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“ I want to be with you for life”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:56 PM
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My fiancé is just like this. As soon as he lays in bed he starts drifting off even if he wasn’t tired before lol it’s cute but very annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:43 PM
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A pirates life for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:41 PM
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I very rarely look at someone first glance and think “wow he’s hot” unless it’s some dude who looks like a Viking and is running around shirtless lmao Generally if I get a crush on someone then their conventional attractiveness doesn’t matter because I still like them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:43 PM
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Incorrect, matriarchal tribes typically end up with greater resources than their patriarchal counterparts because they live longer (thus, more to pass on to off spring) and have less war (less pillaging, less destruction of crops or take over of hunting grounds)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:05 AM
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I definitely believe male supremacy has more harmful consequences than female supremacy. There have been some legitimate studies into the effects of matriarchy vs patriarchy (specially looking at human tribes and their life spans, quality of life, etc) and matriarchy is always far more peaceful for everyone and the men live longer too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:22 PM
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I think a lot of female privilege is also based on social status, e.g a poor woman will not be treated as nicely as a preppy rich one. But there are some things that are almost universal in the west, such as being viewed as harmless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:27 PM
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Idk how someone could be that shameless tbh. If someone is feeding and clothing you and providing you shelter you could at least keep the place tidy and make food
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:25 PM
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This is a common taking point from cheaters to excuse their actions, women say the same thing “I wasn’t satisfied”, sexual satisfaction is often more than just finishing, and a dead bedroom can be caused by many issues that the cheater may be responsible for as well. There is no excuse for cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:17 PM
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It’s fine but I wouldn’t date someone using such material unless they were genuinely seeking an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:44 PM
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FDS are pick mes but they focus on trying to attract rich, powerful and handsome men. They act as if anyone who ‘settles’ is a chump and that they are somehow above normal pick mes despite the fact that a normal pick me isn’t usually motivated by material gains. Morally they are worse than a normal pick mes, because a normal one is pathetic and FDS is extremely calculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:41 PM
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I’m bisexual and I’ve only ever dated guys. Women scare me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:37 PM
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Sounds romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:35 PM
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Personally as someone who got a copper IUD (was free in my country), I have no regrets. It was very painful to get though but definitely has been worth it. Penetrative sex can be a lot of fun if done properly, and I don’t really have to worry about getting pregnant or relying on condoms. However I will say that I’ve only ever had sex with my fiancé, but it works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:33 PM
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22f, lost my V card to my current fiancé at age 20. Had many other opportunities but decided to wait for someone I care about deeply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:27 PM
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Yes I care. I wouldn’t be with someone who had more than three sexual partners. A high body count can often show a lack of self control. I would never be with a guy who has sex with women just to up his ‘score’, that’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:17 PM
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They lie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:14 PM
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Finding a guy that is interested in a committed relationship and not just someone to fuck or a temporary girlfriend. Men who are capable of having sex with women always know what to say and do to make sex more accessible, even if it means lying (outright or by omission) The issue is most don’t even find this immoral, since in their mind it is just ‘game’. I think this was the hardest part about trying to save my first time for someone worth it. When I say worth it I don’t mean I am superior, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:12 PM
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I mean from a personal perspective no because even if my friends find my partner unattractive, I find him attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:06 PM
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It’s pretty stupid to suggest women are incapable of building infrastructure or civilisation. The fact is women were largely forced out of such roles up until the industrial revolution where women played a MASSIVE role, just as much as working class men. Women were not staying home, everyone worked. When men went off to fight the war, women stayed and produced the technology, did the jobs that society needed to help win the war in men’s absence. Acting as if women are helpless without men is a j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:24 PM
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You realise that in terms of technology especially computing science and computation, also factory work a chip building, women play a huge role? Also what do people think happened when men went off to war, did women stay at home or take over the industrial production in their stead?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:19 PM
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That has very little to do with if someone with a low wage is a stable adult or not. Keep looking down on the plebs from your ivory tower though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:56 PM
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The fairest I’ve seen is MFF, usually three bisexuals or at least both girls bisexual. The guy gets to see both women engaging in sex acts which is usually nice for guys to see, and then may also get to do acts on the other girl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:50 AM
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How classist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:34 AM
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Because he’s saying women don’t like bisexual guys without providing data, so I’m providing my perspective as well. If you’re not gonna provide actual data then don’t be surprised when it’s just perspective sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:44 AM
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Criminally underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:48 AM
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Love hearing that from certain women for just existing, ‘oh you’re into hobbies that I don’t like? You must think you’re ‘not like other girls!’ - Nah hun, I just don’t have the same hobbies as you. I’m a lot like other autistic girls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:47 AM
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Well from the brief time I took part in hookup culture (not full sex), I definitely felt ‘used’. So I saved my v card for my fiancé.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:44 AM
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I’m engaged to a bisexual man, tbh I’m not sure if I could date someone completely straight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:42 AM
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I’m engaged to a bisexual guy so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:41 AM
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I’m autistic and it happened to me but I was socially aware enough to not take the bait and then later if it happened I’d pretend to be repulsed by the jock asking which bruised a few egos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:38 AM
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Happened to me quite a few times but each time I knew what was going on because I’d seen it happen to others of just raised my suspicions, so at most I said ‘maybe’, once, then the prank was revealed, after that any attempts were met with ‘ew, fuck off’ which bruised a few egos lol. Of course I didn’t do this to everyone, just strangers asking me out. If it was a friend I’d genuinely consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:34 AM
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Ever thought she turned out the way thanks to the people excluding and bullying her? Lol yeah I’m sure she was treated that way cuz of her personality and not that she was ‘fug’
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:32 AM
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Never talked about wanting to be in charge or being a ‘boss bitch’ 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:23 AM
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I think because porn, like alcohol or smoking or gambling, can become a pretty severe financial burden on families and couples when there’s an addicted partner. The only guys I know who pay for only fans have pretty much gone into credit card debt for it. Also I don’t get why someone would pay for porn when there’s millions of free videos and content. When you’re paying for someone’s only fans or premium snap chat I think it crosses a border into cheating in a similar way that paying for a prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:53 PM
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You’re speaking for all men and women? Sounds legit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:21 PM
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For me I just browse normal porn, read fiction or manga
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:20 PM
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Someone hasn’t heard of harem anime
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:19 PM
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I can agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:40 PM
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Women are not a hive mind 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:39 PM
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You’ve got a rare one then :3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:36 PM
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The post was about traits in men that are hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:34 PM
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I mean I have a good chance of reaching that point (might end up being reverse engineering expert) but honestly I enjoy my hobbies and don’t mind being middle class haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:33 PM
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You’d be surprised. Personally I don’t mind free porn but I’ve met a lot of guys who actively pay for only fans and premium snap chats of their favourite adult actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:37 AM
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No. I’ve never got this ‘but what if he’s settling for me?’ thing. Isn’t that what marriage is to an extent? There’s a reason it’s called ‘settling down’. This goes both ways. There are benefits to living the hook up lifestyle, and negatives. When you’re single, you can afford to be shallow and have sex with as many people as you like and aim for optimum aesthetics, personality doesn’t need to play a strong role. When you’re marrying and trying to find a genuine life partner (which also has pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:43 AM
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Men willing to let their partners be SAHMs and put the effort in to make this possible Men willing to pair bond Men who don’t pay for porn or onlyfans. Men who are charming - but with low n counts Men who are willing to change their habits for the health of the family Men who don’t smoke or drink regularly Men who aren’t intimidated by women who enjoy masculine clothing/activities I think chivalry is dead mostly because men now see it as coins to exchange for sex, and women see it as misogyny. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:22 AM
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Yes, I was considered ugly in highschool. No one ever called me beautiful or pretty, even my parents made fun of me. The only reassurance I have about guys is that if they have a boner, they’re not totally disgusted by me. My fiancé calls me beautiful a lot and says I’m very pretty and that people just lied to me to make me feel bad. I’m not sure what’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:14 AM
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Yea considering that would be less than 1% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:09 AM
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No he’d had one other sexual partner, but he is also two years older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:42 AM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:19 PM
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Sure, my fiancé and I are both non religious and ‘centrists’ which these days is considered conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:18 PM
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Saved my v card for my fiancé, I don’t regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:07 PM
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Anyone who bullies a friend for asking them out is a dick. Middle school bs. I had a good friend ask me out, I said no but I didn’t go around telling the group he asked me out or that I said no, that’s our business no one else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:55 PM
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I mean the fact your accusing me of being the relationship police whilst policing my relationship is funny. Also I’m not gonna waste my time proving shit to someone who takes literally everything I do in bad faith. Keep crying bout muh feminism though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:07 PM
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Your sound really dumb haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:03 PM
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His ex would send him pictures of herself cutting her arm up and cheated on him multiple times. He was suicidal when we met and now we’re both happy and his ex is doing better too since she’s with someone she actually likes. We didn’t do anything sexual or romantic until they broke up, if you mentally abuse a partner then don’t be surprised when they start realising how shit the relationship is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:49 AM
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It’s not really a back up if someone doesn’t have feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:48 AM
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Exactly and then others who pull the same shit will gaslight us and say “maybe you just weren’t interesting enough”. So why put on an act and deceive me? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:45 AM
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Or it’s just obvious he only wanted sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:44 AM
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Agree with this completely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:35 AM
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I used to think this way but a truly good friend won’t care if it’s unrequited because they’ll value the friendship more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:34 AM
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I’m glad things worked out well for you. Similar happened to me except my current fiancé was the one warning me about others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:34 AM
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I didn’t care about my fiance not having feelings for me (well, I thought he didn’t). The experience of becoming close friends with him was so magical I would never be mad if he dated anyone else (and he was) because I knew he was a great person so why wouldn’t he be in high demand? Being salty over fate just makes life harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:32 AM
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A Chad type guy faked friendship with me and to this day I still hate him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:30 AM
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I was best friends with my fiancé before we started dating and was fine with that. Reason being I didn’t care if we never ended up together even with a crush because I valued the friendship more, he was the same. I got lucky because when he interrogated me about how I felt about him he admitted he had feelings as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:29 AM
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Yep completely toxic behaviour. I had a huge crush on my fiancé when we met, but he was in a relationship at that time. I was convinced I never had a chance and was ok with that because I valued the friendship more. I didn’t try anything with him, not even a hug. When his relationship failed (very toxic ex) and ended he admitted feelings for me and we ended up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:27 AM
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This happened to me with a dude who convinced me he was a true friend, then when he got what he wanted he forgot I existed. We didn’t have full sex but that event was something that put me off hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:25 AM
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It’s only shitty if the intention of becoming friends was just to make a move, if you’re genuinely friends with someone and have feelings that’s not an issue. I’ve only ever dated people I’ve been friends with first. Ghosting someone because they rejected you after you convinced the person you were actually friends is shitty and I’ve seen numerous guys do this. If you were truly friends with someone it wouldn’t matter if they weren’t dating you because you’d respect their autonomy. My fiancé and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:21 AM
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No way. My fiancé has a pretty traditional view on marriage but he’s not red pill, someone red pilled would probably have a lot of paranoia. My fiancé wants me to be a stay at home mom ideally and doesn’t want me to work. We’re both poor students right now but training for high paid jobs in computing. Red pill dudes always talk about women hitting the wall and SMV, why would I want to grow old and wrinkly with someone who values me based on how non old and wrinkly I am instead of forming a team …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:20 PM
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No. I’m engaged and I don’t have a good relationship with my dad, I do love him but I didn’t get to see him as much. No, my mom was a cheater and my dad was addicted to drugs so it didn’t work out between them. Yet I’m still engaged. My fiancé hates my mom and my mom wasn’t a good parent. I will add to the above points, the best people I know had a rough time growing up. Yes, why would you want to date someone who was unkind long term? Yes, same goes for men. The only person I’ve ever had sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:06 PM
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Play fighting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:11 PM
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About two years ago I tried to ask directions to a train station, the woman interrupted me and said “I don’t have any change”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:50 PM
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I’ve noticed this with a lot of cheaters, they’ll always blame the partner rather than take accountability. I think it’s easier mentally to rationalise those actions than to accept that they have done something immoral to another person. That said, personally I don’t see the point in having sex with anyone I’m not in a committed relationship with. If I have a child I want them to have a loving father, hard to guarantee that if I wasn’t exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:49 PM
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Similarities help but at the same time I don’t want anyone with the same negative traits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:44 PM
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8 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:41 AM
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The friendzone is just part of life and even women get friendzoned. When I make friends with someone, it isn't with the expectation of dating. I find it super deceitful when people pretend to be a friend but then disappear as soon as its made clear a relationship isn't in the cards. I like honesty and self control
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:51 AM
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Yes, in fact I have an unhealthy view of sex generally since the first porn I was ever exposed to was BDSM, and I was far too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:47 AM
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I'm 21 and get mistaken for being a teenager (16-17) a lot because I don't wear make up or revealing clothes. I've also mistaken girls for being older because of their make up and clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:46 AM
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I don't have female friends 🤣😢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:43 AM
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I lost my v card to my fiance at age 20. Why hadn't I had sex? I went through an assault by when I was a teenager and that made the concept of having sex a lot more intimidating, I just didn't trust anyone and whenever anyone tried anything with me I'd feel sick However, by the time I was almost 20 my hormones were raging and I just wanted to get it over with, I was planning to hookup like everyone else. My fiance and I were new friends at the time and he talked me out of doing that, then later …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:41 AM
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Yep. I made everyone wait and lost my v card to my fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:32 AM
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I kind of agree. My fiance and I are broke students but he's good with his money, he doesn't gamble or have any addictions. My ex was really stupid with money, he'd buy weed instead of electricity and once bought some fancy soda instead of food when we had barely any money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:40 AM
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For me it's not that important because almost everyone my age is a broke student. I still think it's important to show they care though, so that involves sharing food with each other. My fiance is in a similar position to me, but he does help me out a lot in terms of food because I'm underweight. However, both of us are software students and it was important for me to be with someone who I could eventually buy a house with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:38 AM
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I mean the only Chad I've had sex with is my fiance so I guess I can't answer this question 😎😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:35 AM
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What's your stance on independence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:11 PM
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It should be legal because otherwise victims of rape and enslavement have much less chance of being taken seriously by law enforcement. I remember years ago, they rescued children from a trafficking ring, then arrested and charged them with prostitution. This was in Florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:09 PM
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An active bedroom is an important part of relationships so this doesn't surprise me. And if your (your as in someone, anyone but particularly women) libido is low, I think you need to at least enjoy other intimacy like cuddles and kidding. What do you think about those who allow their partner to have sex with them even when theyre not in the mood themselves, but the partner is very much so? I've noticed this topic come up lately and I'm interested in what people think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:26 PM
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This sounds like a pretty harmful mindset to have OP, or you're just dating people who aren't good partners. However you attract what you expect, in many ways. I feel like the sexual aspect of this is something many men become paranoid about, even my fiance worries sometimes, despite the fact I was a virgin when we got together. My fiance and I were best friends before we dated and I never expected him to buy me anything, I still don't. I understand sexual urges and such but for me, my fiance an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:16 PM
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Her user name is literally gimp girl so who is surprised 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:12 PM
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I get there's a huge taboo about receiving anal penetration for guys, it's a few thousand years old at this point. Personally I wouldn't care and I also have no interest in pegging anyone because Im happy being the 'bottom', topping just isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:09 PM
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I'm bi and I honestly couldnt date someone who was at least a little bit bisexual (I know, bi is bi) just because the culture around dating and attitudes can be so different. My fiance and I both want a pretty traditional marriage in some senses, but we also care so much less about how we come across to others in terms of our self expression. I wear 'male' clothing a lot and my fiance has very long hair and is mistaken for a girl sometimes from the back. I know a lot of straight people are intim…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:04 PM
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Check my hygiene because apparently a lot of women think they're entitled to head even if they stink. If all is good, ask why not? Tbh sounds like I'd be breaking up with the dude anyway if he kept talking about his hot ex who he made so much more effort yo satisfy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:57 PM
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Sometimes yes, but honestly I'd still class this bad cop method as a form of communication. It's pretty unlikely to work though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:54 PM
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I'd say because historically women have been very oppressed in many areas especially education and career, so saying "you're so special" is trying to slap a band aid on it. And I agree, imo social media should be 18+, texting is fine. There's no need for the bells and whistles when you're young
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:19 PM
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If you bothered to read my comment I said I'm against telling people they're special because anyone with a brain can look around and realise they're not, but are being held to that standard by the implication that all girls are special
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:24 PM
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Women don't want casual sex as much as men, women prefer long term relationships and saying these standards don't affect women is completely false. The mental health of teenage girls are severely impacted by these standards and the effects will follow them into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:09 PM
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Not wrong it's a fact. If a female celebrity has even the slightest amount of tummy she'll be blasted all over social media and the tabloids
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:06 PM
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Who am I telling what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:05 PM
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Lol yes they have, why are so many women getting nose jobs, butt and tit implants, face lifts, fat grafting and tummy tucks? Just look at the women in media
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:04 PM
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Because men have a higher libido and so will fuck pretty much anyone they just won't marry them or date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:01 PM
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So you're doing the same thing the article mentioned in dismissing it as a low effort job. Women literally worked on cracking the enigma machine and developed chip boards. You're the kind of guy who will dismiss anything women do bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:59 PM
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Women do have worse expectations. men aren't expected to wear make up, get plastic surgery or have perfect skin or hair. Men don't have to be ripped to get into the SMP at all. Uhh society. Have you seen female role models? It's the media that pushes this shit, all of them have had some kind of surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:57 PM
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Nice picture. https://www.computerscience.org/resources/women-in-computer-science/ 'into the 1960s, women made up most of the computing workforce.' https://www.theguardian.com/careers/2017/aug/10/how-the-tech-industry-wrote-women-out-of-history Oh look you're doing exactly what the article talks about 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:47 PM
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Do you think women legitimately wear clown paint? Make up is expensive and not effortless at all, it takes years to get good at it. also women are Also expected to work out, get plastic surgery, have perfect hair, nails and fashion. Most men would rather work out slightly than become John cena level ripped, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:44 PM
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Personally I don't think hating yourself for being overweight is good, but neither is denying the problem. Pro fat blogs remind me of pro anorexia blogs, both are very dangerous and denial of danger is a major symptom of an eating disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:34 PM
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I don't disagree but personally I think the standards for women are far less realistic. Women are expected to get plastic surgery and wear copious amounts of make up, have perfect hair, skin, nails and fashion, also work out and become fit. Men are expected to just work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:25 PM
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They're into that stuff because of marketing. Until the 1970s, women were just as likely as men to be into computers and maths. When gendered marketing to children began, there was a shift in interests. Look a females from the 60s and 70s compared to women now, do the same for men. The difference is much mire drastic in women. Also men rarely buy such magazines in comparison to women,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:19 PM
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Varied yes, but so is mens. But what you sent is not mainstream at all, I have legitimately never met a women in real life who reads magazines about fat positivity. They read stuff like vogue and other glam mags, watch love Island, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:41 PM
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Because the marketing to women is much stricter than marketing to men, especially as teenagers. What kinds of magazines are for teen boys, Minecraft and gaming. For women it's all glamour magazines, social media is mostly about glamour, all the biggest influences focus on 'looksmaxxing' or being 'fabulous'. For males they have video games and jakepaul. Women have far more social pressure in formative years. Women also generally spend far more time on social media sites like Instagram (terrible f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:38 PM
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You're pretty delusional if you think this to be honest, until the 70s the gender split in mathematics was 50/50. Without women we would not have the technology we have today, some of the earliest founders of computing science were female mathematicians. You wouldn't even have the current food system without women, if it wasn't for Temple Grandin, most people would still be eating mostly vegetables (personally I wish this was the case haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:32 PM
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Imagine using a reality TV show as a source 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:30 PM
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Women develop treatments all the time. Women are well represented in biology and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:27 PM
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It's a problem of valuing looks over personality and the well known phenomenon of women (and men) dating people who act like their parents in negative ways . This is why fathers and mothers need to step up, because how you parent a child, male or female, will have a massive impact on who they will be attracted to. If you're neglectful and absent, they will be drawn to neglectful and absent people. Personally due to being somewhat demisexual I've been equally attracted to looks at personality and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:21 PM
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Respecting yourself isn't narcissism. You can say 'women are cheerleaded' all you want, but in my experience this just isn't true. Social media is essentially destroying the self image of men and women, but it's particularly hard on women. If you don't look a certain way, if you don't wear make up, if you don't share certain interests or goals, if you don't look like a photoshoppef goddess for the gram you're going to be socially punished in your teens. The problem with telling women they're spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:18 PM
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So glad my fiance likes hair down there. Shaving bald is a pain in the ass and I don't like feeling like a prepubescent because I've had pubes for at least a decade now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:25 PM
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Yep I was exposed to porn at a young age (8) and ever since ive had more rough tastes because that's what I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:22 PM
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You just made blanket statements so I was just showing that it's more nuanced. (Maybe im too optimistic for wanting nuance in PPD) Also 1.7% of people are asexuals so it's hardly an 'anomaly'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:53 PM
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This has nothing to do with my reply lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:42 PM
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No we're talking about love, if you want to talk about a specific type you have to be clear about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:10 PM
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People are delusional if they think abortion is just about hating babies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:04 AM
2

Media definitely plays a big role. Not only do we have social media that airs out social fuck ups, we have the news that bombards us with all the evils of this earth. Serial killers, rich pedos, famine, war... Its hard not to feel anxious. The news is essentially a fear machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:58 AM
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Social media and news media
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:56 AM
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Nope. Most parents love their children yet do not want to fuck them. Also asexual people can form romantic bonds, known as 'squishes'. I'm semi asexual and I love my fiance even when I have no libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:54 AM
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Confidence isn't just about getting girlfriends, it's about being able to navigate social situations while retaining a positive sense of self. This can help with making friends, getting jobs and general mental wellbeing. I can't say but in my opinion is there has to be some social aspect going awry. Perhaps he has aspergers perhaps he is unlucky (I'm also autistic, I know a ripped dude who is conventionally attractive who seems to really struggle at getting relationships. I think this is because…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:48 AM
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I really can't imagine marrying anyone who wasn't at least my best friend. Dudes who act like him are terrible long term partner choices because its not lust or romance that is gonna carry a marriage through the rough parts, it's partnership and comradery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:39 AM
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Sleeping around definitely damages pair bonding for both sexes imo. When my fiance and I met he was n1 and I was n0. I'm 21 and he's 23
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:37 AM
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I've struggled making friends with women since I was 14 and got badly bullied by a friend and her cousin (and her family) on a holiday. I guess I just lost trust. When I do have a crush on a girl I have a hard time speaking, also I'd have no idea how to do lesbian sex or what my role will be. I feel more comfortable around male crushes, even when I was falling for my fiance I could at least talk to him. Also our roles are way more clear, he's in charge and when kids are involved he's going to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:26 AM
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agree. It should be normal to split unless you're in a serious relationship and insists on paying the full bill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:23 AM
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Yeah from personal experience, being that nice friendly person who buys who ever your dating stuff all the time is just risking being abused for financial gain or free snacks, it doesn't mean they'll love you more it just means they'll see you as a vending machine. It can happen in non romantic or sexual situations. Even my twin did this a few months ago, I offered to use a free pizza coupon for her so we could all hang out and eat pizza and then as soon as she ate the pizza she asked if I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:19 AM
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I've never expected a dude to pay for any date. In the past I was actually more inclined to buy things for them if they needed it, my first boyfriend was really poor so I would buy him food and snacks a lot, i'd even pay for his electricity. It's foolish to give people you aren't in a serious relationship money. Of course that ex and I didn't last. I kept N0 because my ex never showed me he was really serious about a future. I met my fiance and he was very different, although he'd accept splitti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:10 AM
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Settling is a recipe for disaster in an LTR or marriage. Enthusiastic all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:29 AM
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Lol what a reach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:07 PM
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Sex is extremely overrated. People act like it's the ultimate source of pleasure, but for me at least, no way. MDMA feels ten times better than sex, so much so it's kind of scary so I don't take it very often at all. Every few years maybe. As for butt stuff, totally depends on ones anatomy, some women prefer it to PIV. I was pretty much asexual until I turned 17/18, then something changed and I had a massive urge to lose my V card as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:06 PM
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Hey at least she just had sex and lost nothing out the deal No, you've lost trust. It feels horrible to be fooled in a sexual situation. This is especially worse when it's one of your first sexual encounters, people underestimate the damage this does to women's self esteem and ability to trust a man enough to seek long term relationships. No one likes being vulnerable with someone only to be tricked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:53 PM
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Ah damn guess my fiance isn't my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:45 PM
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It's pretty damn obvious when someone is wearing make up lol also not off limits to males. What are heeled shoes in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:44 PM
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No man with an ulterior motive will marry a woman to use her for sex. Oh I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:37 PM
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Why does she need to sustain a similar lifestyle? I don't think kids should be put through having to lose their childhood home and move to a completely different area and likely school. If the husband suddenly became unemployed due to illness and couldn't pay the bills or mortgage and she ran out of savings, whoops, now you're poor and have tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. And yes the latter is definitely a possibility but this would probably come across to him prior to marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:55 AM
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Unfortunately part of being a woman or indeed sadly a girl in this world is having to encounter predatory males who will lie about intentions or much worse in order to have sex. There is really no guaranteed way to avoid this, even if she is 100% chaste and vets others, it wont prevent a possible encounter. I know what I was like as a teenager, i was very careful and I still ended up in a bad situation. The one thing you can do is encourage her to make valuable friendships with males, preferably…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:28 AM
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In YOUR scenario it is not Except that's wrong. Nope, never met a woman who has had an issue with a dude who is honest about his intentions in regards to sex (as in he is not looking to commit and states that explicitly), what we don't like is weaselly guys who will lie to get in our pants, because that's just predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:03 AM
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Possibly, but even high earners can divorce rape a fellow high earner. I think another big issue would be if the high earning partner became chronically ill, how would a wife with no intellectual background or no career experience be able to sustain a similar lifestyle in his stead?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:00 AM
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But did they marry women who had not career to speak of before they got married? The best SAMH route for a non-religious woman is definitely to aim for a high paying career, make some bank, get married, get a nice house and then be a SAMH. Without this I think financial issues would be a big problem, there are cases where a husband may find himself suddenly unemployed and partners need to have the ability to work if one cannot, I met my fiance in software class, we both want the same lifestyle a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:54 AM
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I'm a software developer/ ethical hacking student and I want to be a SAMH. Often women who become SAMHs either married a guy in a similar middle class career OR are religious and married within a church circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:49 AM
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If sex access is purely based on a commitment that is fake then I'd say yes that's what is happening. It's not rape but it's still gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:44 AM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:43 AM
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According to who? Yes it is implied often explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:42 AM
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Also had this experience with n=0 (now n=1) In my experience the more successful dudes will be much more honest with their intentions, which i was fine with. It's much less painful to fuck a dude who only wants sex but is still your friend than a dude who will lie about being friends just to get fucked. In the end I went with neither option but only because it seemed really hard to vet the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:27 AM
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Agree it also completely ignores said persons own desires, and ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:24 AM
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No, less attractive men want sex but they will just lie about their intentions. I've almost never heard a dude upset because he can't find 'the one', i've only heard this line from fellow autistic folk. 9 times out of 10 he's upset because he can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:21 AM
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Pay for it then instead of lying to unsuspecting women looking for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:18 AM
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Yep, this line of thinking is like telling men "Just date older women".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:18 AM
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Keep them off social media in their early teens. No ipad parenting, TV is ok but should probably be DVDs/ videotapes so they don't get bombarded by advertising. Encourage them to read books, consider home schooling, have them focus on things like art and music and sports for recreation instead of alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:15 AM
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They think hot, over 6 ft, well muscled men with manners that love their mom but also have a rough side and make well over 6 figures a year are common; Honestly never met a woman who thinks this lmao. The best you could do is marry a software developer and go to the gym together, both get ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:13 AM
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Wrong you could sleep with women e.g older ladies but you don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:09 AM
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The dude literally met her dad LOL it honestly just sounds like you don't think men have any accountability for their deceit toward women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:07 AM
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We pay the price for their mistakes with Chads/Alphas. No, you pay the price for Chads deceitful ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:06 AM
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There are dudes who will go as far as meeting your parents to get sex and will then bail once they've got it lmao. This 'Your fault, you didn't vet' is complete bullshit. Evidently people DO vet but people will also play games and lie to appear as though they're committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:04 AM
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Lying is though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:00 AM
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Dark triad checklist: Machiavellianism: Check
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:59 AM
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If it's based on deceit then it's the lowest form of consensual sex and is definitely predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:57 AM
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Any age he is a terrible long term partner because that relationship would last 7 years max and there's no chance of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:55 AM
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People look (Unless they're demisexual) but I think looking is different from actively seeking a sexual relationship with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:53 AM
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Yes but even hot women might not have hot men competing for them beyond sex tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:50 AM
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Only dude who has ever been good at touching the puss with his hands was a trans guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:44 PM
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Probably gonna get shit for this but my main thing is height, if a dude is smaller me then I just cannot be attracted to him. Same height is ok but I prefer dudes who are taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:42 PM
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I haven't had a close friend who isn't a dude since I was 14 (i'm now 21) so absolutely nothing. With guys it totally depends on who he is, I don't really like to go too into detail because it can give them ideas and make it seems like I want to fuck them where as women won't assume such things. I hope to be friends with some fellow women again one day but I absolutely could not deal with the shit that went on in highschool so I just gave up lol. I had talked with a trans guy about stuff b4 but …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:37 PM
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The man will literally not date anyone older than 25, he is an awful choice for a long-term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:31 PM
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The average woman in my experience isn't having that much male competition. It seems to be sort of this delusion many men have, however the kinds of dudes who have this mindset also seem to view average women as ugly so their whole scale is completely wrong. They might have offers for meaningless sex but dudes will literally fuck watermelons so it really means nothing Yes, in terms of wanting to sleep with. None of these were serious propositions about dating though so I wasn't interested. As fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:27 PM
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Legit furthest I could go in theory would be FWB and he'd have to look at least a decade younger than 60. The idea of being in a LTR someone that far into their lifespan just raises too many ethical and practical issues as someone who is 21. Males peak in their 30s IMO, sometimes 20s or 40s. I know a dude in his 60s who was hitting on me for a while and it just creeped me out cuz the guy had known me since I was a minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:09 PM
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Not a thing for you bruh there's tons of couples who love each other and wouldn't trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:02 PM
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Which is a good thing IMO because people shouldn't be getting married over cultural pressures
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:51 AM
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Absolutely agree. Too many people are looking for fairy-tale relationships with someone perfect, this goes for men and women. I'll always remember what a dude named Gary (Sort of like a mentor to me), 32 at the time, told me when I was 16, he said something like: "Cabbage, relationships aren't about sex, that's a bonus. A relationship is about being a team, supporting each other, taking on life's struggles together; you two against the world." I see in a lot of peers my age (21) that they just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:20 AM
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they wanted men to drink more soy Really don't get this line people keep pulling. Do people honestly believe that soy with phytoestrogens (Plant hormones, minimally bio-available in humans) is worse than literal bovine titty juice filled with actual estrogen? Are we gonna cancel beer next too? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:05 AM
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Even more so in this age where the average exposure to porn starts at like 8 years old. Porn addiction is definitely a problem but there's scales to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:03 AM
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Controversial opinion, but I don't see the inherent issue in a dude watching porn. My fiance watches porn sometimes, I also watch porn. The only line I draw is shit like only fans, premium snap chats or other subscriptions to specific people. I'm also chill with celebrity crushes, because humans aren't actually that monogamous so if you're gonna try a monogamous relationship it's important to allow the mind some freedom. edit: And of course a very hard no to more degenerate porn like guro, lolic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:55 AM
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Depends on the context. If it's IRL romantic first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:10 AM
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The real question right here folks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:51 PM
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As long as he doesn't have a cone head, I don't care. And even then, there's solutions to having a bad head shape e.g surgery. I've had crushes on bald guys before (Looking at you, highschool computing teacher, also looking at you Rob Halford!) it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:54 AM
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Personally I've never been into feminine dudes in the physical sense. Personality wise I don't mind. Even when I was a young teenager, I didn't care about pretty looking guys. Think long haired, rough, sweaty guys, sometimes with beards, or not. They were and still are what I like. Uhhh, I even like the smell of mosh pits. (/・з・)／ though this is definitely at odds with my hetero female peers who tended to like guys like Gerard Way, the Janoskians, one direction etc. I'm probably a gay man in a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:46 AM
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I have but the guy seemed to have structural deformities and maybe hormone issues too. He wasn't hideous though. True ugliness of appearance is mostly caused by deformities but some people will find some worse than others. Even in people with deformities I can find good physical traits so I don't think I've ever met anyone who is totally ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:37 AM
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None of these guys are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:33 AM
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A majority of times is not practically always lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:23 PM
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Even without that condoms fail 1-3% of the time. That's not insignificant at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:22 AM
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It's not biased it's just facts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:12 PM
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OK not everyone does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:11 PM
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And your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:47 PM
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No considering it doesn't work 1 in 100 times, that without removal and depending on how well its applied that goes up to 3 in 100. OK but seems women are expected to put up with these trials because men clearly do not think they have as much responsibility to have contraceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:45 PM
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No, its not. Guys will literally take them off mid sex. They also won't participate in non condom contraceptive trials
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:22 PM
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Depends on the country
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:00 AM
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They hate him because they're not chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:59 AM
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Stops seeing them once they ask about being exclusive, I mean who goes and meets other people's parents unless you're going for an LTR eventually😂 That's next level stuff right there LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:55 AM
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You mean the 0.1% of women attractive enough to achieve that? Not everyone is a supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:21 AM
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Why would anyone do that? Oh, my sweet summer child
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:18 AM
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Not sexy, just shows a lack of moral fiber. Only sexy to those who can't see what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:16 AM
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Yet these guys will say it's the females fault for giving in , and will not take responsibility for helping erode the Moral Foundation of society. Pretty much this. It's a very Machiavellian way of thinking, essentially that it's OK to deceive those who can be deceived. It's just a very poor foundation of ethics and morality. Unfortunately seems like all the blame is being placed on women for being unable to spot the lies rather than the males who chose deception. I see it a lot from being in ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:14 AM
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Incels: Ew a woman with high n count *chad being an unhinged slut for the puss Incels: He is a god
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:04 AM
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Except they don't considering women look back on such relationships and cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:02 AM
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What a Machiavellian thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:00 AM
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Yeah every single girl I know is now living it up in a $2 million apartment... What reality do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:58 AM
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us men know we’re not entitled to sex Unfortunately I don't think this is the case considering the amount of incels who feel they are being robbed of their 13 year old virgin girl harems. Yes, it's a minority, but even beyond incels there are large conservative male populations across the planet who still believe in arranged marriage and justified rape. Also, much like university you can technically pay your way in to sex. When men complain they can't get sex, they usually are completely ignorin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:55 AM
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they practically always work Nope, it's a 1 in 100 chance of pregnancy in most contraceptives. The only outlier is the IUD, but even then pregnancy can happen, and when it does it can be life threatening. Also many men refuse to wear condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:42 AM
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i'm in college. I think the house mate thing is only true for the people to move out to a city to attend, where as everyone I know at the local college lives with parents or has state housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:38 AM
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I'd say get better friends if possible. Friends who ditch other friends at parties to chase girls when they understand the other is lonely, IMO, is a dick move. I had some great times at a friends house parties when I was younger, there wasn't really any chasing going on and we'd just get drunk and have nerf gun fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:38 AM
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If I wasn't engaged I would totally be up for dating a single Dad. I was a youth worker in my teens and have dealt with some amazing kids and some with behavioral issues, it's not a problem to me and I don't like any kids any less because they're not my own. IMO being around kids is good for mental health because it's a constant reminder to enjoy life and enjoy the moment. Kids aren't living in the same mental space as adults, it would be an honor to help give a kid a good childhood because I pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:33 AM
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Good idea because if someone has 0 parental instinct toward kids that aint biologically your kid, DON'T get involved. When I was 12-17 my mom dated an absolute bastard of a man who hated my guts just for existing. It absolutely ruined my teenage years and idk if I'll ever get over how my mom allowed, condoned and took part in that behavior. Was such a damn shame as prior to this she was dating a dude who was like a second father to me and she dumped him because she got bored :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:24 AM
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Tbh I wouldn't mind it, but I used to be a youth-worker so i'd probably just think of it like that but then ofc over time you become more protective. I mean I've met kids who I still wonder how they're getting along and I hope they're having a nice childhood. Issue can be that a lot of bio-moms are dicks to step-moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:17 AM
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women can get whatever they want sexually, when they want it No. Hook-ups don't guarantee a woman will get the sex she wants or what she wants sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:14 AM
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Because casual sex kind of sucks tbh. I can understand FWB situations but hook-ups just aren't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:11 AM
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If you're my age it's pretty much the norm that people will be living with parents. Living with a mom only becomes an issue sometimes because some dudes mothers are kind of crazy and overbearing. They basically treat their adult son like an innocent child and you are the paedophile trying to snatch them away lmao. Thankfully my fiances Mom is very chill and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:09 AM
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This is a good point. Some people just don't like clubs, there are some 80s clubs that my friends like a bit more, there's a heavy metal night some friends like too. But a regular club? No thanks. There definitely needs to be more alternatives, a gaming bar sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:06 AM
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Never understood why people will decide to trust a dude (male or female) enough to go home with him after one night of meeting. So risky, I know both men and women who when drunk suddenly assume that whatever they do to someone is consensual even if its not. I also know that people drunk enough get amnesia and that could be bad and lead to false assumptions if you wake up next to some random.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:04 AM
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how often do you have people confident enough to just laugh at you to your face? People are dicks, and even worse when drinking. I've also had people laugh at me for my appearance (being masculine.) It's mostly women who do that, had some men do it too. Those people aren't worth any of your time, absolutely none. If anything I thank them mentally for outing themselves as people I'd never be friends with lol. Remember people doing this says a LOT more about them than it does about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:01 AM
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Bars are stupid anyway. It's fun if you're with friends and just focusing on that but if you're trying to hook-up it's pretty unlikely to work and if it does it's very risky since being drunk can blur the lines of consent in some people, both men and women. I've never hooked up with anyone at a bar, if i'm looking for a partner I'll try to make friends first and then see who I like and approach them about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:57 AM
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Never puked from drinking. Idk how people let themselves get that fucked up, you've basically poisoned yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:50 AM
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Maybe during the last few thousand years but even prior they still would have had to contribute to the tribe beyond fucking all the females or they'd be viewed as a sexual parasite lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:40 PM
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Have you ever heard of a thing called low n count or virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:05 PM
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They would have to care so many thousands of years ago, humans lived in close knit tribes. One would not get away with impregnating so many women and then vanishing from the picture. These laws are often a good thing because it protects women from predatory men like yourself who see women as conquests to impregnate and then run.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:03 PM
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No one said humans are 100 percent monogamous. And I do not think this would even back up a highly promiscuous lifestyle. Do you think someone in a tribe would have gotten away with having sex with 300 women? No way. Also you give absolutely no credit to females considering male genes are not inherently dominant or advantageous to the species simply by being male genes. You cannot say human evolution solely a result of this behaviour especially considering the historical context of promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:02 PM
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That can happen. But at the same time one should never be friends with someone solely based on the possibility they might end up dating you. It's asking for pain and is a common mistake anyone who finds themselves being friend-zoned places themselves in, often unwittingly at first. I can only understand this error from teenagers, an adult has to be honest with their own feelings. Before my fiance and I got together, he was in a relationship. I was still friends with him despite my feelings (I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:44 AM
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If someone has a high n-count and is honest about it, it is certainly less of an issue than if they lie about it or choose to be deceptive about how many girls they are trying to seduce. 3 months is what i've heard from some people, personally when I met my fiance and we started dating, I didn't wait that long. But I guess the context of that is we had been close friends for at least 3 months by that point. My fiance did not have a high n count though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:33 AM
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No one is forcing men to lie about their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:29 AM
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I have an outsized body count and I've kept a journal that contains a short chronicle of most of the encounters that I've had in my life. Roosh V vibes LOL Seriously though, high body counts seem to increase the likely-hood of cheating in relationships. Someone who is interested in a committed relationship will see this as a sign that one cannot control their sexual impulses or work on a long-term relationship. It's basically a sign of immaturity and a big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:25 AM
2

These reasons are why I always advocate that people only seek relationships with those they have developed a genuine friendship with first tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:19 AM
2

I’m told I’ll never find a man, that it’s manipulative, that I’m withholding sex, that I’m an entitled princess/delusional/arrogant and bring nothing to the table, that I’ll only attract desperate losers, that I HAVE to do my due and sleep with a man simply to keep his attention long enough to be considered ONE of his options. Gaslighting from them. This roughly translates to "Your only value is sex, have sex with me or you'll be alone forever." I’m not a nun It is kinda sad how some guys will s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:17 AM
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They should be held to higher standards but here's the thing, people lie. I've caught guys red handed lying about how many girls they're talking to/interested in. Both friends and people who were approaching me. The only way to know truly is to make them wait and prove their commitment or to have someone who knows the person very personally let you know how they really behave, and even the second method relies on the assumption that said person will be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:08 AM
1

Lots of men aren't screwed by this. They can lie about intentions and then move on to another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:05 AM
2

A lot of the time it's mutual (for attraction) Except the woman is usually interested in a serious manner, and the male is lying about their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:03 AM
1

All hookup culture did was ruin trust , make everything a game and incentivize lying to get what you want from the other side. Definitely noticed this. Before I lost v-card to my fiance, I had numerous guys showing interest. One dude in particular was someone i'd been in a class with a year prior, he acted very kind. He played the role of a good friend, then we ended up hanging out and he tried some stuff (Didn't have any PIV). Once that was done, I asked if he wanted to date (Kind of thought he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:02 AM
2

Not sure what the situation was entirely with yourself but the same kind of thing happened in my first relationship, except it was out of my hands for the most part due to a medical issue (Contraceptive injection gone wrong causing basically a period that lasted for months on end.) and incompatibility (He was too big down there and didn't know how to make it easier. Also he always spent his money on weed so he never had hot water in his flat, I didn't want to have sex without access to a shower …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:53 AM
1

This is a ridiculous claim considering contraceptive was only just coming into regular usage. You could maybe argue other forms of sexual activity occurred but certainly not penetrative sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:43 AM
1

I didn't say they couldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:38 AM
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Depends on the person and strain, definitely couldn't be done with small kids around unless it was edibles and breastfeeding was done
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:46 AM
2

You can dislike chores tbh, no one really likes doing chores (well, I kind of like mopping tbh its fun sometimes, but im autistic so maybe I just like watching it spin on the bucket thing). I think wanting to be a homemaker is about wanting to create a nice home environment and/or garden
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:37 PM
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My fiance and I both want kids. I'm 21, he's 23. Issues is, can we afford and house kids? Only time will tell. We should be able to have at least 1 but ideally I want 3 and that means I have to start ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:57 PM
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21 here. I want kids but I can't have as many as I really want because housing prices are extortionate, there's just no way my fiance and I can have anymore than two kids on a single income. What teenager would want to share a bedroom with their sibling? Honestly only way we can have the number of kids I want (3+) is if we can build a house or if my fiance becomes very proficient at investing or gets a high paid senior position in his career, which may not even happen whilst i'm still at child b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:54 PM
2

Can't say I've ever wanted to do that to my fiance, seems pretty horrible but I guess since he's my first sexual partner I've probably pair bonded to him quite strongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:45 PM
1

Thanks. I'm 21 but I was 20 when I lost my V card to my fiance. Quite late for a female. It was definitely worth it, and i'm not a traditional person in the old fashioned sense by any means. Although, I can't say i'm 100% comparable to the standard population because i'm autistic, and I don't think the hook-up culture was ever safe for me because I can't read intentions like normal people can. My fiance (back then he was a close friend who I had a crush on) was aware of this and thankfully steer…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:43 PM
2

I say get good and do both lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:26 PM
5

No if you're a stay at home wife all the chores are your duty unless there young kids involved, in which case a bit of help is reasonable but not 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:26 PM
5

I think having a degree first is important, that's what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:24 PM
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Definitely depends on the country. I can go to college and if I become a SAHW or SAHM I won't have to pay back anything since I'd earn under the income threshold. The only reason I'm even going to college is so if shit hits the fan I at least have a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:23 PM
1

I think you're right about the ncounts. Personally I decided to wait to have sex, because I wanted it to be with someone I saw myself having a future with, which is my current fiance. I don't really have any desire to sleep with or be with anyone else in my life, that feeling has only increased. Also, I find that it's better for sex since I can trust him a lot more than some random guy who can just lie about their intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:21 PM
2

It doesn't really make sense to want a man to offer the privilege of being able to stay at home, to then go an sleep around. At the end of the day you either want to work as a team to achieve a common goal, or you want to be a leech.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:11 PM
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If two kids are in school then there's no way she's being worked to the bone, just sounds like a good division of labour. When small children who aren't in school are involved ofc helping out a bit is more reasonable but it's funny how the males in the family aren't pressuring her to work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:06 PM
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I'm planning to be a stay at home wife, that basically the job. Do the domestic stuff. If someone stays at home and does nothing then they're just being a mooch. The only exception I can think of is when small kids are involved, at that point yes the husband will have to help out a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:04 PM
2

What about if they smoked weed yet still did all the traditional role?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:02 PM
2

That's what I thought too seems like he's ashamed he is a man
/r/MensRights29/05/21 09:09 AM
1

What money does someone get from a false allegation? At least in my country suing isn't common at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:27 AM
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It's definitely genuine considering they're lying to girls about how many others they're talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:51 PM
1

In my country splitting the bill is totally normal. Also doesn't it depend on the woman? And depend on the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:51 PM
1

Yes so why is the blame on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:35 PM
1

Sounds like a green beard moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:43 PM
2

Never really got the whole don't need a man thing, men have such superior strength that in a dangerous situation I'm sure they'd want a man. Plus the idea of being protected is just nice, it's good to know someone has your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:41 PM
1

Men don't like to marry women who earn higher than their own income.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:35 PM
4

I feel like it did help me vet my fiance who would sit there laughing in a bemused way and then later we'd joke about how stupid the conversation was. Of course my fiance isn't a "lad" type, I'd describe him as a charming and mysterious anime fan 😎👑
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:29 PM
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I guess it's lucky for me, I've had these guys try come onto me with the same bs they use to get girls on tindr. I just think "I know what you're actually like though?" lol. Definitely off putting, looks are not everything if your personality stinks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:17 PM
1

Hey now, even autistic people can read the room, sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:10 PM
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Is this stuff really that common? I was assaulted when I was younger and that was pretty clear case (he admitted I wasn't willing and didn't want it to happen over text). I just can't imagine lying about something so traumatic, what's the point? I'm not saying it doesn't happen I'm just wondering what the motive would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:08 PM
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As someone who has been through an assault, I just don't understand how the line could be that blurred unless you were absolutely shit faced drunk or too terrified to talk. Generally if you want something to stop, it's a good idea to express that. It's always a good idea to tell someone you're not interested. And if they don't listen? Well that's a pretty clear case. Dude who attacked me was found guilty because he admitted i wasn't willing over text. I still think proof of non consent is a bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:04 PM
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Paranoid thoughts bud. Also your scenario doesn't work too well, you'd have to have the husband and a perfect man not another version of the husband lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:50 PM
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Demisexuals typically don't want a relationship to break down because it's pretty much the basis of their feelings. I'd say it's within a Demisexuals nature to retain attraction as long as the relationship isn't down the sink in a severe way. Saying this as a Demisexual myself. Im genuinely not interested in being with anyone but my fiance, I have 0 romantic attraction to anyone else and being sexual with someone for me pretty much hinges on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:46 PM
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One thing I've noticed an an honorary member of 'the boys' is that some dudes will do a complete 180 on their attitudes toward women when with the boys, and when talking to a girl. It'll go from "She's ugly", "her sisters hotter", "I wanna fuck them both", and talk of how they're chatting up multiple women to suddenly being a faithful, monogamous, respectful certified fan of women who isn't talking to anyone else right now. Lol. Of course not all dudes are like this though, just the "lad" types.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:36 PM
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The issue is that you can meet someone, be friends with them and have them seem nice but behind the scenes they could be a terrible partner. People wear masks, social masks, that distort their true nature. You are much more likely to see the mask skip in a relationship than you are just being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:28 PM
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The guys who complain about this list are the same guys who will bemoan that women keep chosing 'bad men'. I found the list pretty reasonable, personally as someone with mental health issues in more willing to accept some defecits in certain qualities so long as they're not absences or major problems, because my partners have to do the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:20 PM
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Honestly just sounds like he's got some internalised transphobia going on which expresses itself as misandry.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 08:37 AM
3

Disgusting pedo should be in jail.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 08:34 AM
3

I was sexually assaulted as a 16 year-old. I did miss red flags but I've forgiven myself because: I'm autistic and can't read facial expressions like most people can, this means people can lie to me and trick me very easily and I wont pick up on things others may pick up on. I was unaware I was autistic at the time, I was diagnosed years later in the fall out from this. He did everything he could to lure me into a false sense of security, in the long term and short term. We didn't just meet, we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:44 AM
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Alright here's my experience, this is geared towards women like me who are more masculine in traits and appearance. I can't speak for feminine women because I simply am not one: Stay within your lane. If you're a tomboy like me, you're much more likely to get approached seriously by someone who likes tomboys. The whole "You have to be feminine to attract a partner" is false, you'll likely have chances with all kinds of guys but only true tomboy fans will be serious about a LTR. Don't be standoff…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:58 PM
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Not sure why you would date someone you consider ugly. 'Conventionally unattractive' sure, but would hope you still had attraction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:51 AM
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If you're not a photogenic group your best bet is probably making friends and trying within your circle. That's how I met my fiance, in my college friend group. I never take pictures of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:48 AM
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It absolutely does, children become soldiers, women produce children. It doesn't have to be soldiers doing it either, most of the time it's bombing of civilian areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:46 AM
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Your post specifically mentioned it being a way to save their kids lives. At the end of the day killing women and kids also supports the war effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:13 AM
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How does someone sleeping with another person to save their kids do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:55 PM
1

Your partner earning more does not necessitate that they are spending more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:30 PM
1

A lot of it seems to be hormonal (oxytocin plays a huge role for mothers), and yes I'm sure those traits would make an impact, but one could say people like that do have a nurturing instinct already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:26 PM
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I still believe financial independence doesn't vanish because "your partner earns more". Its totally dependent on if you're reliant on their income or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:17 PM
0

According to who? I've earned more than partners before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:15 PM
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That's not my bar bruh my partner earns the same as me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:12 PM
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If you keep setting the bar low eventually that will just be the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:45 PM
1

Except supplements aren't strictly necessary at all to live. It's a choice to give hand outs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:17 PM
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They're still financially independent of they have a full time job, so called 'supplements' are not dependencies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:14 PM
0

Couldn't you say exactly the same about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:09 PM
2

I'm not talking about statistics I'm talking about the comment you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:56 PM
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57.4% of women in the US are in full time employment, so yes that means they earn enough to be independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:55 PM
1

That's awesome congratulations to you both. My fiance and I are both in our early 20s so couples like you both give me hope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:40 AM
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Toleration is key to a good marriage. Can't expect everything to be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:15 AM
2

Is this Leonardo DiCaprio's secret alt account?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:13 AM
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This is sort of my mindset about getting engaged young. I'm 21, he's 23. We're both broke students but marriage is supposed to be about growing together, no one knows what the future holds. If a marriages success is completely dependent on good finances then I doubt it would last, and I doubt it would instill much trust to show interest only when things are going well financially. Personally i've always wanted the kind of relationship my grandparents had, best buds 4 lyfe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:12 AM
1

If people cannot handle their partner growing old and wrinkly then marriage isn't a good idea. It's just part of life i'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:08 AM
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This is a big benefit or marrying young (Or at least getting engaged). It shows you don't care about immediate finances or circumstances (Thus displaying commitment and non-transactional love) and allows you to pair bond more easily imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:06 AM
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Depends. I'm 21 and engaged, my fiance doesn't have a career. Neither do I. When you marry someone, you shouldn't do it with the expectation that finances will always be good, because that's the downfall of many marriages. Maybe one day he will lose his legs, maybe one day I will lose my legs. My fiance is the kind of guy i'd want to marry. Also i think there's benefits to having one sexual partner, though i'm autistic so maybe that has an influence (Perhaps the oxytocin is important)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:51 AM
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The vast majority of women these days are working. So this is kind of false
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:38 AM
1

Takes two to tango
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:23 AM
1

This seems to be in the context of transactional sex, which i'd say makes it an agreeable statement since neither of those things are virtues. Sex with a genuine partner shouldn't be transactional, if it is, then there's something wrong. My fiance doesn't have to buy me anything to have sex, I wouldn't expect him to. Shouldn't date someone that is so unappealing you require material goods to justify sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:13 AM
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It is much better to be a single parent than drag a child through the mud of a dysfunctional relationship. One parent who isn't in conflict is better than two who are in conflict. I do not think women should be shamed for being single mothers, in many cases it is more responsible than the alternative, which is a poor marriage or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:10 AM
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it's not the woman's choice if a partner stays. Many people break up after the birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:07 AM
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There wasn't an implication that the women has to do all the parenting. Key word being "help".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:59 AM
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Expecting someone to make you a good partner is accepting defeat. Significant positive changes in behaviour are primarily self-driven, the best one can do is help to bring out positive traits that already exist in some form. My father was naturally good with kids regardless of how his relationship was going, it's an instinct some people have, others do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:53 AM
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Being a housewife is simply unaffordable these days. In the past it was possible to sustain a family from one working class income, those days are over, both partners have to work if on a working class income. It is now a privilege to have the opportunity to be a housewife/homemaker. Most fathers do not want their daughters to be at the mercy of a sexual partner, which is what happens to people who are naive or too submissive. Women will simply do better for themselves in life if they have an ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:47 AM
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People in plane crashes have quite literally cannibalized each other to survive. In a survival situation, normal morals no longer apply. I would argue that unless such a thing was strictly to save a life, either their own or their family, it wouldn't be a survival situation and thus could be judged as an immoral act. Otherwise, it is simply neutral. Is it really virtuous to be so proud as to miss the chance to save your life and the life of your children, by refusing coerced sex with an enemy? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:36 AM
1

I wish people would stop treating "Ugly" women like a masturbatory device. It's not a pity fuck, it's sexual predation and if anything just lowers the chances for genuine dudes who would like a proper relationship since being used for a fuck (Often people will be dishonest about their intentions and sweet talk their way into bed and then ghost the girl) will obviously make someone much more distrustful of approachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:54 AM
1

Most of the hate for looks I've gotten in my life has been from my twin sister. But as a tween most the hate I got was from older boys who would say shit like "are you a boy or a girl?" in a fake intrigued tone. I was a tomboy and my mum did a really pathetic job at keeping my hair washed or getting me clothes that were in any way stylish. It caused me a lot of self esteem issues, still does, but as I got older (16+) I realised even if they won't admit it, some dudes did want to have sex with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:57 AM
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I had something similar happen with a guy. Seemed super interested but as soon as dating came up he ghosted me! That hurts, it comes off as so fake especially when the bs about how much they care. I vowed after that I would not get into hookups, I saved my V card for my current fiance. We both like being in a committed relationship, we both want the same lifestyle too. Also, I had a crush on him which helped. I feel like some people go through this cycle of rejection and then end up doing the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:45 AM
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Dont cheat, its cowardly. If you don't like someone anymore or can't deal with the terms of the relationship, be decent and break up. Also if you can't find someone to relate to you might need to look further afield. So if my kid is a weeb, they should look in weeb circles. Other than that, my husband will handle the rest of advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:31 AM
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Maybe it's true in modern dating and hookups, some women genuinely will not have sex with a man until he spends a good amount on her, because they may view this as him showing his worth. However, in most relationships between folks I know don't really work like this. An equally poor student in my area has nothing more to offer financially than oneself, relationships are based on friendship and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:27 AM
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“You’re so lazy.” Ok, they say that, but this is what you do. I do everything in the home, the house is always spotless, and I actually really enjoy it. and they say: “It‘s not fair for your husband to have to bring in all of the monetary value.” How much would it cost for you or your husband to hire someone to be a live-in cleaner and cook? Your work does have value. Your husband is happy with the arrangement, you're happy with the arrangement. Understand that a lot of women our age and above h…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/21 12:09 AM
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I really like psychedelic indie, lo fi and heavy metal. I can't listen to pop! The lyrics are too sexual (Although judas priest can be a bit sexual but only certain songs and it's mostly euphemisms.)
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 04:14 PM
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I don't agree with everything others are saying (I think getting engaged is fine, just don't tie the knot anytime soon.), but going to college is very important in case things don't work out, you'll need skills, you'll need a higher education, you'll need to be able to earn your bread. I'm 21 and engaged, my fiance and I are both in college and I plan on graduating and working for a few years before having any kids or getting married (will be at least 25)
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 04:09 PM
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I feel like this is only the case if college is being missed. That would be a mistake. I'm engaged, 21, fully plan on finishing college and I'm not having any kids until I'm at least 25. Engagements and marriages are in no way the same, an engagement is just showing you're committed to getting married in the future. That can change, engagements can be called off.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 04:05 PM
1

I've only had minor experience with hook ups, no full sex. I honestly prefer being with my fiance, the sex just keeps improving and I feel very comfortable being naked and doing things with him. After sex I feel even more bonded. With a stranger there's a lot of unknowns and a lack of trust, I'm autistic and struggle with reading people and their intentions so I'm certainly easy to fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 07:42 AM
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For me, as an autist, I know of three types of empathy. Cognitive empathy - the ability to understand how someone feels, and what they may be thinking Affective empathy - sharing the feelings of another. Compassionate empathy - being spontaneously moved into helping the other person if required or able. For me this most commonly occurs when I find a bug that has been half squashed and must be mercy killed. Or if someone is in distress and needs some comfort. Autistics generally struggle with cog…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 07:29 AM
1

Having a kid with downs syndrome definitely is not the worst tbh, There are conditions much more brutal and traumatic to both lives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 06:54 AM
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I think the first example is a bit odd, or could be taken that way. But generally I'm ok with it as long as it's not suspicious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 06:49 AM
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It's absolutely not a problem for me as long as someone is willing to let go (as in, not have that half donut like hair around their skull). Saying that, I'm sure there are some who could rock the skullet look. My mom seems to really like bald dudes. One of the most attractive teachers (imo) in my high school years was a dude with a bald head, he was in his mid to late 20s I believe. Saying this, I'm a female and I've suffered from stress hair loss and understand how stressful hair loss can be, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 06:33 AM
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Lots of reasons, you may get lucky and meet a man who is a sexual expert, you may meet someone you form a genuine bond with, you might be lonely, you might want to gain experience etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 06:26 AM
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