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| 126 | A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you. | Jaricho | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 11:41 AM | |
| 2 | [FR] A girl went on her knees "Will you marry me" 20 minutes after I met her. (X-Post DutchSeduction) | Jaricho | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 02:45 PM |
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| 1 | can you 'game' with a rubbish life?Never just tell them. Always be yourself and be honest, just like your mom used to tell you. Being honest does not give you the most friends and girls but it does give you the best. What I learned is that dating the prettiest girls I know, having sex with multiple women a week is that it does not make you happy. As long as you have the guts to keep opening girls and opening yourself you will get hurt, a lot. But it will all be worth it once you have found 1 or more people/girls that are now spec… | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl at a club no sure what to do nextYou're overthinking it. Just do what feels right. You want her and that's fine, there is nothing wrong with screwing up. The only bad thing you can do is nothing. Text her, call her, it doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 02:23 PM |
| 0 | How do I start a convo with 2 girls who are talking?"hi" | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 05:57 PM |
| -7 | how to politely excuse yourself from a date with a girl you're not intoWe can't help it. You are what you eat bro. Edit: We might be pussies but just don't be a dick about it. Ps: it's a joke. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Having trouble approaching girls at the bar? Start your night at the strip club...I like your idea of confidence boosting in a stripclub but if you really want to learn something do it sober. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 05:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Xmas party F-closeI don't understand what everyones problem is? I steal girls from a good friend of mine all the time and he from me. Its just how we kinda like it. It stays a challenge in that way. Now who of you whiners want to explain me what is getting that sand in your vagina's? | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | First date kiss what is next?Do this and you will fuck her right into the pussy. | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 03:25 PM |
| 15 | Starbucks barista tends to girl flirts with me. Need help.I see people telling you to ignore the boyfriend part. Don't Fucking Mention it. At all. It's her responsibility. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Pick girls up or meet them at the venue?It's always the best way to just "feel the situation". Or like reenuhh says, just ask. Don't forget you are talking about women here, humans, no matter how much you plan it. Things always go (slightly) different. | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is this girl giving me signals that she is interested and is flirting?Not even a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 07:37 AM |
| 1 | When she says 'i know your re hitting on me'I thought you were hitting on me, what a crazy coincidence! Or And I know you like it ;) Or Yes. Or Who knows. It doesnt matter what you say as long as you maintain your frame. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Is this girl giving me signals that she is interested and is flirting?Hey, wanna grab a drink after school? It doesnt have to be all fancy, as long as it's sincere. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Is this girl giving me signals that she is interested and is flirting?The only way to find out if she was flirting is to asume she is and act on it. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 06:06 PM |
| 1 | From Zero to HeroI am considered creepy a lot of times, I just don't care. The people you want to be friends with appreciate your effort and acknowledge you for who you are, even if you are imperfect. Imperfect like everyone els. | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 08:58 PM |
| 1 | From Zero to HeroSo you're simply scared. Which is normal but I live like this: I rather live with rejection knowing I did my best then always keep wondering about a "what if" | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 08:34 PM |
| 1 | From Zero to HeroWhat is needed for a hot girl to be interested then? | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 07:02 AM |
| 1 | From Zero to HeroWhy can't you go talk to random hot girls? And why would you want to use tour study as an advantage? First rule of the true pickup, the one that they mostly don't tell is: Go and fail as much as possible, learn and try again. If it's about your family, why would you care? You are treating these women with respect, you are being a man. They can not be anything els then proud of that. And the medic school, just talk to the girl. If she asks: what do you do? You simply tell her what you do without … | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 12:29 AM |
| 1 | "We're not going to have sex tonight" twice in a week from two different girlsBest reaction on any response so far. "Ofcorse we're not going to have sex." < That's what I say to those situations, and then it happens anyway. Edit for clarity | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 11:42 AM |
| 4 | Does this stuff work internationally?I have been to Germany for a while (Hamburg) and it is Different there though not so mayorly. People there are mostly a bit reserved and Sex is a private thing. Though I did manage to get some for the short period I was there simply because I was "Refreshing" in words of the most there. I did not care what they did or thought, I was just being my fun and energetic self. I know one american guy here who was used to always doing everything big, if it's like that. drop it. Doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | FWB is starting to feel used. Advice?Then evaluate and reflect and make sure you progress. That's what this is all about. Edit: to continue further on this. It doesn't sound like you don't want a relationship, it sounds like you are scared of fucking up the relationship. Simply said: You are living in fear, which is always a bad choice. Open up to her and say what you really feel. "I feel more for you but am scared that I will fuck thing up if we go into a relationship. Let's take the dating/relation thing a bit slow. I am scared o… | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 02:24 PM |
| 5 | FWB is starting to feel used. Advice?It's pretty easy. Fwb has the word "Friend" in it. She just wants to do more then just fuck around, give the whole thing a more friendly meaning. How many of your friends do you only have sex with? It could be that she wants a relationship but you cant stop that by not doing anything with her. If you are too scared about losing her for the sex you have to get back in your centre. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 09:32 AM |
| 31 | FWB is starting to feel used. Advice?It's pretty easy. Fwb has the word "Friend" in it. She just wants to do more then just fuck around, give the whole thing a more friendly meaning. How many of your friends do you only have sex with? It could be that she wants a relationship but you cant stop that by not doing anything with her. If you are too scared about losing her for the sex you have to get back in your centre. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 09:32 AM |
| 3 | What to do if a girl texts me everyday?If possible that is prefered. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are attractive girls "easier" when it comes to day game?Any way of judging anyone before you have approached her is a bad way of approaching. I am not saying you're wrong, but I do dissagree with what you said. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 07:34 PM |
| 15 | What to do if a girl texts me everyday?Every girl is different, golden thing to remember. Do you want the most chicks, or the best chicks? The best chicks are those you can be yourself and everything went natural. Just remember your basics, If she invests in you and you like her, give her something back. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Why are attractive girls "easier" when it comes to day game?Too be honest, believing a girl is cocky is the worst approach immaginable. You should be above that. I do understand what you are saying and it might even be true. It is just totally irrelevant because any approach should be optimistic (unless you are in the learning how to approach fase). | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 07:28 AM |
| 4 | Why are attractive girls "easier" when it comes to day game?First thing that pop into my mind: Pretty girls are more intimidating to most guys and don't get approached that much. | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Theme Park GameThe rule to approaching is pretty much this: As long as it is more fun to have you around, then to not have you around... Then it's good. In an amusement park it's pretty hard to make it more fun then they are already having. But then again, people are there to have fun, so some exaggerated crazy and funny things might work a lot better then they do on the street. Just work your way around this, every theme park is different, every women is different. They are all humans, just go with whatever o… | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 08:12 AM |
| 8 | Theme Park GameIf there are women, you can game. How? Talk to them. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with racist girls?You make fun. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Wow. Just had a completely game changing revelation. Hopefully it will help some of you get out and be comfortable in social situations, it certainly did for me.Fake confidence has no Honesty whatsoever, the girls you want to be with will see right trough that. | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 10:41 AM |
| 0 | Always leave a girl better than when you found her. Sometimes we forget that.Good job. i would give you a pat on the shoulder and a brohug if I could. | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindI am always open to new information and experiences, can you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindI like it :) | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindIn theorie it is, atleast that is what a lot of PUA stuff is letting you believe. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 06:39 PM |
| 11 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindThe people that want to do that, are like that themselves. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 06:39 PM |
| 66 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindModels is solid, but it's not PUA material. his strive is to teach you how to be a self sustaining happy person. Which then again makes you more attractive. PUA teaches you how to attract ALL the women. Models teaches you to attract the women that make you happy. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 03:34 PM |
| 2 | To all German people who are in this supredditPretty legit for a redtube link. | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 08:44 PM |
| 1 | A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you.Pause for tension building bro ! | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 11:05 PM |
| 6 | Can these techniques be applied to a straight woman's game with the same results?Oke a few simple things, First of all "Be yourself" is seriously the best thing, and no I don't mean fart in his face if that is your thing. What I mean is: Honesty does not make the most friend, it does make the best. The same applies to pickup, it does not give you the most women (or in your case guys) but it does give you the best. Second Forget everything just approach, and learn trough experience, from what I have read you are not approaching or interacting because you wonder if they will l… | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 01:37 AM |
| 3 | A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you.Ive got a PDF file of the book. But I plan to buy the book itself as well to respect the author. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 12:56 AM |
| 1 | A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you.Yes it is. have not finished it yet though. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 12:55 AM |
| 1 | A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you.Models - Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Unable to do first cold approachWhat works for me are warmups, Just approach everyone as a warmup. Every girl you think is cute, is just as human as the old guy on the corner. If you can look at it like that, and truly believe it like that. It should become a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Favorite Date IdeaYes nice tip, thanks. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Favorite Date IdeaAlright, interesting. I will give it a go just because it is nice to have. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Favorite Date IdeaI could be mistaken but, golf-clubs are not particular cheap now are they? | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I get to know girls on a deeper level once they find me attractive?That's what I mend, you know how to verbally seduce a girl, but do you really "Know" how to talk to one? Watch the link I provided, it should help a lot. If you want to have more to say yourself, do something that is interesting to tell about. (If you don't already do this if not all of them) Go play an instrument, go play sports, read books, watch movies, whatever you think is worth telling about because it is of interest to you. If you are passionate about something, conversation should go nat… | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 09:16 PM |
| 19 | Best move when a girl flakes and doesn't respond to your text asking her out?If she simply does not respond at all, Move on. | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I get to know girls on a deeper level once they find me attractive?it sounds like you have natural good looks and body lanquage.. But to bring it the hard way... it sounds like you lack Social skills Do you know how to talk to a girl ? For seduction or pickup it is all about how you say it, and not what you say. But if you want a deeper connection you gotta open up yourself and talk to the girl in a honest and interested way. I found this video today, it is quite relevant actually. and really good ! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI&feature=youtu.be If… | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this.Thanks for this comment, I agree. and even if she isn't all it takes is a: Tommorow, that time, that place. It's all about confidence. if you don't act like someone she likes, how can she like you? | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Is seduction wardrobe different then fashion???You are right about that, but I just love suits. Not because I want to look above the rest. That is something that shines. Depends on the person as you say it, I'm quite fit as well if that matters. | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Is seduction wardrobe different then fashion???I just love that link <3 | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Is seduction wardrobe different then fashion???http://www.lmgtfy.com/?q=DHV+PUA+Definition | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Is seduction wardrobe different then fashion???I have been to clubs and everywhere in a suit, its just DHV they assume you are some high figure of the place. | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 04:38 PM |
| 1 | =) ;) =P - Emoticons: Yes or No?You can use SOME emoticons, just don´t be like Hey _^ How you doing ? :P Yeah I'm great thanks ! :D That comes across as non serious and immature. | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 02:12 PM |
| 3 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itTry looking at it this way. Nobody is out of your league, you just have to learn how to approach them. The same way you can't expect to be able to approach a cat and get the same result as when you approach a dog. They are not better, just different. *Edit: Assuming you approach them both in identical ways in identical circumstances. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:53 PM |
| 5 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itFrom what I read the problem is way easier. He puts them on a fucking pedestal. The way he talks about them: If they are HB8: HB8: Multiple dates, willing to put in a lit of effort. Definite relationship, possibly exclusive, unless her personality is intolerable. This is ridiculous, you should invest just as much in any girl you like. What you are doing is plain and simple putting them on a pedestal. You can deny this, but from the moment you truly believe they are a "Number" above, you can't co… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 09:23 AM |
| 70 | Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line.There are no girls on the internet. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:51 PM |
| 2 | I consider myself a rational, humble, down-to-earth, realistic man. How do I get delusional confidence?I think I have the perfect answer for you, and I hope it is not posted yet. Nobody is perfect, the moment you talk with a girl and you create even the slightest of attraction, she will try to impress you just as hard as you are trying to impress her. They way you stress when you approach a girl, is the way a girl stresses when she is approached by a guy. and ofcourse there are different levels in this but just remember: It is just as big of a deal for them as this is for you. I hope this helps C… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 10:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!I can only smile, like real big. Everybody makes mistakes, you noticed early enough and corrected it. Good job. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 07:26 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Airport game, or how I stopped worrying and got back in stateNice FR, I personally run the best game when I am in baggy sweatpants, hair all messed up and just came from the gym. Just try to control this mindset when you are looking at you best. | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 10:27 AM |
| 3 | The missing link that none of the books seem to touch onMaking women laugh = creating comfort. | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 12:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] How I got free pizza.Also I see people saying it is a boring story, I liked it ! No you did not rescue her in a post apocalyptic warscene with puppy's and kittens and an awesome F-Close with her and her 4 lesbian friends and their mothers. It is a normal story, thanks. there is not enough of these on here. | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 12:36 PM |
| 8 | [FR] How I got free pizza.Ask her about the part where you saw her getting in the car, if she does not have own transport. Find out where she lives and potentially offer her to bring her home. | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Advice on game.+1 | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 10:29 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Purple Shirted Eye Stabbers In West VillageThat my brother, is an excuse. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 09:36 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Purple Shirted Eye Stabbers In West VillageNice FR good to see you just keep opening. Also, if you got nothing to lose and she is not a fatty or total ugly wench or whatever. you can always try to kiss her, you got nothing to lose: Free exp. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 03:45 PM |
| 11 | Immediately friendzoned - shit test or lost cause?You're response in my head was like this: Me: Woah - you sure jump ahead. I don't think I could handle anything more than friends with you So what days are you free? Yes ! YESSSS HE IS DOING I-NOOOOOOOOoooooo it went all fine till you said I CAN'T, made it YOU can't and it would have been perfect. You would have put it at hers, you now showed wrong intentions, you showed that you wanted to be just friends and THAT is what put you in the friendzone. nothing more nothing less | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Advice on game.Exactly ! | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Advice on game.It can be different depending on culture. But... Being called a player is NOT a bad thing. And actually helps your game. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 03:21 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Senior Prom F-CloseI laughed at "Cojones". Awesome job! Keep up the Big cojones compadre. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Help me out guys, what are the sort of things I say to a girl after I just introduced myself?You can study an opener, that is fine. Just don't script it. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Help me out guys, what are the sort of things I say to a girl after I just introduced myself?Just make it something more fun, Make them curious. I got a job next to my study, as a manager at McDonalds. When they ask what do you do I ask them, do you want to hear the fancy version or the actual version? They always go for fancy, and I say: I am a manager at the biggest restaurant chain in the world. Ow wow that sounds really interesting so what is it? You asked for the fancy version, so this is what it is. And I am not ashamed of it, but this keeps them interested. For you, just say you … | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 11:28 PM |
| 6 | What I've learned, and how I've used itI love you story. It is really motivating ! Thanks. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Help me out guys, what are the sort of things I say to a girl after I just introduced myself?Hey, Pause I saw you standing there, and I just love your hair! But please get rid of those shoes they look they will kill you ! Ow thank you ! but what is wrong with my shoes? Well I'm a dancer and you gotta be quite fit to not woble away on those horrors. You are a dancer? what do you ? I dance Tango Argentina. Ow really?!? That is awesome but I can't do it.:( Don't worry I also teach. This is just an example of one of many things to say. DON'T you ever study ANY script to open up. just say wh… | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 03:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Day OutKeep on working ! Great job ! | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | My Achilles Heel..It is not about what you say, but how you say it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3Z4Nq0OrrM&t=45m52s I set it on the homework part, if you can set yourself to do that and I believe from what you say you are definitely capable of doing that. You should be fine. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 05:00 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys respond to "tell me about yourself"?It is actually quite an achievement to get a positive response if you approach someone from the back that is even the slightest bit sober so that is a really strong thing you did there. And for the last part, Karma means nothing, if you can get one comment on your FR which you can use for yourself I would take - 1000 karma any day. As for Kino, study it, practise it, live it. Then abandon the thought of it (don't forget it though). And get your intentions straight, If you look a girl in the eyes… | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys respond to "tell me about yourself"?Thanks, was doubting about that. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 07:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] My first report...Just keep it up ! If you want to seduce a girl, Know you want it before you move in. Hmmm, this girl might be interesting never works. Hmm, I like this girl! I am going in ! That is the attitude that works. if you got that mindset the rest will come natural. Even if you are already talking to a women, as long as you do it early you can change it to that mindset. If you don't know what you want. You Will express doubt. There is nothing sexy about that. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:21 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys respond to "tell me about yourself"?The best way if you don't have anything to say about yourself. Is saying (in a playfull way) I like to stay mysterious. Always had good comments on that one because it is such a cliché. It does only work if you say it in the right way with the right smirk. But now to be a bit more harsh on you. Get a life Take dance lessons, Get a drivers license or even a motorcycle, vacations, mythology, sports, anything that makes you, you is interesting. but then you gotta do something. If you only like comp… | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:05 PM |
| 1 | I can't drink.. can I still play the game?Whenever a girl asks if I drink and I say, No I don't (because I mostly don't) they are always impressed. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Im embarassed to ask but im a 24 year old male and I have no clue on how to officially ask someone to be my girlfriendI have not red trough all of the comments, but I have something really important to tell you. You are 24, that is not the age to make someone your girlfriend based on hopes and not even have kissed yet. You gotta let the idea of a relation this soon go, if you are too fast forward you might loose her (which I assume is what you are scared off and is why you want her to be your girlfriend) If you are sure you like her, and you think she likes you 2 it is really simple: Kiss her. at the least. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How should i go about calling a girl out on her texting while with me?If you can not make it an interesting date that is your lack of skill. | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 10:14 AM |
| 1 | How should i go about calling a girl out on her texting while with me?That does not work 100% out of always. | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 10:13 AM |
| 3 | How should i go about calling a girl out on her texting while with me?Sarcasm would be the thing here. Edit: Don't forget it's a neg ! So get a schmirk on your face. | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Girls look down at their feet when they walk by me?it's all about how you say it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Can one overdo eye contact?Thats why by good contact you switch the eye you look at. If it is about attraction. "The triangle". | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 08:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 3 weeks ago I k-close and got so into the zone by the end of the night I was the zone. Feedback on bits I ballsed up would be nice.I am not sure what to say, The biggest critic I can give you is this: If you truly want to improve your game, do it sober. Further a bit of arrogance is nice but you were leaning on the line to just plainly being an asshole, but it worked. Just remember, all women from "HB"1 to HB10 are women. Treat them all the same and close the ones you like good enough. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Do not ever be half-heartedly assertive sexually.What he means is that if you think, I might want to kiss her and then go in half assed. You can't expect to get full results. If you think, I will kiss her and you go in, you will get full results. This can include going to court as stated by Heflar. | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Bear hugs? Picking up a girl with a hug? They are manly, but are they ever a good idea?if you can pull it off, it does not matter. 2 scenarios: You bear hug some girl you don't really know, sure awkward whatever. but you just lift her while hugging, make some crazy bear sound. After this you go on like nothing happened and go back in conversation with your friends or just say hi to the next person. With this you got a big escalation if you do it properly. if I say it like this it can't go wrong right? if a girl makes a problem of this just ignore it and continue the same way you n… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I need help from you guys to start all over againI'm from the Netherlands, where are you from? | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 06:58 PM |
| 6 | Getting wing'd by a woman at a festivalIt is part of being a wingman. | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I need help from you guys to start all over againIf you do this as a warm up, approaching a women should not be that hard. | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 02:57 PM |
| 2 | I need help from you guys to start all over againThe best thing to get your game up is approach and talk to everyone with everyone I mean Everyone Neighbours, The elder couple in the grocery store, the big scary looking guy with all the tattoo's, the girl behind the register at the supermarket. Everyone If you are used to that, you will be able to apply all the data that now seems way too much fairly easy. | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 02:20 PM |
| 37 | (FR)Not sure if field report or just luck...Let me start by saying I love you There is nothing wrong with this, especially if you have no experience with it. Don't regret what you did not do, be happy with what you did do. you are growing, don't be scared and keep moving forward. Invite her over, just you and her for whatever. and just kiss her, don't think of what to do, don't doubt. if it pops up in your head just go for it. Just don't like... poop on her or something, not a lot of women like that. PS: Any excuse you make up I will help… | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 02:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Soul's first night Solo. (Number Close!)I am proud of you soul :) This is one of the few FR's that is actually getting what it is about. Selfimprovement and having fun Big +1 for you. | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 02:00 PM |
| 6 | Getting wing'd by a woman at a festivalWinging does not immediatly mean approaching, you can use her as a wingwomen, here is how it goes. Look up what DHV means, you + women + approaching other women = DHV. just go and have her be around, the only problems are: Make sure she does not cockblock you and does not say anything humiliating or negative about you(unless you can turn it around into something funny but that requires skill) TL;DR: Just let her be your female friend and have fun, this shows DHV. The game itself is still up to y… | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 01:49 PM |
| -7 | The role of facial hair in women's perceptions of men's attractivenesshad to chuckle. http://i.qkme.me/3qcu1t.jpg | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 11:56 AM |
| 8 | This is my biggest obstacle.That is not even that small... I am 5'9 and have no height related problems when it comes to dating. I am dating a girl that is about 6'2. it is all about confidence. If YOU can't handle being smaller, how can they? Just make fun of it, show them you don't care and be comfortable about it, this is the only way to make them feel comfortable about it. Say in the mirror everyday and say whatever bothers you: I am tall enough I am cute enough My hair is fabulous My nose is beautifull My freckles are… | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 11:37 PM |
| 6 | To all those wondering "How on earth do I fake confidence?! I still don't know what to say..." Here's some thoughts.Really good read you hit it perfectly! I DO want to criticize one particular part: When I say 'say hi to a girl' I don't mean literally say hi and stand there. It is not about what you say, but HOW you say it. body language and Kino is the Key to pickup. A golden PUA could get further by just saying hi, as we can by just talking but not getting the kino and body-language right. Just open sets like he said, open them just to "Talk" or make them smile. if that is your goal the AA will be a LOT les… | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 02:50 PM |
| 10 | What's the worst rejection you've ever gotten?because we are interested. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Is this a classic shit test?This thread is why I love you guys :) | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 04:14 PM |
| 47 | Went in for the kiss with a girl I have known for a while. Rejected....but, I feel OKnext time don't say it, speaking out things can be a real mood killer if you don't say it with the propper confidence. Just go for it, if she really was reacting you the easiest way for her would have been too say. I am sorry but friends bla bla. the standard story. Not to give you a bad feeling but I think you could have pulled that off with more confidence. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 04:45 PM |
| 10 | [FR] College student - k-closed HB9 on the dance floor+1 | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Advice to all of you from a bi guyhaha it is actually kinda uncomfortable (Judging much, you bad person). It is just fun to be on the other side, and don't worry I always repay the drink. :) | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Advice to all of you from a bi guyI want to add to this, that there are lots of women as well, I have a lesbian girlfriend who takes me to a gaybar sometimes, and I simply have a good night. and yes I get hit on as well (free drinks SCORE). But the best part is that there is mostly a very social spirit. people there WANT to be talkative and WANT to be nice and friendly with everyone. just go practice with gay/bi women and/or man. It gets your game up big time. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 07:17 PM |
| 1 | once you find a girl attractive, when do you decide if she's gf material, or you just want to hook up?If it is about relationship material, it is a hard question. I have a "I'll just see how it goes" attitude. Things I like that would make me consider you "Potential" girlfriend material. Touching without making it a bill (with that I mean don't only touch him when he touches you, this makes me feel like you really want to give me attention rather then just evening up the odds. Smiling (a lot), you don't smile a lot, you are no girlfriend for me. Confidence, you can be as cocky as you want with m… | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Improving my daygameI don't really have any advice for you, but I did just watch this about a hour ago. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mRM1VwUiYA It popped in mind when you said:> I don't feel like I've built up enough attraction to ask for her number. Edit: A bit of psychological into the video, the first girl: a bit of a gigly "Sure" which would imply "I don't really care whatever" but her legs are crossing which means she does not intend to move on and is actually interested. | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk about condomsI would see that girl as responsible and I like that. To go in on detail, if I would go and "Have fun" with a women and I would not have a condom I would be pleasantly surprised if she has. | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Is this subreddit only for guys?What I am curious about is: What kind of questions would you have as a female on this forum? | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 12:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeWell my experience has been a lot more tough on this, I got Ritalin since I was little, but I was pretty unmanageable. The guidance my parents got for this(From the doctor) was simply this: Just give him one extra until he calms down. I don't think I have to tell you that the doctors where simply telling my parents to drug their child, and nothing less happened. I can not really remember anything of that but apparently all I did was sit in a corner after the "Advice" of the doctor. Luckily my pa… | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 03:13 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeHey "Ron", If you are interested I would like to discuss things a bit more in detail. Me myself have been diagnosed with ADHD since I was about 3 years old. I have been growing up with pretty much no one knowing how to handle this and have made it my dream and goal to guide others with ADD and ADHD because of the lack of understandig by "Professionals". I am 21 years old now and have been constantly improving myself and learned alot and am still learning actually. If you want I would like to exc… | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 01:57 PM |
| 6 | [FR] "If I was a watermelon, would you swallow or spit out my seed?"Awesomepenguin: Has enough game to make it work. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Before you do anything else, decide what you want.I don't have a lot of problems concerning women, but this does look like another piece of my puzzle called life. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 04:05 PM |
| 1 | 45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction.Nice read, thanks for the share. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The only line I use, and it's magic.Physical appearance is about 20% of your attraction. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The only line I use, and it's magic.You look fine bro, it has nothing to do with your face. Just work on your confidence and you will be fine ;). | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:21 PM |
| 1 | "You probably couldn't handle me". How does one handle this blatantly obvious shit test?The best result I got was from this: Yeah you are right. They cannot compute it if you stay confident and keep doing whatever you do and still agree to that. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Challenging my limiting belief. I am a 23 year old man with a facial deformity. Confident I can still be as good as the naturals, though.I only had to read the first 3 lines to give you some karma. As long as you are motivated to improve yourself you will get there. I believe in you and you can do it! | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Went from "I'm not attracted to you" to naked in her bed in just a few days.Oke bro, just remember it took you a year to get where you are now. Keep looking forward ! Keep improving. Keep staying positive. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 10:23 AM |
| 13 | "You're right this is crazy" and "Do I need to grab a condom?" Tackling LMR before it even happens.You're right, this is crazy! Condom, maybe? | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 02:41 PM |
| 2 | How to approach and talk to girls you see sitting at table or on train.I don't know how it is where you come from. Public transit in different countries can be a mayor difference. I personally come from the Netherlands, I always like to talk to people and most of the times they appreciate it. just sit anywhere, near the girl you like if possible and if you have eye contact just say "Hi" or "Hey" if she says hi back, go, What are you reading? what music are you listening too? where are you going? and just pick up from there. once the first words have been exchanged … | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 11:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with Alpha's who want to fight? [story inside]he did the best thing he could, The person writing that was the Alpha, the other one was beta as fuck. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 11:27 PM |
| 2 | #-closed with a girl on saturday, she now says she has a bf, but still wants to go to coffee "if that doesnt change anything"if you don't mind having a second boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 12:42 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Stewardess on a 30-hour layoverSeduction is about expanding your boundaries. Excellent FR. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 09:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 30 second k-closeoowww so thats what happend with you and the dog. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 07:09 PM |
| 4 | How much do you usually spend on dates and what do you typically do?Not a native english. :) atleast say what was wrong then. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 12:16 PM |
| 7 | How much do you usually spend on dates and what do you typically do?I LOVE food, when there is a true potential, I dont really care what I spend. Our first date was a simple picknick, was really fun and her idea. The date after that, I took her too tepanyaki, spended €100 that day. All worth it :). | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Why Umbrellas are a useful seduction tool.scarves for instance which I've used in the same manner. Use them all to your advantage ! Just last night, when it started pouring out of nowhere I saw two girls in skirts and high heels start to panic and run trying to get out of the rain. I ran up between them and opened my scarf, which was big enough to shelter the three of us easily. "Let's get out of here!" and we all ran towards the bus stop. We got there and it was all smiles and surprises, I offered them each a cigarette and we got talki… | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Height and seducing women?The best evidence I can give you is that you try it out for yourself, What harm can it do? | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Is it really a mistake to kiss a girl on the first date?It might be that she has a fear of binding, and that the first time you kissed everything was cool. but when you wanted more she might have gotten a feeling that you are in love with her or whatever (aside of it being true or not) it might have triggered a fear of binding. This is just a theorie though based on your story. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Height and seducing women?The point is, you are insecure about your height, so you send out an aura that says, My height is not good enough for you. If you are confident about your height, your attitude will subconciously change accordingly and your aura will also change for the better. It is not easy, but just train it. tell yourself that you are "Tall enough to date a women" "Good enough to date a women that is taller then me" "Height does not matter I got other qualities" Keep telling yourself that, just into yourself… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 09:17 AM |
| 1 | 27F says: My brother is in town, can he come [on our first date]?You should always hold on to what you yourself want, you hold on to the fact you wanted a date, you did not want to go on a date with her brother you can comply but you would have gained maybe a good old friendzone out of it. Now you went Alpha, without being a dick, and you got what you wanted :) you did fine. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 09:05 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A party I knew no-one. Alpha, k-close, multiple #-closesWater is the best way for your headache, further it is just some temporary things like fat food or whatever. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Im a noob, made first 5 aproaches today. Better than expected!Oke, I think different on this subject. I personally would never agree to something you dont like, also on the contrary of getting in the circle, you also show you are independent by declining. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 01:55 PM |
| 1 | They can't take me seriously...exactly | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 12:49 PM |
| 1 | They can't take me seriously...Oke the way you go in now, suggests sex. Period. There is nothing wrong with this, but if you want it you can 99.9% sure not pull it off around her friends. she wants to keep her decency around her friends so she isnt going to behave slutty. And as last it is not about what your bring, but how you bring it. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Should I even try since I can't get it?Seriously? her place? its the best way anyway, its her comfortzone. and besides that you can do it on the beach, in the park, in an alley, in a guestroom. just be creative, *(however not everyone is into it) but ANYTHING is better then just giving up. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 01:16 AM |
| 6 | making a bet or wager with dateMy tip to you, She is coming over to bowl with you. so you can safely asume she is interested. Dont fuck it up. Then just kiss her NO, Just do it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Is smiling too much a bad thing?TL;DR, Doesnt matter what you do, as long as you do it with conviction and Alpha the fuck out of it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Is smiling too much a bad thing?Its this, I want to add to this: You are always good for who you are, as long as you truly believe you are. I found this a week or so ago, http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/yhna6/why_looks_dont_matter/ I think this might just be the answer to what you need. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 12:10 PM |
| 8 | Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you.Seriously guy, I can really relate to this. I found this out about 4 months ago on my own. Trust me, its tough shit, But the way you described it, could not have done that any better and my friends will really benefit from this. Really much thanks! Brolove. | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 02:08 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Testing out direct/aggressive text gameBeing busy isnt, being indepent is. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Smalltalk, Transitional Talk, and otherwise Conversational FillerPractise is the key here, a wingman would help with this. Just go out alot on places people tend to meet and talk. Listen, Listen alot, and dont just talk to people that are potentional partners<<< This part is they biggest key in improving. If you just talk to everyone you will get used to it. And a last one, In my experience, conversations go natural if she is the right person. not everything has to come from you ! just remember that, if the conversation isnt going on it is because of both of … | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Starting A Seddit Lair in the Netherlands?me and a friend of mine are interested. even if it is just once, this is going to be fun. :) | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 01:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First night soloing. # Close.Its all about selfachievement. YOU achieved something. so YOU are succesfull. Jolly wel done. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 04:32 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Straight guys, gay clubs are your friend.Dude, Ask Penelope what he said, Make it no biggy, just curiousity for you. but WE... WE DESERVE TO KNOW! Very nice FR, made me laugh _^ | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Is being a 'nice guy' really a bad thing?I havent red the article for I have seen enough of those. Point is, if you are a "Niceguy" as pointed out by blitizik, You aren't doing a bad thing. After all, That is what girls claim to want. Story is, "Bad guys" actually go for it. If you go for a kiss, chances are you get rejected, maybe even alot. if you try it 10 times a week, you might get rejected 9 times. But its the one that gets approved that matters. Being a nice guy means the same but a little bit better perhaps, lets say 4 out of 5… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 03:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] #2 First make out with a 10You sounded like you felt alot of pressure. With this kind of nerves, you did the best you could. you encountered some personal problems, faced them, and made the best out of it. Jolly well done sir. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 11:12 PM |
| 2 | For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.Glory is yours :) | /r/seduction | 28/05/12 11:25 PM |
| 1 | [Intermediate] ''Shit Openers'':Haha, this fits me perfectly, will definetly try it out ! + 1 for you. | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend gets me jealous. I don't know how to handle it/respond.If you have learned from this then you should know this. be Alpha. You are the boss. let her know you are not oke with this. if not, break up. I dont care if you are 16, or 50. you are young enough to find someone that doesnt make you feel insecure. What NickTDS said, I second that | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 11:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] See a girl sitting alone at a restaurant? Invite her over to your table.Nice story :) and like you said yourself, its an awesome compliment :) | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 09:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl on a BikeJust keep in mind, you dont have to close everything with a number, kiss or whatever. just close it with a good feeling. You had fun, got a good story out of it. Boom there you got your close. Just have fun and play around! | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 10:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Thank you r/seduction. OK Cupid date K-close, with a little help from my friends (you guys!)I feel like getting into the field now myself ! nice FR. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 06:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The dance of seduction prevailsGood story, nicely told :) was a nice read! +1 karma for you brother. | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 09:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR]#11–12 Two online dates, two k-closesInteresting story, am curious to your FR of the next time you meet A :) | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Adding people you've seen but never talked to on FBAs a photographer it would be different, but not sure if OP is. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 02:26 PM |
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