Jatacid Archive

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1	I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to. Look into EMDR therapy to process your previous frustrations they are holding you back. You fear failure because of past experience, so you expect to fail. And subconcious has a way of sabotaging our concious thoughts. And stop attributing your value on your social status. Some people are just not social. We will very rarely 'fit in' and people are assholes. So just learn to be your own best friend - screw everyone else. You're a decent guy! You don't have to be the best at anything. There is be…	/r/seduction	05/11/20 10:30 PM
1	How do you fix your self esteem? I don't use them anymore personally. How do you meet people then? If I go to a bar and summon up the courage to talk to people so many times they give me weird looks and rejection before I've even opened my mouth.	/r/seduction	17/09/20 10:30 AM
12	Change your MINDSET I'm never going to find a soulmate, yet	/r/seduction	28/10/17 11:52 PM
3	Why you should never worry about going for the kiss I must be so ugly. I've been on 1. And she just wanted KFC lol.	/r/seduction	13/03/17 02:38 PM
3	Is being easy-going attractive? Probably need some examples for this. Casual teasing amongst friends you should do the 'agree&amplify' thing. It shows assurety and confidence. Starting actual conflict. This is where we need examples. Are you being bullied? Or are you on the fence of a social group? What exactly are you trying to accomplish? Stand up for yourself but don't do it in a way which makes you seem like you cant take a joke. Self confidence is important. but yeah, hard without examples. Easy going. If people are askin…	/r/seduction	17/09/13 07:22 AM
22	Confidence VS Arrogance (I know it's for entrepreneurs but I thought it fitted right into our debate) I'm arrogant. Fuck...	/r/seduction	30/08/13 05:33 AM
1	[FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist". Speak to the manager earlier in the day - keep your cool. Drop words like 'discrimination' and 'racist' and he should let you back in haha	/r/seduction	20/01/13 03:17 AM
2	whats the best way to K close on a hiking date? since you're all sweaty it's unlikely to be too romantic. Just make a joke of it & give her a big hug with all your sweatyness (don't actually be that sweaty..thats just gross). Then give her a quick peck and put her back down but don't completely let her move away. Then slow it down and go in for another peck, this time a bit slower ;)	/r/seduction	07/01/13 12:59 PM
1	[FR] #-closed a girl that was working at a tea shop, and ended up on a spontaneous lunch date with her a couple days later. Dude you better be careful, you're already putting her on a high horse and lowering yourself. Keep yourself above game and keep your value differential. Also, not to break your bubble but to bring you down a bit. If sometimes you said that kind of line "im really attracted to you" it could often scare a girl off but I think you honestly got lucky than you said it 1) confidently, and b) moved on like it was nothing. Meaning she may not be sure if it was meant to be a proclamation of desire, or si…	/r/seduction	03/01/13 01:15 PM
3	Where am I going wrong? Trouble picking up at loud clubs/bars... work on your dance game. It's a different ball park. You need to command the dance floor. Grab girls and spin them around and then leave them to dance with someone else..its about seeming increidbly awesome from a distance with plenty of social approval & esteem. Just own it. Then you can take them outside /for a drinkk to chat.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 01:08 PM
1	Tantric Meditation? And? does it actually work? is it fun etc?	/r/seduction	15/11/12 04:17 AM
1	Tantric Meditation? did you start with a course? Or did you just read the books you linked to?	/r/seduction	13/11/12 06:43 AM
1	Tantric Meditation? Thanks :) I didn't expect there to be a partner-partner requisite with this kind of stuff.	/r/seduction	13/11/12 06:00 AM
2	I wish I took the blue pill Once you game. You'll never be the same. Interpret as you will.	/r/seduction	31/08/12 02:29 PM
157	[FR] Don't buy girls drinks.. lesson learned! Best thing I've seen was a mate who acted all enthusiastic "Yeah! I'd love to!" Then goes to the bar and even orders a drink that she would think was for her. Then he just pays for the drink and drinks it infront of her with a mischevious grin and a look on his face which bascially would say "so, what?". Then he eventually offered a sip, and as soon as she tastes like even a micro drop he pulls it away and pushes her away & says "whoa whoa too much, you're already too drunk!" I think it worked s…	/r/seduction	18/04/12 03:04 PM
1	A question for seddit... try asking questions at /r/askseddit but no. for the most part they don't know about us. keep away from canned material though	/r/seduction	08/04/12 01:01 AM
2	It's getting hard to sort the good content (FRs, PUA material) from the shit (very specific questions, people asking opinions). If you have a question, go to r/askseddit. Valid argument. The collection of questions that come with a whole bunch of specific scenario variables that likely will never be replicated by someone else do indeed make sense to be separated from the other useful stuff. Just somehow the /askseddit domain is a little removed & obscured - it may need better highlighting on the sidebar and maybe a [Q]Legend based system for here in addition to at least filter some of it	/r/seduction	02/04/12 12:57 PM
14	It's getting hard to sort the good content (FRs, PUA material) from the shit (very specific questions, people asking opinions). If you have a question, go to r/askseddit. To be honest I didnt even know it existed and I am sure I am not the only one. Wouldn't it be better to just make a rule where if it's a question you have to tag it with [Q]? Then you'd have a little Legend-type thing on the side bar where: [Q]Question [A]Advice [FR]Field Report [RV]Revelation This would then allow people to ask questions to a bigger PuA base rather than just a bunch of other newbies. All the content in one place & useful answers can be found to some of the questions that come u…	/r/seduction	02/04/12 12:09 PM
3	Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?" First. You havent even had her ask this question yet? Seems to me like you are already over thinking things! Be careful about this. Remember you are the one showing HER a good time - it shouldn't matter what she thinks of it or says if you're living in the moment. Secondly: If you're taking her to a movie you really need to up the physicality EARLY & i mean before you even get into the cinema. Guide her through doors, lines, the ticket booth by hands on her back & hugs. When finding a seat strai…	/r/seduction	27/03/12 12:37 PM
0	How to get past polite and boring conversation? If there is one thing I can do to a reasonable level, it's having a conversation with a stranger.. Boring conversations are made up of just questions and answers and tend to jump from topic to topic. Maybe try inputting one of your thoughts about a topic. Or a story. Say it in a way which will allow her to then comment on or delve into your story or the topic a bit deeper. A good conversation should need maybe one or two 'sparking' questions and then the rest of the conversation should be able t…	/r/seduction	17/03/12 01:51 AM
5	What did I do wrong at the club? (male/19) One of my buddies who got me into the game at the start of this whole thing said one thing which I'll always remember. He said that the thing the game did for him was "change his way of thinking into not remembering the failures, but remembering the successes." What were your successes of the night?! First time at a club. Had a good time. Overcame social anxiety. Got practice dancing with a girl you actually dig. And most of all - you recognized areas where you still need improvement. Take all t…	/r/seduction	13/03/12 04:07 AM
5	How to pick up girls when you live at home? Truth. Just laugh about it. "Haha I still live with mommy! Its fucking great. Cheap rent. Cheap food." Indicate your goals maybe as a follow up "I'm working a bit at the moment - probably looking to get into a share house in the next few years we'll see how it goes." It's not the facts - its the delivery & the justifcation. Works for nearly every aspect of pickup	/r/seduction	19/01/12 01:31 PM
1	How to tell a story Nice dude - Your post will help more than just me so cheers. PS. Post some FR's! :P	/r/seduction	17/01/12 11:53 AM
1	infield pickup in 3D!!! OR click the button options to cycle through the various 3d options (if you have the blue & red glasses for example)	/r/seduction	17/01/12 07:03 AM
9	How do I get a social circle? I suck at life btw but want to get better. Join things you like to do.Whether it be sports - or what about a gaming cafe? And make note to just talk to everyone. Small talk can make strangers into "Friendlies". 'Friendlies' transition to 'friends' naturally and only if you invest into them. Invest into friendlies by recreating the scenario they're most comfortable & natural in. For example if you chat to "friendlies" at your gaming cafe you could say. Dude you should give me ur number & we should have a gaming session some day. Do that a…	/r/seduction	09/01/12 06:29 AM
5	[FR] Clubbing with a 3-set. Got called "confusing" How to improve? I think a lot of "fresh" Sargers new to the game struggle with the story telling part. You could put it down to possibly not having actually had many life experiences which gives them stories to tell. Instead of trying to make up stories or whatever, become as well-read as you can. Read reddit. Read the news Read science articles. Even read the 'entertainment' section about hollywood/celebs. Read as much as you can - even if it's only a brief skim read. The more well read you are - the better yo…	/r/seduction	09/01/12 06:10 AM