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1

Practice and experience
/r/seduction17/07/23 11:50 AM
-13

If you’re rich do it. If not, just say I have to go find my friend right now or something like that to excuse yourself.
/r/seduction10/07/23 11:15 AM
164

Great job OP
/r/seduction02/07/23 03:40 PM
11

LoL, fastest way to get the “I have a boyfriend line” auto rejection 😂 The chain of conversation leading to seduction is the way. Grade school “I think you’re cute might not cut it with a grown woman.
/r/seduction11/06/23 12:33 PM
2

Yeah but not ever woman has IG. What do you do then? Skip them? 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction08/05/23 08:01 PM
3

People misrepresent themselves in OLD, I’ve experienced it and I’ve also heard this from many other men as well. Personally I’d rather have quality then quantity.
/r/seduction08/05/23 07:55 PM
3

Not really, in person game is enough for me. Don’t need that other stuff. I’ve closed so many without it. For the record I am also against OLD. In person dating is a million times better imho. But to each his own
/r/seduction08/05/23 03:43 PM
9

A lot is true but LoL, social media is not required 🤣 In person is enough with tight game.
/r/seduction08/05/23 03:38 PM
59

Sure why not 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction15/04/23 01:27 PM
1

This is horrible advice and it sounds like you have self confidence issues. There are plenty of incel “Tall White” men out there with no game. And what ends up happening is some of them they end up mass shooting up the place cause that can’t get any.
/r/seduction06/11/22 10:38 AM
1

You can just Google it “Looks Max org”
/r/seduction06/11/22 10:32 AM
1

Looks max program and practice approaching, A LOT. Get some female popular hobbies. Also don’t make the same mistake twice
/r/seduction04/11/22 09:07 PM
3

Idiocy
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:23 AM
1

Be like hey I get off at work at 6 or whatever, there’s a XYZ happening. Wanna check it out with me? Yes proceed to get number
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:22 AM
1

Girls lie
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:19 AM
1

I’m not a PUA coach dipshit, I never said I was. Nor did I say anyone taught me that. I said it was from my own experience. That’s just my own take. It’s way easier to pick up in a party then in day game. Just the fact you fighting me on this tells me how inexperienced you really are. If you believe that daygame is easier then enjoy climbing that mountain. Daygame skills can however translate over to night game. Therefore making closing easier.
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:59 AM
2

What’s there not to believe. I run a pick up group and went to an almost all women college every single day hitting up like 20-30 sets. Even out of college I would regular day game more than night game. Any of the PUAs in my group would vouch for me. Don’t talk shit about people you don’t know anything about or even know how old they are son. I was doing pick up while you were probably in diapers. 20 - 30 sets a day is about 7,000 sets a year times 4 years is like 29,000 to 30,000. Sorry if I ma…
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:41 AM
1

Dude how old are you if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:07 AM
1

Google is your friend
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:55 AM
1

Closing = you banging them in a bed or wherever. That clear enough for you? You said you have no friends that’s why it’s a good idea to hangout or play in group activities sports yoga or whatever, preferably coed & female friendly as well. For going out, you should have a decent wingman. There are lots of those in every city. Google it. Great way to make friends as well. Regular friends I hear often from other guys, don’t really know what they are doing in sets with women & I hear them complain …
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:54 AM
7

If you just want to get physical hit the gym, work on your closing game and go to singles parties. Autistic or not you should be able to do this. Anyone can
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:10 PM
22

You need to work on you body a bit more and max out your wardrobe and looks. Also don’t forget your daily grind & stack dat paper. This way YOU can be approached. From my tens of thousands of approaches I can confidently say day game is hard as hell & you get the least return for your effort. Try meeting people doing fun hobbies or group events or go to parties at night. Just be ready to strike while the iron is hot
/r/seduction30/10/22 01:58 PM
5

Singles parties, dance classes, yoga or some other co ed group activity. There are a lot of websites for this. & also raw approaches, there no excuse not to practice daygaming. As far as game, you need to have it to close consistently
/r/seduction30/10/22 12:58 PM
0

Not true, when I didn’t have that much game they helped me a lot. No man is an island upon himself no matter what lies you try to convince yourself of. Try doing everything on your own see how far it gets you. You will hit a wall one day where no further growth is possible without the help of others. ( & by others I mean professionals) I don’t know what kind of crappy dating coaches you were seeing before but reputable ones are reliable & very helpful in fixing issues that you may not see you ha…
/r/seduction30/10/22 02:48 AM
9

🏆 Big 🧠 thinking
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:59 PM
2

Start messing around with her before hand. Once you’re banging you can say let’s continue back at your place
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:58 PM
-17

See a professional dating coach. Stop bullshitting around on the Internet
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:46 PM
2

All I can tell you is don’t believe in all that mainstream media garbage they telling you. Like buy flowers, dinners, be friends for years all the while you get no action, he’ll even some married men believe that. Dating is for someone you already closed not the other way around
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:05 AM
2

Thank god Reddit gave me my account back. Boy that was a nightmare. F auto mod. Okay now to answer you question. More recently I usually just bang in whatever private place I find. I skip on a lot of transportation costs back to my place this way. Last crazy place I messed around was on a metro train platform. It was late at night. Bright lights in public but no one was really around. Well maybe a couple of people.
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:56 PM
1

Go in with a plan. You wouldn’t go on a date without one right? Same with a conversation imho
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:50 PM
-2

Wow, you’re homophobic too. Super classy. I’m not into men but it sounds like you are very much so, you closeted xenophobe
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:33 AM
-6

This is lame advice. If you’re not closing then someone else is. It advocates ‘you go home with a number & someone else will go home with the girl instead’ what kind of logic is that?
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:17 PM
3

THIS RIGHT HERE 1000%
/r/seduction18/10/22 09:46 AM
2

Not saying there’s anything wrong with that. More for everyone else
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:55 PM
1

That’s too bad. You’ll never feel what is like to pull a hottie off a cold approach.
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:24 PM
-1

I’ve never seen this before. Just be normal dude
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:23 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:23 AM
-3

Google is your friend 😅 study texting game
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:42 PM
39

You make make some well placed jokes every couple of days as a reminder you’re there. Just make them really good fucking jokes. So the night before she will be responsive to reminding her about the date the following day. Say stuff that doesn’t require a response from her but is funny
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:39 PM
3

Have you tried pulling out your penis? That usually works 😋🙃
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:36 PM
1

Almost every woman does this at bars. You need a better wingman
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:12 PM
3

I don’t go for numbers I go for lays. Numbers are pointless unless you boinking someone
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:10 PM
2

Well she is a bartender, no harm in asking her to drink with you.
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:13 PM
3

The first girl was flirting with you but you didn’t have enough game to close her. It’s all good. Live & learn in life. Just don’t make the same mistake in the future.
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:10 PM
1

This 1000% Unless you want to end up on Jerry Springer or some shit when you meet IRL
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:05 PM
4

Meet up after her friends and have sex with her 🤷🏻‍♂️ case closed
/r/seduction15/10/22 02:46 PM
3

Yes I agree. It’s bullshit. I remember one example of a guy being super clingy with texting and all that and it still worked out for him. Why cause he was oblivious of ‘the game’ but was confident. I mean it’s better to have game but okay if you don’t too. Just be confident
/r/seduction15/10/22 02:35 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction15/10/22 02:31 PM
60

Do hot girls instead. Case closed
/r/seduction15/10/22 01:37 AM
1

Join the yoga or dance club. You will be force to interact with them monthly at the very least. Inner game you need therapy, outer game, pick up knowledge and lots of practice. It will eventually make sense, everyone goes at their own pace.
/r/seduction15/10/22 01:34 AM
1

If you want to get better with women you have to practice & try not to make the same mistakes twice. That’s it
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:15 PM
1

Did you even take biology in high school? Every species has its way of mating. Have you never seen girls gone wild spring break video for example? Girls dancing and grinding away, drinking & partying. Maybe stop over thinking and start partying.
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:10 PM
3

I guess humor is lost on you. Might be your problem right there
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:08 PM
2

Practicing
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:21 AM
1

Have you tried passing a note in class to her sitting next to her? I pulled a girl from the library doing this. Totally worth it. She was a freak in the club when I took her out. It was hard to believe she had a “bf” 🙄😏
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:45 AM
7

Yes you can & I have. The problem is the quality of your game. No game no girl unless she is throwing herself at you.
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:42 AM
1

Learn to dance my dude. It’s basic textbook biology & also get some therapy first for your poor self confidence
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:37 AM
3

Telling him not to do this is not helping. The real problem is it sounds like he needs a year of therapy before doing any game stuff
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:36 AM
2

Stick*
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:19 AM
31

Sex first, dates are for gfs
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:06 AM
9

Stick your penis into their vagina. That’s a good way
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:59 PM
1

Don’t do online dating. Imho It sucks and doesn’t work. Online meaning never meeting offline. The last thing you want is a Jerry Springer type situation where as you meet in person and it turns out to be a guy or something
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:47 PM
4

Become better looking, Hit the gym, read pick up game books. And practice opening sets like a mf’er. Learn to dance.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:46 PM
2

Have sex with her & you should be good
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:40 PM
14

Have you tried having sex with her? That usually works to get her interest up
/r/seduction12/10/22 12:07 PM
1

Do it enough and you’ll see the Matrix
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:38 PM
1

You need to polish your finishing moves
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:52 PM
1

If you like her lay her then let her chase you after. It’s that simple. If you don’t like her next her 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction10/10/22 11:36 PM
4

I think incels don’t want to take the time to practice and get rejected like a real man would. That’s what their problem is. The world owes you nothing. You want something work your ass off for it. That’s it. I have 10s of thousands of approaches under my belt & have gotten better but in MY TERMs. Was never an incel, why you ask? Because of common fuking sense
/r/seduction10/10/22 09:25 AM
51

Move on, don’t make things more awkward
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:19 AM
6

Laziness on the guys part. Sounds like he needs to self improve a LOT
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:12 AM
1

Take dance classes. It’s perfectly okay for a woman to ask a guy to dance there. Happens to me all the time. It’s also the socially accepted thing to do in that situation like during a free dance practice session. You can make friends with guys after class. Just have some conversation topics in your head ready. Also you can find an accessory he is wearing and ask him more about it. Maybe casually touch him while touching & talking the accessory. Women have done this to me a few times. Also get s…
/r/seduction09/10/22 10:51 AM
2

Shave your head or get hair surgery. Work out at the gym 5 days a week. Get a better wardrobe of stylist. Educate yourself on pickup knowledge cause it sounds like you’re lacking
/r/seduction05/10/22 08:40 PM
1

🙌🏼
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:44 PM
1

And it’s great that you include your ethnicity. So many guys on here use that as a crutch, like they can’t do anything. It’s pathetic. What you showed here was hard work, dedication and it paid off for you. So many guys regardless of ethnicity are just to lazy to game because they are scared of rejection and don’t want to put the work in
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:21 PM
2

Great story 👍🏼 shows tremendous growth. Kudos
/r/seduction05/10/22 05:21 AM
1

LoL, not me bro I don’t do online dating. Nor have I ever believed in it. That’s for shy people that have a hard time socializing with people face to face imho
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:58 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:57 PM
3

Whale lays ehh??? 😉
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:17 AM
1

Ask if there somewhere she need to be later & get the time. So she doesn’t just make up some bs later on & ditch you
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:51 AM
1

Read books
/r/seduction01/10/22 08:49 PM
3

This is funny, hats off to you my friend. Thanks for sharing this tip with everyone 👍🏼
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:10 PM
1

Work on your looks and fashion first. Make sure you are attractive as well. & maybe the fat and bald guys lower their standards. They not exactly saying they pulling 10s. Maybe they pulling 2s
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:49 PM
1

Why don’t you just do what Charlie Sheen does?
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:48 PM
1

Well first thing is to make yourself happy. Wings come second. Join some women friendly hobbies yoga, learning to dance by in dance studios, universities, singles events, speed dating etc. To find wings, you can try maybe having a female cousin wing you. Women are naturally more conversational than men so are probably more adapt to winging. Also join global pick up communities like RSD or Love Systems or something similar to that. Make friends online and meet off line. It’s a good way to meet ot…
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:36 PM
2

Ditch the friends, go with PUAs instead. Your friends are not responsible for your happiness in life, you are, so who cares what they think. It’s not like they can get married for you or get a girlfriend for you. You have to go out and put in the work
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:30 PM
6

No unfortunately friends tend to suck in this situation. He needs people who are actually good in pickup or some people that can hold a conversation. Maybe he can ask a female cousin to help him pick up. Women tend to be more social savvy. He can also look through some old websites like Mystery Method/Love Systems or RSD or some other lounge to look for global wings/help. If he can’t find a wing he should learn to dance and work on his closing technicals for solo pickups. He doesn’t always need …
/r/seduction26/09/22 02:39 PM
3

You are a beginner. The club is such an intimidating place if you have no game and have no idea what you are doing. You need game knowledge but don’t have any it seems. Try speed dating instead. It forces everyone to talk & you’re guaranteed a date
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:33 AM
0

The reason you feel weird is because they can embarrass you loudly in front of everyone. Some women will do that.
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:16 AM
2

Don’t fall into their frame. Just game as usual & move on if she’s not interested
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:48 PM
6

Get a dating coach. In the old days people used to get laid after marriage so don’t feel too bad. Just think of yourself as old fashioned.
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:45 PM
1

Close on first date then let her chase you. Since you didn’t close she probably thought that you weren’t into her. Hence her lack of interest
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:53 PM
1

You have to practice. I’ve opened 10s of thousands of sets in my life to get there & am good with HBs. Also you need to increase your pickup knowledge which sounds like it is severely lacking. If you want to be better don’t be lazy and practice. That’s how you get to Carnegie Hall. In the end when you get better it will start to feel like the matrix. Things will start clicking. But that won’t happen without interacting with women and also other people regularly. Also maybe you need to hire a dat…
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:04 PM
1

So that law degree not helping him huh?
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:02 PM
1

Learn to dance silly, it’s the most obvious thing you can do to improve your chances
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:01 PM
5

I disagree. You should practice until you get to the point you are satisfied with your results, GF, threesomes, marriage, kids whatever your goal might be. Then move on with your life. Why I say this? Because you don’t know how much work you need to put in to get the results you want. Either work on yourself, your game. Distracting yourself with other stuff will hinder your improvement unless related to pick up in someway. But also obviously don’t let your professional career suffer because of g…
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:05 PM
1

If you want to improve go to events, meetings, parties in real life and practice doing pick up. Don’t use other people as a crutch for yourself unless they are experts at winging
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:01 PM
1

Yeah...saying stupid thoughtless shit
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:35 PM
6

They are lame. They are for people who are too lazy to put in any real work either on themselves or by doing sets
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:50 AM
1

Hardwork
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:38 AM
0

If she’s hot she may only seem disinterested until you prove them otherwise. That’s the world they live in. Hotter the girl the faster you usually need to close. Why because they have options everywhere they go and memories disappear fast. So you should’ve closed much like a Joey Tribianni would do. It’s funny to watch on television but what he actually does is what a quintessential PUA does. Picks them up on the spot. Why? because later is not guaranteed
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:07 AM
2

Contact info after you’ve already closed them otherwise don’t waste time
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:45 PM
1

You missed the part in the end where as I say it’s my opinion.
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:03 PM
5

Online apps are for shy people that don’t really socialize (get too many dates) IRL imho
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:44 AM
6

Online dating is for shy people in person is greater. Pickup takes many years to master and probably longer if you have a health disability. Work on yourself hit the gym. Become better looking. Buy some fashionable clothes & get some female friendly hobbies like yoga, dancing, college classes or cooking. Also increase your pickup knowledge. Learn the basics of pick up
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:39 AM
0

Just use your positive past experiences with woman & common sense. That’s all you need
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:45 PM
6

Sex first dating after
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:49 PM
1

So we talking 56 fatties or what? Pictures?
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:35 PM
1

I can do 200 approaches in a week in a half
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:52 PM
6

Sounds like you’re looking for a pity party. Roll up your sleeves & don’t be afraid to get dirty (rejected)
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:57 AM
7

If you’re asking this most likely you are too inexperienced to close or to know what to do to close. It sounds like you need more experience with more than one woman. You may have to let this one go by crashing and burning & use it as experience. I remember losing out on hot women because I didn’t have the experience to close when I was younger. But I can’t blame myself for that because it is a learning process. You just have to understand this. My recommendation is that you read some PUA books …
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:33 PM
33

Gradually build up to sexy talk. Shouldn’t take more than 45 minutes. Close at the climax
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:13 PM
1

Random strange
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:32 AM
0

No don’t say anything. Don’t be reactive that’s a pussy thing to do. You bring them into your world not vicesa-versa
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:53 AM
2

Take dance classes. It forces you to talk to women
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:32 AM
2

If cold approaching, bang them first, then let them chase you on the texting. It will make your life a hell’va a lot easier. I have good text game but it took years & years of trial & error. Unfortunately very few guys have great texting game because there’s so much garbage advice out there.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:23 PM
1

I’ve retired as well. I run a PUA group but have mostly stepped away. Trying to find replacement admins but it’s difficult. The community seems to be lacking in leadership today. Looks Max I noticed has been over taking the traditional technical schools. Not many hard chargers still out there
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:16 PM
5

Learn how to dance and take dance classes. Also talk to everyone. Old young male female. It sounds like you’re not social enough in general
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:53 PM
1

You can just google it. There are a lot of books out there on the subject. Unfortunately you have to practice and try them out to see work works best for you but one rule of thumb I can give you. If what the book says makes no sense, like if it would seem stupid IRL to say, get you into trouble, use common sense and don’t use it. If the advice seems funny, thoughtful and innovative, give it a try. This is where experience comes in. That’s something you have to build up on your own. Since this is…
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:13 PM
2

Good luck! We’re rooting for ya 👍🏼
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:09 PM
28

LoL. Don’t ask about her bf. Don’t even bring it up. Just game as usual. If she does bring it up ignore it because she’s the one being the aggressor here not you. You should read some books about text game & use the best stuff to flirt with & escalate after a couple of transactions to a meet up. Be flirty, clever and have fun with it. The important thing is to make her feel good over text. So much so that she’ll want to continue feeling good in person
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:08 AM
1

Get ripped in the gym, dress well, increase your pick up knowledge & get $$. You can overcome whatever barrier you put in your mind.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:25 AM
2

Get a common hobby like yoga, cycling hiking or dancing. Skin color will matter less due to common interests. Also black guys I think can be exotic to different races so imho it’s a step up not the other way around. Take care of your body, eat right, exercise & stay on your grid getting $$$
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:19 AM
1

I think it’s easier if that’s what you do for a living. But most guys don’t. They have lives & careers, so I don’t think that’s normal even for me
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:11 AM
1

Yeah this sounds accurate. I’ve done tens of thousands of daygame approaches. Literally not figuratively. The numbers above check out correct. I can say this as someone who has gone to a practically all girls college. Everyday doing 15-20 approaches. It was brutal and hard but I got to try a lot of different seduction material.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:10 AM
1

What country is that? Sweden? 🇸🇪 I hear hbs there are super aggressive. Practically do all the work for you. I remember being picked up by a Swedish hb a while back. was hot. Took me back to her place and closed me
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:04 AM
1

Well to each his own. Imho that’s just a self limiting belief about night game. Daygame depending on where you are people are busy doing their daily grind. vs. night game they have cut out a block in their schedule specifically to socialize. If you’re having trouble with night game you probably need to bring more PUAs with you to have your back. Not friends but actual PUAs who know what’s up. Hot HBs always surrounded by friends. I personally would rather deal with that because it’s easier and f…
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:58 PM
1

This 👆🏼 & even then, a slight breeze can even throw everything out of whack. (Unforeseen circumstances not to mention simply getting dismissed because you’re not her type) What I like to do is to try transitioning DG to NG with bouncing. It’s a mixture of both but tough to do without knowledge, experience, leadership & understanding the layout of your town. Yes, even the environment can work against you if you’re not thoughtful enough about where you’re going. I think some structural parts of my…
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:13 PM
37

A lot. Daygame is hard without experience & even with experience. Try going to a bar at night. Maybe you’ll luck into finding a solo chick to pull especially if it’s your first time. Also take some dance lessons, they’ll come in handy later. Like salsa or something like that
/r/seduction27/08/22 02:45 PM
0

You’re one of those guys that doesn’t like to put in the work of doing cold approaches and later says it doesn’t work. You even put in a self limiting belief in there just to justify your own laziness of approaching. Online dating is mostly for shy people, people who are usually not good at socializing face to face with new people.
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:50 AM
4

Also this
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:26 AM
5

This
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:26 AM
3

Yeah don’t sweat it. PUAs have tons of stories about the ones that got away. They’ll be more stories like this to come in your life. Just learn from your mistakes & improve
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:03 AM
2

100 approaches in a year? I could do that in like 2 or 3 days. The time will pass you quicker than you think. You’ll finish that in no time at all. But you are on the right path. I would spend less time online and more time out in the world interacting with people. Join some social group events as well
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:46 AM
3

Learn to dance and take dance classes to meet women & take therapy for your mental disorders
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:07 PM
5

Yeah I agree, most of the time you should ask for some kind of consent. If things are going well she won't say no
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:18 PM
2

Maybe 45 minutes to an hour, more or less. The only exception would be drunk dance floor kissing which can just take a few seconds of meeting.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:15 PM
10

It means to start a conversation or to engage in some way
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:06 PM
31

Exactly
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:06 PM
100

Yeah props to the OP. This is what pick up is truly like. A lot of guys out there are too intimidated by the rejections to try pick up so they just say "it doesn't work" or some other nonsense like that. Great job. To the victor goes the spoils.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:05 PM
2

Yes there is a lot of contradictory information out there that’s why field experience is super important so you can sort through the bullshit from the gems 💎
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:48 AM
1

Problem with night game and bars are hot women almost always surrounded by friends. Bring a group of PUAs with you. Yes day game is super hard. I've pulled from it but you have to work like a dog. I concur, night game is easier. What you do is you bring your daygame skills to night and speed things up a bit
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:47 AM
1

LoL
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:12 AM
1

Gross
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:07 AM
1

Why didn’t you just close while she had her finger on your lips? I mean really man, she probably thinks you’re slow for blowing that golden opportunity. So yeah I’d say you did fuck up. Unless you have really tight text game, (hint 90% of guys have sucky text game) I’d say move on to someone else. Why put off to tomorrow what you can do today? If you go Thursday bring a group of PUAs with you to wing you & distract her friends. PUAs, not just regular guy friends
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:06 AM
3

Just do it. That’s how I started. Don’t use that as an excuse. One of Mystery Method’s top PUA instructors is of Indian descent. And one of my good friends from college also Indian & short on top of that, is good with woman too. The problem is not where you come from but your attitude. You need courage, practice and knowledge.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:46 PM
2

Well the pole dancing to help build up your core strength and fitness. Also a lot of guys think it’s hot, even if your overweight if you have good moves on the pole, that’s something a lot of guys are into. Also a lot of people don’t like to do cardio so do a sport instead. Like ballroom dancing 💃, softball, soul cycle, hiking out doors (join a Hiking Meetup group🤷🏻‍♂️ also a good way to meet fit guys probably) swimming or basketball. It’ll take your mind off of doing it. Try to build up a routi…
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:55 PM
2

Good advice
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:12 PM
1

This is true
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:10 PM
1

This is excellent advice. And I think he needs to get off those dating apps and get some hobbies that involve meeting attractive women like dancing, cooking, cycling or yoga or something like that. People pretend to be something they’re not online
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:09 PM
1

Try getting a hobby that involves fitness like dancing or pole dancing. You’ll get into shape and meet a good dance partner at the very least. Well I mean if that’s what you’re into
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:06 PM
2

Get off of dating apps. They’re lame. People pretend to be something they’re not. Get the fuck out of your house and go game IRL. Online dating is for shy people that can’t socialize so easily in the real world. & face to face is what you see is what you get. If that girl was on drugs she could be either dead or in rehab get over it. Most likely you don’t want to be with a drug user long term anyway. Imagine that conversation with your family or parents when you bring her home and she gets fucke…
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:02 PM
2

To a certain point. Without game harder to close
/r/seduction22/08/22 06:38 AM
1

Places where yon can share the same hobbies of course
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:48 AM
1

Because that’s what they do for a living. If you’re 100% focused and that’s all you do, then you too would sleep with hundreds of women but do not much else with your life
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:28 PM
1

Because if they get pregnant and you end up being worthless as a man their survival odds go down. At least in the caveman days. Now a days we have public assistance but their brains are still hardwired to think that way due to thousands of years of evolution. At least that’s what I think
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:44 AM
20

Sounds like it was mutual
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:47 PM
3

I think a couple of hours before closing is best because you may need to go through a few rejections & establish some kind of rapport closing out. Also bring some friends PUAs with you. HBs rarely travel alone. What can happen tho is you get a 2 set and hit it off with one really well. Many times her friend will just duck out towards the end of the night leaving you too alone together. Being drunk is not really necessary but having good game is
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:56 AM
3

You need experience. College level might not be enough. At that point you are still learning. Also you need to learn and try new pick up skills to see what works best for you
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:54 AM
1

Exactly, but you know what, I guess not everybody cares about looks. But to each his own as long as you enjoy the experience I guess it's all good
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:30 PM
4

I just call it like I see it Susie 🤣
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:28 PM
1

Hearing you speak tells me that you haven’t tried every single thing Mystery Method has to offer. & to be pompous enough to say that you have is kind of ridiculous. Had you tried everything you’d see that some of it works and some of it doesn’t. But by all means you do you. Just don’t shit on a Method just because you haven’t bothered putting in the serious work using it.
/r/seduction17/08/22 06:35 PM
3

Yeah, nothing like picking up women that look nothing like their profiles online 😆 Real life superior to Tinder. The amount of time you waste trying to meet someone you can just go out of your house and literally meet someone same day. Online dating seems like for shy people. You can’t fuck through your computer, you have to be with them in person. By the time they meet up with you maybe their attitude will change. Also in real life what you see is what you get.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:37 PM
4

Great point
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:32 PM
1

Different things work for different people. What might not work for you might work for someone else
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:32 PM
2

Yes, I agree with both points here. Work on your looks to compliment game
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:31 PM
1

This is wrong. Some parts of Mystery Method work well. Other parts not so much. You sound inexperienced
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:30 PM
-1

No, it’s not. You sound like a guy too lazy to put the actual hard work in to get results & because you haven’t, you’re bitter about it
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:29 PM
1

You need to be attractive in her eyes & have tight game
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:28 PM
1

You bought into her frame and acknowledge her shit test instead of taking the time to bring her into your (supposedly) cooler reality.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:38 PM
1

How about find a common hobby like yoga or dancing then ask one to practice with you? 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:25 PM
2

All good bro. Great for socializing. BTW, not all 8,9a& 10s are mean. But they do have BFs and husbands most of the time 😅
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:22 AM
2

Correction, getting unattractive girls is easy 😆 If this is your standard I could understand your point. LoL
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:59 PM
0

Maybe he got a new girlfriend that was super jealous of your friendship and told him to de-friend you. Other women can be pretty territorial
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:16 PM
0

Just don’t get kicked out by security
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:27 PM
5

Wow with the exception of the protein line this should be pinned at the top of every seduction forum/ group out there
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:24 PM
1

I don’t know about eating your body weight in protein though, you might die 😂
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:21 PM
3

This is normal for a beginner. When I started game I was like you. You lack knowledge and a FUCK TON of experience. Now I’m married to a 9 & couldn’t be happier. & bro I got some bad news for you, it takes hard work to get good with women. Improve your body, face, clothing & cash flow as well as your game. With all the experience I got, I still have to do some warm up sets before getting into my flow but this comes from experience & knowledge. Also just because you have experience doesn’t stop s…
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:10 PM
1

Ah...yes...the duality of humanity. Deal with it🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:28 AM
3

He’s funny & famous. A lot of women like funny.
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:51 AM
2

They are more experienced
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:19 PM
3

Man, I’m not gonna touch this one
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:16 PM
4

Get the date 1st then phone number after you hookup with them. Don’t waste the time with the back and forth. To have phone game & succeed at it takes a really high level of game that beginners or even intermediate PUAs have difficulty with. The reason being is that there is so much bad information out there about phone game it’s nearly impossible to sift through all of it to gain the experience of knowing what works and what doesn’t work. If you hookup it can bypass this back and forth bullshit.…
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:23 PM
2

It becomes easier in your 30s due to experience. Although some people never learn 😅
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:08 PM
2

Well, I mean she is engaged. I’d only do something if she were making it super easy for me. Like touching me, major ioi s etc
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:05 PM
3

This woman is your co-worker? You can’t escalate remotely only in person. It’s not like you can bang her through the internet or whatever. So maybe she just flirting with you because it’s safe and she’s not actually cheating. Even taken women flirt to boost their own egos
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:24 AM
3

Engaged woman are the hardest to get. Don’t bother unless she is throwing herself at you
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:17 AM
3

Ice cube maker?
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:07 AM
4

Well everyone’s path in life is different with 8 billion people living in earth, people are sure to have different experiences & explanations
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:35 PM
4

Consistent consecutive successful pickups of 8,9a & 10s & actually it kind of is like rocket science sorry to break your bubble. A lot of technical stuff.
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:58 AM
2

This is key. Some guys though never get over that
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:36 PM
4

Hey good job. I remembered when I started doing pick up in college. I was super scared but I didn’t quit, I kept practicing & getting better.
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:35 PM
12

That’s so horrible it’s kind of funny. But you guys should be doing more than one set a night anyway.
/r/seduction27/07/22 01:38 PM
7

You’re kidding right? You mean there are women out there that specifically target married men?
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:30 PM
9

It’s a polite brush off of saying either she’s not interested or you have no game
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:14 PM
3

Your sister in law has a side boyfriend? Maybe I’m reading that wrong
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:10 PM
3

I take it you’re either a swinger or never been married
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:09 PM
8

I am both intrigued and confused by your comment. Provocative
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:58 PM
1

Anyone got tattoos of their significant other in here? 😅
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:57 PM
30

Amazingly, yes that is what happened. How did you know? & my wife is holding on to me even harder now. She even made me a bracelet after that, that says I am married I love “xxx” So if anyone touches me they will read it.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:05 PM
30

Yeah but one chick tried to pick me up directly in front of my wife. Touching me and all despite the fact that I literally dragged my wife over to and introduced her to her as such but had no effect. Super bizarre situation
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:29 PM
1

Maybe you can do what she does, schedule multiple dates on the same day but you be the one to cancel the extra ones in case your plan falls through
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:39 AM
1

That’s rich 😆never heard that one before
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:34 AM
1

Who knows why women do anything? She was leaving the country anyway so all good
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:32 AM
1

Why is that?
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:11 AM
1

If you don’t know what to say, that means you probably don’t know how to close either right now & if that’s the case you don’t have enough practice/experience under your belt to pull this off. That said, I personally won’t try to pick a girl up if she was working unless she went out of her way to flirt with me or giving me blatant ioi s . I’d rather do pick up in an easier situation personally.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:06 AM
116

That’s so devious the way some women think, to take advantage of another woman’s hard work in picking a guy she finds value in only to try to take him for herself. It’s happened to me several times and honestly it’s ridiculous. I’ve even hooked up with other women when I used to do pick up because of this and the hotter the woman on your arm the more they want you. It’s insane.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:42 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:22 AM
1

No, just curious? Because the point of game seems to be to get hot people. I don’t think you need much if any skill if it’s just the homely peeps on the street or something which sounds like you’re okay with doing since you see no difference in quality 😂
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:25 PM
-5

So we talking cows with milk or supermodels? There’s a difference
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:27 PM
4

LoL never heard it called that way before
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:18 PM
17

What the heck is old?
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:04 PM
2

Try speaking dirty in French. I’m sure he’ll like it
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:03 PM
1

If you wanna go then go
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:23 PM
1

Bro I’m super experienced, used to run a PUA group and married a dime piece. I’m good bro on the approaching. I’ve also gone through 1000s of pick ups while attend class at a nearly all girls school & I can assure you, that I have, as you might say “given it a chance” along with numerous other up pick up techniques. If going direct works for you then you do you but if done wrong can make you look desperate & hard up to throw yourself at someone who knows nothing about you. Some women might even …
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:14 AM
1

If you don’t establish value and you just go up to random women you don’t know & say that, that can come off as creepy. You call it beating around the bush for x minutes but the reality is that you need to convey some type of value and that takes time. Unless she is the one hitting on you because you’ve already conveyed value in some way.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:27 AM
0

If you do that too quick on a woman you don’t know it can come off as creepy and desperate
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:53 AM
1

But that’s my point. She’s probably busy and doesn’t have a lot of time to talk hence the quick number. If you try to spend too much time in a moving set conveying value you may end up with nothing, not even a number. It’s a high risk high reward move. That’s why I don’t do it usually. But I have converted numbers like this before but usually on younger girls. Most beautiful women you have to convey value.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:50 AM
6

Use her to party with as a wing. Girls like guys with other girls. You can go out a lot with her and have her wing you in 2 sets
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:34 AM
1

But direct in a short time interaction is possibly the right way since you don’t have much time. However I personally have not been too successful using this a lot because you don’t have a lot of time to convey your value to her which is important for follow up or continuance. Maybe a handful of times in my life successfully using this. Something along the lines of me saying I think she’s cute and grabbing a quick number. This is probably more successful with the younger girls who are less deep …
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:26 AM
2

If you say ‘I want to meet you’ you may get a strong, I have a boyfriend rejection even if she doesn’t have one. But some PUAs prefer the straight forward style I prefer more smooth & natural.
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:06 PM
1

If those are the type of pick up interactions you want to excel at then you have to practice. A LOT! I personally wouldn’t do moving sets. I’m not good at them unless they were giving me strong eye contact and good ioi s. It’s like you are stopping them from going about their day and what they need to do in that moment. Also you need a certain level of rapport to get a second interaction from them if you can’t close in that moment. Very Joey Tribbiani’ish opening and closing on the spot. Very fe…
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:01 PM
43

I lot of PUAs just focus on game but you should also be working hard on improving your body, the way your face looks, intelligence, career and wealth too. Game will supplement this. It’s a hard truth a lot of guys don’t want to hear but it’s the truth especially for higher caliber women. Get in shape and get a girl friendly hobby. Get used to rejections. Because they will happen a LOT.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:52 AM
4

I was with my wife the other day but walking around alone in the store but she was a few aisles over. This attractive woman and I start talking about the tea that was for sale there. I told her I like certain things about that type of culture. She said that she liked the same types of things. She see’s my watch an starts touching it then my arm next. I immediately called my wife over as kind of a soft rejection to her. But she is still being super aggressive after I introduced her to my wife. It…
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:45 PM
3

This is a good attitude. I personally love the hand of god on the dance floor. I’ve actually F-closed with that one
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:57 AM
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