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If masculininty means strong etc, why doesnt it also mean strong etc when its used to describe women? Saying a masculine women is argumentative does a diservice to the word no? So youre saying the word's definition changes depending on gender? If so why, cuz I dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:26 PM
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They see an attractive woman online or outside, and they immediately picture sleeping with them I Disagree with this. Maybe I'm just biased(as a man) but I reject this idea that all men want is sex. I do agree that men are more likely to fuck anything tho(meaning have sex without any real connection). But I kinda agree as a whole. I think the reason for this is men want to be seen that way. I dont know if its because its socially conditioned or because men don't get these types of compliments of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:01 AM
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Not hearing at me personally but from people online. Like in clips of girl talk podcasts or in those interview type videos. who can decide that? True. I'm starting to think I'm maybe online too much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:47 AM
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The fact that you default your opposing side to "misogynists" shows why people should be more on the fence. I'm always open to being wrong, which is why I take in both sides. If you always assume the opposing side is wrong and you're right, I don't think progress can truly be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:50 PM
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She had one picture from a long time ago and recently posted one more. As the commenter above put it, normal pictures from a day every now and then at the beach is different than a significant portion of images dedicated to provocative content. She had already posted one bikini photo which he was fine with. Then she posted one WHICH HE WASN'T FINE WITH. So obviously something was different that made him uncomfortable. Neither you nor I know exactly what type of picture she posted. My post fits p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:33 AM
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Why do you see it as control though? If your partner comes to you and says theyre uncomfortable with something youre doing on social media, would you just dump them straight away? Wouldn't you try to be empathetic and compromise of you love them? I guess it depends on the situation but I don't think thats controlling though. But let me know what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:15 AM
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However, there's nuance here Agreed. Someone in the replies said it's like a spectrum, which i agree with. I think when it starts aproaching thirst trap territory(like seeking attention from the opposite gender), thats when it becomes iffy. But thats just for me tho. I also agree couples should set that boundary themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:08 AM
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I copied this from one of my replies because it's kinda long sry: While I agree is not EXACTLY the same, I still think it can be compared. A women taking a pic of her day at the beach while she happens to be wearing a bikini is mostly fine. BUT when she's setting up lighting to take a half naked pic in her apartment during winter, I think we can safely say that she's looking for a certain type of attention then. It's kind of a spectrum. I agree men will find women attractive no matter the photo …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:03 AM
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That’s really something the two of them should e taking out. It’s EACH OTHERS comfort levels in the relationship after all 100% agree. But when it comes to men setting those boundaries, it's always met with a wave of people calling them insecure. So while I agree, I still wish people were more accepting of men's boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:01 AM
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While I agree is not EXACTLY the same, I still think it can be compared. A women taking a pic of her day at the beach while she happens to be wearing a bikini is mostly fine. BUT when she's setting up lighting to take a half naked pic in her apartment during winter, I think we can safely say that she's looking for a certain type of attention then. It's kind of a spectrum. I agree men will find women attractive no matter the photo BUT you have to admit there are some photos that actively look for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:58 PM
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the reality is ANY boundary a man sets on his partner as it relates to her sexuality/body is instantly met with comments about the man being insecure, controlling, and how that’s toxic masculinity/misogyny 100% agree. I see it so much. I wish people were more accepting of men's boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:42 PM
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Although It's not 1 to 1 identical, I still think it can be compared. A normal "Day at the beach" photo wear you happen to be wearing a bikini is fine. But when you start posting thrist traps, I think we know there is a certain type of attention you are trying to attract from that and I think its hypocritical if you then dislike your boyfriend liking other pics llike that. Hope I explained it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:35 PM
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I've always been curious about that. I've heard that so much online when it comes to setting boundaries(mostly when its a man). What do people mean when they say that("they're insecure") and is it necessarily a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:21 PM
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I my opinion I agree. I could be wrong, but it feels like everyone online is looking for outside validation(men and women) nowadays but if you're in a relationship you should only be looking for validation from youre S/O. I could be wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:18 PM
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I agree, it's about setting certain boundaries. The problem is, when men set those types of boundaries, they get called insecure. I've heard it so much that I've started to wonder if its actually insecurity . I'm curious, what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:15 PM
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I reject the notion that I maliciously left out context. The post never gave context. I didnt post it because I didnt know if I was able to post other reddit posts in the subreddit. Guy uncomfortable : https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/rij7zu/would_it_be_wrong_to_ask_by_gf_to_take_down_her/ Hope I dont get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:09 PM
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I agree. Context matters a lot. I think a picture of a beach event(where you'll obviously be in a bikini) is normal but if you're setting up a photoshoot in your apartment in the winter for a thirst trap in a bikini is where things might get iffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:02 PM
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I'm not talking about being attracted to women. I meant, since you said you think men who do those things are insecure, would you then say women who wear it(makeup or wigs etc) are also insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:17 PM
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Wouldn't you also extend that to women who wear makeup and wigs as well or is it different for women? If so why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:43 AM
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Very insightful, I didn't really look at it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:21 AM
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So youre saying if youre just enhancing your looks and not changing it, its fine. Thats fair. I always wondered what would be considered too far but I guess at that point it would vary from person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:11 PM
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Fair. I was basically trying to see that if a women was seeing a man that they found attractive but found out that he had fake enhancements on(fake tattoos in your case), would they be fine with it or be hesitant to continue seeing him. I think I worded it wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:02 PM
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I expected to see a double standard her for sure. It surprised me how many women here are fine with it. Its actually refreshing tbh. So lets say youre talking to a guy and youre attracted to him but realised he actually looks different. Like he had on a wig but hes bald or under the concealer he had all sorts of blemishes(idk how concealer works).But basically, without the enhacements he looks different. Would you feel hesitant to continue seeing him orwill you be fine with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:55 PM
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Well, I think beards are different because its natural. I know a minority of guys do it but my impression was that women look down on men who use enhancements but judge guys who don't like make up on women. But according to the responses on here, although some women don't like it, a lot of women seem to be fine with it. Which surprised me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:44 PM
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This is typically for men who are online A LOT. There are a multitude of videos of women who view a guy approaching them as a nuissance, at work, at the gym, at a gas station, anywhere in fact. There are also videos (and these videos have a LOT of likes btw) of women saying they took offense that an "ugly" guy would even approach them. This may not be even a majority of women but if you're online a lot, it would definitely make you more hesitant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:25 PM
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for Onlyfans you know exactly what you're getting and what you're expected to trade for it I wouldn't say that in most cases. A multitude of only fans girls charge for these men to recieve a message from them. For a false sense of companionship kinda like texting a gf. And MANY if not all later confess to paying someone else(usually a man) to message them instead. So you don't even get what you pay for in that sense . You don't think thats taking avantage of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:03 AM
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I meant that it's less condemed/shamed compared to the RP side. Example: Moist Critikal, a popular youtuber condemed Andrew Tate for his Huslters University for taking advantage of lonely men (which I agree with) BUT he also praised OnlyFans girls for making a lot of money ( from taking advantage of lonely men). I hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:13 AM
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I personally wouldn't call it a grift because I genuinely think people like Fresh and Fit beleive what they say. It's become socially acceptable to shit on men and men's problems and these spaces are the only place speaking on men''s issues and making young men feel valued of some sorts. I don't think these kids are ''fucking stupid'. I think theyre lost. Unfortunately there are those grifters in the scene who do take advantage of lonely lost vunerable men BUT let's not act like Onlyfans (which …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:49 PM
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I always thought the shocked reaction was normal cuz It's mostly guys playing most of the time. Atleast for me, it's rare to see a woman playing the videogames I play. But seeing how women react online made me realize that it made them uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:37 AM
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Yea. I've seen guys start acting weird when a women gets on the mic. I just always thought that they were socially awkward or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:25 AM
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Maybe I shouldve used the discussion flair instead lol. I wanted to know why. I saw women online say its creepy and some say its fine. Wanted to know what women on here felt. Can you elobarate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:16 PM
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I didnt post this about me. I saw a lot of women have mixed feelings about this online. Some saw it as creepy and some were fine with it. just wanted to see how women in this sub felt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:10 PM
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Havent heard that song in ages. Clicked on your link and almost started tearing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:05 PM
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