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Edu./Occu.Jay-Ames/r/MensRights27/05/22 01:03 PM
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Let me start with a disclaimer. We are talking here about someone who has done the operations, treatments and everything. Not someone who has done nothing but calls herself a man. That person that has done everything: I will call them a man, I will treat them as a man, I will respect them as a man. But in my mind I will know that are not the same as I am. And I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I will not advise that person to do any fight sport with other men just like I don't want…
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:07 PM
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Is it important to know? Let's just concentrate on how to make your life awesome.
/r/MensRights01/09/25 02:45 PM
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What is even more disgusting is that if you would say something like this about women it would get taken down immediately and your account would be deleted. But if it is against men the algorithm even supports it. I guess things are only bad when it happens against women.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 03:28 PM
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Sickening.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 11:43 AM
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I was falsely accused of domestic abuse while the abuse was actually done to me. I never ever laid a finger on her. All rules were broken to get me in jail. If you look at the police report even a child would know that I was innocent. But the only thing they cared about was to punish me for that crime. When it finally became clear that she had actually abused me they did......... absolutely nothing. Not even a light slap on the wrist. Isn't funny how they wanted to throw me in jail and throw awa…
/r/MensRights18/05/25 02:37 PM
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They are not fair. But they are also not real. As someone who works in nightlife I constantly see how men & women interact with each other. And I see night after night how things are different than society tells us but also completely different than women tell us Every notice that a guy that she should perfect she completely ignores? Ever noticed that the bad boy doesn't actually fit the description of her ideal man? He could be short and homeless, however she is willing to do everything for him…
/r/MensRights15/05/25 07:55 AM
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WTF am I reading? Men get 30 years even if it's crystal clear that he hasn't done it.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 03:57 PM
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Her jail sentence will be two hours max After that she will be free to ruin more men's life. Isn't feminism great?
/r/MensRights08/05/25 02:22 PM
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"Here dude. Here is €350,- for almost having your life ruined. But you will have to pay taxes over it".
/r/MensRights18/04/25 10:17 AM
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Last thing I want to do is to steal another man's wife. But I have been in that situation to my regret. I work in nightlife promoting nightclubs. So what i constantly see is how men and women interact with each other. On a nightly basis hundreds of people. And I have been doing this for years so I have seen so much stuff happening that I would never want to get married. Especially in the summer I get hordes of tourists looking to cheat. So these things I say are uncomfortable, confronting, will …
/r/seduction18/03/25 06:59 AM
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I see people coming from the (unknowingly) homewrecker perspective. You didn't know so no blame there. But I like to come from a different direction. People in love do crazy things. 1) What would happen if his wife found out.? She might do some crazy things. Shoot you? Run you over with a car? 2) What would he do to you to keep his wife from finding out your secret? They make movies about this stuff. Not trying to scare you but just making you aware. Better get out of that situation. And don't t…
/r/seduction08/03/25 10:11 AM
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As someone who works in nightlife I see many couples. And often I see girls date guys that are shorter than them. Not only that. I have dated girls significantly taller than me. You may hear women say that they want a guy taller than them but don't take it so literally. Women break their own rules if they find the guy attractive. So focus more on being attractive rather than being her ideal.
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:13 PM
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Brown man here that dated mostly white women. I dont live there but i dated some Swedish women. I usually like them in looks and personality. The thing is that I never think as myself as a brown man. And I never see women from any race. Doesn't matter if they are white, brown, asian, Latino or whatever. I simply see it as a man being interested in a woman. What I am trying to say is that you already start to create a distance between you and her. So don't go that route. *The next thing i say wil…
/r/seduction11/02/25 07:06 PM
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Thank you for answering. 🙏
/r/MensRights24/01/25 09:09 PM
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Hi, Do women hit men because women expect not to get hit back or have any repercussions?
/r/MensRights24/01/25 08:51 PM
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I am going by gut instinct here but hear me out. Knowing that a lot of women do not report actual rape we may be facing this strange thing. False rape may be reported at a higher rate than actual rape. That means we truly live in a fucked up world in which the innocent (men & women) suffer and the guilty thrive.
/r/MensRights29/12/24 11:39 AM
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"Hi, my name is James. What is your name?" That's the best one I know. Feel free to copy it but please use your own name instead of James. That name is taken.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:29 AM
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I hear good answers but I have a theory of my own that I would like to add. Women think men have it easy. The reason why I think that is because I hear women complain about them being a woman. But when she explains what happened she just explains things that us men go through on a daily basis Things like: Not getting a promotion at work, not being heard at work, not getting enough dates, etc. Everytime I explain them that we go through the same stuff (if not more) they look in total disbelief. F…
/r/MensRights17/11/24 05:37 PM
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Being locked up for false allegations of domestic violence. Then when they found out that she abused me she did not even get a light slap on the wrist for abusing me and falsely accusing me. So basically she can do this to another guy without any consequences. Funny how there is such a big difference between being an accused man vs being a guilty woman.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 07:03 PM
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I'm a black guy but with this one I am siding with the white guys. WTF is the world coming too?
/r/MensRights13/11/24 04:02 PM
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Yes, but when men do it it's considered toxic and when women do it it's empowering. I posted some men issues regarding dating on TikTok. I don't like misogyny so I don't post any of that stuff. Just wise dating advice. My channel got deleted with ZERO explaining. But if I was a woman wishing death on all men it would be allowed.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 03:00 PM
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Isn't it do that anything that has to do with men issues gets banned or demonetized?
/r/MensRights25/10/24 09:14 PM
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I don't agree with everything she says but I thank god she is there to speak up.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 12:50 AM
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I can share the sentiment in my own way. My ex damaged my eye and then to avoid problems on her side she lied that I had abused her. Needless to say, I was thrown in jail while I never touched her. Talking about it is difficult. It can only go two ways: 1) People don't believe you and think you must have done something. Even your closest friends think so. 2) You are seen as less than a man because a woman sucker punched you so you get nothing but ridicule from them. Whatever it is, you come out …
/r/MensRights19/10/24 03:16 AM
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If they knew what they could do about it then the problem would have been solved, wouldn't it? But guys still go to jail on false accusations, don't they? So the police doesn't know what to do about it The channel is about cooking. Or maybe it's about finances. As if that makes his statement any more or less true.
/r/MensRights17/10/24 01:56 PM
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I was thrown in jail on false allegations for domestic abuse. Funny thing is that one of the officers told me that the police is fully aware that at least 33% of the guys in jail (take and domestic abuse) are there on false allegations. The Police knows it but they just can't do anything about it. Then also watch this video. Can't say it's the truth but the claims of this person are downright scary. The women have actually something happen to them don't report but the ones that do report are act…
/r/MensRights17/10/24 09:07 AM
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She'll spend at least 2 hours in jail. Maybe even 3 hours.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 06:57 PM
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Good that you believe in men's rights. 1 - Do you believe if yours views on men’s rights were achieved, women and men would be happier? I think that we should scrap men and womens right, go to the drawing boards and start fresh. But we do have to take into consideration who we are as humans beings and teach young people about their gender and the other gender. Better understanding about each other would be infinitely better than what's going on now. 2 - Do you believe in feminism, and do you und…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 08:33 AM
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Has anyone thought of this? If women like the Bad Boy what would be the perfect place and job to meet those Bad Boys?
/r/MensRights11/10/24 02:10 PM
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Last week somebody posted about buying women drinks in clubs. I will copy my response to that question below: "I work in nightlife so I have seen a lot. Girls literally leave home without any money on them. They know guys will be stupid enough to buy them drinks. Girls even make a game out of it. Drink fast and then run away. I know this to be true because girls that do this have told me so. I don't buy drinks for girls. I just talk to them. Mainly because I find that drink buying stupid and you…
/r/MensRights04/10/24 09:54 AM
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She's not getting a drink if she asks for it. And you shouldn't give her a drink. It's rude of her to even ask for it. So I would dump her right there. She gets a drink when I am thirsty and when I feel she is talking to me because we have some sort of a connection. If that takes 20 minutes so be it. If that takes 6 hours so be it.
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:16 PM
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I work in nightlife so I have seen a lot. Girls literally leave home without any money on them. They know guys will be stupid enough to buy them drinks. Girls even make a game out of it. Drink fast and then run away. I know this to be true because girls that do this have told me so. I don't buy drinks for girls. I just talk to them. Mainly because I find that drink buying stupid and you easily get used for drinks. If they are really interested in you that conversation will continue. If somewhere…
/r/seduction30/09/24 04:19 AM
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She caused life long damage to my eye. I survived it by being thrown in jail by her falsely accusing me. I'd probably would have gotten the death penalty if I had actually defended myself. And had I run away she would probably have smashed every valuable item I owned. I don't know what a guy can do besides just stand there and take it
/r/MensRights21/09/24 02:27 PM
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Humanity would have died out a long time ago if us men were saying stuff like: ooh no, not on the first date or Jeez, I don't like her nails therefore I will not have sex with her.
/r/MensRights07/09/24 08:49 AM
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Not only that. When they have sex they put on a.........strap on. Basically trying to be a man.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 02:27 PM
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She'll be out of jail within 30 days because for some reason "the patriarchy" made her do it. Probably gets a million dollars in compensation.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 05:22 PM
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You don't or tell them "How would you feel if that to happen to your son". Suddenly they understand.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 07:07 PM
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Can someone help me remember those wedding vows? I thought it was something like "for better or for worse" but reading this article I am sure I am totally wrong.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 08:23 AM
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Because the truth nowadays is something very controversial. Lies that keep up an illusion and spare feelings is for some reason so much more important.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 07:18 PM
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Wouldn't call myself a muscular guy. I'm a black guy with a big butt. I get groped by women a lot. I say I get groped by women a lot more than women get groped by guys. But it's all okay when women do it. At least that's what I am told.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:03 AM
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I already spent time in jail for false allegations. The only thing you can do is just sit there and take it. So from experience I know that the bear i at least have a chance to escape.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 07:46 AM
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Equality doesn't exist. Only a narrative. And the narrative says that men are responsible for all what is wrong in this world. It is a crime against men. But it is also a crime against anyone. People deserve correct information. That is the only way to make this world better. Women walk away from men thinking they will be better off having lesbian relationships. The truth is that lesbian couples have more domestic violence than heterosexual couples. But of course now that I say that I am a misog…
/r/MensRights24/02/24 01:45 PM
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I was in one of those. I got punched and as a reward for not hitting back I was also put in jail. The patriarchy right?
/r/MensRights22/02/24 10:13 PM
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No it is not!!!! But be aware of what really is going on. Lot's of solutions with women are counter intuitive. So is this one. The reason why she is doing this is to test you how strong you are. Because in her heart she doesn't want to be able to do this. This is so core women that there is a good chance she's not aware of that she is doing this. How we as men perceive this situation is being extra nice to her, to please her and hoping she starts acting with respect. That is not what goes throug…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 01:31 PM
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He makes a good point so naturally he got down voted
/r/MensRights03/02/24 02:05 PM
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You are a troll. You are trolling us or you are trolling yourself. Maybe both. This is not how relationships work. Be a man. Kick him and her out! If you don't do that it means you like it, you like to be cucked, you are making it happen and are therefore at the wrong subreddit.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 08:55 AM
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Haven't read the story. Did she lie about her age? Isn't that a crime as well And do they consider age difference as well? I mean if she was days from being 18 would he still have gone to jail? They are only two years apart for crying out loud. It's not like there is a 50 year old man have sex with a 16 year old. Why are we trying to destroy the life of an 18 year old who is probably in jail going to change from being a good person to a hardened criminal. Is that what we want?
/r/MensRights19/10/23 08:54 AM
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So the guy could have gone to jail for decades but she gets......... probation and community service?????? That is vacation in comparison.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:56 AM
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Personally I just take it as a movie as long as it is taken as good action fun. I just enjoy it for what it is. For example Superhero movies, Xena, the last Kiss Goodnight, the Charlie's Angels movies from the 2000's, etc. Those were great movies with great stories. If it becomes some woke nonsense where we constantly are hammered that women are supposedly better than men I turn it off. For example the more recent Charlie's Angels movie which was a huge disappointment for me. Story gets replaced…
/r/MensRights30/09/23 09:57 AM
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I work in nightclubs promoting their club nights It was still very early in the night. There were some girls in the club just sitting and drinking. Another promoter was not too far removed from these girls. Actually he was there first. He was checking his phone for messaging people and updating the guestlist. He was literally not paying any attention to these girls One of the girls started complaining to the staff off the club that there was a creepy guy and his presence was bothering them. I ta…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 09:26 AM
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It should be clear as day what she is doing. This is 200% just a way for her to get more money and she will NEVER EVER advance the relationship.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:37 PM
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Common sense says; No way in hell!
/r/MensRights14/07/23 06:44 PM
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I am kind of like you. I don't sleep with every girl I can sleep with. The physical is a factor but not the deciding factor for me. I never sleep with a girl if i don't have an interest more than just physical on her. No matter how hot she is, if she starts acting like a bitch to me or others I am not sleeping with her. There are also plenty of girls that I find physically attractive but I don't have chemistry with her. Also those girls i will not sleep with.
/r/seduction14/07/23 10:32 AM
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This really is my field because I work in clubs. I promote night and such, so I see this on a daily basis. There are a ton of girls in clubs that go out without any money. Literally the only reason they talk to guys is to get them to buy them drinks. There are always enough guys stupid enough to buy her that drink. Once she empties her glass the girl is gone. This is why clubs put emphasis on getting girls in the club. It directly translates to money. In fact, in some clubs we have used girls to…
/r/seduction11/07/23 11:39 AM
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Guys calm down. These women just want equality and want the right to fight along side the men in this terrible war. Right? Right? Please someone tell me this is the reason
/r/MensRights10/01/23 01:59 PM
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Don't use logic. Use emotions. Ask her how it would feel losing her crush to another woman that took action and therefore started dating him. If that isn't enough she'll never change. So just leave it
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:24 PM
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Don't talk logic. Talk feelings. Once she doesn't understand make it personal so she can feel it. So instead of saying "why can women hit a guy and get away with it", say "How would you feel if a woman started hitting your son". Suddenly they understand.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 04:36 PM
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What do you mean by social proof? And how can one build it?
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:42 PM
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Well done.
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:55 AM
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Because i work in nightclubs i see a lot of male - female interaction. It's always the same type of guys that get the girls. They will have one or several of these trades They take action Confidence. They have multiple women in there life so in their interaction with women there is no desperation Fearless Social proof Boldness. Because they have multiple women in their life they are not afraid to say stuff that would make him lose the girl. Well dressed and such
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:54 AM
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I have spent time in jail in a similar situation. She was hurting me trying to hurt me so that i would hurt her back. Ultimate goal was to get me in jail. But i never touched her. Ultimately she just made up some story that i hurt her, so i still went to jail. The only thing i wished i had was a recording of her hurting me. It would not have gotten her in jail but at least i would have had a chance of not going to jail myself. This is not a solution. But it is a way to protect to yourself.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 08:52 PM
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Go to the first date. If she shows up cancel the other one. Believe it or not, girls do this to guys as well.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:16 PM
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Everybody deserves a chance in life and she just blew her chance.
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:35 AM
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Forget about my experiences. And just focus on this. Should you judge people on who they are, rather than on someone they once were?
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:13 PM
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Given my life they were not the exception. But besides math. You should get to know people before you judge them. The present is more important than the past. People may have changed, they may have not or they may have worsened. But you'll never know untill you properly see their present.
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:00 AM
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I say it doesn't need to be a red flag. Dated girls with seriously high body counts and they were great. Dates girl that were virgins or very little experienced and they were not good. The problem is that because they were sexually curious they were easier to get them to cheat. So i have been cheated on or i cheated with the inexperienced girls. So i say how she is with you now is much more in important than anything else.
/r/seduction11/09/22 08:07 AM
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Fuck everyone else and just go do it. It's your life, no theirs.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:34 PM
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Don't look for her signs. Go by your own signs. You like her? You approach her.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:14 PM
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To hide fact that they usually do that and already done this with multiple other guys. They just don't want you to know that and you judge them for that. Sounds like a joke but it's 100% true
/r/seduction03/09/22 08:46 PM
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There are other examples. Playing chess is nowhere near as attractive as playing basketball. It's a mix of things: - Physicality. Videogames has none of that. - How populair the hobby is, the more social proof you have - A social aspect of. Gaming is seen is sitting alone in your mother basement. Basketball is seen as being out there with other people admired by even more people. Image: Videogames is still seen as something for nerds (while that is not true). Things are changing. Gaming is looke…
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:24 PM
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If that game was real life, yes. If that game wass a game, no.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:44 PM
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Say none of the stuff a friend would say. Make it sexual. And more importantly, dare to make it sexual (without being a pervert). Make it clear that this you are a sexual being. Try to do it playfully. Do a game of truth or dare for example.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:32 AM
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I had a threesome with two girls that displayed a great disinterest in me. Apparently it was their nerves that made them look moody and not interested while they are actually very interested. Point is that you can't always go by what you see.
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:02 AM
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Most of the time women are trying to hide their intentions. So I check for only two signs Do i want her Is she taken If i waited for signs of her i would miss every opportunity.
/r/seduction29/08/22 06:19 AM
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The very same thing
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:05 AM
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You don't answer and you say " I was born a virgin". The reason is because she is not really asking a question. What she is actually doing is seeing if you jump through her hoops. So don't jump.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:58 PM
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Tell her something funny without answering the question. Tell her: "I never sleep with women. For some reason i can never fall asleep when women are around." It displays several things at the same time; She can not manipulate you you keep a sense of mystery You are able to give witty answers You have a sense of humor All of this things add to your attractiveness
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:30 AM
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It's like this: If they think you are cute they like it If the don't think you are cute they hate it. Sounds like i am joking or trying to troll but i am not. People may try to downvote this, but this is 100%.
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:57 PM
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I'm black and dated girl that would never date a black guy. Women say so much BS that it can get confusing. And this BS is just not true. All i can advise is stay yourselves and focused on what you want. The rest is just noise that will distract you.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:34 AM
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It sounds healthy to me. I say, good for her. No hoes detected here. 👍 I do suggest you getting some perspective here. She is doing nothing wrong here. Don't try to make it into anything different.
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:30 PM
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Don't prevent it. Embrace it. Accept that it is there but still do what you need to do.
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:41 PM
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"I would find it so hot if you would trim it like this down there".
/r/seduction21/08/22 02:17 PM
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Because i can read your future and saw that we would meet soon anyways.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:58 PM
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It makes you work harder for them. It is the same thing when women give a guy less and less sex after a few years of marriage. It will get downvoted but any research proofs what i am saying is right.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:53 AM
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Just make up any excuse. Girls kind of like that silly excuse thing. It makes it playful. And she already know what's up.
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:45 PM
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There is no such city. Attractive women are everywhere in this world. Go to any city you can afford, you'll find attractive women.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:35 AM
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Most of the time that person isn't even remotely connected to those issues. You just met that person. If you want to be treated as an individual you need to be able to treat people as an individual. It was good advise. It's up to you to take it or leave it.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:03 AM
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I cannot say next to nothing about dating apps. Never really tried it. But i am black dude. First thing i can say is that women like black guys. Even in the places you hear they don't like black guys. Just come across as a guy that has it together and you have a shot. My first advise to you is to never think about race and skin color. All you do is create obstacles that need not be there. It is useless to think like that. So from now you are a man and she is a woman. With this mindset i approach…
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:22 PM
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It could be a test but i it is, this is a serious drama queen. So maybe you should fail that test.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:03 PM
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I am a black man and living proof women (from all races) do not only like white guys.You don't need money to get a girlfriend but I won't lie, it does help. I also do not recommend a prostitute. But at one time in my life i was at the exact same point as you are. Try and change your thinking. Focus on making your life awesome. Doing that basically contains everything that attracts women. Let me use some amateur sports as an example because there is no money involved. Let's say 50 guys enter a ma…
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:40 PM
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I understand what you mean but Game is just how you use it. You can learn martial arts just to kick anyone's ass that looks at you sideways. Or you can learn it, learn discipline and learn how to avoid fights. Your physical confidence may get you out of that fight. Two examples but a totally different way of using the same skill. Learn that game and use it well Also, i don't know what the distances are between cities over there. But try and go to a club far away from where you live. The further …
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:44 PM
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I am from Europe. But I have been in the states. Women are basically the same everywhere. Also, i organize club events so my whole business life is based around club. But I know your problems. The thing is to get attracted to you. This process is often counterintuitive. So what i am going to say will probably trigger a lot of people to downvote it. Make it so that she cannot see you as a friend. Because it will make you a friend. Come as a potential lover. Do this not with words but with body la…
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:36 AM
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I could lie to get laid more but I don't. I don't recommend lying at all. It also destroys your confidence. Learn game to get that irresistible confidence.
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:21 AM
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Good looking helps a lot but I think game is more important. Women find me good looking. And I have game. Women forgive things of me easily because I am good looking. But at one point in time I was just good looking and had zero game. I couldn't get a date. Women ignored me. They didn't want to talk to me. And I was constantly out done by not good looking guys that had game. I am felt like shit back then. So I say, game is crucial.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:37 PM
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Just say " a mouthfull". It will make you appear confident, witty and your own man because you didn't jump through her hoops
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:50 PM
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Women like social dynamics and status. If you have many friends in her eyes you must have a high social status. This is why artists get laid so much. Because of their popularity they have a high social status.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:52 PM
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You did the right thing. If afterwards she feel unhappy about her own actions she is gonna blame you for it. And because there was alcohol involved it makes you the criminal in an instant. Not saying every woman does this but guys have gone to jail for things like this.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:59 PM
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Yes. It's not the just the money. It's the gesture. A cup of coffee is just enough.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:14 AM
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A coffee is fine. A simple date is perfect. 👍 It will also put less pressure on her. When a guy spends a lot of money she may feel she is obligated to have sex with him. So yes, that coffee is perfect.
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:34 PM
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I never fake it. But I don't do those meals. Stop doing those. You are killing your game. If it's a date, do something simple like a walk at the beach or something.Safe that dinner date for much later. If the two have something together, that simple date will be fine. If she feels you need to do dinner dates, you need to avoid her.
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:53 PM
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The only cue i go by is if i want her or not.
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:20 PM
6

The only cue i go by is if i want her or not.
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:20 PM
1

I can't speak for other men but I find it really appealing.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:25 AM
2

Don't let her do the work. You call her and if she doesn't respond you call another girl.
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:44 AM
2

It could be that you make yourself small when you are with a woman you find attractive. So this suggestion is more of a training. Try owning the room when you walk in somewhere. As if you own that bar that you just walked into. Sometimes little adjustments in body language will make a huge change. That body language would be the same body language you need to stop being invisible to women you find attractive.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:44 PM
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Usually i just say fuck off. It works great.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:22 PM
2

Turn offs for me are: Entitled behavior Being dumb Thinking your looks matter more to me than your personality Lying Being rude to me and other people Trying to put other people down to feel better about yourself Being late for appointments Bad personality and behavior Trying to manipulate me Tests Not being able to stay off the phone when i am talking to you.
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:46 AM
2

First of all you stop taking about race. It is a useless thought that is just going to create unnecessary roadblocks. Also do not think about age. You go up to her and say hi. She probably has little time so tell her you want the two of you to get a drink to continue the conversation.
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:18 PM
5

She is trying to make herself feel better by putting you down. This is true for most women that are putting down other people. The trick is to not give her that feeling at the right time. The next time she asks you to do something for her you just say "It doesn't matter i am a man" and don't do it. She will try to manipulate you to do it for her. But don't give in.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 10:35 AM
2

Don't try to stand out because it might come across as trying too hard. But do be the best version of yourself. Also try to learn about female psychology. I feel you have some book smarts about them but not true understanding of them. Have you got sisters/nieces or something? Try and go out with them and let absolutely nobody know they are family. So for the world t must look like you have all l these women around you. When you do that watch now how other women react to you. That's when you star…
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:48 PM
1

It is not foolish to think so because that is what we tell ourselves. Stuff like 'find that one right person for you' and such. Reality is that if it was true the world would be a shitty place to find a relationship. How should that guy in London find Mrs. Right because she lives in Rio de Janeiro? How would a woman from Paris feel if she went to Melbourne to find her Mr. right only to hear he moved to Hong Kong? Luckily multiple Mr. and Mrs. Rights live in each city in this world.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:00 PM
7

It won't get taken seriously. It's only s serious thing when a woman files one.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 08:48 AM
1

The same way as if you are hot. With confidence. Feel free to use the opener i always use. I don't mind. I always say: Hi, what's your name?
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:08 PM
1

It's part of an old school rap by Candy man called Knocking the boots.
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:00 PM
1

Terrible. I would love to have a word with this guy and ask him if he feels the law has changed now that he has become a man .
/r/MensRights26/05/22 06:37 PM
6

Me being black i have had this said to me as well. Don't work around it. Work with it. Say something like: Good, then I have a nice present for you Nice, i have something black in me. And you? I'm like chocolate. I melt in your mouth, not in your hand. Whatever. Just work with it
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:32 PM
21

Most people don't know how attractive they are. Don't go by girls walking down the street. Girls often want to hide their attraction for you. Also try to not focus on finding out how attractive you are. Instead focus on being attractive. Dress well, talk well, get your life in order, etc. A woman's attraction can vary from day to day and also on circumstances.They view us very differently than we view them. You sit somewhere alone, she might not find you attractive. But if you are with friends, …
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:07 PM
1

Just ask her for a cup of coffee when you are done working together. And when you have that cup of coffee, do not discuss work. Also make sure she know that you didn't ask her for a cup of coffee because the two of you are buddies.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:59 PM
1

Do it after working together.
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:35 PM
7

As a domestic abuse survivor that got everything turned around on me and actually went to jail for something that was done to me, i am on the side of justice. I can no longer tolerate just because a woman said so that this therefore the absolute truth. I hope afterwards we open our eyes, we listen to victims and take their stories serious but we also investigate their stories whether they are men or women. Unfortunately when i bring that up i am an immediate misogynist.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 11:19 AM
2

I think what you say is secundairy. The way you approach her is more important than what you actually say. And this can differ from guy to guy. I can say something offensive in a funny way and i have her laughing and wanting to know more about me (i do NOT recommend doing this). The way i come across makes it work. But if another guy would say the same he would get slapped. At the same time i could repeat what he would say and get biggest rejection in history. So find your own way.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:12 AM
1

To the person that asked the original question. See what i mean with 99.99%? So go approach her.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:18 AM
5

Being in nightlife i work with DJ'S and sometimes musicians. I see guys that are never considered being attractive suddenly become hot once they portrait their profession. Women like them and in my opinion for the wrong reasons. You can't do anything about it. Boys will be boys and girls will be girls. So this is a burden and s blessing you are going to have to live with. But what i can say is to have a life outside music. Don't let them know what you are doing. Don't be the musician. Be the guy…
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:01 PM
1

Just slide. Such things are so easy for a girl. As a guy you can easily consideredba creep but as girl no one will mind. Do show that you are really you. On Instagram i get a lot of girls contacting me that are actually fake accounts that only have one or two pictures. Having an active and real looking Account will help
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:20 PM
3

It's another word for normal masculinity but then trying to make it sound negative while it isn't.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 12:15 PM
1

Basic female psychology. Women are afraid that a guy will tell and that she gets a name. But the foreigner who is there for only a few days is a safe choice. None of his friends will even know her friends. Just go and meet women. They will understand.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:11 PM
2

Establish early on that touching is fine because if you don't it will get harder and harder. For example meet her, hold her hand and guide her to the place your gonna have a drink. Also do not sit on opposite sides of the tables but next to each other. This will make any further touching seem natural and not forced.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:43 AM
1

When I was younger i would listen to them talking about what they would find attractive. I later found out that what they would say they find attractive is way different than what they are actually attracted to.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:56 AM
2

Rejection is never easy. Although people will seem like it is. When I was younger it became harder and harder to handle all the rejections I got. Then suddenly my attitude towards life changed and my understanding of female psychology increased. And with that change it greatly changed my success with women. What i am saying is that maybe some area's in your life needs some developing. If so, try to focus on growing those areas rather than focussing on rejection.
/r/seduction15/05/22 07:31 PM
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To be honest, girls always assume they are being approached unless it is super clear that they are not.. This girl just liked your approach, even though you that may not have been your attention.
/r/seduction15/05/22 11:29 AM
1

I had the chance to get rid of my phone or my girlfriend. By the way, I still have my phone if anyone wants to know.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 10:17 AM
2

Talk to all women and give them all respect. Because (unless they are crazy) they deserve it. Not only that, you get used to talking to women. My guess that is what is wrong here. Too little experience taking to them. So once you see a really hot one you don't know what to say or do. If you talk to all women you'll learn how to stay cool.
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:26 PM
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Not from America. I'm European. But that is not important. The important thing is not to take race into consideration. You're a guy, she's a woman. Guy's like women and women Ike guys. End of story Anything you put more into your mind will only create roadblocks you'll never overcome.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:58 PM
1

State? What do you mean?
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:20 PM
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I'm black and i get with women from every race. So apparently that whole thing is in your head.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:47 AM
4

Society would probably call it 'Nothing to lose sleep over' or 'She probably had a good reason' or 'It's probably the kid's fault'
/r/MensRights07/05/22 07:26 PM
1

My response would be "Well, why don't we get a drink so we can create you a new account". Something like that to make her laugh, said in the right way.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:33 PM
5

I was put in jail on a bogus false accusation. Also she was abusing me (very much like the Johnny Depp situation). They were willing to let me rot in jail and throw away the key. Even when she later confessed of her abusing me, zero jail time and even zero warnings. Yes, this patriarchy is truly awful for women.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 08:07 PM
5

See, there we have an example. I do want to add, the replacement boyfriend doesn't need to be one of the backup boyfriends. She just wants to have something in case things go wrong.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:59 PM
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Listen to Chris Brown. They won't be loyal. Even when you are dating her exclusively she will still have backup boyfriends. Not saying she is cheating. They are just there in case if you mess up or you break up. Most women will deny this but it is absolutely true. Stand out from the crowd by being the best you can be by focussing on making your life great instead of proving you are best boyfriend. She wants to be part of your life, not the other way around. You will attract succes and women in y…
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:42 PM
6

I was in a situation like that or actually very similar to Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. She was hitting me hard trying to get me to hit her, so that she could put me in jail. I did not hit back, nor did I ever hit her. So she decided to hurt herself. I landed in jail. Later she came to her senses and told the police she did it and i didn't do anything. They still did not want to release me. Even though my wounds were clearly not self inflicted and hers were. Eventually they let me go. I later re…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 06:39 AM
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First of all do not really look at extroverts. Go by your own strengths Women like a mysterious man, so an introvert like you has got that covered. Besides that, just approach women. They will like the confidence. Lead the conversation but let them do the talking.
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:20 PM
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The most important thing is to not give a fuck. What you say is what it is. That doesn't mean you are always right of course. But not acting like that can take away from your natural charisma. Thinking like this changed my life for the better.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:25 PM
5

I wish the whole psychological angle was left out so that we just have a regular woman doing stuff women regularly do. It would hammer it in that women should not be believed on their word. This is not me saying that women always lie. I am merely saying that things need investigating before you prosecute someone.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 11:13 AM
1

If it is no weird stuff it's okay. I might not be able to answer today.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:59 PM
7

I work in nightclubs, so i speak from this perspective of a nightclub and not a strip club Yes, you can meet many women this way. But i would not take this job to meet women. I have seen guys do this and bang every girl they find. But eventually the club gets visited less and less because the girls don't wanna see that guy anymore. Also, you have to be good with people to get that job so do not use to become good with women. If you do have those skills you will not know how to de-escalate a figh…
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:49 AM
2

You really need to get used being watched. You are being watched every minute of your life. Your phone, camera's on the street, etc. As a tip. When you work in nightlife you need to have an understanding of people. You need to know what is cool and what is not. You need to know the behavior of people. If you don't you lose touch and become less successful. This is not just in nightlife but any sort entertainment, service or sales. So you watch people. And because you watch people you see how men…
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:10 AM
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Even if you had not told us anything about your success rate, i knew you were not getting laid. Stop doing what you are doing. Stop with those dinner dates and gifts. From now on the only thing you spend money on is a coca cola at most. Start learning about true female psychology and behavior. You learn that from other guys, not from women. Women will(unintentionally) teach you what they like but not what they are attracted to. If you want i know some YouTube channels that tell it as it is and n…
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:01 AM
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Sometimes girls come to the club for nothing but validation. You gave her all that she needed. So she kept it at that. Don't sweat about it. I work in clubs so i see this all the time. In the future I suggest to ask for a number. She may or may not give it to you but at least you have done your part. Also try to keep some options open with other girls. Giving one girl you undivided attention can lead to this. This is of course not always possible but try.
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:48 PM
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In my case i was more talkative with one girl, but more touchy with the other girl. So i think they did not know who I liked better. At one point i held them both close, kissed one briefly on the lips, did it with the other one as well. That's when I knew it was on.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:09 AM
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The trick is to not care about any of these things. They are just roadblock that you create yourself. Approach things in life like this. You want it, you go after it. Of course i don't mean harassing the girl. But i do mean talk to her. There is actually a lot of women to that find that attitude attractive. Talk to her and read her body language. She wants to talk to you? Great. She does not want to talk to you. Don't worry, there always the next girl.
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:48 PM
1

At the girl. Plain and simple
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:39 PM
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I was in jail for domestic violence. But i had not done anything. My girlfriend at the time made false claims and covered up the fact that she was abusing me. They were eager to lock me up. When she finally started confessing that she made false claims they still did not want to let me go. Manipulation of the victim was one of their claims. Eventually they had to let me go. Even now when I talk to people i am still seen as the guilty one. Not because they have information. It's only based on me …
/r/MensRights26/04/22 05:56 PM
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I am trying to see why you date her but i can't. Maybe you should step aside and let another guy who does fully appreciate her the date her.
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:32 PM
1

That would be exactly like the example i just gave you. You are not reaching out to him. You just want to give hints that he can barely notice. Contact him and ask him to meet up with you for walk or a drink. Don't make him ask you. You ask him.
/r/seduction21/04/22 09:27 AM
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Or.....maybe......you think you are reaching out to him but you are really not. The reason why i say this is because i have plenty of female friends that tell me they reach out to a guy but when I watch them they actually do nothing that the guy can notice. So why don't you ask him to meet you somewhere.
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:41 PM
1

So one is doing all the work and the other is doing nothing but you find it strange that he stops contacting you? Contact him if you like him before you lose him.
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:13 PM
1

Take it from a black guy. I can anywhere and make it work. Just stop thinking about skin color (your own and of others). That just creates obstacles. Instead just meet girls and find out how much they actually like you.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:33 PM
2

So you threw away a possible threesome for a married woman looking for some extra validation? You do whatever. Downplay it, friendly flirt her, whatever. Personally is say friendly flirt, but whatever you do she is not the focus in your life. So from now on Mia is only a song from Bad Bunny and you focus on making your life great and getting other available girls in your life.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:26 PM
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Without trying to sound like gods gift to women, i get this all the time. And i am sure many other guys have had the same. Don't let it drive you crazy. What you do is continue your life and search for available women. Live a life of abundance. Try not to get involved with married women. Do not focus on married women because it indicates you don't live a life of abundance.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:04 PM
2

I can only speak about my own experiences. Lost my virginity when I was almost 19. You could literally smell the virginity on me. It was that clear. No girl had interest in me. But it felt that older women (in their forties) did have an interest in me because of that. Am i sure it was like that? I don't know. Just saying it felt like that
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:12 PM
1

The only thing i cut off my body is hair and clipping my toenails.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 02:35 PM
1

You basically write why you don't get laid. In order to get laid it is vital you become social. And with social i don't mean social media. Most of my lays have been because i approached a girl or i met her through friends. And it is vital that those friends are social people as well. Because you won't meet people through friends that are not social.
/r/seduction19/03/22 07:50 PM
2

This would have been my exact same answer! 👆
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:01 PM
1

I don't have children but this my take. By telling them the truth By teaching then their own self worth By teaching them how easily people follow a certain idiology without actually thinking about how it works By teaching to them what REAL equality means. To be honest i would teach my daughter the very same thing.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 08:59 AM
1

To OP. This is very accurate. Please read this.👆
/r/seduction12/03/22 04:58 PM
5

No. Just approach her. YOU are interested in her so YOU approach her. If you don't you might have to watch some other guy do what you should have done.
/r/seduction12/03/22 04:58 PM
10

Untill you are removed keep approaching.
/r/seduction12/03/22 04:34 PM
5

I am so sorry to hear this. I had various girls kick me in the nuts because they thought it was funny. But what kind of recompensation are we talking about? Will that get you kids?
/r/MensRights12/03/22 03:25 PM
3

Thank you for your support
/r/MensRights10/03/22 12:41 PM
240

Tell them that a gentleman never tells. The reason is that those girls might be checking you out and wanting to know if they slept with you that their secret would be safe.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:26 PM
5

The rules are simple . Approach and don't give a fuck. She likes your approach? Great. She doesn't like your approach? Move on to the next girl and don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:00 AM
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Don't do it. I had the same things for a while too. And i am alo not a player. The more i tried to prove i wasn't a player, the more of the following would happen: They trust me even less They start to lose attraction for me What i learned is to make it work for you. She is gonna think that you are a player anyway. But it can also give you value in weird way. It gives her a certain excitement if she can be THE GIRL that can tame this player. Just own it, even it is not true and make it work to y…
/r/seduction09/03/22 12:48 AM
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I know I could say it but i others might not. It kind of fits my personality so it comes across just fine.The thing is that it has to fit YOU. Just say Hi, and whatever comes to mind that moment that fits you. For me that is cocky or funny. I quickly judge her character and that tells me what i should say. Your line might be a little too direct for some girls. Try it like: Hi, i think you are pretty and i just had to know what you are like as a person This way you still have a bit of a mystery a…
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:45 AM
1

No it is not weird. But son't go for the pickup lines. Just go for confidence and charm.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:17 PM
3

Just be charming. Say something like "I'm not sure I should buy this. Could we talk about it after work?". Or whatever works for you. The most important thing is to put it out there so that things can happen.
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:38 PM
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I am sure she is right. We don't know about getting periods, pregnancy, hormonal changes, etc. You need to have a vagina to understand what they go through. That said Women, do not realize what we go through. An example. There is dating video of guy who gives kind of dating advise. He challenged a female dating coach to use his pictures and pose as him on Tinder and get him dates. She said "Oh this is going to be so easy". A week later she stunned how difficult it was. Let me state again. She is…
/r/MensRights06/03/22 01:09 PM
6

How dare you not date a woman in your workspace! You need to be cancelled for this!
/r/MensRights01/03/22 09:08 AM
1

So, can you date a woman you are not attracted to? One you don't care about? If you can, watch how you are with her. You are carefree and do or say anything you want to. Also you posses a part of attraction that is not talked about enough. Charm and charisma. The reason is when you are free and not worried you show plenty of charm and charisma. But once you start to worry you lose that part. Be edgy. Don't be afraid to lose her. Don't be afraid to offend her. There are plenty of women so if you …
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:42 PM
2

You could literally just ask him but i guess you feel awkward it. Ask him early if he can keep a secret. He will say, yes. Tell him you will tell him at the end of the work day. It will get him to think all day long. After work you have a drink together. Just say what you want or bring bim home with you (or go home with him).
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:38 AM
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I say any man can attract women. But not attracting women is possible. As long as you set your mind to it, anything can be done.
/r/seduction24/02/22 10:23 PM
26

What's the loss of a man's life compared to one less dating possibilty of a woman? Come one guys, stop being so selfish.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 09:15 PM
1

Locals. I say about 10%. Tourists. I say about 50% of single women Don't worry about percentages. It will screw with your mindset. Just because she is "just there to talk and dance" doesn't mean she is it not going home with someone.
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:48 AM
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Don't. She will feel this way and what she feels is true. Your logic will not help. Instead reverse that whole shit on her. Stop making sense. Say something she can feel. Tell her that you are disappointed that she hates you. Or hates her son (If she has one). She will say "but i mean patriarchy". Just keep being disappointed untill she changes her story.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 09:16 AM
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Nowadays sperm donors are successfully sued for child support. So don't go by what she promises or what people think is the law is like. Besides anyone forcing themselves in your house will do and say anything to get ahead. You need a lawyer. A good one.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 09:32 AM
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I advise you to this as well. Go out alone and make you sure you are the first one in the club. Preferably take a high spot and just watch people. You'll start to see a lot of stuff. guys widening their shoulders a bit when a beautiful woman enters the club the one girl in a group of girls that likes a guy she sees. She will distance herself a bit from the group so that he can approach him. You'll see how much social proof can do for a guy. the older woman that thinks she is flirting with a guy …
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:55 PM
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Outside of work, not so much. You kind of like some peace and quiet when not having to work. But when I work in clubs i look at people a lot. It is amazing to see what men and women are attracted to. It is so different than what we are being told by media, feminism and such. Even when people say 'I like thia and that' they still get attracted to way other things. Go to a club, be the very first one in, go sit somewhere where you can easily see the whole club. Preferably from above. And just watc…
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:21 AM
2

Yes
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:15 AM
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I used to worry about what to say. But i don't anymore. It's more the delivery that counts. No pickup lines or so. I just go with whatever suits the moment. Which can just plain 'Hi' or something ridiculous like 'Excuse me, i am trying to take a picture of the club and you are blocking the view'. Of course with that last one i already read her personality and knew i could say that. I advice most guys NOT to do that because most will fail. I do use humor, charm and cockiness because that suits my…
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:14 AM
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Plenty of times. Take it from someone who daily goes to clubs for the last two decades for a living. Not all those girls are not there just to talk. Some come to talk, some come to get laid, some come to find love, some are open for anything. And even the ones that just wanna have fun with their friends can still end up in your bed Most important thing is not to wonder why they are there but to take action by go and meet them.
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:54 PM
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It is not too big a gap. But do understand that technically they could put you in jail if she is below the age of consent of your country or state.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:59 AM
7

Back then you could still tell the truth. Now people are way too sensitive.
/r/MensRights11/01/22 04:27 PM
17

I made it out by the skin of my teeth.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 04:19 PM
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I didn't defend myself and people still lost their mind. As a thank you for keeping my cool i also landed in jail.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 11:25 AM
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They would not get stolen away. It depends also on if she wants to be stolen, mood of the day, your mood, etc You can claim your territory by having your arms around her but you can't do that all day long. Having a confident posture also helps. Just accept that these things can happen. Also realize that the girl might be signaling other guys behind your back You can steal her back but i would avoid it because people can get in the stupidest fights. I have seen people in knife fights outside the …
/r/seduction02/01/22 08:52 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear this. I have been through as well. But i have also done this to other guys. Literally stole their girls while they were talking to them. I never got beaten up or rejected by girls doing this. And trust me, i should given the stunts i have pulled. But me being so hyper focussed and confident makes him back off or overwhelmed and makes her want me. It is like the confidence of a guy doing this plus her feeling wanted is just intoxicating for them. You walked away and that is g…
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:28 PM
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Doubt if she will do any jail time. Went through the same thing myself. Never touched her. But she hit me. Guess who goes to jail? Me.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 07:30 PM
3

Both genders created the hookup culture. But since women are blameless and have no accountability, solely us men created hookup culture.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 02:37 PM
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Be ready to hear "How dare you let me pay for my own things"
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:36 AM
1

I am not the one with the ice cube. I am not the one hoping women some day magical stop being feminist. If you think that, please read my original comment.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 10:32 AM
5

Woke and waking up are not meant as the same here.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 10:29 AM
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There are women that are waking up from this feminist bullshit. But they also bullied into silence.
/r/MensRights26/12/21 11:53 PM
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There are women waking up. That's true. But i don't think it is dying down. To many women, feminism is saying the words that gives them that validation they were looking for their whole lives. So it is easy to start become a feminist. Also politicians are still bending over backwards to please these feminists to get their votes. They are still trying to pass laws that make it easy for a woman to throw a man in jail without any questions asked. Non feminist women are still bullied by feminist. It…
/r/MensRights26/12/21 08:52 PM
4

I'm an atheist too. I just said "Thank God" just in case he was on this subreddit too and read my comment. 😉
/r/MensRights25/12/21 08:07 AM
14

Of course. I thank God every day that i am a guy.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:28 PM
10

Of course. I thank every day that i am a guy.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:27 PM
5

Maybe i am getting old but i say snap is only good for building frustration. I suggest you act like it is 1975 and ask her for a cup of coffee.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:35 PM
1

It is not impressive. They are probably lying or getting nudes from someone trying to scam them or even blackmail them. When I was a teen there wasn't a well developed Internet. So guys were bragging about 'getting girls' while i had no game whatsoever. They made me feel like absolute shit. The funny thing is that when I did developed game those guys bragging to me were impressed by my game. It turned out they were lying to me all those years about all the girls to they had sex with. Let fools b…
/r/seduction20/12/21 06:59 PM
1

It's called walking away and leading your life.
/r/seduction20/12/21 06:37 PM
5

Freemason? I think you are talking about another Brian Bank. This is the one I am talking about https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brian_Banks_(American_football)
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:37 AM
35

I went through this several times. And for some reason you are always the bad guy. You can't report it because you are a guy. She is right because she is a woman. You can't talk about it because people assume you must have done something. And the worse thing is that when you reject a woman she is going to call you gay and all kinds of names or get the blame on you. Just Google the name Brian Banks. Read about his story how he a rejected a girl a wound up in prison for 6 years.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 09:04 PM
4

I see i have a lot to learn about the dating game. Thanks for showing the right way to do this. 🙏
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:58 PM
81

I had something similar. I approached her, made sure I introduced myself first and only then lowered my pants to show her my rock hard dick. For some reason she called the Police and they arrested me. I don't think that women like muscles or dick. 🤔
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:06 PM
5

It is pure stupidity. When these women want a boyfriend they want to be approached. Those will be the same women saying that something like. "Where did all the men go?". And as a guy you can't see from the outside if she wants to be approached or not. Yes, there is body language but it is not always visible. All we truly need is some education from both sides. Learn how to respectfully approach and learn how to take rejection. But also learn how to be approached and learn how to respectfully rej…
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:46 AM
4

Good luck. Be aware that some lawyer has been whispering in her ear to file harassment with the objection to earn money. So get all the legal help you can get.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:17 PM
2

Sometimes. Or they start shouting at you that you are gay or that there is something wrong with you.
/r/seduction12/12/21 09:30 PM
14

This is not me putting down women. I very much believe in equality. I am just naming things that show that women are not superior. Who built your car Who built your house Who built the kinda world we live in Who are the fastest and strongest atlethes Talk to women and find out how insecure they are
/r/seduction11/12/21 08:59 AM
3

There is a video on YouTube a video of a woman claiming her husband abused her. However he had a camera in the which showed that any injuries were caused by her when he wasn't even there. There is another video of that woman in which she states that her lawyer told her to do that because of the money. Basically lawyers go where the money is.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 04:30 PM
9

Fuck society. If I would listen to society i wouldn't be able to do anything. I'm in my forties by the way. It is not tougher for me. I pretty much enjoy what I enjoyed in my 20's. Still love to go clubbing, go to a movie, go on vacation, etc. So i still meet women everywhere. Also I don't have problems approaching random women. So, my life is very much the same. Just with some extra wisdom.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:54 PM
7

To OP. As someone very experienced with women i can tell you this is 100% true. Lots of dating stuff is counterintuitive but true. There is a whole psychology behind it. There will be women down voting this but they are not telling the truth. They will be saying what they like but not what they actually react to and find attractive.
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:49 PM
16

WTF?
/r/MensRights05/12/21 08:43 PM
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I don't have that mindset. If i as a man can have sex whenever i want then a woman has the same right. But if you have those feeling try and realize where that feeling comes from. It is a hardwired way of thinking that comes from the beginning of time. When humanity started, a man had no way of knowing if the child he was raising was really his child. There were no DNA test and such. A woman could easily get pregnant by another man, lie and her own man would almost never know. Therefore a woman …
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:01 PM
19

Don't forget to hit the send button. I say this because you seem to have problems making decisions.
/r/seduction25/11/21 10:39 AM
6

Basic psychology. Normally guys show interest. Try and create a dating profile as a woman will show you and how much more interest they get from guys compared to what us guys get from girls. By not showing interest you stand out of the crowd. That's when that other part of psychology kicks in. Namely: Wanting things that are rare Wanting what you cannot have Like i said. Basic psychology.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:55 AM
7

Take it from me. Do it at your own place. Your parents are just gonna have to realize that their baby is now a grown up. Now rather than later. Also they might have it rather happen under their own room than at some sleazy hotel.
/r/seduction14/11/21 09:37 PM
5

I can say as a male on the receiving end of domestic violence that it wasn't taken serious, that i am still seen as deserving it, still seen as the guilty one even though I haven't laid a finger on her. Was put through hell because of her lies. And when she admitted she was lying they put me through some more hell.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 10:55 PM
1

For me it was finding out that in my 30's i was exactly the same person i was in 20's. Only thing different was that i was a little wiser. That feeling i still have in my 40's. Still the same person as in my 20's Age is nothing but a number.
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:49 PM
1

Keep it short and sweet. If she wants know about me then she has meet me. So my text are basically for a funny cocky reply here and there and making appointments. Anything that looks like a conversation should be done in person.
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:17 PM
3

I never buy anything on the first date. Or even when I approach her in the club. This is not out of cheapness. It is to prevent any expectations. Some girls will feel pressured into sex when they get offered special meals, drinks and other stuff. A simple date will make her more relaxed. For you the pressure is also off. You will not worry about being used for money or a free meal. So this date can go smoothly. Just two people without expectations. Just a simple walk in the park or at the beach …
/r/seduction27/10/21 10:59 PM
1

Patience. Lots of patience
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:37 PM
2

Plenty.
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:56 AM
1

I learn my English from American movies, so it could very well sound American.
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:11 AM
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Dont go into it. I don't like relationships at work. People can have the best of intensions. But if something goes wrong there is no way of avoiding each other. Here is another reason. If you start exploring it and she gets exposed she is gonna say that you are harassing her even though she is doing the same. And then they will believe her just because she is a woman. Just don't.
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:17 PM
1

Im in my forties now. But in my twenties i had a feminine touch to my looks. It still worked as a charm. But in my 30's i got a more manly look and that did increased my sexappeal. I have DM'ed you some stuff I would like you to look at. They can explain a lot of what I touched on
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:33 PM
2

I'm curious. How do rate yourself? Girls do persue me. And there is an element of truth. I can treat a woman real bad and she'll do anything i want her to do. But If i a treat her good it's the he opposite. This part is not (so much) about looks but about basic human psychology. People simple value things they can lose much more than things they already know for sure they can keep. Guess in what category your friend falls in? This is also reflected in marriage. People can be dating for 15 and be…
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:24 PM
4

Black guy here. Dated more White women than black women. In fact, i fact I've dated women from around the world But to be honest about it, i never think in skin color anyway. Maybe it's because I am from Europe but i feel that in America people think waaaaayyyy too much about skin color. Not thinking about skin color generally attracts people that don't think about skin color. I just treat them all as women and they treat me just like any other man. At the same time i've had loads of women chase…
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:07 PM
4

Of course. Good looks helps. But before I was 18 i had not dated or even kissed a girl. Girls avoided me like a plague. Do you think that becoming 18 suddenly made me an 8? No, i was always an 8 that couldn't get pussy even if i paid for it. The worse thing is that guys i rank as 4 or 5 were constantly dating the girls i wanted. So maybe that says a lot. What changed me was my ego. I developed talents that gave me great confidence in life. That is what made all the difference. But let's talk abo…
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:28 PM
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I am lucky. I have good looks. I give myself an 8. But if i was a 5 i could have doubled the amount of girls i have dated. The reason is my way of talking and charisma. Girls can resist good looks. But a guy with charm is hard to resist. You need to develop a rap. And you need to know how girls think. What she did was testing you out to see if your confidence was real or not by insulting you. When she says something like that you deflect that. Say some like: "I can't help it. When I was born i w…
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:03 PM
2

2 things. Women might not be able to explain what happened to you. But they can sense something they don't like. I haven't seen you but it could be you lack a certain laid back ness (if that is a word). Try to imagine this: How would you talk to girls if you could have any girl you wanted by simply snapping your finger vs how talk to them now. You would probably be much more relaxed an easy going then now. I think now you project a certain urgency triggered by your testosterone. Find your inner …
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:45 AM
1

Not rape. It should have it's own name. But it should handled very much like a rape case. She is literally screwing with 3 lives here.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 08:15 AM
2

Ask her to be original and say yes because everybody else says no. But you have to say with a lot of charisma and that you are clearly joking. Otherwise it comes off desperate. Or this (but do not copy this!!!!!) I had a girl say no to me, to my face. So i said "Hold on a minute". I pretended to have a phonecall right in front of her. In my pretended conversation i said things like: "She said no" "I don't know what is wrong with this girl for saying no. She clearly has some issues", "How she loo…
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:43 PM
3

Take it from a guy who is good with women Try and not set that goal. It will screw up your mindset. Women will know what's on your mind and find it unattractive. They will also sense that this desire to reach 1000 will come from a place of weakness. It is to cover up something or compensate for something. That is even less attractive. Instead focus on creating a great life. The funny thing is that it will attract more women in your life so you can get laid a whole lot. Many more than if you keep…
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:45 AM
10

"no, sometimes I am much funnier" "No, only on Sundays" "Only to people with taste" if you want to compliment her "If people pay enough, yes" kind of cocky. "Are you always so interested?" Also cocky
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:34 AM
1

This is correct. Girls need to be unclear about a guys feelings. Otherwise he'll stop being a challenge and they lose interest.
/r/seduction07/10/21 02:31 AM
12

This is correct. Girls need to be unclear about a guys feelings. Otherwise he'll stop being a challenge and they lose interest.
/r/seduction07/10/21 02:31 AM
11

Be charming. Have that "I knew you were looking at me" vibe about you. Yes, i know you were caught. But if the other person caught you looking, that person was looking at you too.
/r/seduction07/10/21 02:12 AM
3

I'll tell something that would work for me. But it may not work for somebody else due to having a completely different character. It also varies from girl to girl . So be careful and only use the answers below for ideas instead of copying them: "Don't worry about me. I tried to replace you with another girl that looks just like you but I realized it just not the same" "Ooh you were gone?" "Is that you again?.....I mean.....Yes I missed you" "Come here and I'll let you know" "I never say such thi…
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:12 AM
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It's that smile that kills you. Yes, confidence is not the only thing. There are other factors. One of them is being congruent. If some of the parts don't quite match, girls get distrustful of the guy. So this may be a your case as well. That smile is put on and not real. (And now comes the part that is controversial and gets down voted) Also, when you come smiling at a girl you are kinda sucking up to her, which lowers your value. She doesn't want a guy lower in value and status than her. She w…
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:31 PM
2

Dude. She is a few years older than you. She is not from your grandmother's generation. Just do what you normally do.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:31 AM
3

Just approach them anywhere you want except not in the work environment. When problem happens between the two of you soon you'll be on reddit asking the same question as OP did. So focus on women outside your work environment.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:25 AM
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Act as if nothing happened. Interact with her as normal. But focus on other girls. Do anything else and it will seem that you have nothing else going on in your life than her and she will think it was the right thing to flake on you.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:24 AM
0

It really depends on the person, so I can't say. But what i can say is to try something else first. Try to ask women the way to a certain street. Just pretend your phone isnt working and you need their advise. That's all. Not asking for anything more. Just feel how comfortable or uncomfortable you are. Try this with a few women. After a few times try to do the same but also tell you are going to take some pictures but don't know where the street is. When they tell you the name of the street try …
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:53 PM
1

No, it is pretty much true.
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:58 AM
2

Yes. Made just to annoy DC comics, by the way. 😅
/r/MensRights02/10/21 11:56 AM
3

Apollo 13. All the astronauts were women. So naturally the mission went perfect. So they went to the moon without any problems. Or 300. And army of 300 women fight an army of 20.000 men. Of course the men didn't stand a chance.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 11:55 AM
3

I got laid enough but I could have at least doubled the body count if I had really tried. Women find me handsome. But that was only when I became 18. Before that time girls avoided me and thought I was up unattractive. My face had not changed. It was my confidence and my charm that did most of the work. Ever seen singers that are ugly as hell but women find him attractive? It's the confidence and the status that make him attractive in their eyes. A handsome face only works for a few minutes (mos…
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:09 PM
3

The last time that such a thing happened was in 2000 never.
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:24 PM
32

Kick them out. That's the best thing to do. Just kidding here. My take is that they just gonna have to get used to it. Otherwise it will never happen. Tell them that a girl is gonna sleep over (even if there is no girl) and see how they react. This will make them aware that you are growing up and need your space. They might agree on the spot or gradually get used to the idea that you are becoming sexual active. One more thing. In general parents rather have you have sex in the safety of their ow…
/r/seduction25/09/21 03:03 PM
9

The world isn't really male centric. But feminists claim that and whisper loads of bullshit in women's ears. No wonder women are confused. Dismantle this whole feminism and build something equal from the ground up.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 08:43 PM
1

Don't go out with her. Just have sex with her.
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:39 PM
65

Marriage kind of fucked up things for you. You are married now so she no longer has to put effort into keeping you. You will be there no matter what she does. Giving her all the flowers in the world and everything else she wants won't work. Being sweet to her won't work. It just confirms what she already knows. She's got you and she is bored of you. You need to become a challenge to her again. You do that by becoming the man that other women want to date. And by one that doesn't take any shit fr…
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:33 PM
4

In my mid forties. Never got married. All my friends said around when we were 23 that it was time for them and me to grow up. Now 20 years later none of my fallen fallen friends are happy. They get cheated on. They are cheating. They pay alimony to a once sweet wife that is now the devil. Without exception they are jealous. None of them have any time to do what they really want. All they do is make money to feed their wife and children. No fun. No sex. No happiness. All of them look 15 years old…
/r/MensRights18/09/21 10:21 AM
14

Nice. But put some sunglasses on. If she doesn't appreciate it you could turn it into a joke by saying "You're glowing, so I just had to put sunglasses on". This way you are covered for sure.
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:48 PM
1

Kind of avoid it in a funny way to keep the mystery or say the truth straight up with all the confidence in the world. I prefer the first option unless certain situations call for it. So say something like. "Well, was was trying to buy some apples but you just kept being in my way". Now you have just demonstrated a couple of things in one sentence. Namely: You think fast You have a sense of humor You must have social skills to come up with that You do not do what she asks of you so you are not a…
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:08 PM
3

They often chase me. Sometimes more than single women. Husband gives her everything in the world. She has everything her heart desires but still complains and start actively looking to cheat. When a woman has lost interest in her husband it is easy for a new man to come across as a prince.
/r/seduction13/09/21 09:02 PM
4

The stupidity is incredible. This person needs two hours to watch the program 60 minutes
/r/MensRights13/09/21 12:01 PM
3

In the end she is just another person, so calm down. And this is your mindset: You are not proving that you are good enough for her. You are checking to see if she is good enough for you. She will love that mindset.
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:06 PM
14

I can recommend the cold approach. Women can react pretty well to this. It sets you apart from other man. Even if they have someone in their lives they are mesmerized by the balls you have shown and how much risk you have taken. Yes, there is more rejection this way but like I said, it sets you apart from 99.99% from other man. She'll never forget you. And guess what will happen if she ever separates from her current guy? Exactly.
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:18 AM
3

Some tips: when the parents are not there Do it at a friend's place Do it at her place when her parents aren't there. Create situations where the parents leave the house. Or do like I did, just have sex in my room and just let the the parents get used to it. (Go for the last one)
/r/seduction08/09/21 04:21 PM
1

As long as she is of age don't worry about a thing. Proceed
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:42 PM
1

No, because whatever you can do will last longer. For example taking a piss standing up. Although I am of course kidding a bit a bit, there is truth to it. Everybody can do something. And some have it more easy than others. Just focus on what you have and make that work. One day, you'll thank yourself for doing that.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 01:00 PM
1

First of very good of you to say "That's cool" because it is cool. Girl change their mind often. Doesn't mean she doesn't like you but that she is considering a 1000 things that have nothing to do with you. This could be what she is thinking: - Oh my god, what a great guy (one minute later) - But what if other girls like him too. Then he must have a girlfriend already. I don´t want to be a sidechick (one minute later) - He probably has a lot of life and work experience. How interesting (One minu…
/r/seduction08/06/21 05:18 PM
2

Good luck. My ex also accused me of domestic violence while she was the one doing the domestic violence against me. I have only 10% vision left in my right eye because of it. I never ever laid a hand on her, but still I was the only one of us to land in jail. But at least I did not have children. I really hope you win this. And I hope you have all the proof in the world to get this behind you.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 06:11 PM
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One of the biggest mistakes guys make to lose the girl. Don't use text to talk!!! Use it only to set a date. There is a huge chance to she wanted you to ask her out. But because you didn't, she thinks you lack the confidence to ask her out. That's why her reply's get shorter and shorter. She is literally losing interest. Or even worse, she thinks you are not interested in her so she is trying to put you in the friend zone. So ask her out. Go straight for what you want so don't use lots of text t…
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:21 AM
3

Never. I was never looking for a girl. I never traded a girl for a girl. But I did trade girls for freedom. Never ever regretted it. It wasn't that I did not care about them. I did but my desire to be free is way too strong.
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:44 PM
6

I am considered an attractive guy. Most women assume have a couple of girlfriends and looking to add one more to the collection. This makes approach a bit difficult. Women like to put up a wall straight away. So as you can see, every guy will have problems in some way. Just don't let it get yo you. I also tried to be indirect but I learned one thing. As soon as I speak to a woman she assumes I am trying to have sex with her. They don't think that only with me but with any other guy, including yo…
/r/seduction22/12/19 06:33 PM
1

First set the tone that is is not a friendly get together. Make sure you can touch her straight away. But in a simple way. A girl can easily think that it is a just friends date or you not having the balls to go for it. She will place you in the friend zone. Also, the longer you wait becoming touchy, the more difficult it becomes to be touchy. So do this for example. Don't meet at the place you want the date to be. Meet somewhere close. When you meet her, grab her hand and lead her to the place …
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:03 PM
19

Let me tell you the pros and cons. I am 46 but people think I am 30. Pros: Women / girls like me. I can walk into a club and nobody looks at me as if I didn't belong. Some women are interested just by the fact that you are older but don't look it. I get hit on by 18 year olds I can still use my 15 old pictures I still feel like I an 30 Women in their early 30's ask me if they are not too old for me. Cons: Younger women can be put off when they find out my real age women my age that want to find …
/r/seduction04/12/19 10:04 PM
1

Look at the reply of Merlinsmoon and Sephass to me post. They say exactly how it is. I have experienced this multiple times. But I have also seen friends of mine experience similar things with girls. I want to say about not really wanting to speak. I think it's insecurity. She first wants to judge how much I want to her
/r/seduction02/12/19 09:30 PM
4

I upvote this.
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:00 PM
13

First let me say I that I am 100% sure you are trying too hard. I think girls love the energy but only when it comes from passion for what you are doing and not when it comes from "Hey, look at me". It is too needy. But what I really wanted to say is this. I once was in a club when a group of 5 girls came in. They were friendly with all the guys in the club but one of them just wouldn't even look at me. And if our eyes did meet she gave me this leave me alone look. She did chat and look at guys.…
/r/seduction01/12/19 07:56 PM
13

I understand what your father meant. I notice in mine but also relationships of basically anyone that as soon as women feel they have you that the excitement is gone. By giving them something but not everything is keeps that excitement alive. Look at how they treat guys that do everything for them vs the guy cheats on them the whole time. I am certainly not saying that you should cheat on them. All I am saying that if they have you completely, they lose interest. A hobby or a goal you feel passi…
/r/seduction29/11/19 07:18 PM
5

Yes, stay away from that women hating bullshit. I have gone through such a rut myself. I can tell you what I did. I asked myself these questions. do you approach women (on the street, supermarket s, etc) do you place yourself in situations to meet women Do you have female friends. If not, I would work on that first. do you try to date every woman you see or meet? If so, lose that attitude. are you an approachable person When I started answering these questions I saw my mistake. I failed on all q…
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:50 PM
1

Well done!
/r/seduction25/11/19 01:45 AM
2

Most women will really want to help you. But they don't know what to say. They will say stuff that they will like or gives them validation instead of things that they are actually attracted to. This is often a one way trip to the friend zone. There is an interview with Kezia Noble where she talks about this. She and a bunch of other women were trying to become assistants to some dating coach. They were out in s position where they needed to advise men on dating. She noticed that the other women …
/r/seduction24/11/19 10:56 AM
10

Don't send sexy pictures back that you don't want published in the internet. Because you never know. Also it is better to stimulate her mind then her eyes.
/r/seduction24/11/19 10:23 AM
12

That is a major step. Congratulations!
/r/seduction24/11/19 10:18 AM
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