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Idk abt that, I adore my bf but I definitely do not want sex as much as he does. Neither did his exes. Ig I do have a higher sex drive while in a relationship but from what I’ve been told it’s still pretty low compared to the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:49 PM
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I’m 20yrs old sir
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:39 PM
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We’re very different, the difference being that the young women in Colombia are entertaining you to get money/a visa. Do you really think they’re serious about you? Please be fr😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:34 PM
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Did he really say no men wanted her? That’s crazy his wife is GORGEOUS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:21 AM
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What are foodie calls??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:47 PM
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Why do you need to look up to anyone? What a weird train of thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:42 AM
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About a year ago I was on a restaurant date with my ex. Everything was going well until he got a text message and suddenly started acting strange. I asked if he was okay and he said no while fighting tears, he said he’d be ready to talk about it later before he left. I tried to console him by holding his hand above the table, making jokes and changing the subject. None of it worked so I just got up, hugged and kissed him. We asked the restaurant to pack the rest of our food for takeaway, and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:17 AM
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All my college friends are virgins… Myself included. But we do lean more towards the traditional side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:07 AM
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All the people saying B, why…? I’ll take A with no hesitation, pls and thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:21 PM
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Stop comparing him to your ex for starters… I will say about 50-60% of relationship arguments occur because of communication issues, so please take that into account
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:20 PM
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Weird, from what I’ve seen dudes with cats have lots of options. I myself like a guy more if I find out he has a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:07 AM
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No friends is worse imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:55 PM
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No idea who that is, but my answer is: they’re hot. Just because we find them attractive it doesn’t mean we’d want to marry them nor have a family with them. Kinda like when men salivate over porn stars but would never wife them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:30 PM
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I would, but I’m in the minority. I don’t know anyone else who would
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:52 PM
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THANK YOU!!!! I was going to make a post about this but you beat me to it, beautifully said. Women take care of themselves and their appearance more than men do. There’s no reason why we’d be attracted to guys who can’t dress, haven’t trimmed their hair and beard in months, and can’t do basic skincare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:38 AM
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Before PPD - Yes After PPD - No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:18 AM
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Why would we date men we don’t find attractive? It doesn’t matter if he’s inexperienced or not, if he isn’t appealing to my eyes I won’t want to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:08 AM
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Most of the elderly in nursing homes have kids… I understand your point but I don’t think it’s a good idea to rely on that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:14 PM
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If you think it’s a choice then it just sounds like you might be bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:53 PM
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Depends on the major? Generally women who do STEM or demanding degrees will be more busy and have less time to mess around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:57 AM
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Yeah but if you were to pick a fight with someone irl you’d choose a 5’6 guy over a 6’2 one (assuming they’re both equally as muscular)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:40 AM
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Is… is this satire? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:32 PM
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Lol the awaited straw man. Re-read my comment. It’s also funny that you chose to use a 6 year old video knowing that gender roles were more prevalent back then, and both genders were generally more cruel to their opposites. I’ve had plenty of men tell me the darnedest of things both to my face and behind my back, but you don’t see me generalising an entire gender based on anecdotal evidence. Some women definitely enjoy men’s suffering, but I don’t believe it’s most of us and you have no way to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:19 AM
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A bunch of middle aged women in a certain location aren’t representative of all of us. Can you really not see the sample bias? I just think it’s funny, because when we do advocate and fight for men rights it’s complete silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:07 AM
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Because all women think and say the same thing. This subreddit is something else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:56 AM
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Wdym by garden tools? Edit: nvm I just got it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:18 PM
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Same here!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:29 AM
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19F. Me and my friends do, but we don’t actually date them. Btw I’m talking about 5-6 years older. We’ve had the occasional crush on 40-50 year olds, but those guys are chads/were chads in their past (and we would never pursue anything with them).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:23 PM
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20 mins maybe? 40 if I have my afro instead of braids. The only makeup I use is lip gloss/lip liner. Most of my time is spent in choosing clothes and accessorising. I do follow a 3/4 step skincare routine day and night everyday. Does the gym count? I mostly do that for health purposes but I see how it influences. I could say my diet definitely aids my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:43 AM
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I don’t want to have to worry about teenage pregnancy or stds, and I find fuckboys disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:54 PM
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Beta hubby
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:44 PM
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Omg my friend is the exactly the same. It’s up to her, it is annoying to hear her complain but I can’t force her to date anyone she doesn’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:54 PM
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I wouldn't care all that much, but I'm bisexual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:20 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:18 AM
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Are the odds the same for women in tech?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:13 AM
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From what I've been told I think it refers to a woman you work with and becomes the person you interact with the most during work hours, you normally get along very well. Pretty much your bestfriend at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:00 AM
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I just realised I've been the work wife in scenario B, his gf still refuses to meet me/hang out with both of us even after 7 months of me not seeing the guy in person. I'd have to be in scenario B myself to be able to know, I'm unable to choose so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:48 AM
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I feel like a lot of men like to pretend chaste women don't care about body counts. Not sure where you got that idea from, but most of us aren't interested in fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:45 PM
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“Understandable, have a great day”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:35 PM
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I’m currently 19 and 40 is way too old. Like cmon, I wouldn’t want my daughter to become his caretaker on his last years, and be a widow early. What does she even see in him that men a few years younger don’t have? If she’s in her prime she could probably do much better. I can’t stop her, but I’d let her know what I think about it and hopefully have a serious conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:44 PM
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This is exactly how I feel about it but I couldn’t put it into words
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:44 PM
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19 Uh after I graduate ig?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:40 PM
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Woah great question I’ve always wondered it too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:40 PM
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Yes (I’m not religious), every Sunday (still live with them), last Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:36 PM
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Mmm that’s interesting I understand men’s perspective now. I suppose it’s normal for you guys to be critical as there’s no way to know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:25 PM
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I hate it, even though my hair grows slowly. I’ve always preferred the shaved look and I’ve started to look into laser treatments. I don’t like to shave, but people stare and yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:03 PM
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I’m 19. I can say that most of my friends are virgins and they’re very pretty. But tbf they’re more on the traditional/conservative/religious side. I’m not sure where men get this idea of “she’s hot so she must be ran through”. Idk what an 8/10 is. I don’t think I’m all that but I do get stares and compliments from strangers and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:01 PM
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It’s just the way things are now. Most of the guys my age aren’t interested in anything serious. Hookup culture is on the rise and men just assume the worst about women (example: I’m a virgin and some people don’t believe me, I’ve been told it’s because I’m attractive but it still rubs me the wrong way). More and more men are getting into the red pill and judging women based of it (my ex broke up with me because of that but wanted to get back with me a few months after). I also barely know anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:09 AM
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I mean, yes? You don’t see me judging men for liking pretty girls with big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:52 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:33 AM
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To me it just sounds like you have no standards, aside from the girl being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:46 AM
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It's not fair for women either. Gen Z here, I'm so close to giving up hahah :,,,)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:37 AM
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My ex is autistic, I’m not sure if I would date another autistic man. He was brutally honest to the point of flat out insulting the people he supposedly loves (and their family members), also has 0 friends and he didn’t see anything wrong with it. I tried to be understanding at the beginning, but I eventually got fed up of the behaviour. We broke up for reasons unrelated to that, but I’ve told him his behaviour makes me not want to date him until he decides to care about people’s feelings and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:33 PM
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this. I became attracted to a guy who played hard to get (his friends told me he was interested in me), and I lost interest quickly after that. I’m not chasing anybody, tell me what you want or stop wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:43 PM
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I deny it because I’ve experienced it and I didn’t lose attraction to him. I felt pity and did my best to console him, but I was glad he was able to be vulnerable with me. Imo it depends on the reason why he’s crying. I also look at women sideways when they cry about issues I wouldn’t take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:28 PM
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Lmao down horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:49 PM
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This is the dynamic with my parents and my mom has already started to resent my dad/would rather not talk to him. Honestly you both deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:47 PM
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Mid 20s - 30s is fine. 40s is pushing it. I’m pretty sure most would agree that the average 40 yr old male is much less attractive than the average 20 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:01 PM
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Why would women care about his status or finances if all they want is casual sex? The good looking guys who get 0 play must be socially awkward or lack confidence. I can’t believe someone who looks like Michael B Jordan or Robert Pattinson doesn’t get any play. The average woman, oh wait are you American? In that case forget I said anything we have very different depictions of what the average woman looks like. My friend is broke but has a lot of confidence you are right. Mm I never saw it that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:37 PM
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Yes good looking guys get most women, same way men want to be in relationships with the most attractive women. Women might be hypergamous, but let’s not lie: the average man is much less attractive than the average woman. That’s why I’m baffled when I hear men complaining. Like even if you’re ugly they’re so many other ways to boost your attractiveness (have money, be funny, groom yourself, be confident, hit the gym), yet you’re still complaining. I have an ugly 5’6 friend with a beer belly who …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:43 PM
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Most girls aren’t looking for casual sex, period. It doesn’t matter how attractive the guy is. And I’m not surprised. My point is that the men are the ones looking for it and eventually they get what they want even if it’s not on a regular basis. Some will even lie about wanting a relationship to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:09 PM
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What’s there to address? I’ve never had sex with anyone so I’m not a good example. But I know questionable looking and socially awkward men who still got to hookup, I wouldn’t have given those a chance either. When you try 10000 times eventually you’ll get lucky at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:51 PM
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Dude, very few women are looking for casual sex. The demand for them is high, but the supply is low. They get to be extra picky for that reason. That’s how things are now but the tables will turn in the future once they want to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:32 PM
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Like the comment below said, an even smaller percentage of women are having casual sex. Hell, some of my friends won’t even consider dating apps to find a boyfriend. I have no idea why you guys think we’re all riding the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:20 PM
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Amen my sister
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:00 AM
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“The vast majority of men are not” then who are they having sex with? 9/10 times when I speak to a guy online all they want to do is hookup. And tbf this is sample bias, I’ve noticed some patterns between people with a high body count at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:12 AM
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I personally don’t think I’m a catch but here it goes Slim, fit (gym), beautiful (have been called gorgeous), good cook, very freaky, virgin (could be a pro or a con, i’m also 19), love anime (i go to anime cons), I read, studying to become a software engineer, open-minded, I like dancing (hip-hop & bachata), loyal, very organised (because of bad memory), funny, Good with kids, don’t smoke, Don’t drink, Don’t do drugs, very goofy once you get to know me, close to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:01 AM
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What about hip hop?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:30 AM
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I wouldn’t call it a serious crush as I had no feelings for him (i do feel things for crushes). I want my first time to be with someone I care about, and I had a bf at the time so that’s why I didn’t do anything. But otherwise yeah I would’ve had sex with him. Like I said maybe it doesn’t apply to most women, but a big part of us can pump and dump and not feel anything, depending on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:59 AM
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Definitely not, from what men have told me. I don’t think I’d be a virgin if that was the case. Maybe not most women, but I think a lot of us feel this way and refrain from doing it because of the consequences or societal expectations. Most women won’t even have sex with the men they DO feel an emotional connection to at the beginning, in fear of him thinking they’re hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:50 AM
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One was a total stranger. Another one was a dude from class I barely spoke to (I had a bf at the time and felt no emotional connection to the classmate). The classmate was interested in me but I kept my distance from him, the only thing I felt was sexual attraction and didn’t want to date him whatsoever. When it comes to celebrities I would say all those 18+ fanfics and photo edits they make about them say otherwise. My friends often make sexual jokes abt those celebrities, but idk if they’d act…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:33 AM
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It’s both. A mild crush and I’d have sex with them. But keep in mind I’ve only felt like that twice out of all the men I’ve ever interacted with. I think that’s how women feel about certain celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:25 AM
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Idk tbh. I thought I needed an emotional connection for sex but I find myself fantasising about complete strangers. I think it also depends on how attractive the man is. There aren’t any studies on this so it’s hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:31 AM
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No we don’t 😭😭😭 everyone knows it’s a hookup app
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:23 AM
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Ig that’s true for some women. But I wouldn’t say it applies to the ones that participate in hookup culture. Do you really think they go on tinder and drive to strangers houses looking for an emotional connection? They’re just horny and looking for the same thing the men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:11 PM
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You’re high on copium grow up. You need to find someone who likes what you have to offer and stop pity posting on this sub. I’m a fit woman and being thin and athletic isn’t a hard thing to do, and I’m not everyone’s cup of tea either. Also that’s a false equivalence btw. The beauty standard isn’t thin and athletic women, it’s slim thick women (small waist, big boobs and butt).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:59 AM
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The link name was the tip of the iceberg it made me laugh out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:32 PM
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In the 3rd one she just kept going damn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:14 PM
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Is this satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:09 AM
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If I wanted sex I’d be having it instead of being here, no shit genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:32 PM
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Huh??? I saw you in another sub and you’re not ugly at ALL. Literally everyone in the comments told you so. I’d be considered less attractive than you (I’m a dark skin tomboy and dnt wear makeup) and I still have some luck with white and black men as a WOC. Idk what it is but it’s definitely not your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:03 PM
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And then they're like PICK BETTER MEN YOU EFFING WHORES
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:26 AM
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Yeah the double standards ik. It’s part of the reason why I’m not seeking a relationship. I want love but not to give it back and I acknowledge it’s selfish therefore refrain from doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:06 PM
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I’m not waiting for anything 😭😭. I’ve had sexual experiences but not sex, they were enjoyable in varying degrees. I just don’t feel like it anymore idk. I would put so much effort into sexual interactions and they mostly turned out to be meh. I can’t say I enjoy kissing either. Ig you’re right on the reactive drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:59 PM
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Ig I fall into number 2. I’m 19F virgin. And idk I can’t miss something I’ve never had. It doesn’t seem particularly pleasant either, many of my female friends complain about how selfish or bad guys are in bed. I also don’t feel like putting in all that effort for the guy to find me attractive (shaving, being mentally prepared, actually do something and not be a starfish). I’d enjoy receiving oral or being touched though, I just don’t want to have to reciprocate lol. And no I’m not asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:45 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks for letting me know, he's even more of a piece of shit than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:16 PM
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How do you explain the fact that he never insulted me until I did that though? When I got mad he even compared me to his ex saying she'd never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:05 PM
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It was on purpose and he admitted to it. He was a sexist piece of shit anyway and I'm glad he showed his true colours. I just regret not having enough of a backbone to dump him myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:42 PM
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I'm literally a virgin. We had this dom/sub thing going on and he would push me to go further everytime with my consent. He got off on it because he was the dominant one and I had never done it before with my exes. He asked me to do something while on videocall and I reluctantly did because I knew he was going through stuff at that time and maybe I could cheer him up. I end up enjoying it and he did too. Everything was fine until he called me a slut the next day out of nowhere. I told him it hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:27 PM
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I second this. My ex called me a slut after agreeing to do acts that HE proposed. I completely lost my sex drive around him. Haven’t been interested in sex with anyone since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:05 AM
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I think they might’ve lied about being virgins…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:02 AM
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I don’t wear any. People think make up is harmless but that’s not true. The more you wear it the more likely you are to dislike your natural appearance, it happened to me and many other women. I know a girl who glued on false eyelashes for days. She had a breakdown after she took them off, during that time she also had 2 tiny pimples on her face and she kept calling herself ugly and crying. That lasted until she put on new eyelashes and used concealer to cover the acne. She herself said women sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:57 PM
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You’re generalising but I kinda agree. Lots of women will still have sex regardless of the legislation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:05 AM
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There was a post about this in r/ childfree and most of the women with high libidos agreed that they’d go celibate. Tbh sex with men isn’t that pleasurable to risk going to jail over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:54 AM
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I chose 3 first because idk what his definition of low value is. If it means an average guy who’s like 5’7, makes 40k a year, is loving and caring then sure that’s the best possible outcome. I interpreted low value as a guy who doesn’t respect me, cheats, is lazy/no ambition etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:14 AM
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Many people I know and myself included grew up with religious parents and lean progressive. Just because you’re raised with some beliefs doesn't mean you will adhere to them strictly. My partner was raised jewish and he considers himself religious, but I wouldn't say he takes it seriously (he celebrates Christmas, doesn't go to church, doesn't pray and does many things that are considered sins), meanwhile I was raised with conservative strict christian parents and I'm an atheist. None of the rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:13 PM
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Ah well in that case I can understand. What I like to do in those situations is ask them questions. Why they think that way, how did they get to that conclusion, etc. If it's just a biased opinion with no weight or facts, I simply ignore it. Often they realise what they are saying doesn’t make sense and let it go. There are a lot of ignorant people in the world and you won't gain much from engaging in debate with them, you can’t teach someone who doesn't want to learn. If they have a way to back…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:52 PM
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Why are you telling other people about your bedroom stuff? I'm not trying to slut shame you, I'm speaking from experience. I'm like you, submissive but I don't let anyone know. When you tell people about your interests and beliefs you're inviting them to judge or try to prove you wrong. Surround yourself with like minded individuals instead. You find out a lot about a person from how they speak of other people when they think you agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:16 PM
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