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| 1 | Do you think that in the age of equality, we should push for a 50/50 dating culture?i don't think dating or relationships work well unless it's 50/50, but that doesn't mean every aspect is split 50/50. it's just an overall feeling of give and take. in some ways you might give more, some ways you receive more. i'm not going to nickle and dime it to death tho. once you start feeling you're giving more than you're getting, that's probably when it's time to re-evaluate if it's worth the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 10:03 AM |
| 14 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?lmfao rolling on the floor. i struggle to imagine it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:06 PM |
| 35 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?i'm not paying anyone's rent if we're just dating. jesus christ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Q4FandM : why does virginity matter or not matter to youthe only instance i can think of where virginity would matter to me is if they were saving it for religious purposes or for someone special, and now we were about to do it. i'd want to know that cuz i'm not down for commitment atm and i wouldn't want to disappoint if they were hoping/expecting for something else. however, that's on them to tell me - i'm not going to go fishing for this information. i only knew the body counts/losing virginity stories of my two serious exes cuz you just share and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 09:37 AM |
| 5 | Do you think parents are mostly to blame for lack of success in dating?to be successful in dating you need social skills, and it stems from childhood. doesn't help when parents do not encourage their kids to be actively social - like have friends in real life and not just play Xbox and iPad. my brothers and i were constantly active when we were kids. summer and winter sports, church club, summer camp. we all had social jobs working in restaurants by the time we were 15-16 and yk - none of us ever had problems finding girlfriends. i'm not particularly extroverted ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makenot it's not government funded child support; parents are still liable to pay child support. it's a government benefit on-top of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 02:46 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makeokay but for clarity, the government of Sweden pays child allowance, which is different from child support. Swedish parents are still indeed liable to pay child support. from your source: The parent who does not live with the child must pay child support (underhållsbidrag) to the parent with whom the child lives. Child support when the child lives with you If you do not live together with the child’s other parent, and he or she cannot pay child support (underhållsbidrag), you can apply for maint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 02:43 AM |
| – | If you aren’t succeeding at dating apps, it’s your faultno it's not. dating apps are not designed for people to be successful. just like life coaches and diet coaches don't want their clients to succeed, tinder etc need most users to fail most of the time so they keep coming back. bet the staff at tinder aim for a 15% success rate max, just enough for someone to know someone who knows someone who matchs once in a while. Do you dress well? Do you have goals in your life? Do you have high standards for yourself? Can you hold a conversation? one can har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:33 AM |
| 18 | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenbut you said 'almost always' talk about men. see op above. up until recently i lived in a houseshare with four attractive young women who also often had female friends over and i can vouch they weren't 'almost always' talking about men. they mostly had normal conversations. work stories, what's in the news/politics, gossip about friends/family, same shit men talk about. so i can't help but think you're stereotyping and perhaps don't hang out with enough women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics.Alot of guys don’t actually find women attractive. They like cosmetics. so what tho. a lot of women don't actually find women attractive. they like cosmetics. y'all are worse, in fact, the way you tear each other down Regina George style. you know it happens - that book was written by a woman and then that film was written by a woman and was a massive success. do men like make-up? if it makes a woman look more feminine when they would normally look like a man, yeah sure. surely most women don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | (MI) Wife has threatened suicide if I leave. She made an attempt this weekend.where do you live? reddit has subreds that might be able to help ( r/legaladvice or r/auslegal for instance). i would find your jurisdiction and post your question there; you won't get actual 'legal advice' but potentially someone can offer a link in the right direction. the short answer is yes tho. coercive controlling behaviour is domestic abuse and the court would consider that if you applied for an occupation order, forcing your spouse to leave the home and you stay there with the child. tha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/23 06:52 PM |
| – | My bf dumped me for a boring girlsame filter, same poses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your Attractivenessnahh wardrobe is the single most important controllable factor when it comes to attractiveness. takes such little effort you don't even have to leave the flat; just order something online. and bearing time for shipping, the right outfit can instantly improve your appearance - don't have to wait weeks to see an improvement. just put it on and the right outfit can hide a fat stomach or add weight to a small frame. don't even have to afford a gym membership, which can be expensive and often a strug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:07 PM |
| 11 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstwomen don't want you because you aren't 'self-actualized' in neoliberal sense: not having the right career, the right education, the right social life, the right fit body, the right conversation skills, the right emotional intelligence... i don't understand why one must date in order to work on any of this. you don't need to date a woman to work on conversation skills and emotional intelligence - you need friends. that's what friends are for. gym, education and career doesn't require dating; tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 06:06 PM |
| – | You wanna know why it’s hard for men to find casual sex? I’ll tell you why.I’m prepared for the comments that may come, but I’m just putting my experience out there so you know what it’s like for us women. Thank you. i don't understand why this is a change my view when all the op is is describing a personal experience and personal reasons for rejecting a bunch of nimrods. should the flag be discussion and not a cmv? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 04:29 PM |
| 6 | From 2007-2017, the percent of young women that have casual sex declined from 31% to 22%. For young men, it declined from 38% to 24%this is a very narrow group of people aged 18-23. just pointing this out cuz 'young' is sometimes misinterpreted. but yeah, this is not new information. numerous studies state young adults are having less sex because of arrested development. video games, porn and online chatrooms enable antisocial behaviour. personally lived in student accommodation for 3 years and had flatmates who never left the flat; not even for class. these are adults in their so-called 'prime' who have the opportunity to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If age gap relationships are wrong, so is dating a person with mental issuesMental illness is a diminished function of the brain in some way and mentally ill people are more likely to be taken advantage of including in relationships. perhaps, but i have very much seen the opposite far more often, in that those with mental health issues take advantage of the person they are in a relationship with. they use their partner as an emotional crutch; they expect them to put up with all their abusive horseshit then blame it on their mental ilness and their depression cuz they 'c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mockedoh crap i posted it below. sorry didn't realise you had already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 06:19 PM |
| 83 | Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mockedhave we not heard of the song Teenage Dirtybag by Wheatus? it's the male version of the song in the op - nerdy teenage boy likes hot popular girl who is dating the popular jock, who is such a dick he even brings a gun to school. in the end, nerd invites her to an Iron Maiden concert and they live happily ever after. it's an international hit with 251 million views. 20+ years old and i still hear it played multiple times a week in the hotel lobby. see link below: https://youtu.be/FC3y9llDXuM pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?the woman in the video doesn't say she chose a high flying career over children. she could have been trying to have biological children for the last 10 years for all we know. my sister-in-law's first round of IVF was when she was in her mid-twenties and it didn't take. when that happened she fell into a debilitating depression and then her and my brother had to save for a few years to try again. costs $10-15k just for one round and if you're not made of money and so depressed you can barely get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 09:08 AM |
| 8 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?that 60% are single statistic that is regularly used for argument is defined as men who are not married, living with a partner, or in a committed relationship - not that they are not dating at all. there's no reason why a man would lie about his relationship status here - not like anyone in his life is going to see it. the reason there are more single men than women under 30 is because there is obviously more pressure for women to 'settle down' earlier than men. as red pillers point out, women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Crazy ex-girlfriends (or boyfriends) aren't crazy. They're abusive. Calling them crazy downplays the seriousness of their actions.my ex has antisocial personality disorder, as in they are a sociopath and legit pathological liar and must seek professional help for it. when we were together my partner lead an entire double life i didn't know about and after we broke up hired someone to hack into my emails and a private investment to find me wtf??. admittedly i get a bit perturbed when i see others flippantly use the terms psychopath, sociopath and narcissist to describe their ex when they really mean unusually abusive behavi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Causing arousal isn’t the same thing as causing happiness/enjoyment in a relationshipwhat do red pillers mean by 'bad boys'? like what are these lads doing that makes them bad? idk man. i know the bad boys got the girls in highschool, the lads who skipped class and drank and smoked weed outside the gym, but when you get into adulthood being bad gets increasingly difficult because you have less authority figures to rebel against and there's obviously the expectation that you're ambitious and responsible and not selling drugs. also if this is about 'low-commitment sex' as stated i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 05:31 PM |
| 45 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?smoke. at least everyone on the internet men and women say it's unattractive. in practice to my knowledge it's only been a dealbreaker for one person and i've dated a bunch of non-smokers, two long-term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV Im going to fully put it out there and say for people below thirty you DONT see many average couples out in the real world any morei don't know how anyone can realistically change your view on what is your life experience unless you give us your address and we all venture out together. obviously your neighbourhood could be completely different from mine. i will say where i live my local shop is below student accommodation, across from a cinema and and there's a gym around the corner. when i go to buy groceries i mostly see mid-large sized groups of young people aged 15-21 and singles and families. i don't see many couples a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 10:00 PM |
| – | If she is on a relationship for money with an older man, the man still gets a better deal.. unless there is divorceLet's imagine the relationship lasts 4 years, and then she gets a better man or a higher salary herself. Of course, it can be sad for the man, but there is not shortage of economically disadvantaged younger women to date for men who earn more, and on average men choose careers that pay more. just hard to imagine the above scenario happening in real life. i hang out with working professionals - engineers, bankers, healthcare workers - and i'm in law school so surrounded by people who don't have m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 09:26 PM |
| 4 | People should dress modestly in publici don't know how someone is supposed to change your view on what is a personal preference. i like red; you like blue. hey i win! Others may react with an unpleasant upward and downward comparison. They may think your body is more beautiful than theirs and now their self esteem takes a hit and they may experience envy or humiliation. this is weird tho. why should someone care if their beautiful body makes someone, who is likely a complete stranger, insecure about theirs? their feelings are their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:16 AM |
| 7 | Are Woman in America are different?not American but i lived, worked and partied for 6 years in downtown Sydney, Australia, and buying rounds is just standard behaviour, mate; it's not really about being 'nice'. glad you had a good time with these girls but believe you me Oz equally has its fair share of princesses. pretty girls who reapply their lip gloss at the table and check themselves out in the mirror every few minutes, and there's no way in hell they are buying lads the first round. just saying can't really judge any countr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 08:04 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset"of course it would be hypocritical, but women who dislike Andrew Tate do not date men like Andrew Tate - this is the lie some of y'all been sold. women can spot these Tate fans from a mile away and are repulsed by it. no, a man who works out, is successful and masculine =/= Andrew Tate. me best mate is 28yrs old tall, althletic, into all kinds of sports, physiotherapist, alllll the girls want to fuck him. his mindset is the opposite of Andrew Tate which is why he charms the pants off everyone. l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.men and women use each other for their bodies in short term situations, ie one night stands and fuckbuddies. money is not an issue here because person is gone the next day. meanwhile, men do not use women for their bodies in long term relationships. looks are a bonus indeed, but no man is going to commit to a woman who can't benefit him financially. might not be her direct finances, but rather sacrificing her time so he can make the finances. see? it's all about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:58 AM |
| 22 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitMen who travel for dating, romance, LTRs or just NSA sex can generally be categorized into four different groups: Expats. These are men from the United States who move to a foreign country, marry a woman from that country and live there as husband and wife. no, they can't. and no one here is complaining about expats. expats are by far and large those who move overseas for work - they don't move overseas for pussy. when i moved to Australia i was an expat and knew dozens of them, maybe 50. Asians… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What is something that men find attractive about men that women are generally indifferent to? What is something that woman find attractive about woman that men are generally indifferent to?men care way more about their muscles than women do. least most lads i know do not lift weights and still manage to take home good-looking chicks. women fancy fake-ass orange tans, caterpillar eyelashes, long-ass ugly nails, hair extensions. at least most of the women under 30 around my neighbourhood do and it looks hideous. i guess that's not indifferent tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:30 AM |
| 9 | Passport bros is the only optionThats for you to figure out, ideally you should bring money to establish yourself and so you aren't slumming it with the local ideally? no mate, not ideally; it's a requirement for many passport bros destinations. if you want to stay longer than a tourist in Thailand, for instance, you must prove with your visa application that you have sufficient funds to take care of yourself. if you can't do that, no Thai visa for you. Overseas tend to have an easier visa or immigration than 1st world nations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:53 PM |
| 19 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sWhy do men wait til they’re 30, 40, 50 to suddenly pikachu face and realize they want to settle down with an early 20s woman? i don't think it's the fact they are waiting. i think in most cases they are involuntarily celibate and then hoping they can relive their youth with a 20 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Conception should be based on consentThe ability to revoke consent is something Important to me and I hope it's important to everyone else. i recommend looking into revocation and contract law before throwing legal words around. most importantly, you and your partner cannot contact another party into your legal agreement - that being the fetus soon child to be born. how would you like to be a party to your parents' mortgage without signing the agreement? you'd likely sue them if they forged your name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever give a reformed OF model with a promiscuous past having a high body count a chance if she changed her ways ?promiscuous past i don't care about but OnlyFans probably a sign we are not compatible. i don't endulge in porn tho; i'm not a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:24 PM |
| 25 | CMV: "The bar is in hell" is a true statement.......but only for modern women.Let's face it. Modern women will sound like right wing Republicans when giving men advice in lieu of our dating woes. They'll tell us to suck it up, pull up our bootstraps, work harder, stop complaining, stop acting entitled to women, fix our personality, life isn't fair, etc. And I'm actually perfectly fine with this stoic advice for men believe it or not. But then they'll turn around go completely soft on fellow women in lieu of their dating woes. what's wrong with right-wing republican women?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themi reckon young women expect Red Lobster from young men, not old men. if they expect Red Lobster from old men i agree, that's something very telling about this lady. reminds me of my mother-in-law whom at 20 met and married a 40 year old man cuz he could offer her a place to stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | The continued rise of sugar datingmoney has always been the main thing, mate. looks don't pay rent. when were serious relationships based on looks and personality? looks and personality are bonus points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 02:22 AM |
| 21 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.or scaretactics(they want a green card!when only 20% of these international american male foreign female couples divorce compared to 60% of american couples) i thought the passport bros were moving to these foreign countries and so not sponsoring a foreign spouse into america? wouldn't that make more sense so they can live in a culture that respects them and their height? the rest, mate - tl;dr. really if you want a serious change my view, less is more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 10:33 PM |
| 0 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketyes. same opportunities - different skills. taking into account the wholeee resume, not just one as you suggested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketyep the interview is the opportunity. the interview isn't based on one factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 01:50 AM |
| 0 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketwhere did i say key words weren't a factor? that doesn't mean you won't automatically get an interview or can't interview with someone of a lesser university. care to address the rest of my argument and its comparison to dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 01:48 AM |
| -2 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketYou’re more likely to get more interviews(dating opportunities) and call backs simply because the ranking of your school. the above is literally untrue. going to a prestigious uni in itself does not make an applicant more favourable cuz employers take into account the entire resume including grades and work experience. hence, if you went to a lower ranked uni but have better grades and better work experience than someone who graduated from a prestigious uni and has nothing else, you may both get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Why some men have absolutely no standards?most men have never had high standards, what are you on about. their standards have always been vagina, no job or education or money required. can you give birth and raise my offspring? application accepted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 01:51 AM |
| 0 | Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to datingl. If you have an ugly face, you can't put on makeup to enhance it (i know women usually say something like this when someone brings it up, that men can also wear makeup. No woman would ever date a man with makeup on). i suggested this as a thread in unpopular opinion once a while back, that the stigma on heterosexual men wearing makeup needs to end, but it was rejected saying it was a 'popular opinion'. that's the biggest bullshit i ever heard. going that far against the gender norms would frea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Why is being a tall woman a bad thing ? Why are man attracted to petite woman ?i think you're making some false assumptions here, mate. i don't know any lads who have a preference for short women. i don't live in Thailand tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:14 PM |
| 14 | In general, traditional, conservative and virgin women don't interact much on redditwell no of course not. they're also not in r/feminim. maybe they in r/prolife or r/christian? r/conservative? there's probably a baking subreddit somewhere. i don't think red pill men come to this subred to talk to conservative virgin women tho. they want to converse with their fellow red-pillers and argue with women who disagree with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV:We should raise men like women or men more emotional.Men commit 90 percent of violent crime,rape,murder,kidnaps,financial extortion,robbery,accidents by DUI,physical assault etc.and who is going to raise men to be more like women? violent men raise violent men - if it's not their fathers then it's the gangs they hang out with. yes it's a bit of biology but mostly socialisation; you just have to google criminology. it's not a matter of inventing theories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Conservative religious (often virgin) girls often go for Chad, not conservative religous guysthey aren't conservative religious if they're going for those outside the faith. they're lying to themselves and so are you if you want to be outside the faith. pick a side and don't be a hypocrite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Advice to men: Don't be fooled by those who advise you not to co-habitat or date, nearly all cases in family court are marriage related. If you don't sign the marriage certificate, there is little chance you will end up in family courtif you want to protect your property in the UK do not cohabit with your partner as even if it's solely in your name they can earn a beneficial interest in it, meaning a right to occupy and a right to a share in the value of the property. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 10:23 PM |
| 5 | We (women) wear makeup for ourselves is not 100% falseBecause that sounds vain. If I admit to that I will appear shallow and vapid no not shallow and vapid. saying that makes you sound insecure, self conscious, you need other people's approval in order to like yourself - all traits that are unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 09:01 AM |
| 11 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?people lie to each other all the time to get someone to sleep with them. what's next, gonna call it rape if the man tells the woman he loves her and will never leave her, she sleeps with him, gets pregnant, and he ditches? gosh 'he told me he loved me' happens farrr more than the lying about birth control; can't even imagine how many men would be in prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:27 PM |
| 10 | Legalizing Prostitution would solve most of the issues western men face and women know it CMVwomen don't want to date men who sleep with prostitutes, so these men will never get what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:23 AM |
| 10 | The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men…If people want to get rid of the Tate movement and the eventual tidal wave of copyers/grifters it brings they need to start showcasing successful men that actually match the type of men who are successful with high numbers of beautiful women in real-everyday life (Im looking at you all the Harry styles/K-pop/Feminine Men Stans) no that won't convert Tate fans. that's like saying just show Trump fans Barak Obama and they will convert. no they won't cuz whilst Obama may be extremely successful, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Its not that hard for a women to score a rich manhardly anyone makes 300k so yes, it is hard to score one, just like it's hard to win a lottery of that size even tho all you need to do is purchase a lottery ticket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 08:18 AM |
| 9 | Given that there is a list of things that men are expected to do in relationships that women aren’t, what is a list of things women are expected to do that men aren’t?Provide children? A lot of people, including myself, don’t want kids. you may not want kids but for those that do - which is still the vast majority - women are expected to be the primary caregiver and sacrifice her career to do so. she literally also sacrifices her body to be pregnant and give birth. have you seen birthing videos? looks like a fucking nightmare, sometimes vaginas rips right down to the anus. sacrificing vagina and anus surely is just as good as sacrificing one's coat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is a trap and its also a substitute for love.Only idiots would want to bring legalities into their relationship, and Marriage just a way of legalising love. marriage doesn't legalise love; love has nothing to do with it. it's about commitment and stability. it solidifies the family unit as historically, at least, marriage was about two people raising children together and marriage makes it harder to get out of that deal - this is what makes societies thrive and grow. societies made of a bunch of bastard kids running around loose do not thr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs.i don't understand what you want us to change your view on. or is that a mistake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not ideal for women either, except for women that want only looks in meni agree but since this is a cmv i will try to plead the opposite. personally know two married couples who met on dating apps: both men in these relationships are not physically good-looking. both couples started long distance so potentially physicality mattered less(?). still it proves that looks aren't the be-all end-all. their standards were not the typical things you find in this subred. in one case the woman is overweight. in the other case, the man has been divorced. these aren't your Leona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.But because you're basically a slave to biology, it doesn't seem like it's stupid because you can't look at it objectively. i don't believe men are a slave to their biology; that's a cop out. men are a slave to socialisation which has made them believe their comfort and security lies in women - that women exist for that reason, to be the carers of them. they certainly don't look to men for that, which is why so many are friendless and their dominant focus is women who can fulfill that need. many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Women who claim men left them after sex are just shifting blame to menThe fact is that men just don't leave if they can get frequent sex from a woman. Even if the guy is a psychopath, there is no reason to close that opportunity. If they leave, after all the effort, it is because either she is flaky, giving contradictory messages, being irrational, being entitled, etc. i'm so confused. first paragraph says 'there's no reason to close that opportunity' and then goes on to list 4 reasons why man would leave. i can think of others too: she's clingy, she's moving too … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 10:15 PM |
| 7 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....note that men who want traditional virginal wives are still jerking off to women in porn everyday - they like and want the benefit of both. christ almighty i can't imagine the levels of depression these men would drop to if they didn't have porno. hence, these men don't want all women to succumb to their purity standards, only enough of them. ofc it gets harder when women start having sex for themselves and not for men, but then there's always Thailand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Young men will always follow people like Andrew Tate and those like him so long as women discriminate based on things men can’t control more than things they canthere's no incentive for women to lower their standards. you think they're afraid of Andrew Tate and his followers? lols no - not at all. remember that 'small dick energy' that went viral and made men cry all over the world? teenage girls too reckon he's a joke. yes, ofc there will always be blokes that harber those misogynistic views, but it only hurts them so why should women care? they don't; there's plenty of regular lads in the sea. plus, since when is dating a case of charity? if dating is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?I see these stunning women in social media with unbelievable beauty, women with unbelievable bodies, women I consider charming, women that are what I believe are what men that could have anyone would like to date. what women think is beautiful is not what men think is beautiful. y'all insist that what looks good is loads of makeup, fake hair, overly done eyebrows, tanner, long-ass nails, long-ass eyelashes, don't get me started on the clothes. i imagine it's some kind of status thing - 'the pret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:59 AM |
| 1 | You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat personyou hang out with the wrong class of people. i don't know anyone who shames others for liking fatter people; if anything they are seen as more virtuous because they're apparently less shallow. but since this is a change my view i will have to argue against this. I need to not have all this social discrimination and peer pressure on women to not date fat people, nor is it fair everyone is playing the same game here, mate. some people choose to stay in shape whilst others choose not to. that's a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 04:38 PM |
| 9 | Where is all this "men are lazy, useless, losers" rhetoric coming from?yes - men dominate the work force by and large. saying women dominate the workforce would be taking the piss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 11:43 PM |
| 3 | What common themes do you see perpetuated by others in this forum that you never see in real life?i agree about the money/income disparity. i work in law and my friends are various engineers and medical professionals and they all date women in the same league work-wise. no, they're not going to date the office receptionist. they might shag the hot girl serving them drinks, but it's not going further than that. never in real life have i discussed body count preferences with men or women. it's a non-issue. idk if women have unlimited options online, but they seem to have enough to not take the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 10:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV : If you want to live by the traditional values, then u also have to accept the disadvantages that comes with a traditional life. This applys to both genders.what do you want us to change your mind on, that you have to accept the disadvantages that go along with a traditional relationship? well if you're a trad man you don't have to accept anything you don't want to because you're the one in charge - you decide the rules. a submissive wife goes along with whatever you say; she basically has to because, as the op points out, she's 'lowkey screwed' if she leaves since she has no career. no, education isn't her safety net. it doesn't mean shit without w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Why won’t my situationship commit to me?you've only been on 'many' dates and he's busy traveling, of course he's not going to commit to you. also, if you don't have citizenship there it's not desirable to get attached to you because you can't automatically stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 02:25 PM |
| 3 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)Don't know how we're supposed to change your view when it's just up to personal experience. Me, i've gone out with plenty of women who asked me out and then payed the bill. My last girlfriend did it because she didn't want to feel like she owed me anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Who is generally viewed more positively by society, a single man or a man with an unattractive girlfriend/wife?are we in high school? must be a high school scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:41 AM |
| 28 | Eleanor Williams jailed over false rape claimswhat the hell is this. from the article: Before Judge Altham began his sentencing remarks, the defence read a letter from Williams in which she said she knew she had "done wrong over some of this" and was "sorry" but added she did not accept she was guilty. what did she think was going on here. ffs this isn't fun and games - three men she accused tried to commit suicide from this hell. this woman should never see the light of day, 8 1/2 year sentence is taking the piss. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/23 04:28 PM |
| 32 | Debunking the myth that women cheat because they "weren't feeling loved" or because he's a "bad boyfriend".it's worse when women do it because they want their cake and eat it -- your paycheck and the other man's cock. well sorry i was busy feeding your ass, that's not 'love'. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/23 12:40 AM |
| 8 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingi don't see red pillers saying they don't need women. some of them will immigrate across the globe specifically for pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:52 PM |
| 10 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVyou didn't answer my question. do red pill men want to be used for money but can't be used in america? you're a millionaire and you still can't get a woman to sleep with you in america? geez these women have high standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 11:58 PM |
| 39 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVis it that red pill men want to be used for their money; it's just that they can't get used in the west because they don't have enough compared to other men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:09 PM |
| 15 | CMV: Chris Brown Is the Ultimate Example of Why the Red Pill Is Correct.many women also are attracted to and stay with wife beaters on low incomes. i have many in my close family, proving it doesnt take good looks or money for some young women to forgive scumbag abusive behaviour, just offer a roof over their head and the ability to not work for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:35 AM |
| -2 | The way men get porn brain, can women get “attractive guy they had sex with” brain when it comes to sex with future partners?correlation =/= causation. the good-looking men were likely better in bed having more experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 12:15 AM |
| 6 | The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexualityno, the current dating situation is that men think women are sexually liberated and so have these expectations that they should get laid by them, but that's not the case. women are selective because society still shames them for having 'high body counts' and tells them they must have romantic feelings in order to have sex and that the ultimate goal is marriage. if they weren't taught those things, they would have sex like men and just fuck anything; that would benefit men who struggle to get lai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 10:02 PM |
| 2 | The way men get porn brain, can women get “attractive guy they had sex with” brain when it comes to sex with future partners?My understanding is that whilst women appreciate a good-looking man, their orgasms do not derive from it so no, sex won't be a disagreement based off looks alone. If they do miss that good-looking fwb it's because it made her feel special to be wanted by a good-looking man, just as it would make a man feel special to be wanted by a good-looking woman. Bit of an ego boost is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:33 PM |
| – | Men are not intimidated by tall woman just not attractedSimilar for short man ; are woman not attracted to short man intimidated by them ? Are woman intimidated by short man ? can't be intimidated by someone smaller than you. The thing is tall woman are considered masculine ; men are not attracted to masculinity yeah because their masculinity threats their own - that's why they don't like it. men need to be the masculine one in the relationship; they don't want her competiting for that title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this advice for how to be in the top 5% of men?"It doesn't take much to be in the top 5% of men. Dress well. Smell good. Lift weights. Don't be a pussy. Have a meaningful purpose." LMFAO no!! unless he thinks 95% of men are just pieces of crap. holy shit, that's all it takes to me in the top 5%?? smell nice?? EDIT: The top 5% seems too narrow. What if it said top 25%? no you're looking at this the wrong way; all that stuff won't even get you a job interview. you need to be able to talk to people, do something with your life to put on your CV… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:14 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costwell evidently these women are used to hanging out with money. things become less impressive when everyone you know has it. maybe start hanging out with pretty girls from a lower class; they do exist. didn't Britney Spears come from a trailer park or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:31 PM |
| -1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyAlmost things women want to prevent or avoid is mostly about avoiding responsibility: avoiding responsibility because she knows full well the one who impregnated her won't take responsibility. cuz she knows he's going to ditch, she has to make a tough decision. there's never going to be a 50/50 power when it comes to pregnancy, man. you want power and control then wear a condom and don't have sex with pro-choice women or have a vasectomy. fact is once that child is born the child is a person and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:31 PM |
| 4 | 10 Stories That Show How Horribly We Treat Male Rape Victimsthe 'hot' teachers having sex with their students is the worst. yeah, she was hot therefore he must have wanted it as the horny teenage boy. ffs don't give boys enough credit. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Every single plot for women main characters is them getting wet over a bad boy when they dont want toThis makes society believe women should be able to cock carousel and only settle for top % of males or they will eventually regret it What is this cock carousel? The character in the netflix film is a fucking suburban housewife. The top % of males aren't bad boys. Sure, some of them are up there like Mark Zuckerberg, Chris Brown, Donald Trump, Charlie Sheen. All got money, criminal accusations, hookers and class A drugs - but that's the minority of the top %. The rest of the top % have money, re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | That point at which everything that needed to be said has been said. Do you go back and refine, or reach for more?child custody prison reform and rehabilitation sexual and physical abuse isolatation/loneliness second one is rarely talked about outside the system, which is disgusting since everyone on the inside knows it doesn't work. it just creates career criminals then leaves them on the street, can't get a job or proper housing, have no friends or connections so go on to reoffend. who cares about these men is what i want to know. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/23 09:32 AM |
| 12 | Why Men Are NOT APPROACHING WOMEN At The Work Place Anymorewell no, because you look at them the wrong way and suddenly you have a meeting with HR. christ, sometimes i think men and women shouldn't even be in the same room. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/23 10:20 PM |
| 4 | UK: Love Island hit by hundreds of Ofcom complaints from furious viewers over 'toxic femininity' row.what's worse is that in the UK you just walk down the street to find dozens of women who are obviously trying to copy those chicks on love island. hard to get a wood around here, ykwim? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/23 08:25 PM |
| 2 | I got told by GP to go hospital and speak to psychiatristdid the GP give you prescription for the meds or were you supposed to get that from the psychiatrist? ok, you don't want to talk to the psych about suicidal thoughts. who else are you talking to about this? do you need to take time off work for your own safety? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/23 12:39 PM |
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