Jaspjay Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Moving to a new area - dating logistics	Logistics	Jaspjay	/r/seduction	07/06/24 09:55 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What’s up with dating apps? Let me guess gramps, the hairline isn't quite what it used to be and the pudge is starting to show through those band t-shirts you looked so fetching in back in the day. Not sure if a young bunk like myself can compete with that kind of competition.	/r/seduction	21/10/24 03:13 PM
4	What’s up with dating apps? Attractive girls don't generally need dating apps so you're left with the dregs. That said, from what I've seen, the calibre of men on them isn't much better. I think in my few months of heavy use of dating apps I matched with one genuine 9/10. It was a sea of 3s and 4s with the occasional 5 or 6.	/r/seduction	16/10/24 07:19 PM
1	Tinder bios? Bios are only useful insofar as they give a girl a 'hook' to message you with. Otherwise you get boring as fuck openers like "hey x"	/r/seduction	26/07/24 12:02 PM
6	How is the dating scene in Eastern European countries for Latino/Black guys? Is eastern European girls are so conservative why was it the mecca for all the PUA guys 10 or so years ago?	/r/seduction	13/07/24 05:39 PM
1	İ feel hopeless beacuse of my virginity That's why you say it's been a while. She won't be expecting some mind-blowing experience from an 18 year old so don't worry if you're a little awkward. It's a mental thing, she wants to feel reassured that another girl has let you fuck her before and you're not a weirdo. I lost mine at 20 so I'm speaking from experience here.	/r/seduction	05/07/24 09:18 AM
1	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? Boo is that one that's for gamers right? I saw an ad for it but it seemed a bit cringe. How have you found it?	/r/seduction	03/07/24 09:56 PM
5	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? I am very close to just deleting Tinder. It feels scammy as fuck with the way it pesters you to use boosts and then drip feeds you matches to keep you hooked. I have had dozens and dozens of matches and maybe 10% have either responded to my message or initiated a convo, let alone get to setting up a date. Then of that 10% maybe 25% won't be either obese, several years older than me, boring as fuck or have any interested in meeting. Hinge is definitely the best.	/r/seduction	03/07/24 09:51 PM
1	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? Glad I'm not the only one who's noticed this now 😅	/r/seduction	03/07/24 09:47 PM
3	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? Yes. It's like saying you're too cool to make the effort to use capital letters. It's a type I've found. Usually the 6/10s who think they're 10/10s	/r/seduction	03/07/24 07:35 PM
6	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? Agreed, but bumble has been alright for me too. My bio is pretty low effort on both and I don't swipe much but I get probably a like a day on average. Good pics go a long way.	/r/seduction	03/07/24 06:38 PM
48	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? Had Tinder Bumble and Hinge for just under a month and have got one lay and a few promising leads out of them. Tinder has the hottest girls but the majority are time wasters or never respond to messages. I suspect it's just an ego thing for them. Edit: Just to add, I find the girls who don't use punctuation or capital letters in order to seem aloof and indifferent are the most painful to talk to, if they don't warm up within two or three messages drop them without hesitation	/r/seduction	03/07/24 06:24 PM
8	İ feel hopeless beacuse of my virginity Don't make the mistake of thinking that your honesty will help. I am normally in favour of being transparent about things but when it comes to virginity lie through your back teeth. Say you lost it at 16 to a high-school girlfriend but it's been a while and leave it at that if you're pressed on it.	/r/seduction	02/07/24 02:36 PM
1	Are my results typical considering my stats? OP is a 5 foot nothing Filipino 😅	/r/seduction	09/06/24 08:25 PM
1	Being in shape, body game is the foundation to "seduction" Yeah good point. Most men look like shit so having a decent haircut, clothes and body makes a big difference.	/r/seduction	05/06/24 10:07 AM
2	How can I get multiple sexual partners? You can't even get one and you're asking how to get multiple?	/r/seduction	05/06/24 10:06 AM
4	Being in shape, body game is the foundation to "seduction" Having a good physique helps but it's far from the be all and end all. It means you stand out from the pudgy dad bod guys but not much else. Also, think Brad Pitt in fight club, not veiny, bright red, thin skinned roidmonkey. The most broadly attractive physique is athletic/ottermode.	/r/seduction	04/06/24 11:53 AM
4	I banned dating apps from my life Did you get many lays from dating apps? What was your success rate like?	/r/seduction	26/05/24 05:34 PM
1	Why it's Difficult for making a female friend Indian technique is sending hundreds of "bob and vagene" messages to random women on social media and hoping you get a bite.	/r/seduction	26/05/24 03:09 PM
38	Approached and got told to F off You probably startled or frightened her. Approaching from behind and then suddenly overtaking her and spinning around to say hi would be pretty intimidating for a woman on her own. Even if you were extremely handsome I doubt you'd get a positive reaction from that kind of approach.	/r/seduction	19/05/24 06:48 PM
0	Everything is fine with my relationship. But why do I have the urge to seek out other women How's your wife's son these days?	/r/seduction	19/05/24 04:21 PM
3	I think i have a small dick. I had 3-4 bad experiences with women when i was really young and now i am afraid to talk to them. I can't reprogram myself from those failures. I am also autistic and don't have any sense of humor. What would your advice be? Everyone has a small dick at 13. Don't worry about it.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 08:20 PM
2	Intense Sext Fair enough. Seems like you've dealt with it in a mature manner and he laughed it off which is good. Also, I'm not suggesting you ignore him completely. But don't initiate anything and let him come to you, if he wants it he will, if he doesn't then you can cut your losses and move on.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 09:12 PM
5	Intense Sext Again, reverse the roles. If you were the one cancelling the trip, what would you say? Presumably, you'd apologise profusely and immediately reschedule because you wanted it. Now imagine that you got cold feet and weren't feeling it any more. You'd want to avoid confrontation, so you'd say something vague and be noncommittal about arranging a new date. It's hard and God knows I've made this mistake before but you need to let it go. If he actually wants it he'll chase you.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 07:18 AM
3	Intense Sext Which hand did you type that with?	/r/seduction	06/05/24 07:13 AM
7	Intense Sext Ouch. Well in that case yeah, make some flimsy excuse and just don't interact from now on, nip it in the bud. Problem is he'll get horny one night and message you out of the blue and your heart will flutter and you'll think "This time is my chance!" That's what I'd do if I were him, assuming I didn't already have a harem at my beck and call. Then once you've fucked or he's had a nice wank to one of your pics it'll be back to radio silence. You need to be disciplined and resist.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 06:42 AM
14	Intense Sext Imagine the roles were reversed. Some guy who you weren't really interested in texted you something about his cock and how horny he was. You'd probably just wince and ignore it. Well, that's what's happened to you. Assuming it is you and not some elaborate troll you look reasonably attractive. Hop on a dating app or flirt with someone at work or something, you'll be able to find yourself a man more receptive to your advances.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 06:25 AM
37	Intense Sext Come on this is just embarrassing. Time to stop	/r/seduction	06/05/24 06:16 AM
2	Text Game Life Hack Fuck videocalls. I'd rather be able to reply at my leisure than taking time out of my day to sit there balancing my phone chatting. I'm sure it works for some guys but for me it's either texting or seeing them in person.	/r/seduction	30/04/24 11:29 AM