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JayTS/r/MensRights06/01/11 09:43 PM
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This is why I suck at relationships. As soon as I'm in a committed relationship, the attraction immediately begins to decline, and after about a month I'm already looking for someone else. Every relationship longer than 4 months for me has been an unofficial one, where we never declared mutual exclusivity.
/r/seduction04/11/11 11:34 PM
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Well if you aren't smiling or sending any other IOI's to her, she's probably wondering the exact same thing you are.
/r/seduction26/10/11 03:28 PM
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How bad do you want it? Not bad enough.
/r/seduction18/10/11 04:40 PM
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But please do obfuscate. I think it's real scummy to post a private conversation with someone's real information.
/r/seduction17/08/11 02:05 PM
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Great read and perspective, thanks!
/r/seduction15/08/11 10:08 PM
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I think the problem is that I feel like I'm instantly showing attraction when I talk to some random chick and I don't like to do that, It makes me feel vulnerable. Man, do I hear that. So often I don't want to initiate because I feel like it immediately indicates attraction. The funny thing is, when I have a legitimate reason to talk to them, I don't feel this at all. I know what I want to say, and dammit, I'm going to say it. I've walked up to some of the most beautiful women and completely int…
/r/seduction15/08/11 09:11 PM
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I don't know what the stats are nationally in the US, but I live in Georgia, and I have had many asian friends. Now, my evidence is anecdotal, because I usually only socialize with other sociable people, but most of my male asian friends have had no trouble at all picking up girls of any race. If anything, they do better than I do (I'm white, if you couldn't infer that). The biggest factor I see that holds back asian guys are that they typically tend to be very polite and shy, which give off the…
/r/seduction19/07/11 02:57 PM
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One of my favorite quotes, and I can't find who to attribute it to, is "What other people think about you is none of your business."
/r/seduction06/06/11 02:36 PM
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I'm the same. From just looking/talking to me, I seem like a relatively normal guy, maybe even a bit on the jocky side as I like sports and work out a lot. However, I love the fantasy genre. I read a lot, and I've been nerding out hard on Game of Thrones. Fantasy is to men's fiction as cheesy romance novels are to women's fiction, at least in public perception. I like meeting other people who love to read, but I always feel embarrassed when they ask what I like. It sucks having to feel like I'm …
/r/seduction27/05/11 03:54 PM
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I have problems believing compliments. I think it stems from my dad always being very generous with praise and complements, but also always being demanding and a perfectionist. The contradiction made it hard for me to believe the complements, because I associated the criticism as failure, and in my mind the complements and the criticism couldn't co-exist, so one had to be untrue. Now I still have problems believing complements because I'm always paranoid that I was fishing for them.
/r/seduction04/05/11 04:05 PM
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This strikes promoting lying and dishonesty. Only if the only thing keeping you from lying is what other people think of you.
/r/seduction04/05/11 02:50 PM
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I too am in Marietta, and thought about doing this as well. Consider me interested. Though I must admit I'm relatively new to seduction, or at least studying seduction, I just kind of went on instincts until I went through a dry spell and decided I needed to try something different from what I'd always been doing.
/r/seduction29/04/11 08:57 PM
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I'm 24 and live in the metro Atlanta area. At least half of my friends still live with their parents. Times are tough, people have student loans to pay off, wages are low, living costs are high, most places aren't hiring, and those that are are lowballing the shit out of people our age because we're a dime a dozen right now. You have nothing to be ashamed of for living with your parents, it's usually the fiscally responsible thing for people around our age right now. That being said, I can total…
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:51 PM
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Also, photos posted on the internet often don't reflect realistic looks. Anyone who has spent any time on OKCupid is very familiar with this. I can tell with over 90% accuracy what flaw a girl is hiding now based solely on the angle and the filters she used.
/r/seduction05/04/11 08:59 PM
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I'd say it's more rich, like dark chocolate :p
/r/seduction04/04/11 06:23 PM
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Even if this is fake, it's fucking awesome.
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:33 AM
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As a straight man, #27 makes me proud to live in Atlanta.
/r/seduction29/03/11 02:03 PM
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Because everybody has a facebook account. I don't know anyone who still uses MSN, AIM, or any other standalone instant messagers. Sometimes I'll gchat with people with google accounts.
/r/seduction25/03/11 06:01 PM
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I get messages fairly frequently. They're just never from anybody I want to message back.
/r/seduction24/03/11 05:17 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I'm going to try it out.
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:32 PM
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You've described how I feel almost perfectly. Especially about starting off the day feeling great, but by the time to go to bed I've torn myself down enough to where I question every single thing I felt I've done right. It's a pain in the ass, but at the same time it makes it easy for me to like other people, because nobody is a bigger asshole to me than I am.
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:32 PM
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I don't think you understand. It's not fear that causes any of this. It's my own fucked up psyche and perfectionism. I'm not afraid of failing, or of the world or other people. I'm just a fucking asshole to myself and expect way more from me than I'm likely capable of achieving. Just remind yourself, that at one point you will die and everyone around you will die. What kind of advice is that? That's just fucking depressing. edit - thanks for offering advice, anyway.
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:28 PM
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Thanks. It helps knowing other people are the same way. I fluctuate between telling myself how awesome I really am, and then tearing myself down. It's frustrating, because all I really want is to be content with and confidant in myself, as I feel that that is the main thing keeping me from achieving everything I want, from women to my career.
/r/seduction23/03/11 07:26 PM
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I try telling myself stuff like that daily. The worst is I know I'm unreasonably hard on myself. I'm fairly good looking, I'm talented at a number of things, and have a lot of good things going on for me. However, I'm constantly telling myself how much of a loser I am, how all my friends really only tolerate me. I think that I'm being conceited if I talk about myself in any kind of positive way, and I start thinking that I'm not even good at the things I know I'm good at, and I only think I'm go…
/r/seduction23/03/11 06:58 PM
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First, you need to eliminate all negative statements aimed at yourself. No matter how bad you fail at something, never, ever refer to yourself in a negative way. This is pretty much where all my confidence issues stem from. Nobody could ever be harder on me than I am. I'm the biggest asshole to myself, and I don't know how to stop.
/r/seduction23/03/11 06:38 PM
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There was a draft for WWII.
/r/MensRights09/03/11 02:23 AM
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What else would you propose? The country needs to be able to defend itself somehow.
/r/MensRights09/03/11 12:17 AM
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You act surprised. Didn't you have at least 18 years to anticipate this? I'm all for equality, but men having to register for the draft has only been around pretty much every country ever.
/r/MensRights08/03/11 11:36 PM
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Probably both. I was barely 17, what did I know?
/r/seduction07/03/11 11:58 PM
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You can also be the nice guy, make your intentions clear, and be dumped for the asshole ex-boyfriend that treats her like shit. But that is anecdotal evidence from my life in high school 9 years ago. I approve of your message, and agree with it overall.
/r/seduction07/03/11 11:05 PM
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My family does this too. One time I had enough and asked the waitress if she had a brother who was single. Nearly gave my grandma a heart attack.
/r/seduction07/03/11 09:35 PM
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It didn't? Sounds like everything went exactly as you said it would.
/r/seduction07/03/11 02:50 PM
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http://hard-gain.blogspot.com
/r/seduction04/03/11 11:06 PM
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I was pale and skinny. I'm still pale, but I was able to bulk up really fast (about 10 pounds of muscle the first two weeks, and then about 5 pounds per month since). Anyway, PM me if you're interested in a good workout routine to put on natural bulk fast. I'm a hair under 5'8", and at my skinniest I weighted 114 pounds. I'm 140 now, still working for another 10 pounds, but I look healthy and in shape now, rather than an emaciated Holocaust survivor. As far as being depressed and negative, try w…
/r/seduction03/03/11 04:24 PM
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Wait... literally going for the kill isn't a step? This explains a lot.
/r/seduction28/02/11 09:53 PM
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Thanks. Though just opening it in a normal Chrome window worked for me, I'm sure this will help someone who can't access the article.
/r/MensRights24/02/11 04:04 PM
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I am using Chrome. TIL I can't view NYT articles an incognito window.
/r/MensRights24/02/11 03:05 PM
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Nice, but I don't have a NYT subscription.
/r/MensRights24/02/11 02:52 PM
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Vodka and sprite is what I drank when I stole alcohol from my parents in high school.
/r/MensRights15/02/11 02:57 PM
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Here's an article I wrote for my school newspaper on buying strangers drinks: DON'T
/r/MensRights15/02/11 02:52 PM
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The "cover" looks like a Karaoke game. App looks cool, but $5 seems a bit steep. That's what I paid for Osmos on my iPad, and that's entertained me for hundreds of hours.
/r/seduction10/02/11 05:23 PM
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Expecting every girl to like me is a fantasy. It's narcissistic. I didn't even realize I had this expectation until I read that. Thanks for helping me learn something about myself.
/r/seduction10/02/11 05:15 PM
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And Georgia (I'm aware this is a country, but I mean the American state).
/r/MensRights01/02/11 09:02 PM
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What country is this? The whole world seems insane these days.
/r/MensRights01/02/11 02:52 PM
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I guess I should expound on that. I think it flies in the face of feminist claims that male sexuality is inherently violent. If it were, you would think if women's tears had any chemical effect on men, it would be as an aphrodisiac, not the opposite.
/r/MensRights06/01/11 09:58 PM
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Reminds me of this
/r/MensRights04/01/11 05:41 PM
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This is hateful and counter-productive.
/r/MensRights28/12/10 05:20 PM
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Did you read the article? It's not saying that nobody has ever been drugged and/or sexually assaulted. It said that of 75 cases reported in one study, none of them showed roofies, GHB or ketamine. All it's saying is the vast majority of reported date rapes involved no "date rape drugs." Sorry someone attempted to take advantage of you, it does happen, but far more often a girl just drinks too much, maybe takes some other drugs, and then claims her drink was spiked.
/r/MensRights23/12/10 07:09 PM
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My dream is to marry a girl that makes enough that I don't have to work and I can actually have time to finish writing my damn book. Then I'll learn I'm a shitty author and I've been wasting my time. But at least I'll still have a rich wife!
/r/MensRights19/12/10 03:03 AM
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More people finding this place with a chip on their shoulder against women for not sleeping with them. People don't realize that this is MensRights, not WeHateWomen.
/r/MensRights16/12/10 05:22 PM
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She wasn't defending fairy tales. In fact, she was at first excited when they said they weren't going to make any more princess movies. She thought that meant that they were going to start making girls the action heroes, or something like that. So she would rather girls have princess movies than movies where dirty, worthless boys are the protagonists.
/r/MensRights24/11/10 03:15 PM
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I watch reality TV when I want to feel good about myself.
/r/MensRights20/11/10 02:14 AM
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I still don't entirely know how to play poker for this reason. I wasn't big into it in high school, when most of my friends started playing. Then I got to college, and I was embarrassed at how little I knew, so I always had a convenient excuse why I couldn't play. Now I still get invited, and I want to join and play with my buddies, but I'm far too ashamed to admit that I don't always know what hand beats what, or fully understand the dynamics of calling and raising, and despite having it explai…
/r/MensRights25/10/10 06:02 PM
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I'm surprised they released her name. Glad to see at least some people are taking false rape accusations seriously.
/r/MensRights22/10/10 04:39 PM
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I agree with this, I really meant more when it comes to sexual crimes. I would equate jailing a woman for having sex with a 15 year old who was fully consenting the same as sending a man to jail for rape for playing out a rape fantasy with his wife, who was fully consensual with the rape fantasy. Obviously, the wife wouldn't press charges, but say theoretically they get overheard or someone peeps or something and calls the cops. That doesn't mean I think any sort of double standard is fair, eith…
/r/MensRights15/10/10 08:20 PM
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I agree with all of this, but I have issue with statutory laws in the first place, at least when it's used on high school aged kids. Younger than that, and I'm all for them, but I think by the time you're in high school at least some people are perfectly capable of giving consent.
/r/MensRights15/10/10 07:38 PM
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My 15 year old self is so envious of you he wants to give you a swirly, even though he was much more likely to receive one than give one.
/r/MensRights15/10/10 07:02 PM
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I understand it's against the letter of the law. I prefer upholding the spirit of the law, rather than ruining people's lives because the letter of the law was broken, yet nobody felt victimized, and nothing negative happened from the "crime". I don't know if you were being sarcastic with putting AGAINST THE LAW in all caps, but if that was your main argument supporting sending people to jail for victimless crimes, that is not going to sway me, as I think over half of our laws are retarded in th…
/r/MensRights15/10/10 06:43 PM
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Even the male victims may view it as a positive experience and not a crime, leading to gross underreporting. In my opinion, in just about anything remotely related to this, if the victim sees it as positive and not as a crime, then why is it a crime? If nobody is hurt by it, why should somebody be punished? Yes, you could argue that it may lead to psychological issues later, but I don't see that likely if the "victim" views the experience as positive. I know when I was 15 or 16 years old, I woul…
/r/MensRights15/10/10 05:42 PM
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Regardless of gender and sexual dynamics, I think it's ludicrous that there are people out there who think that legal action is proper recourse against someone that "acted inappropriately" or "made" them "feel uncomfortable." I blame the prudish American culture that treats sex like some evil thing only married people should do for procreation, and how easy it is to get someone fired and/or bankroll a nice settlement, all because you "felt uncomfortable." Jesus, if I complained every time someon…
/r/MensRights06/10/10 07:26 PM
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Every single thing like this in MensRights gets bashed for painting a whole gender with one brush. I think this is obviously a hyperbole and tongue-in-cheek humor. That said, I did date a girl exactly like this. It was horrible, and I dated her twice, but she was SO hot. That's how I learned it takes more than just being really attractive to do it for me.
/r/MensRights06/10/10 03:28 PM
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Ba-zing! Thanks for the lol.
/r/MensRights06/10/10 03:25 PM
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I had a friend try too. He thought he was bi; found out fast he was straight.
/r/MensRights06/10/10 03:25 PM
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But the wrong women are all so hot!
/r/MensRights06/10/10 03:21 PM
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This is the most objective and, imo, accurate article I've seen in MensRights. I love this subreddit, because I can read articles that cover topics that are considered politically incorrect but have lots of merit. Many, though, only blame women and feminism. I like that this article shows that, while the feminist movement is responsible for many of the shift societal norms, it is the unintended consequences and the way both genders are reacting to them that are causing negative side effects of t…
/r/MensRights05/10/10 07:58 PM
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It's not that I'm worried I may commit rape. I'm worried I'll date a girl, sleep with her, decide after a few weeks I'm not that into her, and then get accused of rape. It's some unknown girl's case of crazy I'm afraid of, not the virtue of my actions. Maybe I'm also making a tongue-in-cheek statement about my recent lack of sex.
/r/MensRights05/10/10 01:30 AM
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You mean they don't like it? See, a lawyer could have warned me.
/r/MensRights04/10/10 06:02 PM
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This is the only reason I haven't had sex in almost a year. I just can't afford the legal advice. If I just had a good lawyer, I'd be beating the women off with a stick.
/r/MensRights04/10/10 04:40 PM
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I knew at least 4 guys at my time in college who dropped out and never finished school due to false rape charges. Some girl gets drunk, sleeps with him, regrets it, and calls it rape. Those are just people I knew personally, too, not all the cases at the whole university at that time.
/r/MensRights27/09/10 07:41 PM
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I would say that, while being an athlete is their profession, an NFL locker room has a slightly different atmosphere and etiquette code than a typical work environment.
/r/MensRights15/09/10 03:42 PM
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My great-grandfather used to tell me dad, who in turn told me, "A man never hits a lady, but if she hits you, she sure as hell ain't no lady."
/r/MensRights08/09/10 02:40 PM
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This is what I mean when I talk shit about "Feminazis." I have no problem with normal feminists, who support actual gender equality, but this shit is fanatical and ludicrous hate-speech.
/r/MensRights30/08/10 03:31 PM
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