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| 535 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation? | JasonWwolf | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 09:42 AM | |
| 0 | Extremes (Hot or Cold) | Outer Game | JasonWwolf | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 09:19 AM |
| 0 | Extremes (Hot or Cold) | Outer Game | JasonWwolf | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 09:17 AM |
| 0 | Extremes (Hot or Cold) | Outer Game | JasonWwolf | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 09:17 AM |
| 0 | Going Ghost | Field Report | JasonWwolf | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Luck | Conversation | JasonWwolf | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 01:39 AM |
| 0 | On a losing streak. How to keep motivation? | Inner Game | JasonWwolf | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 09:43 AM |
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| -2 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayMan what is this trend of shitting on dudes when they get done wrong. You call him a simp, but don't you think blaming him and never holding grown women accountable for their actions is even more simp? | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 11:32 AM |
| 1 | LuckWill do | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | LuckYea I think you're right. This really isn't supposed to be easy or consistently repeatable. If you're doing it right you should be being highly selective and that takes time and a lot of leg work. A whole numbers game of vetting options and never settling. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | LuckYea I don't think we really disagree low-key. I don't think finances and fitness are tools for seduction, more a qualifier for the type of woman you want. Sure, a fat guy can get an inshape woman if he's balanced out his other stats and has game. And vice versa, you can be broke and fit and funny and have game, but if you really want to compete for an average woman against other men you have to be baseline above average yourself which isn't the hard part or the part I'm really concerned about he… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | LuckYea you're not wrong on a lot of points and it isn't about men vs women. My point isn't really that women are doing something wrong it's that a straight forward strategy in dating doesn't work often. I've spoken to women who say "This guy checked all the boxes but he's too nice." Or "This guy said the right thing, but I wished another guy said it." So you can be the right guy and say the right thing at the wrong time. Or be the wrong guy who said the right thing etc etc. So this whole post is as… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 09:32 AM |
| 1 | LuckYea I agree it's almost like learning a new language the way they think and operate. I can't speak kn what other guys do but I definitely no I try my best at least. And my result hasn't been women hating me or being bored by me just end up not interested at the end of the day. And the ones who are interested it takes forever to get them to lock on and pay attention long enough for me to woo or wow them. It'd be easy to say "Man I suck" and then improve, but when women get to know you they're lik… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Luck"You're doing it wrong." "Awesome, I'll just go do it RIGHT next time. Thanks for the in-depth instructions, brother." 40-70% of what, people on this sub or men in general? I'm not saying it's completely hopeless and there's nothing you can do to improve yourself, but you don't think having to do all these strategies and techniques to a hundred women day in day out for a 10% chance is kinda ridiculous? Knowing for damn sure no women are doing this much leg work and putting in this much effort in… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 08:24 AM |
| 1 | LuckHow | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 08:00 AM |
| 1 | LuckYou say blaming isn't helpful, but you're blaming me. I'm not blaming anyone it's not like something can be done. Womens nature is their nature they're random chaos it's not like you can change their nature you just have to be the best version of yourself and flip a coin til it lands on heads. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:45 AM |
| 1 | LuckPoker has constant rules and a limited number of cards. Life and women have an infinite number of random variables. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:32 AM |
| 1 | LuckWas I bad at showing it or was she bad at noticing it. You just mentioned men misinterpreting women's signals, but women just never misinterpret ours? It's always our fault? You say it's easy as if most people, men and women included, aren't single. If it was easy we'd all be getting along. I don't know I spent my 20s talking to a lot of different women and none of them were running from me screaming or passing out bored. The issues is they're unpredictable. One sec they hate you next sec they l… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | LuckYea there's definitely some potential to increase your chances and ability to generally interpret women's signals, but a woman's mood and perception can change from moment to moment. Which is where the luck component comes from. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:17 AM |
| -1 | LuckI'm not saying it's literally only 3-5 things that trigger human attraction, obviously. My point is how ineffectual direct action is to dating. Like you said those hundreds of thousands of attraction variables are mostly out of your control. And even if they were, is that really what dating is supposed to be like. Constantly hyperfocusing on the 1,000 different variables you need to master to get a date? Most things in life, like skills, work, fitness, & and hobbies, have a linear path of progre… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 06:47 AM |
| 1 | LuckYou wanna explain this difference in luck and seduction? Why everytime a guys like "datings hard" someone has to call him an incel? I'm not an incel I can get a woman eventually it's just time-consuming, expensive, and needlessly difficult. I'm not saying it should be an easy layup, but the return on investment isn't there. You're not technically wrong. When you have a problem, the best way to solve it is to analyze the failure and do better next time, but that's my exact point. Most things in l… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | LuckYea it's no doubt being peak attractiveness or physical fitness, but even outside of that it isn't even really about difficulty it's just random luck. You'd have better chances on a slot machine. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 02:08 AM |
| 2 | LuckHm good point. So you want to max out as many stats as you can and then be in as many situations to have an at bat to potentially succeed. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | On a losing streak. How to keep motivation?I do meet people in real life too pretty much same result this is just my latest stint in the app game. I don't really want short interactions, I want a long-term relationship. I want to talk to an actual person, but it's kinda hard to do that when they flake and don't show up. Any specific advice for in person cold approach? | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | On a losing streak. How to keep motivation?To get into a relationship. I won't know until I actually get consistent dates out if them , but my initial interaction is that they're interesting and I want to get to know them more but I'm rarely getting past 2 dates if even getting to the 1st date at all. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | On a losing streak. How to keep motivation?Don't wanna come off as being dense or not taking the advice, but what makes it my "fault" and not just a lack of compatability that isn't anyone's fault? Outside of that I hear you. I got a date tomorrow, I'll come with a play by play and see if I can sort out the errors. Like I said above they seem to be having fun in the moment. I'm not seeing any obvious signs of bordem or offence. They also would text pretty consistently. So I thought if I go two days without texting and they actively hit m… | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | On a losing streak. How to keep motivation?Yea guess you're right | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 03:56 PM |
| 2 | On a losing streak. How to keep motivation?Understood. Any texting tips? I'm presentable on dates. Freshly showered. Deodorant. Cologne. Ironed properly fitting clothes. Maybe they don't like my style, but that's just lack of compatability, it is what it is. I'm in the gym. 5'9 200lb black male. Still a little overweight, but I'm steadily dropping LBs. These ladies aren't peak condition themselves. I feel like I'm doing at least decent on these dates. I'm getting them to laugh pretty often. Communicate back and forth about life and share… | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!The point isn't about being cheap it's about the principal. At the end of the day it is entitlement to believe you're owed someone else's money. I don't care if it's a pack of gum, $5 dollar coffee, or $5 mil diamond ring. It's not your money so you can't dictate how someone else spends it. It's not the 50s anymore chivalries dead and women killed it. Women are adults with their own jobs and money. You don't get to cry about being equal and getting the same education and career opportunities for… | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Extremes (Hot or Cold)1.) The freedom of choice is not the point. The point is the lack of nuance and middle ground. 2.) It is. When you enter in an arrangment with someone you cant give them what you want to give them, you have to give them what they want or you dont deal with them. You cant go to a store and say yea I know this candy bars a dollar but heres fifty cents. Now if this woman has a low libido, no harm no foul we're just not sexually compatible, but when you're in a relationship you cant turn on the gas … | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Extremes (Hot or Cold)I understand the through line of consent being present thats kind of a given. Any sex without consent is r*p* so theres no version of this thats breaking that rule. The main point is both dynamics are missing crucial elements. The relationship is missing the passion and the fling is missing the connection. So from a male perspective which relationship is the most beneficial. It sucked when the woman I liked only wanted sex and dipped, especially since I thought we had a connection, but it was wa… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Extremes (Hot or Cold)Hm interesting. So push/pull essentially, even in relationships. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Extremes (Hot or Cold)So theyre usually undescided? How would you position yourself to best develop the type of relationship you want? | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Going GhostYea I agree, that makes sense. I've had similar dates and experiences and I usually just let the exchange burn out. But the main reason I hold on for longer than necessary is just because dating is so slow motion it becomes tedious and boring. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Going GhostTrue. I was holding out cause she was the last prospect I've had in a while and I didn't wanna have to start all the way back at square one. Didn't matter though so you're right. Dust settles and now I gotta start all over from scratch which fucking sucks. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Going GhostWe hugged during bowling when she got a couple strikes. No kissing. We were pretty physically close when running through the rain. Like I said she was pretty reserved and timid. Like scared animal I didn't wanna scare her off which I guess didn't really matter in the end. I didn't sit next to her though 👉. Is that weird? I thought people would wanna look face to face for date 🤔. Didn't do any cheesy attempts at romance or humor so also a good point. This girl was really hard to read she wasn't g… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Going GhostI tried moving to a date pretty much asap and she hard rejected it immediately and it took the 3 weeks to work her up to the date. She was my last remaining prospect so I didn't wanna just drop her and we had some stuff in common. What exactly is an example of "playing by your own rules" | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Going GhostYea that's what I'm thinking. I tried to escalate a little bit physically, but like I said she was real timid like a skidish cat I didn't wanna scare her off, but guess it didn't matter since I scared her off any way. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Huh maybe you're right? I'll have to look into that. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?That's not what this conversation is about actually. This conversation is about a woman who herself awkwardly interjected sexuality into a conversation, that required none. I did not want these women. I was not flirting with these women. THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT. Randomly yelling "I don't want to have sex with you." In the middle of a platonic conversation with a man you just met currently respecting any and all boundaries shows a lack of social skills on her part. I've said before I'm not only as… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?That wasn't me. The mods did it. Idk why, this post was poppin. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Yea that all makes sense. Being blunt and clear is necessary. People tell me I can be a bit abrasive at times too so I feel you. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Dawg, you're boring me to tears. I have plenty of healthy platonic female friendships. Whatever psychoanalysis you think you're getting from my comments is inaccurate. I do ask women. Which I've stated. Older women, younger women, friends, & family. Coworkers, strangers, etc. It's not contention and resentment simply because I disagree with aspects of your points. And you probably should calm down with accusations that I'm misogynistic because I simply don't understand something a woman said or … | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?You and me both bruda | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Understandable. ✌ Have a nice day | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Yea exactly. Unless explicitly stated all interactions are non-sexual until someone makes it sexual. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Exactly hahaha that's exactly my point. And I will do that | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Good idea 💡 | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Thanks for the advice | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Hm. Interesting, will do. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Thanks. Everything you said makes sense, appreciate it | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 02:00 PM |
| 8 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Surprised at all the replies to what I thought was a silly weird question. The general consensus I'm getting is: from womenbwho if they said this 100% meant it and from men who have had women say this and smashed shortly thereafter. Conclusion: respect boundaries at all times of course. Joke, flirt, escalate the conversation to see if she's being cheeky. Then act accordingly. I've so far just been saying "OK, cool." Then leaving and never seeing them again so I'll try better next time 😅. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:57 PM |
| 60 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?If I'm just out for sex. "Hey, do you want to only have sex or something more?" Not that hard. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 8 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?"Aye sorry to cut you off, but you're mad ugly fam. Iight, continue..." | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:50 PM |
| 8 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?It isn't. The shitty part is being like "Hey sorry to cut you off, but you're really undesirable." Randomly in a conversation unwarranted. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:48 PM |
| 10 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Yea maybe my energies too high. Not even sexual high, but just too hype. Gotta relax and control the conversation. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:43 PM |
| -1 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?The boundary isn't the problem at all. I love good clear boundaries and open honest communication. There's some contention though on whose advice a man should take about dating. I do however value women's input and perspective to an extent. But since we're on the subject I'd like to ask a few things. Why do you think all men should be naturally gifted with talking to women? It's a lot of men with different skills and blind spots. I don't think I should get dissed cause I just don't seem to under… | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 62 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?I mean they could always just...ask. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 11 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?That's usually what I assume. I take people on their word haha | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 12:47 PM |
| -4 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Ma'am. Relax. You're making a lot of good points, but reign it in a bit. My confusion is not because I believe women to be sex puzzles. I was curious about the juxtaposition of a non-sexual conversation I was having with a women, which I've had plenty that didn't turn out like this, where she randomly felt the need to blurt out that she doesn't want to have sex with me. I'm not touching her or in her personal space and the convo up to that point was fun and lively. As a man I don't think everyon… | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 12:42 PM |
| 63 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Huh that's crazy it seems like dealing with women is kinda like walking backwards in a way. Nothing is really straight forward. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Thanks I'll give it a try | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 5 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Hm ok thanks, noted. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:58 AM |
| 35 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?How do you respond to that though without sounding insane "I don't want to have sex with you." "Yes you do."? Haha like what that's crazy. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:43 AM |
| 73 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?How do you escalate from something resembling full on rejection? Seems counter productive on their part to tell someone you want to have sex with...that you don't want to have sex with them. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:40 AM |
| 8 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Not on a date usually at a party or gathering of some sort and sometimes it's like the 2nd or 3rd time I've met them not only the 1st. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Trouble with ScarcityI don't mean to be offensive I just set a goal for myself and I wanted to achieve it, but maybe that is coming off disingenuous. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcityOk so if a girl flakes she's done. On to the next one. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcityOk so I should be focusing on speed. Talking to as many girls as possible and any flakes get dropped immediately. How is texting someone two weeks later considered chasing? It's a turn off to women that they disrespect you? Couldn't they just not flake (disrespect) in the first place? | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcitySo the practical aspect is constantly talking to as many women as possible to gain real tangible abundance and the mental aspect is not conveying anything about my abundance or lack thereof to the women I'm currently talking to. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Trouble with ScarcityHow do you connect the mindset to reality? How do I say I'm in abundance if my contacts list is empty, I have no prospects, and no one knows I exist? | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcityI'm perfectly satisfied with myself, but just like anything else in life I set a goal and so far I haven't seen any progress in this goal specifically. This isn't a self-esteem issue I set my mind to accomplishing something and I'm not getting the desired results. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcityYea, but I don't know how. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcitySelf-respect isn't the problem the scarcity is the problem. I contacted her again cause I don't have any other prospects left. My goal is to find out how not to get flaked on in the first place. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcityYea I'm sure it's something I'm missing. I can't tell if it's that I'm coming on too strong or not strong enough. I change my strategy depending on the person. If she's shy I pace myself. If she's excited I go for the date soon and don't drag my feet. I meet people mostly through friends from school and work, some tinder, but not much luck on there. Even less on bumble. Last time a girl flaked on a date we texted for a few days after then I went silent and she hit me up 4 days later. We text bac… | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Trouble with ScarcitySchool, work, tinder, mutual friends | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How to escape true Scarcity?You're right and I do know that. Which is why I feel kind of silly. I know there's billions of women and the numbers really are in my favor. I guess it just messes with my head when you get rejected by every woman you come in contact with for months on end. Starts to wear on you and mess up your mental. | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How to escape true Scarcity?What are those social and texting skills specifically? I met my last ex on tinder and it wasn't difficult at all. We texted, we had things in common, we set up a date. Went on the date, liked each other, kept seeing each other, then she was my girlfriend boom easy. Sure I went through a lot of rejection to get to her, but the process of courting her was smooth and fun. I'm confused about why dating hasn't been even remotely as smooth or fun since. Even if I don't end up with the women at least t… | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How to escape true Scarcity?How do you get an abundance of women? | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 7 | I'm gentle and intimate during sex, which apparently is bad?Wait you guys are having sex? | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Super Positive Tinder Set Turned Instant Flake After Asking For Her ScheduleWhich person I mentioned two people? I'm not obsessing they're gone it's over. I'm just trying to learn something. | /r/seduction | 21/08/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingYea I'm right there with you and I'm 26. The non aggressive casual conversation approach has always been my go to and it used to work, but something happened and it just doesn't anymore. You try to find similarities & compatibility, but it's like they're already checked out even though you're being genuine and honest and open. Thanks man. Well figure this shit out some day | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 07:51 PM |
| -1 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingYou're not listening. You're purposefully misunderstanding what I'm saying. I don't know what part of I've put in enormous amounts of effort into myself you're not getting, but I have not hit a good enough point I am beyond that. I deserve someone to put as much effort into themselves as I have put into myself. Everyone deserves someone who puts in effort male or female. I am not unwilling to put in more effort. I have put in countless years worth of effort and I have been fully willing to blame… | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 06:55 AM |
| 0 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingYea you're right just don't know exactly what to switch it to. | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 05:25 AM |
| -4 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingI have done nothing my entire life BUT blame myself and I'm tired of it. Obviously tons of women find me ugly no shit I'm not delusional, I accept my position in the game, but I know I deserve more than someone who has an actual shitty personality and doesn't take care of themselves at all, but thanks for needlessly insulting me. Cut the bullshit. Everyone is in a league. Some people are gorgeous and some are fuckin hideous. There's people beneath me and plenty of people above me. I make no apol… | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 05:24 AM |
| 0 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingSame brother my ex replaced me probably a dozen times over by now, but you can't be depressed or hate yourself. Gotta find a way to rise above and solve this problem. | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingI need to find the right specific strategy to find someone compatible. That's actually a good idea thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 04:43 AM |
| -2 | More than anything I'm getting tired of losingHanging out with beautiful women is easier said than done. I've been trying to meet likeminded women with similar interests regardless of appearance, but I've come up with zero women at all. | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?Online | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?Poignantly put. I really like what you said about the affect this specific mindset has on the different sexes. I guess I should find out what my unmet needs are. Whatever they are I'm sure they have nothing to do with women. I really appreciate the advice it was real helpful. Time to do some soul searching. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?Hm that makes sense. I'll try that if the opportunity comes up. So patience is key here. Rushing in gets you locked in the friend zone. Noted. Don't give a fuck got it. It's hard to do that when you very much do give a fuck and haven't seen a woman you aren't related to in 6 months, but I get the point I have to mentally remove myself from the outcome and expectations. Gonna have to work on that "framing myself as the prize". Sounds tricky. Don't care about getting laid, act with options, is she… | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?Yea good idea lmao | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?I'll give it a shot thank you | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?Yea I've never been much of "gamer" in the dating since at least. I'm just open, honest, and straight forward. Sex isn't really my only intention I'm not turning it down anytime soon, but I really am trying to get to know these women. How am I giving off a "fuck me" vibe and how do I stop? Plus don't they like sex too lmao? Especially in this era of women empowerment / sexual liberation don't they like casual sex now? How do you screen them? What would that look like and what part of that proces… | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?What do I have to do to get to that 10%? Noted on the background | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?1.) Good idea I was thinking of deleting snapchat entirely and just using instagram or WhatsApp. I only have snap for girls. 2.) I'm a photographer as well. I don't smile much because it feels unnatural unless somethings actually funny. It probably looks fine it just feels fake and forced. I am laid back. I can't do anything about not being poor not immediately anyway. I have a life plan in order, but I'm not moving for at least a year. Do I have to wait and stack money to move to a better city … | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Any Potential Solution to Flaky Girls?1.) I'd rather not, but they all request to talk on Snapchat. Girls like to use Snapchat to feel dudes out before giving out their number. I've tried giving them my number, but they don't take the bait. They're just as flaky I have one on tinder right now and three on insta. 2.) https://imgur.com/a/0EwoQdL I think they're alright. You tell me. 3.) I mention we talk about hobbies and similar interests (music, traveling, etc) and when the energy of the conversation is high I ask if they're busy an… | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Never Had A Good RelationshipI don't know exactly when or why, but I developed some bad habit of wanting to help people with all their problems and that has not proved beneficial for me at all. Soul searching is a good idea, appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Never Had A Good RelationshipYea you're right. Fear of failure makes me overcompensate and get too intense and I end up self-sabotaging. Thanks | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | No progress in my game in months. Need help fully understanding the dating process.How do you become one of these men? | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 11:48 AM |
| 0 | No progress in my game in months. Need help fully understanding the dating process.1.) I didn't necessarily mean being aware of your attractiveness manifesting as arrogance I meant more that there were times when I would be talking to a woman and she'd say I was being cocky when I wasn't saying a line or anything. I wasn't trying to be clever. I was just talking to her normally and being confident (at least not weak and timid). There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance at least the perception of what actual confidence and arrogance looks like. 2.) This is my main po… | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | No progress in my game in months. Need help fully understanding the dating process.It is. You make a lot of sense. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy where I'm creating the problem I'm trying to avoid. Yea I'm thinking too much nothing I do comes off natural I gotta take a break from the game. Thanks bro appreciate that advice | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | No progress in my game in months. Need help fully understanding the dating process.I think my points came off more negative than intended. I'm more confused about how you're supposed to approach game technically. Obviously any extremes like being a narcissist or weird sex-crazed stalker are really bad, but then the other extreme is not doing anything at all. My idea was that women respond to men who don't seem to be trying because it's a sign of a confident guy with nothing to prove. That makes sense. But as the actual guy you are trying. You have to make her laugh, make sexy … | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | No progress in my game in months. Need help fully understanding the dating process.My time dating was similar even before covid, but I understand your point. A break wouldn't be bad. Thank you I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverOh ok I see what you're saying. My mentality was off I was thinking the switch from beggar to chooser would be a side effect of something else, but it's something I have to change directly myself. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverHow do I develop specifically? How do I make them an offer when I'm the one that isn't garnering their interest? I don't see how it works literally. What exactly am I supposed to be doing in order to develop and get people to want to join me? | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverMe and my ex related very well sexually we had sex practically every day. I was her first boyfriend and there was infidelity on her part that I forgave, but she continued to have secrets & never take responsibility for any of her actions. I haven't gotten far enough with any other women to even begin being sexual. A woman I'd been talking to for a month posted something sexual on Snapchat (which she'd done a few times prior, but I hadn't responded thinking it was too soon) and I thought then was… | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverThanks the physique is in the works. Couple months I should be in my best shape since highschool. Hopefully, that levels me up. | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverThanks I'm in the process of losing the lbs right now and when my cut is over I'm gonna try and get as big as possible while staying lean. For me really cause that's what I wanna look like. | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverThanks appreciate it | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverDid you read the post at all or did you just read the title? | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Trouble gaining any female attention whatsoeverI said I meet women in real life & the results are the same. You wanna explain in more detail what I could be doing that's considered creepy or you just gonna be vague? | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 11:31 AM |
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