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| 1 | Being good looking but cant get laid?Tell me what happens usually when you meet a girl in the club. The convo and everything. Does she walk away? Does the convo stay indifferent? | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I built a spaced repetition app. It can help you train your mindsetNo.. never get the pop ups I'm on 10.3.3 iPhone 6s Yeah it works well but can only record for 10 seconds | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | I built a spaced repetition app. It can help you train your mindsetI remember accepting the notifications when I first installed it but to be sure I did what you suggested and all were green. Everything else seems to be working just fine. Also wanted to ask if you could make the recordings longer, 10seconds is a bit short for me. I have a few positive affirmations that are a few minutes long. Also was really hoping to be able to record golden phrases from YouTube videos - 10-30 seconds long. Thanks for the hard work, the app is really clean | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 11:40 AM |
| 2 | I built a spaced repetition app. It can help you train your mindsetYeah I've tried it in both silent and on normal. If I click the individual tracks it works but when I click play it doesn't. I get that screen and only have silence. Repetition is everything to me, I should be thanking you | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 01:49 AM |
| 1 | jodelAre you the type of person that hurts people's feelings? You don't seem that way. If she wants a relationship and you don't then be honest with her. It may turn out that she likes you enough to settle for friends with benefits. The heart is not a glass jar, you're not going to break it. It is a muscle, and muscles grow stronger. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | I built a spaced repetition app. It can help you train your mindsetDownloaded it because I understand the magnitude of what it can do. Tried to play some of the playlists on the continuous setting but it doesn't play | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | jodelBest kind of sex is with a girl that you can talk to. Buy some alcohol, put on some music and remember that you have met a girl that likes you. You fucking winner, get in there and make some love. You're going to do just fine. What are you worried about? | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Being good looking but cant get laid?Respect bro you're on the right path. I lost my virginity after 70days of nofap. Keep working on your game and FOCUS ON BODY LANGUAGE! You can get laid with fantastic body language and one phrase: 'I want you' Had mind blowing sex with a portugués chick who spoke almost no English. In the bed afterwards we had to use google translate to talk. tip 'Wanna get out of here?' Is asking for the sale. She will know what you mean | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | jodelThere are a few magical spots for rapid escalation. My favourite is the area on a girls leg between her ass/hip and her knee. Rub the back of your fingers gently in this area in a kind of 'light massage' way. Stop if she stops you! The trick to escalation is to cause her to 'feel' sex not think about it (creating arousal/making her horny). It's very important. If you can get a girl soaking wet when she is fully clothed.. well.. you'll find out soon enough haha. | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Can't control my mind anymore, please help!Hmm if you have the time message me. When I read your post it reminds me of how my mind used to control me. Would like to hear your story | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I can't feel a connection with any new girlsGo deeper with your inner game bro. The answers are always within. I was feeling just like you are now for months. I came to the realisation that I still had feelings for my ex. Maybe you are feeling better, however one of the telltale signs of real depression is fake happiness. Often the most afflicted are the most social. When I tried to get my ex back she rejected me, it made me feel like shit for a few hours but then I was back on the prowl the next week. | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 11:15 PM |
| 0 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)There is a lot of info in YouTube and on google, it's probably the hardest thing I've ever done but the rewards keep coming. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I wish I had game in high schoolWhat are you regretting exactly? I've seen this before - when a person constantly repeats something they are hiding something else. There is also the possibility that you are lying about pulling more now.. why repeat yourself again and again? | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)Cold shower therapy Changed my life Quit watching porn and masturbating Wake up the man within (your father, grandfather and so on had to get laid for you to be here, therefore you have the skills built in your genome) Find something to add value to yourself Gym/business/music/travel/anything you want Pick one or do all three. 'If you want things in your life to change you have to change things in your life' Kevin Trudeau | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?Alpha is a male that has earned the right to reproduce. Beta is a male that has not. You are on your way to success so keep going. You have a good strong mentality and a positive attitude so I know you'll do just fine. Check out Liam McRae and other guys on 21convention on YouTube plus RSD Tyler's infield for an example of masterful nightclub game. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?What you need to do is learn your surroundings, firstly pay attention to what the venue is like and when it gets busy. Then you want to learn what crowd goes there and how you can dress to look the best when you go. If you go to a super club in a blazer and jeans it can work but it is vastly more successful and appropriate in a bar or other respectable venue. Forget the staff, they are busy. If you drink: Most times I don't even buy anything in the club. It is better to pre-drink (buy from a sho… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 05:21 PM |
| 3 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)So you're on a big campus then yeah? Try to find another girl whilst you see what this one does. This was a successful attempt for you, the next time you try you will be able to compare the results. Honestly all you need is encouragement as you sound like a grounded male. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 05:08 PM |
| 4 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?It takes a serious level of self-confidence and self-esteem to go out on your own. Many people don't dare do it, I can and often do. Forget about going in a group unless there are girls with you, every guy you go with after one weakens your image. That's why having a 'wingman' is the standard. So either find a wingman that wants to do what your doing and is good or after every night record what happened. Nothing is better than reflecting each night with someone that supports you. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 04:53 PM |
| 7 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)Lads you need to read the situation better, OP isn't a guy on the street trying to pick up with cold approach. He is a young man in school. If he starts acting strange he will have to deal with the awkwardness every weekday. If he wants to avoid her that's cool, but it's not necessary here. He should play it cool and continue spending time with her like how he was before. Women are notorious for saying one thing and doing something else! | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Any ideas for what to do after a fancy lunch date?When it comes to relationships and love the trick is to sneak behind enemy lines. Go watch a few romcoms, read a romantic novel or something like that. You'll be given so much good material that you will be laughing. Girls spend hours eating up all that shit wishing they could be the girl on the screen. Use this to your advantage. Seriously, she'll be bragging to all her friends and family about how 'sweet and romantic' you are. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 02:18 PM |
| 34 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)RESPECT BROTHER, RESPECT TO YOU! That couldn't have gone better, she didn't 'reject' you she was telling you her status. She could have said 'No sorry I've got a boyfriend' or 'Sorry I don't see you like that'. Even the fact that you didn't overreact is solid. Focus on the positive. She just needs more time, stick around and make her comfortable. She sounds like the kind of girl that likes to date rather than sleep around so keep your foot in the door. I lost my virginity at 20 and at 24 I'm on … | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 02:10 PM |
| 8 | CLUB GAME: I know how to dance fun. But how do you START kino/escalation?When it comes to nightclub game, the first thing you want to consider is appearance. How do you look? Peacocking is funny to watch but does not result in successful lays. So many times I've gone on nights out and I've seen a guy doing what you do, he dances his heart out and everyone just stares and watches. Often girls get caught up and partially join in but they never get too close. People respect performers, that is all. They don't want to stop your fun and most of the time girls are scared o… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Advice: did I permanently FZ myself?Ah so you are looking for the real thing like I thought. Keep following your instincts, your life is already pretty good so risk isn't so necessary. There is also the possibility that she isn't the right girl for what you want, hold onto your image of a loving partner and fulfilling relationship and you may just meet someone who wants the same with you. The romcom is called 'The break-up' (Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston). Basically, it shows two sides of the same story, guys perspective and g… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I go against my moral compass and be an asshole? "I would rather have sex with a girl who thinks I'm something else than not have sex because she knows who I am"Not sure what you are thinking about. Game isn't about pretending anything. The guys that loves to tell long stories and lie - are liars. That's what they do. The guys that don't talk much but get laid are also following their style. What is your style? Fakers suck at game, do not do it. Maybe set up a tinder account and advertise your value there, go on dates and when they go well lead them to a bed with 'you wanna get out of here?' And 'wanna come to my place?' Assholes don't get the most puss… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 10:19 AM |
| 5 | I wish I had game in high schoolYou're only thinking like this because you let your appearance slip. You were a boy back then, now you are a man. Think about how great it will be if you looked better than you did back then. If you continue to live in the past you'll reach 50 y/o, have weak and saggy junk and be saying 'I wish I was 23 again, I was free to go wherever I want and do whatever I wanted' | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Advice: did I permanently FZ myself?I used to feel the same way about romcoms until I tested a technique from one, trust me you'll be shocked at how girls respond. Hear this: life is not short, it is the longest thing you have. If you are willing to wait more years then I won't try to stop you. However, if you are thinking of marriage and kids it is time to be proactive. My mum still tells me about guys that are doing exactly what you are doing.. 30years after she met them. They didn't take the initiative so she married a guy that… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 10:04 AM |
| 2 | So many girls at my work (advice)No problem, was a really good question. That will depend on the atmosphere of your work place, do whatever makes you special. I used to work in an upperclass bar that had young staff and older customers. The old guys were really polite and the young male staff that were different got all the attention. Is down to your observation skills. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 09:52 AM |
| 2 | I know flakes and rejection are just a fact of life but can anyone explain the last 3 I've had?Cut the bullshit, why are you using the same style text messages? If it fails twice, never say it again. You're good at dates so chances are you are good on the phone - use it | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What to do when crush start talking how sexy some other guy is?Hmm.. I'm going to take a swing at this and say that each girl really likes you. Women aren't stupid, they know you're watching how they behave and a lot of girls will do shit like this to get you to react. You don't, that's solid. I can get pretty vengeful, like pulling another girl behind their backs and pretending like nothing happened. Don't do it, it's a lot of fun. Brother you sound like you have your shit together so follow what is true to you. If they were actually interested in other gu… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 01:34 AM |
| 4 | So many girls at my work (advice)Dress very well Shine your shoes, wear a nice belt etc (LOOK GOOD) most guys slack when it comes to dressing for work. Smell absolutely incredible Buying a £40 bottle of scent will make a substantial difference. Use antibacterial soap (humans don't actually smell, our skin is a host to bacteria that does) so that when you sweat, which you will, it won't smell bad. Have minty fresh breath It's harder than you think. 70%+ of us guys neglect this because we can rarely smell our own breath. Check by… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Enjoying life without thinking and comparing to womanThis is a typical example of the 'warrior' mindset. When you are with your family you feel low because you have already surpassed them whereas when you are around popular or attractive people you can try to reach the bar. You crave achievement, you also probably enjoy being outside of your comfort zone. This is good, use that energy to become better. It's called competitive nature. A great warrior always looks for a greater battle to fight. Like the mountain climber that needs higher peaks or th… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Shows interest, rejects kissWhat if she is a virgin with a very religious father that will beat her if she even smells like a boy? The point I'm trying to make is that she seems to like you, so go on another date. Good job so far brother. Try to see the situation from her perspective and if you can't do that then just ask her if everything is cool. You're job is to make her more comfortable with your advances. More dates, more romance and try again. Have fun with it, you have to dig deep for diamonds. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety got me in a hard place.Approach anxiety is caused by the internet age. Either you watch porn and drain your masculine energy or you sit in front of a computer far too much. You are worried what girls will think because you are judging then based on their appearance. Stop it! | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Advice: did I permanently FZ myself?Oooh a love story! Sweet! Here's a golden piece of advice that many overlook: Go and watch some romcoms and/or read a few romantic novels bro. Love is not like pickup, completely different rules apply. Don't let go, make a bold gesture! I'm simplistic, I like to use the raw human attraction stuff - telling her 'I want you', 'I need you' anything direct and meaningful. Let it come from the heart. Maybe you want to buy her flowers and ask her out on a walk through the city or a coffee date. BE DIR… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 12:21 AM |
| 5 | What to do if you're always the target of jokes in your social circle?It seems like you have this twisted idea of what friends actually are. You see, 'Birds of a feather, flock together'. They do it because you do it to yourself. As soon as you start to be positive and improve on yourself you'll notice they go from making jokes to attacks. The fact that you are here telling us means that you are not like them. You can be true to yourself and meet new friends. You're a nice person, nice people want to be friends with people just like you, so go spend time with them… | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Tuesday-EssexAspie[FR]The important thing to remember is that you are here, alive and well. Above all else start there. Then think about your heritage: there were thousands of men before you that had to attract a female to facilitate your existence. That means that you have the skills already within you to succeed, you just need to uncover them. I used to spend hundreds of hours listening to tips and tricks to get laid and all I got from it was long boring conversations and nightmarish blue balls. And then, I got tir… | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Tuesday-EssexAspie[FR]Respect to you for the way you carried yourself, you're almost at the next level. So basically what you're missing is the ability to escalate, you had an opportunity but it seems as if you reached a point in the interaction where you had no experience. You've probably reached that same point with other girls multiple times, then you get stuck. This is good! Often all it takes is a little bit of information to push you over into the next phase. This exact same thing used to happen to me a lot. Fr… | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Help building a social life from nothingThe difference between males and females is that females are born special and then they have to spend their lives trying to maintain it. Males are born average and spend their lives building value. You want to get into the game, so all you need need to do is build value. Learn some skills, go to the gym or pick up a sport, learn new languages, start a business; the list really goes on. Once you taste the rewards of self-accumulated value you'll never turn back. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | If you have game, any girl is yours...Brother I hope you don't think the same way as you type... You are overthinking the whole concept of the 'game'. We call it the game because it is very easy to start playing but very difficult to master. Anyone can play football but only a few have it as a professional career. Simplicity is key, you have two ears and one mouth. When you approach a girl or anyone, use them proportionately. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys who succeeded: Was it harder to get good at game or get good at sex?If you go into the bedroom with the intent to serve and share you'll be better than 80% of guys. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Freaked out my neighbour by asking her out.Carry on with your life bro, in fact, maybe just pretend like she doesn't even exist. If you've already got game give it some time then bring another girl home. Behaving as if she is the only female in your world is detrimental to your mentality, girls that don't know you will find it unattractive. Your a man, you've got your own place so that probably means you have your own car and a job. That is enough, leave her, she'll talk to you eventually. Remember that silence is vastly more painful for… | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:08 PM |
| 5 | London Day Game - 2nd F Close in 5 daysAmen brother. You could have a 1/1000 chance of pulling as an amateur or 1/10 as a guy that has taken some time to change and learn the game. Ratios depend on your appearance and improve with skill and awareness. Law of averages is the most brutal law so if you like numbers go right ahead. Or you could put in the work on yourself and save time and energy. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 02:56 PM |
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