JayCrisis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Clever Pick Up Agreed.	/r/seduction	05/10/14 01:20 PM
1	Ways to start a text convo One thing I've learned from my female friends is to send funny pictures and gifs. Bonus points if it's something I observed in life. Just the image, no caption necessary. For example the other day I saw a dude with a weird looking ponytail. Took a picture, sent to a girl. She instantly asked "OMG, that's not a guy is it?" "Do you know any girls that have shoulders like that?"	/r/seduction	25/03/13 03:32 AM
1	From the Other Sde of the AFC-Fence. Great post. One-itis is a battle. I've been in this situations and often have to manage my emotions and actions. I learned that accepting that 1. I have feelings for someone and can't expect myself to suddenly abolish it 2. The same can be said for her in that I can't expect her to suddenly generate the same interest 3. (as previous mentioned in a comment here) Abundance mentality: I'll feel this way again for somebody given I take the chances I need (re: vulnerability) 4. I'm a fucking awesome …	/r/seduction	24/03/13 06:32 PM
2	How does one deal with a relapse of their one-itis ? Just let the emotion pass. The more you fight it the harder it will be to deal with especially when they come back into your life again. There isn't an efficient way but it's all about being effective. Take pride that you felt something for someone and look forward to feeling that way about someone else again someday, or feeling that way about something. That's what finding your passion and purpose is for. So maybe if surrounding yourself with what seems to be higher quality women isn't enough t…	/r/seduction	23/01/13 08:41 AM
3	The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related? No more Mr. Nice guy and They way of the superior man are excellent reads.	/r/seduction	26/11/12 07:43 PM
2	Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"? yeah, but at least to me is not letting it snowball into making myself think I'm not good enough...ever. I live by this principle: you are who you attract and who you are attracted to is who you want to be. Identify what it is about her you really like (looking good, having sexual energy, career, etc) and use that as a measurement for your own personal development and what you look for in your mates. Once you spend most of your time building on these things you eventually find you are good enoug…	/r/seduction	23/11/12 04:45 PM
2	I'm always trying to defuse tension, with humor or awkwardness, help. I can relate to you and have an issue building tension when I want to and my past relationships and chases have resulted in me showing a weak face. Communication methods like flirting, trying to be "alpha" ,body language adjustments, "not giving a fuck" are all surface level. Don't get me wrong, they are useful, but if we are using someone's methods that isn't who we are it'll either be a temporary fix or end up messing us up in the long run. Judging from your description a lot of it is internal…	/r/seduction	31/10/12 09:02 PM
5	I'm going to a "write on your shirt" party tonight. What can I write on it to get some attention? Find something to rhyme with "start" then its sage words from a raPPist	/r/seduction	19/09/12 04:20 PM
1	How to handle compliments/flirting? but since everyone here has been giving you tips on how to respond I normally just bounce the compliment back to them. They're giving you value so why not give it back. "Whats up handsome?" "Handsome? Lovely words from a lovely lady" "don't be a stranger" "STOP BEING CUTE, I mean it. "wink	/r/seduction	13/09/12 08:43 PM
2	How to handle compliments/flirting? I get that way as well when it comes to compliments I dont' expect. It's sort of an esteem issue, but not one to be worried about. You're going through a major shift in which your self-esteem has to change. Eventually you adjust to seeing yourself the way others see you and you just agree and naturally appreciate and react to the gesture. The same goes for constructive criticism or any form of criticism, if you get too defensive over something it means you aren't confident enough to accept or re…	/r/seduction	13/09/12 08:40 PM
8	Reminder: seddit can't help you win THE Girl Most important relationship you have is the one you have with yourself. Place anyone above your value and you become a starving dog begging for table scraps in their table.	/r/seduction	12/09/12 04:31 PM
3	Where’s your statement of intent? I want to add your post is congruent to the ol Cherokee Wisdom: " A woman's highest calling is to lead a man to his soul, her lowest calling is to seduce, separating man from soul, and leave him aimlessly wandering. A man's highest calling is to protect woman, so she is free to walk the earth unharmed. A man's lowest calling is to ambush and force his way into the life of a woman."	/r/seduction	11/09/12 08:55 PM
3	Where’s your statement of intent? Upvote indeed. Would you say emotional independence largely relates to confidence or IT IS confidence?	/r/seduction	11/09/12 08:46 PM