Only online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:52 PM
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I feel like I've reached that point where getting a date isn't difficult, anymore. It's picking who to go on the date with, and seeing if I can be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:08 PM
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I lean far more red than blue, but will say that was Jeff did was stupid and wrong. Not only did he cheat on his wife, who was there before he created Amazon and was his "first employee", but cheated with the wife of a friend. That's fucked up. McKenzie got what she was entitled to, and I'm sure Jeff agrees. Her philanthropy with her divorce money is greatly appreciated. I was talking with a friend of mine, and I think we both came to the conclusion that the more money and power a man accumulate…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:26 AM
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Lol, I've got a few friends who are gay. Gay men complain about each other all the time. Problems with dating are universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:44 PM
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This is fantastic. It means more fathers are able to get partial custody of their children. Regardless of the relationship with the mother, children need their fathers in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:02 PM
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Heh, sounds like my last ex-girlfriend. And she wonders why I didn't want to get back together with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:03 PM
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"But I can fix him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:44 PM
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"No-one hates the left more than the left" is an old saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:45 PM
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More moderate? That's hilarious! We just had Trump, and the MAGA-wing is filled with election-deniers, conspiracy theorists, and all manner of ilk. The political right has gotten more reactionary since the 90's. Trump just accelerated their push even further to the right. cough January 6th cough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:36 PM
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I have never heard of this standard. What I have heard, however, are men who view their potential GF's relationship with their father. If it's non-existent or poor, that's a red flag, IMO. It means that there is a high chance she grew up in an environment that doesn't respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:45 PM
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And there's the problem: getting to that first date. The horror stories my friends have of wading through shit to find a match, setting up a date, then getting ghosted was rough. Or you do get the date, and they were not as advertised. Hence why I date through social circle or whoever I meet when I'm out. I can vet the person right there, and they can vet me. And not just through some words on a screen. You just can't be your best self online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:42 PM
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Yeah, you can. But I find them too impersonal. And people complain all the time about not getting matches, or getting ghosted when they were supposed to have dates to meet. The impersonal nature of it is why I never got involved with online dating. It's hard enough for a man IRL, even harder to compete with everyone online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:32 PM
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I think most people just need to get off dating apps. I always prefer to be meeting people while out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:47 AM
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In theory, it's not. In practice, a lot of alt-righters flock to the Red Pill. Especially during the Trump-era.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:52 AM
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Not really. Most guys take in the rhetoric, but don't actually put it in practice. "Enjoy the decline" doesn’t mean just bitching on the internet and calling it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:39 AM
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Look, I'm more red than blue, but this sounds like black pill stuff. When people in those UMC social circled know you, they'll talk well of you to each other. That opens the doors for career advancement and other opportunities (you wanna go on this trip we're having?). The women are a side-effect of having a solid social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:32 AM
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29 here. I'm an introvert, but even I have an expansive social circle. Ranging from my childhood friends who I still hang with on occasion, to the movers and shakers and professional relationships in my city. There's always something for me to do, because I chose to get plugged in. And it's paid off for advancing in my career. As for women, that should be a side-effect of having a good social circle, not the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:18 AM
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Yes, it did. It made me realize I wasn't crazy. That I wasn't alone in my thinking of how things worked between the genders in our times. Of course, the Red Pill Rage kicked in and I wallowed in it for a bit. Once I got to the acceptance phase, that's when my dating life started improving. We can only control what we can in our lives. Self-improvement and changing our mindset are what we can control as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:14 PM
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I'm going through The Rational Male, and this is indeed what Rollo Tomassi advises. You have to flip the script; use women's tactics on them. Being aloof, distant, but just attentive enough. If she really wants you, she'll push to spend more time with you. If not, it wasn't worth it, anyway. Onto the next "plate".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:11 AM
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"Doesn't matter, had sex." Why do you always go to the most extremes? Women who leave with guys from the bar but aren't so drunk they know what they're doing. Is she at the bar at the end because she's also looking to get laid? Do women not have some agency? Is it always the man's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:51 AM
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Eh, the Red Pill says that attraction cannot be negotiated. Men's best bet is to become the best version of ourselves, so that women will find us attractive from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:32 AM
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But don't you see the irony here? Y'all are more liberated than at any time in history. Women constantly brag about out-earning and out-educating men. Women have their own careers and their own money, now. But they still complain if you try to split the bill? Y'all want men to be shackled to traditional roles, but not yourselves. You say you want equality, but your actions speak otherwise. You want to have your cake, and eat it, too. At least admit that. This is why a lot of men - especially mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:38 PM
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Never done it, personally. Just never felt the need to. The deck is too stacked in favor of women on dating apps. I just do the old way of meeting people out in the world. It may not work out a majority of the time, but at least it doesn't de-personalize you like OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:41 PM
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A lot of traditions have been getting thrown out the window. If women want tradition from men, they should also act more traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:35 PM
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I'm not afraid of competition. But considering that women still want men to pay for a majority of things, and that many are willing to waste our time, we have times where we have to consider if the juice is worth the squeeze. That ghosting shit wears on you after a while. And ironically, these women will complain about guys ghosting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:29 PM
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I thought we believed in equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:25 PM
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You're not wrong, but I will say that those men are basically like women who give up sex too easily to multiple people. They're giving away their greatest asset (commitment) too easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:12 PM
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Men want sex. Women want a relationship/commitment. It's a dance. The woman might withhold sex until they get commitment. Or she might give it up early in the hopes of reeling the guy in with promises of more. Men have to pursue. If we can get the sex without needing the put in the effort (paying for dates, relationships, etc.), that's the "ideal scenario". But most men know that we have to put in some effort towards a relationship, or we get nothing. Ideally, it's a give and take. Man gives up …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:10 PM
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Oh yeah, absolutely. It's why you have the panic about declining white birthrates. The true reason for conservative panic is that the more educated white women become, the more likely they are to stop having a lot of kids. This also why many are attacking birth control. We're in a post-modern society, and that means less kids and less restrictions on women. That genie cannot be put back in the bottle no-matter how much conservatives want it to be so. Basically, they're picking the wrong battles …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:53 PM
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Oh, it's definitely a growing trend on the right. And it will absolutely backfire. It's already backfiring with Roe being overturned. J.D. Vance is so reactionary, he actually has a chance of losing in Ohio, which has only become more Republican over the years. While I sympathize with conservatives on some issues regarding the divorce laws, going backwards is not going to work. Very few people actually want to go backwards on the social rights they have gained. What needs to be done is to go for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:39 PM
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And that's why marriage is the end-goal for a woman's relationship pursuits. Even if the man ends the marriage, he's still on the hook to provide for her and the kids when it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:25 PM
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We chase the sex. Women tend to chase the relationship status. It's the one thing men have power over in the current market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:35 PM
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Man can say no and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:19 PM
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In the US, tax benefits. And less issues when it comes to insurance, inheritance, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:40 AM
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Lol, my dad would not say this. He came home and got yelled at all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:37 AM
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Women want to have their cake and eat it, too. On the one hand, they want the ability to fuck whoever they want, and not be judged for their choices. Fine, whatever. However, they also want to be able to complain when the guy is a bum, and abuser, etc. and feign ignorance: "I had no idea!" 9/10, the guy was always that way. People likely told them this, but they got with them anyway. How are women able to claim "female institution" for sniffing out bad guys, yet also be "tricked" by these men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:44 PM
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Yes, this is correct. If I'm introducing you to close friends, that means I'm interested in you and making it known. If I just want to smash, you likely won't meet my friends unless we just happen to run into each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:18 AM
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Usually when we refer to Single-moms, they are usually in their 20's and 30's, with young kids that are still very much dependent on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:12 PM
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I guess this also depends on where you are. If you're in a big city on the East or West Coast in the US, with a lot of public transportation available, driving a car is less of a big deal. But in the South and the Midwest, our cities are not friendly for walking/public transportation, so a car is a must-have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:59 PM
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Good article from the WaPo, honestly. It's not from some rag either, but a respected, mainstream source. What I found really interesting was the race preferences. Men were less likely to care about their potential partner's race than women. That was very unexpected. And of course, women were far more picky than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:30 PM
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The point is that they have a plethora of options. Men do not. Women choose, while men tend to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:56 PM
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Appreciate it, friend. Women would probably get more of what they want if they started putting themselves in position to meet the guys that they say they want. Y'know, meet us halfway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:58 PM
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This happened to me at my favorite wine bar two weeks ago. Plain (still pretty though) girl sat next to me and smiled. She's normally an introvert and we struck up a convo. Found out we had a lot of interests in common (so much so that I thought I was getting punked by my friends, and was looking for a camera, haha). Exchanged numbers, went on a date, still talking, texting, and we want to go another date. It's like the stars aligned, lol. So yeah, these women do exist, and introverted girls wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:48 PM
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I disagree. The problem isn't that I ignore the women I want. The problem is that it is very hard to find these women. The type of women that align with me will likely be nerdy, some kind of introverted, pretty, but doesn't have to be drop-dead gorgeous, etc. Just pleasant, nerdy, and not fat (I myself work out consistently). Typically, these women are going to be homebodies. So you won't see them at the bars, clubs, etc. If they do go out to the bars and clubs, it's because they've been dragged…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:24 PM
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Women in PPD: "Fuck your experiences, you're wrong."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:50 PM
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In before the women say, "This isn't true!" Every woman I've dated or had meaningful, prospective conversations with have dated and stayed with so-called "assholes". Every single mother I've met, has had an asshole for a baby daddy (even the women with advanced degrees). It was never a lawyer, or even just a regular dude. It's always some shady dude who is a mid-level blue collar worker at best. They always say, "I thought I could change him" or "He wasn't like that in the beginning." But of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:46 PM
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Disagree. There is a reason why women use "virgin" and now "incel" as an insult. They know that men value sex, and that when a man can't get it, he's considered lesser value by everyone, including the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:55 AM
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I appreciate the honesty. You can't negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:10 PM
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Disagree. With online dating, you're competing against everyone, including the rich chads. And considering that women only want the top guys, average to below-average men will and do have a hard time with online dating. Cold approaching is easier, because you're not just a picture women can swipe left on the screen and be done with you. You're there, and are only competing with the men in your immediate vicinity. Online dating has completely fucked up the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:53 PM
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Nope. It's not an automatic disqualifier. It means she found me attractive enough to sleep with out of the gate, which does stroke my ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:25 AM
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Disagree. I get way more interest now than when I did when I was a twig. It's one of the few things us men can do to improve our attractiveness to women. I'm not uber-ripped, but lean with toned muscles, which works well with my physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:21 AM
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If the woman is pretty and gives me choosing signals, I go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:00 PM
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It absolutely is. Unless you're in New York, San Francisco, LA, or Miami, $75K in your 30's is very good. The median salary for a man in the US from age 25-34 years old is actually $46,436. And that's pre-COVID! Step outside of the big coastal cities. Living and staying there exclusively gives women a big apex fallacy, IMO. It actually amazes me how oblivious the people from the coasts are about how their contemporaries in the interior live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:41 AM
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Physically, you sound like you're like in the top percent of what (all) women look for. Now, how is your social game? Do you go out and interact with people on a regular basis outside of work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:37 AM
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Oh I care to an extent. But I don't care if she's making more than me or less than me. I think it's a factor, but it's not the single overriding factor. It's still, "How hot is she?" Then I work from there. I think y'all just work from the most extreme cases. I chose teacher because it's a profession, but they don't make a shit-ton of money. Most men aren't saying, "I want a woman who makes $100K a year" like a lot of women do for men. I don't care how much she makes. She doesn't need to be a hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:30 PM
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Why is it that women always think "waitress or barrista"? It's always the most extreme. Could be a high school teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:41 PM
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Yup. The Red Pill is incredibly useful and powerful. I'm a better man for having learned about it. But the danger is staying in the "Red Pill Rage" phase, instead of moving on to acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:04 AM
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It's definitely a factor for us men, but it's not the factor like it is for women. That's why the saying goes "Women tend to marry up; men tend to marry down." A man will date and even marry a woman below his social status, as long as she meets his criteria - particularly in looks and how well they get along with us. Women almost always want a guy who makes more than them, even if she's making like $100,000 /year (which most people in America do not). A male loctor or lawyer may not want to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:21 PM
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This is it. You'll likely go through a lot of bad dates before getting to the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:42 PM
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Then what's your alternative? If these hobbies are typically male-only, then you know you're likely not gonna find a woman - or even trying. Many guys have to get out of their comfort zones and try something different - mixed-gendered hobbies, meet n' greets, etc. If you're an average guy, you have to go to the women. Only the top men get chased by women. The alternative is to do nothing, and just wait for a woman to fall in your lap. Good luck. Signed: An above average guy who refused to fall i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:18 PM
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Yeah, the problem is that it feels like a lot of men on reddit are shut-ins. This may seem like a cliché, but they really need to get out more. Get a hobby that gets you around other people in a non-online space.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:32 PM
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Dating is more difficult, because the standards have been raised if you're an average and above average guy. So we have to work harder than before to woo women who are on our level. Basically, not as apocalyptic as people online are making it out to be, but neither is it all sunshine and rainbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:27 PM
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I can't tell you a percentage for any of these. Do these women exist? Surprisingly, yes. Are there enough that you should stake your claim on being able to obtain one? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:43 PM
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For a man in his 20's who wants kids? None. If you're a 35+ year old regular man, though, you can't be too choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:12 PM
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This tactic never fails, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:53 PM
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Before, I was wondering why I was so unsuccessful with women, or when did get into a relationship, why couldn't I make it last? What was I doing wrong? I found the Red Pill around 2016, and went into Red Pill Rage mode for about two years. Afterwards, I started cooling off. The Red Pill us a good "awakener", but you can't stay in the Red Pill Rage mode; it's toxic and self-destructive. So I cooled off, and moved into the acceptance phase... and honestly have been more successful with women and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:37 AM
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Same for me. After I had my Red Pill rage, it took me a bit to cool off, and find my balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:32 AM
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I'm more of a redish-shade of purple. But basically, no-matter what woman I get with, she will likely cheat at some point. It's too easy now, and human nature is human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:13 AM
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It's not a myth. All else being equal, the tall guy will win out over the short one. Short guys (like myself) have to compensate in other ways - game/charisma, working out, interesting hobbies, good careers, etc. Not necessarily all of those are needed at once, but you learn you do have to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:36 PM
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She is happy about the marriage, too, I think. Seeing as she posts in a lot of pics with him. I think she is very happy about the baby, but also happy that she finally got with someone who cares for her, and thinking, "I can't believe it took me this long." Like you said, she could have gone through the test tube route, but she didn't. She wanted to be married. She just finally dropped her ridiculous expectations once she was getting closer to the border of 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:26 PM
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Not many men - let alone many black men - are making enough out of college to support two people, kids, and a (likely) lavish lifestyle. If she's a 5 or 6, she definitely ain't getting that 1% black man. Her best bet is to find an older (30+) who has that, but they'll be in greater demand, and she likely won't meet the standard. This is what people mean when they say "temper your expectations".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:57 PM
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I think this is a fine compromise: "Re-evaluate your worth". Too many people trying to sell themselves as 9's, when they're 6's and 7's.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:48 PM
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When we say, "You need to lower your standards", we mean "bring your standards back down to earth". Seen too many women who were still single and childless going into their mid-30's, pissed off at the world or God for "not sending them a man." It's not that they didn't have men coming their way, they did. But they wanted a specific type of man, that either didn't exist or they are nowhere near qualified for being with. And if a man didn't meet all of the criteria on their laundry list, they'd to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:21 PM
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It's not just men that pushes it, though. Young women (early to mid-twenties) typically like older men because those men have "figured things out", while men their age are still struggling/climbing the ladder. Older men are more experienced in life, and tend to be more ready to settle down than us younger guys (pre-30).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:18 PM
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Been a while since I've watched Kevin. I'm glad he's blown up. I remember seeing him back in 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:21 AM
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The degeneration of our society continues. I hope this is a joke.
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 02:57 PM
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My response: https://youtu.be/_n5E7feJHw0
/r/MGTOW07/02/17 09:39 PM
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And people wonder why I'm still a virgin. You don't know WHAT these sluts have got!
/r/MGTOW07/02/17 09:16 PM
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I'd rather be called a "pussy" and a "loser," than get divorce-raped in court 15-20 years from now.
/r/MGTOW07/02/17 03:21 PM
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This. After college, I started working out every other day at the gym. I've gained a lot of weight, and am no-longer the skinny twig I was. People notice, believe me, but the most important thing is that YOU feel and look great! It raises your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:59 PM
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Same here. But that died after I started ingesting the red pill last year. The greatest lie ever told to men was the BP dream. I'm just focused on my hobbies, working out and building my career, right now. It's not worth the hassle.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:26 PM
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Well, at least she was honest. That is the real truth. Men just have to be strong and not give these chicks the time of day when they get older and hopefully become more successful. Never eat another man's leftovers.
/r/MGTOW06/02/17 06:24 PM
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As a black man, this is true. No fault divorce and government assistance to single mothers helped wreck the black family. It also doesn't help that instead of shaming their daughters for not preventing themselves from getting pregnant, the parents decide to help raise the grandchild and support the daughter, no-matter what. Essentially, there's little consequences for single motherhood, and the black man is screwed. Also, after riding the CC for a few years with thugs, then they want a "good man…
/r/MGTOW02/02/17 02:14 PM
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I don't know if I'd call "saying not wrap it up" "Blue-Pill," it's plain ol' stupidity.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:31 PM
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The Law is very over saturated at the moment. For the longest time I thought about attending law school until my senior year. Then I looked up the statistics and the struggling lawyers trying to pay off their massive debt and changed my mind. Only do it if you really WANT to be a lawyer. Be sure of what you are getting into.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 09:50 PM
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History Major here. I love my degree, even though it'a not "marketable" (now studying for a Masters in Public Administration). But yeah, I don't regret majoring in History, because it's what I LOVE. A lot of people drop out or change majors and waste time and money, because they tried to go STEM and get the money, but realized they hated it or couldn’t do it.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 09:47 PM
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That's the thing about Obama. He never made the "first black president" thing the main foundation of his campaign. It was just a peripheral thing. Clinton went all-in on the misandry and "first-woman President" thing, and it totally alienated many supporters. She and her team even used this against Bernie Sanders during the primary, and it pissed off a lot of the people who supported him (not just white people; but black, hispanic and Muslims who supported him). Sanders knew not to piss off the …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 05:30 PM
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Wow, didn't expect this on TRP, in all honesty. The Democrats made a huge mistake when they chose to get rid of the Public Option when they had a SUPER-MAJORITY because some wanted to please their health insurance donors. They should have gone all the way and given us single-payer, but Obamacare was better than nothing. For-profit healthcare doesn't work, and is why most of the world's modern nations have moved away from it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 08:33 PM
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Of course! I would actually love to have a child someday. I just don't want a mom to go with it.
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 04:28 PM
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