Jealnie93 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammate Respond to what I said. You sound like a fucking idiot repeating this "act like men" shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 02:21 AM
0	Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to audition More shaming tactics. How predictable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 11:19 PM
3	Most women aren’t looking for a provider they’re looking for a teammate She'd rather stay single than be with some guy who "settled" for her because she made the first move, and she doesn't want to be with some weak insecure guy who can't even make the first move. Why is the assumption that the man who decides not to make the first move "can't"? This expectation of men to court her just reads as mild entitlement. Why is a man positively responding to her asking him out interpreted as settling for her, but not her positively responding to a man asking her out interpr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 09:09 PM
1	Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to it Logged as to the first paragraph, good to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 01:31 AM
–	Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to it My point was more about desire. The sexual instinct for a man is programmed; he ejaculates, there's a refractory period, then it recommences with arousal up through another ejaculation. Women are not walking around feeling "I want him" nearly to the extent men do about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 12:38 AM
–	Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to it Do you go to the grocery store, see a handsome man or someone who smells good or is dressed well or whatever and get horny for him immediately? I apologize if I've misunderstood women, but I don't exactly see our overlap. I can be minding my business walking the isles, see a hot woman in yoga pants, and suddenly thinking straight is gone out the window. I don't need to know a thing about her, have had fun conversations with her, or anything. The mere split-second sight of her is enough. That doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 12:04 AM
1	Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to it It's not that women aren't sexual beings. It's that the parameters of it are completely different, first and foremost it not being responsive without exception to visual stimuli. The idea of being incapable of getting regularly and immediately aroused to photos is basically insane to a male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 11:49 PM
–	Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to it Women don't want it as much. A man can get instantly ragingly horny happening to see a woman with a certain physique/appearance. It's just not the same. A man can wake up at 3 am aroused with a raging boner that will not go away just because he visualized an attractive woman in his sleep. It has nothing to do with status: whether a man is a billionaire or a pauper, his physiology works like this. Being pickier means you don't want it as much, because it's not as agonizing. It's an itch, not a co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 11:41 PM
8	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? I think the issue is it almost feels insulting, like women need something that was already there to be ratified by external approval. That hot girl in 10th grade who gets scouted the next year to be a high fashion model gets the same reactions from dudes she got when she wasn't famous or successful. Brad Pitt in 10th grade was to women just...a good looking dude. It doesn't matter so much if he's demonstrably a good actor or talented at the time, until his success is evident. Of course men have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 10:40 PM
1	Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"? ...because of testosterone. Men have the ability to overcome their sexual urges for long periods of time, but the drive is more intense in men than women generally. Women being okay going without that is like a man being okay going without menstruation and hormonally-linked mood rollercoasters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 10:13 PM
–	A lot of guys with “no options” have a self-inflicted problem. So do women practice self-improvement as much as men? What are you saying? Why aren't there more women billionaires out there tricking on dudes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 02:04 AM
2	A lot of guys with “no options” have a self-inflicted problem. You seem hyper and crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 01:51 AM
–	A lot of guys with “no options” have a self-inflicted problem. I have never come across a woman who would answer yes to that question. lmao, I think that's accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 01:34 AM
7	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? I think you're ignoring the part about performing his "gender role", initiating, and escalating. If the vast majority of women expect men to initiate, pay for dates, etc. and live in that expectation (as appears to be the case), how is there any balance to this situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 11:58 PM
3	The "Choose Better" debate always seems to devolve into defensive and/or deflecting off-topic discussions This person is...crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 12:26 AM
–	The "Choose Better" debate always seems to devolve into defensive and/or deflecting off-topic discussions How are the first three misogynistic? Being suspicious or wary isn't woman-hating. A woman who feels trepidation alone at night when she sees me as a man isn't being a misandrist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 12:21 AM
2	If men focus on compatibility, they wouldn’t have to ‘play jester’ and be ‘Dance Monkeys’ on dates. Is that really your response?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/26 12:25 AM
2	Men need to start leaving women alone. No, it's one-sided because women don't pursue men remotely at the frequency men do. That's it. Can you agree with that? Leonardo DiCaprio doesn't have 5 Charlize Theron's blowing up his DMs. Can you understand that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/26 12:07 AM
2	If men focus on compatibility, they wouldn’t have to ‘play jester’ and be ‘Dance Monkeys’ on dates. Shouldn't it be as natural as a non-sexist man routinely cooking, cleaning, and doing the laundry rather than defaulting to "I'm okay doing the dishes" if his wife/girlfriend would rather he do them sometimes? Being "fine" splitting the bill isn't evidence of an enthusiastic participant in equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 10:34 PM
5	Men need to start leaving women alone. I think that like it or not, men have to initiate simply because it's the state of things now But I think there's increasing resistance to complying with this state of things among men. Hence the countless tiktoks by women about men not approaching women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 08:16 PM
3	Men need to start leaving women alone. It's too one-sided though. When you were a kid, you didn't become great friends with somebody whose attention you had to go after unequally. From day 1, it was as simple as seeing someone your age in your neighborhood and saying to them "Hey, you wanna come over and play N64 (or basketball or whatever)?" And they'd reciprocate the next day, knock on your door and ask your mom or dad if you can hang out. Heterosexual courting dynamics are hardly reminiscent of the way people make friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 08:09 PM
–	women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them. Yeah, so approach a man maybe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 12:54 AM
10	unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choices What do you mean "more upset"? Are you suggesting males in this subreddit don't usually express contempt for both deadbeat fathers and the women who selected them? Isn't that kind of the point of this thread?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 11:27 PM
1	I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes. Most of these things you name are prospective issues. A man who cooks and cleans for himself, doesn't want kids, is desiring to practice rigorous birth control (condoms and/or vasectomy), etc. has to scoff at this. Women haven't experienced the insanity of the male sex drive either, which probably rivals the turbulence of the female period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 11:00 PM
–	“Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger. So are you saying that men only want to be with women for sex? No, but that's not a worst case scenario. Some men want to be with women just to bolster their social image, which is even crazier. Some because they have no autonomy and just figured it's what you do, like having kids, etc. I think you're missing that women will have no options if male preferences are indulged to a certain extent. The issue isn't men only valuing women sexually, it's that that's the only differentiation between how …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 12:03 AM
–	“Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger. I think the issue is that merely caring about women as people doesn't afford them any special privilege. There are men other men care about very much as people that they're not trying to take to dinner, live with, talk to on the phone more than once a year, etc. So what, beyond the powerful sexual attraction to women that's mostly physical, is supposed to make a male interested in a woman? Do you think dudes want to adopt kids with and shack up with their best male friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 11:43 PM
–	“Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger. The issue is...male heterosexual attraction to women is based almost entirely on physical appearance. The minute there's a more immersive, much more tactile outlet than gazing at pornography through a screen, that's available to men en masse, it's game over. At that point, even men who prefer actual women to bots will be like "Hmm...not worth the trouble". That's where we're headed, where some men still dish out money for Onlyfans on one hand, and women have no actual suitors anymore on the othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 11:20 PM
–	“Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger. That would be calling men's bluff stupidly. Female sex dolls will never be able to replace women, but 98% of the world would turn into a caricature of Japan overnight if men were mailed a realistic sex doll or some Alicia Vikander in Ex Machina type construction (minus the AI) instead of their tax rebate. The youtube videos from women complaining about men not approaching would reach absurd levels. There would be actual legislation about this. Imagine if males had a pill that would sterilize the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 10:55 PM
3	TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complex Raising good kids and being a good mother doesn't mean you aren't reproductively irresponsible. That's the point. The initiation of motherhood itself, whether it was a choice and you were up to the task, is irrelevant as to whether or not that was done in ideal or remotely ideal circumstances. Did the partner die? Why are you dating "now"? You cannot evade the issue of partner selection. You chose somebody. Why didn't it work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 02:09 AM
5	TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complex That's one scenario. The other is "Why couldn't she wait for me or someone like me?" A man has no kids, and could easily have been as reproductively irresponsible or more, but wasn't. Why wouldn't he feel some contempt for her decision-making? It's not about hating her, but if he has any self-respect he'd be looking at her askance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 01:38 AM