JeckiLonsFeet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Rant: alimony I structured my child support so that my kid goes to private school and I pay the tuition and the difference between the total Support number and tuition is what I pay her in support. I did this because she partys drinks and I think a recreational drug habit and I didn’t want child support going to those bad habits. Luckily the tuition eats into a huge portion of the total support number and I only pay a couple hundred bucks to her	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/24 04:46 PM
3	Any of you have a relationship with your step children after the divorce? Yes, I raised my stepdaughter from when she was 1.5 yrs old till she was 12 and I text her regularly to check in, she comes over to hang out with my sons or just me, sleep overs. It’s difficult because I never wanted the divorce and when she’s over we’re all happy and it makes me miss the family and marriage but I will always be there for the kids	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/24 04:37 PM
2	When do I stop wearing my ring I flushed mine down the toilet…totally serious	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/24 04:04 AM
1	Campsite Observations I used to dread the weekends, I’d put 60+ hours in at work so we could pay the bills and put food on the table and I would just want to rest a little but it would always be a nonstop day from sun up till sundown of kids sports, shopping, lunch and a hundred other things to do! Like just let me rest and recharge for one day!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/24 03:58 AM
2	Was it better? I’m sorry brother, I know that scene all too well. The doofy new BF who’s going to be super boyfriend/stepdad on the spot not knowing he’s stepping into a hornets nest! Keep your cool and don’t do anything rash	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 04:56 AM
3	Campsite Observations I do not miss any of that! There’s nothing better than just coming home from work, opening a cold beer, sitting on the couch in silence! Haha	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 01:41 AM
3	Was it better? Oh man, I’ve been down that road….the best is when the boyfriend comes storming out of the house to try and play enforcer…..haha	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 01:35 AM
3	Was it better? Yea, it’s pretty bad. I can’t help but laugh when I hear woman say they want a good man or there’s no good men left. The reality is there’s no good women left.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 12:38 AM
4	Was it better? It sucked….im divorced twice. First wife cheated and was hell bent on divorce. She then badmouthed me to the kids and dehumanized me. Filed fake CPS cases of sexual abuse and starving them out, was investigated and both cases thrown out due to no evidence of the claims. My kids were deeply affected and as soon as they do something wrong and get punished it validates everything mom has been telling them and currently my kids refuse to talk to me or come here on my custody time. Second divorce, wi…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 12:22 AM
2	Money I know it, I’m there too. My divorce was finalized in April and it’s so difficult. I finally got a decent paying job and now support is killing me. I think I felt more financially secure when I was in college 😩 we’ll get through it	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 07:50 PM
1	Money It’s difficult…to be going through it and to be talking to someone going through it. It brings back lots of memories…I feel your pain, you’re not alone ❤️	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 04:13 PM
4	Money Divorce kills us. Marriage is a scam	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 03:06 PM
1	Money I know it sucks and it’s expensive but doing it wrong will be a million times more expensive and haunt you for longer. Good luck my guy…you’ll get through this ❤️	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 03:05 PM
1	Money You’re on a slippery slope. Even though your wife agrees the courts may feel differently and give her half the equity. It may not happen but when I was in final settlement with my ex we had everything signed by both parties and it was rejected by the judge because the courts thought the final support numbers were off by $5. I’m not making this up, it’s insane that the judge didn’t sign off on this, it turned out to be a math error by the court clerk and was eventually signed. Totally insane. Its…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 03:00 PM
1	Am I moving on too quick? I think after a divorce people are too quick to move on and get into another relationship. It’s like a race of life to show everyone you haven’t slowed down your 10+ years with your ex was nothing and your in to the next. What may be wrong with that is you’ve never really gotten back to your true self. You compromise alot of yourself when your married and especially with kids involved and your behavior changes accordingly, compare the 18 version of yourself to the current…probably a lot differen…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 02:42 PM
3	Money I’ve been through two divorces and I can say all the advice you’re getting is for shit except what @upvotersfortruth is saying. You can cut her off but the courts will make you pay support for the months you didn’t pay her. Your lawyer can run the support numbers so you know how much you’ll have to pay her monthly and you can budget accordingly. Regardless of what comes out of mediation the judge can and will override anything that they feel is unfair, doesn’t matter if your wife agrees to it. T…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 02:23 PM
1	How is your online dating experience after separation? Ukrainian ex wife here…if she’s already showing that jealousy it’s going to get a lot worse. Mine would accuse me of cheating with everyone I worked with whether they were a man or woman. She’d get drunk and then the KGB would come out, she tried to beat me with a cast iron pan once! She went from value me to I’m going to kill you in about a year. I probably just got a defective one I’m sure you’ll be fine but I just had to comment haha	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/24 10:37 PM