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3

I’ve never been tempted.. yet I’d like to think I’m loyal. That’s the mindset I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:10 PM
3

No, because I don’t know any single women. I’ve tried old that sucks can’t do anything there and nothing positive about my irl experiences either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:16 AM
3

I’m not mentally I’ll or anything either. I’ve got shitty luck. I don’t care who has sex with who. I guess you can say I don’t take rejection well either. And now I don’t know any single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:32 AM
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As far as age goes, I’d go for older woman. I’ve always liked older woman anyway. And as far as weight goes I don’t mind if she has a little extra I don’t mind at all just don’t be in the obese category.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:06 AM
1

What about 42 is that old?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:31 PM
10

An ew face, a no way face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:11 AM
13

I would say say I’m not interested and trying not to make a face on your part. That’s what gets me is the face after or before the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:16 PM
1

Money. Even though it never got me anything I’d rather have more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:48 AM
26

I’m in the same damn boat as you I was told just be yourself you will be fine. That is total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:16 AM
5

Ive been called shorty, squeaky. Some will raise there voice to match mine. And because of that I try to talk as little as possible. People will try and get things first before I do say in a store. People will cut in front of me and take advantage of me in every way they can. People are rude to me more than just being polite. There are days I feel like a 2nd class citizen because of all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:25 PM
6

True. But, if your a small guy like I am you pay a bit more attention to your surroundings. I’ve never been in a fight. I have always talked myself out of situations or backed out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:32 PM
2

It would be easier to get out of the moment. Because they would do anything to get away. I get that all the time. I have been In B once and it wasn’t very fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:58 PM
26

I’m a man I have no luck with women. I don’t think I’d want to change sex. I get harassed enough as it is. I can’t imagine what it would be like being a woman. I don’t have to worry about my safety being a man. I don’t get approached by women like a woman does by a man. It’s boring yet it’s fine all at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:46 PM
3

A all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:41 PM
1

I’ve done both. And gotten the same response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:05 AM
1

It’s worked for other guys why not me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:00 PM
3

How do you know till you know? Nobody will let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:59 PM
8

I’ve said a simple hi to numerous girls many times. Something just as simple as a hi to a more thought out answer. And every time I get nothing not even a simple hi back. The few conversations I do get don’t last more than a day and I get ghosted. What I don’t get is I don’t want to be single no more. I thought that’s what women want a guy that wants to be in a LTR? I’m about to give up again because of what I’ve been getting. NOTHING!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:37 AM
1

I had friends in school. Even flirted with girls then. People would probably tell you I was the biggest flirt in school. I wasn’t the most outgoing but I did go to parties sometimes. After graduation they went here way I went mine. Then picked up a new group of friends was out going for a while till people started getting married. The friends started going down hill till this yr one of the last friends I had gotten married. I kinda feel left out actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:06 PM
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I’ve been as direct with a few and asked I she would date me got told they just wanted to be friends instead. I’ve also asked to just to talk sometime. I did ask somebody to go to an event with me she did do that but, she was just wanting to avoid her current bf which was why she went with me and she only wanted to be friends. So I’m going to see that as just another L.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:50 PM
3

I totally agree with you I’ve never had a gf. I’m 42 seems like whatever I try nothing works. I don’t think I’m a bad guy I just can’t get my foot in the door like you said. I truly believe if a girl gave me a chance I’d be the most loyal and trustworthy guy to her. Not all guys are just looking for a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:52 PM
2

Are they expensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:01 PM
6

It’s higher pitched. I’ve been told many times I don’t sound like what I look like. I’d go as far and say many women have a deeper voice than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:39 PM
8

I’m a short guy, weird voice. 2 things I can’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:47 AM
6

It would be nice if a girl would give me a chance to show what my personality is. I get rejected before that even happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:31 AM
1

So I’m scary. lol right. That’s the reason behind some of us can’t find a gf!? I’m the last guy you need to be scared of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:53 AM
1

Im not #1 and you said that’s all it took originally. It’s like a constant moving goal here you reach one then it moves on to something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:47 AM
4

This is far from the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:36 AM
1

Yea, it would be nice to have female friends. Apparently I’m not good enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:49 PM
0

I’d say no. Every girl I have attempted to ask I was attracted to her. Because if your not attracted to her it wouldn’t work from the start right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:00 PM
2

I totally agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:46 AM
1

You talking about public card meet ups? I’ve never done those. It WAS at a friends house and I’ll use the friends term very loosely that’s normally what happened after everyone got really drunk. That was back in my mid 20s. I’m 15 miles west of Troy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:40 AM
1

Your not the only one who has suggested I try dancing. I’ve often thought I would try it just never have and don’t know anything about it. Just getting out of the house would be a win for me. I’ve played cards before I was never very good at it I’ve played with other people in the past except it was mainly a drunk fest and one of the guys would always buy the pot so it left me with a bad taste in my mouth. I don’t even play cards at family events either because of it. They almost have to force m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:25 AM
2

I’m only gone 2 nights a week normally sometimes 3. I have a lot of 3 day weekends so there are days where I could get out I just don’t know what to do. I hate small talk as well. If it’s people I know I normally don’t have much problem for a handful of minutes. Even the guys I see a lot I’m ok talking to them but, that’s only because I have a connection with them. You could say it’s my job but I’m the only one my age who is single all the other guys that drive are married and have families too!…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:08 AM
1

I went to church for probably 30plus years of my life. I believe the word also. Right before I stopped going I went by myself didn’t really get into it then. I just can’t convince myself to go up to a girl I don’t know and just talk to her. I can say hi and stuff like that but when it comes to keeping the conversation going that’s where I have problems. I need to be more social because I have no irl connections other than work or family. I drive truck right now so yea total sausage fest here too…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:46 AM
1

The rejection thing is what gets me. Takes me a while to get over that. I’m 42 not really you any more but not old yet either. I have been called a creep here before too. And I don’t know why. I’m beginning to think that they just don’t like me either. When it comes to dating I can’t get any of them to talk about me. If it’s other shit yea that’s fine. I don’t know any single women now so, I’m lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:29 AM
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I do care I’m just lost atm. I don’t know any that are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:45 PM
4

I’m average so I’ve heard. I can’t find a gf on old. I’ve been rejected many times irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:16 PM
2

Wait, you get a conversation? Hmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:34 PM
1

Whatever happened to just be yourself and that’s all you need. Seems like that has went by the wayside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:13 PM
0

You can put me on the not had any category. And my source is irl experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:40 AM
5

It’s easy for men to get women!? Lol ..I did not get that memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:38 AM
2

I disagree with the fat opinion. I know fat guys who are married. One of them even has kids. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:23 PM
2

I would I prefer older
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:34 AM
1

Not atm. I’m toying with the idea and looking into buying a van when I have free time. I’m thinking that should take up a lot of my free time when I’m not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:33 PM
1

It’s not a fun life to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:43 PM
1

Yea, probably what I should work on is reality and forget about women. Every time I try it fails. I honestly was happy till a few events happened earlier this year and I got left out yet again. Most of my life I never have looked for a gf and I should get back to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:39 PM
1

Yea I don’t know I was wearing my sunglasses and maybe she could see my head pointed towards her she couldn’t see my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:31 PM
1

Honestly that is all about the chance I’ve got. Last weekend I was out. I saw a coworker we’re I was I was talking to him for a couple min then I saw a girl approaching him. She stopped about 20ft away when she saw me talking to him. She even stepped back a couple feet while I was talking. When he left we went our own ways she ran up to him. Women literally run from me and I don’t know why. Don’t really complain like this irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:35 PM
2

I have done that before. They would say let me go ask my wife. Then id never hear back from them again. That’s really frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:32 AM
3

Zero right now. I did have friends till they all got married now I have nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:22 AM
1

But the thing is I’ve never had any success at all. If I had success that would be different. If I could say I suck at dating then yea I could say it’s on me except I can’t say that. I’d love to experience a woman someday but nobody will give me a chance to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:20 AM
3

I don’t do any. I don’t know where they go or what they do. The last rejection I got was hard enough that it made me not to want to look into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:59 AM
1

I don’t have any female friends outside of work and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:28 AM
6

Women try to avoid me any way they can. This weekend I actually had one run away from me. She made it clear she wasn’t there for me. I wish I knew the answers to why it’s so hard for me. I’m a solid 2 I guess is the answer. The way I see it women my age are trying to marry Chad’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:27 AM
1

Both, no relationship no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:14 AM
12

Lol. Thanks but, it won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:45 AM
52

Being single in your 40s everywhere I go someone else I know my age is getting married or having kids. I don’t have any of that. Not even a chance of it. I get rejected every time I try. It’s hard to continue on when everywhere you look people are starting families and I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:43 PM
2

Always have a companion..lol right..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:52 AM
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