JayWalkerC Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	I'm scared of sex Seconded. You've gotta be comfortable with sexuality, my man.	/r/seduction	17/04/15 10:53 PM
1	What openers do you use to hit on teachers? If you don't know her at all, figuring out her birthday and buying her a present will probably come off as weird. Don't do that. If she does in fact like you, there is LITERALLY NO WAY you can mess up (except by not talking to her). Just go up after class and say "Hey, you seem really cool and I'd like to get to know you better. Want to grab a drink/lunch/dinner/whatever-seems-appropriate after you're done with class work?" Remember this: It is her job to say no, and it is your job not to cockbl…	/r/seduction	17/04/15 04:41 PM
2	What openers do you use to hit on teachers? If she's already giving signs that she likes you then why do you need an opener? Just go up a and say hi, start a conversation with her.	/r/seduction	17/04/15 04:10 PM
22	Being needy VS. Showing interest I feel like this is a good thing. Willing to walk away and give someone else an opportunity shows low investment. You don't own her after all. And if you did a good job and peaked her interest, the two of you will be back to flirting in no time.	/r/seduction	03/03/15 11:02 PM
1	The idea of being too needy. You are thinking about it too much, and IMO that seems needy. If you want to text them, do it. If not, don't.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 03:27 AM
1	I am hopeless because I am shy? Don't internalize qualities. For example, don't tell yourself "I am shy" because then you're accepting that quality as a part of you. If you don't want it, don't accept it.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 03:23 AM
1	Complaining? I usually try to put a positive spin on whatever negative things people around me are saying. This doesn't always work, some people will find a way to make that sound negative. At that point I just shut up/ignore/leave if they're gonna be Debbie downer. But yeah, just try to be positive and don't fall in the pit with them.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 03:20 AM
1	I don't feel worthy to approach girls Sounds like you've got a seriously poor self image my friend. Have you ever thought of yourself as depressed? Because it sounds like that to me. I think I've been where you are and the first step to get out of it is to kill that negative talk in your head. I have a big sign on my wall that says "FUCK DOUBT" because I've seen many times that doubt in yourself is what kills you, not anything outside. I'm dating a beautiful girl now because I kept pursuing her rather than giving in to my "she's pro…	/r/seduction	17/01/15 05:26 PM
1	friend setting me up with a girl, need some pointers. Just go hang out, and don't make a big deal of it. She's probably nervous too, since this sounds more-or-less like a "blind date" situation. Meet her, hang out, get to know each other a bit.	/r/seduction	17/01/15 05:20 PM
3	Made some serious progress today: my club night: What everyone else is going to say: kiss them! The only way you can fuck up something like this is to NOT be forward with your intentions. If they act even a little interested, that's a big green light to escalate.	/r/seduction	17/01/15 05:17 PM
2	Girls that want to commit before sex? Don't worry, I git your joke.	/r/seduction	17/01/15 05:09 PM
2	Would you take this bet? The simple maths behind why more approaches increases value of approach It is definitely useful to see this information presented in this context. I recently read "Thinking Fast and Slow" and hadn't considered the section on loss aversion in this context. It's a very good book with lots of things to think about that can be related to everyday life.	/r/seduction	06/01/15 02:34 AM
1	How do I start a strong connection with people I meet? Think of something that you wouldn't normally tell a stranger, and tell her that. the point being that you are opening up to a stranger, and making yourself vulnerable. The specific thing to talk about it is hard to say because I don't know you, but others in this thread have given good examples like stories from your childhood or maybe some quirky fact about yourself that she might find funny.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 04:15 PM
1	How do I start a strong connection with people I meet? Be vulnerable. Share something deep about yourself, and she will be inclined to do the same. Also, meet in person. Really hard to connect over text, but the 'be vulnerable' bit absolutely applies everywhere.	/r/seduction	27/12/14 02:07 AM
1	changed approach, instant positive response. blows my mind. Be-Assertive, Be-Be-Assertive!	/r/seduction	09/09/14 11:15 AM