JayOliver81 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all? I believe that a woman who has a stimulating personality is more attractive in the long term for relationships whether she is funny, highly intelligent, charismatic or some combination of the three. When it comes to the short term it may not make that much of a difference for hook ups to a lot of men. Some it will matter but not as important in that pursuit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 04:19 PM
2	Is the manosphere inflating young men’s future capabilities? You can’t get any better or level up without taking action so how is that cap exactly? Don’t get it twisted “level up” just means better off than you were previously which could be a little better off to decently better off to really better off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 12:18 AM
21	Is the manosphere inflating young men’s future capabilities? I think the biggest benefit of the Manosphere or TRP amidst what content is truth and what is not, is that the growth or abundance mindset. This gets men out of a victim mindset that a lot of MGTOW dudes rock. Can every guy that takes in Manosphere content become 50 year old millionaires banging 20 year old chicks? Definitely not. That said many men taking action can be better off physically, mentally, socially and financially even without subscribing to a lot of the intersexual dynamic content …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 04:59 PM
6	Why do Red Pillers demonize and make fun of independent, careerist women and "Free spirits"? Aren't these women compatible with their vision of anti-marriage, pro-casual sex, pro-hedonism life? This a great response. To some men TRP is a means to an end in terms of navigating the market for a woman that has genuine desire for him or just to have consumer options so they don’t have to “settle”. Taking some of the basic principles of TRP while avoiding many aspects of the sensationalized nihilistic content designed to draw views and subscribers would benefit a lot of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/21 08:14 PM
1	Are Girls Who Invade Your Personal Space At Night DTF? Just adding more info about proximity that is relevant to the sub you posted in that others may find helpful. I read the post as the first paragraph was a response.	/r/seduction	20/03/21 07:26 PM
-1	Are Girls Who Invade Your Personal Space At Night DTF? Anytime a woman in any setting gets within close proximity to you it’s good sign aka an IOI. If women are as close as described I agree with other posters that it’s very safe to escalate. Another proximity related IOI to beware of is when a woman in your environment makes some effort to get closer to you giving an opportunity to open. Even better if there are other signs attached such as subtle eye contact first or some sort of preening. Ex. You’re in a book store and a woman makes subtle eye co…	/r/seduction	20/03/21 06:53 PM
5	6 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR RESULTS WITH GIRLS. Two books I’d recommend are “The Definitive Book of Body Language” by Allan and Barbara Pease and then “You Say More Than You Think” by Janine Driver. The first book is a super easy read with tons of photos that covers all areas of body language. Janine Driver’s book is marketed as 7 days to use body language to get what you want so it’s a little more focused on implementation.	/r/seduction	19/03/21 05:26 PM
80	6 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR RESULTS WITH GIRLS. Great post. Tips #1-3 are more common knowledge for many but #4-6 have some secret sauce to them as they are less focused on. Tip #6 is probably the most valuable in terms of indirectly improving your game as the better your social skillset the easier it is to maximize status regardless of what your purpose and priorities are in life. Social proof flows from possessing good to great to elite social skills. They help across most facets of life not just game. Bonus Tip #6.5 the more you know about…	/r/seduction	19/03/21 03:49 AM
2	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? If you do tons of sitting for work or playing video games/watching TV and aren’t super active in terms of stretching or mobility you may have it. A combo of tight hip flexors, a tight lower back and weak core alters your pelvis to sit in a way some refer to as “duck butt”, think Donald Duck and the way his backside sticks out and up. It’s not as pronounced obviously but that’s the best way to describe with a commonly known visual. If you search it on YouTube there are lots of easy stretches and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 03:44 PM
16	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? Some underrated things that I feel have helped me personally: The combination of getting more muscular over time and wearing clothes that fit to highlight what I got. You can be jacked but offset your musculature by wearing clothing that doesn’t fit properly. When it comes to lifting full body workouts just 2-3x per week that include compound movements like barbell squats, deadlifts, rows, bench press, clean and press can really boost testosterone in addition to big muscle gains. Improving your …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 02:15 AM
3	Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies. That could be a potential market correction happening right now. Just imagine the potential corrections small, big and anything in between that could happen over the course of decades? I’m barely smart enough to reflect on things that have significantly impacted the sexual marketplace today but this post definitely got my gears spinning for sure. Example... smartphones. Initially they weren’t created specifically to change intersexual dynamics but now it would be hard to ignore how Tinder, Bumbl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 07:53 PM
3	Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies. Definitely interesting reading. That said isn’t there possible “market corrections” that will be coming to the sexual marketplace that we can’t necessarily anticipate today? For what you are predicting here there would essentially have to be no real market corrections in a significant amount of time between now and when this technology becomes available. If we just guessed that these technologies were available in 2060 don’t you think that market corrections will happen for the average man and w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 07:20 PM
5	Why is the money myth always thrown around I’m in agreement with a good portion of this take. Money definitely matters but to what extent it depends on what your goals are with women. Are you looking for a LTR with a woman at the top end of the marketplace (9+)? Then it’s going to matter a ton just to get you in the door so that you can run game. On the other hand if you’re just looking to spin plates or just get it in with average to attractive women or want a LTR with a women not so high up in the marketplace (8 and below) money isn’t …	/r/seduction	13/03/21 05:51 PM
2	Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills? Like other areas of life some just lack a growth mindset or awareness... sometimes both. Other times they will only have a growth mindset in one specific area that isn’t game because they don’t care. A more nuanced take for guys that are aware of their issues and do have a growth mindset is that they struggle with being outcome independent. Tying results to your first 500 cold approaches, time working OLD, etc. can be defeating if you’re not committed to the deliberate practice. Some guys that a…	/r/seduction	13/03/21 04:33 AM
2	CMV: The Madonna/whore complex, aka Alphas and attractive betas will (almost) always cheat on their wives This. Integrity will keep some attractive guys faithful but it’s hard to ignore that attractive guys will have more opportunities to cheat. Supply and demand or economics. A higher quality product is going to have more potential buyers in the market and will have more value on a secondary market as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 06:22 PM
2	Why being Alpha is bullshit In the greater context of life being “Alpha” does have a lot of use in the modern world (for men and women both) across a lot of institutions as you’ve just got to make things happen in life. Oftentimes if you just wait for something to be given to you it will be an endless wait. That said in the dating realm or sexual marketplace the concept of “Alpha” is way over sensationalized especially by RP guys and some black dating coaches of the Manosphere. A better approach for most of us is the conce…	/r/seduction	27/02/21 08:04 PM
4	PUA delusions This. There’s too much quality free or low cost information out there to hemorrhage big money for camps or tons of individual coaching unless you’ve got a lot of means. YouTube is crawling with channels spanning all different types of game from day to night to online game, even Instagram, etc. I’m a huge a believer of inner game and would encourage looking beyond the PUA or Manosphere for that area. Meditation and Stoicism have been God sends for me in terms of being able to stay present and dia…	/r/seduction	21/02/21 10:01 PM
2	How To Make A Quantum Leap In Your Inner Game Masculine frame for the win!	/r/seduction	19/02/21 01:24 AM