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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	14 hours in 50 Days I wish you luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/26 08:08 PM
2	Men who initiated the process (not due to infidelity reasonings), when did you know it was time, and why did you initiate? Also, sounds like therapy could be really good for trolls like yourself…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/23 02:50 PM
1	Men who initiated the process (not due to infidelity reasonings), when did you know it was time, and why did you initiate? Oh no, we both have issues. We mainly focused on her issues she had with me, I don’t feel like my issues were addressed much during therapy even though they were vocalized. She would still shutdown all the time outside of therapy and refuse to talk about things. Delay tactics, I’ll talk about it later and never bring it to surface and once I address it says she doesn’t want to talk about it anymore. She was happy with the progress I made. But outside of therapy, she wouldn’t care or vocalize her…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/23 02:48 PM
3	Men who initiated the process (not due to infidelity reasonings), when did you know it was time, and why did you initiate? When my frustration got so bad because she just kept shutting down. Not being able to talk to her about things that are important to me. I initiated it because I knew It was at the point of not fixing. Going to a therapist myself, and together, she didn’t really want to work on the stuff she was proposing during our sessions. I didn’t want my kids to see that frustration in me, as that isn’t who I am….	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/23 12:50 AM
1	Divorces initiated by women vs by men I initiated. 8.5 years in and lots of communication problems. Mostly, shutting down and not being able talk about issues that she was scared or didn’t want to talk about. Scared about the confrontation. 3 kids together and I came into the marriage with a house. We both make about the same. I initiated counseling and we went, but we never actually worked on this issue, just other things that she wanted to focus on. Trying to communicate just increased my frustration and I didn’t want to be someon…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/23 01:16 AM

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