| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Am I conditioned for shitty men? | SEEKING ADVICE | Jazmin8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 06:31 PM |
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| 3 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?Thank you guys for responding! I’m just going to ask him when we hang out tomorrow. That’s the only way I’m definitely going to have an answer and if he’s not into a relationship than at least I can stop stressing over what-ifs and wasting my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?Thanks! I think I’ll get an answer tomorrow when we hang out. I’m normally more forward but this is a new one for me and I’ve been off. If he doesn’t want anything serious I think I’ll have to stop seeing him before I develop any feelings and it is what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:15 PM |
| -1 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?I know that’s definitely a red flag but shouldn’t I give him the benefit of the doubt considering that was about a decade ago? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?Yeah that sounds right. We’re hanging out tomorrow so I’ll bring it up sometime then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?The problem is that I’m not sure. If he’s not full of shit then yes, but if there’s a bunch of crazy stuff he’s hiding I’d probably pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?I know that I probably shouldn’t have started sleeping with him but I’m human. As far as bringing up commitment, I’m just worried that if he’s not looking for something like that it will scare him away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?I definitely wouldn’t say that I’m in love with him, we don’t know each other well enough for that. As far as the kids go I’m just scared because that’s a way bigger investment than normal. I could see it being nice though because I’ve always wanted kids, just not sure if I’ll ever get the opportunity. We have discussed the fact that I didn’t want to go into this seriously, at least not at first, but that we were only seeing each other. And honestly if what I’ve been seeing is true he does seem … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?That was honestly one of my concerns. He is divorced but the only research I’ve really been able to do is fb snooping. He still sees the ex quite a bit due to his kids, but I have been to his house after the kids are asleep. One of the major red flags was that he had said that him and his ex had split because he cheated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?Thanks! That’s kind of what I’m doing, just not trying to get super attached and not really bringing up anything that feels too “relationship-y” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 07:11 PM |
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