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1

Didn't say looks aren't important. Being an interesting person is definitely important to non vapid people.
/r/seduction22/07/26 07:56 PM
60

I don't like the way you write. It makes me think you communication skills could be a lot better. Your analysis is incredibly superficial. You're talking about your job, your looks, the fact that you go to the gym multiple times. Look within and figure out why no one wants to pair bond with you. Experience exponential growth within and you should have much better prospects. Peace man
/r/seduction19/07/26 06:00 PM
3

I hope you're able to nourish the aspects of yourself that need it. Over time you will gravitate toward the women you're capable of going to be the next level of connection with. You just have to be ready.
/r/seduction19/07/26 05:49 AM
5

Hey man I'm not attacking you whatsoever. I understand exactly what you're going through 1000%. They understand you're in a very scorned place. I'm telling you your job as a man trying to court interesting, complex women is to become fascinating. In talking to you it's very clear that you actually are deeply superficial. That's why these women are putting you down behind your back and telling you you're so amazing but they don't feel any emotional connection to you. Become a deeper human being a…
/r/seduction19/07/26 12:30 AM
2

Yeah buddy You're the one who can't understand. I read your post and the problem seems to be what I outlined. That when you are your true self, You're not interested enough to hold someone's attention. The women obviously aren't interested in you as a human being, and they're trying to let you down nicely. This isn't an attack. You came here because you're trying to understand something. Being a total fuckboy is not the answer. Learn more skills, have actual intellect, be interesting. Then you w…
/r/seduction18/07/26 11:59 PM
19

Please listen to this guy.
/r/seduction18/07/26 11:22 PM
-1

You're applying this concept way too broadly. You have to learn how to be more interesting and charismatic. Not so much whether you're a nice or a dick. You have to actually be captivating to someone. How else are you going to make them deeply turned on? You really should spend some time growing up and expanding your repertoire of interests and knowledge. What your feelings recognize is I doubt or obvious women actually even try to be your friend after in a sincere way. Women are terrified a man…
/r/seduction18/07/26 11:21 PM
6

No offense dude but you sound incredibly superficial. It's okay to be obsessed with this stuff but maybe figure out a way to actually meet people that you connect with and hopefully you'll actually understand attraction.
/r/seduction05/07/26 02:39 AM
1

If you have common sense you will move on without this train wreck
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:33 PM
65

Women need validation and attention in ways you will never understand. Or maybe you do. You literally just became infatuated with someone in a few hours. We've all been there. You just were actually sincere about it where she was using you to make herself feel better. It will be worth it when you find a connection with someone who actually has depth.
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:46 AM
8

You've been brainwashed deeply. I don't even necessarily 100% disagree with you but it's clear from this post. He definitely wants to be having sex with multiple partners and wants multiple wives. We all do. Some of us are just more sincere about it. There's no way he had no idea about this core self belief before he married you. He basically trapped you
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 10:11 AM
1

Well articulated
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/26 02:03 AM
1

This was a really nice post
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 07:52 PM
1

Well you didn't really say anything about his actual personality whatsoever. This post is deeply superficial so I can imagine the people who know you who when you offer the summation of trying to provide an illustration of what is so good.. doesn't hit the actual mark related to a relationship. I'm happy that you're happy for seriously. Sounds like you're completely happy. But honestly it sounds like you like the lifestyle more than anything else. Most people aren't like that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 03:40 PM
5

I would give him another date or two to clarify this sort of stuff. If by the fourth date he's content allowing you to take public transportation instead of driving like 10 minutes out of his way to drive you home I agree that's a serious red flag. Some people will not let you come by their houses. If nothing to do with you but they've dealt with stalkers and they also understand other people have dealt with stalkers. He may have been being very respectful and respecting your privacy and your ri…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 03:32 AM
3

Please listen to this person
/r/seduction28/05/26 01:25 AM
3

Yeah there are sometimes I notice I'm too in my mind and I'm like oh this must be weird and kind of sterilized. To just be totally quiet. I think it's better to give instructions and to like show your appreciation verbally. It keeps everyone connected
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:11 PM
1

I don't get you. You've complained about this guy like four times already and never complaining again that he's not interested in you? Your vibes suck
/r/seduction23/05/26 02:01 PM
1

I don't think he used AI because his spelling was pretty questionableI don't think he used AI because his spelling was pretty questionable
/r/seduction19/04/26 08:43 PM
3

Normal people don't just bully their partner into marrying them. "Hey let's go pick out a ring" is a bizarre leap. Seriously learn how to have incrementally progressive conversations.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 11:25 PM
16

How are you 3 years into a relationship and this is now just surfacing? And the things you listed of him being perfect for you are very superficial. Are you sure you have vetted this man in a respectable manner?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 06:02 PM
6

Yeah this guy's totally insane. His response to the death was so tone deaf. Obviously she saw right through you and understood you don't even have fun intentions but bad empty intentions
/r/seduction13/03/26 06:26 PM
1

I doubt it's because you're Asian
/r/seduction31/01/26 06:48 PM
14

Hey. You could consider adulting, communicate your boundaries, tell her how you feel and give her an opportunity to work within the confines of what you deem to be admissible.
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:43 PM
1

18 year olds are children to all adults
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:31 AM
-1

She's 20 years old. She's a child. Deal what you want to do man but maybe find someone who's more of an adult. Her room is decorated in Disney stuff. She's a child SHe seems to want to date you
/r/seduction08/12/25 12:13 AM
1

Somewhat
/r/seduction06/12/25 08:25 AM
2

Give it time. Work with him on a new arrangement
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/25 02:32 AM
1

They tell people who are playing sports to reframe their perception of anxiety and the jitters into excitement. Recognize that you feel alive as you're doing this situation and appreciate that for what it is. An attempt at greater liveliness. A worthwhile endeavor toward introducing something into your life.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:52 PM
1

You're posting insane things on the internet clamoring for someone who sees you as less than a piece of meat. That's not doing well.
/r/seduction29/10/25 12:39 AM
1

I don't think you're nearly as legit as you believe you were. If you actually had frame this wouldn't be happening to you. Honestly your first few paragraphs make you sound like you have almost negative awareness and are empty. "I'm a total chad!!!" Maybe she's Awakening actual feelings in you from being dead inside?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/25 02:26 AM
8

It sounds like you have one itis. Move on.
/r/seduction12/10/25 06:21 AM
16

This doesn't sound like a person who's worthy of being taken seriously. Move on from her. People who immediately block you very very quickly are fucking stupid. Seriously.
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:30 AM
0

Maybe consider becoming an interesting person aside from having only superficial perspectives.
/r/seduction13/08/25 09:23 PM
7

There's got to be something deeply wrong with the way you're communicating with these people
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:08 PM
1

I think you showed too much interest and it became creepy and I think moving forward just being more calm is important
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:42 PM
2

Lol!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 07:05 PM
20

You sound dreadfully obtuse. He's communicating incredibly clearly. It's peculiar you have any questions whatsoever.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 06:09 PM
3

There seems to be such a struggle to understand here. Being single is not problematic. Learning to enjoy life alone or with someone and knowing what that means for you is quintessential to happiness. A friend or a partner are window dressing. They are helpful, worthwhile ventures. You should still be able to find quantifiable happiness alone.
/r/seduction01/07/25 08:15 PM
1

How bad of a reader are you? That's not a good intro. It has to be interesting. You have to strike up a conversation organically.
/r/seduction30/06/25 07:51 PM
2

The other guy is in the proper frame. You're not. It's not cold approaching. It's being alive, welcoming, and open.
/r/seduction30/06/25 04:14 AM
1

My recommendations would be to start talking like a more normal upstanding person. Did not let yourself get so phased by loser people. Tonight associate with such empty people
/r/seduction25/06/25 04:55 PM
1

All of these people you're talking about sound lame
/r/seduction25/06/25 04:07 PM
10

Well I don't mean this to offend you but this kind of stuff is pretty empty. You probably just actually want to connect with someone in a real way and are tired of really simple kind of empty encounters.
/r/seduction24/06/25 06:02 PM
2

This is how you felt about it. Not everyone feels the same way.
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:54 AM
2

My comment wasn't intended to be smart. It was like a 3/10 level of communication. If that was too high for you, may God have mercy on your soul.
/r/seduction03/06/25 06:14 PM
0

No you seem to have a real issue actually reading. Reading is applying contextual clues two words in order to understand what is actually being said. It's incredibly obvious, that if you're not in an urban environment, you would shift this advice to somewhere near your house. It's deeply sad that this isn't supremely well understood upon looking at it. Here comes across as being a simpleton.
/r/seduction03/06/25 12:37 AM
-7

This is a hilariously myopic interpretation of this post.
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:29 PM
2

I have found that people who are eapecially engaging but surface level tend to be stuck in that arena. You could call it a plateau.
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:47 PM
24

It is a lesson. If you are willing to deal with maybe ten minutes of awkwardness, the reward you will reap will be significant. If you wish to take a step, and do, it will go nicely for you. Lesson does not imply you are bad or necessitate that you feel a negative reaction. It simply implies the situation is showing you an inefficiency within yourself that you wish to course correct. It is giving you the living holographic image to walk through. A test in a maze. A lesson in overwriting a preset…
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:17 PM
4

He's probably trying to help you neuter some avoidant attachment issues and help you learn how to work through problematic entries of thoughts until you can behave in a normal way. Because while you have real toxicity in your being he probably sees like a cool person inside of you that he's hoping you can unleash and he can be friends with that person.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:31 PM
2

You have terrible reading comprehension. The poster was trying to help you understand why they do this If you have any psychological understanding of where something is coming from you know how to talk to them in order to set them straight. You should know that aloof jerk offs constantly have women who want them. It's part of the natural order of things. The superficial woman knows she is undesired and therefore she wants the small victory of making this man want her. Just let them down nicely o…
/r/seduction16/04/25 09:55 AM
13

It's something you just have to be aware of if you're hooking up with a lot of people. You're going to hit exposed to it.
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:45 AM
11

First world problems. Just learn to communicate better
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/25 02:00 AM
0

I think it was more you. Rooftops are pretty sweet.
/r/seduction05/04/25 08:15 PM
2

I don't think your future is aligned with his
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/25 05:27 PM
1

Think of it as a question that is make a break and can go either direction
/r/seduction16/03/25 08:43 PM
22

Consider yourself a woman who is a sexual assault victim that is leery of untrustworthy men. She might ask you some indelicate or delicate questions surrounding a couple topics to allow her a framework to evaluate whether or not you are trustworthy. Women are weaker physically than men so they have to mentally test men in order to confirm to themselves that this man will not freak out if shit goes weird. Not all shit tests are this serious but I'm just trying to help you understand where they're…
/r/seduction16/03/25 07:03 PM
1

Women probably can see through you. You seem particularly vacuous. Do some hobbies alone. Gain depth. Become mysterious. Become interesting. Luck plays a role but its not everything
/r/seduction14/03/25 08:57 PM
1

I can't believe you would want to do this for 10 years.
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:50 PM
4

She sells really cool. No wonder her life is a feeding frenzy.
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:36 PM
4

I think he is enjoying these encounters. He's 69ing these chicks does he want have sex with him? Yes. I don't think he's all that upset though.
/r/seduction28/02/25 12:51 PM
2

Hey man you sound kind of insane. These chicks are 69ing him. They're not blue balling him. If your advice was more measured and less delivered like Sam kinison you would come across better.
/r/seduction28/02/25 05:17 AM
40

it's odd how few people understand the sun is good for you you're supposed to manage how much you get but its necessary to obtain real sunlight without sunscreen
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:10 PM
6

this was a bad plan especially true crime show talk to her
/r/seduction20/02/25 06:57 PM
-9

"does that make you wet?"
/r/seduction23/01/25 07:25 AM
-1

What is lmr. In good writing you define acronyms that people have no reason to know
/r/seduction17/01/25 07:48 PM
1

You sound like an asshole. People recognize this.
/r/seduction17/01/25 03:11 AM
19

Maybe appreciate something which is above average you. You sound dead inside c
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:31 PM
0

There's nothing wrong with you. People just have weird connections to the idea of virginity. Just be yourself and don't worry about it
/r/seduction30/12/24 06:55 PM
0

This sounds pretty bad all around
/r/seduction18/12/24 03:52 PM
7

You sound insanely immature and need to take some time to yourself
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/24 08:50 PM
7

A lot of women have almost zero social skills and just talk and sleep. It can be hard to break through that wall. You have to find mutual topics of interest that you can discuss in a more back and forth matter
/r/seduction06/11/24 06:31 PM
1

Game is important. Making your social life fully about crushing pussy you don't care about is by nature empty. Have fun tho idc. I'm just saying maybe keep like two plates and focus energy elsewhere
/r/TheRedPill06/11/24 01:45 AM
3

This sounds incredibly empty
/r/TheRedPill05/11/24 03:12 PM
1

Let me give you some tips. Be affable. The bee mysterious. Don't talk to much. Watch 40-Year-Old Virgin. Anyway make sure you come across as confident. Consider being in good shape. Be secure in yourself and not jealous.
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:34 AM
1

I was 100% getting. That would make a normal woman run from you
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:33 AM
114

this was what I did in order to get over social anxiety
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:01 AM
1

Call her mommy
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:57 PM
36

I was once offered a blowjob for $20 from a street worker. I was sorry I don't pay for it. She was actually pretty cute. She was dumbfounded. You don't want a blowjob for $20? No, but I don't want is the free hepatitis c.
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:02 PM
1

This is what you have to believe independent of whether or not it's true
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:06 PM
0

Try to have more of an adult perspective
/r/seduction20/10/24 02:23 AM
37

Try to stop being needy. Probably stop going to clubs and bars for a little bit even like 3 days. Consider all of the options that aren't hookups. Maybe you need something a little bit more real. A little bit less based on being drunk and horny. Good luck.
/r/seduction19/10/24 06:36 AM
17

Seduction is not the way to end loneloness. This is incredibly obvious to anyone who knows how to have in-depth emotional relationships.
/r/seduction17/10/24 11:13 PM
0

It's actually an important thing to do when you're dating someone who's stronger than you. You have to know know his breaking points. You have to know you're safe with him. For women to not do shit. Tests would be a gigantic failure
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:44 AM
7

Essentially the pretty girls are impressed you're one of the few who will approach them
/r/seduction23/09/24 05:48 PM
1

This post is severely ill. Work on yourself. Find a girlfriend.
/r/seduction14/09/24 06:24 PM
11

You can just be kind sometimes
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:32 AM
1

23 isn't really an adult so that's fair. You should do whatever you want to be clear. I just think drawing lines in the sand of like I will never care about this person is a bit odd to me but you have a right to do live and do whatever you want.
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:56 PM
17

This is an incredibly bad post
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:58 PM
1

probably want to approach it actually like an adult. Casual hookups are going to do anything that actually heals you.
/r/seduction02/09/24 11:46 PM
-1

Basically if I try to befriend someone I ask them pointed questions about things they show interested. I try to be humane. I try to be in interested and active listener. I try to add value for them
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:46 AM
3

Doctrinaire. Awesome word
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 09:30 PM
2

This definitely
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 12:52 AM
-2

Gonna guess the successful guy is younger, probably blonde and Nordic looking, probably tall. Other guy is probably more average to unattractive.
/r/seduction15/08/24 08:52 AM
2

Spitballing. Desperate. Lack of social skills. Come across as thinking too highly of self.
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:15 AM
4

Peace
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:47 AM
26

Well let me rephrase. Listen to this chick
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:31 AM
129

Listen to this man before you end up an empty sack of shit like most people on here
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:27 AM
5

Hey man. I say this with zero malice. I appreciate what you added to this conversation. It seems self-evident to me that women couldn't take you seriously. How would they? What would be the reason to? You seem like a typical bro that's out trying to crush chicks. That's not really a long-term commitment material. Peace to you. I think once you start finding more depth in yourself and in your behavior you'll have more success.
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:10 PM
0

Lol thank you for legitimizing my perspective more than I thought was possible.
/r/seduction12/06/24 05:15 AM
-1

If you could reread this from the perspective of someone with a depth of character. It would be pretty obvious. I'm going to take very brief notes for you to help you understand. You mentioned she had three bodies. This is incredibly gross and unbecoming. It's befitting of someone who has a really weird relationship with sex and relationships You talk about the sort of hookups you've had. You mentioned how attractive you are a couple times. There's zero depth to this whole post. You obviously fa…
/r/seduction12/06/24 04:52 AM
2

Those words conspire together to form the word I used
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:24 PM
-1

You're being really empty. This is true fuckboy behavior
/r/seduction30/05/24 01:45 PM
11

Colognes have different effects on different users. Pheromones combine differently. An inherently flawed premise albeit interesting question.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:31 AM
7

There's something really off about the way you're interacting
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 08:13 PM
2

You seem terrible at communication on here. Have you heard of paragraphs? You need to do some self-reflection and self work in order to connect with people that aren't empty. It sounds like you did an all right job in this seduction
/r/seduction17/05/24 10:53 PM
1

Why the fuck are you posting this on seduction? You're married
/r/seduction17/05/24 07:20 PM
3

Don't be hoodwinked
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/24 05:48 AM
1

Be interesting.
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:18 AM
1

I think it's good you have boundaries. I would start to open them when you start to feel connection that's real with someone
/r/seduction26/04/24 09:06 AM
1

Good luck. I would probably start trying to take steps to further enhance your willingness.
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:20 AM
2

This is horrible. Talk more naturally. Be interesting. Get her talking about things she's interested in.
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:45 AM
4

I don't think you're reading this properly
/r/seduction22/04/24 01:16 AM
5

She obviously thinks you're toxic in some sort of way
/r/seduction19/04/24 02:05 AM
1

So there is an important differentiation between the term slut and whore. The first one does a lot of stuff with anyone. A whore will do anything with you. Like your personal whore. It sounds like this girl kind of wants to be that. But there are ways of evaluating how experience she is and how many partners she's had. For me I don't really care about partner counts and whatever but I do think it's a bad sign if someone has a lot of casual sex. Cuz that means they don't put that much emotionalit…
/r/seduction17/04/24 04:22 AM
1

Hey man. It sounds like your evaluation of yourself is quite off all in all. Besides, most people looking to hook up are impressed if you're about to be an accountant. They want a thrill up here they want excitement. They want to feel captivation. It sounds like you're trying to let everyone know how good you are and how attractive you are and how interesting you are. In good writing you are instructed to show, not tell.
/r/seduction15/04/24 02:44 AM
1

This means she's ready to plow.
/r/seduction11/04/24 03:43 PM
13

Yeah this is pretty much exactly right. The woman didn't answer him initially because she has mental health issues that she eat her as well aware of or they are so deeply buried in her unconscious that she doesn't want to look at them. Either way she doesn't want to verbalize the sickness because she knows anyone who hears it will think less of her.
/r/seduction09/04/24 10:40 PM
3

It would seem to me to be incredibly short-sighted to not go have a table for marriage. There are an astounding amount of things that could not even be listed that you will run into while cohabitating. To ignore these things is basically to go into a marriage blind. If you want to have a meaningful long-term relationship with this person you should take the necessary evolutionary steps to make sure that your relationship is legitimate before you get married.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 10:19 PM
5

Words like more sloppy. More loving. More affectionate. More time. More rushes. Faster. More tender.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 10:44 PM
4

Have him command you and do exactly what he tells you during the blowjob
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 10:43 PM
2

I'm saying if she's paying him $1,000 rent that overtime she should be a accruing part of the house.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 03:15 AM
0

No problem man.
/r/seduction23/03/24 12:49 AM
3

Okay that's a lot less bad than it sounded. I've noticed though that women who are kind of down on themselves often miss attribute confidence and the capability of thought processing and expression to be kind of negative. It's annoying and it's not something I really pay mine too because it's such a lower vibrational tactic of behavior that I don't wish to honor it. In life you're going to find reciprocal energy with people whose energy is similar to you. You're going to want to strive to create…
/r/seduction23/03/24 12:37 AM
6

Ask better questions. Listen well. I'm not really into seduction I just think you have to work with someone's energy and coax them out of their shell. I can seduce women who are into me really well I don't do that well with women who aren't interested so I'm not an excellent advice giver. I just think remaining neutral and using push pull techniques in a genuine way is a Time Honored tradition in seduction.
/r/seduction23/03/24 12:36 AM
37

You sound like you have no concept of what women want. Also people who hyper inflate their ego are incredibly unattractive to most. Just learn how to relax. To be a safe space. To not take them or the situation so seriously. If that's what you want, don't harsh the vibe
/r/seduction23/03/24 12:28 AM
12

If you're paying part of the mortgage you should get part of the house I would say.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/24 11:20 PM
1

Look into escalation ladder. Kino. Think about erogenous zones. Push pull techniques
/r/seduction20/03/24 09:58 PM
15

How naive are you? You're being used openly
/r/seduction19/03/24 12:51 AM
7

You sound like you've been corrupted. You no longer seem in touch with a beautiful flower or an effervescent kindness. This is going to make it very difficult for you to develop a real bond with anyone of real value. They'll be able to see what a harsh bitter person who has alienated their true self from morals and ethical bonds.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 05:21 PM
1

Learn how to be interesting conversationally. Shoot your shot.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 03:36 AM
9

Know what he's saying is you have to experience the ups and downs of life. That way you can become outcome independent. You can just live from a place of not really caring one way or another how things work out because you are secure in yourself.
/r/seduction18/02/24 11:20 PM
9

Stop cheating on her
/r/seduction11/02/24 06:30 AM
1

After periods you have to press space twice. Like this. Maybe try to fix it so people are more inclined to read it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 05:59 AM
20

Consider paragraphs please
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 05:29 AM
3

Most people cannot
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 11:25 AM
1

Ghosting is not cool. Confirm and Keep your appointment. Or cancel.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 08:51 PM
1

Maybe talk to him
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 08:47 PM
3

Work on yourself. Take notice of your own unhealthiness. Learn to overcome it through processing and working through it. Take notice of who treats you well. Who sees you and is interested in you truly. Work on your cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 08:31 AM
8

This is one of the more misinformed posts I've seen on here
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 08:26 PM
-1

Good luck with this proposition. It's an interesting method to try to artificially inflate interest in your worth. I hope it works for you but I would imagine less than 1% of people will be open to it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 08:07 PM
1

Yes. Of course.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/23 06:02 AM
3

No offense but it sounds like you only come to understand physical basee addictions. Pick up some books and skills. Round yourself out.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 07:28 AM
7

This post is not the product of a sound perspective not is it thoughtful or eloquent behavior. Look in the mirror.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 06:23 AM
42

You have a low to medium body count. Some guys won't like that. Some guys will accept it and see it as respectable. I would be who you are and respect yourself by telling the Truth
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 05:10 AM
3

I'm not a woman but what I look for in a high caliber friendship I think is similar to what someone should look for in a partner. Willingness to listen even when you're discussing something off color. Open mindedness. That kind of works with my first suggestion. How devout they are to the image of how they want to live life. Not to say they are like a radicalized person. But that they are able to channel energy toward the image they want to live within in a structured responsible manner. Also th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 08:29 PM
2

Don't take him seriously
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 07:07 PM
0

She has a collage of OCD traits. Or perhaps you prefer the term mosaic. I also have OCD.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 08:30 PM
-1

Definitely ocd
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 05:29 PM
1

Hustle* I don't think many men have a problem with what you're talking about. A lot of red pill men like that. If there have been problems I would imagine it's due to boring them
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 07:28 PM
4

You don't seem mature or red pilled. You're branch swinging vociferously.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 05:26 AM
5

Is one of the most insane posts I've ever seen
/r/seduction01/09/23 02:37 AM
8

Doubtful this is true if he is skipping grades
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/23 08:44 PM
39

This is sad. You have no reason to trust this man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 11:18 PM
2

You seem to have serious mental health issues that you have identified. Would consider beginning to meditate. To journal about your problems. To try the problem solve them so they no longer surface whatever given an opportunity to do so. The thing that is awesome is that you're young person identifying your toxic traits. It makes me think you can get over that in a realistic amount of time. Good luck. Do not rush the process
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 05:50 AM
-4

"how to trick yourself into narcissistic behavior 101"
/r/seduction29/06/23 08:50 AM
9

You're not hearing me I mean cold when you interact with them. It's important to still present yourself in a good way no matter the scenario. It's fine if you take some time away from him just don't be rude or cold-hearted when you are back in touch. If you do it will be over like that. I mean it sounds like you went on about 5 dates with this guy. The fact that he is still not committal is not a good sign because he told you he'd be willing to at that point
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 01:48 AM
4

He sounds like an intelligent person. A lot of that stuff is the bare minimum aside from the meeting his friends and family. I still think it's really bizarre you guys did that. You sound like you're scaring him with how into him and how somewhat obsessive you've been. I would just try to be honest about who you are and what you want to do and what you're looking for. Often times women start to become very cold when they don't get what they want and a man understands this woman has been presenti…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 01:35 AM
26

You made a lot of mistakes here This guy is obviously not that interested in you. I do think it's smart that you pulled back. Good luck in the future. Maybe he'll want to date you but sounds like he doesn't
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 01:22 AM
1

I would try to raise your social value. People struggle to respect others who don't stand out socially. If you do stand out in a societal sense and are interesting, it will be harder to ignore. You may want to spend more time developing yourself and looking at hobbies. Firing more neurons and trying to develop your self. You seem like a really kind person with a good heart. The more well balanced and overtly stunning you are from an internal sense it will be harder to throw you away
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/23 08:53 AM
7

Op, please read this a few times to understand why your prospective husband feels uneasy about you. Abdicating responsibility is not an attractive trait.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 10:54 PM
4

No, it's not. You're trying to rationalize.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 10:52 PM
1

This is kind of short-sighted on your part. There's a lot more that goes into smv than looks. That's just like the outer layer of it. I agree relationship market value should definitely be taught as well
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 04:33 PM
2

Men date down. You hear women talking about this a lot. I would strive to become more healthy. To become more emotionally reasonable. Because I'm a good partner. Keep the light in your heart alive. Someone will be drawn in by it. Someone will find it to be majestic and mystical and beautiful. As long as you take care of yourself. Someone will help you get to the finish line. Sanity and well-being are in charge supply in modern society. If you can stand out in that way you will have your pick of …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 02:02 PM
2

If you don't want a toxic existence, work on yourself until you can escape.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 05:03 AM
25

I would advise to provide a comfort zone. To seduce him softly. To be kind, warm, nice, sensual and loving. Give it time to bloom.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 07:56 PM
18

If you've had mental health issues in the past month it seems disingenuous to expect someone to be trying to marry you right now. You need to work within and heal what is broken
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 03:43 PM
8

Study sensuousness Learn to let go. Be willing to step out of your comfort zone Try new things.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/22 06:16 AM
7

I agree it was careless to just drop a one-liner telling her to leave her husband. Anyway I hope she expands all the time and energy required to fix this relationship. I hope she can convince her husband to care about Fidelity of their relationship and treating each other with honesty and full-fledged respect
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/22 01:21 AM
19

The guy is willfully cheating on her at length and has been for years. He is unapologetic and doesn't see anything wrong. It is the nuclear option but if you can't get a partner to treat you within the realm of equality you can't have a balanced loving relationship
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 07:50 PM
1

You should leave this guy
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 06:10 PM
1

It's good you are willing to try. I would try not to blame the support of another for your inability to remain stable. Not very stoic. That said many will agree with you I just don't recommend projecting fault outside yourself as it doesn't really take the onus upon yourself. Better to accept your input into a situation even if it is negative.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 12:58 AM
3

It sounds like he's conversed with her at length to no recourse. He hasn't cheated. They made an agreement not to sleep with anyone or date anyone. They just took some space. She admits to not having lived up to the end of her end of the bargain. The point about her looks is a bit too candid I would agree
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 12:14 AM
10

You are seeing things in a very simplistic way. Ops husband and her have accepted unsustainable negative energies and as he reached the precipice of a breaking point he informed her. This is an honest man communicating his truth. They both stopped being workable spouses and have held on for dear life. Now they are trying to fix what could not be fixed previously. He threw a hail Mary. He is not a villain. Nor is she. They are just people.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 06:25 PM
8

It sounds like you let a lot of negativity fester and your relationship became doomed. Hopefully you will be willing to assess the fault lines you created and restructure your relationship such that you both can find happiness. If not I would assume your marriage will fall apart and not be resewn. These are real unambiguous faults. Terrible ones. I'm sure he is guilty of a plethora of negative energies that he brings as well. If you two can work together to improve your communication there is ho…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 06:21 PM
6

Traditional conservative man
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 05:12 AM
2

You should have thought about this much earlier. He doesn't want what you want. Good luck. I would recommend ending the relationship if you need this. That said you've already said you won't do this. Anyway enjoy the fact that you love this man. That is something very real.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 12:24 AM
15

I prefer where Goldie is coming from personally. I feel like what she is talking about makes a lot more sense. I can tell you that the most people are not in a rush to marry their partner who is continually Moody and frustrated over small things. If you are aware that you're giving off an intense amount of bad energy. I am sure he is too. I think you need to stop dealing with hints in ultimatums and things like that. I think you just need to be more honest and truthful and then calm. Equality wi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/20 05:32 PM
2

You need to realize that's all bullshit. You think you're a loser. Therefore you are. In your own mind. Apply your intelligence to being something. Stop worrying. Stop living in fear. There are plenty of women who will want you. Once you believe in yourself. Maybe listen to some Alan watts or something.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:04 AM
0

Hey man David Goggins has no motivation according to himself. He said he doesn't wake up any day motivated. What he does have, is drive. He says motivation is b*******. He's driven to be who he needs to be. I say this not to be pedantic or rude. But because I think it was a helpful distinction for other people to read. Many people give up because they're not motivated. They don't realize that not many people are that motivated. That they are driven to not accept bulshit from themselves
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 04:45 PM
2

Play man sounds like you're at the precipice of coming to terms with your situation I would recommend just doing whatever feels natural to you and not paying it any mind after. I do think something along the lines of taking the head off but maybe a little bit more subtle like something that would make more sense. Bald guys f*** too dude
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:25 AM
9

Do both
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:23 AM
1

Stop being this way. Decide to be better. Make time for things that are actually important. Like your health.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:53 PM
6

I tried to tell him as honestly as possible so he could fully grasp it. No malice just man to man honesty.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:48 PM
66

He's telling you it's sad because you're not happy alone and therefore you're not a prize. You're looking for a prize to make you feel better so you can have the abundance mentality. You should already know you are the prize and just relax. You are being Guided by fear and anxiety. This is why the women aren't so attracted to you.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:50 PM
1

If you're trying to be more extraverted, consider every situation to be a game. Where is the energy pulling you? What are you seeing? Vibe with this. Do not analyze too hard in the moment. You could pick up the pieces and analyze after as you want to. Whatever is jumping out to you, put your spin on it. People like quick reaction times. Quick processing is seen as higher intelligence. As wit. As a special analysis. The carefree nature of it is attractive. So just live. Step outside ego. Be the p…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 10:29 PM
2

An unsuccessful abortion is the luckiest person on the planet. They tried to kill it in the womb and still couldn't. Your perspective is negative. That's a fact man. Think about that next time life sucks. Ask yourself if life sucks, or are you sucking up all the negativity of it? Listen to respiration remix by black star featuring black thought produced by Pete rock and LISTEN to the energy. It'll push you to the outer limits of yourself. Somewhere you clearly need to be. Since you're wallowing …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 12:50 AM
1

Lol if you think everything hates you and everyone is an asshole. This is just you hating everything. The universe just gives you what you put into it Accept that and work with it respectfully.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 03:44 PM
3

Don't be scared bro. Don't live from a place of fear. Live from a place of enjoyment. Enjoy the experience.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:57 PM
10

Get out of your head. Women aren't looking for you to do things in a perfect analytical way. They don't act and analytical way constantly. Remember You Are a Human Being. Remember what being is about. Get out of your head. Do what feels natural don't second-guess yourself.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:05 PM
1

Read philosophy. Look at Jordan Peterson's meaning of life. I try to post inspiring and thoughtful stuff on subreddit altruisticharmony. Look into stoicism. Peep the pursuit of wonder and academy of ideas and after skool YouTube channels. Read happiness by Matthieu Ricard. Please do the last one. I don't think you will want to die nearly as much.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:57 AM
1

Yeah I have read most of that. It is an excellent resource i have been meaning to reread. Did you read my post though ? That is a good tactic but my topic was specifically how do you stop getting people to waste your time by only talking about themselves.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:10 AM
2

How did it end up?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:18 AM
1

Read enlightening material
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:41 AM
14

Don't worry about her bs games. Don't let them phase you. Just keep playing and winning. Is my interpretation. Go on trip and have fun
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:27 AM
2

I'm unsure if this is 100 percent true or just 92 percent true hahahaha
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:37 PM
2

Damn that quote is amazing
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 07:17 AM
1

So for me I know a lot of people constantly complain about their work and life and ways people have crossed them and constantly tell boring stories don't do any of that b******* just live your life and enjoy it take every moment as a moment to be adored and experiencing to be Look Back by later with Glee and happiness for having had that opportunity
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 08:42 PM
2

Breathing improvements can do wonders for any number of things
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:20 AM
1

No man what you're not grasping is it's not settled because you were taking everything as attacks when really it's just like if your 12th grade teacher is trying to explain to you that the stuff you were doing in 9th grade is no longer applicable. I'm sure there's plenty of things you're better at than all of us and whatever no big deal you know we all specialized and whatever. Three dimensional but people were just trying to give you advice and you took it very offended that's not good frames t…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 05:40 AM
1

Hey man you're taking everything as people putting you down and trying to shoot on you when really they're just trying to teach you how things work
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 04:33 PM
2

Have you thought about telling him this? He will probably give you what you need more if you're this fed up with this situation.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 05:31 AM
1

Hey I have heard some conflicting reviews about the book I was wondering if you could give me a brief rundown as to you if you thought it was worth reading. I like the anecdote you shared from it which made me think maybe it was a little bit more worth reading then I had previously realized.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 06:25 PM
1

Just turn your life around on your own Acid helped him but who knows what it will do. Don't do or not do it based on what he of I is saying. Just follow your intuition and heart and mind more. Do things for your long term best self interest
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 07:01 PM
2

He's right but research it more.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 07:00 PM
2

I mean maybe in certain scenarios but friendships are invaluable for a multitude of reasons. Don't turn on all your friends.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:05 AM
2

People don't like when others have radically different idealogies. Easier to just think you're weird. I've experienced similar resistance in different similar scenarios
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:04 AM
1

Sadly So True
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:04 PM
1

Ask yourself who cares about you. Who thinks of you in a positive way when you're not there. That's more likely to be your friend.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:04 PM
1

My main point which you seem in agreement of is just to think in depthly about your rationales. Make sure they're pretty logical and not totally emotionally based. I agree with pretty much all of your points. All I was saying is maybe by ignoring you they're trying to see if you care enough to push the relationship forward. Your analysis was probably correct but I'm just suggesting working towards achieving a full understanding. You talk to them more and they are short and curt, you prove yourse…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 04:03 PM
1

Dude Sounds fucked Up. Move on. Realize he isn't better than you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 06:39 AM
1

You're Not Dating. The guy wanted to bang your friend. You are a beta from asking her to not do it. If you were in control you would next him for wanting to fuck your friend openly. You should have talked to her and seen how she felt. Maybe you were right to cut her off but he was the real culprit. And I'm a guy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 06:35 AM
1

You will probably not be an excellent judge of character until you scrutinize life deeply for several years. People can be deceiving. Maybe I'm wrong. Conservative people typically write off people for all sorts of inane reason and have no issues with other inane reasons. May not apply to you. You seem nice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 06:26 AM
1

I'm alarmed you wouldn't consider tinder a hookup app. The way you match is based upon looks. There lies the basis of your relationship. Pretty simple. Not deep.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 06:23 AM
1

All your concepts are not based on rationality. They are based upon emotions. Probably doesn't help the way people perceive you. Who wants to try to understand a woman without logic. Someone doesn't text you for a week or two. That's it for you. Does that make sense? Maybe. Maybe they want you to show some real interest. Would they be so wrong. I know I have trouble respecting people's opinions when a ton of their ideas come from not well reasoned scenarios. You asked a few men out and were decl…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 06:20 AM
2

Figure out who is a good person. Keep that person as a friend.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:38 AM
4

Yea. Signaling ones virtuous altruistic behavior. Basically same reason most use social media. To look cool and gain status. A pathetic trait.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:30 AM
16

I think writing someone off due to a factor like that is short sited. One fwb. A series of fwb. A host of orgies. These are whore attributes. One fwb doesn't equal a whore. Not to say you're wrong. But just ponder this thought. Give it some credence even if you ultimately end up disagreeing with it
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 11:33 PM
4

Yeah I find it weird he found it offensive that you were giving a basic human psyche. Women have super strong emotions and are really fickle. They had talked for like 40 hours. In no way is that a typical or normal amount of time for feelings to be discussed. This is anecdotal as all hell but here is an example. I was hanging out with this girl a few times a week for maybe a month or two and I open my heart to where and told her I was interested but more than that I just wanted Clarity with wher…
/r/seduction21/07/17 07:02 PM
3

This is actually good advice to you from him. It is awkward that you did that tbh. Girls are really weird. What happened was the likeliest result. You have to let a woman slowly develop feelings in you. This was better though. Some people would have purposely done this with the thinking of if she doesnt like me after a few weeks it isnt wOrth the time. Plus long distance relationships are whack.
/r/seduction21/07/17 06:54 PM
1

Lol don't be butthurt you guys just differ in opinion esse
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:35 PM
7

What did you read to study that?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 12:55 AM
10

Then just relax and have some chill convos w ppl.
/r/seduction09/12/16 04:01 PM
5

Some will some won't. Read social cues. It's not a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:32 PM
4

I think the argument is moreso that it can be overcome rather than doesn't matter at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:31 PM
3

You're missing the point. Absolutes are true in themselves. But not alwaya. I know a person who's like 5 8 280 thst consistently dates models. He does well but not incredibly. He's just a chill honest straight forward guy. It can happen if you believe in yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:28 PM
7

You know it's weird man I don't have an especially high n count but tbh I've consistently gotten off a number of partners and had a handful of trysts. When I analyze myself not much has changed. I just try to be myself and take what the universe offers that aligns with that. I try to relax and appreciate the little things. Not sweat stupid things. Just appreciate yourself and your experience you get to have in life and respect what you have to offer. Sexual aspects are easy. You just listen to h…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:25 PM
4

Places commonly do that man its bizarre you equated it to this situation. You're supposed to card a whole party.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:27 AM
-2

Being a man
/r/seduction13/09/16 06:49 AM
1

It is but I know really obese people that date models. So there is more at stake. Having high value helps.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 06:57 AM
2

Find some clubs. Should help find people with similar interests which should help accomplish what you care about.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 06:55 AM
2

This is weird thst you blame this on single mothers. Ops exs mom is just a cunt.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 05:57 PM
1

I thought it was a euphemism my bad
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 01:18 AM
1

What are you talking about? Didn't zimmerman pull a gun, tm defended himself and zimmerman killed him? Then gz has made all sorts of rude comments
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:23 AM
0

It's fucked up he said pete could have rightfully beat her up a bit and it'd be ok. And got upvotes
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:21 AM
1

"There is nothing for me in a ltr" Must be nice not having feelings I'm not saying rush into one but there are definitely positives.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:17 AM
2

Just learn how to use it and go down well and mix going down w fingering real well
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 07:50 PM
1

Exactly my point. Trying to point out the beauty of self sufficiency
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 02:20 AM
-1

That's a legit reason to dump someone though. What if your gf had been the only thing to get you through this process? then when she dumps you, you'd feel the one thing that got you through it is gone.. now you are alone. you have to be okay with being alone in life. Not to say be alone, but you have to be okay with yourself whether you're with someone or alone. I don't mean this to be rude at all, but would you be in a relationship if you felt no attraction to someone? It's perfectly fair for h…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 04:12 AM
1

I have done that to a girl before. I felt bad about it but things were so far gone and so fucked up that I felt I had no recourse. I honestly didn't break up with her for another few months due to life reasons like debt and money related but eventually went through with it. I was not right. But situations can be murky as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:24 PM
2

Just enjoy life and be yourself man. That will attract the kind of person you're going to enjoy being around. Someone who enjoys you for you.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 08:47 PM
1

What I noticed is that if I text a girl too much I run out of things to say. If there's something funny you want to say or a discussion comes up then go for it. But don't use up all your conversation pieces for a quick lol. Most ppl don't text much they just meet up. Some text a lot before daring or whatever. It's a choice.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 03:08 PM
1

Make food w her. Cuddle. Take a relaxing walk. Put on your music. Put on your show or sports. It's not that hard.
/r/seduction06/01/16 05:29 PM
2

You forgive others not for them but for you
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 05:38 AM
1

Just relax. His best advice was knowing regardless you're a prize and just enjoy life as you want to.
/r/seduction08/12/15 03:15 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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