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9

You should hear how some women here talk about the Australian rules players, real down and dirty comments about bulges and bums etc. so yeah, women absolutely objectify men 🙄
/r/MensRights21/07/26 02:16 PM
4

🤦🏼‍♂️ She would lose her shit on the daily here in Australia 🙄
/r/MensRights01/07/26 12:28 PM
9

Don't forget the other feminist claim that men only fight for custody because they are abusive, and only fight for custody to further abuse.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 07:42 AM
16

So, 18.3 million Men are violent offenders in the US? I'd like to see your citation for that statistic
/r/MensRights27/06/26 06:18 AM
15

It's an absolute furphy to suggest that wars are an exclusively male thing, historically female leaders are responsible for more conflict when compared to men. To suggest a matriarchy would be free of conflict ignores reality
/r/MensRights15/06/26 11:31 PM
3

That's the point
/r/MensRights09/06/26 09:37 AM
88

Apex fallacy. Where looking at the top 1-5% and applying it across all. It's just that, a fallacious argument to bolster a strawman
/r/MensRights05/06/26 11:47 AM
3

I recall a YouTube short that mentions this very topic, and from memory they did the rough sums and it worked out to be something like 0.8% of all men in US being on sex offender register. So yeah...
/r/MensRights30/05/26 12:26 AM
28

My Ex has had same experience working in corporate, and is quietly stressing about her new job where her direct report is a woman. My one and only experience working under a woman manager did not go well, she was a toxic misandric nightmare hell bent on bullying men and firing women
/r/MensRights24/05/26 12:36 PM
6

Male vets are in demand here in Australia for large animal/livestock care as they are better suited to handling these animals and because there are so few
/r/MensRights18/05/26 12:48 AM
8

Nothing, but its nowhere near as lucrative as when women do it
/r/MensRights11/05/26 03:46 AM
0

It's a minority of men in reality. However, basically it's a mix of high testosterone, low IQ (IQ is inversely related to testosterone), which elevates violent tendencies with poor decision making, and then add in higher rates of psychopathy and sociopathy for the real criminals. But yeah, bottom line is that testosterone is a hell of a hormone, it underpins a lot of male shitness
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:54 AM
3

Patriarchy, the voldemortesque idea that is perpetuated by feminists, is simply the apex fallacy applied to men. Because men dominate the 5% of power and finance it is those applied to all men. Simple examinations like OP here reveal the lie that is. Men AND women are chattel for the elite
/r/MensRights25/04/26 08:17 AM
1

Wasn't there a study done years ago where they found that something like 90% of abuse women received online was from other women?
/r/MensRights18/04/26 12:14 PM
2

Testosterone literally shortens male lifespans, through doing stupid shit or playing havoc with our endocrinology, and so eunuchs tend to live longer, but fatter, lives by being docile with unstressed cells
/r/MensRights10/01/26 09:58 AM
1

I'm literally sitting in Iraq as we speak, and I've spent enough time in the middle east (and Pakistan as well), and I know that you are looking at the culture with rose coloured glasses, obviously raised also with the notion that this is the ideal, and you look down on western culture as you see it as inferior to your own, but this is purely bias on your part as well as adoption of myths you have been brought up to believe. You're blind to the devolvement of islamic culture since the 'golden er…
/r/MensRights27/10/25 09:35 AM
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Islam does respect men it seems. As any patriarchal misogynistic culture would seem to be all about Also, nice strawmanning of western society, nothing you said has any grounding in reality
/r/MensRights27/10/25 08:22 AM
9

Ah Canada, you never disappoint...
/r/MensRights13/10/25 04:42 AM
3

Kinda same, I've never really been into watching porn, to me it's so cringeworthy. Only stuff I kinda like is amateur porn, it's real, opposite to the overblown shit that predominates
/r/MensRights25/09/25 12:39 PM
1

In Australia if 80% or more of your work/income is derived from a single source then you are an employee with all the rights associated. This stops unscrupulous businesses hiring "independent contractors" to absolve them of obligations
/r/MensRights16/09/25 08:27 AM
11

Independent contractor? Walk away and go find another client
/r/MensRights16/09/25 05:53 AM
23

Oh no, apparently men always have full faculties, and this can always consent and/or have full control. /S
/r/MensRights16/08/25 11:02 AM
4

I'm not sure about school, but it definitely plays out in tertiary education and workforce. Gender paradox at play, with gender differences widening with greater egalitarianism socially
/r/MensRights17/07/25 02:28 AM
23

Hung out with a group.of lesbian friends of my then GF, where a few there you could feel the dislike dripping off them. Went to gay bar later, and got a shoulder from a butch along with a drink poured on me at some point by some woman. Nice. I went to go hang out with the gay guys, felt much safer 🤣
/r/MensRights16/07/25 06:34 AM
0

That wasn't harsh, it was blunt, offense is not given it's taken. And yes, I know it's satire, but I've come across many with similar attitudes and sometimes you gotta tell them they're being cunts and that's why they get what they get in life.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 01:59 AM
0

Stop putting words in my mouth. I said that manifestation from low self esteem CAN be toxic. There's are many ways low self esteem can be expressed, not all toxic, it pays to be self aware with low self esteem on how you project in the world, otherwise you can be like OP and wonder why simply being 5'11" is the issue.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 01:54 AM
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Ha, I not saying they have a bad attitude for having low self esteem, it's that attitude comes from low self esteem, and it's a toxic manifestation. That manifestation is what's causing half their issues.
/r/MensRights13/07/25 01:24 AM
7

Its not your height, it's your attitude
/r/MensRights09/07/25 01:30 AM
9

It amazes me how these people forget that having babies is the end point of nature, and you kinda need 2 sexes to do it successfully, and then work together as a social species to survive. I suspect people this are so divorced from nature and life that they have no idea
/r/MensRights08/07/25 05:55 AM
6

A maid is a paid service. A SAHW engages (voluntarily) in a social contract that she deals with the domestics while being supported by a husband. Feminists conveniently forget the social contract and reciprocity of the arrangement, preferring to couch it as a transactional (financial) arrangement that does not benefit the women while ignoring that she has her needs met by said husband
/r/MensRights29/06/25 01:15 PM
20

Probably because when man is SAH he's obviously doing it to slack off and mooch off his wife. Of course when a woman does it she's doing all domestic labour and being controlled 🙄 Partly /s
/r/MensRights20/06/25 02:41 PM
7

Pretty sure you can enter into a private agreement, puts the state out of it. I don't know what the state is harassing you, did she file a claim for child support?
/r/MensRights14/05/25 10:51 PM
6

There is strong suggestion out there that it isn't as unusual as we assume, largely because boys don't get educated on abuse like girls do and thus tend not to raise it with other adults
/r/MensRights13/05/25 02:35 AM
4

Ironically, the woman who came up with that recently lamented this very thing, she said it was never intended to be taken to be just to believe women regardless, but rather take accusations seriously and go from there. Now co-opted and corrupted
/r/MensRights28/04/25 12:28 PM
2

should be 'no penis, no opinion'
/r/MensRights20/03/25 02:45 AM
2

Never had my worth based on my dick, nor did I ever attach my worth on the size of my dick. If I met someone who wanted to judge me on the size of my dick I wouldn't want to have anything to do with them. Same with money
/r/MensRights08/02/25 04:21 AM
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Most competition for women is women themselves, that's why they do the clothes and makeup thing, in real terms. They may say all sorts of other reasons, but bottom line is that they are competing amongst themselves in a competition of age and looks, a social competition.
/r/MensRights05/02/25 12:28 PM
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Fyi, male violence has been dropping for at least 2 decades but female violence has risen.significantly over same time span. I'll see.if I can find those sources again, but I would say they would be embarassing for some
/r/MensRights27/11/24 07:38 AM
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Yeah, I wanted to be one, even to point of enrolling, but walked away when I realised it's such a shit paying thing. Most definitely a love job, and this I think (as others have intimated) is why women dominate, men migrate to the money before love
/r/MensRights23/11/24 10:10 AM
1

Couch it in terms of fiscal or procedural benefit, it's always a business, if you can do better business then unless management is determined to be fossilised they will come to party and benefit you.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 01:35 AM
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You made the claim, now back it up
/r/MensRights09/11/24 12:59 AM
8

As they say, if everything is something then it's nothing.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 12:53 PM
4

Citation needed
/r/MensRights07/11/24 05:14 AM
6

I get your point. But why are you choosing to focus solely on the most extreme, fascist feminists? There are hundreds of feminists out there that wouldn’t align themselves with these loons. The 'No True Scotsman' Fallacy. Problem is that these extreme feminists generally get involved at a material level, driving many of the misandric policies in government and academia. The average Feminist is not often involved
/r/MensRights31/10/24 10:58 PM
1

There's already moaning about 'misogyny' in (lack of) male responses to women having cardiac arrests. I wonder what the tipping point will be in this
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:20 AM
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Well, then we can have the feminists squeel about then
/r/MensRights30/10/24 04:24 AM
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I'm pretty sure has good samaritan laws on its books that would protect you from such shit
/r/MensRights30/10/24 03:33 AM
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and this is showing up in psychology failing to recognise and connect with men, assuming a feminine approach works across the board
/r/MensRights21/10/24 01:01 AM
6

Therapy as an idea in of itself isn't bad for men, there could be value in a proper safe space to discuss and understand the ways one feels about their problems. Therapy is beneficial, but that bit I bolded is the crux of the difference between women and men that Psychology is failing at, the feminisation of psychology has led to the presumption that talking about it produces the same benefit for both sexes. This doesn't work for many/most men, while feelings play a part men are more solution or…
/r/MensRights21/10/24 01:00 AM
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Privileged class too. Back with 1st wave The working class women were working and didn't give a fuck about voting
/r/MensRights17/10/24 10:51 AM
2

Yeah, and the worst is that Psychology now has become so feminised that the mere act of recognising that men don't respond to just talking about issues is a rebellious activity, the now female dominated profession struggles with dealing with men as a consequence. My good friend who is doing a Psychology degree and is very sensitive to male issues is finding it a challenge when she raises these points, often getting smacked down and told to go with the current zeitgeist or fail. Its bullshit
/r/MensRights16/10/24 07:28 AM
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I do want to ask a question regarding your 5th point. How exactly do women get mad when men deal with their own shit? Classic example is protests outside Paul Elams male suicide seminars, and the protests/cancelling following Cassey Jays documentary on Mens Rights. Attempts to open male DV shelters inevitably end in protests and are often blocked from funding. I have found that discussing mens mental health often devolves into simplistic 'they just need to talk more', and any discussion on male …
/r/MensRights16/10/24 07:08 AM
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Look, I think it is problematic at all waves, especially when you take into account women were already working and owning businesses (upper class certainly didn't as it was unfashionable, not because the couldn't), had their own money and could manage it (just couldn't take a loan as the man was responsible for fhe debt) etc but in terms of women's emancipation from the rigid social mores and later sexual freedoms (thanks pill) I think they served a role. 3rd and 4th waves began an over reach
/r/MensRights13/10/24 07:08 AM
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1 - Do you believe if yours views on men’s rights were achieved, women and men would be happier? No, just that some of the inequities have been 'adjusted' and we would be on the path to an egalitarian future. Right now there is a very apparent clash between womens success in education/career that is clashing with base relationships/dating/marriage desires, where expectations and desires are not matching with the new reality, so women are getting unhappy and men are checking out, this is not goin…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 03:59 AM
10

Sush you, haven't you hear of the patriarchy and that men always have power therefore women can only be victims, and even when they are perceived as not its only because they are protecting themselves against abusers
/r/MensRights29/09/24 08:33 AM
8

So, much like the concept of original sin, men are fucked if they do and fucked if they don't
/r/MensRights29/09/24 08:31 AM
33

And apparently jailing men doesn't have any negative effects, right?
/r/MensRights25/09/24 02:16 AM
17

They faced significant oppression for years, including being denied the right to vote and open bank accounts. Ha, the vast majority of men also couldn't vote either until the draft came in and voting came with that cost, and women could always open bank accounts but couldn't take loans as only men were responsible for debts, therefore required man acting as guarantor/additional signatory. But hey, don't let the truth get in the way of a good oppression story Man have always been relied upon as p…
/r/MensRights13/09/24 05:21 AM
105

Oh, shit yes, I would be happy to be a house husband. Kids can be a pain, but sure beats fucking around going to work and dealing with that stress
/r/MensRights08/09/24 08:38 AM
8

I honestly hadn't given much thought to how there are little to no institutions to directly help men. Basically this stems from the thinking that Men are or own all the institutions, usually without realising that the reality is that governments and associated departments are now heavily Gynocentric, add on to that the additional thinking that to consider men is automatically assumed to be misogynistic.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 11:23 PM
6

MRAs constantly see Feminists dismiss or outright oppose MRA claims and activism, mostly due to inability to accept criticism of the narrative or seeing that conceding the MRA claims is to lose a piece of the pie. Good example is male DV victims, Feminists don't like them because they see it as evidence negating their narrative of DV being gendered violence perpetrated (solely) by Men, and that support takes away from their DV funding (ostensibly for women, or that men as victims are such a mino…
/r/MensRights22/08/24 05:21 AM
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correlation =/= causation ;)
/r/MensRights04/08/24 02:53 AM
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/r/MensRights02/08/24 02:10 AM
1

/r/MensRights02/08/24 02:09 AM
83

Yep, she's the one who bashed mens day in parliament
/r/MensRights25/07/24 02:25 AM
18

Sexually abused boys are less likely to report abuse because their abusers are mostly women or relatives. Teachers are gaining ground. And I recall a study which discusses this, and another reason is that many boys fail to recognise that what's happening is abuse, and as a result are less inclined to report. All the messaging is towards girls, hence higher incidence of reporting
/r/MensRights13/07/24 10:45 PM
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UK has had some groups actually calling for the closure of women's prisons saying that women should not be imprisoned, apparently inhumane or something.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:03 AM
6

Well, the baby certainly did ruin her career....
/r/MensRights07/07/24 01:59 AM
9

53 yr old guy here, can cook and pretty well, taught by my mother who declared that my brothers and I should have the basic life's skills, and that included cooking. I enjoy it, and have done the majority of cooking in my family. All the guys I know can cook also.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 03:47 AM
1

Or older than something like 30🙄
/r/MensRights15/06/24 10:10 AM
2

This only works if you lower the bar to define rape so low as to say everything is rape, and make every man a rapist. It also only works when the definition is changed between who you ask. Violence and aggression is hardly normalized, and I would say 90% of men abhor rapists, so the disconnect is in the definitions between the sexes, and perception of risk by women.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 02:12 PM
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Yes, because women have reasons, men are just shitcunts.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 12:47 AM
70

Kurdish women stood up and fought with the men against, ISIS, and now Turkey. That there is an example.of what women can do alongside their menfolk, and that's equality
/r/MensRights27/05/24 07:35 AM
1

Well, true...
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:20 AM
33

Yeah, funny that, slag off men so easily, but when you remind them that they have fathers, brothers, grandfathers, Uncles etc the thinking collapses and cognitive dissonance kicks in
/r/MensRights22/05/24 02:48 AM
17

Yeah, I do believe you are quite correct. Here in Aus DV deaths of women are the talking point, but if you look at the government statistics you will note something like 40% of DV deaths are male, but you don't hear that stat, and then 69% of murder victims are male. Weird that.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 04:17 AM
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Yep, every conversation I have had with a feminist on this subject almost always boils down to 'Women are majority of victims therefore we must focus on them'. It's never referred to as an equivalent problem, always framed as women are the victims, problem is therefore gendered. They never consider that the causes are common, genderless, and in my opinion this is the reason why the problem is not going away, we are looking at it wromg.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 12:24 AM
11

Yes, because women always have reasons, men are just shitlords
/r/MensRights18/05/24 03:50 AM
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Patriarchy Theory is little more than the Apex Fallacy expanded. Much of it involves pointing to the 10% of men and claiming that they represent men and society. 90% of men are just going about their lives.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 01:39 AM
24

Pretty sure this is the one where they lowered the bar for SA pretty much to the basement, and then extrapolated the number of 'assaults' to number of men ie artistic license with both census and statistics
/r/MensRights13/05/24 06:58 AM
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FYI women could always work, but in higher society it was frowned upon, hence the idea you couldn't. But many working class workers were women, and a growing middle class
/r/MensRights09/05/24 11:53 PM
6

Yep, this has been my experience too. Women are excellent routine lab workers who you can trust to do solid work well, but they generally don't tend to break.out of that mould to innovate. This is why men tend to more quickly progress to management because they do the small things that get noticed, and push boundaries that bring improvements.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 03:50 AM
6

Ah, a Simp in the wild, even women don't trust him. He's the worst kind of 'Nice Guy's, toxic AF
/r/MensRights06/05/24 01:55 AM
14

I recall reading somewhere that gyms end up closing when they go women only. So I don't think segregation is going to be very useful for women.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 09:58 PM
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Yeah, I've heard. There's plenty of people who say women shouldn't be given any sentence because they all have reasons and apparently have responsibilities
/r/MensRights20/04/24 12:14 PM
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Wow, women suffer from same shit men get in prison and it's a problem. What is so unique about women offenders that they have to have their special programs, and then they get to serve sentences in community more because apparently low risk, and they have 'reasons'. FFS
/r/MensRights20/04/24 10:59 AM
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Wtf did I just read? She is an abusive piece of shit, and you kept going back again and again, even traumatized by her being assaulted. I stopped reading because clearly you are codependent and trauma bonded to this woman, and seemingly want to keep being attached to her emotionally despite all the trauma she heaped on you. You need a lot of therapy to unpack this unholy relationship. Until you can reconcile this you won't be able to have any meaningful relationship with anyone.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 04:46 AM
1

No, I'm saying that your singular anecdote does not change the dominant story here
/r/MensRights16/04/24 11:48 PM
1

Wow, you pick one story that's a little different and claim righteous point, how about look at all the rest and you'll find that on balance the bias is glaringly obvious. I could also point to the multitude sof stories where women rape teenage boys and yet it's reported as 'romps' 'affairs' 'trysts' etc etc. yet when a man does it he's a monster.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 10:26 AM
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You missed the point here. When reports of women doing these crimes come out there's always a chorus about all her (mental health) issues or reasons. When Men are reported as doing the same thing it's almost universally declared that said man is a monster.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 01:34 PM
5

What was that woman, an author, who was writing stuff about men and admitted that she never stopped to think about actually asking men about stuff
/r/MensRights02/04/24 04:31 AM
3

What about the HoneyBadgers?
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:50 AM
2

Sure
/r/MensRights13/03/24 03:40 AM
18

A Gay man no less!
/r/MensRights13/03/24 03:26 AM
10

My Daughter, 13, thought the movie was lame and too obviously feminist (or tries to be). She's smart and realises when the politics gets heavy handed, and hates it
/r/MensRights11/03/24 11:49 PM
1

Cough Apex Fallacy cough
/r/MensRights10/03/24 11:31 PM
4

You are exactly the problem here
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:51 PM
6

Haha, majority uncut in this country, never met a woman who cared. They all look pretty much alike when erect.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 11:46 AM
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It's not taboo, but trans activists get all hot and bothered by this because 'transphobia', apparently it shouldn't matter if there is a penis involved.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 10:10 AM
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Yeah, women have reasons, men are just assholes
/r/MensRights02/01/24 03:45 AM
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Funny that, earlier this year I had some feminist arguing that testosterone doesn't have the energy/violence/criminality effect we all think it does. So, which is it? That said, (violent) rapists are usually psychopaths and extreme misogynists, quite commonly are products of abuse by women
/r/MensRights01/01/24 08:08 AM
5

Does the Ex have a gimp mask and chained up in the kitchen, the whole thing gives me that vibe
/r/AntiFeminists04/10/22 12:37 PM
5

Do this and you will be the one going away with police
/r/MensRights03/10/22 12:10 PM
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You walk away. This is abuse, and she won't stop unless she recognised it's abuse and that's not gonna happen.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 09:40 AM
2

This is true. Or as I understand it the trend reversed at some point post 2000. Before an expat was a magnet, but it shifted apparently.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 03:40 AM
110

3 years working in Russia and listening to Russian men left me with a huge nope with regard to Russian /Ukrainian women. Beautiful, but most are unashamed gold diggers, and it's fucking accepted. It's the thing. No wonder Russian men are all alcoholics and die early.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 05:50 PM
2

A rule for thee, but not for me....
/r/MensRights18/09/22 04:43 AM
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Probably, and/or a huge in-group bias
/r/MensRights06/09/22 01:38 PM
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World class Narcissist she is
/r/MensRights06/09/22 01:26 PM
14

Yes, because companies have effectively mandated hiring of females in preference to males in order to drive up the numbers. Gotta have that equity....
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:26 PM
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Can confirm, lesbians (many, but not all) and feminists don't like men in their space, so the vibe won't be there for sure
/r/MensRights03/09/22 12:39 PM
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Very much like all women know other women are bitches and don't trust them, we men know teenage boys are poorly thinking hornbags and that they should understand the expectations he would have on him as a man to be trusted. This is not necessarily about men not trusting other men, or think they are a threat, but this is about men communicating communicating boundaries and expectation in a language men understand.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 02:50 PM
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Most, if not all, of our societies are Patriarchal, that's true. However the 'Patriarchy' as described by feminism is largely bullshit, fundamentally the same argument as Marxist Bourgeoise/Proletariat social descriptors. Leans heavily on the Apex fallacy, and very little evidence beyond presupposition.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 06:57 AM
1

Perhaps true. Not sure if its still happening, but it was also a thing that virgins (often minors) would get raped due to a belief that having sex with a virgin would cure AIDS. Africa be fucked up.
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/22 03:38 AM
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Oh, and I've heard plenty of stories where fathers rape daughters to cure them of their lesbianism, especially in Africa
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 02:37 PM
7

Yes, because every feminist thinker indulges in the Motte-Bailey of holding up feminism as the dictionary definition of equality, while hiding the misandric truth of 4th wave feminism
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:46 AM
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And plenty of men remove hair also, for practical and aesthetic reasons. Cough Cyclists Cough
/r/MensRights15/08/22 12:37 PM
1

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33982410/ Might help. Just googled ;)
/r/MensRights13/08/22 08:11 AM
1

Can't say I've looked at that data. As a genXer I know my generation is where the tide turned against routine circumcision, and definitely uncircumcised had been majority for a good while now
/r/MensRights13/08/22 08:01 AM
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Aussie here, vast majority are uncut, noone complains
/r/MensRights13/08/22 06:34 AM
5

Can also confirm, it's not hard
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:30 AM
0

My Ex Wife hates working with and under women, seeing the bullying and political bullshit that women engage in so many times, reckons she has a far better life working for and with Men, all just get on with the job without the crap.
/r/AntiFeminists06/08/22 03:40 AM
16

Yeah, when boys are getting told constantly that they are part of a problematic population of course they are gonna want to say fuck it all and drop out
/r/MensRights29/06/22 09:35 AM
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Yeah, pulls the classic Motte-Bailey argument there.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/22 06:32 PM
9

Apparently tubes tied is not reversible, or not reversible easily, and many woment think vasectomies are easily reversible, hence vasectomies should be de rigeuer
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/22 02:22 PM
42

Hey look, it's the 'No True Scotsman' fallacy.
/r/AntiFeminists23/06/22 06:25 PM
10

Actually, the vast majority of men only got those privileges relatively recently, and ownership of property/businesses/political influence was not always restricted for women, and again a function of culture and in early history women had every freedom. The problem of many feminists is to look at modern European history and assume it carries across all history, but this is not true, the only constant is that women have borne the risks and responsibilities of childbirth/rearing and men to war and…
/r/MensRights13/06/22 05:36 AM
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Fun fact, most violent rapists are the product of abusive mothers, what do we do about that?
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 02:05 AM
6

White men with property, to be absolutely correct. Universal voting for all white men didn't come about until draft requirements were instituted, circa late 1800s to early 1900s
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:05 AM
2

It's both, or religion, culture, and race. Being religious is not necessarily a requirement of being Jewish.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 12:17 AM
8

Straw men, straw men everywhere....
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/22 06:16 AM
0

Alcohol can be a bitch....
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/22 02:32 AM
3

but if you think the health implications of male and female circumcision are equally severe, you're at best ignorant and at worst an idiot. This wasn't my argument, nor would I try and make that argument. The basis of my argument was one of consent, and this I feel is where it should begin and end with, no-one should be cutting any bits off any baby/child full stop. We don't need to get into who gets it worse in order to make the argument whether circumcision is bad. as an aside comment, Its iro…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 03:59 AM
5

There is also the belief that women don't like uncircumcised men, leading many parents to circumcise out of fear their boy will be rejected by women. Its fucked up
/r/MensRights17/05/22 01:28 AM
8

female 'circumcision' is far more damaging to girls than removing the foreskin is for boys. Go talk to the some 10%+ of boys where circumcision has lead to serious issues and deformity, and indeed death in some cases. Both are bad, don't play the "girls have it worse therefore bad argument" shit to dismiss the legitimate concerns of both
/r/MensRights17/05/22 01:27 AM
7

Stop with the "its worse when its girls" thing, both are still acts of mutilation done on children against their will and without consent. This is the argument. You don't get to hand wave away male circumcision because female circumcision is worse, the crux of it is cutting bits of kids genitals without consent, both are wrong
/r/MensRights17/05/22 01:24 AM
10

Or she was moving to gain sole custody, unwilling to even give 50% to her Ex . People are fucking terrible
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:33 PM
53

I've been groped more times by women that I have ever seen women get groped. Anecdotal perhaps, but I'm pretty sure both sexes can get nasty
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/22 06:15 AM
37

There's also progesterone, and the balance of to make pregnancy work. Good luck to them, but I reckon it's a bridge too far
/r/MensRights09/05/22 05:53 PM
82

You also forget progesterone that goes with pregnancy. Not only that, there are a huge number of other changes that occur in a females body, the least if which is the circulatory system in preparation for the placenta and placental blood, are we sure that a transplanted uterus etc will even develop the systems involved in pregnancy. Hormones are but a tiny part. And we haven't even started on the developmental aspects of foetus growth, hormones required for that (boys need testosterone during de…
/r/MensRights09/05/22 05:51 PM
10

Actions speak louder than the dictionary definition. Classic motte-bailey argument
/r/MensRights09/05/22 08:11 AM
10

Because feminism and feminists often work counter to any efforts to help men, and so to help men it does pay to fight the bullshit that they spew.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 08:00 AM
5

Oh, she was stressed or had depression or something something, ergo not responsible, therefore free.
/r/MensRights06/05/22 12:31 PM
242

“The reader will perhaps be astonished to find that men’s and women’s roles were not so clearcut, and that it was cooperation between all members of the group, regardless of their gender or age, which ensured their survival,” she writes. Well, fuck, no shit. Who knew that any cohesive social structure would require a communal effort from all to survive in a harsh environment /s Its as if feminist reading of history would have some bias to it
/r/MensRights30/04/22 08:27 AM
8

Lol, not hard to get banned there, I got permabanned there for merely posting published statistics. Oops, the numbers disagreed with the narrative 😬🙄
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 05:23 PM
5

I'm lucky in that we ended things amicably, and went through it with consideration to our childs best interests. We both, or probably me moreso, worked hard to renegotiate our relationship on good terms as co-parents and perhaps even friends. Its taken time, but we are in a pretty good space with regards to co-parenting and even a decent relationship.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 08:06 AM
6

Yup. I'll take 'yeah, right, as if that happened' for $25
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/22 03:05 PM
3

Done same. Fukn trolls
/r/AntiFeminists19/02/22 10:25 AM
76

What they are really saying is that women get to have preferences, and men have to live up to and deal with them, but the women don't have to accept or deal with male preferences. Its not about the men, it's about female entitlement
/r/MensRights18/02/22 06:29 PM
8

I think the last question tells us a lot: Do you feel there is a away for society to break free from this cycle of masculinity hurting men who hurt women? What would need to happen? Was gonna say its all about "Toxic Masculinity" .... and I was right Edit: Looks at female questions, and what? Do you believe the reason the social development of women has been delayed is due to the stereotypical expectations of masculinity? * Yep. All about Toxic masculinity. ​ Do you believe todays world revolves…
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 12:45 PM
40

WTF?!, I'm cool with penises and all, in fact I have one that I think is pretty cool, but I really think that in regards to sex I think 2 penises is really a crowd. Plus, I like vaginas more :)
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/22 05:36 AM
2

Things that never happened
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 05:16 AM
20

And BMI>15, skinny women need not apply either
/r/MensRights04/02/22 01:17 PM
3

What was a good news service went full woke, and has been a cesspit of far-left 'journalism' without a hint of self awareness
/r/MensRights04/02/22 08:53 AM
1

Mmm, yes, and I also know that female brains have better communication between left and right hemispheres. That aside, I wrote with a study in mind that concluded that male and female brains are physically fundamentally the same. I
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 05:41 AM
10

Women have been known to get wet and even orgasm during rape, so does that mean its pleasurable and therefore not rape? People should be consistent in applying the argument.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 06:31 AM
7

Exactly. If men set the standards then the bar would be hell lower.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 05:13 AM
0

I am aware of this, but simply didn't mention for sake of simplicity of argument
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 01:19 PM
4

Physically, no, and this is empirically true, along with general cognitive ability (both sexes share same average IQ and ability to do things like Maths etc). However they do differ in operation and function, with the sexes utilising different parts of the brain differently, some parts being more active in one than another.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 01:13 PM
7

I can empathize, and not saying what was said was wrong, but it's the dismissal of a valid thing for men that was the problem. The 'oh, that's bullshit, women have xyz'. One can actually empathise both positions, or the truth of both positions, but what we saw was the position that we must only empathise for the women.
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 12:47 PM
15

Oh, the comments were full of 'whataboutism'. Ignoring the point to tell us how that doesn't matter because women put up with shit too. FFS
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 10:08 AM
14

I'm uncut, and its never been raised as even being a thing.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 09:19 AM
26

Haha, maybe, but I also get equally excited over cooking implements and kitchens these days
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:46 PM
323

Nah, I'm always up for new tools, as long as they quality
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:46 PM
32

the idea that men tend to hold power in society and exclude women from it (paraphrase). Yeah, if you dig a bit into Patriarchy Theory you realise this is a projection of the Apex fallacy, where Feminists look at the top 1-10% of men in power and wealth and apply it to men as a whole. As for Patriarchy, this is a little more tricky to parse out Western nations I think are drifting away from a patriarchal power structure, with men being less dominant in society power structures, byt patriarchal in…
/r/AntiFeminists25/01/22 08:26 AM
6

Erin Pizzey made the same observation, and got vilified for it by the very feminists she thought she was
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/22 07:54 AM
7

Aussie here, every mall has family rooms with full feeding and changing station plus toilets, no-one bats an eye when a guy rocks up with his baby/kid. Plenty of unisex toilets also with changing stations. I've never had an issue while raising my kid
/r/MensRights06/01/22 01:35 PM
6

In an amicable, mutually respectful divorce, with good co-parenting this is a good thing. Teaches kids that we can all be adults and wear the big pants. Toxic Exes and situations require a very different take
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/21 03:47 PM
1

We tell men not to murder all the time, indeed its wholly reviled in society, and yet it still happens. Do we have a persistent murder culture. No. The problem here is that rapists are, for the most part, socio or psychopaths, and you can put all the laws in place and tell them all the things you think necessary, but its still gonna happen. Much like murder. we have all the controls and consequences in place, and yet it happens. Short of a constant surveillence police state you won't get rid of …
/r/MensRights31/12/21 10:06 AM
3

I drink to numb the pain of social media
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:34 AM
19

This is the paradox that has led to a decline in female happiness since the 60s. It would seem that despite equal opportunities etc seems to conflict with feminine prerogatives, leading to dissatisfaction. Largest divorce rate comes from couples where the female is the primary breadwinner, and I wonder why....
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:33 AM
7

jeezus fuck, sure as hell if I as a 50yr old guy started dating a 30 yr old there will be far more questions than congrats
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/21 08:49 AM
2

Most imprisoned violent offenders have been found to have higher levels of testosterone and lower IQ that the average, which would go a long way to explain things
/r/MensRights04/12/21 02:11 PM
2

I find the strength argument is kinda putting cart before the horse, and doesn't explain the why
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 02:21 PM
13

Largely I agree, but I have found that the better argument is down to the fact that pregnancy, childbearing, and child rearing poses a significant risk to females and time engaged in doing so, and so the role of hunter/protector would necessarily fall to the male. therefore our species developed the dimorphism it has done so, both physically and socially
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 12:27 PM
27

The least I can do is make the man a fucking sandwich. Bless you. You said it, men and woman have long been a team, and this social contract has been eroded at some level and become a battlefield, rendered to something dirty that only right wing conservatives cling to.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 08:53 AM
68

I think he's obsessing over matters of consent, where there are those who like to take it to a place where unless you get clear assent at every action during sex its rape. Where know the definition of rape, but the above is a rabbithole....
/r/MensRights27/11/21 08:50 AM
1

Its the same skin as the inside of your mouth, retains its stretch no matter, its not like the skin on the outside. Go learn some basic physiology
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 06:17 AM
4

fuck me, how old are you? They don't stretch, and you wouldn't have a clue about her body count just by pussy. I bet you believe that bigger labia = high body count too.
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 06:15 AM
2

I love how they throw in extremely weird claims and dont even elaborate They believe the claims stand for themselves, no proof or elaboration required, typical idealogue
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 05:07 AM
1

Its an Ad Hominem attack in order to both dismiss the person and avoid the argument they know they don't have
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/21 07:14 AM
1

Joy Joy
/r/MensRights19/11/21 04:51 AM
1

I dating one, however she is one of the more sane ones verging on egalitarian. Her feminist views are probably realistic/understandable given she is Pakistani origin
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 08:37 AM
6

Riiiight, "Masked intruder", how convenient 🙄
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/21 05:05 PM
3

True that.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:54 AM
43

Yep. This is a thing. I'm also starting to hear horror stories of the consequences. One is a certain mining company hiring women preferentially who don't want to work on site, so to the office they go into HSE, and with no experience policies/actions are implemented that are causing accidents due to lack of experience. Fucking shitshow.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:54 AM
11

I dunno about discrimination, but I've found that having my daughter with me while looking at rentals definitely helped in application success.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 03:11 PM
8

"We want Equality!" "No, not that kind of equality!..."
/r/AntiFeminists29/10/21 08:55 AM
108

I guess she never heard of sexual dimorphism, and that humans exhibit one of the widest disparity amongst mammals. This is largely driven by the extreme difficulty imposed by childbirth and raising in the Homo species
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/21 08:19 AM
1

Lol, yeah, as if that happened
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 12:58 AM
26

But, but, society just doesn't value those degrees/careers, sexism/patriarchy!! /s
/r/MensRights05/10/21 05:35 AM
3

Why isnt there a push for more men in colleges Because any program that is put forward is immediately bashed down by feminists, to such an extent it takes a brave person to do so. Its happening in the UK though, but not without drama
/r/MensRights29/09/21 12:50 PM
1

Your numbers relate to total figures. I was referring (and I should have clarified this) sex abuse of boys only, where 40% of perpetrators are women. "According to the findings of a major U.S. study,5 40% of men who were sexually abused in childhood reported that their abuser was female. In comparison, the rate was 6% for women. Among the victims, 20.8% of the males compared to 2% of the females said that the woman had acted alone. In the other cases, the abuse was committed by a woman with a ma…
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/21 07:40 AM
3

In theory it should be possible, but in practice a womans attraction is predicated on your perceived strength and stability, and that includes stoicism. A primary need for many women is to fee safe and secure, and you are part of that, cracks in that armour will not be taken well.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:24 AM
14

Ah, shit, I must have missed that one. /s
/r/MensRights14/09/21 05:42 PM
211

They totally ignore the fact that many supporters of said laws are actually women. So a sex strike won't actually do a hell of a lot
/r/MensRights14/09/21 12:44 PM
44

Ever read some of her stuff? Jesus christ she held some pretty disturbed interpretation of life, sex, and men. I think she needed therapy more than anything else. Crazy thing was that she was married!
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/21 12:31 PM
3

Yes, but according to many feminists mens issues are the result of The Patriarchy, and so fundamentally an own goal, and also they are issues men should deal with (or will be fixed when the Patriarch falls, and so we should all be feminists). I can't eye roll hard enough
/r/AntiFeminists08/09/21 05:56 AM
7

I'll have to try and dig it up again. I too have seen the 2-10% figures, pretty sure these are derived from police proven false accusation rather than a true reflection of total accusations. Given the prevalence of using false accusation in family court etc I would wonder if the official figures are an underestimation.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 08:01 AM
25

I've seen FBI and DOJ stats suggesting that false accusation is up to 40% of all reports. Needless to say its been buried
/r/MensRights07/09/21 07:31 AM
1

Reality was that the men were doing the dangerous journey so that they can get jobs etc, then have the women come after when established
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 04:35 AM
10

My question also the very things required for survival. Oh, maybe we are all supposed to be victims...
/r/AntiFeminists04/09/21 04:36 AM
4

Wow, what an awesome deal, get to father a child and forfeit 20% of my income for 18 years for zero return. when can I sign up? /s
/r/MensRights02/09/21 02:32 PM
97

Fun fact, men and women perpetrate acts of child sexual assault at roughly the same rate. Issue largely is that boys will rarely report it
/r/AntiFeminists28/08/21 02:53 PM
2

violence have been a "men's traits" for centuries, lots even claim it to be "biological". and yet, many studies have shown women to be equally capable of violence, and indeed history shows us that female rulers have had an equal or greater propensity for war (though I will concede there is an argument that these rulers have be swayed by male 'advisors', but this is of some historical debate).
/r/MensRights27/08/21 05:48 PM
2

Of course, I am one, and I like to think I'm not an asshole. You miss the point of my comment though. I was highlighting a common thread when it comes to female violence etc, women are always given the benefit of 'reasons' behind their actions, but with Men this courtesy is given far less often. Largely I think because violence is often considered pathological in Men, as is anger, and so excuses are rarely given.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 05:30 PM
27

For women there are always reasons, but for men we are just assholes
/r/MensRights26/08/21 10:36 AM
6

How about instead of just bitching and hating on your partner just leave already.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 05:23 AM
2

That's called the apex fallacy, where you take the top 10% and apply it the whole. Its the laziest logical fallacy
/r/MensRights21/08/21 04:06 AM
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There is a lot of shit flying around about this, and the big question really is why the fuck would she put herself in that situation. Apparently the idea that it was a hoax to garner attention has been thrown around to throw shit on the girl and distract from the shitty behaviour of the men. Knowing Pakistan I find this idea probably closer to the truth.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 06:57 AM
4

Wut?!
/r/AntiFeminists16/08/21 08:42 AM
1

The cynic in me suspects that nursing is like female only spaces, resistant to male intrusion. The politics demand female access into male dominated spaces to address imbalances, but refuses the reverse.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 02:55 AM
-7

Because STEM is heavily male, so that's problematic and deemed to be so due to sexism, so its an easy target in the correction of gender imbalances. I also don't think the fact that its a sphere that has higher earning capacity is not a factor.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 11:16 AM
1

the fact is that men usually avoid asking or offering help. This happens mainly because shame or fear. Nah, I work in a heavily male dominated and masculine industry, and while most men would try and deal with something under there own steam none of us are shy in asking for help. Maybe its the team environment, but shame and fear there is not in getting help.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:35 PM
5

I too would like to know if our gay brethren have these issues
/r/MensRights15/07/21 12:37 PM
2

Damn Patriarchy and its...shuffles deck...motherhood! ​ oh, and damn Biology...
/r/AntiFeminists21/06/21 10:15 AM
1

Sounds hot....
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/21 11:56 AM
47

The stupid, it burns! I live in Australia, the sun will fuck you up here, and wearing sunglasses is really the done thing. I guess The Patriarchy is strong here
/r/AntiFeminists10/06/21 07:15 AM
1

Um, its objectively the best and most robust way we have at this point in the game. Is there arguments against its validity across the board, sure, but at least within groups its a pretty good measure of cognitive ability. True regarding degrees, though the type of degree is a reasonable measure, hard sciences, mathematics, and physics generally requiring a fair IQ to graduate
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/21 04:30 AM
1

Dunning-Kruger in action...
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/21 04:27 AM
2

Only 50% of any assets and equity grown during time of relationship. So generally anything owned prior is protected.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 04:46 PM
89

In Australia at least their relationship would automatically be considered common-law, and so any assets must be shared on separation
/r/MensRights05/06/21 05:45 AM
1

No, its the difference between offences that get to the police, and those that go unreported (victimisation survey) If you dig down a bit further you will see many victims of females are boys, who are less likely to report I would suggest. And no, it's not good, it's a massive hole in reporting, 90% of victims not coming forward. Girls are reported to report at higher rates, so boys need encouraging to come forward.
/r/MensRights29/05/21 05:33 PM
43

Jesus, fuck, what kind of world does that woman live in?!
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/21 02:20 PM
1

Reported offences put women at 1.6-2%, however victimisation surveys put women up to 17-20%. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0093854816658923 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/305384459_The_Proportion_of_Sexual_Offenders_Who_Are_Female_Is_Higher_Than_Thought_A_Meta-Analysis)
/r/MensRights28/05/21 03:49 AM
7

Don't worry, it's pretty much run its course for many reasons
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/21 06:00 PM
2

Currently dating a girl who identifies as a feminist, but thankfully not psychotic about it and can actually have a reasonable conversation about these things.
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/21 05:52 PM
1

Jesus fucking Christ, talk about a steaming pile of graceless generalisations and presumptions. Either I'm a unicorn or Men just aren't like this, me being single who keeps a clean and tidy house while happily going about my life contributing to society. I assume also she's never seen women like my SIL who is a slothful messy freak
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 12:23 PM
3

And what is she bringing to the table?
/r/MensRights27/04/21 02:05 PM
29

Totally. Must be pretty ignorant not to realise what this actually entailed
/r/MensRights27/04/21 11:37 AM
2

That should be a give, for all involved
/r/MensRights18/04/21 01:21 AM
4

Sure, and they become deadbeat Mums, just like those deadbeat Dads
/r/MensRights18/04/21 01:10 AM
5

It was a card, not a letter. Like I said, a card on its own may not be defined as 'communication', depending of course on contents of said card, but a letter certainly would. As I said, depends on content
/r/MensRights11/04/21 04:02 AM
7

Depends on definition of 'communication'. The receipt of a card may not (does not?) define as communication, but merely receipt of a gift. I think it was the right call, depending on contents of said card
/r/MensRights11/04/21 04:00 AM
1

Not really. What you said is that women aren't capable. What the numbers actually say is that there are capable women, but are outnumbered by men, there is a distinction there. I may be slightly pedantic, but there's nothing innate about men that make them more capable at that level, its just that at the extremes of the distribution the population of men is higher.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 07:25 AM
1

The correct answer is women simply cannot compete with men at that level Actually, the most correct answer is that by proportion the likelyhood of a woman being of sufficient IQ and disposition is so exceedingly rare that they are outnumbered by male competition. Its not impossible, just very improbable, statistically speaking
/r/MensRights04/04/21 05:02 AM
2

Yeah, I heard they were hiring Pedos
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:24 AM
26

I guess I'm a Pedo then :/
/r/MensRights29/03/21 02:35 PM
6

Yes, kids act out where they feel safest, and it is a good thing OPs son is venting to him. Shows where his trust truly lies. As a child psych told me, better they act up at home than at school.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 07:10 AM
3

Despite AOC being 16 the teacher is in a position of authority, and so consent cannot be given
/r/MensRights26/03/21 01:02 PM
25

Yes, Titania McGrath pointing out the stupid in satire
/r/AntiFeminists25/03/21 03:54 PM
1

Nothing intrinsically wrong, however my opinion is that it represents control and is a symbol of oppressive social structures
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/21 06:27 PM
1

Maybe, but backing that up is intense social pressure to wear the hijab etc. While the Koran and many muslims will say there is no compulsion, but the reality is very much the opposite. Girls either believe the lie that it is liberation, but in most Islamic countries and cultures there is intense shame heaped on girls who don't wear what is demanded. So we have to be very careful of taking the word of the women who view it as liberating in the wider context of the Islamic version of slut-shaminh…
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/21 05:38 PM
2

Oh, don't worry, they'll begrudgingly do it, bit will whine incessantly about it
/r/MensRights18/03/21 05:07 PM
2

Yep, that's the one
/r/MensRights13/03/21 04:52 PM
6

There is a youtube vid with senator lewenholm (sic?) questioning a wage gap group in a hearing on this very thing.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 08:01 AM
1

Yes, this is where real equality wi happen, and women will enter the same space as men in society, and they will not like it. For taking away reproduction will render women the same position as men, commodity for society. You will see how quickly the demand for the feminine will rise 🤔
/r/MensRights11/03/21 08:35 AM
8

Fair point. I am glad however that both of the schools my daughter has gone to have made a big deal about fathers day, and are specifically inclusive of fathers, one of them being an all girls school.
/r/MensRights08/03/21 10:55 AM
11

Yeah, you're supposed to just shut up and take it
/r/MensRights04/03/21 04:47 PM
6

Don't look for excuses. She's abusive. Full stop
/r/MensRights01/03/21 06:00 AM
6

She'll do it again. Pack your shit, walk away, and never look back.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 06:00 AM
17

She forgets the fact that in a large way the significant burden of gestation, birth, and raising human children influences the sexual dimorphism of our species, massively. Evolutionary influences aren't gender specific, and there's reasons women are physically the way they are
/r/MensRights25/02/21 12:19 PM
54

Stoltenberg sounds like one of those kids who grew up being weird and never fit in with his (male) peers, and in his resentment refuses to take any responsibility and now wishes to burn the world down to make him and his ideals fit. Like a beta male decrying the alpha
/r/MensRights18/02/21 07:31 AM
2

Only if she pegs you ;)
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/21 10:31 AM
36

Maybe start a 'punch her in the cunt' challenge?
/r/MensRights15/02/21 09:03 AM
3

Its pretty much a rite of passage, gotta declare you're no longer a virgin :P
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/21 08:52 AM
5

Every woman I know prefer a male boss or coworker, usually citing that most women around them are bitches. Internalised misogyny? I don't think so. Women I think just bring their own shit to the table and make everything personal, doesn't work very well :/
/r/MensRights31/01/21 02:41 AM
17

Statistically, lesbian relationships are by far the most likely constellation of domestic violence. This fact exposes the irrational fear based on the feminist propaganda of constantly telling women how dangerous men are. Few women would fear violence abuse in a lesbian relationship but in reality this is the one that is more likely to report domestic violence. DV is also worse again when one of the couple in a lesbian relationship is Bisexual. Apparently being also attracted to men is an additi…
/r/MensRights28/01/21 11:07 AM
16

In WWI men did choose to go to war because they saw it as an adventure Fair response, but I must correct you a bit to say that while many volunteered in WW1 for the 'adventure' vastly more were drafted, and many were shamed into joining by the 'white feather' campaign, in which women were totally complicit. As for WW2 men brutally forced into it, again not so much, certainly not for the allies who saw themselves as fighting for freedom.
/r/MensRights27/01/21 11:49 PM
3

I'll try for you. I think one of Feminisms biggest blind spots is that its Women who raise boys, and for some reason they don't seem to be held accountable for the consequences of such. Rather they blame 'toxic masculinity', rarely acknowledging womens complicity in it
/r/MensRights27/01/21 07:53 AM
8

I recall a study that put the majority of male rapists/sexual offenders having undergone sexual or otherwise abuse from women. Same can be said for extreme misogynists. I'll try and find the source again
/r/MensRights27/01/21 07:38 AM
2

A man who identifies as Feminist, no, for me it's almost a contradiction in terms and I would question motives. I'm a believer in equality, and would fight to the death for my daughter to have every opportunity, an egalitarian, by some definitions I would be a feminist. But I am not a feminist, largely because I disagree with the concept of 'the Patriarchy', which repudiates the totality of history and engages in the apex fallacy. Men who subscribe to this for the most part selling out their own…
/r/MensRights21/01/21 12:55 PM
7

nice ad hominem, I guess you don't have anything of substance to discuss
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/21 05:09 AM
3

No, common discourse in feminism. Sure, simps bring it out to curry favour, but it most definitely wider held thought than that
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/21 04:49 AM
5

I'm illustrating how it's explained why women are mean to other women. It's never about women, it's 'Patriarchy' and 'internalised mysogyny' that makes women mean to other women.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/21 04:42 AM
5

Something something Internalised Mysogyny something...
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/21 04:30 AM
5

I suggest you read a little more widely.
/r/MensRights16/12/20 02:37 PM
2

Let him play how he likes Before the age of two or three, boys and girls play in roughly the same ways. But not long afterward, they cotton on to the idea that some games are seen as more appropriate for their gender than others. Instead, encourage your son to play whatever interests him, without limits. Let him be the female characters in his “let’s pretend” games. Encourage playdates with girls, too. Just as many parents don’t like Barbie dolls for their daughters, remember that gender-exagger…
/r/MensRights16/12/20 12:25 PM
3

What? She basically says to achieve parity we must have more women. How does that work?
/r/MensRights16/12/20 01:00 AM
2

Yeah, I got perma-banned for posting in that thread calling out a person for the double standards applied to male victims of DV :/
/r/MensRights09/12/20 02:54 AM
13

This is where trans activism and feminism clash, many feminists have realised that the gender argument erases women's identity, and then in effect the whole point of feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/20 12:04 AM
3

Aren’t like 90% of domestic violence situations ‘due’ to economic issues? And Drug/alcohol, stress, plus mental illness
/r/MensRights27/11/20 01:08 PM
5

Typical "Nice Guy" behaviours, especially if matched by resentment when favours aren't reciprocated (covert contracts). Toxic
/r/seduction11/11/20 05:06 AM
1

Ha, give me a break, I'm 49 and 2/3 times is in satisfying someone else as well. Got energy to conserve ;)
/r/MensRights03/11/20 05:06 AM
3

Too late for me, already 2 days in and nutted 3 times, gotta keep that prostate active and happy :D
/r/MensRights03/11/20 02:48 AM
1

At least 48, and more when school holidays are happening. Granted, I do have flexibility,
/r/MensRights22/10/20 02:51 PM
1

I'm a guy ;) i think it would benefit the discussion to lay out your hours and why you could not be around to parent in such a way that routine babysitting be a ruling in this case. I doubt very much it was just an add-on because it was asked for. I would like to see more facts. I'm not arguing that such cash is not another burden on men, I just genuinely wonder if you are being slightly disingenuous in order to garner support. Lay it out for me.
/r/MensRights22/10/20 12:19 PM
1

This is not trolling. We are simply raising the question why you wouldn't have child in such a way where 'babysitting' wouldn't even be a question. Quite frankly I think some.level of judgement here is justified. You can't have kids = babysitting money, you make your choice. I don't think the judgement of the court is necessarily unfair tbh
/r/MensRights22/10/20 12:08 PM
2

This is what I'm wondering. I'm divorced, I have daughter weekends and a couple nights during week, ex can party hard any of those nights. No babysitter fees. Wtf?
/r/MensRights22/10/20 09:56 AM
0

Women feature majority of sexual violence, men predominate in violent attacks. So yeah, men are in firing line of violence for being men, and women in live for sex assaults.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 10:49 AM
1

I'm dating a Pakistani Girl. While she grew up in a privileged household, the social mores are very much patriarchal and abusive to women, and she was no fan
/r/MensRights17/10/20 12:22 AM
1

I hear ya. I am however seeing a woman who grew up in an extremely patriarchal society, was a feminist pretty much because she pushed against said countries ideal, unfortunatly suffered under a shitty marriage in same society, and then left said country and circumstance. She has every right to rail against the patriarchy and cry oppression, which she does, however she won't agree with equity feminism as she thinks its a bullshit concept as she knows everyone is different with different motivatio…
/r/MensRights16/10/20 10:51 AM
3

Yeah, I pulled up a feminist about this the other day, saying that for all the talk about equality there is still the expectation that the man has to earn more etc. To her credit she did agree
/r/MensRights15/10/20 11:27 PM
10

And better yet show her Karen Straughan as well, probably one of the more level and informed of the female MRA crowd
/r/AntiFeminists13/10/20 12:58 PM
26

Strictly speaking won't hold up in any court
/r/MensRights13/10/20 06:44 AM
35

Wikipedia is mentioned ;)
/r/MensRights12/10/20 03:19 PM
1

I recognise the sarcasm, but there are a lot of stupid people out there
/r/MensRights09/10/20 11:45 PM
4

Or add an /s
/r/MensRights09/10/20 08:18 AM
16

You might want to rephrase that
/r/MensRights09/10/20 07:31 AM
3

Physically it comes with risk of injury and infection, removes what protects the glans (genital mutilation if you will), and kills sensitivity. Morally there is the question of whether we have a right to violate the bodily autonomy of someone who cannot consent
/r/MensRights08/10/20 11:38 AM
4

I'm making the assumption OP is in US, otherwise this would not be a question, hence that viewpoint. OP is also expressing the cultural bias, and I'm providing a counterpoint. Also, my background means that I have medical data on this, and point is that not being circumcised does not pose any health issues when normal hygiene is practiced. This is the point OP needs to hear.
/r/MensRights08/10/20 09:38 AM
8

Well, I belong to a medical family and as far as I know problems with being uncircumcised are very few and far between. The US is pretty well on of the few places culturally that seem to have issues with not being circumcised
/r/MensRights08/10/20 07:23 AM
11

Uncut and Australian, never had a problem and neither is it seen a problem in this country, I would make it a hill to die on
/r/MensRights08/10/20 06:28 AM
6

That's very true
/r/MensRights04/10/20 12:55 PM
67

I'm sure she's quite happy in her bubble
/r/MensRights04/10/20 12:53 PM
2

wrong drug. Shows how much you actually understand
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/20 04:59 AM
28

As we say about the number of blacks being shot, however to argue this you would get branded a racist these days
/r/MensRights27/09/20 10:17 AM
1

This will be the truth of it
/r/MensRights11/09/20 10:24 AM
19

Actually, the side effects were worse than the female pill, and present in a larger proportion of subjects during early trials. This is why the male pill was delayed, the results indicated some more work was required, this is what clinical trials are designed to do. However, this has become an unfortunate trope amongst certain women, saying Men are pussies for not wanting the pill for them, or that they cry-babies over symptoms. The truth is a little more nuanced than that. Your colleagues are b…
/r/MensRights14/08/20 05:53 AM
61

Textbook gaslighting. Cunt move
/r/MensRights12/08/20 02:30 PM
1

I'm sure nothing will go wrong here....
/r/MensRights10/08/20 04:41 AM
7

For someone who doesn't have one she sure has a very strong opinion about it
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:30 PM
5

Ah, the old Malicious Compliance trick ;)
/r/MensRights30/06/20 12:47 PM
1

Plenty of places have Romeo & Juliet clauses in such cases where both are under age of consent, so yeah, not necessarily illegal
/r/MensRights30/06/20 12:44 PM
3

I give it 10 seconds.....
/r/AntiFeminists21/06/20 11:58 AM
0

Ok, then let's see the video of you laughing when your SO does this, and then she laughs, then everyone laughs at you. Then you do it to her, just check who's laughing now.... I call bullshit on you laughing
/r/PussyPass12/06/20 01:17 PM
7

I know, right!? Better be damn sure she'll say yes if you're gonna hang yourself out like that
/r/AntiFeminists10/06/20 12:32 PM
6

Yeah, this is because of the assumption that abused women will often protect their abusers, therefore her word is going to mean shit. It's fucked up. I've heard a similar thing with a 16 yr old girl got pissed off with her dad one day, cried sexual abuse, he goes to jail. Girl realised she was a POS and tries to recant, finds that the authorities don't believe her and won't do anything.
/r/MensRights31/05/20 10:00 AM
2

Apparently it's men's issues are the fault of themselves (patriarchy), and all things women complain about are also men's fault (patriarchy). Therefore, all things wrong is men's fault.
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/20 07:27 AM
1

Also backed up by the CDC ;)
/r/MensRights27/05/20 11:22 AM
11

and is natures way of ensuring genetic diversity. Can't let the alphas get all their own way
/r/AntiFeminists27/05/20 04:09 AM
28

That's all sorts of fucked up
/r/MensRights26/05/20 08:10 AM
1

Nope, this woman is not satirical, this is only one of her routine tweets and messages around this topic. Worst is that she gets away with it.
/r/MensRights26/05/20 07:54 AM
9

Internalised Misogyny! /s
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/20 10:44 AM
7

That was literally dripping with misandry, and here I am wondering how the fuck someone can argue that misandry is not a thing 🙄
/r/AntiFeminists03/05/20 10:43 AM
2

Um, I have no doubt that there is a segment of Feminists that would make that exact argument.
/r/MensRights25/04/20 01:51 PM
7

I hope that's sarcasm because that is so much horseshit, and nice way to weasel away from any responsibility.
/r/MensRights25/04/20 01:27 PM
95

Yep, my ex-BIL lost his shit when he found out that my sister started a new relationship post separation, started abusing her, disowned his non-bio son (who he raised from <1yr old), and trying to break inter her place etc. Dug himself a huge hole legally speaking, and I don't see him having any rights for quite some time.
/r/MensRights18/04/20 02:14 AM
3

I would probably change power being wealth to that of Competence. That's where real lies.
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/20 11:37 PM
16

It's called the Apex Fallacy
/r/MensRights10/04/20 02:26 PM
4

Oh, yes, of course, silly me
/r/MensRights02/04/20 12:34 AM
6

Nothing stopping women becoming engineers and oilfield workers ;)
/r/MensRights01/04/20 11:12 PM
3

For the same job/position, yes, but I'm taking about that statistic as a whole, and it's representation by feminists
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/20 03:12 AM
3

To be fair it's not fake, just misrepresented
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/20 03:11 AM
2

I understood that those who originally generated the claim of implicit bias through a series of studies have now disavowed the research as fundamentally flawed and has no place in practice. Unfortunately the horse has bolted, and it's a money spinner for many, despite psychologists calling it bullshit.
/r/MensRights08/03/20 02:58 AM
1

I think you are way over-estimating the relevance of that book. It may be reinforcing gender roles, definitely patriarchal, but in no way is the source of the gender roles/patriarchy in society. That shit started pretty much as soon as started to walk upright, that point where having babies became a dangerous occupation and where humans became more sexually dimorphic, perhaps even sooner.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 01:56 AM
2

It doesn't
/r/MensRights06/03/20 01:31 AM
1

I have to point out that boys and girls likes are driven, in a very large part, by their innate preferences. This is solid as it gets.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/20 04:08 PM
3

Have you seen how many time Reddit gets referred to as news? Journalists are getting lazy...
/r/MensRights03/03/20 10:46 PM
2

Fuck, the ignorance and stupidity burns!
/r/MensRights29/02/20 09:26 AM
9

hung out in r/feminism, and others of that ilk, of late? Its more toxic
/r/MensRights19/02/20 01:48 PM
3

Sorry, but I've lost several friends to suicide, and it's shit for all involved, but I personally hold that it is a cowards position, or at least incredibly selfish
/r/MensRights16/02/20 11:50 AM
2

But not wrong
/r/MensRights16/02/20 11:47 AM
5

The media is predominantly female and leans left. There's a narrative to maintain, particularly if the story is juicy :/
/r/MensRights29/01/20 06:22 AM
119

It has been well observed that women have far greater in-group preference than men, and this is how it plays out in the grand scheme
/r/MensRights26/01/20 02:04 PM
10

I made the mistake of reading the comments, so much retard in there :/
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/20 07:38 AM
5

Ignoring the tone, he is right about divorces being initiated by women 80% of the time, women are only slightly more likely to be victims of DV, and I cant confirm gay/lesbian divorce rate. I can however say that lesbians have highest DV rate of all group, especially if one is bisexual.
/r/MensRights12/01/20 02:36 PM
18

Have you heard what some women, particularly from the US, like to describe uncircumcised penises? Her wording could have been better, but her sentiment merely mirrors the US view
/r/MensRights05/01/20 04:57 AM
6

Banned?
/r/AntiFeminists29/12/19 09:20 AM
5

It's pointing out another double standard being applied to men, and again women feeling they shouldn't be held to same standards.
/r/MensRights23/12/19 01:02 PM
2

Depends on the brain that goes with it. I don't care what genitalia you have, so long as you are a decent person.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 03:52 AM
4

No need to be a Cunt...
/r/MensRights18/12/19 03:45 AM
12

Good point. Additionaly, I was troubled with the Gender is a social construct claim, which is problematic as gender/gender expression = biological sex is some 98% of humans
/r/MensRights16/12/19 02:31 AM
6

Yeah, cause responsibility is bad
/r/MensRights16/12/19 01:34 AM
9

Because rape is perpetrated, usually, by a subset of men with socio/psychopathic tendencies, and yet somehow Men as a whole is to be held responsible for them? Yeah, nah, fuck off with that. Sexual harassment is something both sexes do, but feminists conveniently ignore women as harassers, and so this argument has zero weight.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 02:18 AM
8

Basically the idea that IPV is effectively the majority experience in lesbian relationships (and indeed lowest is gay couples), particularly where one partner is bisexual, flies against the feminist narrative that IPV is entirely and male driven gendered thing (patriarchy if you will). These facts pose a thorn for feminists, and so it gets ignored. Watch the vid and you will get a deeper view.
/r/MensRights30/11/19 11:48 AM
6

Sure, but not necessarily wrong
/r/MensRights25/11/19 02:33 AM
11

There was a study that suggested that very thing. Basically saying that when the idea of oppression was imposed it fundamentally was a self fulfilling prophecy. You are what you believe, so it goes.
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/19 08:38 AM
9

This is the correct motivation. We are ingrained to unconsciously consider procreation, which drives our attraction. Genetics show, and we respond
/r/MensRights17/11/19 02:44 AM
-1

Man, as I said, I've lived an early life with short shorts and j think that's enough for my lifetime :)
/r/MensRights10/11/19 01:13 PM
-6

They can try, but it doesn't make it right :/
/r/MensRights10/11/19 01:02 PM
7

😁
/r/MensRights10/11/19 10:29 AM
33

Fashion. Quite frankly, as someone who grew up through the 70s and 80s I am thankful that short shorts are gone, horrible they are/were.
/r/MensRights10/11/19 08:30 AM
10

It's the ultimate fuck you move
/r/MensRights02/11/19 08:03 AM
0

Ha, well, that's the flipside. You can simply do evil, or create evil through good intention, it happens and is one of the truisms if life
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 08:00 AM
0

They do say that the road to Hell is paved with good intentions
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 07:56 AM
0

Yeah, nah, I have a bunch of friends studying sociology and they tell me it's been creeping in.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 07:52 AM
0

Except for OP stating that it's for real
/r/MensRights02/11/19 02:16 AM
1

Oh, really? Well I see much of the curriculum include these topics, professors are all way left leaning, patriarchy theory defines gender studies, and social construction is the current dominant thinking
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 02:12 AM
3

Or own property
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 02:00 AM
1

Yes, however sociology is now infected with postmodern theories, including Intersectionality, where everything is problematic in regards to white cis hetero-normative patriarchy, and to think otherwise is heretical. The problem however is that this line of thinking is purely ideological with very little basis in reality, and has no service in regards to actually describing the world nor fixing any perceived issues.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 01:59 AM
8

That's called "internalised racism" :rolleyes:
/r/AntiFeminists30/10/19 02:25 PM
1

Yeah
/r/MensRights22/10/19 12:54 PM
3

Also "Duluth model"
/r/MensRights22/10/19 07:07 AM
1

Let me hunt down the sources, but a meta-analysis of some 246 studies got the figures as something like 47% female victims, 43% male, and 70% female instigated, most violence reciprocal
/r/MensRights22/10/19 07:06 AM
1

Say no more
/r/MensRights16/10/19 10:11 AM
2

Pretty sure that's a well established matter. ;)
/r/MensRights03/10/19 08:55 AM
1

Oh, absolutely!
/r/MensRights09/09/19 10:15 AM
1

Talk about cant seeing past her own nose :/ As a Man I would probably have a lot more fiends around me if my (now) Wife didn't make my spending time with friends such a problematic exercise. I also would be more open about my feelings if she didn't shut me done by telling me 'that's life' :/
/r/MensRights09/09/19 06:01 AM
19

Open borders implies no process of naturalisation, or certainly a minimal process, and regardless of intent there will always be a lag period between entering and employment/business making, and this will be the biggest weight on the system.
/r/MensRights04/09/19 01:56 AM
24

open borders by definition would mean a stream of people entering and then demanding basic income, ergo infinite drain. It is not sustainable under such a regime
/r/MensRights04/09/19 01:50 AM
3

OK, so add points for females to assist in entry, then say it won't lower quality of graduates because its just a hand up. This is just like giving African Americans a hand up into college and then see them drop out at disproportionate rates because they can't keep up!
/r/MensRights29/08/19 07:47 AM
9

Judging the past by the standards of the present, and not only that but forgetting that life for 99% of all history was brutal and oppressive for the majority of people of both sexes. Feminism has a very narrow ideological view of history, that which is relative to a certain narrative.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 05:35 AM
8

Male victims of War is framed by feminists as simply Men being victims of their own folly, basically Men cause war and therefore (again) victims of the 'Patriarchy', and therefore not really victims. Women are therefore by default the real victims of war. So goes the circular argument
/r/MensRights27/08/19 05:20 AM
17

Well, that's pretty fucking stupid of her, now there's no child support...
/r/MensRights16/08/19 06:33 AM
1

Sadly so
/r/MensRights12/08/19 11:00 PM
54

My Wife thinks that teh fact that so many marriages are sexless is just bizarre. She's of the mind that sex is a part of marriage, and something that should be a fundamental part of a couples togetherness.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 02:26 PM
1

My now ex-Wife was this level of jealous psychotic, took her a lot of therapy to not make my life a misery if I so much as glance at another women. Of course it was her self-esteem etc that led her to thinking like that, and if she didn't have so many other great qualities I would have bailed a long time ago. She was never violent though, just verbally abusive if I 'got caught out'. ​ But yes, women are definitely prone to issues and violence, and should be called out on it.
/r/MensRights24/07/19 01:13 AM
2

I'm a guy, but your argument does forget a few things, violence is partly socioeconomical (status seeking) and partly biological (testosterone, plus IQ). Males are, proportionately speaking, more violent due to testosterone levels (testosterone is highest <30yr old, where violence is highest correspondingly), violent prisoners tend to be lower IQ (again, men are over-represented at either end of the curve), and finally Men are driven to engage in status seeking behaviour (as part of mate seeking…
/r/MensRights22/07/19 02:12 AM
8

Er wat!?
/r/MensRights16/07/19 11:17 PM
4

I give it about 10 milliseconds...
/r/MensRights10/07/19 11:06 PM
4

WTF!?
/r/MensRights08/07/19 05:56 AM
4

No, incomes are based on market size and contribution. Mens ball sports have significantly larger market, therefore higher value, which equals more cash. When the womens leagues generate same market size they will get same pay. That's how capitalism works
/r/MensRights13/06/19 02:19 AM
2

My wife, who is in business development/finance, says she vastly prefers working in an alpha male environment than with any female dominated space, so much less bullshit involved. If there's an issue it's told to your face and it's done, with women it's all behind your back...
/r/MensRights08/06/19 04:38 AM
2

Studies bear this out.
/r/MensRights06/06/19 02:28 AM
6

Police would come knocking pretty fucking quickly :/
/r/MensRights06/06/19 02:27 AM
6

Would not be surprised. There was a case recently in Australia of a Facebook group that effectively was this very topic, and some of the comments in there were scary AF. It was taken down pretty quickly. The fact that women could publically admit/declare domestic violence just shows how little society cares for toxic women.
/r/MensRights06/06/19 02:26 AM
1

The 'Patriarchy' is the new Bourgeoisie, effectively with women the Proletariat in the fight against inequity. Lifted straight from Marxist ideology, but the fight is not an economic/social one, but a sexual/social one. ​ BTW while you are correct that the Nazis were in many aspects a Socialist state political party it would be a stretch to call them true socialists, and thus conflating socialists with the Holocaust is a nice smear . We should never forget that the truer socialists that are Comm…
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/19 12:55 AM
5

That study has a very small population size, also they mention influences of economics etc, and if I recall right the authors even state there needs to be further study of a larger population in order to add validity to the study claims.
/r/MensRights02/06/19 12:31 PM
7

Not misandrist to point out shitty ideas, it's misandrist to apply same shitty ideas to all men. That's the difference. As a aside, as a man those ideas are fucking atrocious and worthy of beating down. There are assholes everywhere :/
/r/MensRights31/05/19 07:08 AM
2

Your reading comprehension needs a little work...
/r/MensRights19/05/19 07:45 AM
13

I told my now ex-Wife that we didn't have to get married as we both loved each other, it was superfluous. This did not go down well, and while I did marry her I was never to forget my words :/
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/19 11:59 AM
10

Source is the deafening silence on this....
/r/MensRights05/05/19 05:41 AM
1

They just say we cause all the shit, therefore moot point :/
/r/AntiFeminists04/05/19 11:17 PM
4

really? Bar is pretty low
/r/MensRights02/05/19 04:16 AM
6

Size matters shit when the woman can cry that she is the one being beaten up and be believed no questions asked.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 03:33 AM
9

Replace white with the word black, and see how quickly people will lynch her. Fucking hypocrites
/r/MensRights30/04/19 08:39 AM
2

Hang on, get treated equal to men, then whine about it
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/19 06:41 AM
6

You are quite right, however there are plenty who want to conflate that reasonable consideration to that of reversing the principle of 'innocent until proven guilty' in order to improve the conviction rate of rape cases. There are already cases of men being thrown under the bus in the rush to believe and convict and this is where we get testy when people espouse the 'believe women' principle
/r/MensRights12/04/19 07:15 AM
1

My eye started twitching after the first few words
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/19 06:21 AM
1

Ah, no worries, should have worked out definitions first. Hard to tell these days, as some people's definitions of hate speech includes speech that hurts feelings :/
/r/MensRights22/03/19 03:40 PM
2

Pretty poor argument as ISIS spreads what is clearly hate speech, as recognised under law by most countries, and I have no argument against that. Where I am arguing is where speech includes objectionable topics, but not hate speech under law, and this is where the argument gets sketchy, and I will draw a line in the sand here because there is then the question of who gets to define what speech gets shut down.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 03:23 PM
2

Right or left, ideologues won't shift easy, but allowing the discussion in the open (and challenged) will allow those in the fence to be challenged and potentially shifted away from harmful ideology. We all talk about echo chambers, well, that's what shifting it underground does, with an added dose of conspiracy.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 03:08 PM
0

Right or left, ideologues won't shift easy, but allowing the discussion in the open (and challenged) will allow those in the fence to be challenged and potentially shifted away from harmful ideology. We all talk about echo chambers, well, that's what shifting it underground does, with an added dose of conspiracy.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 03:08 PM
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Well, of course, ban it and it will go away, publicly at least. The bad ideas however still continue, just goes underground. Better to squash those ideas.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 02:54 PM
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Not always, and this is why free and public debate must always be allowed, bad ideas often ferment in the darkness, so better it be in the light of day so that it may be exposed for what it is.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 02:37 PM
4

Sure, but those consequences don't include violence, otherwise you are just as bad as those you deem hateful ;)
/r/MensRights22/03/19 02:36 PM
1

exactly my point, its not a gender issue, its a cyclist safety issue. However, someone has decided, by way of false equivalency, to make it a gender issue. Dumb
/r/MensRights14/03/19 07:52 AM
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A lot of people misinterpreting here. Women tend not to ride bikes due to safety concerns, generally, so the minister is right in her observation that if you make riding safer you will get greater participation by women. It's not a sexism thing, nor is it 'muh patriarchy' thing. Stupid post, and stupid people making an issue out if it
/r/MensRights14/03/19 01:29 AM
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Was thinking that whilst driving this morning. The contradictions and falsehoods hurt my brain.
/r/AntiFeminists11/03/19 01:48 AM
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True, but thats not the exclusive meaning, it is also used as a tactic whereupon someone will insult someone on a personal level to get under their skin. Americans use the term 'Trash Talk' which is similar, Sledging is basically Aussie vernacular for trash talking
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/19 03:43 AM
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Getting hard is not always about arousal, it can happen with the guy not wanting it. Rape also doesn't have to be her riding him, penetration with dick, it can be her penetrating with fingers and objects as well
/r/MensRights10/02/19 02:37 PM
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CDC? Metaanalysis therein don't appear to be pimped to benefit anything.
/r/MensRights06/02/19 02:37 PM
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They rarely give a reason, but you can bet it can be as simple as expressing something outside the hive mind :/ or belonging to certain subs
/r/MensRights16/01/19 01:29 PM
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Bet that lasted about a couple of milliseconds...
/r/MensRights16/01/19 01:23 PM
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Yes
/r/MensRights09/01/19 11:32 PM
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Correct. A very interesting discussion indeed. Explains the whole thing and reasons behind it well.
/r/MensRights09/01/19 11:31 PM
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Ah, ok. Fair point
/r/MensRights30/12/18 07:36 AM
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The paradox does tend to contradict, at least in part, your assertion that if we treat men and women the same they will be alike. This is what Scandinavian countries have been doing for decades with the opposite result. You are leaning towards culture being the primary force, which is contradicted by the evidence.
/r/MensRights30/12/18 06:46 AM
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Man here, Chemist, and I work in Oil & Gas. Women are still a minority at a remote/facility level in O&G, but I can say there is nothing but support in having them out here, and as a chemist I can say we bend over backwards to have them out here. As a chemist in Laboratory setting, you will find women are a fair chunk of the people in there, no barriers at all in having them in there, and indeed all are competent and respected. ​ In respect to being "unwelcome", I think this is a persistent myth…
/r/MensRights15/12/18 03:29 PM
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It's not that they don't think it holds up to scrutiny, it's that they believe they have the moral high ground and it's beyond scrutiny.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/18 05:41 AM
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He's not wrong though. It is as toxic as the far-right
/r/MensRights02/12/18 03:21 PM
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In many US states its also based on 'potential earnings', so if you are a lawyer what you pay will be based on earnings expected thereof, or what you actually get paid,. I am sure whichever is greatest. I am sure this is in place to prevent men getting minimum wage jobs to spite their ex, but one would think some respect should be given to reality.
/r/MensRights02/12/18 03:18 PM
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Not huffy, it is a fair comment, and ill take that.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 07:14 PM
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"I have noticed...." Didn't think I needed to be that precise in my language, but I guess I do :/
/r/MensRights01/12/18 06:05 PM
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I'm not saying Men can't or don't, my observation is that men, in general, tend to own their shit, conversely most women, I have known tend not to. I hold no prejudice, just saying how I see it. So, what am I to do with this observation? But, whatever, call it what you will, its my experience and I brought it to the table.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 04:53 PM
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If you read my comment you will see that I declared that was making a generalisation based on personal (anecdotal) observation of the women that I have known or known about, neither did I make it about All women nor women in particular. That said, I made a statement based on what I have seen regarding people failing to take there ideals to logical conclusions, and most of these has been women. Its not sexist to make an observation, You have built that strawman of it being a sexist comment, and g…
/r/MensRights01/12/18 04:35 PM
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Yeah, it does require honesty, some intellect, and a willingness to see it.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 10:16 AM
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One weird thing I have noticed about women (yes, this will be a broad generalisation, but it happens all too frequently to not be thing) is that many have a complete inability to acknowledge the consequences of their actions, a disconnect of cause and effect. hence their confusion when they get blowback for whatever they do and say.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 08:51 AM
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I've always considered that the 'patriarchy' is really derived from looking at the top 1% of men and deciding that's what it is, ignoring the other 99% of us who are, like women too, muddling through life as best we can under circumstances. Doesn't make sense that men should make a system that is for men to favour men and yet also harm men :/ Of course it's neither
/r/MensRights17/11/18 02:21 PM
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Took me 5 minutes. Pretty sure the banhammer exceeds the speed of light
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/18 02:03 PM
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Oh, the double standard is huge. When women are getting the rough end of the stick their "caretaking" roles are important and reasons for being, but everywhere else womens caretaking roles are social constructs of the Patriarchy and to speak of them is Misogyny.
/r/MensRights11/10/18 04:36 PM
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Or lesbian/career cat lady ;)
/r/MensRights07/10/18 08:36 PM
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well, no, but desiring a Wife and supporting a family comes with the burden of requiring an income. There is such a thing as Hypergamy. ​ Secondly, you are being very selective in womens involvement in work. Women did indeed have the right to work and hold income for a long time, it wasn't until upper-middle class/upper class social mores dictated that women shouldn't (or indeed needn't) work, but many working class women held jobs (in fact, the suffragete movement struggled to get support from …
/r/MensRights07/10/18 12:20 PM
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As victims? Yes.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 07:33 PM
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Just like the apparent child abduction fears that everybody thinks is real and therefore must keep the children in line of sight at all times. Its purely a perception driven by news reporting. ​
/r/MensRights02/10/18 02:52 PM
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It wasn't a crime given Joes studio is in California :)
/r/MensRights24/09/18 07:29 AM
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So, death of the human species, and not before the devolvement into the stone age
/r/AntiFeminists22/09/18 12:01 PM
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I for one would welcome such equality initiatives :)
/r/MensRights22/08/18 01:07 AM
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WTF!? " ....perpetuates the myth that mothers "cannot compensate" for the lack of a father. ". Author is either a retard, or ideologue, or both.
/r/MensRights17/08/18 08:00 AM
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You're referring to my 'dysmorphia' reference? And it should be 'dysphoria' right? If so, gotcha :)
/r/MensRights07/08/18 08:34 PM
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You're referring to my 'dysmorphia' reference? And it should be 'dysphoria' right? If so, gotcha :)
/r/MensRights07/08/18 08:33 PM
2

You're referring to my 'dysmorphia' reference? And it should be 'dysphoria' right? If so, gotcha :)
/r/MensRights07/08/18 08:33 PM
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And not 'gender dysmorphia'.
/r/MensRights07/08/18 11:55 AM
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Or those who have had children
/r/MensRights07/08/18 11:44 AM
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Walk in, and when questioned throw back the "are you assuming my gender?" :P
/r/MensRights17/07/18 04:44 AM
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There are a few Youtube personalities who are trans women who are ant- feminist. Blair White and Theyrin Mayer being two ;)
/r/AntiFeminists16/07/18 07:52 AM
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I don't dispute your experience, sounds like you had a shit father. I think though you let your personal experience colours the issue. As I mentioned before, parental alienation by statistics is predominantly (vastly) a tactic used by women to punish/separate fathers. While I recognise that it can happen that the alienated parent claims that its happening to discredit the partner, as in your case, and indeed needs to be recognised, we have to be careful to avoid muddying the waters when it comes…
/r/MensRights06/07/18 01:52 AM
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What you say is true, but here is not the time to bring it up when the discussion is about the enormous emotional toll on parents ( read fathers, as they are significantly over represented here) who have been alienated by their spouse ( read wife/mother as it's overwhelmingly a female thing) and their fight to have a (any) relationship with their kids. This is the point being made, not a discussion of mental alienation as a tactic. Parental alienation is a cunt of a thing, and while there are si…
/r/MensRights05/07/18 01:55 PM
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Way to make some massive assumptions there.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 04:23 AM
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Ha, women are not smarter than men, both sexes share the same median IQ of 100, however women's distribution is more homogenous with less spread. Men have more in the extremes, both high IQ and very low. And of the wage gap, all of those articles are just obfuscation of the topic. The argument as laid out by feminists is just not supported by the facts.
/r/AntiFeminists15/06/18 08:27 PM
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Oh, yeah, quite probably. I'm the same and have several friends who are lesbians, always been good. I know the type you mean, and have had experience with the angry lesbians. The ones that scowl at your hetero male presence in 'their' group.
/r/MensRights14/06/18 06:54 AM
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There was a cafe in Perth that was (lets say) very 'alternative', owned and run by women (read Lesbians), and it was clear that they had a chip on their shoulder regarding men since there was a clear chasm between their treatment of my Wife and me, and I never felt terribly comfortable there because of it. It was gone less than a year after opening...
/r/MensRights13/06/18 03:12 PM
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I give it a generous 5 milliseconds
/r/MensRights08/05/18 02:17 PM
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Nah, I've posted happily here and there for a couple years, so it's not an automatic thing. Just play nice and we all get along
/r/MensRights28/04/18 05:36 AM
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But they were Muslim and brown. Protected species...
/r/MensRights30/03/18 02:55 PM
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Moreso fed the lie that the 'patriarchy' keeps them down, and that chasing a piece of that mythical privilege would be the solution to all lifes problems. I'm sorry, life is equally shitty on the other side of the fence girls
/r/MensRights25/03/18 06:49 AM
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And when Women start shit, it doesn't matter :/
/r/MensRights06/03/18 10:24 AM
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No, it shouldn't be controversial at all, in fact it should be common sense. However, victimhood is all too attractive to explain all your lifes ills
/r/MensRights04/02/18 10:18 AM
5

In spite of. He makes it clear that one should not be a victim of circumstance, but rather take ownership and go with it.
/r/MensRights04/02/18 06:36 AM
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Yes indeed. Without encouragement of personal responsibility and agency, you invariably have people look to the outer to both engender identity and to which to assign blame. We see the results, as you point out.
/r/MensRights03/02/18 10:23 AM
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Yes, indeed. The slide right (and indeed left for many also) are a symptom of both increased tribalism, and a loss of personal responsibility and identity in Men.
/r/MensRights03/02/18 09:07 AM
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If anything to avoid a generation or two of resentful Men (and women for that matter). No society needs that.
/r/MensRights03/02/18 07:26 AM
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Probably the fact that Feminism has co-opted the 'equality' tag has played a large part here. Boo!
/r/MensRights28/01/18 02:54 PM
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As someone who is looking down barrel of divorce, the European woman is looking more and more attractive
/r/MensRights23/01/18 07:13 AM
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well, of course.
/r/MensRights21/01/18 01:59 PM
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Maybe not horseshit, but it is made out to be a far bigger thing than it is in reality.
/r/MensRights21/01/18 01:42 PM
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I get that, and fair enough. But I also get so tired of the argument that MRAs should just stop bitching and start actively working on the issues, from that group who seem to have so very little self awareness of the fact that they themselves fight against that very activism where it occurs. And yes, I am generalising for sake of argument. But it does irk me that as soon as you criticise feminism there is a shout of 'feminism is a diverse group' as if that is supposed to absolve the group/ideolo…
/r/MensRights21/01/18 11:05 AM
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we aren't saying we have it worse, just pointing out that the idea of male 'privilege' is horseshit and that society is not a one way street to female oppression
/r/MensRights21/01/18 10:44 AM
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Then, if you are correct, why do so many feminists actively oppose any form of male activism and/or forums? All too often you see protests at male oriented gatherings, and active push back when male support facilities are proposed?
/r/MensRights21/01/18 10:41 AM
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You're a little late to the party, and not all that up to speed on the reality of mens advocacy. Men's groups have been trying to open similar shelters for years in many locations, meeting vociferous pushback from various women's groups/feminist's.
/r/MensRights07/01/18 03:54 AM
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Much like you who is of such a low mentality to stoop to this level of pathetic trolling
/r/MensRights19/12/17 04:22 AM
1

Pretty much sums it up
/r/MensRights01/12/17 02:10 PM
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Of course. Its always been a two way street. Devised through biological and social imperatives, and perpetuated as such. With the lop-sided gynocentric view that is feminism it of course seen as a problematic function of maleness
/r/MensRights01/12/17 08:48 AM
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Wat!? I think the stupid just reached a pinnacle right there
/r/MensRights25/11/17 08:03 AM
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Well, physiology is a very hard thing to explain away, the differences are immediately observed. Though I have heard arguments that male strength and build is due to social encouragements for males to play sports and gain muscle. Yeah, nah.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 05:41 PM
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Yes, I believe so too. Definitely totally sold on the social construction viewpoint, and she has allows no room for biology. She also loves the Ad Hominem attack, along with out of hand dismissal of any and all opposing viewpoints.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 04:33 PM
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Because socialisation is something that can have fingers pointed to (patriarchy) and can be controlled/changed. Biology, being innate, is not controllable and thus must be eliminated as a reason because it would destroy argument.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 03:10 PM
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Oh, absolutely, I read the original article a long time ago and thought that the author had worked out something very fundamental. Now I go read her comments and answers to posts etc and the stupid burns me, she just doubles down on the social constructionism while citing zero evidence of biological differences. I can tell you that if she just searched beyond her own bubble she would find ample evidence of the large number of mental and physiological differences between the sexes, but no, ideolo…
/r/MensRights15/11/17 03:07 PM
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Ha, this is the truth. I've seen some shit in Russia, but I've never seen a Russian so much as raise an eyebrow to it.
/r/MensRights31/10/17 10:26 AM
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Yep, another STEM grad from.years back, can concur. It will pay off in the end.
/r/MensRights09/10/17 01:15 PM
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I have often changed my daughter in family rooms, with no issues. If any old bitch was to try on that shit I would have told her to get fucked.
/r/MensRights06/10/17 12:21 PM
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go just check out the websites yourself, and do your own research. Its pretty obvious.
/r/MensRights23/09/17 07:49 AM
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What you're trying to say is that the burden of proof is on those who make the claim. Therefore the correct response is not to provide counter evidence in rebuttal, but to ask for citations/evidence to back up said claim :)
/r/MensRights21/09/17 08:14 PM
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Also, the narrative is also that any violence by women is also by default defensive at almost all times
/r/MensRights17/07/17 12:30 AM
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if not, then we are certainly heading in that direction
/r/MensRights07/07/17 11:01 AM
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Yes, indeed. I'm a production chemist is Oil & Gas, so can concur
/r/MensRights04/07/17 04:26 AM
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Petroleum engineers with higher degrees can make some stupid money working in remote shitholes. But it comes at a price.
/r/MensRights04/07/17 02:52 AM
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Handsomely remunerated yes, but conveniently forgotten whenever the 'wage gap' is being waved around.
/r/MensRights03/04/17 08:33 AM
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Its common use in building industry, and as such would be near on impossible to control to any degree.
/r/MensRights22/03/17 02:29 PM
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Why disappointed?
/r/MensRights21/03/17 09:08 AM
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Banhammer comes out mighty fast, I can tell you
/r/MensRights21/03/17 09:06 AM
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Depends also on age. I do believe that women under 30 actually earn more than men of same age group. This is true in UK and possibly US. As for 5c remaining gap you are asking about, I believe this is still a subject of debate. Reasons vary between bias, negotiating skills, and possible normal statistical variation. Jury is still out in this
/r/MensRights25/01/17 07:44 PM
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I'm living there, and just got rights to live in either Canada or US. Neither are hugely appealing relatively speaking. The world is fucked. I might just go live in New Zealand....
/r/MensRights10/11/16 09:37 AM
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Ah, maybe, I gotta check. My memory can be pretty shit, even on good days :)
/r/MensRights02/10/16 12:02 PM
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No, reciprocal in so far as both partners engage in violence within the relationship. ie in all relationships that have IPV behaviours, 67% have both partners being violent.
/r/MensRights24/09/16 12:20 PM
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Mmm, pretty sure it's 50% non reciprocal between the sexes, and the 70% figure for reciprocal. Essentially it means that it's a symptom of of dysfunctional relationship communication and pressures over anything else. And this breakdown would make sense in that light.
/r/MensRights24/09/16 11:43 AM
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... Give me a minute and I'll find my source for you. EDIT - Source for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9f5v1QgtFfo Presentation by Dr. Donald Dutton, UBC Professor of Psychology.
/r/MensRights24/09/16 11:37 AM
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Actually 67% is reciprocal violence, where both parties engage in the behaviour
/r/MensRights24/09/16 10:12 AM
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