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Men will try things to increase their chances and women will never fail to always input their unwarranted advance in a process they know nothing about. We are damned if you do damned if you don’t. Women don’t have the same issues that men do so they think their recruit mode dating difficulty qualifies them to give advice. It’s the same reason women think they have the secret to a dating profile but they all use the same generic answers. They fail to realize they are simply getting swiped on beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:26 PM
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Genitalia is generally disgusting and why we keep it covered - penis or vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:20 AM
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She can’t follow her own logic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:18 AM
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Hilariously awful logic. According to you, any exchange of service for payment like a job is nonconsensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:17 AM
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Not true in the slightest. Men have a much more diverse variety in what they find attractive according to dating app data. Women nowhere near as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:46 PM
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Disagree. A bad person does bad things like cheat. Women still tend to be more attracted to that man despite what they say. It’s to the point that in spite of that, his attractiveness overrides that concern. P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:34 AM
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Yep supply and demand would dictate that the less likely to party should be invited for free. But we are men so we still have to pay. As a result, women show up and no men do for all the barriers inbetween. Doesn’t take an MBA to figure this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:54 AM
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That’s not the point. The point is with a lesser amount of opportunities men have different dating strategies than women. Women have multitudes more still end up choosing bad dudes, having kids out of wedlock, and being used. The majority of women are still dating because there is more value in dating for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:19 PM
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Your point needs to emphasize that men have substantially less opportunities to do this. Getting someone on a date is very hard for men. Women can afford to do this because you’ve got several options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:33 PM
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We are starting to see this too. Women are crying on social media asking where all the men are, I’m seeing an increase in dating events that still require men to pay, etc. Time for women to learn some game. With less eligible men in the dating market, they’ve got to step up. Being an adult is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:32 PM
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Yes. You should start looking up stats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:40 AM
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This is the farthest thing from reality. Society has a sweet spot for finding excuses for women. You are objectively false. Women spend less time in jail for similar crimes to men, they are routinely given custody of kids and child support during divorce, they are the default victim during bouts of domestic violence. What are you talking about? They do not do any of the things you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:03 AM
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I said accountability not humility. Those are vastly different things. Because women have falsely accused men. That’s why they wait on evidence and it should be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:56 AM
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Trolls are supposed to be funny. Can you flip the switch to funny? Otherwise you’re boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:24 AM
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That’s not how that works. The MINORITY means small amount and overshadowed by the good. A reasonable human being, so not you, would be about to comprehend that. MINORITY MINORITY MINORITY MINORITY. My new favorite word. Whatever worldview you have, I’m glad it’s in the MINORITY.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:21 AM
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Yes you can. If a minority do bad things, that means a majority to good. The good of few is the good of a lot, what are you even trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:16 AM
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Yes you can. That’s why we use good and bad to denote that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:10 AM
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Reality is amusing? Men and women will continue to be born. Chastising the entirety of a sex for the actions of a few who have several more upsides that outweigh the actions of a few makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:00 AM
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Yes what do you disagree with? You also need men to handle violent women as well. Men are the best at managing the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:52 PM
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The sex responsible for maintaining the balance is men. Men are the best for managing other men. Women are physically unable to prevent extreme violence from men. You need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:48 PM
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Lmao that’s the opposite. Women have an issue with accountability. When men deal with men there is always the threat of violence. Women need to work on being accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:47 PM
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Spot on. I would agree that a reasonable standard for both sexes is basic hygiene. As for style that’s totally dependent on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:42 AM
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You can pursue whoever you want. You’re not entitled to that level. Education isn’t a 1:1 tell all of income. Lots of people make more money than lawyers and some doctors having a lesser education.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:06 PM
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Yep and I bet OP will think this isn’t ok. Unfortunately in life, no one is guaranteed a family or a comfy life. Thats on you to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:02 AM
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Great response
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:59 AM
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Objectively false. The majority of dating age men are single and therefore cannot do the the things you suggest. Based off of your comments, you are projecting the type men you deal with. You are a low quality woman who cannot pick good men so you blame men as a whole for your shortcomings. Making asinine statements like this tells me all I need to know about you. Stay single and away from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:09 AM
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Then read the words above
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:32 AM
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Re read our convo and you can figure it out. If you can’t, further proving my point that women can’t comprehend the experience of men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:18 AM
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Sexist expectations. Women expect the world from men but feel they don’t have to offer anything to men. Feminism when it’s convenient for women has been the norm for the last 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:13 PM
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Except by you proving you cannot communicate what you want to say objectively, that now becomes a fact. So you’re just roasting yourself at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:07 AM
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Then you are awful at understanding things. Don’t worry. I get my needs met. See perfect example of your lack of communication skills. You can’t even insult me directly. I had to translate it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:05 AM
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Who is to say I’m not one of them? A human with a functioning brain cell can do both. Do not assume to criticisms of women prevent any man from still being with them. Once again, men become aware of female nature and adapt. That’s why we can hold certain beliefs but still have health relationships with women that are worth it. But of course where you are attempting to use sexual prowess to shame someone. Ironic isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:01 AM
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A real pro tip is using multiple resources to build a conjecture: the real world aka experience, online data, and online communities like Reddit. Facts and stats don’t care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:54 AM
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What? No it doesn’t. Every stat is against you lol. But it’s fine with me. Natural selection will weed out the women who can’t function as a basic adult. I’ll never get tired of women complaining on tik tok about their dating lives and aging. It’s entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:32 AM
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No they don’t. Majority of men know what you’re doing but we have standards. A woman’s signals are the equivalent of a toddler describing what they would like to eat. Majority of men us include what women to get up off their ass and talk to us. You’re not a princess. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:23 AM
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No they don’t. If no one knows what your signals are or if they get misread they are bad. Women have awful signals. Women do it ineffectively. Yall love to complain about men’s lack of communication skills but you can’t even have a conversation about what’s bothering you. You’re constantly asking men how to communicate their needs and the answers are the same: use your mouth and form words. Women do not utilize their agency. They are constantly in relationships with narcissists and toxic exes…yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:12 AM
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You’re selective about what’s being offered to you. The main stress in dating is women have no agency to go after men they find attractive. Instead they send nonexistent signals and are passive. Like I said, if women took agency over their lives, we wouldn’t have the problems we have in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:38 AM
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The answer is there is no wage gap. Women choose lesser paying careers, work less hours (yes childcare does contribute to this), and are more likely to negotiate. The separation in salaries is based on how men move versus women. This is a perfect example of how men view the world vs women. A college degree doesn’t mean much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:10 AM
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No men deal in facts. All claims I made are based in studies. Here’s a question to test your IQ: if all of these women are getting degrees is there or is there not a wage gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:04 AM
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They are very much reflective of reality. You just don’t want to look further into it. But as expected it doesn’t agree with your worldview. Women are solipsistic - the world revolves around their point of view and they cannot see others. This is the main stress of relationships. You’re exhibiting this right now. Thanks for writing this out so we have evidence of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:00 AM
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Not you missed the mark by a mile. Men are objective and decisive. Thats the difference. Women love to play games, be flaky, and be passive to avoid decisive action.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:56 AM
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Great I’m glad you found someone. A lot of relationships are dynamic and change. Communication and socialization are the foundations of the human experience so as we separate from that life gets harder. It takes effort and being open and friendly within reason is a great way to build that community and perhaps build a network where you do meet someone that fits your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:55 AM
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Tik Tok is a much larger social media network than Reddit by several magnitudes. It takes more effort to film a video of yourself than to post a Reddit thread. Attention. Women are on tik tok in larger droves for attention and validation. Men are looking for advice and answers. They are not trying to be the next tik tok celebrity. Men off themselves because they are decisive. Women do it for attention. That’s why the rates are no where near the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:49 AM
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Nope Reddit is a very small segment of the world. The reason why men post about the issue is because they are actively trying to change it. Men adapt to dating. Women are clueless. They will continue to be clueless. Women require social circles to be happy. Men do not. Based off your comments you are very much unaware of this and I’m not surprised. Men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:43 AM
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Tik Tok is literally held up by videos of women complaining about men, being single, unable to find love, and asking why men are going their own way. It’s hilarious. Women are not bowing out at all. They like to say they don’t. Men don’t have to announce their departure because we don’t need the validation of others to make decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:37 AM
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Delusional. Gutless cowards are women who refuse to take accountability in their lives. The single mother rate is rising and that’s on women. Be more selective with who you let in your body
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:04 AM
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No they are not. Just like the men who don’t care and will approach are the men who don’t care about social norms. Your filtering mechanism is greatly miscalculated. I wonder when women will finally learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:57 AM
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Great. Now you’re left with the men that will use you. Once again delusion to not see that. Continue to get played. It’s fun to sit from the sidelines and watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:49 AM
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Men are walking away from dating after being mistreated by women. You created this environment with your rampant misandry and asinine expectations. This is called the consequences of your actions. This is why men do not care to appease whatever depicts standards you have. Learn to be accountable and the world makes sense. Continue to live in delusion and you will continue to make stupid statements like you have made.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:44 AM
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Delusional take. It’s never been easier to be a woman. Men are held accountable constantly. Women are coddled in every way possible. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:35 AM
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What are you talking about? The body positivity movement has literally changed the models for clothing, created jobs for objectively obese people in places of health, and has created new brands of clothing specifically for obese women. Nope that’s not how this works. No woman is entitled to being asked out. You are not a princess, you are not special. Be an adult and take responsibility for your life. Another example of women unable to comprehend accountability. Watch yourself setting standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:26 AM
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This makes sense. By you engaging with people you get to learn more about them and then perhaps you may discover something about them that intrigues you or makes them attractive. You are doing way more than most women. At least you can see if there is anything there and you are taking agency in your own life. Most women will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:17 AM
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Dieting? Y’all created a whole movement to accept you aka body positivity. However you present yourself is on you. You are an adult. If you don’t like spending money on makeup and clothes, don’t do it. Do not blame your choices that you choose to make on men. If men don’t approach you and you want to meet men, get up and do it. Stop blaming others for choices you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:15 AM
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This is the crux of the problem though. Men in general are criticized for the delinquency. However, men who have a proven track record don’t associate the negative complaint to themselves. They can be objective and realize the post isn’t directly calling them out. Women on the other hand…the moment you make any complaint you are accusing all women of the complaint. It’s very well shown in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:28 AM
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This right here. They are literally proving the post in realtime. You cannot make this stuff up. Women will always protect the hive and shift blame. It’s why accountability is a foreign language to them. They take it personally like you are saying they are bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:24 AM
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It’s amazing how many people commenting here cannot grasp this concept. The burden of sexual performance is always on men and always what more can a man do for women. Very rarely do you ever hear women given constructive advice to be better at sex. Heck, how many times have we seen posts where women cannot even communicate their needs to their partner as they literally enter their body. It is absolutely maddening.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:21 AM
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Marriage is nothing but tradition. It is not required to have a successful relationship or raise children. Great and you’re 1 person. If you need a marriage to solidify your relationship and have your partner face legal and financial repercussions you do you. Sounds to me like a hostage agreement. I’ve love to see stats on marriages that surpass 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:51 AM
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The answer to your conundrum is simple - find someone who wants marriage. A woman has agency. No one is being held hostage. Leave a relationship you see no value in. Not every woman wants marriage. Marriage is a traditional concept, we no longer live in a traditional world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:42 AM
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Why are you objectifying women as cars? I said everyone as a whole, no sex specified. Its not a 40% rate. It’s higher. A happy marriage doesn’t mean squat. Marriages fail for any number of reasons and any can be classified as happy if there was indeed a period of happiness. No thanks. Women did a great job of ostracizing men from marriage. Work on a campaign to make it worth their while again. Marriage is an idealistic idea that ignorant and naive people strive for. Have healthy relationships th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:06 AM
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Not statistically. 50% of a failure rate is way too risky. Would companies sell cars if there was a 50% chance of the engine blowing up everytime you turn the key? You can find whatever you want selfish. People can do what they want. Poll the married people around you. Let’s see how happy they all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:54 AM
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That wouldn’t put it in your favor. 50% is a high rate of failure combined with the current demographic of people available. Marriage is archaic. The divorce rate is not 40%. Keep pushing numbers that have no merit. Marriage is financially beneficial for women which is why you continue to push it. You aren’t entitled to a relationship or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:46 AM
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Again…the divorce rate is only low because the divorce rate being so high has led to less people getting married. Look at the historical rate. No marriage is not in anyone’s favor. We have a societal problem of self entitled and privileged people. We can thank all the generations of unhappy married people that led to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:37 AM
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Divorce rate is not 40%. It was higher but is down because less people are getting married. The odds are not in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:31 AM
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Marriage is a religious ritual. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:24 AM
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Married people die too and leave behind children…there are cohabitation laws
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:17 AM
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Great so you saved a bunch of money. The majority of people don’t go that route. Divorces are expensive and cost more than 40 bucks. Marriage isn’t necessary. Two people can still cohabitate and live the same life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:29 PM
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Where did I make that extreme statement? Marriage is a ritual/process. Lots of people date and cohabitate without spending all that useless money on a ceremony. Do not assume what I think because you missed the mark by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:58 PM
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Marriage is an awful deal for men. Why would any man in the current age want to get married? Romance and marriage are for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:28 PM
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If you need feminism to take initiative and not the natural desire of a healthy human being, there is a bigger problem at hand. You’re an adult. Act like one. You don’t need a social movement to do the most basic of tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:43 AM
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You said it sounds feminist. If being a functioning adult is seen as being feminist let’s just get rid of the whole thing and go back to the way things were.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:38 AM
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No I took your comment and related it to the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:28 AM
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Delusional is something else I should add to the comment. Once again, review what thread you are under and relate that to the topic at hand. Your lack of understanding has nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:26 AM
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That’s a great summary of the things you said. Thanks for putting a bow on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:24 AM
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I don’t think you have the mental capacity to have this conversation. I have wasted my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:16 AM
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I’m using the violent situation as a metaphor. Please keep up. Please read the prompt. Please use some degree of reading comprehension. That’s not what a strawman is. Look up strawman while you’re at. Social pressure is powerful if you’re mentally a weak and insecure person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:12 AM
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Is this 5th wave feminism now? Being an adult and doing adult things? Maybe we should go back to the father making all her decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:09 AM
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Women don’t have minds of their own? If women are so good at reading the room why are they passive when the current climate is do the things you want to do? Is this also why they are “more emotionally mature and communicative” when women come to Reddit asking men how to tell their partners they want something but will do everything besides communicating?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:07 AM
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The irony in this comment contradicts every woman in this thread blaming “patriarchy and social conditioning” for why they are passive. I love when the hypocrisy is so blatant. Use that same logic and rethink the prompt by OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:03 AM
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Right because you’ve taken agency in your own life. That’s how it should be. There is no masculine and feminine. There is acting like human being and doing what needs to get done. Want a life partner? Get your butt up and go meet people. Want a job? Apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:58 AM
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Vision board and 5 year plan doesn’t mean shit. You can have an idea but being an adult is dealing with what results from the plans likely those you can’t anticipate. Leading yourself is once again called being an adult. Stop putting some pseudo life coach bs on basic human skills we should all have. Get a dog if you want an obedient partner with no individual thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:57 AM
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No it’s not. It’s called being an adult. Are you a leader when you apply for a job? Are you a leader when engage in any of your hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:55 AM
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Being an adult is hard. Cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:53 AM
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This study takes into account monetary value. Also the marriage and divorce rates are in the toilet. I think a higher education rate correlates to higher divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:54 AM
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As already stated…it depends on the course and degree attained. It certainly is not stem related as those demographics remain heavily unchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:51 PM
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Yep. They keep equating education with success. What should be studied is salary. A BS degree doesn’t guarantee financial success. It does confirm that more women are in debt. But they won’t do the salary thing because it will dispel the myth of a college degree and intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:04 PM
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Wrong. A man who enjoys this is constantly moving from partner to partner. They do not have consistent relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:49 PM
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Ask yourself do you enjoy dating men who give you stress? We are all the same species. There is rarely an emotion we both do not feel. This question can be answered by using basic common sense. Any sad excuse of a “coach” who preaches such nonsense should be shamed and ignored. Like others have said, if you are an average woman, men will pursue. The issue is whether a woman can maintain a relationship with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:47 PM
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Women don’t reach this point and the point of the OP until they have been burned several times over. Then they realize they need a partner who treats them with respect. If it takes you 10x to burn your hand on a stove to not touch it, it’s not the same conclusion. Women tell on themselves a lot. A woman vocal about misogynistic, disrespectful, and downright bad men simply admits this is the type of guy she deals with. Pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:01 PM
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Yes, those men are conventionally attractive and don’t have to put in as much effort as the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:58 PM
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Heck yeah. It’s not like women actually go to bars to get picked up by the average dude. They just want the free drinks. If anything, women seem to be way more triggered when men do things that are not considered “masculine”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:01 AM
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Nothing you have typed has refuted the claim of the OP. In fact, we all learned you’re not very good at business ventures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:38 AM
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Again yes bud Henry Cavil will have way more opportunities than you based on his looks and status. There are lots of chads who have no personalities and are horrible in bed because they don’t have to. As an average guy, it’s an uphill climb and requires skills to be able to get with a woman. I don’t see the relevance of a “pity kiss”. Any time you are with a woman is a chance to build rapport and be flirty. It’s up to you to create opportunities because most women aren’t forward with average men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:27 AM
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That would require men getting with women. Most men who find the redpill do so because of dating failure. More sexual experience tends to lead to being better in bed. You still have to pass default attraction to even demonstrate that skill set
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:54 AM
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Yep. When the burden of approach is on men, we can pursue whoever we want. Wouldn’t can’t complain if they don’t pursue. If you are someone who wants to pursue someone, do it. Men have a way wider array of women they find attractive. Women much less and it’s almost laughably obvious. P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:02 PM
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It’s so obvious in every post where a woman can’t lock a dude down or claims they don’t have any suitors. It takes about 3 comments for them to admit “suitors they find attractive”. At this point, it must just be a genetic blind spot that women will never evolve past.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:21 PM
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They will never understand this. They are too solipsistic to ever assume they aren’t worth anything more than they present. If a man shows you any interest, to them it means they want all of you. Men simply adapt to what they want to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:09 PM
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I agree with that nuisance but over the course of your life you would have learned these things. Therefore you have an idea of the things you like from hobbies to food to people. It is the samething for dating. Your tastes can change but the ultimate decider in whether your pursue or engage in something is if you consent to it. Men are far less a hive mind than women. Women tend to follow the status quo moreso than men. This is why they adopt whatever beauty standards companies sell to them. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:48 PM
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My response contains my answer as well as all the other responses from all the men here. There is nothing else to discus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:34 PM
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Of course it makes your opinion superior. What you choose to spend your money on and consume is ultimately up to you. People have agency. Nobody else can dictate what you eat besides you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:33 PM
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You have clear answers from men in this thread stating the conclusion. I read the first part of the responded and this is the consensus. If it’s straightforward why do you keep pressing it? Men like what we like. We date who we can and find attractive. Some men like thicker women and some like skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:31 PM
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Oh my is this another serious question? Do you like pizza because everyone else likes pizza or because pizza is actually good? Surely you have like things that others do not like…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:28 PM
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Can I ask why you keep asking this? It’s very clear from men’s responses we do not care about the opinion of others. We find what we find attractive? What is difficult about understanding this? If women in fact choose men based on the opinions of others, that is highly concerning. It’s really funny when women love to claim they aren’t a monolith but mate copying and preselection very much prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:27 PM
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Also women tend to follow trends for the same reason. Being agreeable means also doing what the majority is doing to fit in. Men tend to have more unique hobbies than women. They also tend to hold more unique opinions on things such as social issues. This can also extend into extremes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:08 AM
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I disagree. The majority of men are dating women and I bet if you asked those in your immediate circle, very few would confirm a women initiated and approached. They don’t even do it on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:49 PM
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Are you aware that the majority of women will not do this? That is an important fact. An outlier doesn’t disprove how the majority of interactions turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:34 PM
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You’re generalizing. As I already stated, someone who wastes your time will waste your time. They cannot waste your time if you do not allow them to. Be a functioning human being. Read someone’s actions overtime and make a conjecture. Then remove yourself. Bad communication is a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:50 PM
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Nope. You can’t comprehend the role of the manipulator and the manipulatee. One communicates and one reacts. The reactor cannot react if they aren’t in that situation. I will say it again. Poor understanding on behalf of the manipulatee is their fault. Not sure why this is so hard for you to grasp. The irony in this is you proving you have a deficiency in understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:48 PM
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Still incorrect. A misunderstanding is on the part of the person he is leading on. Once again, someone wasting your time will waste your time. You not seeing that is a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:43 PM
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Wrong. Manipulation is poor understanding. We have all experienced someone who was wasting our time whether it be a friend or significant other. If you continue to be led on, that’s a you problem. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting a different outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:39 PM
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This is hilarious. If anything she picked him up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:22 AM
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That’s a cliche thing for someone to say. Sure society can improve. I have yet to see a plan from any women specific politician or group that defines exactly how to do this. Critiquing things is easy. Let’s turn off all the electricity, gas, and water stations and see what happens. Society has lots of moving parts that are male maintained.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:18 AM
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Great but there would be no society to improve without its foundation. Nothing is perfect. We are the most advanced civilization of all time. As far as I am concerned, all humanitarian groups consist of both men and women. Why aren’t women doing more to improve “the crappy society that men built”? What’s an example of a superior one that women built for comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:14 AM
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I won’t disagree with that. But that’s not the topic that we are discussing. Social dynamic aspects that women benefit from and men do not are what is being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:57 AM
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Ha. Nope women do things because it benefits them. Thats why diversity quotas and affirmative action are to their benefit. Women are no more just than men. Just like in dating, women expect men to fit into gender roles they decide but don’t feel like they have to. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:44 AM
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History is evidence that winners win. Winners mold the world to what it is now. That is why women still believe they are second class citizens in first world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:40 AM
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Men will never experience what it is like to be women and women men. Having a subset of people who do make that transition from an emotional and lifestyle standpoint are the closest we will ever get. There is value in that. Yes, men do the same just under harder conditions and excel at that. Men don’t expect society to coddle and do things for them. Women love to try and make society bend to their will. Men have been way more effective at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:29 AM
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Great so you would once again agree that someone who has an idealized view of a perspective and then later finds it is not that case further proves the point. This game of I make a point and then you create a strawman is fun. Cope is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:22 AM
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Ah yes, clearly a statement made with data to back it up. But continue to deny the reality and truth. Women continue to deny the experiences of men. I welcome you to research into the experiences of women who transition into men. Their adaptation to our ways of life are…interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:50 AM
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I’d love to see where 50% of women are killing themselves. The ratio of men to women is nearly 1 but with women leading slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:32 AM
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Yet society is still here. My life is not horrendous. We live in the greatest time ever in human existence. Even better for women especially in 1st world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:21 AM
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Enduring is a completely different word. Enduring is accepting one’s conditions. It takes more energy to change one’s circumstances than to maintain them. Men don’t endure. They adapt and change things. This is much more valuable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:09 AM
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No they aren’t. Women reproduce more because the standards are way lower for them and they don’t have to do anything. Women can be selective when the majority of men adapt to be the best mate. With that being said, women who choose bad partners do not in fact adapt and end up in worse situations. This explains the increase in single mother households especially jn the US. Men are better at adapting to spread their seed. Women’s mechanism has been miscalibrated for a very long time. When the stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:05 AM
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Natural selection and resiliency is not only adapting but thriving. Men are still better at that. Simply accepting your conditions and sustaining mere sustenance is not adaption. Men built the world, are responsible for the majority of modern infrastructure we have now, and maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:54 AM
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Resiliency is adaption. The inability to adapt means you aren’t resilient. It’s no different than natural selection. Therefore by your own definition, men are the more adaptable group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:50 AM
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Absolutely not. Men adapt to the dating market not women. This is an insane and deluded take coming for a place of privilege. Women will play the victim when men will go out and improve themselves. That’s the reason there’s a fat acceptance movement and more men in the gym than women. Women try to force society to accept their flaws while men go out and achieve things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:50 AM
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Spot on. Statistics are dependent on context. The fact that the majority of people can’t connect that a high divorce rate for the last 50 years will lead to less overall marriages and therefore less divorces because less people are getting married is mind blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:50 PM
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Facts. Do people just assume adult responsibilities halt the moment you get married? It makes it very easy to separate the functioning adults from the children. Any adult that cannot functioning cook for themselves or maintain their own space is a major red flag and should be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:19 PM
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Stupid, useless comment. Let’s ignore hundreds of thousands of years of evolution designed to ensure that men and women procreate. The irony…the entitlement is on your part assuming everyone else must conform to the same things you do. I would wager several men would wish they could do away with women altogether. Unfortunately our genome prevents that. Incredibly rich coming from the sex that little has a biological process called a period that influences their need to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:45 PM
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No one used the word stupid but you. Your comment is an incredibly simplistic take on the comment I made. Do some self reflection please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:33 AM
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I would also agree. Alot of women post 30 have lots of baggage and an almost melancholy take on life due to past experiences. While a 20 something year old may not engage in the most thought inducing comments, this further proves that us men look for something different than women further proving how pointless this post is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:26 AM
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False. Men initiate proposals and marriage more often than women. This take is asinine. If the women didn’t want to be with him, he wouldn’t be dating them. Like the majority of all comments have said, men and women want different things. Applying the standards that men have for women and women to men is not feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:24 AM
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This doesn’t support your claim. A trend takes over because enough people make it the dominant fashion trend. If anything it fully enhances the argument that women are more likely to follow popular trends to fit in. When the majority of women begin to dress and do their makeup the same to that style, that’s the hivemind in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:28 PM
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Facts. All of this boils down to basic math.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:54 PM
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Except the majority of the dating population today did not grow up with those standards and social norms. The majority of single, dating people grew up in more modern times. How can we want to revert back to a time we never experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:26 PM
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The above comment already covered this. Perceived. Women are terrible at vetting and choosing partners. In this current age of dating, women assume this is looks. The more attractive man “Chad” will always get more sex if he fits the current preferences for societies standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:36 PM
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If a man pays taxes and is responsible for all duties of being a father, this needs to be proven beyond a reasonable doubt. We test for genetic diseases, sex, and other health markers. In a hospital where lots of babies are being born, let’s have confirmation which baby belongs to each person. I could say the same thing about abortion. Women’s insecurities about whether they can get an abortion just means they should just stop having sex. See how stupid that sounds? Define patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:00 PM
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The moment your name goes on the birth certificate, the legal process begins. It is hilarious to me how hard women are fighting this issue that is important to men. Anyone fighting this is an automatic red flag. Hate to break it to you but women are no better than men. They do not get an automatic assumption of innocence. You claim you don’t want the government involved but the moment you want a divorce and/or child support the first person you run to is the legal system - this is so funny no on…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:56 PM
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This is correct. Someone needs to meet the criteria for attractiveness first before these standards apply. This is why women put up with shitty men and men put up with shitty women - attractiveness. Unfortunately for women - they say “the bar is in hell” for the men they are attracted to. The rest are invisible. Women view their dating options from a very self centered point of view. Men who meet this criteria usually have options and can do as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:26 PM
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That is not the point. I responded to the comment about the post not the OP’s post. She said we go after the same women. That is an assumption and hilariously ironic. My response to that assumption is that it is incorrect due to what I stated. Once again, read the statements I am making.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:22 PM
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Your statement is disingenuous, also if this were the case we would still be with them. I’ll state it again for you since I have said it multiple times, because we are attracted to women doesn’t mean we get them. THE WOMEN THAT CONSENT TO DATING US - naturally this is a filter. Men do not have a 100% dating success rate. Please read the words I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:15 PM
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Disagree 100% with your statement. As a man I have dated multiple women over the years. Still nowhere near the ball park of options that women have. When your pool is 2 people you cannot make the same choices as someone with 99+. These situations are literally universes apart in dating demand. I can attest to OP’s statement. The majority of women I have dated have all had the same interests, personalities, etc. I can pursue women if I want but if they do not consent to dating me there is nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:08 PM
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Men do not have the fraction of options that women have. Majority of men take what they can get. Women need to choose better because they have such a greater variety of people interested in them. This concept is not difficult to grasp. If you wish to see this in action, create a dating profile of whichever man you find attractive and give it a few days. Compare your profile, likes, matches to the male profile. That’s all you need to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:34 PM
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The average American is fat. Women are on average more likely to be fat than men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:07 AM
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I meant it in the sense that men are more resilient to the effects of obesity. Right but there is an objective My 600 lb life level of obesity compared to overweight. I see way more obese women who don’t do anything about it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:59 PM
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Men biologically carry weight differently compared to women. I refute your point and see more obese women. Our points cancel each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:18 PM
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I agree. I am also a lifelong lifter of 12 years. Doesn’t erase the point that the majority of Americans objectively are obese. Body composition on a visual level tells you all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:49 PM
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The rates of obesity say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:49 PM
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Men know how men think. It’s up to those guys to not associate with that kind of man. If they choose to, they are considered bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:18 AM
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Reddit app sucks. Was meant to reply to the comment under my original statement. Bring back Apollo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:27 PM
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Nope. That’s an assumption. I have a large variety of me friends between ages 20-53. I myself am 29. We all are also scattered between various blue and white collar jobs that earn different salaries. We are all struggling when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:24 PM
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What is your evidence for these videos being out of context? I have seen more videos get exposed by former exes adding more info to the situation. Of course there is a demand. Women are seeking support from other women online. Why else would women upload embarrassing videos of them crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:28 PM
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I would argue to hear the trope and stereotype of girl and deadbeat BF who everyone knows is bad is all too common. I have actually limited my social circle of women because of how exhausting it was having these same convos again. Guys are much more honest and will tell you how things are. Majority of my guy friends are good people who (you guessed it) struggled with finding quality women for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:12 PM
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And for one video out of context I see hundreds more. The point is women are choosing to upload those videos. For every 1 out of context, I have seen 20 that aren’t. The ones posted by women get way more interaction and views than the ones created by men. There wouldn’t be the variety of red pill content if there wasn’t a catalyst for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:29 PM
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Yep, plus the irony in all of these YouTubers is all of the content is willfully uploaded to Tik Tok. These channels can exist because there is an unlimited amount of these vids. After you see several you start to notice a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:01 PM
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Disagree. Women are terrible at making judgement calls on people when they are physically attractive, that’s why it’s such a stereotype that women won’t leave toxic men until it’s too late. Anecdotally, hearing stories from women I date as well as friends has led me to believe women are fooled more often than not. Most men can sense when a man is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:58 PM
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This is it. Great comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:14 PM
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You are correct that instagram and social media apps are great ways to build rapport or use mutual connections to meet people. However, the nuance is that not everyone is as well connected to utilize such a network. We can use ideal examples to prove your point but until we see the vast majority of people utilizing social media on the level of dating apps, it’s not comparable. We have a loneliness epidemic currently going on in most westernized nations so it’s important to keep a perspective in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:27 PM
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Instagram doesn’t have a metric for measuring the things that dating apps do which is why I wouldn’t quote them and we can’t get an accurate measurement. Also instagram I agree is a great place to meet people but not specifically for dating. Dating/hookups app are that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:55 PM
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Lol between Tinder, Bumble, Hinge (all apps with swiping features) they have roughly half a billion users. If you added in the other apps like Badoo which isn’t as popular in the US you get close to a billion. That is 1/8 of the worlds population. That is a significant amount of data. Until you provide data and stats instead of arguing the definition of online you have no argument. What a complete waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:15 PM
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If the majority of people meet online that is still online. What are you trying to argue? Tinder houses the majority online users in the database followed by Bumble and Hinge therefore their data is incredibly valuable as majority of users utilize them with millions of active users. If you want to speak in generic generalities go ahead but you don’t have numbers to back up what you are saying. Does this simple point make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:00 PM
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No it does not. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OKC house the majority of dating online. The majority of which are owned by Match group. These are all forms of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:56 PM
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Hook up apps function online. They are the samething. Any dating app can be a hookup app.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:53 PM
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I would argue it would be in their best interest to shield these results from people. If the 80/20, 90/10, or 95/5 rule is in play, it would mean bad business for them. Unfortunately, it is the best data we have for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:07 PM
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The data is still significant as the majority of dating occurs via online connections now. Also Tinder and OKC have had similar data patterns in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:08 PM
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