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- "wanna fuck" - "you like that?" - "how's that feel" - "tell me you want me" holy fuck guys learn how to talk dirty, look for active body language cues, and be proactive. Tell them explicitly its okay to say no. Ask them to guide you where they want you. Have a conversation that you are trusting them to hold their boundaries and not be a people pleaser, because it hurts You if They are dishonest. If they are a reasonable, caring, empathetic human being they'll do it! If you sense any sort of he…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/25 09:44 AM
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It's impossible to not be biased. In what way am I defending a bias anyways? Everyone is biased one way or another. Equality is reached through awareness and understanding of the biases each person has, and intervening when that bias is harmful. So I agree with you on that. It seems like you're treating this like a 0 sum game, like anything that benefits women does not benefit men, which is not the case. Maybe at some point feminism will focus on the rights of men, but they feel that women shoul…
/r/MensRights19/12/16 06:56 PM
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That's very possible. What do you mean by women's In-N-Out presence?
/r/MensRights19/12/16 05:00 PM
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I don't think that's entirely true. Maybe in mob situations where mob mentality takes over, or in venues where that kind of radical thinking bubbles to the top. I don't think a majority of feminists, or even a majority of feminist activists, subscribe to that. Largely because the only way to get any meaningful support would be to be reasonable and sensible. They may not be as loud but they are definitely more impactful.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 04:33 PM
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Well the way I see it is that there's an emphasis on empowering women and bringing them to the same standing as men. It is biased towards women, but not really Against men. I'd think most feminists would support certain men's rights positions. Also, some things feminists fight for also, as a byproduct, benefit men. Example being overturning gender roles, having a wife be the breadwinner for the family which lets the husband be the stay-at-home dad
/r/MensRights19/12/16 03:25 PM
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I wouldn't say nothing. The push for overturning gender roles benefits both men and women. An example being, having a wife in a position, generating income, and supporting a family allows a husband to be a stay-at-home father. I'd think this is something feminism encourages.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 03:19 PM
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A bias in favor of women isn't necessarily a bias against men. It's like generalizing Christianity. There are differences between Catholic Christianity and Puritan Christianity, and when that distinction is made then the differences are clear. The point I'm making is that generalizing something that, say, Puritans espouse and claiming All Christians do that is fallacious. False dichotomy. Or pointless distinction. It might be causing problems, but also creating solutions. Saying it's All Bad or …
/r/MensRights19/12/16 03:16 PM
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I wouldn't say that there isn't a specific set of beliefs. I'd think of it more like a tree. There's a core belief or purpose, something like pushing for women's rights or that women should be treated equally to men whenever possible. Then it branches downwards for there. What's the best way to advocate for women's rights? What kind of treatment would be considered equal? The problem that some feminists run into, as far as I can tell, is not realizing that even though there are some instances wh…
/r/MensRights19/12/16 09:35 AM
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The problem is that there is no single group that represents the movement. I'm not even sure there is technically a movement. There is an ideology, with its varying interpretations. Then there are a variety organizations that act based on their interpretation of the ideology. /r/feminism is an example of one such organization, but there are also the several you could find from a Google search. It's probably important to draw the line between an organization or movements that espouse different in…
/r/MensRights19/12/16 05:18 AM
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They run a subreddit on the Internet. They may influence the people who go to the subreddit, but are not necessarily representative of the movement as a whole, especially in meatspace
/r/MensRights18/12/16 11:27 PM
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I feel that stereotyping like that is baked into our brains. Heck, categorizing and generalizing is definitely built in, because it helped people survive. Being able to think, oh, this green berry killed that guy, I shouldn't eat green berries. When people aren't aware that their brain does this, however, it's kinda taken as fact. And it prevents people from really understanding or recognizing the differences between people. Or it prevents them from recognizing that at some level we are all the …
/r/MensRights18/12/16 10:55 PM
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Well I'd think the extremists ruined how you perceive it, I don't think everyone agrees with the spin that extremists put on it
/r/MensRights18/12/16 10:31 PM
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So different people can have different interpretations of what a movement represents, and encourage that interpretation. That doesn't mean that everyone who subscribes to the movement subscribes to the same interpretation, however. Although then people start running into the No True Scotsman issue when the interpretations conflict
/r/MensRights18/12/16 10:29 PM
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I see a lot of self-pity. So the idea is self-improvement. You can be authentically you in any way you choose. It is about perspective, your frame-of-mind, your outlook on the world. Sure, things suck now. Things have sucked for a while, and there's all this shit in your past that you feel is holding you back. That's the past, though. The past is useful at showing you how you got to this point. However, now we're in the present. Think about yourself, now, and think about who you want to be. Thin…
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:31 AM
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Your height is only a big deal if you make it one. Don't worry about it too much, don't stress or linger on it. Most women won't really care, and why would you want to bother with the women who would care?
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:23 AM
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I personally like Kava Bars, if there is one in your area. Its 18+, Kava and kratom are quite nice, and there's a certain kind of crowd that's generally diverse and openminded in my experience.
/r/seduction18/06/16 08:22 AM
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I remember reading that before, and I interpreted it as a generalization that advice from women 'tends' to be focused on what They find attractive, and that's misleading because you should be the best version of yourself. I hope that the advice I gave doesn't encourage her to change herself or anything, just some thoughts on looking where you think you'd find the kind of person who's into you. This is the same advice I'd give to help people find someone who likes them for being them, whether the…
/r/seduction02/05/16 08:38 PM
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What's wrong with taking advice from a woman?
/r/seduction02/05/16 07:20 AM
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I would say to keep trying to meet people and date. Be yourself, eventually you'll find a guy who's into you because you're you. The best advice I can give is to try and imagine your ideal guy, and factor in maybe stereotypical characteristics of those who'd be into you. Then try and think of the kind of places they would go to hang out. Go there. (of course, demographics of where you live would affect it. You'd have better luck somewhere urban maybe, but maybe I'm just urban-biased) Tbh, you ha…
/r/seduction01/05/16 05:54 AM
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Are you me? I think you're me.
/r/seduction22/04/16 03:11 AM
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Makes me think of "I probably shouldn't be telling you this... buuuut"
/r/seduction22/04/16 03:07 AM
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Someone who's out having a good time wouldn't be posting on facebook. Unless it's, say, pictures of you having a good time at some event with people and friends.
/r/seduction23/02/16 02:12 AM
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I just don't think about it. I mean, I doubt she thinks about what pussy your dick may/may not have been in a few days ago either. The idea behind playing the field is to eventually find someone who has ideals/values/beliefs that mesh well with yours. Until then, enjoy the time you spend together with whomever and have fun. Experience life to the fullest.
/r/seduction18/01/16 02:56 AM
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Its easy to fantasize about a possible something, but doing so is very investing. It leads to attachment that may not be reciprocated. Focus on enjoying the present and the time you guys Do share together. You have to keep in mind that just because you enjoy each other's company and you feel you may have chemistry, she may not feel exactly the same way. It's not like she's doing it to intentionally slight you, she's just human and wants to enjoy life and experience it like everyone else.
/r/seduction18/01/16 02:18 AM
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It depends. If you guys have discussed and expect exclusivity and she's playing the field then yes you should feel disrespected. BUT if that expectation of exclusivity isn't there, then you shouldn't take it personally. You can play the field too, meet more people anyways, and don't get overly invested in a single person.
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:50 AM
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I think there's a difference between chasing/showing interest, and chasing too hard/obsessing. Assholes might not obsess over them, whereas those who are trying to seduce show interest.
/r/seduction12/11/15 11:28 AM
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