Jedzoil Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Filed for divorce - She is refusing to negotiate. This. A seasoned lawyer has seen this before and knows exactly what to do about it.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/24 12:32 AM
1	Are any of you fellas into music therapy? Interesting. I don’t think of it as “music therapy” but I’ve been tinkering with the idea. I’m normally a metal guy. I took up a cardio class at my gym to get in better shape and get out of the house. They play music like this More Than You Know https://g.co/kgs/4tUorYm I went down a rabbit hole with that type of music, and I find it makes my mood better and makes me want to move a bit between it and memories of the class. It doesn’t hurt that the class is full of decent looking, positive women …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/24 02:04 AM
4	Why do all the men here get into a panic over Mother’s Day? It’s like anxiety takes over. I could be wrong but I highly doubt the same sentiment is shared on the other side of the fence. I think you’re partially right. There’s no doubt her mother will have her back at any time. However I think her mother understands that she made selfish choices and sympathizes with me a bit.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/24 01:34 PM
6	Why do all the men here get into a panic over Mother’s Day? It’s like anxiety takes over. I could be wrong but I highly doubt the same sentiment is shared on the other side of the fence. I haven’t done anything either. For Mother’s Day she took our kid and friend away for the weekend to Maine, and left her own mother at home (who wanted to go). Maybe I should do something for her mom and not her?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/24 12:55 PM
9	What bucket list items are you planning on doing when you get divorced Get in better shape and maintain it. Find a happier woman to spend time with. Focus on my finances. I’m not even divorced yet and tackling these items partially already.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/24 02:37 AM
2	Dating in your 40s I pulled the trigger and wasn’t sorry. Don’t let it hold you back. Other divorcees have the ability to understand where you’ve been and what your dealing with. I had a decent experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/24 12:33 PM
8	Wife threatened divorce I was you for years OP. I’ll tell you a truth I read later on after I got my bearings. Once they mention it, it’s a feasibility in their head. It’s a slow downward spiral until you have no choice and it happens. I tried to stick it out for my kid, but it didn’t do any good. Inevitable. Furthermore you damage your kids, because even if you hide it from them they know in some primitive level.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/24 01:14 AM
9	Would you tell your STBX that you are going to a therapist? No way. She would see it as a weakness and try to exploit it somehow.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/24 12:27 PM
2	Daughter has become distant. Anybody else deal with this? More and more distant. Her mother has convinced her that I’m a bad father. I haven’t been a great father, but I never got the chance. She’s having false memories. Planted by her mother like when I punched my huge German Shepard for trying to basically rape her in the snow a few years back (dog wasn’t right). I did this on her mothers word and request. Now her mother is telling her I’m an animal abuser. Shit like that. Yea I punched that fucker. I will do the same to anything that tries to do tha…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/24 02:35 AM
7	Daughter has become distant. Anybody else deal with this? Yes. Her mother is conditioning her to se me as someone external. She’s a narcissist and has been prepping this game for years. She forces wedges and plays games. I only recently caught into it, but I may be too late and I feel powerless.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/24 02:21 AM
5	Update: Ex Wife Showed her True Colors I just have to say that I love the term monkey branch. I only heard it on this sub recently but to my knowledge there was no term for it in the past.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/24 09:36 PM
6	Update: Ex Wife Showed her True Colors This is true, and I’d like to make it come true for my stbx someday.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/24 09:33 PM
5	Wife and lover not working out God damn this was a satisfying story for reasons I can’t cite. Thanks OP! No second shot, she won’t change. She will only have a worse version of your last experience the next time she decides the muff is greener on the other side.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 10:54 PM
14	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... I had it the other way. She would replace things that were functional and fit with godawful things from target.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 06:48 PM
1	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? But that’s still 6 figures… over 6 figures is 7 which starts the millions ?	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/23 11:54 PM
2	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? Well over 6 figures? Is that in the millions?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 07:33 PM
1	Made a dumb f*cking mistake last night Dude chill. You don’t know his back story.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/23 03:26 AM
1	Married for 2 years but sex is declining Just 2 years? Damn I’m feeling like a woman for holding out longer than most guys.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/23 12:17 AM
3	Divorce with kids is crippling, A death sentence to men. Wow, she’s very vindictive. This is scary.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/23 06:18 PM
1	Why are the simple words so hard to say? I was wrong or made a mistake because I didn’t think about it enough, research it enough, didn’t know how to research it enough, or didn’t have the knowledge I thought I did. This was me this morning while returning an expensive engine part. They had a no return policy but will take my part back because I non combative and real. It sucks to do, but people need the ability to do this.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/23 09:06 PM
3	Feel like I'm just sucking her cock. Look dude, this kind of thing kinda goes against my beliefs, but I’m trying to feel this, and like any good asshole, I have an opinion. 1- she’s younger, you were the ladder, she climbed the ladder. She doesn’t need the ladder anymore, so rather then keep a good ladder she’s opting to throw it away because she’s done with it. 2- you don’t want to do a public project because you feel you’ll be competing with her. I don’t know shit about this industry, except for a hole in it. Anyhow, who cares ab…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/23 11:28 PM
2	Cheating wife. Any suggestions on a good GPS tracker? Thank you. TIL. I guess the legal solution would be to forget something important of yours in her car somewhere. That thing has an AirTag in case you lose it because it’s important to you. You didn’t notice it was missing yet…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/23 12:10 PM
3	Cheating wife. Any suggestions on a good GPS tracker? How does an air tag know if it’s on a person or not?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/23 02:34 AM
6	Taylor swift There are 30 year old women who wear diapers to her concerts so they don’t have to miss anything. They literally shit themselves like babies rather than miss 5 minutes of a song they’ve heard thousands of times before. It’s second childhood to the enth degree. Taylor swift has become a human red flag, and a giant one.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/23 02:32 PM
3	What was the cost of your divorce? The money. I just threw up a lil.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/23 01:14 AM
2	What was the cost of your divorce? So it’s like the wedding industry that keeps driving the cost up? Ironic.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/23 01:12 AM
1	What was the cost of your divorce? Not over yet, but I’m hoping I win the first prize.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/23 01:12 AM
9	Meeting my ex wife affair partner for the first time... and... I’m thinking this is the best way to deal with it.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 11:59 AM
1	Do you have to be fully divorced to post here. We’re all here to help each other out, no matter what stage you’re in OP. There’s a gold mine of knowledge and plenty of brains to pick.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/23 12:27 AM
1	Destroyed “I’ve written so many motherfuckers off for much less”. That hit home.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/23 08:15 PM
3	Fed up with divorce threats Mine did this for many years. Finally said we should separate over text. I was worn down and had medical issues, so I didn’t argue I agreed. We had a horrible argument about a frying pan that moment. Mostly her insulting me and me trying to de escalate. I just had no fight left. A frying pan…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/23 12:17 PM
6	Can I just vent here from time to time? Meh, I wouldn’t discourage marriage to a young person just because I had a bad personal experience. All women aren’t the same. I have some good memories and a kid I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world. No matter what courts and lawyers do, none of this can be taken from me.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/23 04:02 PM
2	Can I just vent here from time to time? Damn bro, you got stalked 😂 holy crap someone scrolled back 4 years.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/23 03:59 PM
2	Can I just vent here from time to time? Yes OP, I experienced the same thing. Many of us were stuck in marriages with insurmountable problems and aren’t keen on therapists, and don’t feel comfortable talking to people we know because of judge mental reactions or your laundry being spread around. I have read a few stories that were even almost identical to my own. It’s just good to be able to safely connect with people facing the same issues and realize you’re not alone.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/23 03:57 PM
2	Fed up with divorce threats I went through 1,2,3,4,6,7. My ex always brought up divorce in arguments. She’s telling you where her mind is at, she can’t hide it when she’s angry. Get out ahead of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 11:44 PM
2	Has anyone decided to have a kid after divorce? I have a friend who feels the same way. Marriage and cohabitation is not on his menu.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/23 07:21 PM
1	Stay in a loveless marriage or open your heart to a new woman ? What? If you had any love in the first place, you wouldn’t be so ready to look for a new thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/23 04:23 AM
1	How to deal with the fact that my stbxw is going to be sleeping with other people This right here. It will be meaningless.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/23 12:21 AM
8	Who has found getting back into dating difficult in this climate I can’t even imagine it. Apps, social media, and all that circus is not for me. I’m just gonna stay old school and if that’s a problem for someone than I’ll save myself a lot of time.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/23 12:26 PM
3	What do I do? Isn’t this what they call a dependopotamous?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 06:41 PM
1	If you were to remarry, who would you look for? Given my recent situation, I need to watch that movie again. I remember it was good.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 03:26 PM
2	Just found out my ex-wife had a baby Yes that only gets amplified with a kid.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 01:29 PM
2	If you were to remarry, who would you look for? Yes, and I’ll take a 24 year old gymnast who’s an excellent cook, never loses her temper, and invents cool machines in her spare time 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 11:28 AM