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| -1 | “Those women should have picked better”Then you're just doing the same asinine victim blaming so many others have done before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 08:12 PM |
| 13 | “Those women should have picked better”If you failed your vetting process, then it is entirely your fault You have this same mentality for men who get cheated on or abused by their girlfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Why are feminists allowed to dictate what counts as equality?Ok I have to spell it out. Feminism itself is an illogical position. How can you be equal to your oppressor if you appeal to them for said equality? This point makes no sense. You have to realize there is a difference between saying you are equal to your oppressor (in the sense that you are inherentltly not worth more or less than another as a person) and saying you are unequal to your oppressor (in the sense that society is treating you as inferior and as a result you have to experience drawbac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are feminists allowed to dictate what counts as equality?Do you think Black people were inferior to their oppressors? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why are feminists allowed to dictate what counts as equality?You could literally say the exact same thing abohut Black people's fight for equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 06:03 PM |
| 10 | No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxiousAcrually you're proving the opposite point. "You can call me doctor" is such a benign thing to say and people should be allowed to celebrate themselves for a great acheivement. Idk how anyone can think the responses she got were warranted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Bear in the woods - let’s revisitDo you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 06:18 PM |
| 5 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Practically nobody gets consequences for being toxic on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:55 PM |
| 0 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?The difference with porn is that the vast majority of men have consumed it. So if you have a guy hating pornstars then odds are he has watched porn. Like statistically speaking. A lot of the attempts to point out womens hypocrisy focus on stuff that most of them dont even do or things that lack any statistical backing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 03:28 PM |
| 10 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAThe fact you think men cant/dont chose is the lack of accountability I'm talking about. Obviously untrue. Just an excuse to act like women alone are to blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 06:01 PM |
| 8 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAAnd yall say women lack accountability.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?You're not really in a position to call someone else dumb. Anyway, I asked you that question to make a point. It's not always a rich person saying it. Poor people say it too. The status of the person saying it is irrelevant. You can always act like the rich person is just privileged and the poor person is just coping. You can always dismiss the person saying it without even try to engage with the potential truth of the statement. Also how would a poor person or anyone know that to be true or fal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?I know what the analogy means but I notice you didnt answer my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 09:50 AM |
| 0 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?If a poor person told you that, would you suddenly believe it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 10:21 PM |
| – | Men think they are more attractive than they really areHow do you know it's settling tho? You just assume it to be the case. An average woman on a dating app supposedly has a pick of any man she wants because of how many more men there are so why even settle? Couldnt is just be that she doesnt prioritize that type of attraction that much? Is a man who dates a woman who is broke settling? Or is it just that he doesnt care about her networth that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think the Blue Pill is right?You getting close to circular logic here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesWhat do you mean delusional. Free healthcare is a thing in many parts of the world. You cant talk down to someone while sounding this unaware. You cant act like the smart one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesThe opposite is much worse. The moment anyone suggests we make the world a better place someone is sure to treat even the slightest obstacle or inconvenience as a nonstarter. Like they dont even want to try to find solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 12:44 AM |
| 28 | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.You say that like this sub doesnt spend half it's time dissecting why women are attracted to certain things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 12:30 AM |
| 6 | A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personalityNeither of these studies actually examine long term relationships. It's still just partner selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenThis doesnt happen in any significant capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Sabrina Carpenter’s new song “Manchild” is misandrist and hatefulSurely you dont think these 2 things are equivalent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 10:32 AM |
| – | Men are evilLiterally just name 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 11:32 AM |
| – | Men are evilThis is not the place for your fanfiction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 11:31 AM |
| 4 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.Even if that was true then that's a stupid reason to become a misogynist. You are responsible for your own beliefs at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 05:32 PM |
| 26 | I dont understand why people get upset about other people's unrealistic standardsThe majority of men in relationships do not meet those standards. Women arent lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.As the saying goes, " if you smell shit everywhere you go, you should probably check your shoes" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Society acknowledges that the current dating market is broken and leaves both men and women unhappy but any solution that men come up with is shamed and labeled as misogynymocking someone for crying over something stupid is still fair game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 12:26 AM |
| -2 | Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right?Romance cover novels rarely have roided physiques. They have muscles and definistion but they arent body builders. The issue with the discussion is that guys arent distinquishing between the two while most women do. Also romance novel covers arent even the end all be all for what women like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:41 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Wouldnt that harrasment itself be covered under "free speech absolutism"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 04:16 PM |
| 5 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themMen are also not enforcing any kind of traditional gendered expectations on women. Clearly youve never seen dudes on the internet react to a women who doesnt shave her armpits. Men definitely have icks even if they dont say it as often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyThis might be one of the dumbest things I've ever read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W&BP: If You Don’t Like The Manosphere, Can You Come Up With A Better Solution For Men?"I wish I wasnt overweight. The government should pass laws to curb fast food" "You could try going to the gym. It's hard to get started but you can get healthy if you put in the effort" "Oh so you're saying 'pick yourself up by your bootstraps'? How ignorant and dismissive of you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Many (not all) women don't really want vulnerability in a man for his own good. They want the guy's emotions to serve as a means for them to feel good, important, flattered and/or protected.Exactly, whenever a man says women react poorly to vulnerability It's 100% because he was trauma dumping too early and there is no nuance about that whatsoever. You say this sarcastically but what majes you think this cant just be the case a lot of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:32 PM |
| 2 | The average woman today is more privileged than the average man."Black people have it easier than white people in America because they have a lower suicide rate" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone.*Reads Title "I'm surprised a post with that title got upvoted here" *Reads Post "Oh nvm" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselvesThe amount of beauty products and care women use for themselves has eclipsed what men were doing for a looong time. They dont wake up with makeup on their face or shaved armpits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Most gendered conversations can’t actually go anywhere" Because females don’t listen they just say their opinion or emotional thoughts as facts" The irony of these two statements next to eachother is wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 03:38 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”> Guys don't get dates from dating apps unless they're well above average looks. A while ago I posted my pic on one of those websites that lets women rate your photo and I scored below average (that is to say I scored lower than what other men got rated). I was curious about the whole "It's impossible to get dates on dating apps" thing, so I tried it and got a handful of matches and a date. Again, I'm 5'6 and at best average in looks. I just don't buy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 12:04 AM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.Not saying the study is worthless or anhthing but we should take note of the caveats "Since they only have 4 minutes to interact with their partners, it is hard to truly know a person in detail. In such a short time, it is apparent that common characteristics such as attractiveness and shared intereste will more influence on a person’s decision making." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.how do you expect to meet a long term relationship? Is she supposed to fall through your ceiling into your apartment? Easy to understand why there are several stories where that literally have this happen to their main character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 09:46 PM |
| -2 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.Why are you on this sub if you are not open to the idea of changing people's mindsets? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:04 AM |
| 4 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.No its not. It's used on the internet anytime there is an example of a woman picking a single bad partner. People aren't doing research into a stranger's situation before dropping an apathetic "pick better" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you think most men would be with if they could be with any woman in the world?Low-key you're describing a lot of female anime characters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thingNot so simple to deduce actually. Even if your numbers are correct you can't extrapolate rape accusations that went to court to make conclusions about those that didn't. The very fact that it didnt go to court can mean that the likelihood of it being true isn't the same at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:56 AM |
| 17 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesBut the people OP is talking about are valuing neither. They're assuming the worst and hiding behind the concept of honesty even though they don't have enough info for their conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:17 AM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyI'm remembering earlier this year when that ship crashed into that bridge in Baltimore and collapsed it. The Black Mayor spoke about it on the news and a lot of people saw the clip and referred to him as the "DEI Mayor". He didnt do anything. Just talked about it the bridge collapse professionally the way any Mayor would. The use of DEI as an insult does not have merit inherently. A lot of people just use it to cover their prejudice. All that to say the missuse of DEI is doing the heavy lifting.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.This is kinda like saying a writer shouldn't take feedback from their audience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winmodern feminism never had the power online dudes think it did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winThe majority of feminists and even most american women are fat hypocrites tbh Time out chief. You go on to talk about how men are generalized and demonized and that makes their behavior understandable but you did the exact same thing to women. You just generalized them as hypocrites. Why do you get to do it? Shouldn't you understand that speaking the way you do has the same effect of angering women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winSo not (same as Biden) either. There's also the fact that there's audio of him admitting to doing some of the exact things he was accused of. I can't imagine if leaked audio had Kamala saying she tries to seduce powerful men to get promotions and that being dismissed as "just girl talk" by the same crowd who gave Trump a pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winThe dems ran a shit candidate The only thing I disagree with. She was probably the best choice they had given Biden's late dropout. They ran a great campaign, and her favorability was above Trump's. But too little, too late. Inflation isn't easily ignored. The price of eggs and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 10:23 PM |
| 7 | Boycotting sex with men won't work.."Biology" says men want sex more and women are totally fine just mastubating for pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:50 PM |
| 11 | Boycotting sex with men won't work..if i get pregnant with this man, will he support me This question results and less risks taken (less sex) given that yoi can't actually tell how you partner will behave when a child actually comes. Not even trying is just the safe option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:44 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winWell there's the matter of him being on tape bragging about the things he was accused of and being found liable for sexaul assault and made to pay millions. Biden doesn't have that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?Even if that were true isn't that clearly of secondary importance to actually contributing to positive change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 09:54 PM |
| 5 | Guys could put more effort into their dating profiles, pictures, and conversations to get better results. They are their own worse enemies.This is part of the reason that common advice for these guys is also to go out more for the sake of making more (male) friends. But ngl this advice gets rejected quite a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 01:05 PM |
| 1 | The popular advice "Happy wife, happy life"My opinions of them are just factual, cold logic. Gotta be the funniest oxymoron I've heard in a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 01:16 PM |
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