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| 1 | I've got her number from a group chat. Can I text her without it being creepy?Well it’s better than “hi” | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 5 | I've got her number from a group chat. Can I text her without it being creepy?Just hi? Maybe this is a younger adult this but I would be like wtf is hi!? 😂 I would say hey, how’s your summer going? Excited to get back at it yet? Something with more depth. Hi is lazy and creepy. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Maybe talk to your doctor. A lot of people are on anxiety medication for being social anxious. This is daily though. I’m sure you’re socially anxious is other situations too, if you are this might actually improve your over all quality of life. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I messed up and took the condom off, what would you do now?Or they are super young. When you’re young a lot of people get pregnant easier. Once you’re above 25 work goes it to it (for most people). | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 01:19 PM |
| 24 | I messed up and took the condom off, what would you do now?I’m sure you’re fine. A lot of couples have unprotected sex and use the pullout method for years. Depending on your age, it’s a lot harder for females to get pregnant than media makes it out to be. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 03:44 AM |
| 4 | 33yo male virgin had sex with an escortThis! | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 05:27 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]No I think you should learn from this moment (especially since you’re 28) and never do it again. If someone said I don’t have a condom and continued to want to have sex and “only did it a little” I would reflect on my actions and slowly pull away too. You were both wrong but it’s on the guy to put a condom on. Girls have to bend over backwards to get birth control and take it properly, and go through all the side effect…the least you can do is wrap your dick up. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 19 | [deleted by user]Just a suggestion from a girl. Please wear a condom especially hooking up with a girl for the first couple times or until she comments on it. Not wearing a condom is such a turn off. It shows you don’t care what she has or what you potentially have. Putting a condom on shows that you are responsible and want to protect her until you and her are comfortable. Stopping a guy and saying “please wear a condom” is so awkward and is intimidating for many females. Just taking the initiative and doing it… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postRight!? As you get older you like to do these kinds of things! | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postThat is completely false. If a short dude is buff ya, he looks short. My dude is super buff and he is 6 foot, he looks 6 foot. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 9 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postFit arms in general on females but daaaaamn it’s a long slow process 🤣 | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postUmmmmmm it could definitely help you. I looked at your profile and you’re 21 and want a gf. Try exercising, eating healthy and toning your body. I promise you, things will change. Almost no women ever want to feel bigger than her guy. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postI was going to say that too! However people just don’t believe this. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 7 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postFor me it’s a no go. I won’t date anyone who doesn’t do some type of exercise. My main reason is because it is unhealthy long term and short term. I exercise a lot because I know the benefits long term. I work with seniors and the people who never exercised crumble quickly, the people who do live a long healthy life. I don’t want to be widowed young. If you look up the stats it’s actually unbelievable what exercise does for your long term health. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 8 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postI think a huge part isn’t just working out at the gym and lifting, it’s being active in general. Any type of exercise is a plus. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postBeing skinny isn’t a deal breaker. However some things are when you see a skinny body type. Like do you exercise ever? If not this could easily be a deal breaker. For me it 100% is. Do you stand straight, like OP is asking? Do you take care of your physical appearance? | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 02:27 PM |
| 44 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postThis is a great comment! Same goes girls (I am one). Girls who never works out or exercises will not attract a lot of men either. She will have slouching shoulders, a belly and could possibly thin or thick legs. A girl that exercises regularly and takes care of her body will attract men more easily. Muscles are attractive but for both sex HEALTH is attractive. Seeing someone be able to go on a jog, walk or bike ride is attractive. I am physically fit and attractive and I would NEVER date anyone … | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 10 | How to stop pedestalizing women.Any relationship that is not equal is toxic. What you’re saying is old school. This is what our grandparents did. It’s time to grow up. Women are bad ass bitches in this world (including myself) and work hard. We should want to take care of ourselves. If we want things bought for us constantly, coddled and taken care of go back to your parents. I would NEVER be in a relationship and expect more out of my man than I give him. We split every bill, but each other the same amount of gifts and most o… | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 3 | If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration.Why don’t you go for girls in your same “hot” range. Of course if you’re a 1/10 and you go for a smoking hot blonde of course she is going to reject you. If you go for a girl that is a 1/10. Not only will this give you more success in not getting rejected but also success if having a equal relationship. Anyone, even the hottest person may get rejected if they are shooting over their head. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean?If you answered the message you didn’t take too long. Ya you can offer a day but then leave it. If she likes you she will message you. When you really feel an attraction with someone they will message you. Clearly she isn’t scared to message you so offer the day, she what she says and then just leave it. You can even say “I’m available Tuesday you can let me know later in the week if you are! Enjoy your weekend 😊” Then the call is in her court. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean?You banged the nail on the head! This is exactly what happens especially in girl’s early 20s. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean?Go one dates with other girls while she is living her life. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket or your going to obsess with her. You only went on one date so throw a causal answer back and leave it. If she messages you cool, if not your busy with your life and the dating world. One top, don’t over text after one date. Ya text her once and while but if she never initiates then stop. If she isn’t answering don’t send another text. This scares girls away. Over texting is intense and makes you se… | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 02:33 PM |
| 0 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseI’m starting to believe this is the situation and he thinks that girls owe him sex 😂 | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseGood sex too! Not just shitty hook ups! | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseDo you not realize one night stands are normally the worst sex? These girls aren’t going to teach you anything. The only place to actually learn about sex is with a partner who wants to talk about it. Learn how to please someone. In the past I can immediately tell when someone has had a girlfriend or not by how they fuck. Hook ups aren’t gunna make you any better at sex. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 0 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseIf you want to “vibe” with someone put in some work. If you aren’t the most attractive guy on OLD women aren’t just going to open their legs for you. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 02:34 PM |
| 4 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseThis is the best advice I’ve heard yet. It drives me nuts that men can go on these dating sites and think they can fuck anyone they want. Girls barely do that and OP is clearly trying to use them and they are catching on to that quickly. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | I (29M) really don't know what to do with this introverted girl (24F)You can definitely initiate. If you’re going to ask her out try to get her to talk about something she likes. A good place to walk, if she likes coffee and what kind, wine/breweries. If you can get her to talk about them be like “oh I love wine too I know this really good place that is amazing maybe we should go one time”. Feel out her response. If she asks you what it’s called just find a wine bar or coffee shop near by! Don’t jump into “date” too quickly because if she doesn’t get the other jo… | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | I (29M) really don't know what to do with this introverted girl (24F)Sounds to me that you are Laura are friends. She is being friendly to you but not much more. You work with her and is seems like you have built a friendship. The remarks you said in your writing is not her coming on to you it’s her responding to you. Also, If she liked you she wouldn’t care what Jane said. You could shoot your shot and ask if she would like to grab a coffee if she got the other job but keep it casual. I HATE when men take my niceness and friendliness as flirting. If you make her… | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Model-looking guy, fit, highly intelligent (140iq) but antisocial and awkward. What to do?You need to build your confidence. If you’re a confident person you have no problem talking to anyone and flirting is most likely a strong suit. When you gain confidence talking about any topic comes easily and you won’t run from social situations. Dating and talking to girls takes practice like anything else so put yourself out there and force yourself to converse back. Also telling someone you iq is a turn off. Seems like you’re bragging. Don’t mentioned that to girls. If you’re smart girls wi… | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 07:32 PM |
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