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| 1 | Need help restarting | Inner Game | JayinHK | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:39 AM |
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| 1 | First ever cold approachDate can work. Depends on the girl and what you've talked about before that. Jesse fro Simple Pickup used that successfully | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | First ever cold approachSame, the girl felt bad for me. I saw her around after that and she just looked at me like she wanted me to talk to her again. I never did though (talked to plenty of other women after that though) | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 02:20 PM |
| 2 | How do I let prospective dates that I'm a drug dealer (that doesn't even use a lick of said powdered product)?Autism, TX | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you look for eye contact first?Right on the money. A smile takes more confidence though. Just traded glances with a pretty girl with great style and didn't smile at her. It's too early in the morning for me lol | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Dating the twin but alone with her twin sisterTotally on my bucket list. I am not a cheater, but I don't blame you lol. Even better if you can make a threesome happen | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you look for eye contact first?Some women make and hold strong eye contact as well. Unfortunately it's often women I have no interest in lol | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Do you look for eye contact first?Met my ex gf at the gym. She didn't make eye contact. It's all about approach and whether or not she likes the way you present yourself and come across. I DO look for eye contact and sometimes the results are crazy positive. But I know there are women who would be into me and just don't make eye contact, and I'm missing out on them right now | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:12 PM |
| 9 | How do you cope with trying to date if your inner game (and self esteem) is poor?Damn the narcissistic chick part is right on the money. You live and learn | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:09 PM |
| 1 | I am Bald.Lean and good looking | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How to not get stressed around pretty girlsI consider it reality. I've been with some very attractive women already, so I'm not settling | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How to not get stressed around pretty girlsI often open with something funny to self-amuse myself. It works for me | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | I am Bald.When I was in college, there was a guy in one of my classes with his head shaved. The girls loved him. One day he revealed he shaved his hair off because of alopecia areata. The girls were so surprised. Actually, we all were | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce a Classmate in College?Try hanging out with her on campus first. Get a drink or food or something | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Long eye contact when walkingHad this happen a few days ago. Smiled. she smiled back, and I didn't go after her (crowded subway station). I wish I had | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:10 PM |
| 6 | How not to cold approach from a woman’s perspectiveWhen i get rejected I smile, stay polite, and eject. Girls often look very relieved lol | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl calls me bro after the night we had sexFucks With Bros? | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 04:56 PM |
| 3 | How to screen women before I let them in my hotel room on vacation?Check for a dick | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Reading women’s eye contactSometimes the look you're seeing is apprehension: they want you to like them and aren't sure if you do | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I can’t force things. Feel like a lot of us van relate.Start with casual interactions going about your day. Talk to dudes. Should be easier. Work your way up | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatYou essentially used mindfulness. Thanks for sharing your experience 🙏🏼 | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 01:16 AM |
| 3 | I fucked one up pretty badly. Age shit test?That's clever. Thanks | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Why does the chick keep staring after rejection?Blow em a kiss next time | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:34 PM |
| 12 | Why does the chick keep staring after rejection?Had this happen a few months ago. Talked to her again, jokingly. She said she had a man the first time I approached. Asked if she still had a bf. She did. Then said I'd check back later. I was laughing, but she freaked out a little lol. Did not talk to her again after that | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:33 PM |
| 12 | How do you guys keep going?Even if they are seemingly your ideal match you might not be theirs. And that's ok. You will fit someone else better (and vice versa) | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Bizzarre moment with a girl i have a crush onShe wanted you to talk to her but you didn't smile, let alone talk to her | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl exampleI deleted all of mine. Met too many girls who showed up 40lbs heavier than their pics. I'm done lol. Apps fuck up your real world game if you're dependent on them | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Started making Eye-Contact: Got approached Day 1You really do. Girls will initiate eye contact to let you know they're interested too. A lot of 'em you won't be interested in and then you have to not look again and they get butthurt lol. Happened a few hours ago on the subway and she lost her balance at one point which was probably pretty embarrassing for her lol. Earlier this year, I caught a girl looking. Looked back until she looked again and smiled. We held eye contact for like 20 seconds, just smiling at each other. She didn't even speak… | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Do women pose for us?There is no league. People are either attracted to each other or they aren't | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 01:29 PM |
| 55 | First approach at the gymKeep at it but I wouldn't try cold approach at the gym. Start a normal convo. If you make someone uncomfortable you're gonna see them at the gym again | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Are these signals?She very likely wanted you to talk to her and you let the opportunity slip through your fingers. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 09:37 AM |
| 3 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!When I was in county jail over 20 years ago, this guy was telling another guy how he regularly paid a girl to eat her out. He asked if the other guy wanted in, and that the guy could f her in the a while he ate her out. A random guy interrupted with, "then his balls would be on your nose!" The whole dorm erupted in laughter | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 09:24 AM |
| 4 | Do different men peak at different ages?You answered your own question | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouGotta start somewhere | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 04:03 PM |
| 2 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouI was once laughing at the funky engrish on a girl's shirt and she smiled and sat next to me :o When I translated what her shirt said, she was super embarrassed. She was cute too | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouMeans they're only interested in you for sex, not who you are | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls assume I'm a playerI got this a lot around your age. I'd always deny it. If it happened now, I'd respond with, "I could be if I wanted to, but that's just not me. I'm looking to meet someone who is worth my time." You could also answer with humor: "You're right. Want to get added to the list?" | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouA few even fetishize brown guys, but that's a turnoff to me | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouDown to fuck | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 07:13 AM |
| 5 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouA lot of local girls will automatically reject you. A certain percentage don't care, if they find you attractive | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouThey totally are obvious, in the US and UK at least. Physical attractiveness is what makes the difference. I'm not attractive to every woman (no guy is), but I do pretty well | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 06:23 PM |
| 60 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouI've had a girl ask me out because I kept looking at her. She was dtf. Had another hang up a phone call because I winked at her and smiled. You still need rizz, or you won't get anywhere. Solid article. Eye contact can really tell you a lot. Twice this week, I've been looking at girls, and they stopped and giggled with their friends. I need to get back in approach mode. I struggle more with approaching girls in pairs or groups. Been practicing warm approaches today. Some girls are very, very obv… | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to approach women at shopping malls, stores and the street?I've genuinely asked for directions a few times, and girls thought I was trying to talk to em (I had 0 interest in those girls). So yes, it's normal in a big city for sure | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to approach women at shopping malls, stores and the street?Absolutely | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 06:20 AM |
| 5 | I approached a beautiful woman on the train today, here’s how it went.Wish I'd listened to you | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Losing confidence after a bad night outAin't nobody got time for that. Good and bad nights happen to everyone. Have fun and make the most of your trip! | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 03:03 PM |
| -1 | How did you get her to chase you?Back in my late teens, if I ended up trembling, I basically let it go because I couldn't handle the nerves, and I was embarrassed. In the case of saying something weird, they just stop talking to you lol. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How did you get her to chase you?No, we were friends, and that's all they were to me. I once had some girl come up to me and tell me her friend was crazy about me. Her friend then came over cuz I said I'd like to meet her. I had literally never noticed this girl in my life! So yeah it can happen with 0 input from your end even. Once, a girl I'd liked from the moment I'd laid eyes on her during college orientation week ended up drinking with me and her roommate, and somehow ended up sitting on my lap. Her roommate was like :o An… | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 04:23 PM |
| 17 | How did you get her to chase you?Yup, I've had girls chase me super hard because I had 0 interest in them. It's like they can sense you aren't interested, and that drives them crazy. This isn't something I can fake. I genuinely wasn't into those girls lol. Other girls will just like you because they like you off the bat. I often mess up when a girl who I really find attractive finds me attractive. Self esteem issue. I'm getting better about it though, but I've let so many great girls get by me because of this issue | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Tips on getting someone out of your leagueIt is exactly that. Even serial killers meet women who love them lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else ever get stares while on a date?I've had a couple of girls here in HK/Taiwan try to hold eye contact with me while I was with a girl. I didn't look too long out of respect and they both took offense to me not giving them attention lol. The second one actually swore and walked off upset. Both girls were a lot hotter than the girl I was seeing at the time too | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Good luck! That sounds really rough | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?I feel for you meds done changed my life for the better once I got on | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?I never said attraction meant that they'd approach you. But if they aren't attracted, there's a near 0% chance of that | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:15 AM |
| 23 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?They're either attracted or they aren't. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 04:45 PM |
| 3 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.It really works | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | First time getting hit on while walking down the streetsome people definitely couldn't run that much primo on 250mg of test! | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 03:54 PM |
| 5 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.Definitely. We've got a world overpopulation issue and it's not because of a select few chads lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 06:34 AM |
| 6 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.Back up off the bottle bruh | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted after a 3 hour enjoyable conversationToo eager with the messages. Shoulda messaged her when you were back and asked if she was free | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Gym girls - here’s how I go success with themI do if it's dangerous. Was eye flirting and smiling with a woman at the gym a lot tonight. Only spoke to her to let her know I was still using the cable machine and another time when I needed to get by her. Did think about telling her that her tricep extensions were done wrong (she was doing more of a pullover and I wasn't sure if that's what she was going for). She was extremely flexible and had really nice abs. Also I think she was wearing Dior sneakers in the gym :o | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 05:02 PM |
| 0 | The worst part about rejectionDo a lot of approaches and you won't even care anymore. I now completely forget about approaches within a day or two | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is not for everybodyI knew a guy who was both and he slayed. Natural | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep your inner game after so many rejections?I've never considered this but I'm going to try it | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How to not beat yourself up?You did well! Progress takes time. Keep at it. You might indeed run into her again but keep talking to other women. I've been there and done that too. It gets progressively easier with exposure. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on this please so lost rnYou never had anything with her. Don't even bother with anything online. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Field report. Advice wanted.How much do you weigh? Nice username lol | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approachI've done exactly that. Tried to suppress my laughter because the guy was going about it completely wrong. FTR the girl approached me! | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Approached a girl todayGirls totally place themselves near you but they often make eye contact first | /r/seduction | 05/08/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you want more testosterone if it meant attracting lots of women but ultimately led to a shorter life span?It's not a magic pill for getting women for me, but I've lost a lot of fat, I'm less anxious and I have the sex drive I had in my 20s back. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Would you want more testosterone if it meant attracting lots of women but ultimately led to a shorter life span?Gyno (development of breasts) is due to sensitivity to estrogen. Some testosterone is converted to estrogen inside the body but you can block this process with other drugs. Some people won't get gyno due to their genetics. I'm not susceptible to gyno even at 600mg a week. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | This Exercise Makes You IrresistibleYes! I've expanded it to help with other times when I get jn my head. I always have love for myself and I always have my own back. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 11:02 PM |
| 2 | How do I get past my looks?On steroids but minoxidil feels way worse to me! | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | This Exercise Makes You IrresistibleThis really helped me and continues to help. I realize I have my own back no matter what happened in the past or what happens now. And I'm a fucking badass so I'm glad I'm on my own team 🥰 | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:21 AM |
| 32 | This Exercise Makes You IrresistibleI'm glad it's not just me. I bawled my eyes out. I have social anxiety disorder from childhood trauma. I feel like this is exactly what I needed. A big thank you to the OP | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesGo to girl. Talk. Use humor. I haven't done enough approaches since I started back up to tell you what my success rate is. That depends on several different factors... | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?I'm 6' and my brother is 6'4" and more conventionally attractive than I am. He introduced me to a girl who he thought was hot. I immediately knew I could have her just based off my confidence. Could have kissed her on the spot. As she gazed into my eyes, smiling, she said I was so different from my brother. Totally shoulda kissed her | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?Likely the way you think is messing with your success | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesSame! Even by female bosses lol | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I talk to girls when my face looks like an ant hill.You can still slay with acne. Had it bad around your age and had loads of attention from women! Just live ya life g | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 8 | Daygame is a magnet to fun girlsNice job! | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesThanks! I'm also not drinking atm but I'm on a pretty heavy blast 😅 I don't need the alcohol! | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:21 AM |
| 41 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesJust did my first in months. 0 nervousness. Had the best lay I've had in years off Tinder yesterday so I was riding that wave. I'm back! I haven't done 15-20 in a day in years but I'll get back up there soon :) | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Refusal to even engage in conversationI get this daily lol. Racial thing. I just chuckle to myself and then completely ignore them. NEXT | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:13 AM |
| 15 | How to act after a rejection?Literally just did this. Said 'OK' and she put her headphones back in. We went on our separate ways no problem | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:46 AM |
| 3 | What have you done that improve your overall success with women?Best thing for my game, ever, was moving to a city where people like me are considered attractive. At home I'm considered undateable on racial grounds by the majority of women. That definitely works against me 😆 | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?If a girl is not OK with your ethnicity... NEXT. But yeah maybe don't start with that. I don't for sure | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 10:23 AM |
| 79 | When a tinder girl wants to bring a friend on the first date, how do you turn it down without sounding annoyedBoss shit | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Doing first cold approaches tomorrow (Mall) - Best tips?The last time I tried to talk to a girl in a mall I saw her looking at the directory and asked if I could help her. She laughed and immediately walked around the mall with me. She'd just come from a Wine Festival. I was with another older couple and was self conscious about hanging out with them with her so I let her go on her way without getting her info. Silly me. But yeah humor works really well for me. I'm a natural troll when I'm comfortable 😉 | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?So you're confident but you lack experience | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?So you so have some success mi hermanito Indio. Might be that your nerves are showing when you approach. Where are you from sounds like a kinda crappy line though. I say whatever I think is natural. I only daygame though so that's a different environment. Suerte | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | As a virgin, it hurts me to see teenagers younger than me make out and hold hands. Seeing sex ed for teens sadens me. I have so much sorrow and regret from missing out on teenage expereinces and I would really like some words of encouragmentI know how you feel since I felt the same at your age. Although I did have some dating experience I only lost my virginity on my 19th birthday. That moping and jealousy shit will entirely fuck up your game. You want to meet someone? Talk to some girls. You're still a kid at 19...and there's no rewind switch on life. Move forward and only look back for the lessons. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Curing oneitis - a success story with tips for those strugglingYou are using what the ancient Hindus and then the Buddhists wrote about...what we now call mindfulness. Powerful tool and you seem to have worked it out for yourself. I only realized how to quiet my monkey brain at 35. Woulda made my teens and 20s very different! I had girls all over me but 0 testicular fortitude to get the hottest ones, even when they asked ME out... | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Curing oneitis - a success story with tips for those strugglingYour post helped me too so it goes both ways! | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 01:33 AM |
| 20 | Curing oneitis - a success story with tips for those strugglingYou're gonna be a beast if you can move on that easily at 18. Wish I had your mentality then! | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?I tried to instadate a very cute Colombian girl on the tube! It was packed lol. She was looking at me and smiling on the platform so I talked to her a bit before the train arrived. Shoulda stood with her on the train. She was all of 4'10" and I'm 6'. My only pickup attempt entirely in Spanish lol. Memorable for that reason. That and I don't live in UK! | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | To all males (and women too). Does the butt/glutes matter?Heavy squats and deadlifts. Also lunges. Hip thrusts would probably be even better but I don't do those. I should! I don't care about butt gainz but the girls do like em 😅 | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | I left after hooking up with a guy but idk if it was wrong/rudeInsist on a new condom next time | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Condom sex is way overratedThose are terrible for me! | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | To all males (and women too). Does the butt/glutes matter?A lot of girls like phatties on guys. Apparently I have one now from lifting | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is BrutalYou're right, but cold approaching really makes the warm approaches easier down the line | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Cold Approach is BrutalYou have to embrace the rejection. It makes you WAY tougher. I've started inviting it and welcoming it. Even if I get upset it goes away real quick now and I know I'll eventually give 0 fucks | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Sending a text after several months.Asked a girl out (customer at work). She gave me a look but took my number anyway. No contact for months. Contacted me and asked me out. We hung out a few times but I was no longer interested. She was totally into me though. It's always worth a shot. Not a cliche. If you don't try there's 0 chance you'll succeed | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 07:15 AM |
| 5 | Girls disappearing after sexSounds good. Could just be a lack of chemistry. It happens | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Girls disappearing after sexCould be literally anything. You could ask if you still have contact info. Maybe your dick game is weak or you smell or something idk. But if you can't find out why just keep it moving. What other option would you have? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:38 AM |
| 9 | Girls disappearing after sexThen you need to think it through. If she doesn't want to be with you she has her reasons. Keep it moving | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:34 AM |
| 9 | Girls disappearing after sexA lot more women | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:24 AM |
| 5 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsAndale fuck the haters | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsThis is so true. Got into a LTR for a few years and I immediately missed cold approaching so much! Time to get back to it 💪🏼 | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:54 AM |
| 12 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsFacts I've gone up to women with genuine questions and they thought I was hitting on them. Had 0 interest in em but they were really flattered lol | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do I struggle so much to talk to girls in public?Approach. Lots | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 11:55 PM |
| 0 | How do you deal with the fact you blew it with a really cool girl?Yes it is lol | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Addicted to seduction - please helpDo pickup outside your other priorities. Make a schedule and stick to it. Great advice I should take my damn self re: a schedule lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Los Angeles Wings?I loved approaching with wings though. The social pressure pushed me harder | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Los Angeles Wings?I legit thought this post was about chicken wings at first glance | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Is it better to talk about what I want vs what I likeKeep at it. you want what most humans want. Nothing wrong with that. You'll meet someone who gets you and isn't too far away eventually | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Quick field reportAs someone just getting back to this...I appreciate this post hugely. Nice job and you're right. Girls have specific tastes just like we do. They might even be human too 😭🤣 nah but we definitely need to act. A long term relationship has set me back to level 1 but I know I'll be better than ever if I put in the work. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:23 PM |
| 10 | which advice changed youre whole gameSometimes it's not her loss though. You just aren't a good fit for each other. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Getting rejected for heightI get rejected for my race all the time. You aren't gonna get every girl and that's always gonna be the case. Too short for her? Next I'm 6' and a girl once told me if was an inch taller she would've rejected me lol | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot?Dear Penthouse... | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:53 AM |
| -4 | She says I'm too old for herIgnore it and proceed | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Unusual Stare in PublicShe's definitely into you | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | I'd like everyone's opinion on a few matters.That's the right attitude! 🤜 | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | I'd like everyone's opinion on a few matters.Meet more women | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 2 | I'd like everyone's opinion on a few matters.Ah that's different then. She just doesn't want it | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 10:39 PM |
| 3 | I'd like everyone's opinion on a few matters.You can ask directly. Ngl some girls are gonna say it's a turnoff but others will appreciate it. Say you hook your thumbs in their pants. "Can I?" It's 2022 so consent is definitely something you want. Younger women tend to expect you to ask too but it's a big 'it depends.' You could also just tell them you're hard af and see how they respond 🤣 | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 3 | I'd like everyone's opinion on a few matters.You want to work out, but the main thing is dietary control. I'm in the best shape of my life at 41. I've dropped 27 lbs since October. The lifting and cardio will keep the muscle on/help you build some and keep you healthy, but to burn fat, you have to eat less than you burn in a day. I can't give you advice on your escalation issue though. I do that instinctively so I'm definitely not the guy to try and help with that...but lots of touch and kissing and the clothes just fall off | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 04:10 PM |
| 5 | How do I convey to the guy I like that I like him without having to just say it straight up? (College)You're right. You can hug him first and see how he reacts. If he hugs you back then see how it goes. I wouldn't spend that much time with a girl unless I was interested. He definitely sounds interested. I didn't mean to go straight in for the kiss since that could definitely go badly lol. But physical contact and whether it is reciprocated is a good way to gauge interest | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:16 AM |
| 9 | How do I convey to the guy I like that I like him without having to just say it straight up? (College)Don't take this dude's advice he obviously didn't even read your post. You're way past the number stage lol. Next time you're drunk together, just kiss him | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back?Talk to her about it when she's sober. Let her know it's not ok | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back?I was in a similar situation last year with a girl who had been in a horribly abusive relationship. She didn't hit me but played around like she was going to. No way in hell I was gonna hit her back, not even playfully. Glad it didn't work out | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Advice when you’re sure she’s into youNice tits 😉 | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Someone said I look like the type of person only a woman waiting for sex after marriage would want to date. How do I not look this way?I have the opposite issue. Girls say I look like a player/pimp 🤣 | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How to dress attractive on first date as a male?$150 Nike Tuned are running shoes. I'd wear em on a date. Fresh out the box even. Again, personal style. I'm a hip-hop guy the rules are different 😉 | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How to dress attractive on first date as a male?Out here in Hong Kong if I OD on the black the cops will stop and search me so there's that 😬 I bought an all black wardrobe right before that became an issue. Now I have to break up my outfits with other colors to keep the cops away... | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to dress attractive on first date as a male?Not weird if that's the kid's style and the girl doesn't mind or even likes it 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Going for the landlords daughter. Knowing when to flirt/escalate.Good luck! | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Going for the landlords daughter. Knowing when to flirt/escalate.Go out with her. Like out of the house. I'd keep it private for now and see how it goes when you're alone. Incidentally this situation is kind of how my dad met my mom | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 9 | How to dress attractive on first date as a male?Entirely depends on your personal style and what the girl is into. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 3 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?It was like 3:1 at undergrad level or something. Yet I had 0 confidence and could only meet girls online I've let so many great girls get by me...need to stop doing that | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Nah it's also cultural. I look like someone who would be up for being approached by a woman when I'm really pretty anxious | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:13 PM |
| 2 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?I have Social Anxiety Disorder. You don't know how lucky you are. I get tense af when approached by a woman I like unless I'm actively working on meeting women and overcoming that anxiety | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Yeah a lot of the girls who approach me hard I'm not interested in. If I'm actually interested I wonder if it's a scam of some kind lol | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:09 PM |
| 0 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Facts | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 4 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Your experience and mine differs. Girls in NYC are THIRSTY | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:05 PM |
| 0 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Yeah you will get laughed at/called ugly when they were really hoping you'd talk to em. Same deal if we've been making eye contact and then I change my mind and decide they aren't worth the effort. Sometimes the hurt and disappointment is very evident. If the girl is very attractive I feel much worse if I pussied out and she's reacting that way. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?🤣 yeah I just look away and laugh. Gets the point across. If a girl is gonna act that way she's automatically disqualified herself anyway | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Yeah you're not wrong. I think I'm just used to living in cities where talking shit can have immediate repercussions | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?I've never seen it done as blatantly as here though | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Out here in Hong Kong girls will literally talk shit (in a low voice) in front of you if you don't act | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 0 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Again I never said they were the prize. 🤔 | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 12:45 PM |
| 0 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Make the first move. And yes it does depend on the woman but MOST want us to make the first move if they like us. Big if lol. And yeah I didn't mention the prize thing at all. As men we get to select from the women who show interest too | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 11:55 AM |
| 0 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?We're expected to chase. It's cultural | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 11:54 AM |
| 11 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?Usually my nerves get the best of me and I don't. I have talked to girls in that situation though. One was gorgeous and damn near swooned when I talked to her. I gotta do that kinda thing more often. Being in a relationship for two years has murdered my game:/ | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 11:53 AM |
| 6 | What obvious hint she gave which encouraged you to kiss her?So powerful when a girl you're really into does that | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 0 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.Next time you see her, if she's up to talk, apologize and say you don't know why you said it. It just came out. That's if you wanna try and get things going again. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:56 AM |
| 3 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.😭 | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:55 AM |
| -4 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.Especially if she was trying to play jealousy mind games on him. That would make me put up a wall | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:54 AM |
| 13 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.We all do dumb shit. What matters is whether or not you learn from it. It's a great fucking story though lol | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.Hers didn't | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | 3 Reasons Most Men Have Disappointing Dating Lives (And What to Do Instead)Well, at least physically, he can have some kind of list. Personality-wise too, but nothing too detailed. But yeah I see what you're saying about making excuses and not approaching | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 06:56 AM |
| 10 | 3 Reasons Most Men Have Disappointing Dating Lives (And What to Do Instead)Or he could go for what he thinks he wants and then realize that isn't it, and fine tune his preferences | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 12:31 AM |
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