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Why do you feel like hating women is a manly thing to do? It's not. Yes women want to achieve their imperative. They don't achieve their imperative by harming every man that helps them. They have nothing to gain from it. Irrational women exist, but so do rational women.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:10 PM
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You're like hitler, don't think I'm not serious. You are. You basically think a whole gender is out to get you. Some sort of serious psychological issue you have here, or you're young and got hurt by some girl. Either way, redpill is not healthy for you, it will only make your psychological problem worse. You will just start hating everyone and become more and more bitter the more redpill you read. Redpill is for people who are already at a mentally stable state.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 06:16 PM
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It wouldn't matter if it's not really his face.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 10:42 PM
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Your first issue is money. Why the hell are you worried about girls? Girls are a luxury. They are parasites that need taking care of. They're like overgrown babies. Even if you had a full hard-working career girlfriend, you will still be spending more money. Your first and foremost worry in life should be: 1. food 2. water 3. shelter 4. money 5. emotional wellbeing. If 5 depends on sex, then you need 4. money for hookers. But why is sex so important? It's just your dick in a hole. If it's about …
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:19 AM
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It's 100% irrational to pre-emptively cheat. It sounds like you really need to go to a psychotherapy session with a psychiatrist. I'm dead serious. She could be cheating on you right now with that gay guy who isn't actually gay... BUT stop freaking out. If she cheats on you, well you had a great ride. Find another girl if you have to (bartender isn't exactly gonna be the loyal type). Stop playing games like pretending like you can cheat on her at any moment when she hasn't shown any sign of that…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:08 AM
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Make sure she is 100% sure it's you. Have a face or something she recognizes.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 07:35 AM
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Only if it all started when she started taking the pill. Otherwise she's lying. (Just tell her to get the vaginal ring: http://www.nuvaring.com) I have never heard of lower sex drive from birth control pill (it is potentially possible, but astronomically unlikely). Did you just randomly just accept that excuse? No, you need to argue, I told you. You need to say "no I need you to go to the doctor, in fact, I'll take you and we should get this checked out, because this could be serious and can lea…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:55 AM
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None, I never had anyone try to do anything bad like that to me.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:16 AM
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If she's a unicorn, marry her. You won't find better haha. But she will find better. Whether it's LDR or after you break up with her, she will be completely fine. Or even after you marry her, she might be like "i need to experience other guys before it's too late!" Also be FUCKING CAREFUL... Some girls are bred... by evolution...to be ruthlessly deceptive. Her "crying" about you and her relationship status, could be completely FAKE. She could be doing all this specifically so that you will propo…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 01:32 AM
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forget iranian girls, they are problem. you turned it into a big deal, not her. (to be 100% honest it is TOTALLY your fault for the way you reacted to her getting offended) I can't believe you made this about me and not you!! I was just waiting for you to apologize and you never did it! She's absolutely right. I'd take her side in this. In most cases, you would apologize. But you don't have to apologize. Just a simple reply like "It was a joke, get over it." Instead you turned it into a fight/ar…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 01:18 AM
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3 months isn't that long. LDR is not real though. Be aware the risk of her having sex behind your back increases. You can decide if she's worth keeping and maintaining while you are away. But she's absolutely right: you either stay together and survive the loneliness, or you break up indefinitely. You don't have much to lose by keeping the relationship unless you're gonna be out hunting girls anyway. But don't expect that she will stay 100% loyal either. You can always dump her after you find ou…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 01:12 AM
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If that's the case, then just don't hang out with him when picking up girls.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 01:09 AM
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So I've read that your hormones change when you overcome challenges positively, and negatively when you fail challenges. When you get rejected you lose confidence and your hormones change a bit. When you overcome a shittest you gain confidence and your hormones change positively. Just keep in mind the philosophy: pussy doesn't come without asking Keep in mind this other fact: that every guy struggles with women and a smaller percentage of guys get sex than you realize. Your reality is very norma…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 12:50 AM
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Some thoughts (possibilities): She's cheating on you. AND/OR (never assume this of her) She has a hormonal medical problem and needs to see a doctor. A good idea might be to slowly adjust your behavior by stopping doing any favors for her, and just say it out loud: "Listen we need to talk, your lower sex drive of once-per-month, is horrible for me. It isn't normal. I've tolerated it out of love. But you need hormonal medication to fix yourself. You're not functioning normally and you need a doct…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 12:37 AM
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UNFRIEND
/r/askTRP29/05/16 12:29 AM
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Good thing there are laws... if it happened in front of me, I would have tripped him just so I can have a laugh and so I don't get angry enough to do something worse later. It's not very direct, I know that, but better this than a fist fight and I break something.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:57 PM
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update: oh well, she said she had made plans already but wants to plan something next week. Probably should ignore that for a while, doesn't seem like she's super interested, but my mistake was it was too short notice (due to weather conditions I asked for essentially the same night since it's gonna rain all week). Looks like I'm gonna have to look for backup plans & maybe hit the gym a lot.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 08:42 PM
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Yeah if I sense a friend trying to manipulate me or control me or influence me for personal gain. I will destroy their life. When I try to influence others it's always with the thought of mutual-benefit (everyone wins).
/r/askTRP28/05/16 08:04 PM
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Thank you. That's good to know, because I've never actually been flaked on for a 2nd date, so I wasn't sure if I should artificially delay asking, I guess I never took it seriously enough to ask around. I always feel that thought like "shit well if I wanna see a girl, I'll just ask to see her. Not going to wait around that long for a whole week to pass by."
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:48 PM
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You're honestly gonna sit here and tell me, everyone, every single male in the West, is suffering and constantly getting backstabbed by their girlfriends/wives? How can you have such certainty? How can anyone be so sure of something they believe in? I'm seeing it in the 30-40, and even 60+ year old guys that I know. I also see the BP examples and RP examples, sometimes of men in failed marriages/divorced. But I also see those that are happy. How can you be so certain? Are you a priest? Does beli…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:44 PM
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And that's quite normal too. It's when people get lazy or let loose, that they lose their woman (although sometimes even being perfect loses women, but that's more rare). I remember a girl complaining about her boyfriend, who was very good in MOST ways... but he lost ambition in career, he just wanted to hang around at home and snuggle with his gf, and she kinda got bored of him like that after months and months of that. You could say she's spoiled, but I'm sure she dropped a lot of hints and cl…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:19 PM
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I mean think about it this way. If someone is on TRP/asktrp, they are either looking for help, love helping others/teaching people, or unhappy about something. So if someone is actually happy in their marriage or their LTR and they are behaving in such a way as the woman finds HIM as the BEST option she can possibly have........ then why would you ever hear about them? I hear about them because I know such people in RL. I know the types who complain about their marriage, and the types of men who…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:01 PM
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Don't think of LTR as a commitment. It's not a commitment. I know a guy who's with his girlfriend for 8 years, they even have separate houses, separate everything. The girl is the most loyal, kind, hard-working girl I've ever met. AND she's fit and hot. I cannot even begin to imagine the restraint this guy might have had not to marry her because I always see this girl (older than me) as the perfect woman. But yeah "pseudo-marriage". To the guy, he's old school alpha, he doesn't see it as commitm…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:57 PM
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I felt this way too, but I know I'm not tall and big either so maybe some others have an easier time. An LTR for me is easier. The maintenance isn't that bad in many cases and any bad experiences I had, were not that bad compared to things I read about. As far as loyalty goes, well when I sense disloyalty I get rid of them but even if the worst case happened, then it's just my turn and I find someone else. whatevs.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:50 PM
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You'd be surprised. The main reasons pussy isn't locked down in modern society is because of laws, opportunities, and freedoms given to women. But I know plenty of guys who live in areas where their girlfriend/wife wouldn't be able to find anything better. Obviously, they are the type of men, who don't go on the internet because they have other shit to do, so you'll likely not hear about them much. I know guys who keep women, who shouldn't even have a woman. What does this sexy woman gain from t…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:43 PM
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It depends for men. Men are like wolves, there's the betas and alphas. Occasionally, half-betas, half-alphas, and everything in between. Redpill tactics can sometimes make them think you're an asshole. Other times it can make them want to compete with you for the "alpha spot". Other times they'll fall in line and you have your own wolf pack. But unlike in a wolf pack, where you can rip to shreds those that don't follow you, in human society, you can mainly lose some friends and other times make …
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:38 PM
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Seems like women cheat more in these kinds of things. The strippers are not treated well sometimes. But only in 5-15% do the brides seem to cheat, and 50%+ bridesmaids seem to cheat. So you mainly have to worry if your girlfriend is becoming a bridesmaid. If it were me, I wouldn't allow my girl to be anywhere near a bachelorette party.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:20 AM
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I think there's an exception for ass. Not only are some women disgusted by the idea (because i mean technically the ass can never be fully clean), but also because of real risk of injuries (anal fissures etc.). Many may be willing to do it or try it once though.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:04 PM
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It's simple logic. Spaniards refer to Christopher Columbus as "Cristóbal Colón" and Italians refer to him as "Cristoforo Colombo". D.C. is referred to as Columbia. Columbia is the word in English referring to Christopher Columbus. When Spanish people created the country of Columbia, they referred to it as Colombia because of the Spanish and Italian spellings. We refer to Germany as Germany, not as Deutschland. We refer to Columbia as Columbia but many people prefer Colombia, the authentic spanis…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:34 PM
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I don't know why you're being so goddamn stupid. Columbia was originally an American word to refer to the US. The District of Columbia is spelled "Columbia. It is the English word that represents Christopher ColUMBUS. It is the CORRECT SPELLING. When speaking English, even when referring to the country, you can spell it Columbia or Colombia. In the English language. You're wrong, get over it.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 11:04 PM
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If you become way richer later in life, and the dynamic has switched by that point, you have nothing to worry about. A 50% loss in a divorce won't affect you much considering where you started. Certainly she will have contributed a lot with her own money by that point before you get there. You really don't have much to lose if she's richer. The only reason is when the girl is intolerable or constant irritation or problematic, or highly-likely to cheat on you etc.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:51 AM
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shut the fuck up, you don't know what you're talking about. You clearly haven't had any girls that need dumping.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 04:49 AM
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You apparently and the other retards downvoting don't understand English. Columbia is used in English. We refer to Colombia as Colombia because that is HOW THEY pronounce it and spell it in Colombia and in Italy and in Spain. But in reality, we were using the word Columbia AS COLUMBIA, before Colombia even existed. Get it yet?
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:48 AM
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Keep her buddy. solid 9 lately becoming such an annoying burden to me. I can't wait to find a mediocre girl who doesn't have temper tantrums and alcoholic behavior.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:05 PM
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Why is she not ideal for marriage? (although you probably shouldn't get married at all but, why is she not ideal for long term?) She's a 7, she gives you sex, she gives you gifts, what more could you want? If you upgraded to a 9/10 it's not going to make a big difference and they can absolutely be someone who is intolerable and highly irritating at all times. If she's not intolerable, what's the problem? You MIGHT never have another chance at a rich girl again (think of all the girls with debt/m…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:56 PM
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Columbia was a reference to the new world back in the 1700s. Based on Christopher Columbus. It was essentially the mascot of the US. Eventually Colombia also took the same name, even calling themselves in the 1800s: The United States of Colombia. So basically, Colombia is Columbia. Columbia is just the English spelling while Colombia is more italian and spanish. Complaining about it would be a bit like complaining about people calling Germany as Germany rather than Deutschland.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:38 PM
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I'm gonna have to break the news to her, but lately she's been saying things that indicate she only intends to keep me short term and almost blatantly saying that we won't ever be long-term. So this gives me hope that she's just a plat,e but I gotta clear that up immediately in case she has "hopes" of "future love."
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:51 AM
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I trolled the bars looking to hook her sister up, but didn't think of threesome damn good ideas!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:50 AM
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So she's talked about psychiatric hospitals as well as past abuse, both violent beatings and sexual. She has denied having any psychotic disorder or personality disorder, but has confessed to ADHD. She's definitely an alcoholic. She definitely has extreme bouts of anger or incessant crying. I definitely get headaches from this girls stress-inducing comments and angry temper tantrums. It causes you stress because you actually worry for your well-being/future from the bizarre psychotic things she …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:39 AM
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That's what I am hoping for, but I'm not sure this strategy is working. She might actually be in love or believes she is. Either way, she still hasn't lost attraction in 9 days or so. Honestly, I've been doing NOTHING that I don't want to do. (meaning that I am enjoying myself and she probably shouldn't be). Anyway, I think she's acted out enough where I can finally dump her and cite those things.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:36 AM
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In a country where laws favor women, being super mean and ruthless to princess psycho... can lead to unfavorable results.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:35 AM
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Yeah but how do I reverse my previous alpha things I did... That's the question
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:35 AM
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Fuck... I'm doing this wrong.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:34 AM
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Shit I haven't done any of these things. Damn I suck.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:34 AM
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This girl has many issues. I am trying to break up with her. She really is a 9/10 and can afford to be so using botox and all sorts of enhancements on top of natural beauty. The problem is she's pretty damn crazy. I did break up with her and cut off all contact for 1 full month. She kept coming back to my door as I mentioned. It's difficult to fully break up without being a complete asshole and never having any moment of weakness where you accept a sincere tearful apology.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:31 AM
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Yes, she is ready to learn. Which is what I'm trying to do. But the issue is, that she has personality disorders and very dramatic and demanding. I do say no all the time, but she throws temper tantrums. This gets irritating. unless she's a psychopathic liability These are the reasons for why I'm behaving the way I am. I'm worried she's going to cause more problems for me if I am too much of an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:59 AM
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Indeed. Thanks wise one! I gotta do that. I've been doing that for a full month, but it hasn't worked properly because i said "yes" once.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:58 AM
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Shit. This is what I'm afraid of. She might have a personality disorder. You know I've always been told "dont stick your dick in crazy", but I never realized that I'd be the one to meet crazy. BRB brah hiding rabbits.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:57 AM
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I had gone on vacation, so yeah she had to stay away. She still messaged me all month tho, and I ignored her and deleted her facebook etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:56 AM
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I know right. I thought her feelings would go away after a month, but it didn't. She has no reason to love me, I don't treat her like a princess. She's a very spoiled and entitled rich girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:56 AM
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Yeah I might but I don't want her to feel betrayed or anything if she doesn't already realize I don't want her long term. So I'm gonna make that clear.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:55 AM
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Agreed. I always criticize people who humblebrag, I'm not trying to brag. But I wanted to tell people that doing things right will actually make bluepill crying as a tactic not work. In other words, once you fully establish alpha status, even bluepill behavior gets forgiven. That they don't need to think that they shouldn't believe that that "one thing" they said "messed it up". They could have done way worse and still kept the girl if they did RP right. I'm not bragging. I really feel awful abo…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:54 AM
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I thought it was going to work. Instead I was comforted and she tried to cheer me up and all that. It felt really good.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:42 PM
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I already have one, i'm trying to get rid of her.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:41 PM
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Exactly. I think that's what I gotta do. I gotta make clear about the future where she is not included. If she leaves she leaves that's perfect for me, onward to new hunting. If she stays as a plate including when I mention that I want other girls, that's meh, ok. But she's definitely wasting her time with me in that case.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:33 PM
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This is not assholishness. You are giving her closure. You're not leading her on, you're not lying, you're not cheating, you're just ending it and moving on. The REAL assholes like to keep their options open, and they'll cheat, go from one to the other, fail to make up their minds, and waste everyone's time. You're doing her a favor by setting her free. She'll find another dude in five minutes once she is rid of you. Thanks for this. I think I fully agree with your idea. I only even considered n…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:31 PM
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IKR... How many times do I have to break up... well, I feel like I really have to break up one more time after "pretending to give her a chance" and then just refuse her attempts to make up constantly. After maybe 5-6 failed trips to my door and being sent back home... I think she'll stop and give up. She does have an ego so she should stop (she does see herself as valuable and a catch but I think she just hates that I don't see that in her).
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:44 PM
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Hmm yeah I guess I haven't really gone blue-pill enough. I haven't done some of the thigns you suggested. The last thing you want to do is follow this "asshole" plan you have, that most definitely won't work Yeah I tried dumping her, deleting her facebook, deleting her skype and she got the message, but it just made her more interested in showing up at my door like 3 times. The first time, I sent her back home, but that didn't exactly work. It just made her more attracted to me and writing texts…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:42 PM
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Yes, that is possible. It could absolutely lead to a loss of attraction. Which is why for most girls, I AM dominant, even if I find dominant-girls sexy. For my case, it's perfect because I don't want this latest girl I have long term. If she loses attraction to me, it would be a cause for celebration.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:35 PM
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It's not an excuse, it's sexually exciting when a girl wants to suck you off or tries to initiate sex with you aggressively. Yes there's an "agenda with such tv shows" to promote a feminist viewpoint, but the only reason it works is because many men find it sexy and they watch it. Otherwise you'd only have women watching it. The agenda and actually sexy behavior are two different issues though. There are men who do find it sexy. Some even go as far as S&M.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:33 PM
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Haha yeah I explained her that I don't have money to spend. That I hate going places she likes. That I hate bars. That I hate drinking. That I am struggling with saving money (but I have a nice car and she knows it). I've done some things that I would consider slightly creepy. I've done things that annoy/piss her off, like ignoring her for a long while. I've been needy and saying things like "please dont break up with me" although this sounds counter-intuitive because I do want to break up so i …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:26 PM
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She is plate material, but she has expectations of a future life (marriage, kids), it would be unethical for me to lead her on like this (although that's technically what I am doing in a way and i feel bad about it). I'll try to change the flair.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:24 PM
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I 100% agree that there is that perverted "cuckolding fetish". But many many men find a dominant girl attractive. e.g. I LOVE being dominant in bed and bossing around a woman. But I also get huge turn on, if the woman does it to me or shows initiative. Tons of movies/tv-shows are based on heroine girls who take charge, do dominant typically male things, or can fight/dominate men. It's definitely attractive. But you definitely WANT TO KEEP TRP alpha/dominant behavior anyway (as you explained corr…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:21 PM
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Don't be a little pussy bitch who is hiding it as a secret. That's not alpha. That's not abundance mentality. That's deceptive, hurtful, and needy. You "need" multiple women in order to feel "decent" about yourself and you're afraid these multiple women will leave you if you tell them the truth. It's psychologically unhealthy and pussy. If you truly have abundance mentality, you should feel no shame or anxiety about telling them the truth.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:16 PM
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Be 100% honest with them. Tell them you are dating multiple chicks. They may stick around and you will no longer feel guilty because they want you anyway. If you're being dishonest/hiding-it and still trying to plate others, then you deserve to feel guilty and you're a weasily bitch who is needy and beta.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:14 PM
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Yeah she was a little shit, but now she's being so nice etc. But I think by this weekend I'm gonna try to do what you say and just blow her off and make it clear I don't want her.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 09:11 PM
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Yeah I do. I have tons of things I want to do. Partly why I need to get away from her. Career, chess, reading, lifting, etc. Don't get to do everything I want sometimes, because she tries to occupy my time or texts me a lot or shows up, which I do usually ignore but then she gets annoying and texts more so I do respond sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 08:56 PM
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What why? Why in the world would the pussy dry up? It didn't for me. It had the opposite effect, I told her how hard I work. I blew her off and told her "no sorry I REALLY need to go to the gym today otherwise I'll feel bad/guilty." I only received begging for more sex. (Also I do not look that muscular, like that guy in the photo above, I do not look like that at all [P.S. because that photo would require steroids]).
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:48 PM
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Why? I don't get it. /u/Metalaggeddon covered almost every best answer. Also, highlighting hard work at the gym, is not a turn-off. It's a turn-on for women to know their man is a hard-worker or dedicated/passionate about lifestyle/health.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:45 PM
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The LPT post was very blue pill. It was recommending NOT giving ultimatums and it was arguing that the lower SMV in the relationship should "work through the crush" somehow. It had no TRP recommendations. Certain types of ultimatums are definitely beneficial as it suggests huge negotiating power but it has no guarantee of working and could be risky if your SMV is low. The LPT post does say that "crushes are natural, especially because of workplace environment or school environment." This part is…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:42 PM
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Shit I'm gonna have to find something she does really wrong and then cite that as a reason for a breakup and then deny any apologies or apology-gifts or "showing up at my door" stuff. I really cannot let my penis think for me. And I gotta make absolutely clear red line that I don't want her anymore even the slightest bit. Because she just keeps thinking "there's a chance." (which I've encouraged by letting her in). Thanks for advice!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 08:18 PM
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I want to know how to be bluepill because she keeps coming to my door and bringing me gifts (really this isn't a good thing, I'm also not much of an asshole so I can't just say "thanks for gifts but please get the fuck away from me." I'm really weak and soft essentially. I've even tried being depressing, boring, and childish and it only makes her feel like she's not trying hard enough to make things fun, she literally said "am I boring?" She thinks SHE'S the problem instead of thinking "oh this …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 07:59 PM
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I have the opposite problem recently, I'm trying to get a girl to be indifferent and stop being angry/passionate about me. I've tried everything from being boring to breaking up with her harshly, but no luck. She's superglue.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 07:44 PM
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If you're not "dating someone" and they don't mention that they are dating you, in most cases, they will not have sex with you and when you make a move they'll say "no we were just hanging out as friends." Of course unless you somehow already established FWB.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:25 PM
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Yeah you have no reason to forgive her. Don't get tempted by loneliness or her sincere heartfelt, tearful apologies either. Even if the apologies were 100% honest that she truly believes she wants to change... she won't. Feelings are temporary. She will again become attracted to some other guy... then she'll say she was drunk... and ooooops, there's a big penis inside me. Women don't care. They only pretend to be innocent. They feel entitled. I see my ex perform oscar winning tearful apologies a…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:20 PM
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That's the first step to improvement. Gratz. You've been pampered all your life though... showing up to TRP and confessing your sins... is a bit like confessing a crime to a military drill sergeant, now you have to drop and give 100 and 5 days in the brig. Lucky for you... other than words... internet people cannot do anything to you. But just know that people end up with a lot worse lives as a result of doing similar things to you. The other good thing for you is that it's a long-distance relat…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 08:06 AM
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They were obviously drunk and having a fun girls night out. Fat chance they actually thought of you seriously. At best, as someone to fuck later... you don't need to do anything, just wait because they'll have a reason to contact you if that is their goal. But really, never fuck married women... It's dishonest and could get you in serious deep trouble.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 08:02 AM
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Start doing something else... Interrupt and change the topic. Explain that you like listening to her but don't care about the story... Ask her if she doesn't have a girlfriend to talk to about this.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:59 AM
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You probably just have to spice things up. Honestly, I don't think your problem is even a big deal. She doesn't swallow but allows you to cum on her tits? What's the difference? If it's bothering you... you might be a little entitled or spoiled. It's really not a big deal. If you're really really really bothered, you can just say you really want it this way and that it won't work any other way, and she'll either comply or reject you. You really shouldn't need the amount of manipulation that Fram…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:54 AM
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YOU'RE 18... Why are you this worried about girls etc.? Focus on your grades, developing skills, getting money, building massive muscle...
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:48 AM
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Never heard of that... A "date" is not serious... it's simply hanging out with the opposite sex with the context that both parties know it's for eventual sex.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:47 AM
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Can you explain to me, how you "mess up"? Like is it like "oops i spilled milk". I mean I never accidentally went to a strip club and kissed a stripper while with a girlfriend... I never accidentally bought a drink for a random girl while I had a girlfriend. I never accidentally reached over to kiss a girl even when I'm almost blacked-out drunk. Even when I was black-out drunk no one has ever told me I kissed a girl... while I had a girlfriend. So my brain cannot process how people... (men or wo…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:45 AM
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Move on. The good thing is you're a woman... there's plenty of thirsty betas that will take you and even forgive you when you do this horrific greedy thing to other guys. And you know you will, because there will be a guy stupid enough to forgive you. I sure hope at least that the bf is not in the military or a veteran and (thus why you're long-distance) because I'd feel terrible considering Veteran's day just started.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:41 AM
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Some men go years without sex sometimes, and here you are trying to fix a long-distance relationship, because you kissed 2 guys and slept with another... that's insane amount of entitlement. You can't have cake and eat it too. Once you cheat on someone, it's usually the end. Trying to make it work is silly because you know you will do it again. People don't change. People only think they can change. You can just go and enjoy your life as being a women who can just go on tinder and get swarmed by…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:31 AM
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Also, women get dumped for inappropriate behavior, immature behavior, general annoyance, general deception.... LET ALONE kissing a man or sleeping with another guy. Long distance relationships are silly, they might possibly work if it was a married couple and they had no choice due to job/school. Even still it's risky. Plenty break up because of the long distance. I mean what a long-distance relationship is... BASICALLY a friendship. Without intimacy, what is a relationship other than friendship…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:28 AM
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Date, "hang out", it's all the same. The whole concept of dating is about getting sex.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 07:23 AM
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I understand, I didn't say it doesn't happen. I'm just saying it must be rare.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 10:12 PM
1

Excellent.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 07:24 PM
1

So bizarre, like something from a movie or porn fantasy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 07:21 PM
1

But it doesn't make sense. Even if I was top 10%, I wouldn't fuck someone's wife in the bathroom and come in and talk to her husband with a straight face. I wouldn't fuck some girl in a disgusting public bathroom either. Knowing nothing about this person... If someone spots her, or her BF or husband walk into the bathroom to check up on her or something and find out, she could do something stupid like claim rape. I can't imagine bar/pub bathrooms where there are tons of guys or other girls, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 07:20 PM
1

Can you return to store? Do you think I should buy kittens instead for the loneliness?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:31 PM
1

Haha nice. Well at least you have nice memories. I feel like though, if it happened once, you can convince her again.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:16 PM
1

Well yeah that's the thing I basically scored, a perfect hot chick who is super beautiful, sexy, does everything in bed....has masters and is from a classy millionaire family... But.... but... tons of psychological issues, entitled, egotistical, and inappropriate immature childish behavior, oh and willing to manipulate/lie to get something from you... goddamnit fml. It's a confidence boost that I can score a 10/10 and have her coming to my door begging and crying, and refusing to let me break up…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:14 PM
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sed to be the guy that girls fucked in the bar bathroom while their boyfriends were oblivious. I thought this only happened in movies... are you serious? That's absurd... like a cartoon... Now you're making me have flashbacks to every time a girl took slightly longer than expected in the bathroom. My wife is chill, very reasonable, highly educated, ambitious, family-oriented, just a good person all around. Good to hear. That's what I'm hoping for. Is she also hot? Sometimes I feel like in order …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:11 PM
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Great advice, probably some of the best here. Oh and by the way don't get married in this day and age, you've been warned..... Ok well what the hell was all the advice for then? lol
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:01 PM
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The return on investment, presumably is supposed to be, having kids or having tons of sex that a single guy wouldn't have (as long as you're not comparing it to your honeymoon phase). Potentially less taxes, potentially combined income that leads to a better house, not being lonely... That is the advertised return on investment.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:56 PM
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Noice work. Though I feel like you have a very sensible wife too. That helps. Personally, I myself am looking for a hot scientist wife and hoping because of her field, she'll be logical.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:53 PM
1

I don't think any CC riding chick is a marriage material though But how would you ever know ? It only got worse as it progressed. This is what worries me. It all changed now, so I'm content. Good news!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:46 PM
1

Hmm yeah, sounds like you need to organize some dates around the gym :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:45 PM
1

It seems to be true that betas do not get much sex after they are married. I ended up in a low sex marriage but learning and practicing RP has vastly increased the amount of sex between me and my wife. I think so too. I definitely feel that it doesn't make sense unless women just biologically hate sex. how would you know that you have a good one? Exactly, I haven't dated a ton. But I have seen so many problems in one recent girl, that I cannot see a future with her. I can't imagine it can be thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:42 PM
1

It took MRP for me to realize this was my fault. Yes I think men make mistakes that allow this to happen. Raise your standards and keep them high. I was wondering about this. My first wife flipped a switch after we returned from our honeymoon and became a shrieking controlling harpy who viewed everything that was important to me as a threat to her. Wow scary... This wasn't what I wanted to hear about hehe. I did not see any of these red flags before the marriage, Yeah scary... , but my friends a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:36 PM
1

The ones who complain are the beta fuck ups. This is the answer I was hoping for. One guy I know is very alpha, he does seem to make things seem awful in his marriage. But I can't tell because he's always a joker. The rest are very much beta pussies. Some of them act very alpha around me, but I know they are beta pussies around women. and it only perpetuates mens' victim mentality I was definitely wondering abvout this. I feel like married couples are complaining that their "sex twice a day, is …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:32 PM
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I would agree with everything you said, but I want kids. And I see happy married couples all the time too,. I don't believe that every women is exactly the formula you describe (although I've seen a lot of that formula).
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:27 PM
1

You expected it to stay at twice a day and thrice on Sunday. Ok wait there are guys getting twice a day from any girl? I was thinking i was pretty good for sometimes being able to make the girl do it twice in one day. >_< Some women can hide it better and some will go to the ends of the Earth to ensnare their Beta. Ass to mouth, daily blowjobs for years etc. Remember the old joke about why a woman is smiling on her wedding? Because she knows she has given her last BJ. You're depressing me very a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:24 PM
1

I have plenty of recordings and interactions are mostly through text anyway. But yeah definitely do want to go no-contact, and definitely no opening doors anymore. I did that too much and she almost took it as "false hope."
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:44 AM
1

Roger that.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 07:22 AM
1

Wow that's quite intense. Luckily it wasn't a lot worse. I don't know how this is gonna finally be fully over, hopefully she finds another victim.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:55 PM
1

Why? Every girl eventually gets pounded.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 12:05 AM
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Lower back and abdominal exercises. What keeps you standing up straight is muscular endurance in your abs and lower back. But do not do sit-ups (hip flexors can get stretched leading to bad posture). Also consciously being aware of your posture helps.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:55 PM
2

That's horrible. Your dad should try to make sure that he resigned and got severance rather than "got fired". No one should know that he was fired outside that company. If he gets that, then good riddance. Find a better company. Try to get your dad to tell you what kind of interactions he had with these women that would prompt them to do this. If your dad denied them a promotion or something like that, a lawyer might be able to counter-sue or do something about this.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:53 PM
2

Don't take things to an extreme. Just teach them RP. They'll be a RP woman. There are logical women out there. VERY RARE but they exist. It takes a special kind of dad to be able to teach them this.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:50 PM
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most human relationships men or women, look for something to gain, learn, trade in a relationship. All your friends are your friends because they are either entertaining, fun, good company, smart, or thoughtful in some way. For sexual relations, there seems to be more required (an establishment of superiority to the girl). Yes I think it's better to call it a principle instead of law, but there is nothing scientific about the principle (so no point in crediting Biffault). Just that modern women …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:14 PM
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That video the other day regarding slutwalks. It never ceases to impress me how many times they talk about the dangers of "cat calling" leading to "rape" while being almost naked in the streets. It was like as if they are so disgusted by low-quality men approaching them that they feel that it must lead to rape. Imagine a man protesting on the streets saying "I'm tired of being cat called by fat ugly chicks! They must want to rape me!"
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:02 PM
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Are these people insane? This is what happens when you let leftists run wild without opposition from conservative or moderate or realistic viewpoints. That's what I love about the US. No I'm not singling out leftists, I am a leftist, just a realistic one. Can't wait for the Muslims and feminists to start a war in the streets against each other like the Left-right street-wars of the 80s and 70s throughout Europe and Middle East. That's when dictators and police will start beating people in the st…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:55 PM
1

Also, how do you tell from when someone is having a normal tantrum, and if they are just fucking nuts? Had a girl throw yelling tantrums on the very first few dates. I don't think that's normal. I think that's borderline. I am judging it by the level of overreaction.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:50 AM
1

What do you do about girls who like to pressure or plead (request) insistently for what to do ? I mean I can't imagine handling such a situation without basically saying "no, I'm not doing it" and then sorta killing the mood. They're not telling you what to do or anything, just they are requesting/begging.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:27 AM
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I read a lot of controversial stuff. Stuff that can scare away a lot of people who are close-minded. I read books that people get angry about: anti-religious books, books advocating war, books advocating some unpopular politician or official et al. Pretty much any book that challenges common societal beliefs. To anyone questioning you on controversial reading, you say the following: "The surest sign of an intelligent person is someone who reads things that they themselves would disagree with and…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:19 AM
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If she keeps nagging you about it, ask if she likes the relationship you have. When she answers yes, tell her that she needs to stop complaining about stuff that doesn't matter. Boom. This is how you do it. Lawyer her into admitting she's being an irrational emotional wreck.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:17 AM
1

It's so bizarre, I was told that by a girl recently. How strange is that.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 12:55 AM
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You're probably exactly right. A few comments I read by some redditors here are sometimes too far-fetched for me to believe but then again I am not very experienced. In real life, I know a few guys who are incredibly successful with women. Though I'm friends with them, they are not close enough friends where I talk to them often so I don't want to bother them with my inexperience. You are right about the BPs who learn slowly, and then see great interest. I can say, perhaps as a lurker for some m…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 12:51 AM
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Do you think in most of the cases here, the woman posting it was either really desperate/ugly or the man was just much more attractive than the girl? It's so hard to tell anything when women talk about men because we don't know what both of them look like. So we can't tell if something worked, or if it was just physical from the start.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:36 AM
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cool thanks I will.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 11:18 PM
0

Yeah see my edit. Even the most mainstream death metal bands have melody in them. The best death metal I heard was In Flames and that's Swedish Melodic Death metal or some shit.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 08:26 PM
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Metal's greatness is melody and rhythm, it can't be just percussion and screaming/growling or kickdrums. At that point it becomes hard to distinguish that from noise. Even the best Industrial metal bands have melody. And you would think the genre would be about "repetitive factory sounds". Also enjoy what you enjoy from metal. There's a lot of crappy metal out there that people like. Especially the more outcast genres like black/death/grindcore etc. Surprisingly, I've found the "most sold out" /…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 08:23 PM
1

I agree it's a bit paranoid, but she could have a more paranoid personality. Definitely I would be extra cautious, I just don't know if I would want to alert her to the whole investigation :).
/r/askTRP29/07/15 04:37 PM
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It does but it's also not definitive. If OP ever confronts her, which OP might want to think about, he shouldn't be mad or angry. What would be interesting to see is how nonchalant he is about it and then the girl might even confess just to see if he even cares about her. Like her mind will be racing with thoughts of "does he even care about me at all?" There's always a reason why they don't just pack their bags and leave after an affair to join that new guy.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:17 AM
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Yeah it's very natural to want to know if you're being played. But don't create more problems than you potentially might solve. Either solve the problem another way, or trust her, or dump her.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:11 AM
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I understand your concern, as is anyone's curiosity in case she is hiding something, but it could all be for nothing if it turns out that it's just her private conversations to her girlfriends about you. It's like you will have created a horrible problem that you didn't even have before because now she will never trust you. You gotta really have the right mindset which means you shouldn't even care about what she's up to. Cheaters give themselves away in more ways than one. And there are other m…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:02 AM
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Honestly TRP ideology seems more based on the thing that all therapists would agree to: relationships are reciprocity. Everything requires the appropriate reaction proportional to their action. Girl doesn't give sex, you freeze her out. Girl doesn't respect your wishes, you don't care and use your time better. Little things like that all based on reciprocity. The basis of all healthy relationships. The problem is, most people will mess up in trying to explain TRP and people will misunderstand it…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 10:12 PM
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