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JasonUncensored/r/seduction10/12/12 04:46 PM
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21

Not yet.
/r/seduction13/09/13 12:58 PM
2

My other issue with video games is that they don't your mind. They don't what your mind, exactly?
/r/seduction14/05/13 04:08 PM
3

What if that living situation is permanent? Are you recommending just giving up on trying to pick up girls?
/r/seduction13/05/13 02:00 AM
8

I was born in Florida, and I live in Virginia now, but my Dad was a smuggler and my mother was a stripper, so perhaps the "North-South dichotomy" thing didn't apply to us. I live with my Dad now, and he and I have a bit of a Gentlemens' Agreement.
/r/seduction13/05/13 01:59 AM
0

I've thrown phones before, but only in very specific circumstances. If you can make it land on a couch, if it's an older brick-style phone that definitely won't break, etc. It can be a very effective move, whether you throw their phone or your own. Why would you throw your own phone? Let's say you're talking to a young lady and you receive a text message or phone call. Take your phone and, without even checking who it's from, hurl it out of earshot. This communicates that the person you are with…
/r/seduction10/05/13 10:41 AM
11

Because after much longer, she will be way past good-to-go.
/r/seduction15/04/13 05:11 PM
12

recognize that behavior for what it was, either the guy's parents did not raise him with any manners and he's still yet to learn any as an adult (unattractive), or he is only putting minimal effort into me because he is trying to get laid and that's it (also, unattractive). That is one of the most ignorant, stuck-up, sexist things I've read in a long time from a person who wasn't just clearly trolling. As it turns out, manners mean different things to different people. I, for one, don't care whe…
/r/seduction07/04/13 04:58 PM
1

is only interacting with me because they want something. Accurately or not, now you know how most girls feel.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:54 PM
2

hey im on the complete opposite situation!! but i work out 0 times a week -.- but i think the guy has a point, ~1 year or so ago i was not even close to be able to hit on a girl at school... well 6 months in to being single i did hit on her and about 2 more since, that is 300% more than i had b4 i continued being unfit, my point is: before being dumped hard this was imposible for me... so maybe you and i friend are already half way ther and just need the next part.... which is working out.... hi…
/r/seduction16/03/13 02:56 PM
2

One does not learn the Lethani. One lives it.
/r/seduction16/03/13 02:54 PM
1

The Lethani is much harder than you give it credit for being.
/r/seduction16/03/13 02:51 PM
18

It may be immoral, but that's not really the issue. The issue is whether the techniques work.
/r/seduction15/03/13 09:30 AM
3

"If you talk to enough people, some of them will have sex with you."
/r/seduction09/03/13 07:02 AM
1

Relevant
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:35 PM
1

It is not a comparison. That's like saying that you only consider it competition(which you apparently feel very, very strongly about) when you're the only competitor. When your competition is doing well, you just write it off as not being worth comparison.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:33 PM
1

I wish I could quote OP on this, but he mentioned that some of the "chodes" were obviously into the seduction thing.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:29 PM
6

So does "chode" just mean "other man", or what?
/r/seduction02/03/13 06:25 PM
8

a one room shack in a third world country Dude, his hand probably isn't that bad.
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:03 AM
35

A few people on this subreddit may disagree, but just like with any knowledge base, select the advice that applies to your situation and ignore what doesn't. You can get a lot of great information here about how to pick up your "Meaningful Relationship Girl" when she finally comes along, and you'll be glad you were ready. That said, I recommend spending some time flirting with other girls. Any girls! That way you will be ready for MRG when she comes along.
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:03 AM
0

It's not baking bread without flour; it's stealing flour, then breaking into someone's house to bake it. I go out of my comfort zone constantly, otherwise I'd just be at home, alone, nearly all the time. That said, my comfort zone never seems to grow. The things I enjoy doing don't change just because I keep doing things I don't like. For example, I go to the gym three or four times a week. I fucking hate it, even after going regularly for months. There are people there who recognize me and smil…
/r/seduction24/02/13 12:28 PM
37

This is one of my biggest sources of trouble. Honestly, I'm not at all confident or happy in my life. In a lot of ways, I'm disappointed in and ashamed of myself. That said, I still want to have sex with women. The /r/seduction community doesn't like people taking half-measures, though, so while I can't get direct, real advice from this community, I can occasionally glean information pertinent to my needs. This community makes a lot of assumptions about its members: you have your own place, you …
/r/seduction24/02/13 04:29 AM
21

To be fair, he's looking for some of those viable excuses.
/r/seduction23/02/13 12:23 PM
1

I couldn't find clutch in the glossary, but I assume it wasn't meant literally. What does "clutch" mean in this context?
/r/seduction29/01/13 07:00 AM
14

So, too, are we all our own sick fucks. Let us reflect on this.
/r/seduction22/01/13 01:33 PM
50

Also, make sure that your best TV is visible from your bed.
/r/seduction17/01/13 03:42 PM
-6

Wait, what?
/r/seduction05/01/13 05:07 PM
-12

But there is no logical explanation for why! Believe me, I'm even more frustrated about the whole thing than my detractors. By the way, it's not "everybody" who thinks I'm unreasonable. I have a significant quantity of upvotes on my comments in addition to the downvotes. Just because the majority disagrees, doesn't make them right; ask an evolutionary biologist.
/r/seduction05/01/13 05:05 PM
-23

PLEASE. LOOK IT UP. I've already defined it in this thread!
/r/seduction05/01/13 05:03 PM
-29

Ah, there's the issue. Clearly I'm not merely mildly intelligent.
/r/seduction05/01/13 11:59 AM
-12

If our intrepid hero were to have actually gotten arrested for this, the charges would have been along those lines.
/r/seduction05/01/13 11:09 AM
-14

*you're And I'm not replacing any words in my quote, am I? If so, which word?
/r/seduction05/01/13 11:08 AM
-16

I don't know what you're like; we've likely never met. You may not be an ignorant asshole. But you sure are coming off as one. The girl in this story said that OP grabbed her and dragged her to Starbucks. That sounds pretty aggressive and persistent to me. Please: I know that you "fucking hate people", but if I'm wrong, even after all of this, I'll accept it. If it doesn't make sense, where is the break in the motherfucking chain of logic?
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:37 AM
-17

Is that the problem? People don't know what the word molest means? molest: to pester or harass (someone), typically in an aggressive or persistent manner. If you don't agree that the girl claimed that OP molested her, you're wrong. The guy behind the counter says she said I grabbed her out of Chipotle and dragged her over here If OP did not grab her out of Chipotle and drag her over to Starbucks, then yes, she is lying.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:29 AM
-23

The guy behind the counter says she said I grabbed her out of Chipotle and dragged her over here.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:14 AM
-24

The guy behind the counter says she said I grabbed her out of Chipotle and dragged her over here.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:14 AM
-42

[sarcasm] Ah, "shut up". It's a classic. It's the appropriate way to say "I've run out of logic" in every argument. And I'm proud of the way you attacked someone with almost two hundred downvotes from this single topic; you must have worried about whether people would have agreed with you or not. [/sarcasm]
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:13 AM
-22

Yes. I know an alarming quantity of stories about women claiming to have been raped, though not by me. To be fair, though, I live in a Navy town, and most of the stories are about young sailors.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:11 AM
-16

I appreciate that you feel strongly about this, but is that supposed to make me experience an emotion other than disgust or pity? You are one of the women who, frankly, shouldn't be posting in this subreddit, and you just told me that if you had a dick, you would rape me with it. This is really what you think drives men: you believe that having a dick is enough to cause rape. You disgust me.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:10 AM
4

If you were really an asshole, you wouldn't care as much as you do. If you truly hated women, it would be easy to just fuck 'em and get over 'em.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:36 PM
4

I have the same issue with many of the things in my life. For example, I want to be a writer, but if I feel like people aren't going to immediately acknowledge my art as the greatest work they've ever read, I get discouraged.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:35 PM
1

Oh, I understand, and it's not really that big a deal to me. I've had many very positive relationships in my life, and I look forward to many, many more.
/r/seduction02/01/13 10:10 PM
1

Also lucky.
/r/seduction02/01/13 10:08 PM
2

Which is very similar to the odds of me marrying.
/r/seduction02/01/13 05:26 PM
0

Like I said, it's not a concern for me; I don't want to get married anyway. Are you saying that you have no dealbreakers? You'd be as happy marrying a woman with downs syndrome as you would anyone else? AIDS? A previous marriage with a relative of yours? I admit, I'm a bit closed-minded when it comes to women I'd marry.
/r/seduction02/01/13 03:35 PM
7

Plenty of times I have called a girl and then had sex with her. It's not that complicated.
/r/seduction02/01/13 02:00 PM
24

This fails utterly when she simply doesn't call you back, though. It's a very optimistic strategy, but it's not very proactive.
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:37 PM
2

I'm probably just selfish. I want to be the only dick in a woman's life, and if that's not enough for her, then she's not good enough for me. That said, this only applies to marriage, which I don't plan to do for another decade or two anyway.
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:30 PM
1

Honestly, I don't get myself into situations like that. My previous two girlfriends actually worked for Planned Parenthood at different points in their lives, so I was relatively convinced that they wouldn't refuse to have abortions in the case of accidents. In my experience, it's important to make relationships with women who share your concerns about situations like that.
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:07 PM
1

Oh, I date non-virgins almost exclusively because, frankly, that's most people. I'm simply not planning to get married until I find someone who's literally perfect for me; and by definition for me, that woman is a virgin.
/r/seduction02/01/13 10:12 AM
-2

Honestly, I prefer for a girl to have never slept with anyone before me. Perhaps it flies in the face of logic, but that's how I'm wired. I love knowing I'm the only man who's simultaneously occupied the same space as her. I've had many partners over the years, but I can guarantee that I would personally not marry a girl who had ever slept with someone else. Not that I plan to get married any time soon, but still. None of this should apply to anyone else, I was just throwing out how I feel about…
/r/seduction02/01/13 10:03 AM
4

I usually just say that with an upvote.
/r/seduction02/01/13 09:56 AM
1

don't ever get into something because you think it'd make you look better. Except for working out.
/r/seduction01/01/13 03:49 PM
-85

Indeed. This girl literally cried that OP was attempting to molest her.
/r/seduction01/01/13 01:25 PM
4

Being relaxed is actually a lot of work when you're just starting out.
/r/seduction31/12/12 01:57 PM
7

Just ask them, women can usually articulate what they want pretty well. (bwa ha ha, I hope no one thinks I was being serious)
/r/seduction31/12/12 01:56 PM
-96

That's like saying that 'crying wolf' is claiming you've been eaten by a wolf. Just like with everything, there are degrees.
/r/seduction31/12/12 12:29 PM
-98

That's... the entire story up there. It's about a young woman doing exactly that.
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:33 AM
17

rushing back, bantering to the guy AFTER he told you she's uncomfortable, going BACK to starbucks to talk to the guy again If I went to a place often, as OP seems to, I would talk to the employee(s) there about it, too. I don't want to have to avoid a place I like because the people working there think I'm a potential rapist.
/r/seduction30/12/12 12:37 PM
-117

That depends. I've seen a lot of women, even the ones who post in this subreddit for some reason, who cry rape with alarming frequency.
/r/seduction30/12/12 12:35 PM
6

Yeah, but she's... you know... seventeen. Depending on how Palm Springs works legally, that could be an issue.
/r/seduction30/12/12 10:18 AM
27

This is fair, in that the results of his attempts at seduction are determined by what best drives a narrative, but on the other hand, James Bond is a fictional character as well. Just because something is derived from a work of fiction does not mean that it has no substance. Nor does it mean that there is nothing to learn from it.
/r/seduction30/12/12 10:11 AM
34

This is the one. "Do something about it," or some variant thereof, sounds perfect.
/r/seduction30/12/12 10:03 AM
24

That's pretty much every pussy. Some of them just don't know it yet.
/r/seduction30/12/12 02:59 AM
1

Grammar SS, Spelling Spetznaz, Locution Asha'man...
/r/seduction29/12/12 03:46 PM
2

I, for example, would have meant it sarcastically. It is indeed a control thing, one that I personally wouldn't be willing to give up. I don't mind giving out my number, of course, but if a young lady pulled this on me, it's safe to say that I would put her out of my head immediately.
/r/seduction29/12/12 03:43 PM
11

I once saw a guy hitting on a woman at a bar, and she actually said, "Keep sarging, bro, and it'll come naturally to you eventually. You'll find someone eventually, and you'll be just like every other fuckwit out here." When she walked away, I could tell the dude had no idea what happened.
/r/seduction28/12/12 12:26 AM
1

Sometimes it's not.
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:19 PM
277

I've made this mistake. And this is excellent advice.
/r/seduction25/12/12 03:05 PM
13

OP's still fucking her, man. Give him a minute.
/r/seduction23/12/12 06:25 PM
1

*work as well
/r/seduction22/12/12 05:30 PM
1

By definition, "going too far" is when something becomes a problem. Until you cross a line, it can be difficult to determine what's "too far," and the only good way to know comes with experience.
/r/seduction22/12/12 05:28 PM
1

You're not turning any tables, though. Emotionally, I disagree with a lot of what I read here as well, but epistemologically, it's frequently very good, if manipulative, advice.
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:54 PM
1

That was a recommendation for what to text her.
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:52 PM
1

"It was fun seeing you at the party at [friend]'s house, sorry I had to bail. Let's go [do something]." It definitely beats "do you like me? circle one: yes - no - maybe"
/r/seduction18/12/12 03:57 PM
9

How did you mess up laying the groundwork for the second one?
/r/seduction18/12/12 03:52 PM
3

Honestly, I don't have a problem with that if it helps them work on their confidence in the long run.
/r/seduction17/12/12 02:37 PM
25

This community tends to frown on that sort of thing.
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:32 AM
6

Hell, I've always been a square, and you sound like you've got your shit together better than I do. I'm a good boy, a nerd, I don't do drugs, don't drink much, etc., but I've only got an Associate's degree and I'm making about $12,000 per year. Also, I'm 29 years old. Don't sell yourself short, man. The best years of your life are still ahead of you.
/r/seduction16/12/12 08:14 AM
2

If a girl refuses to have sex for what seems to me to be too long, I worry about what her sexual baggage might be, and I tend to lose interest.
/r/seduction15/12/12 04:41 PM
1

No way, not here. Besides, I'm sure most of us have those stories.
/r/seduction15/12/12 11:29 AM
4

Of course! I assume everyone is my friend until they prove otherwise. This works well in most situations.
/r/seduction14/12/12 08:50 PM
9

Lemme check. No.
/r/seduction14/12/12 08:33 PM
33

I agree. When you're a decade or two older, the "I'm a hugger" thing will make you cringe, but believe me: I've said and done much, much worse.
/r/seduction14/12/12 07:43 PM
13

Basically it's touching another person to build rapport with them. What's rapport? ... look, I'm not going to hold your hand until you post some pics, bro.
/r/seduction14/12/12 07:42 PM
9

Hell, if we assume "1 in a million" among living organisms, there are even more of her! And if we assume that "1 in a million" refers to clusters of cells...
/r/seduction14/12/12 01:04 AM
2

Even if you don't like it at first.
/r/seduction12/12/12 02:15 AM
2

The thing is, we nerds tend to not get out much.
/r/seduction12/12/12 02:14 AM
1

I believe that every viewpoint is valid and should be considered for incorporation into one's personal philosophy.
/r/seduction11/12/12 09:06 PM
2

Actually, I was recommending that he get over his oneitis and go after other girls. There are plenty of them out there, and there's no sense creating any more turbulence in this girl's life than he needs to. Get over her first, then if he gets a better chance with her later, go for it.
/r/seduction11/12/12 08:29 PM
1

I don't think you should forget about the girl entirely, but I think that if you try to move on from her, when the opportunity to scoop her up comes along later on, you'll be in a better position mentally to handle it. Best of luck to you!
/r/seduction11/12/12 08:27 PM
1

One of the things you'll hear is that you shouldn't blame the dude, that you should lay blame squarely on the women who you're no longer seeing, but I don't think that's fair; not entirely. Everyone has their own personal beliefs regarding what makes a person a scumbag, and it's always a little easier for someone else to be a scumbag than ourselves. I've always hated the "finders-keepers" mentality that most PUAs seem to have.
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:58 PM
7

I know it's not a popular opinion to share in this community, but I recommend respecting an existing relationship until it has run its course. Regardless of what happens, you'll be the bad guy. If you can handle that, fine, but sometimes it's better to be a decent person than to get laid. Here's something to remember as well: That awesome chick that you're into? The one that's totally in your head? She's banging another dude regularly. Probably right now. You should take a step back and be a lit…
/r/seduction11/12/12 11:51 AM
2

That's not feasible for most people. I know.
/r/seduction11/12/12 11:45 AM
2

This is my problem; I'm just a big nerd, and I have to do things that I don't enjoy to meet girls, so I'm never really comfortable.
/r/seduction11/12/12 11:40 AM
10

went to a place near my house What does that mean, exactly?
/r/seduction11/12/12 03:52 AM
1

I say this sort of thing, but I feel bad for saying it because it's inevitably a lie.
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:33 AM
7

From reading posts over on r/malefashionadvice, I'd recommend getting him a gift card to H&M, if possible.
/r/seduction08/12/12 05:52 PM
1

By definition, most people are about a 5. Also, your looks may be 7 to 9, but there's much more to it than looks, the scale should also include your social value. You may be very attractive, but if you are the type of woman who looks down on everyone else, or who says things like "I can get sex from men right now. My real issue is being to[sic] shy to approach men I'm INTERESTED in," then your 'value' might be quite a bit lower. In this scenario that you've laid out, all that you've told us is t…
/r/seduction08/12/12 05:15 PM
1

Can anyone remember why?
/r/seduction07/12/12 03:21 PM
7

I prefer to think of myself as Grammar SS; other Grammar Nazis just aren't as committed.
/r/seduction07/12/12 02:01 PM
14

I've heard there is, can anyone remember it?
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:32 PM
23

I can't even tell which is the fourth sentence.
/r/seduction07/12/12 03:06 AM
1

Yeah, you're right. Words themselves don't mean much, nigger.
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:03 AM
-1

I wasn't taking pickup advice; I'd have said the same thing. I agree with his sentiment, not just the wording.
/r/seduction06/12/12 11:48 AM
1

Never say never, man. There's times it'll feel right, and you should go along with it.
/r/seduction06/12/12 08:32 AM
3

There's quite a bit more to a healthy relationship than waiting for a girl to "let you inside of her". In my experience, attraction goes both ways, and no woman has ever "let me inside of her"... they've always wanted to fuck me.
/r/seduction06/12/12 08:32 AM
3

But the code should be flexible to allow for variation.
/r/seduction06/12/12 08:29 AM
7

I kind of agree. Saying "You can get the next one," sounds a bit more playful and less like a calculated business transaction.
/r/seduction06/12/12 08:29 AM
1

Pussies don't suck your dick. Well, they do, but it's not... Whatever, I'll see myself out.
/r/seduction06/12/12 08:25 AM
3

Hmm, good point. The thing is, beauty is subjective, and in my eyes, a girl begging to suck my dick just became a lot more beautiful.
/r/seduction06/12/12 08:23 AM
1

I'm 29, and I've only recently started drinking. It's not that I've never had any alcohol before, just that I never really had much, and I didn't know much about what I was drinking. ... and I'm not going to drink beer. I don't even want to acquire a taste for it. So it's completely feasible to be nearly thirty years old and be as clueless as a teenager about liquor.
/r/seduction05/12/12 03:23 PM
3

There is a limit to a person's responsibility.
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:16 AM
9

It's true. Think about how effective the phrase "I want to suck your dick," would be, coming from a beautiful woman.
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:16 AM
4

I thought I was with him until he explained himself. Then I learned that I was not.
/r/seduction05/12/12 02:13 AM
3

I don't talk to everyone, but I have begun talking to people at times when we'd otherwise just be standing awkwardly or something, and it has worked out very well for me, especially when out having a cigarette or something.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:46 PM
1

AFC gamers, or people who happen to find a lot of happiness in something you don't understand? I feel the same way about sports, man, but I don't talk down to people that are into them. I don't understand why grown men watch other grown men run around competing with one another, but if people like to watch it, I don't have a problem with it.
/r/seduction25/11/12 06:33 AM
2

And that's fine, I find people who don't play video games or read books very often to be stifling people, uninterested in intellectual affairs.
/r/seduction25/11/12 02:32 AM
2

I looked it up, and I disagree.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:35 PM
8

The trick is to get her to text herself something sexy with your phone.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:34 PM
16

The thing is, you could say this about any hobby that's not making you money. I like playing video games, and I have vicarious adventures through them, but I know it's not likely that I'll pick up girls by saying how many digital dragons I've slain. That doesn't mean I have any less fun doing it, though. Don't give up your hobbies just because you're not doing something you think is more productive during that time. Sure, you could be working, at the gym, or sleeping 24 hours a day, but so what?…
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:03 PM
2

Hell, I've read it all several times, but I still have to check it when I read articles like this.
/r/seduction24/11/12 02:57 PM
2

That's my issue. Self-confidence and openness are great, but if you live in a trailer with your Dad and make under $10,000 a year working full time, it's hard to find and hold on to those keepers, you know?
/r/seduction23/11/12 06:01 PM
10

Everyone wants someone they consider out of their league.
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:59 PM
1

Heh, I suppose I must be supported by the weight of my convictions. They're remarkably strong.
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:59 PM
31

That's why you're attracted to them, man.
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:02 PM
4

There is a world of difference between confrontation and "Some people just need to get their ass kicked and they will be a better member of society." That's straight fucked-up.
/r/seduction23/11/12 12:21 PM
3

I wasn't looking for some pseudo-alpha posturing, but you are a goddamned menace if you really think that way.
/r/seduction23/11/12 12:19 PM
2

From what I've read over there, it's not much help if you really don't have a high social value. The advice is pretty much fake it 'til you make it, but there's only so much the seduction community can help with when it comes to getting your life together.
/r/seduction22/11/12 08:50 PM
1

And leave it up to whoever's bigger to decide right and wrong?
/r/seduction22/11/12 08:04 PM
1

Like a bitch? No. Like a boss. It's never appropriate to throw the first punch, no matter how much shit is being talked. We live in a society, and if you can't function like you're in one, then you deserve the results of your actions. Every fight I've been in, I did not initiate the violence. Likewise, every time it's happened to me since I got into my twenties, the other dude literally got jail time, after I beat his ass. That's how you handle things.
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:11 PM
9

It depends on his relationship with the guy, honestly.
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:09 PM
7

You have no business forcing people to "comply" with your fucking directives. Don't get me wrong, I've been in a few fights myself over the years, but you sound like a fucking monster. If this is the only way you know how to resolve issues, then I can't imagine anyone on the subreddit offering you any other advice than "seek professional help immediately."
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:08 PM
4

Dating doesn't have to mean sex, casual or otherwise. In fact, not being interested in sex sounds like it could be a big weight off your shoulders. You'd have an entire source of pressure eliminated! Just go on dates and meet girls that seem like they might be up to your standards and see how it goes. Maybe one of these rough gems will turn out to be a diamond for you. Good luck, man!
/r/seduction20/11/12 03:42 PM
3

Some of my favorite activities include playing video games, reading books(fantasy & sci-fi, mostly), and playing D&D.
/r/seduction19/11/12 09:56 PM
1

Indeed! I've got a similar problem with marketable skills.
/r/seduction19/11/12 09:53 PM
4

I agree with you, but finding that passion can be a chore. I don't really have anything I'm passionate about, save for things that, well, girls really, really don't want to hear about.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:55 PM
3

Black with white block lettering, man. Every time.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:30 PM
3

kind of No, sir. He comes as the douchiest bag.
/r/seduction17/11/12 04:42 PM
1

Honestly, it'll go away more and more the more you interact with ladies who seem into you.
/r/seduction17/11/12 12:04 PM
-1

I don't see why; you're both entirely right.
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:38 PM
3

These are excellent points, and I'm posting this short message so that people don't skip your wall of text and scroll past it.
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:37 PM
5

It should be pretty obvious, man. From the outside, the subreddit reeks of desperation. People think, "oh, I don't have a problem getting girls, those guys must be losers." It's not strictly about getting girls, though. It's about building confidence and being generally happier with your life. ... and it's about getting better at getting girls.
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:22 PM
0

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other whether someone accepts my "excuse" or not. I'm not comfortable with my body or my lifestyle, so yes, most of my confidence is feigned. I pretty much just read the content on this subreddit for the entertainment value of learning why other people behave the way they do, and I have little to no intention of using most of it for myself. Is that excuse acceptable?
/r/seduction16/11/12 05:16 AM
6

Do you happen to know of any good videos or guides to basic club dancing? As a young caucasian male, I feel that it would be fun to crank things and superman hoes, but I'm not confident when I'm out there. The only reason I don't really feel very silly is because if you look at most guys, they obviously feel the same way. When I do dance, I usually have a blast, but of course I feel self-conscious about it, because I'm pretty much a big nerd who's only done it a few times.
/r/seduction15/11/12 07:39 PM
2

For a guy with a few extra pounds(about fifty extra, actually), salsa dancing does not seem like a good idea until I'm back down to about 150.
/r/seduction15/11/12 07:35 PM
13

Hatred of English.
/r/seduction15/11/12 12:50 PM
5

It's not about being aggressive, it's about being confident, and you sound like you're doing fine. I'm in the same boat as you, man. Just a couple of months ago I broke up with a girl I dated for over four years. The only difference is that I'm 29 years old and a big fucking dork. Being confident about sex will come once you've had sex with more women. You'll find your niche.
/r/seduction11/11/12 04:52 PM
1

Anyone over a long enough period of time will survive without technology. Not necessarily.
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:09 AM
4

So, too, are we all. Let us reflect on this.
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:54 PM
3

If you can make it through long enough to be in a monogamous relationship, you can always claim there was a "spark" between you, or "love at first sight". That makes things a bit easier.
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:22 PM
1

While I'm in a relationship? No, not really, except with my girlfriend. This tends to lead to a rough patch for me immediately after a break up, like with most people, but other than the blue balls, to me it's fun getting back into the swing of things.
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:58 AM
3

Unlike a lot of the PUA "community," I actually prefer being in a monogamous relationship when I have a girlfriend. It makes a lot of the advice that I read seem like a lot of extra work for a significantly less-fulfilling life. This is just me, though, and my point is that each person has to pick and choose for themselves what they want to take from the advice that is out there for them.
/r/seduction01/11/12 11:50 PM
1

I disagree, personally. I prefer the relaxed atmosphere of AskSeddit, where people at every level of experience don't have to feel uncomfortable asking for help.
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:59 AM
3

There will be those who say that any love is oneitis. I disagree. In my experience, you can tell that you're in love when you have reason not to be, but you still are.
/r/seduction30/10/12 12:28 PM
3

Make sure you're telling shorter more concise stories that have a point, and a defined ending. This has always been my problem. I tend to give way too much backstory.
/r/seduction30/10/12 09:11 AM
3

*this may not work 100% of the time!
/r/seduction30/10/12 09:11 AM
1

I'm going to assume that this is worthwhile to you, and skip over telling you "not to shit where you eat." My advice is to wait a couple of weeks. Show her a bit of light flirting once in a while until she's settled in a bit, and then be as casual as possible about it. I mean, if she doesn't even have a corporate email address yet, then it can't have been very long. (Additionally, I wouldn't email her any "propositions". You don't want to leave a paper trail, even an electronic one.)
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:45 PM
2

I listen to audio books and podcasts.
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:12 AM
1

I do see a point in healthy exercise, otherwise I wouldn't go. I do not, however, derive any sense of enjoyment from it.
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:09 AM
1

I thought that sounded like a good idea a few years ago, so I tried martial arts, boxing, soccer, and a couple of other things. They're effective workouts, but I found them boring as well.
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:09 AM
1

Eh, it's just a matter of convenience. It helps to be able to filter people.
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:08 AM
3

I understand completely, and it's an issue that I deal with as best I can. It's one of the reasons that I didn't go to parties or social outings very much in the past; I would get profoundly bored and end up reading a book in the corner. When approached by girls, I would blow them off, and not in an attractive way. Girls that go to the gym are a no go? What the fuck does that even mean. I'm not really interested in girls who go to gyms. It's not really complicated. I don't find the "fit" body ty…
/r/seduction24/10/12 05:30 PM
1

Fatigue is nigh unavoidable for me, since I work from 11pm - 7am.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:20 PM
1

Every motherfucker in there is trying in some way shape or form to make themselves better. That's one of the things I don't like about the gym, personally. I'm a really super lazy guy, and I hate going to the gym. I've done it ofr years, but I don't get that "high" that people talk about from working out. It just makes me tired and bored. I need mental stimulation that I can't conveniently get at the gym, and everyone there is really just interested in that one thing. As often as I've been appro…
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:47 PM
1

I understand completely; I'm not "alpha," and I have no wish to be, but the persona can be effective.
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:41 PM
1

Sometimes, you know, it kinda is.
/r/seduction21/10/12 03:13 PM
-1

Hell, people should just start lying then. "I just got into this community yesterday and I F-closed an HB10 in the fudge tunnel. Also her sister. At the same time." At least that way they won't seem "useless".
/r/seduction21/10/12 02:28 AM
2

I dunno, man, being "ugly" has to be worse than being fat.
/r/seduction17/10/12 05:28 PM
1

I don't get it, but it's still the best answer I've ever seen.
/r/seduction22/07/12 06:58 PM
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