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| 53 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other. | CMV | Jeetuprime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:05 AM |
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| 1 | Lukewarm responses after datesI guess if you post a conversational sample one could help. Besides that, ask yourself. Are you having fun? Did you escalate into a more emotionally/fun conversation rather than a barrage of questions, fun facts about yourself and small talk? I would just gauge comfort first, and try to add aspects to the date that aren’t just dinner like a walk to a desert place close by, body language says a lot. The way someone walks with you says a lot. This is just what I like to gauge with. More you statem… | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Question Regarding Seduction With AutismYep | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Question Regarding Seduction With AutismYou can look between the eyes at the uppermost portion of the nose or between the eyebrows. It’s easier. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 08:54 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate from conversation to good timesIve actually found a really good middle way here which is light kino, good location for the first kiss, and what I usually say instead of asking for permission is “I really want to kiss right now.” It’s more assertive than asking but it gives plenty of space for her to back out in case all the other signs had been misleading. It’s always ended in a kiss | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Guys did I ignore red flags?Yes, these are red flags time to find a new gal | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 05:03 AM |
| 18 | Guys did I ignore red flags?Is water wet? | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Lost all my confidenceGet like a shit load of endorphins from a 4-5 day workout regime with weight training and cardio and your confidence should shoot up. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Lost all my confidenceDude, what’s your exercise schedule like? | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 06:44 AM |
| 12 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.Bruv there’s Indians on this sub who’ve managed well. I just don’t think we thought this much about race christ what a post. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him?Yep, I’ll elaborate. Social skills and physical skills are skills. If you put time into both you’ll become better at them. Find ways to express your interest without being a creep. If he’s skinny hit the gym, if he’s thicc do a sport with lots of cardio. I do both. Find a good balance, endorphins themselves will give you confidence. Don’t talk to any girl like you’d want anyone to talk to your mum or your sister. Be very open about showing interest, call the outing a date when you ask, don’t get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him?Talk to people, take care of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Boat Party for SinglesDrink enough to dance but more, Dance enough to sober up but not more, Make eye contact while dancing and smile (don’t aggressive dance onto anyone) Chat in the smoking area and don’t be a moron. You got this man, you already got this. Believe in yourself, be kind and confident. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks..but....Don’t prescribe to Andre Tate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexYou can have high social intelligence by having high IQ which can make things a lot easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below averageI think you’re thinking Asian-origin people. It’s still pretty rare for Asians to date outside their countries because of the contrast in dating life. I’m talking about the culture not so much the physicality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below averageMate that’s nonsense, I’ve been living in the UK as a 5’10 Indian dude. I’m not fit, just a little muscular with a dad tummy and I’ve found and dated many nice looking girls based on blue pill advice. I’ve been as open and honest as possible, most of these girls wanted a relationship just because we had a real connection instead of a power play. By all definition I’m below average when I’m not at my physical peak, especially with the creepy connotation associated with Indian men so I even avoid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | What are ways to affirm a man’s “masculinity” that aren’t tied to “dominating” or “subjugation”?-Calmness in the face of difficult situations. -Active lifestyle, good fitness. -Good male friends that do not condone cheating and cowardly behaviour so you have a pack. - Being respectful, but keeping respect for yourself (I.e, don’t neg OR simp) - be confident in what you do well no matter how insignificant the skill is. - do not talk about alpha/beta structures to people and the dom/donee relations of humans to others, they will assume you’re insecure about your own position. -don’t jack off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 11:02 AM |
| 3 | So Many Men Leave Their "Starter Wife" After SuccessMonkey branching is a method yes, but remember you have to restart an entire relationship. I personally wouldn’t enter one if I didn’t find my partner incredibly attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.This is why I love staying India, even if you’re middle income you can just have someone come in once a day to shine the whole place for less than 2-3 days of your wage. In the UK My partner does cleaning of the house and dishes etc up to 90%, my work load is slightly more enjoyable with only cooking once a day. In return i financially stabilise her whenever she needs it since she doesn’t have a job yet. Now I grew up having domestic staff doing all the cleaning dishes etc so I don’t even know w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:48 AM |
| 1 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?Singing is the bread winner. Any voice can be trained, it’s true that talent will always make better singers than you. But a trained voice, to just sing long confidently when songs you know come on I’ve seen to be quite useful since it comes across as confidence in the fun you have. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 9 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?It made me a realist I was on the larger side as a kid but I didn’t like others who were on a larger side. I took up Muay Thai and got into shape but I didn’t resent people, I just figured I need to bring a few things to the table. Being fat definitely trained me automatically into becoming charming and once fit, the two went nicely together. It’s impossible to hate an entire section of society and judge them since sex and relations are really a privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:08 AM |
| 4 | I feel so guiltyMm a snitch so sexy | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.It’s as ridiculous as wanted a complete publicly nun-wife with the sexual heat of napalm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.Agreed wholeheartedly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.This is entirely correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I think we can agree to disagree that they both are largely superficial ideologies and very similar in terms of metric success. I’ve read the side bar and PUA and red pill are one and the same, they both require posturing and neither really promote self help. If you went to a trained psychologist and repeated the red pill ideology they’d think you’re a sex crazed maniac who’s constantly trying to manipulate the situation to suit your needs. The only difference I see is the narrative where the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.This is fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.Nailed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I honestly believe the most demanding person tends to be the most compromising ultimately. It’s quite impossible to find consistent relationships till both are willing to compromise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.Yeah their stories are long but I do believe if you believe in yourself backed by any twisted ideology or not, you can get laid/in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I completely agree, but let’s see the units of measure they use to find their partners. It’s the same. Redpill ideology insists on finding partners with minimum required attractiveness, subservience and financial capability to prevent leeching and FDS has the exact same wants in an antagonist fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I disagree, they’re vastly different but their units of measurement are exactly the same. It’s like mercury and pool water industries both using the same tube to measure volumes and wondering how pool water keeps mixing with mercury. At least that’s the point I’ve tried to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.You should see their blog on success of their system. I’m not saying FDS is a non toxic system but they have perfected getting “beta” men. First of all there is no such thing as alpha and beta those are momentary social structures and it has been proven by the person who theorised it. There are a lot of under-confident, good looking successful people out there who fit most alpha standards superficially but will not contest much in a relationship but a lot of those people change after their first… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I’ve checked it out and I’m sorry it seems like an objective oriented value assigning metric which yes includes self improvement but also a lot of deception. First of all I’m not saying that both systems are two sides of the same coin. I’m just saying they value the same things. They value gatekeeping on power structures of a relationship be it giving sex or a relationship. They value beauty, wealth and power. If you couldn’t understand that you didn’t read the paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.It should be a requirement. I’ve had excellent lovers who were not excellent friends which also led me to believe that they were not suitable for me despite initial chemistry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.It’s not just a manifesto, this information is also gathered from how people end up applying the ideology. This also largely discussed the superficial aspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:48 AM |
| 0 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I’m trying to understand where your definition of trp and mine differ. I’m even open to sounding ignorant if you can show me how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:33 AM |
| 0 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.What are the differing points may I ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 0 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I’m afraid on any academic research, the points all align to self confidence, self improvement and success. Integration into varying social circles in order to meet as many women as possible to maximise sexual encounters. Where am I missing something? https://tspace.library.utoronto.ca/handle/1807/97663 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:42 AM |
| 1 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.What’s the RP sidebar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:12 AM |
| 4 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.I would definitely love to see citations of scientific evidence on the effectiveness of the red pill in particular as an ideology. This is not to antagonise but merely to learn. Again, if you read the text, I am excluding ideology as a subject since it’s never bought up in conversation while both TRP and FDS are engaging each-other on a date. I’m sure you’re vast research entails that social skills require not bringing up inflammatory topics during casual encounters. While a lot of men have cite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:06 AM |
| 2 | I’m lonely and suicidal. I’m tired of being lonely.I’ll give you practical advise. Look you must have hobbies now make a list of hobbies that are social, there are clubs and societies for everything which have girls. Talk to them about your hobbies, since you both share them this will be a great opportunity to talk about something with ease. Play then game on the easiest mode and just practice chatting to women this will also provide a good bonding exercise. No strategies, no games, no power moves keep a completely open mind. If the conversation… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 08:52 AM |
| 0 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.But this is just a view of the power narrative. How often do you see people discuss this in broad daylight? Even red pill men know to not share any views that would torch their chances and they keep it secret. So do FDS women. What I’m trying to say is that when you’re on dates irl these are topics that don’t come up but both parties tend to agree on superficial factors like success, looks and social status. So if the ideology is put aside since it would never actually become a factor during dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.Nah, friendship should come post relationship that’s the correct order of things. It has to be blind in the beginning because there’s nothing to lose and both parties can go home if something doesn’t work out. Friendship first is stupid because if that’s not your intention then you come off as a creep and a liar. No one likes people who pretend what they’re not it’s cringe. But if a relationship is good, the sex is good, you get along then there’s bound to be friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:23 AM |
| 3 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.Plus a real relationship with a great connection is like a very good friendship. There’s bound to be compromise, if either is behaving according to the other then communication has clearly failed between them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 2 | I think the Red Pill and FemaleDatingStrategy are codependent structures of particular types of people who end up dating each-other.Let’s even assume that they’re telling the truth. I still can’t help but think that people with only self serving mindsets who are basing their entire confidence on this perfect relationship, will only end up tolerating each-other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | What’s one (or more) piece of advice you’d give to young people when it comes to dating?Be yourself and be a confident version of it. Even if you like the nerdiest crap out there just sell the hell out of it and talk anyone down who gives you shit for it. Like confidence in what you like naturally reflects without trying to see unnaturally confident and it’s easy to find hot partners with similar interests if you go to the right social circles. See the thing is “I’m a shy gamer” isn’t an excuse, you have to be a not shy gamer and go to the conventions and find like minded people to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:45 AM |
| 2 | 90 percent of open relationships are destined to fail.If it’s something you genuinely want to do with the partner I believe swinging has great results provided your sexual chemistry is good to begin with because then you’re just throwing down with other couples and showing them a trick or two. Everyone goes home and everyone’s body count goes up by the same number. This is if you can watch your partner fuck someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Maybe let her feel her legs out before thinking of a full on dating scene. Wouldn’t be fair to either of you if you got attached but her compass still points strongly to women. Bet she’d understand too if you put it honestly. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 01:44 AM |
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