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That's hard. I can relate
/r/askTRP30/06/20 03:52 AM
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'Enough'. Why does she need to know more, is she doing my taxes?
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:49 AM
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This reply nails it. I have naturally skinny legs, with tiny calves and ankles that I can wrap my hand around. But you know what? I hammer my calves 3 times a week without fail because I'm chasing my maximum potential, even if it is only 14 inches. I always had a rough time with chicken legs and I started changing the way I train them, and now they're my strongest body part and actually look good. I would be willing to put money on the fact that OPs legs are not as skinny as mine was. You have t…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:57 AM
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This kills.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 04:07 AM
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There are times when I don't orgasm (not as a manipulation tactic), and it almost always results in the woman blaming herself, and trying harder to please me the next time. The most damaging thing I did was deny a woman sex because I just didn't feel like it.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 04:06 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:28 AM
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I was 26. Not that long ago, actually. I got emotional, questioning my ex as to why she didn't want to have sex with me. I kept asking her if she didn't find me attractive anymore, and what I can do to make her want me again. I was acting like a bitch, it's no wonder she didn't want me at that time. I did everything for this chick, and she dumped despite it all. Something clicked in me thereafter and I've been rp since. Oh, and a few years back I took a chick on a date that lasted the entire day…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:23 AM
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I find I derive confidence from the hard work it takes to reach a goal, and not so much the goal itself. This is true for many things.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:55 AM
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I definitely agree with you. This kind of arrogance is potentially damaging and unreasonable, but it illustrates that we can derive confidence from many things, especially things that you pour effort and passion into, and excel. To me, it's my fitness and career. To others, it may be sport, education, or anything that they excel in. There may be things that we are excellent at, and many that we simply suck at.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:53 AM
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I can attest to this. I am in great shape, I have clearly defined abs, vascularity all over, solid musculature and my confidence is ridiculous. You feel ENTITLED. When I was around 15% bf, I felt good but not to this degree. It's arrogant, but I look at some men who are not where I am to be below me (because they don't appear to have the discipline to get here) and I see women as undeserving until they prove themselves to me in some form or another. Obviously, it's not purely based on my aesthet…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:53 AM
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Next. Women next too and you shouldn't care that it happened to you. Don't worry yourself with the why, women are all over the place. If you think it's the sex, get better at it. If you think it's your frame, improve it. The problem is that you shouldn't need her to be a part of your rotation. What the fuck is that? You should only promote women who deserve to be there, and who want to be there. Treat your rotation like an exclusive party.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:57 PM
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100%.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:55 AM
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This! I can't relate to OP. If she fucks up, then she's out. That guy is not a threat because OP should feel like he's the fucking man, and if she cheats then good riddance. You're right, he should really not give AF and play it cool.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:54 AM
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You're treading on ice. This is what happens when you're too available. This is what happens when a woman is no longer chasing your validation. She should be posting in her friend's Whatsapp groups asking these questions about you! She's distancing herself because she's a normal human being that needs space. She feels no desire to text you as often because she sees you so often. You need to allow her to do that, and focus on yourself instead of worrying about her. Go do other shit. Let her be an…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:48 AM
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@Gtrplyr3838 Keep contributing to this subreddit. Your advice can really help those of us who are less knowledgeable.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:41 AM
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Tinder is a means for people to validate themselves. I have gone on tinder for this very reason, but women do this far more often than men from my experience. Women's ghost you, or absently reply because the premise of them being on the site is not to date, but to see how many men can match them, validate them so that they can feel more desirable. It is a coping mechanism in light of insecurity. It's not just limited to women, a few years back I went on tinder for this very reason and did precis…
/r/MensRights28/05/20 04:16 AM
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The difference here is that I don't give a fuck. There is no way to confirm she was the best so I wouldn't get hung up. If a woman does me dirty, I let her go. Done.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:55 AM
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When you can, go out and meet 5 different women that you are attracted to. Date them and sleep with them. You're not going to knock her off when you're fantasizing about how good she was when you could be out replacing her fucking ass. She don't fuck better than all the women out there. You may already know this but you need to internalize it because it hasn't yet hit home. Once she is out of your system, don't go out with the sole purpose of meeting and fucking women. Go out and enjoy yourself …
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:43 AM
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Have you been with every woman to know that? No. I'm sure there are millions of hopeless men who say the same thing about some woman. You will always hold yourself back if you pedastalize her. Knock her off that fucking perch and put yourself there. Make yourself available to more women and you'll quickly realise that this woman is but another, and probably ain't shit.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:32 AM
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The standard recommendations: If you want books on the red pill and self improvement, '3% Man' by Corey Wayne is good, so is 'Alpha Male Strategies' by AMS as well as the classic Rational Male series by Rollo Tomassi. I also quite enjoyed '48 Laws of Power' by Robert Greene'. I have a ton more fiction and non-fiction recommendations but seeing as though you're on TRP, these books would be a good initial foray into some written content.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:27 AM
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You next that entire chapter of your life. Next your ex. Next her friends. Next her friends cousins aunt that she might have spewed details about you to. You really need to not give a fuck about what they think. You cannot change the past, and the most beta thing you could do is try and convince someone from your past that you have changed. The woman LEFT YOU. You need to accept that she has an opinion of you and that opinion might never change. Consequently, you need to accept that you may neve…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:56 AM
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Who gives a fuck? I have no reason to chit chat to women during the quarantine because my time is better spent doing things other than exchanging frivolous texts. If I feel like hitting either of them up, I will. If not, I don't text. They end up texting me anyway, and then we can exchange a few. If they lose interest and don't initiate (unlikely to lose interest, but they will try a pull back) then so be it. I don't play by their rules, they play by mine. OP, stop caring that much and do your t…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:22 AM
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'Time' is one of the greatest songs ever written. I haven't listened to it in a while, thanks for this.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:50 AM
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This is purely anecdotal but years back, I began doing kegels after being informed (perhaps, misinformed) that they would improve the quality of my erections. I would do them religiously (multiple times a day), all in the hopes of improving my performance in bed. I had PIED and due to being oblivious to nofap, I thought this was the only way to cure my woe. Low and behold, it didn't work. I began to suffer from severe early ejaculation, and I seemingly lost the ability to control and delay my or…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:57 AM
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28
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:38 AM
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Busy. I wake up at 5h15 every day of the week, even though I do not work over the weekends. I start my day by having a coffee and I read for about an hour. I then workout. I have an improvised home gym (cinder blocks, steel pipe, resistance bands etc) and I work out for about an hour and a half. During the week, I work from home so I'm working until around 5pm. I then set aside an hour after that to study. I then do my stretching session for the day, cook supper, shower and I make sure I'm settl…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 03:51 AM
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You can have girl-friends, but it's the nature of the friendship that determines the course. If you want to fuck them, and they're not with it, then you are in the friendzone and you should leave. Ask yourself why you're friends with them. If you genuinely enjoy their company and could not be concerned with sex, enjoy the friendship. If you want to fuck her, then make that happen. The worst thing would be to be friends with a woman in the hopes that she will eventually sleep with you. That's cow…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:14 AM
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100%
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:55 AM
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Hairline started receding at 21. I buzzed it with no guard and was really insecure at first. I quickly then adjusted to my new look and realized that it didn't affect my ability to pull women at all. Now, 7 years later, my hairline has receded a little further since and it doesn't bother me at all. I did grow a thick beard and pack on 25lbs of lean mass since then and that certainly helped grow my confidence greater than what it was. You must believe that you're a fucking legend with or without …
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:54 AM
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To be honest, I hadn't even thought about it. I'm so busy that the thought of cold approaching women hasn't come to mind. I don't need to worry, and you shouldn't either.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:31 PM
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Dude, this is spot on. I've been training naturally for 6 years and the time line you proposed is almost precisely how it was for me. In my first year, people could tell I lifted but I looked average, not much muscle but you could tell I lifted. Second year, I got bigger, big enough to fill all my clothes and look 'big', but not impressive due to my fat gain. Fast forward to today and I'm the 'guy with the muscles', and I look more impressive than the majority of the people in my social circle, …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 07:21 PM
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👌 Spot on
/r/askTRP07/05/20 07:11 PM
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I'm not about to get an STI from a one night stand. No way. If you're doing it to make the sex better for her, you're already losing. Her pleasure or your health? If you like it, go get it from a woman in your rotation (if you have to) or keep it for a LTR. You need to understand that just because it appears clean, doesn't mean it's clean. Trust me - you do not know what lives down there and you don't want to find out.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:54 AM
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Also, you don't need pussy to survive. So what if you leave and you have no women for a few months? You need to be comfortable without any whilst being able to maintain the confidence that you will have no issue getting any when the circumstances allow you to. Abundance is never impossible. The frame you are currently in is precisely why you're chasing her, and not the other way around.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:27 PM
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Abundance is more than just making sure you have other options. Abundance is also about valuing yourself enough to leave situations where you feel undervalued, and dealing with the resulting repurcusions as best you can. This is what will earn you respect. You must be willing to risk it all to gain it all. If you feel that she will swing, you need to swing before she does. This is the only way to have her truly respect you. If you want her to want you, she needs to willingly submit to you, and b…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:23 PM
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I actually had this recently. Reply with some cockiness of your own, and be playful and unfazed about it - it will let her know that you can remain centered. If she continues and it's starting to annoy you, pull away until she checks her attitude. I pullback by not reciprocating as often as I would when it comes to communication and setting dates, and I would further prioritize my other tasks, using the time that I would have spent on her. Be subtle about it, though. If you pull back completely,…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:57 AM
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My advice: don't ghost her or she will think that you're butthurt. Don't be butthurt. She's either playing games, or doesn't value your time. Of course, don't hit her up again unless she initiates. No dates, and if she contacts you, invite her over and hook up. Let her be the one to ask if she can see more of you. When you're bored, move on. In the meantime, don't even bother yourself with her erratic response. Just go do your shit, forget about her. If she comes back, good, if not, who gives a …
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:46 AM
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What this guy said. I tend to lose frame more often around my guy friends when we're joking around and shit, and around women I have no interest in. Whereas when I'm interested in a woman, my frame is always tight and I don't lose it. Weird, right? I'm working on developing a more secure frame, but nothing robotic - just not fucking ridiculously goofy. It's about balance. You can be funny without losing your confidence.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:11 AM
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No, they're not impossible to handle, but impossible to keep if you lack the ability to be strong, decisive and emotionally centered. Perhaps 'destroyed' may seem a little exaggerated, as she never cheated on me (as far as I know) but when she broke up with me, I was absolutely torn into pieces emotionally. She pulled so far away from me in the months prior - would not touch me, or be affectionate with me, she would not talk to me about things that matter and would invalidate my feelings at that…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:00 AM
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Dude, I was in a LTR with a woman like this. A hot, ravenous, hypergamous 24yo alpha widow. She would tell me about all her conquests of fucking high profile guys and professional athletes and I'd burn with jealously. It turned me into the biggest bitch and she absolutely destroyed me after a year. DO NOT get into a relationship with this woman. See her no more than once a week, text her sparingly and get her to do most or all of the pursuing. Pedastaling her will plunge you deeper into scarcity…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:21 AM
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Sure man
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:53 AM
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You fuck with who you want to fuck with. Forget everything else. If you are not attracted to a certain woman, and you'd rather get with women who you are attracted to, go get the ones you want. If you feel you can't get with the attractive ones, work on getting your mind right so you don't have these confidence issues. Yeah, the chances are greater that you'd bed an unattractive chick, but why waste your time? You are devaluing yourself every time you sleep with a woman you're not attracted to.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:46 AM
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Before the lockdown (we are not allowed to leave our homes) I bought 8 cinder blocks, and a steel pipe. I gave a pull up bar, a resistance band and two 10kg dumbells. I am currently in the shape of my life and I've been training at home for the past month and a half. Hang in there, bro. This will not go on forever. Do your best with what you have at home, and maximize it. Try and push yourself, even if it is bodyweight exercises. It's better than being sedentary. You will get your gains back.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:49 AM
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Yes, she's trying to increase her value and put you into a position of scarcity. Do not act jealous in anyway, and remain coy. It's a shit test, and a show of her insecurity. Who gives a damn how many guys hit on her, it doesn't affect you. If she escalates it and starts being disrespectful, move on.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:56 AM
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Statistically, the condom will be enough. Stop worrying. If you really want to ease your paranoia, get a vasectomy. Direct your thoughts elsewhere.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:52 AM
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I am on the 7th day of my current streak. I've been battling this addiction for years. My longest streak was 40 days. I found the motivating factor was time wasting. Porn is a complete and utter waste of your time and energy, and it DOES affect your sex life. You could suffer from erectile issues, delayed ejaculation and a general loss of drive to pursue sex and women. If you're not suffering from these things, do you want to risk it? It's pathetic to sit in from of a screen and jerk off to othe…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:49 AM
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You do this: you plan to workout, you ask your LTR if she'd like to join you and if she says no, then fuck it, and you work out. The 'alpha' way is to be decisive and to follow your plan. You don't need to ask this question. If she wants to join you, then she can. If not, she can be a sloth while you do the thing that makes you feel good.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:41 AM
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No. Insecurity resulting in a lack of confidence is more probable.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:34 AM
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You're young dude. Forget the past 6 years but take lessons from it. Introspect and ask yourself what exactly held you back? Find the insecurity, embrace it and overcome it as best you can. If you lack social skills, make a point to go out with your friends once a week (after the pandemic, that is). Dress better. Stop watching porn. Lift. Eat better. Do something every day that makes you feel great about yourself. Being on your grind is great, and well done, but do you love doing what you're doi…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:32 AM
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She could, but that's ultimately her decision. If she decides to go through with it, good, if not, you're a dad. Talk to her and get those results.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:27 AM
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No dude. Do not leave the contraception up to the female. As much as you think you can trust her, it would be wise not to in this instance. Too much at stake. Take control and glove up. Find a way to adjust because the risk is not worth it, trust me.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:51 AM
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This brings back so many memories and trips to the local pharmacy. Because I was dumb, I'd have unprotected sex and my then LTR girl and I would have to get a morning after pill once panic set in. Sometimes, we wouldn't and this began an agonizing wait to find out if she was pregnant or not. Rough times - I never want to feel that way again. This is why I vowed to always use protection. There's not much you can do now but wait and discuss the way forward after the results are returned. If she is…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:20 AM
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I will never try even though I have wanted to many times. I had some of the best pussy in my early twenties. I'm 28 now, but fuck it. They're not special and it may take a while, but they're replaceable. She definitely left an imprint on you, and you could reach out, but I wouldn't. If she's toxic, leave her in the past. If she ever reaches out, fuck her a few times and then end it. No worth it, man.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:14 AM
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Firstly, stop comparing yourself to others. So you can't dance, you don't have a big dick and you have no swag, who gives a fuck. There are some things you can't change and there are some things you can. You can't expect to receive all the answers on developing swag or confidence on a sub - you need to work to get it. Go to the gym, educate yourself, make more money, dress better, socialize (when everything normalizes) and approach women. Do all these things until you feel good about yourself. D…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:08 AM
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She sees herself as low value. That's what scarcity is. It may seem counterintuitive, but I don't want a woman who perceives herself as low value. I don't work so hard to make myself high value just to get with the easy pickings. I will fuck her regardless, though,but she will not be a rotation girl.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:48 AM
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Depends. You're the best she thinks you can get, but what do you see her as? Is she a 10? I want women who value themselves as much as I value myself. I don't want a low value woman. I want women who will call me out for my bullshit and who believes that she can get anybody she wants. If she's that easy to please, fucking her will get boring. I'm sick of easy - it was fun for a while. I also know, from experience, that is will make me respect her less, and I'll lose attraction. If I lose attract…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:46 AM
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Dump her and never speak to her again until she hits you up. If she does, invite her over and then wait until she hits you up again, and repeat. Find some other women, there are plenty, and focus on what you want to do. Let her do her thing. Don't get hung up. Don't be jealous. You don't need her.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:35 AM
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100% agree. I noticed this in my own behavior, too. After my ex and I broke up, I struggled to hold her accountable for her part in it all. Yes, my behavior during the relationship drifted too far toward the blue pill, but that didn't excuse her absolute disregard for me when we were together. I put all the blame on myself, and vindicate her behavior because 'it's just in her nature'. This is in part why it took so long to get over her. I'm not saying I was faultless, not at all, but once I was …
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:30 AM
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This is important. Being secure. Being grounded, observant and assertive. Physical assertiveness is not important but it's there to call upon when required. Being content with who you are no matter what. You cannot be shaken. Most important quality of an 'alpha' is abundance. I find that from there, everything naturally follows.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:28 AM
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To me, 'alpha' primarily means having a mindset of abundance. To be an all round alpha, at least to me, you are not afraid of loss, or failure, and as such, your risks are calculated and your failure a learning opportunity. You go and get what you want. Women, paper, happiness etc - you make a plan to get it. Your happiness and your passion is your number 1 priority. You are grounded in your emotions, you respect yourself to stand up for yourself when you feel wronged, and you are willing to def…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:18 AM
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She's trash. I question why she's even in your rotation. Dump her, fix yourself and find someone who actually acts like an adult. If she's trash, trust me, she questions why you're with her. If you can get better but you chose her, your value will decrease in her eyes and the disrespect will escalate.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:43 PM
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Also, go follow 'Alpha Male Strategies' on YouTube and binge on his content. It might just be what you need to hear right now. Find what's relevant to you and listen to what he has to say.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:40 AM
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You cannot contact this woman. You alsolutely cannot. If she contacts you, do not take her back. I would even tell you not to sleep with her because of how much of an attachment you have built. Block, ignore and pretend she doesn't exist. Against every fibre of your being, you need to do this. She can go fuck herself. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Do you really want to be her bitch? She will walk all over you again. She has no respect for you. Pick yourse…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:35 AM
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Literally happening to me right now. I've got women asking me on dates. Hitting me up on social media and I can't keep up. I don't have to work, and I actually hate it. I went through a break up about a year and a half and my dry spell lasted around 9 months.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:44 AM
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Really never saw it this way. This makes a ton of sense.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:41 AM
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If I don't find a text worthy of a response, I don't respond. Chicks send me selfies all the time, and I hardly respond. I don't need to see 20 pictures of their pouting faces every day. If you feel like you want to respond, say what you want to say. Don't follow a script. Who cares what she thinks. If the brownies look good, tell her the brownies look good. The only thing I would tell you is to avoid making texting the primary means of communication - texting back and forth is not a good thing.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:38 AM
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Right now, no. What do you want to do, chat to these women? Focus on other shit. I don't know what the situation is in your country but in mine, we're under full lockdown and can't leave the house. Generally, I would rack up tons of matches on tinder but I've deleted the app because I don't have the time to reply to texts all day long - I've got shit to do. When the lockdown is over, I'll use it to organise dates if I'm too busy to go out. Focus on your shit - these women can wait.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:28 AM
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Probably 🤣 I'm careful, though
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:52 PM
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Depends on the situation and what was said. If he's with gang in a sketchy place, I'd likely just tell the group 'No guys' or something like that and move along. If the setting is not as ominous, I'd directly go up to the person or group of people. It doesn't matter what was said, I'd be firm, get up close, look him in the eye and tell him not to do that again and walk off. I pick my battles. If he touches me, or her, I'd put my hands on him. I didn't tolerate people disrespecting me.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:38 PM
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Look, this chick invaded your privacy. She thought that she is entitled to expect an explanation from you about your private posts. I would have dumped her immediately. If she didn't have to go out of her way to see something, maybe she has some grounding, but as things stand, you don't need to explain yourself at all. In fact, she owes you an apology and if she is unwilling to give it to you, then she shouldn't be allowed back into your life. If you are a high value male, you will not tolerate …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:24 PM
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Your woman does not want you to ask for sex. This is unattractive to her. She must want it, and your indifference will ensure that she does. I was in this situation before and I wish I knew then what I know now. If you are unhappy with your sex life, and within your relationship, then you need to show your strength and leave the situation. She must know that you value yourself enough to not settle for scraps, or less than you deserve. A woman will not respect a man who does not respect himself. …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:22 AM
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Just got my first job as a Software Quality Analyst. I'm also trying to learn code. Well done on your grind - you're killing it 👍
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:22 AM
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Well, I live in South Africa and we're in complete lockdown. We cannot leave our homes unless we require essential goods or services. I've been learning to code, and been taking online classes 6 days a week. I also applied for a job to improve my financial situation, and on Friday, I received a formal offer from the company I applied at, with a 50% increase in my salary. I am now prepping for that. I also assembled a home gym using cinder blocks and a steel pipe, and started cutting calories to …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:19 AM
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I started off as a 21 year old, 64kg, 6'0 ecto. I gained 20kg in two years. The only way I could gain the weight was to chug down mass gainers twice a day. I also ate 6 whole scrambled eggs per day. My suggestion is that you do that, or make your own with olive oil, whey protein, whole milk, peanut butter and bananas. Eat frequently. I'd suggest 5-6 times per day. Snack on peanuts as you get a heavy calorie punch. Aim for 100-200g per day between meals. Don't rush it like me, though, or you'll e…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:54 AM
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