JayZ755 Archive

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1	Is it me or does anyone else noticed that most women don’t really ask you questions about you and if they do they quickly bring the topic back to them ? Have any of you guys experience this with yours wives or women in general ? Not really. I am more concerned about the initial interest and concern that I don't expect them to follow through on. Some woman talking about herself would be remarkably straightforward. Women are more contextually based, so they have a harder time on maintaining interest long term IMO, because what they are interested in relates to their short term concerns. So they will be interested in you if you fit into their short term life.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/22 03:57 AM
2	If You Don't Have 50/50 Custody Do You Have Any Right To Claim Any Children For Tax Purposes I don't have 50/50. 3 nights a week out of 7. But we alternate the kids, I get 2 one year, one the next. This is all part of divorce decree.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/22 07:14 PM
3	Women are like a mouse trap Mostly no, they cannot love you the way you love them. Now let me expand upon the current world state. Men created the sexual revolution, not women. Go back and watch all of these sniggering movies like "How To Cheat On Your Wife" or whatever they were, that was men, they did it. Those morons are responsible for our current world. So yeah, they will trick you, they can't love you the same over time. Go in with caution. But my takeaway is despite how much we want to love them or desire them, give…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/22 04:24 PM
2	Would you tell your kids why? I have told my kids my ex left me for another man. She's with him now, they are married. Since this is ongoing, I am not going to lie about it. Ex fudges the truth about it. I was left.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/22 05:24 AM
3	Would you tell your kids why? Parents are people too. Have you walked in his shoes?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/22 05:20 AM
1	How do y’all feel about ever getting married again? A lot of people lose the ability to bond on the same level with subsequent partners. I'm a man, and I have this issue to some extent. You are repeating experiences you had with someone else. In addition to loss of trust etc. Have I heard of people who value their later partners more? Yes. But even with remarriage, the best ones I have seen were with only one of the partners in a second marriage. A few can move on to someone new, but many people are too stuck on their exes.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/22 02:58 PM
5	How do y’all feel about ever getting married again? Women lose the ability to bond in subsequent relationships. Many of your candidates will have kids of their own. This is an approximation of how they will prioritize things: 1) Kids from prior relationship 2) herself 3) Any kids she has with you 4) you 5) your kids from your prior relationship	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/22 02:21 PM
1	On my divorce journey, I've had a few men say to me "The turning point for my healing was that I realised that I was less in love with her and more the idea of her"..... Are these gentlemen referring to the concept of "anima projection"? Women simply don't have the incentive to define their personalities as rigidly as many men do. Men do that because they can't mate without self definition. Men have to define themselves somehow to get laid. Women don't. Women are more cycle of life. They are more about maximizing their efforts at a particular time. So you get a woman who is so much in sync with you for a while, then later it's like you never had anything in common. Because that's part of their nature, it always was there. Used t…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/22 04:41 PM
3	Hypergamy - Rollo Tomassi The thing I dislike about the hypergamy take is that it's still filtered through a male perspective. Men are conditioned to think of life as a competition and that they can somehow be the best, that's what matters. So when men see women being fickle and trading out partners, that's what a man sees, I can be better somehow and do better. While I wouldn't say that being better never matters, women are less concerned with being better. Women themselves do not have to compete to have sex, the averag…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/22 04:16 PM
3	Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you? I got left for someone who she knew before we ever met, who was single and available when we got married. I would marry her and have kids with her, he was a commitment phobe at the time and would not. Then he decided to be a stepdad, and I got kicked out. So in my case I would say it did not happen, the one now was the real one all along and I just was lied to during the marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/22 07:43 AM
2	Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you? I don't agree with this entirely. Usually if there is a income discrepancy the faithful partner takes it in the shorts, and the unfaithful, bad partner wins. If the faithful partner is the earner their income gets attached, if they're a stay at home they go into poverty.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/22 07:42 AM
2	Anyone have any experience with Divorce Care? I did it. It was alright. Mix of men and women in my class. Some basic support. Limited amount of theraputic support. Goes through the ABCs and I needed a lot of that at the time. There is another program, Rebuilding. That allowed for more therapy type talk at first. That costs more if you take all of their stuff. I did not think it worth it in my case.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/22 07:24 AM
2	Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated with It is not always about dating down. Women will date trashy crap guys for the feels. They can be shit feels sometimes, but women are more cyclical, birth/death, yin/yang. Men are the ones who are all about maximizing shit. Aka the cock, want to have a hard cock. Women want trash sometimes because those guys are more inconsistent aka more feels. Consistent guys get boring to them. They want more fighting. Biggest mistake most red pill guys make is thinking women really think like men. They don't, …	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/21 10:00 PM
2	Does divorce hurt women less? Depends on the woman. I have a couple of female cousins that were kind of destroyed emotionally. If the man is genuinely the bad actor, I think the women kind of never recover. Others not so much. They do mostly view relationships as serial. Problem is as I get older, as a man, the best ones are already too broken by another man, and the others can't commit long term.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/21 08:34 PM
3	This is why marriage rate is dropping…. A man has no chance when the laws punish him for his wife having an affair…. https://www.forbes.com/sites/teakvetenadze/2021/12/21/uk-court-orders-dubai-ruler-to-pay-ex-wife-over-730-million-in-divorce-settlement/amp/ I read a thread about divorce on another Reddit, and someone that had never been divorced responded (people who have never been divorced have no F-ing clue about divorce, or marriage really. Probably just got lucky having a decent partner.) Anyway, there was some list of things you needed to do to keep your marriage. And mostly I did all of those. Thing being is it only takes one to divorce. My ex left me for some who was single and available, and she knew it, before we married. I would commit t…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/21 08:20 PM