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Basically yes, although does not have to move. Or more broadly some who (also) dates cross-culturally, often interracially too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:19 AM
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How do I manipulate my partner with her Phd and associate professor position at a top 100 university? Get a grip. International dating has always happened, and women have always complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:17 AM
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This seems to be a "you" problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:10 PM
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So you are talking rubbish. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:09 PM
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Expectations are different for an outsider. They are not as strict, and everyone knows that when it is an intercultural couple, both will have to learn and adapt. Never faced any prejudice. In the abstract some Western women get upset, but in reality never actually cares that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:59 PM
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"Femcel" is a bit of a misnormer because it is very inacurrate as OP describes. But bitter women in their 30s and beyond that hate men because they were promised Prince Charming, and have not achieved it is not uncommen. Everybody knows someone like it. In fact I would argue that it might be more common than "Incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:52 PM
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It is not a problem to wait, it is a problem to wait because you are pretending to be more either more virtues then you are or you are trying to manipulate the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:58 PM
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Considering how uneducated the average police officer is in the USA you can't make any judgement about anything. Except that somebody had to pee, and did so. That anyone can be arrested for peeing and labelled a sex offender just proves that the USA is extremely backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:06 PM
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I am not arguing against yor point. I am broading the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:00 PM
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You truly are a backwards people. You think somebody having to pee behind a tree is similar to someone molesting a child. You are mentally F*** UP!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:54 PM
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Being a legit sex offender and happen to need to pee in public after a night out are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:46 PM
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Peeing in public? Oh, I forget how f***ing weird Americans are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:27 PM
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Maybe? What is your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:23 PM
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Can you repost with paragraphs? The above is borderline unreadable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:22 PM
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Ugly people are not pairing off?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:19 PM
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China is funny in that regard because of the differences betweeen the genders and which social strata they will date. Women date similar or higher, while men will prefer to date lower. This means that: A Men pairs with B Women B Men pairs with C Women C Men pairs with D Women And the leftovers are the poor or undereducated D Men and the well-educated and fairly wealthy A Women. The issue with "loser men" we know in the west, but that the well-educated and fairly wealthy women becomes "left over …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:18 PM
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Yes, men should set healthy boundaries. And most of all quickly get away from those that can't respect boundaries. Luckily, I think most get better at this with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:26 PM
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I didn't say you did. I was just sharing my opinion on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:22 PM
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Only a fool gets married for romance. For tax benefits, for the children, or for a green card for very good reasons. Marriage was a practical arrangement, don't forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:19 PM
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Already met her, and she says so every day. Doesn't mean I can't improve. Rarely exercises, and would rather go hiking alone or read a book then go out for cafés, diners etc. Neither are downsides in my present relationship, but if I were different I would properly have had an easier time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:13 PM
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Sure, he did alright in his 20s, but has largely given up in his 30s. The difference is his life circumstances, he isn't living in the same place and among peers (except his rather big friend group, but they are all men of a similar age). This is my best example, but most I can think of (men and women) is more to do with external forces then anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:08 PM
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Nobody should date down. Everyone has some attributes they require (or wish) in a partner for the couple to be compatible. This is fine. Especially if it isn't shallow attributes, but more to do with personality, values, background, goals etc. And nothing sad, bad or mad about being single either. The idea that everyone should fit into this romantic ideal is not very helpful. Some will always be single, some for short while, others for many years, and some will never be in a relationship. Nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:56 PM
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I disagree. Bumble is a good concept. Having women take the initiative and not having to write a bunch of messages in hopes of getting noticed is a relief. And if the women writes "hi" it is paradoxically a good thing, because you know you can safely ignore her as she is not invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:49 PM
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I would rather it was possible to sort by education level, religion, political beliefs, have children, want children, and similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:45 PM
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People (and men in particular) usually have online dating backwards. They think that since they get few matches, they should for more matches. In other words that they a quantity problem and a barrier of entry problem. When in actuality the problem is quality. Men need to filter more and better, so the ones left are the quality fish that would actually be a good match. You only need to get lucky once. Having a bunch of bad or mediocre matches are not an advantage (except for an ego boost).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:43 PM
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Semi-long list, maybe not easy, but not unreasonable. Seen much worse. More common with website dating where many women will directly post their laundry list. Only two I wouldn't meet: - Will play FFXIV with me (because I don't know what it is). - Engage with family (depends on how much, because I am quite busy)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:00 PM
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Big claims. No evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:55 PM
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So you are saying most men are: Resentful, illoyal, not emotionally supportive, bad communicators and boring. It is obviously not true. Maybe in your dating pool, but this nonsense is not representative of anything. No, my standards are high. Already told you. And you don't attract quality without being quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:52 PM
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My standards are higher than the list above. No doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:38 PM
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Because it doesn't happen. If it happens to you, then YOU are the common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:36 PM
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Maybe 90 % of the men in your dating pool. Because this is not a list that seems unreasonable. Everyone of my friends would pass with flying colors, so would all my coworkers, and all my siblings. You could properly summarize it as: Being a mature adult with average social skills willing to make an effort to make a relationship work. Plus not being a financial liability and reasonably attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:35 PM
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Most of these are just being a functional adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:25 PM
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The response to this post has clearly shown that many women indeed are very entitled. Not the women that work full time and want to roughly share household chores, but the women that doesn't work or work part time, yet still refuse to contribute by actually helping out in the household. This is entitlement. Taking but not giving. Men should raise their standards and leave behind these princesses that neither want to work or take on a fair amount of housework in other to contribute to the househo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:23 PM
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Baseless accusations. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:18 PM
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Properly most on the things are reasonable enough, but the combination of 15-20 items (or more!) is a lot. You have a laundry list?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:56 PM
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Ah...just can't relate. I am lightning fast, while my s.o. takes her time. Just a difference in temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:55 PM
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No, quite easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:10 PM
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Agreed. It is about time and effort, but about outcome as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:08 PM
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Or a woman could do her fair share of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:06 PM
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Seems only fairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:05 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:56 PM
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They do!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:55 PM
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lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:53 PM
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Could be, don't know. Although I really can't blame women for having a landry list (maybe a little), because I also have my criteria and they are more than she must be fit, friendly and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:24 PM
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Women have properly always been attracted to the same thing, but more of them finding it realistic and reasonable to achieve it seems like a new phenomonon. I am not just thinking about something like height and income level, but also the laundry liste of requirements that some women seem to have. But I am not decrying the development as such. Women can do whatever they want. Their choice. Although some of them properly could use a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:19 AM
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You are rambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:57 AM
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It was your choice to dogpile on one gender, not mine. You could just have wrote your assertion in a more balanced way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:37 AM
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I don't know where you are seeing these hoards of bad fathers. Some men are bad fathers, some women are bad mothers. And plenty of women having children as "fun little milestones".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:56 AM
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This seems like you are making some sexist assmption about men. This isn't the 1950s. But also a difference in how men and women approach child rearing. Both approaches are essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:24 AM
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With money, fame or high social status you get over the "quantity" hurdle, but it does not ensure quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:19 AM
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That is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:53 AM
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It goes both ways. A man should not work 40+ hours a week, and come home to having to split the housework equally. Man: 40+ hours work + 10 hours housework = 50+ hours Woman: 0 hours work + 10 hours housework = 10 hours Hardly fair, right? Such entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:38 AM
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It is outrageous to not bring home an income. Get a job. Then you can split housework fifty/fifty. You have two options: a) Both work roughly equal amount of hours, and split housework fifty/fifty. b) Work part time or not at all, and do the majority of the housework. Make a choice, and take responsbility for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:37 AM
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Yeah, people need to take responsbility for their choices. They picked them. And the same for women, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:32 AM
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a) If both works full time, then they should roughly split domestic work equally. b) If one works part time (or not at all) it is fair that they do a larger part of the domestic work. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:17 AM
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A boarder or roommate pay their share.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:13 AM
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Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:04 PM
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If you chase a hoe, you get a hoe, and she will remain a hoe. People don't fundamentally change just because they are in a relationship. Don't choose someone that dresses in a way you would not like if they were in a relationhip with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:03 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:48 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:10 PM
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Can't speak for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:50 PM
1

Take a moment to look at the population size of anywhere in the Western World (outside the US, because it has high immigration) and look at how the population size has evolved. Look at the year 1800, 1850, 1900, 1950, 2000. It has doubled several times over. You can get the wrong impression of the overall trend then you are focusing on such a short time period. Not even a lifespan? Maybe a few generations. Look at it through a wider lense. There is no need to panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:49 PM
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Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:41 PM
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There is clearly something about physical attraction that is not a choice, i.e. a gay man can't choose to be straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:38 PM
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Or is that just what you want it to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:33 PM
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All the data is complex and have to viewed within its own context. But you can take the American Census Statistics (those are public) and look at the data from year to year. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:31 PM
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I have not looked into it, so can't help you out. But I think at least this is where TRP is getting it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:12 PM
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Oh okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:44 PM
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Depends on your time line.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:44 PM
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So you are are dating to get a free meal. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:41 PM
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Yes, not as uncommon as people think. And if they could not support themselves they remained with their parents. Spinster used to be a compliment. It was a women that was financially independent, and did not need to marry. Usually very sought after, because they were not a "burden" on their (maybe) future husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:40 PM
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What a weird ramble. It is too much effort for you to take time out of your day if you don't get a meal? Seriously? Why are you talking about fat girls? Have you had a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:34 PM
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I just find it shocking that women actually are lining up to date imprisoned serial killers. It is a absurd world where some like that can more easily get dates then Kenny from IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:10 PM
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Did she decline? Or did you get a cup of coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:00 PM
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What is wrong with a cup of coffee or a walk in the park? It is about getting to know each other, not about getting a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:59 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:51 PM
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There is evidence about children doing worse if they grow up without a father. More likely to end up in crime, poverty, commit suicide etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:49 PM
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"The real nice guy , super sweet, thoughtful, considerate, but often too boring or soft for women to be aroused by". Have you forgotten what text you were responding to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:37 PM
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Not looking up a bible verse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:35 PM
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Well, people also get children while being single or they become single after they have children. Jumping to conclusions is premature. It always fluctate, and the 1950s were an extreme period because of the post WW2 babyboom and new middle class. People need to calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:34 PM
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Most of these women would have children before they hit mid 30's. The higher number in England is representative of the notably older average marriage age in Northern vs Southern Europe Kowaleski, Maryanne (1999). "Singlewomen in Medieval and Early Modern Europe: The Demographic Perspective". Singlewomen in the European Past, 1250–1800. Philadelphia: University of Pennsylvania Press. pp. 41–65, 127. ISBN) 0812234642. Read it. No need to speculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:19 PM
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You can argue the numbers if you like. But it isn't particularly important what the exact number is because it fluctuate and varies form place to place. This is why I added three examples. The point is that there always were a minority that were single, it was not 0 %. This has to be taken into account before anyone starts to panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:12 PM
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My post? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:06 PM
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A common complaint from women is that men are boring, and men say that women are hysterical. So I reject your rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:38 PM
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Yes, higher. Who said otherwise? I am just making everyone aware that the baseline isn't that everyone was in a relationship historically. About the records: In the USA about 39% of the population were unmarried in 1900. The 1950s were an anomaly with its very few singles. In England in 1377, about one-third of adult women were single women.In Florence city of Italy, in 1427, about one-fifth of adult women were single. If we look at a very long time scale (the genetic record) only 40 % of men fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:26 PM
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Yeah, I thought the same. But apparently the trend has turned. You should look better at the graph, not really going down is it? It just has a pandemic dip at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:25 PM
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Yes don't spend money on a woman. Absolutely no need to do it. It also filters away the shallow ones, which is good. Men need to be more selective, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:22 PM
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Bless your heart. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:35 PM
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Honestly not trying to be rude, but could this confusion perhaps be related to the latter part of your handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:19 PM
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Peace of mind. It is underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:14 PM
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It all depends on what happens in the future. If you have a lot of rural Turks arriving that continue to make a load of children then yes. But it is well-established that the birth rate drops to a replacement level when a population becomes urban (exceptions exist).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:12 PM
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It is difficult to draw any conclusions. Birth rates go up and down all the time, and very dependent on the size of the generations before. Furthermore the countries that are having a steep decrease are usually the ones that a high birth rate before, so maybe they are just naturally adjusting. At least that is my impression from a cursory glimpse at Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:10 PM
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If this trend was soly due to women becoming more financially independent, then we would except the trend to be more pronoucned in the feminist countries (for a lack of a better world). But if we look at Scandinavia the amount of marriages is going up. The amount of single-dwellings is also going up, but this is due to marriages happening later in life, so people spend more time living alone before they marry. In Scandinavia it is the default to live alone if you are single. Co-habitations exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:46 PM
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If people (men or women) want to be single for a shorter or longer period of time, or even forever, it is their choice. Historically about 20-30 % of people in history never settled and formed families, so this isn't anything new as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:04 PM
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And men don't want to date women that look like burn victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:25 AM
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Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:52 AM
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Yes, if you want children, pay for it yourself. Why should anyone else pay extra taxes for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:01 AM
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That does not sound like a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:54 AM
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Marriage makes little sense for anyone involved in many cases, people just do it because it is a life goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:49 AM
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Women are robots with tits, didn't you know? It is just some redpill nonsense he picked up about womens love to a man being conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:46 AM
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Yeah, it is not very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:35 AM
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How common is it really that men don't want women to work? Sure, it happens. But choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:34 AM
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Agreed. The tax-funded child support is insanity. Working people paying extra taxes for somebody elses child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:28 AM
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Exact same reasons, I am not interested in a stay-at-home-wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:15 AM
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Depends on the woman. But for most good women, yes, that sort of behaviour is not very attractive. Only caveat is political correctness as that can mean so many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:12 AM
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Never experienced women really being particularly dishonest on dating apps, so don't need the service. And the few deal breakers that has been exposed, I have gotten the info on quite quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:07 AM
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Jesus. Those people need to get off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:06 PM
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And you have to remember that you will be asked to adapt to their culture, learn the language, customs etc. More so if you abroad, but every intercultural relationship will require some adjustments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:52 PM
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This sounds like a YOU problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:50 PM
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Well that shouldn't be too difficult. Most of the world is more religious then the Western World. Maybe more an issue finding someone from the same denomination.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:46 PM
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Difference between men wanting variety and men would cheat if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:15 PM
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I have never experienced being shamed for wanting a classy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:01 PM
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Most men would cheat if they could? That is some crazy assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:57 PM
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Rape-aplogist!? Please. Nothing she wrote even hintes at it. Absolute nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:55 PM
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Don't even need christianity and conservatism to retain monogamy. I live in a atheistic, progressive country in Northern Europe, and no way monogamy is on its way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:53 PM
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A valid point. Men need to learn to be more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:09 PM
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The free love movement of the 60s did not last and neither would this (if it ever became somewhat widespread). It is simply against human nature. But it does exist now under the label of open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:05 PM
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Yes, agree. Just a quick side remark. After a date you can't really slide into a friendship because it would be awkward. Although I have been on dates with someone where we were not a good match romantically, but could properly have become good friends if we had met under different circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:40 PM
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Reading this I feel like there is missing some context, because I don't see what you are getting at. Yes, women like men they are attracted to, and since they are attractive, women are attracted to them in general. And they want to be in exclusive relationships with men. What is the big revealation here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:34 PM
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Dating apps are fine (but with downsides). They are not any worse than people hooking up when they are partying. Perhaps even favorable because partying usually involves alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:28 PM
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Time to close some women shelters and women only-gyms then. That would be silly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:14 PM
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Maybe matchmaking should have a renassaince. At least it seems like arranged marriages at least as happy as un-arranged marriages (although the studies are inconclusive). I am not advocating for arranged marriages, but maybe something could be gleaned from their high success rate (only 4 % end i divorce).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:16 PM
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At least that is more important spaces. Adults can usually manage their own affairs, so less worried about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:12 PM
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I am not trying to avoid women. Women are great, men are great. I would rather that Boy Scouts could still be a place for boys, that there is a bigger focus on mens shelters, and that the hysteria (as evidenced very clearly in this thread) takes a rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:33 PM
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Look at the legislation. No, most places won't allow it. Although some places allow women only spaces, but even those are not legal everywhere. The culture has simply drifted so far that it is labeled as gender discrimination. And this is properly step to far as it is healthy for both sexes to have spaces of their own. Now Boys Scouts can not be for boys. Girls must be included.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:24 PM
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Exactly. Oh if you asking for equality and it being for both men and women being alone in certain places, this must mean they are just lonely losers. It is desperate tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:08 PM
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No. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:07 PM
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I just want equality. That men and women can be exclusive if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:04 PM
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No you just not understanding a simple distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:01 PM
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Okay, maybe? Don't where is the evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:32 PM
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Where is anyone attacking women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:16 PM
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You can't be this slow. I refuse to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:09 PM
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I don't see anyone blaming women for anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:57 PM
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Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:55 PM
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Throwing out an insult is not making an argument. But it made me check your profile. Others should as well, just to see where you are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:51 PM
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And as you point out 6 feet is more than 180 cm! Yes, so strange. I am 181 cm but perfectly average in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:24 PM
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Yes!? Did I say anything different? Except that it is healthy for men to hang out with me noccasionally (and exclusively for a short period). What are you not getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:21 PM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:14 PM
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I do. You are missing the point. Male only spaces have disappeared. This is a change, and any change has an impact, and in this case, this impact might not be exclusively good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:54 PM
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You do know there is a difference between male spaces and places with the majority being males? And yes, men like spending time why women. I never said otherwise. Quite the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:51 PM
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I think you are missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:48 PM
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Yes, men should firstly look for the spaces that might already exist. I don't anybody is saying otherwise. This is a fair point. Although these are usually very technical or nerdy, but sure. But male exclusive places? Where are they? Not really prevalent are they? Why not? Is there no benefit of male exclusive places? Why is that not a good thing, when female exclusive places are praised?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:48 PM
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Okay, you are clearly not engaging with issue. Let's just end it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:36 PM
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Sure, but it is very from the norm. No reason to wonder why, they are an abnormality. You can still find male dominated places, but wasn't really the question, was it? Half the members are women in my local brewery association, but that is sort of besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:22 PM
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Not in my neighborhood. Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:13 PM
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Listing places that happen to predominately male are not the same as exclusive male spaces. If you don't think there is a need for male spaces that a fair, just better you explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:12 PM
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I would honestly rather you make a decent argument then write up a hypothetical, as you really don't engage with OPs argument in a meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:00 PM
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Why is my above comment getting down-voted? If you disagree, then please engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:52 PM
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Men used to have a lot of places that were essentially male spaces, but most have disappeared. In and of itself this is fine. I personally don't want a male dominated work space or go to a barbershop. But that there can exist spaces where men can just shut the door and be men without any women present is valuable. It is simply different without women (as much as I otherwise like being around them). Furthermore I think that nobody can help out a man in the same way as another man. Men deal with c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:46 PM
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Why is this comment being down-voted? Honestly confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:33 PM
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I would also have expected 30s for women, but apparently women in their 30s also get a lot of attention from childess men in the 40s wanting to settle down. Women in the 50s is past menopause, so maybe something to do with it. And maybe a lot of divorcees etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:32 PM
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A recent study published in the journal "Sciences advances" looked at 200,000 online dating profiles and found that men's sexual desirability peaks at 50, while for women it peaks at 18 and goes down from there. Maybe they believe it from reading stuff like above. But if we look closer it actually doesn't say anything about when men are most attractive, just when women are most willing to date them. Women tend to prefer men that are a few years older then them. This is well-established, but wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:45 PM
0

Exactly. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:23 PM
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I do not know. So many countries in the Western World, and all are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:32 PM
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Depending on the laws of course. The USA is quite different in that regard from the rest of the Western world. This is propelry also why the Mens right movement and those kind of groups have a footing in the USA but barely anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:43 PM
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Yes. It is when they are made to choose that they go for a nice round number even if the difference between 175 and 180 cm is exactly irrelevant to them. I have a coworker that used to write his height as 180 cm despite being 178 cm. Apparently he had previously been matched and rejected for being to short in messages, but that stopped after he rounded up the figure. People are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:42 PM
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What I find amusing is that the cutoff point for height is arbitrary. It is commonly 6 feet (freedom units) and 180 cm in the rest of the Western world. Can you notice the difference between somebody that is 179 or 181 cm? No. 6 feet and 180 cm are just nice round numbers so they became the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:14 PM
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A very valid reason. It benefits you both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:09 PM
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Makes sense. He properly knows what he is talking about. And I know some get married because it ensures inheritance to the spouse and kids (or at least makes the proces less convoluted).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:09 PM
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Not really. If it did you would have something to add, and not downvote in a hissyfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:51 AM
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You don't have to marry to be an a commited relationship. So lets split the wine, and get a dog instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:33 AM
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You are confusing the numbers a bit. It is 60 % of men that did not reproduce (or precisely their genetic line died out), while the number for women is only 20 %. At least this is what the genetic evidence is hinting at. But your direct ancestors reproduced 100 % of the time, otherwise you would not exist. Historically speaking it was not unsual for between 20-35 % of the adult population (men and women) to be single. So relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:31 AM
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It has nothing to do with love or women being "evil". OP is a bit overly dramatic, but so is this reponse. The institution of marriage is simply not beneficial for men (and women) in many situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:17 AM
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My hot take is that people should (only) get married for practical reasons. This is why marriage exists in the first. So if the tax code or other legislation makes it benefical then go ahead. Just be cool-headed about it. Consider it a business arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:38 AM
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I appreciate you nuancing the debate. However, you seem to emphasize the prevalance of these men (at least on the dating scene). I am less certain that is true. One ceveat. I understand that everyone men and women can have bad experiences. But maybe you are repeating your mistakes. - How do you keep attracting these men? What is appealing to them in particular about you? How are you dressing and presenting yourself? - Why are you using dating apps where men message you first and not Bumble or si…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:02 AM
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Personally never understood the appeal of toned muscles on a woman or having fitness as a hobby. Besides some basic exercise for health reasons (which you easily get outside of a gym) I don't see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:07 PM
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Yes. The relationship ends. Not putting up with any nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:23 PM
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I have an idea. Men are not getting matches, and women are on the other hand overwhelmed. Let's reduce and simplify. And let's make sure people actually focus on other things than looks (at least initially). First phase. The algorithm picks out five bios for you to read. No photos. You can match with a maximum of three. Second phase. You get to text with the people you matched with. Third phase. You can exchange photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:12 PM
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Stop dating. This a solution, but I am not promising it is the solution. But plenty of people still met each other through school, work, family friends etc. Not as many as before, granted, but online dating and hook up culture is not everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:03 PM
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Very true. The population on every app is different, and varies by locality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:08 PM
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Men have traveled more than woman historically. Men have gone out and found women, and the women have followed the men back to their town or country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:57 AM
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Yes, OP is describing a fantasy date, not a real person. She has never been on a date even remotely resembling it. It like the introduction to a bad romance novel. "He treats waiting staff with respect but commands attention and respect back just by the way he is, with firm eye contact. His is tall and strong, but not like the boys from school. No, he was different. His white shirt slightly stuck to his chest revealing his musclar physique underneath." Maybe I made up the last part, but it is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:31 AM
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Expat is just what American and British work migrants call themselves because they see themselves as different (and better) than other migrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:15 AM
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Men have always dated women from further away, then woman have dated men. And whenever a man found a woman from another neighborhood, town, country, or part of the world, there were always women upset by the fact. This is why we are seeing consensual relationships between two adults described as sexual predators and victims. This is a conflation of normal behaviour with sex tourism trying to shame men while simultanously infantalizing women. Most women that are open to relationships with men fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:12 AM
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Men also have a quality problem. This isn't exclusive to women, it is just vastly overshadowed for most men by the quantity problem. Doesn't mean it doesn't exist. If you have no issue with quantity or quality you are propery less likely to use a dating app. And some people don't use social media. And dating apps are social media on steroids. And others view dating apps as being for casual sex and steer clear. While others like the validation of being on a dating app. So I think that there are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:06 PM
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This illustrates one of several issues with dating apps. Another issue is the quality of the matches, and this can be both good and bad. Good in that you actually don't need more than one good match if that match is perfect for both. Its in that case a done deal. Congrats. Bad in that the users of dating apps properly are not representive of the population in general, so that the most desperate or shallow people frequent those services more often lowering the overall quality of the dating pool. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:48 PM
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My guess that women likes verbal affirmation more than men in general. Men also wants affirmation and to feel appreciated, but perhaps the love language of most men is less verbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:34 PM
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Bit off-topic but very true (maybe make a new post about it?) I have always been the best cook in any relationship I have been in. And some have been truly hopeless in a kitchen. Amazing they are considered adults when they can barely boil an egg, On the plus side is that as a man you can impress a date with your cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:42 PM
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I get the critique of your description as a cariacature, because you are not describing personality or values. You are describing some idealized experience, as seen from the outside. All surface, and no substance. Basically a Disney prince. He has no distinguishing characteristics. A cariacture with zero depth that exists as a idealized trophe for the princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:28 PM
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Yeah, if anything these men are just filtering out the women that would not be a good match for them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:09 PM
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Anything by Disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:59 PM
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The woman in the article is using an app called CougarLife. She is having sex with young(-er) men. This is true, but it doesn't really prove anything. Except that woman can always get laid. I don't think anyone is questioning that assumption. I also don't get where you are getting the "life long commited relationship" from. It isn't in the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:06 PM
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Only issue is that is not what the article says. OP must had misread it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:02 PM
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Never understood this. If Stacy goes for Steve rather than Average Andrew or Nice Nick this shows something less flattering about her character. She is at least somewhat superficial and perhaps any drawn to some of the toxic personality traits of Steve. Stacy has just snitched on herself, and shown her colors. And actually less desirable to a decent man. So good riddance. Andrew and Nick saved a headache having to discover this first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:32 PM
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Where is the misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:13 PM
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Yes but is it a cute or sexy taco?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:39 AM
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The exact same can be said about finding a job. It it true to a certain extent, but it is also true that sometimes there are not enough jobs, or if the jobs exist you are not deemed qualified for them, or the jobs are not where you live, or there might be bias against how you look. But if you are chronically unemployed, then it is time for serious self-reflection. But a dry spell? Could be all kinds of reason, not all of them within your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:34 AM
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Generally speaking, women are waiting til after they have their first steady job to settle down, and this can be easily be later in life. So yes, it a common pattern of countries where women are getting more educated. But Japan must be understood in its own context because if education level was the only paramter then Canada, Russia, Israel and Finland should statistically have a lower birth rate as the women are better educated in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:28 AM
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This seems more like a semantic debate more than anything else. It is like debating if a hotdog is sandwich. People don't have a problem distinguishing the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:48 AM
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Alright. Looked into it. The articles all reference the same person, Dolan, and his selfhelp book. And he used data from the American Time Use Survey for reach his conclusion. So far, so good. His credentials are also good. However, Gray Kimbrough, an economist at American University’s School of Public Affairs looked at the survey and has said in a Vox article that Dolan has fundamentally misunderstood the survey. Dolan has agreed to having misunderstood the survey, but still sticks to his concl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:53 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Found the first one quickly, but dismissed it has it didn't really use any hard data, but was an opinion piece. Will check out the rest later. Edit: Can't see the next post i made anymore. But it is based on a selfhelp book where the author used a survey, but later had to admit after some critique that he had misunderstood what the survey said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:07 AM
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I checked her history for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:12 AM
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who are single and childless being the happiest demographic You have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:09 AM
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You attract what you put out there. If you are only seeing garbage, then that is a you problem. Not a description of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:56 AM
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Depends on severity. Plenty of men on the lighter end of the spectrum do just fine. They are usually driven and competent in their field (often engineers). The issue is the generally unsuccesful men with a non-existing or lackluster career, a bunch of equally socially inept friends from his high school days, and very little personal growth. They will strike out - also with neurodivergent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:39 PM
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Echo chambers surely can radicalize end create a world view that would otherwise be unsustainable. With that I agree. And I never (or very rarely) hear about a crisis of masculinity otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:02 PM
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The crisis of masculinity seems to exist almost exclusively on social media. Otherwise the role of men are slowly evolving, but at a slower pace than women. Is there really a crisis? Or is it just social media highlighting some extremes and treating them as they are representative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:06 PM
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It depends more on what kinds of standards/criteria rather then anything else. Some a naturally on a spectrum (attractiveness, money), while others are fixed (ethnicity, religion, nationality). And then there are habits and hobbies that exists somewhere in between (smokes, exercises, reads books, plays video games).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:37 PM
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This is a half-truth. If women truly en masse wanted a different dating scene they would not choose the apps they do. Bumble is an good example of an app that hinders unsolicited approaches from men, but apps like it is not what most women want. Most woman want the attention. And the combination of attention seeking and being gatekeepers is the rotten foundation from where modern dating has grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:18 PM
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Yes, can't see what the issue would be. As long as she don't overdo make-up, nails, fake hair and all that trashy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:50 PM
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Okay? I can look up statistics for where I live, but it is not a very productive conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:33 PM
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No? Ehm, not sure I understand what you are trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:51 PM
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Oh, by more than 60 %. Just looked it up, only 10,4 % have a master degree or above where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:48 PM
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I have no idea what you are talking about, plenty of countries with lots of people with blonde hair and/or blue eyes. So common that it isn't something unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:32 PM
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I know several people doing the same. If they have a nice family with plenty of room, and they are located conveniently in relation to work, some choose to stay or move back in. In most of the world it is the norm to stay home until you are married and have purchased a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:52 AM
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"I met a man at a casino" is the same as "I met this girl at a strip club". If you want casual sex with a stranger and be a gamblers sidepiece that is your pregorative, but there is no future here for a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:43 AM
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I am sure Man B would easily be able to attract someone, but most women would stear clear. You are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:36 AM
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If men are educated they also want an educated partner in general. And women are the same. I am well educated, and I remember matching almost exclusively with college educated people, and in particular with those with master degrees and Phds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:49 AM
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Depends on where you live in the world. Here it maybe 50 percent, so not something that gives them bonus points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:43 AM
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This "average" women is not that rare, except for the combination of blonde and blue-eyed virgin. And the submissive, no woman is submissive. Otherwise quite achieveable to find women that are attractive, no tattoos/piercings, from good families, have good friends, and feminine. Can't findd them in your home town? Then look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:39 AM
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Women A. Men like loyality, affection and peace of mind. Women B is a toxic sugar mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:17 AM
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What is this obsession with the first kiss? It is very high school. When I kiss a girl, I have already sealed the deal. I know that she likes me and I know she wants me to kiss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:55 PM
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Yes, marriage benefits women. Otherwise most would not enter into such an arrangement. Hopefully for love, but also because it a LTR provides emotional, physical and financial stability. If you live alone or two together the amount of housework actually doesn't change that much. Still the same floor that needs sweeping, and dinner to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:49 PM
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Never been there myself, but I do know it happens. A coworker was on a date with a girl, everything was fine, but then she either ghosted him or something (can't remember the details). A month later she started writing him again asking for another date. The other guy haven't lived up to her expectations and now she was trying her choice number two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:36 PM
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1) Sometimes people think they are ready to date, but they aren't. 2) Sometimes the spark just isn't there. The ghosting is immature. 3) And yes, it can take a few dates to figure out if there is potential. I don't see anything unusual or unreasonable in the dates above. They just did not end up with a relationship. Very few dates do. And yes women are often vague, flaky and indecisive, and this is annoying to be on the receiving end of, but nothing I would take personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:48 PM
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Yes, but a different point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:25 PM
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Yes, at least to an extent. Men (and women) should first focus on themselves. And maybe they will attract a partner or maybe they won't. But for men to running their head into a wall is not good for their mental health. Rather focus on career, health, hobbies, and family. At which point a man will also better know his worth and have a natural confidence to set healthy boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:16 PM
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In relationship to their own looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:09 PM
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Ever had height as a preference? Or less imporant to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:08 PM
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Sexual attention doesn't = romantic retention. Correct. Men are a success if they can GET a partner, women are a success if they can KEEP a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:05 PM
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If you lined up 10 men that knew each other, and asked them to rate themselves and each other you would get a very similar result. Men (and women) knows their place. We are a social animal. You could ask it about attractiveness, popularity, physical strength, or intelligence. People know the answer, otherwise social dynamics would break down all the time, but they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:00 PM
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If I was a woman I would properly think the same. You need more in life than just attention from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:55 PM
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Explains why you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:25 PM
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Men normally want women that behave and look feminine. And the opposite is women that behave or look manly. I don't know why you are so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:08 AM
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Well it also means someone how looks and acts feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:41 AM
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People (women) get married to the wedding not the marriage itself. Happens all the time, and then the women (usually) ends the marriage after 3-7 years. At least this is a statistically very like outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:12 AM
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The issue with Marriage 2.0 is that people approach it like they approached modern dating. It is shopping, ghosting and jumping ship at the slightest sign of effort required. Making the endevour rather meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:08 AM
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The vast majority of men are just attracted to feminine women. It is really this simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:37 AM
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I would go with option B. Having a fulfilling career is better. You earned, and you have it for life (at least in this scenario). It is like asking the question what is better: peaking in high school or peaking at middle age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:31 AM
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Working class humor. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:26 AM
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Replace "mentally" with "more emotional", and yes it is basically correct. One caveat is that although fame, exceptional looks and women can attract women, it is not a good foundation for a relationship because all those can/will fade, and the relationship is not very genuine. Getting golddiggers is easy, just have gold, and they come flocking. But a genuine, longterm relationship with a healthy foundation? It is hard for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:23 AM
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My response it a bit tounge in cheek. Women are pickier for sure and also willing to end relationships on grounds most men would rarely do, like unemployment or health issues. Men tend to stay with a women doing those difficult times, while women are more likely to see it as a hint to look for an upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:10 AM
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Yes, just porn for women. And in a different media. You are a little pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:03 AM
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Not the data I get when I Google it. But that is really not the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:01 AM
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Erotica is porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:22 PM
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No, only 17 % of Californians like that amount or higher. You are rejecting over five out of six men on this alone. Why should this hypothetical man should be interested in you in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:19 PM
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I find it hard to take women's opinion on relationships/marriage seriously, as they file for 70 % of all divorces. Must to get away from those horrid men, right? Except the divorce rate for lesbians are four times higher than for gay men. The common denominator is women. They are not very good at those stable relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:06 PM
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Yeah...I am also confused
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:28 PM
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That you are looking for someone to make you feel safe, physically, emotionally, and financially. A man that has good health and size, is emotionally stable, and got his finances in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:17 PM
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Almost all dating advice is very general, because to give specifics you have to know your date very well. But it is also very boring: be confident, dress nice, take chances, listen to her. The rest of "dating advice" are made by grifters. It is nonsense sold to (usually) men. Buy this magic bean, and the girls will like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:10 PM
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"Women should regard men with a mix of gratitude and rational fear" (Camille Paglia). You should be vigilant of anyone that can hurt you. Men are too. We know not to upset the ones that are willing and capable of using violence against us. We use common sense. But the number of people that would ever attack anyone is extremely low, but never zero. And the number of men that you help you is very high. But I digress. As a man it has barely impacted me. Had a coworker once that hated men, and thus …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:10 AM
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Yes, if you are not attracted to them. There are plenty of women that I could never dream of having any kind of romantic or sexual relationship with. Such a friendship can be fine, but properly not too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:21 PM
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They are less fixated on height here in Denmark, but it still a thing. Most women prefer 4 inches difference or more. Meaning that it is usually not a big issue as the height difference between men and women are slightly higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:11 PM
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Do you people really go on dates without having an idea who is paying? Also I have never really spent any significant amount of money on dates. The women I have dated have always found it reasonable to pay for themselves. Honestly, never been an issue. But I guess I prefer the independent women, so maybe the money-grabbers have been filtered out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:02 PM
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Common sense really, although I know some might give women far too many chances, because they are hoping there might be a future. I know that I have made that mistake in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:55 PM
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Depends if their goal is to settle down, or just date around and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:50 PM
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Quantity is not everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:49 PM
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Yes, at least to a certain extent. People are in a different place in their lives in their 20s vs 30s. In your 20s you might show potential, but in your 30s you show results. You are a safer bet for longterm stability in your 30s, and this most women are dating with intention at that age. Also paradoxically the smaller dating market makes it easier to navigate. Women have largely shown their colors at this point, and either gotten married, gone into full career mode, or done very little with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:44 PM
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Tell that to my girlfriend with her doctorate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:31 PM
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The premise is wrong. Most foreign women that ends up dating western men are not the tradional, marginalized or poor. It is the better educated, urbanites that speak several languages that date outside the own culture. The traditional stay traditional. So what is the ethical issue again?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:27 PM
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There is some inherent racism popping up with those women. And always obviously nonsense as most foreign women that want to date are the ones with the most global mindset, those that speak numerous languages, have travelled before, and are well educated. The "traditional" (and sometimes poor) women stay behind and stick to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:16 PM
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Really nothing new under the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:13 PM
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Women have always complained if men found a women from elsewhere. Doesn't matter if it was from a different neighborhood, different town, neighboring country or the other side of the world. Social media is just a megaphone. We hear them complaining now. I have a Colombian girlfriend. She is cute as a button and very sweet. But she is also independent, has a PhD, globetrotter, written a few books and generally accomplished in her chosen field. Does similar women exist in my hometown? Properly, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:03 PM
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