Jazzisa Archive

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3	I am only attracted to the top 10% (looks-wise) guys, while being rather average-looking myself, Is there any way to work around it? Sometimes men can become more attractive when you get to know them better. Maybe try dating all kinds of men, and going on a couple of dates. I've met guys who didn't seem attractive on a picture, but I fell in love after getting to know them through activities and finding a lot of their character traits attractive. I find my hubby very attractive, but I love him so much, I'd still be attracted to him if he gained 50 lbs.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/12/20 06:35 PM
1	my boyfriend wants to start a family with me and live our lives together, but not marry me Tbh, I kind of get this idea, and I've seen it before in other men. Look how marriage is often perceived. Look how many jokes there are about 'haha, now you're married, the sex will stop' or 'the old ball & chain'. He seems to think that marriage will suddenly change your dynamics, because of his parents and a lot of media. How many sitcom married couples are there with the stupid husband and the nagging wife, where both seem to resent each other? A lot of ppl here seem to suggest pressuring him…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/12/20 06:30 PM
1	I was raised to be an RPW and it was not a good road to travel. I think genuine friendship should be something to work towards. Not wanting a relationship (right now, or ever) is fine, but not having anyone to confide in could end up being very difficult. you talked about moving in with an aunt, right? Do you at least have family or someone to talk to?	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/19 07:22 PM
3	Relapsed and spiraling out of control LOL no it's just one group of people who like a specific thing. I always want to invest the same as my SO. It should be equal. Not literally (for example, he'll cook for me, I take him out to diner). I always think about little things to make him happy, like buying his favourite scotch when he comes over, leaving him little notes. I even knitted a pillow with his favourite comic character on it. Took me forever to do that, it was a complicated pattern. And yes, I also do my best to look good for…	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/19 10:00 PM
1	Thoughts on Hypergamy and Keeping a relationship steady? When someone is dating someone - and this goes for literally EVERYONE (except like, arranged marrages) - your subconsciously adding and subtracting points. For example: Ohh, he knows how to cook! ++ Ohh, he still has contact with his ex -- . So yeah, in the end, you do want the 'best' person. Like, the ++ have to outweigh the --. But what makes someone a better person is entirely subjective. I don't like guys who have a lot of money, for example, because I don't like it when someone pays for me …	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/19 09:52 PM
1	I like this girl but... Well, you know, teasing someone doesn't mean you're an asshole. If you think all women like assholes. I'm dating a guy who teases me all the time, and I tease him too. But he also compliments me, and his actions are very caring and sweet. But if it's just light teasing, there's nothing wrong with that kind of humor, as long as it's not really mean. Also, when dating, I kind of follow this advice: be yourself, but be the best version of yourself. You don't have to pretend to be someone you're not…	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/19 09:35 PM
2	I was not programmed for this You might hate yourself for it right now, but it's a moment you'll remember later, a moment of growth and change. Now you know this, and you won't let it happen the next time.	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/19 09:31 PM
2	As an ex red pill woman, I still feel like I’m unworthy, slowly becoming infertile on the basis I’m still not married with kids (24F) You have inherent worth. Your worth has nothing to do with you being fertile. You're still super young, you don't have anything to worry about untill you're like, 35. Also, you're still worthy. I'm 29, and I'm dating a guy who is 25. So there are plenty of guys that will still want you, you're super young. But your worth is not based on guys wanting you. What else can you do? DO you have a job? What are you good at? What do you love to do? Who do you love in your life? I'm glad you're trying to …	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/19 09:28 PM
6	I was raised to be an RPW and it was not a good road to travel. Wow, I have to say, I'm very impressed by your story. It must have taken a tremendous amount of strenght to get out of that mindset. Not a lot of people can be at peace while being single, a lot of people stay dependent and stay in bad relationships, just because they can't be alone. To be raised like that and still find peace in solitude is indeed impressive.	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/19 08:55 PM