| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | For those of you with verbally abusive and controlling wives, how did you feel after divorce.Liberated | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when she has a good comeback to your teasing?"Touche 🤺 That's why I like you (so much). You're smart AND funny! | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 8 | Wife suggesting we won’t make it as a married couple. All because of Trump.There comes a point where you have to decide if you have any autonomy in this relationship. You're a man. Set some (reasonable) boundaries and don't sell your soul to keep a mentally ill person happy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU makeTexting before brain is fully engaged. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Update on my exgf kicking me outOne reason it's a bad move is that with all of the information that is readily available regarding relationships, why in Heaven's name would you begin a new relationship while you're still grieving your prior relationship? And if you did choose to do so, why would you not ensure that some form of contraception was in place? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 12:52 AM |
| 7 | Wife started dating an older man as soon as she said, "I want a divorce"Dude, you can bet that she has been emotionally distancing herself and in the process of setting up her Plan B for the past 3 to 6 months. That's the way many of them do it. They do their grieving, they get a plan together, and then they inform you. So it's really not sudden from their side. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Just discovered long affair while on vacationHave you guys been pretty much in a dead bedroom for that 5-year span? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here have experience with a grey/gray divorce?Well, we were both fully retired at the time; and we do live in California. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone here have experience with a grey/gray divorce?Well, we were both fully retired at the time; and we do live in California. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:08 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone here have experience with a grey/gray divorce?When we decided to divorce, we agreed that we were both completely committed to keeping all related discussions amicable for the sake of our two late teen boys. Also, we didn't want to find ourselves in a situation down the road where one or the other of us would feel awkward attending an event such as a friend's wedding, etc. So, to this end, we split everything 50/50 right down to the penny. I had made a good living for many years, and she was a great SAHM, and our boys have turned out great. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/24 02:42 AM |
| 3 | How do you justify leavingBefore agreeing to divorce: I had to be able to look at myself in the mirror and say that I had done everything possible, and everything within my power to make it work. That's just me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Wife wants a divorce.Repent and make amends with everybody you directly or indirectly mistreated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Alimony 11,000 a month for 5 years 10,000 /month 5 yearsDude that is one cheap ass attorney. You may have under invested in your most strategic resource. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Did you ever feel like getting back together with ur ex?Misalignment on values is a deal-killer for most couples - at least ultimately. IMO, no amount of attractiveness will compensate for a values mismatch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/23 12:10 AM |
| 2 | If you’re in Los Angeles and looking for a support groupCool. Thanks for your service! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | If you’re in Los Angeles and looking for a support groupDo you know if there is anything similar in the SF Bay Area? 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Realizing some thing about my mother in my late 40s.Yep. Like many of us you may have been "imprinted". Imprinting is important for raising the young, as it encourages them to follow their parents. This is referred to as "filial imprinting." For example, in the wild, animals learn to hunt while watching their parents hunt. In humans, babies learn to speak by mimicking their parents' speech. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone thought they can't have the in love feeling again?Well, I guess I'd classify it as my expectation or prediction. IME, our "loves" are not all created equal - and the most powerful ones don't come along often. So I just don't expect to find another, and have no interest in anything less. But I'm ok with that. I will live with my sweet memories and a bit of hope that she may realize she made (another) big decision without fully understanding ALL the consequences. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone thought they can't have the in love feeling again?Well, I guess I'd classify it as my expectation or prediction. IME, our "loves" are not all created equal - and the most powerful ones don't come along often. So I just don't expect to find another, and have no interest in anything less. But I'm ok with that. I will live with my sweet memories and a bit of hope that she may realize she made (another) big decision without fully understanding ALL the consequences. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone thought they can't have the in love feeling again?You sound "numb", which for me means I'm not even close to being healed. I'm older. I will never have that powerful love again. But it's ok. I only want her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 07:06 AM |
| 7 | Wife wants to separate as she isnt in love with me any more and I'm brokenNew 🐱 is the last thing on earth I want. 🤢 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | So, my wife decided that enough as enough, we will get seperatedThis is a crazymaking situation/conversation. Is she in therapy? If not, she needs to be or you should leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Walkaway WifeOuch! (She wasn't "mine" - it was just my turn). 😭 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/23 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with a friend last night after a year without any. I hated it. I was not ready.Go slow at first, to go fast later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/23 10:09 AM |
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