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Tbh I stopped reading shortly after the 200 matches thing and skimmed the rest. Online should be a supplement to your dating life, not a means. Haven't browsed this sub in 6 years, but a lot of online dating and "Chad PUA" shit is getting pushed here. Quite the change.
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:24 PM
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"Successful" but opens with/focuses on dating apps and buying premium 200 matches on Tinder in the largest US city after dumping hundreds of $ 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:41 PM
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A true nice guy with confidence finishes first. A "nice guy" always finishes last. The key to getting women is being confident and not looking like a slob. It's why assholes get women but can never keep them longer than a few months unless she lacks self respect. If you are a decent person, confident, and not a slob, you can pull girls and keep them longer (if that's your goal). A few solid LT FWBs that are no drama is always better than multiple ONS imo.
/r/seduction22/12/20 01:33 PM
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But... but how do I know if she'll text me back? Plz respond. No delet.
/r/seduction21/07/19 09:44 PM
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Not a waste of time, just not a main source of anything. Use it while taking a shit or bored before sleep for an extra date every month or so. Don't use it as your main means of dating; its supplemental.
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:53 AM
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What the fuck has this sub become where someone just being cheeky about giving someone a task can be seen as "charismatic leadership"...
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:24 PM
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Taking Tinder this seriously
/r/seduction20/05/19 12:22 AM
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Right? What is this shit lmao
/r/seduction21/11/18 06:57 PM
1

Since nobody answered you, night game is the frame you set when you go out later in the day to pick up girls. Frame at a club/bar is mad different from frame at a social event or cafe (day game).
/r/seduction20/11/18 08:57 PM
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but beyond maybe 6’2”-6’3” it just becomes goofy IMO Depends on your build. I'm 6'5" and my bud is 6'4". He's super skinny and it looks awkward. I'm fit, but not ripped, and it looks good. My manager is 6'7" and shredded. Dude looks like a fucking Greek God and I know that height is helping him for sure. I actually saw a study done once that had the perfect (most attractive) male height as 6'3" and it only slightly got less attractive between that and 6'6", then 6'7" and beyond took a steep nose…
/r/seduction20/11/18 08:53 PM
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Thanks bro, you too haha
/r/seduction13/11/18 09:00 PM
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That's why "assume attraction" is a thing. Never take a risk, never get the results you're hoping for. I had that happen a lot in early college until I caught on to it. You just need to escalate more and take the risk, because most girls won't.
/r/seduction13/11/18 02:36 PM
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Walk up to her, make sure she realizes you're there so you don't spook her. Stop thinking about it you dumb bitch and just do it. Talk to the girl. Talk some more with the girl, maybe touch her arm or shoulder when you both laugh. You are talking to the girl, congratulations!
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:26 PM
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Am Latino myself. Granted I am a top candidate from my school, I still see this all the time where someone less qualified gets a job due to "diversity". It's racist in itself saying "you're not white, well you need a crutch then" like we're unable to perform at "white standards", yet the people calling for it do so in the name of "equality". It's hypocritical. I work for a huge business services corporation myself and while they don't care much about race, they definitely care about sex. I have …
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/18 02:37 PM
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or to plan dates according to their interests (sushi/taco dates) Bro... and most women like her decide carefully who to sleep with. Nah. Women are just as open to sleeping with others as guys are. How they go about it is different. We want to know a girl is cute and not crazy. A girl wants to know you're safe. They don't really decide anymore carefully than you would, it's just guys view it that way because we have different qualifying factors for women. This may work differently in other countr…
/r/seduction17/03/18 08:50 PM
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You sound hella clingy. Girls can sense the desperation and over-reliance and get turned off by it. She probably told you it was a "cultural difference" as a more polite and qualifiable way to turn you down than just "I think you're clingy". That or maybe she just wanted a quick fuck and you were the guy. We really can't say. All we can say is you appear way too clingy. You played some video games and had sex with her one time and want her to be your girlfriend? Need to tone it down a smidge. Ei…
/r/seduction17/03/18 08:01 PM
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You also seem pretty needy to want to be in a relationship with a girl you fucked once I think this has a lot to do with it. She probably sensed that, got turned off by it, and is now not interested. That was my first thought after reading the story; he's too clingy.
/r/seduction17/03/18 07:56 PM
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"I had sex with her but couldn't kiss her" ...wut
/r/seduction17/03/18 05:21 PM
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they for whatever reason start preferring older dudes than guys in their age bracket. That's how it's worked forever for our species, though. It wasn't until recently that large age gaps became taboo in Western countries. They start caring less about social norms at that point and are more willing to try it. Older men have more of what women look for in mates than younger guys do. That's just how it works.
/r/seduction09/03/18 04:34 AM
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Mmhmm. I work in a field that is filled with women. The number of them who have dated men WAYYY out of their age range is nuts. They all pretty much unanimously prefer older guys as well. Same goes my for my friends as well. The other day I dropped in to do a quick report I forgot about and some girls were chatting with this one girl about a guy she was dating and how he is 37 while she is 22. They were all encouraging her to keep it up and she mentioned he's not only great in bed, but has deep …
/r/seduction09/03/18 02:01 AM
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Yeah, Tinder is shit for good girls. Just use it as a supplement. Go out to meet girls and build real rapport. I won't lie, I've flaked on Tinder girls, but never girls I met in real-life. Hard to gauge a person over some pictures and text messages.
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:29 AM
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DON'T. FUCK. YOUR. COWORKERS.
/r/seduction05/03/18 02:59 AM
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Totally depends on the rapport built. If it's some chick off Tinder, probably about 50/50. Girl in a club, 25% flake. While running about my business I meet here (coffee shop, grocery store, whatever) almost never flake. More time to build rapport and less divey the place, the better for dates. That said, for just hookups, the more divey the place, the better.
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:26 AM
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WOmen are evolved to flake, its part of how they gauge what kind of men we are. I'm curious to hear your rationale on that one.
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:06 AM
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Seconding this. Only time to not give 2 strikes is if she ghosts you or flakes really hard and has nothing to say about it. Luckily I haven't had the latter happen, but I'd imagine that must be the ultimate bitch move to pull...
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:05 AM
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Online dating to supplement your life, not run it. In-person will always be LEAGUES better than online, but sometimes you can get a decent bite just from checking your Tinder once every now and again. In fact, some of the best dates I've ever had have been with Tinder girls, you just gotta weed through it a bit to find the good matches. A lot of really good catches who are just introverted use online dating. Do both online and real-life.
/r/seduction26/02/18 01:36 AM
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ANIME AND FUR SUITS
/r/seduction13/02/18 11:27 PM
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Dude, I'm beginning to think they may have kissed. Not sure why.
/r/seduction03/02/18 11:45 PM
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I'm not sure, but I think he bought her some drinks. Maybe he got her Snap after buying her that drink, then another, then another?
/r/seduction03/02/18 04:17 PM
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Cut her out your life the way she been cutting coke behind your back. I highly doubt this is the first time she's screwed a guy without you knowing to get some drugs. Remove her from everything, block her number, and move on. You shouldn't be crushed by some woman who cheated on you. Only trash takes a marriage vow and then breaks it. That's literally as sacred as vows should be.
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:41 PM
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But the real question I have for you... Is NYE amateur hour?
/r/seduction31/12/17 07:54 AM
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In other news, drink water to hydrate yourself.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:41 PM
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There's a huge difference between being a nice guy and being a pussy. A lot of guys seem to miss that point and think to get girls you need to be nice and submissive/skittish... If you can be confident in yourself, nice, and willing to go after what you want, you'll get much farther than the guys who are assholes. Guarantee it.
/r/seduction27/08/17 11:43 PM
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Lmao broooo
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:37 PM
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He's lost interest in you. All these dudes trying to give excuses, but it's likely he enjoys the casual texting conversation but is not interested in more than that. Most likely scenario, imo. Ask him, you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:32 PM
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men look for sex while women don't Women most certainly look for sex, they're just more selective in how they find it. There's a reason bars and clubs tend to have so many women, my friend. Men have nothing to lose by being bold and upfront. Women do. They have status, slut-shaming, they're naturally weaker than men (ie men are dangerous to them), they in-fight (biology), and they look for powerful traits in a man before taking him where men just look for attractiveness. It's a different game fo…
/r/seduction28/05/17 12:03 AM
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women don't like sex If anything women love sex more than men do... Spend 5 minutes around a girl who is comfortable talking to you. All she'll talk about is sex, emotions, sex, and food. Women are the sex fiends, not men. They just play it more nonchalant than we do.
/r/seduction27/05/17 11:49 PM
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It's been like that for over a year now. Any real FRs get shot down because they're not "exciting". IDK what has changed but this sub has gone downhill fast and it makes me sad...
/r/seduction27/05/17 11:48 PM
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That slap video was funny af, but don't scare dudes here. I've never once seen a girl lay her hands on a dude unless he was a complete dick to her.
/r/seduction27/05/17 11:44 PM
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Okay? Sure. Good? Much like with the guy, it depends on the girl. I shittest a lot and it's good fun. I totally get why they do it. You can weed out some girls with it and just enjoy watching some squirm. The ones who can own it are the keepers.
/r/seduction25/05/17 01:33 AM
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Worry about the pictures, those do the heavy lifting. The rest is just mush. If you want to make it obvious you want a hookup/date/relationship, then adjust your bio accordingly. Just put a tidbit of info in it and roll from there. She won't give 2 shots past a picture and you talking to her.
/r/seduction25/05/17 01:32 AM
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6'5" guy here. Tried it with and w/o my height. NOTICEABLE difference. If you got height, let them know.
/r/seduction25/05/17 01:31 AM
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Welcome to reality, friendo. Can talk about it all you want, but you can't reverse biology.
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:33 PM
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I mean... It's pretty self-explanatory; demonstrate your higher value. Just don't be a dick about it or be overly cocky. You work a job where you make a lot of money, you have a lot friends, you are really good at a sport/hobby, or anything that separates your from the average guy, show it without boasting. That's demonstrating higher value.
/r/seduction24/05/17 02:40 AM
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Demonstrate higher value
/r/seduction24/05/17 02:33 AM
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Fuck that. Do something where you 2 can focus on each other and easily vail if it goes bad. My go-to is usually coffee at a nice venue where you can walk after if it's going well. If not, then a Starbucks is just fine.
/r/seduction23/05/17 11:44 PM
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3rd date has always been sex, not kiss. There's also no real rule to it. If you guys kiss on the 1st date or the 100th date, so be it.
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:40 PM
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I still do parties and night venues, but mostly to wing or run interference for my buds. Sometimes that in itself will land a girl, but I just don't like the vibe between me and a girl when she's drunk/high and we don't know each other yet. Just feels annoying and ingenuine.
/r/seduction23/05/17 08:56 PM
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Mmhmm. Cafes and day game are my stronger suits. In fact, I blow dick at night game haha. It's weird how opposite the 2 are.
/r/seduction23/05/17 08:20 PM
1

Must be nice. I'm 23 and everyone thinks I'm 27+...
/r/seduction23/05/17 07:58 PM
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Girls in Starbucks waiting on coffee have aways led to my best dates. I die by basic white girl cafes; they really are the best.
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:44 PM
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Meet her in person asap. I try to do a handful of messages on dating app, move to text for handful more, set up date within a week of meeting. Works out well. Strike while the iron is hot, friend.
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:42 PM
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Cafes. 100%. Granted I'm still in college.
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:16 PM
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He's here for her texting pleasure.
/r/seduction23/05/17 04:52 PM
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Both. Use both. Real world as your main method and online as a little extra. Girls are much easier and more engaging if met in-person, yes, but don't ignore the extra free dates from online!
/r/seduction17/05/17 03:40 AM
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Be high energy, give her high-fives and shit. If she's enjoying it, touch her arm/leg as you talk, especially when emphasizing something that feels good. Just work your way up from there. Look up some kino guides, there's a billion on this sub.
/r/seduction11/05/17 02:42 AM
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From what I hear, that shit is really fucky on mobile, so if they saw it on the Messanger app they may or may not have seen the message. I don't use FB, but my friends complain about the Messanger app fucking up their messages or people not getting with they sent. Although, if I were a betting man, they both ignored you. Can't say for sure.
/r/seduction11/05/17 02:39 AM
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Do you need the job? Don't do it. Do you not give a shit about the job? Have fun!
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:02 PM
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I meant that as in they're stupid, not you. Stubble is like 5hrs to a few days, 7-10 and your face is covered in short hair.
/r/seduction28/04/17 03:05 AM
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It's not stubble at that point, it's a small beard.
/r/seduction28/04/17 02:38 AM
1

I wish I can go to exotic places but I need more money haha Well, it sounds like you know what you need to do. I don't have much money either, so I don't get to go on cruises or exotic vacations like my friends, but I do have a great job lined up for when I graduate, which is more than they can say. Get your career in check and the rest will come when you have time and money to do things. I also feel for you, man. My mom died of cancer last year and I was helping her through college as well. It'…
/r/seduction11/04/17 02:12 AM
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Then how much more attractive do you want it to be? You're already beating most guys if this is the case. Try going to exotic places and doing things other people can't. Maybe that might help you. It really depends on what you want from life.
/r/seduction10/04/17 04:58 AM
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Get yourself a bitching career, pick up a fun hobby, stay fit, dress well, and enjoy life. That's really all there is to it.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:32 AM
2

The girl who tries to establish "dominance" by insulting you or others when you first meet? Yeah, fuck that. Ask me a favor later? You have to be joking...
/r/seduction09/04/17 09:26 PM
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Right now I'm just confused whether i should behave differently on dates but I really want to be myself. How do you guys tackle this issue? Stop fucking caring what people think of you and just do you. 1 girl didn't like you, big deal. The point of dating is to see if you 2 actually like each other. This sounds like a successful date to me. Just move on to other girls. Don't invest so much in to 1 girl. You're job isn't to impress her on a date, the goal is to have fun and test compatibility. Go…
/r/seduction09/04/17 09:20 PM
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Whats the timeline like for texting some kind of follow up in this situation? Whenever the fuck you feel like it. What can you do to smooth the transition from waking up to her leaving? Totally depends on the scenario. If she is being obvious that she doesn't want you there, then leave. If you like her, then stay and talk to her and gauge her reactions. If she's blunt on you leaving and doesn't show any desire to talk, then just leave.
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:13 PM
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Just have fun. Understand RSD/Red Pill are underlying ideas. Don't stick to canned lines/dates/escalations that they offer. Do what feels right to you. Sticking to a script is the quickest way to fuck up. You're there to have fun, not impress her. Go with that mindset. If she's not fun, then oh well, now you know.
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:10 PM
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I will always recommend dance classes for meeting girls and building self-esteem. The problem is I will be spending 4 hours every 2 weeks on a bus just to get to Salsa. Well, that negates meeting girls pretty much since they're so far away. Still, worth getting to learn the dance for when you need it. It's great to throw in to convo and basically cheating for breaking touch barrier and establishing more intimate kino.
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:42 PM
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Yes, the Dead Sea. Dead.... Just like our romance... Why don't you ever call me anymore?
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:20 AM
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Hey man, good job getting in there. Got a lot of work to do, but it's a great start.
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:16 AM
2

I hear 31.5590° N, 35.4732° E is the best spot. Give it a shot!
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:13 AM
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I want to avoid seeming clingy It won't seem clingy unless you spam her all the time. I've texted girls within a minute of leaving before and some girls took a couple days. Just do it whenever the fuck you feel like it. The 3-day "golden rule" will get your balls hacked off, though. They all know it and won't play with it.
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:02 AM
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but... but if I do their homeworks, they have to give me the sexes, right? Maybe just a kiss? On the cheek?
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:01 AM
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but she is wearing a shirt with a community college on it and I get a huge smile then tell her that i stopped messaging cuz i thought she was 15..shes actually 19.but yeah we still hanging out nowadays and its going well Not that hard for a 15 y/o girl to wear a shirt and fake her age. How do you know she hasn't done this before? I had a girl I sat with back in high school who had fake ID, university shirts, and dolled herself up to go hook up with older guys who would buy her shit. Don't risk i…
/r/seduction08/04/17 03:59 AM
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And bouncers don't kick a guy out because he playfully or seriously rejects a girl. Exactly. We've all pushed girls away before. As long as he wasn't shoving them to the floor or treating them like shit, he won't get kicked out for it. I'm with you 100%, he either did something he's not sharing here or he pissed off someone a part of the in crowd. He shouldn't go back for quite a while, if at all.
/r/seduction08/04/17 03:49 AM
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She replied with "I will think about it." She's not in. I told her to reply to me before friday. Nail in the coffin. If she replies or says anything other than no/I'm busy, I'd be surprised. Just offer a place/time and if she shows up, awesome. If you want to date, set that up when you make out. Usually making out in a club is just for fucking unless you set it up as a potential dating scenario.
/r/seduction07/04/17 12:38 AM
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Yep. The only thing that makes me sad is how often I get a girl interested then she drops that she has a BF while we're making out or about to fuck or something... It makes me totally nervous to even attempt having any relationship now.
/r/seduction06/04/17 04:04 AM
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I feel you on ass, being Brazilian myself. Nothing beats a girl with thick thighs and a huge ass <3
/r/seduction06/04/17 03:57 AM
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Yeah, you are haha. I tend to go after tough/athletic girls and dancers, funnily enough, so most are like 5'5"+. I've only ever been with a 5' girl one time, but tallest I've been with is 6'1" which was an insane experience.
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:38 AM
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Were the tinder/online girls you went out on dates with less likely to sleep with you/agree to a second date than other girls you went out on dates with? I'd say more likely to fuck, less likely for 2nd date, but more likely for booty calls. Is it still all looks or status after you met the girl or does game/social skills/confidence come into play? Looks/status help, especially the latter. Game works until you hit a certain point where it's more "maintain" than "game". Confidence is always king …
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:24 AM
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See, you're smart. I'm just a huge car guy and have to have my V8 cars haha. I make the sacrifices. I usually do what you just said and recline the seat back as far as it'll go but if she's like 5'8" or taller, it's really fucking hard to manage. This girl I used to hook up with was 5'11" and it was completely impossible. Really funny to watch us attempt it though haha
/r/seduction06/04/17 01:32 AM
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Shit, I have a Mustang and I'm 6'5".... Pretty much 0 room, it sucks hardcore for that haha
/r/seduction06/04/17 01:28 AM
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Usually rank #1/2 hottest women on campus and always top 10 party school, so no, not at all. Shit, you Google Sip Ep and you can see the stereotype is pretty fucking heavy. No matter what campus I go to, they've had the same rep. Idk why they have it considering they throw the best parties and have the most down-to-Earth dudes, but whatever.
/r/seduction06/04/17 01:27 AM
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Online Dating is either all looks or all status, depends on the site and the woman. Use it as a bonus to get a couple more dates here and there, but stick to meeting women in real life if you want better results. For instance, I can get maybe 20-30 Tinder matches a week if I spend 20 minutes on it a day. Of those, maybe 5 will turn in to dates. If I go out however, it's WAY easier to get and keep a girl. Plus you don't run the risk of getting catfished or ripped off.
/r/seduction06/04/17 12:48 AM
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Sometimes just fuck em in the back seat More often than not.
/r/seduction06/04/17 12:44 AM
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Rush ΣΑΕ They get a horrible rep for being beta/frat for non-frat guys, but every Sig Ep party I've been to destroys any the PIKE or similar frat parties. Maybe not as many hot girls, but always way more fun and way more "real" people.
/r/seduction06/04/17 12:38 AM
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Yeah, you're fucking showing this to them, I can guarantee it. You think you are hiding it, but you're not; girls have animal-like senses for shit. Unless you're some fat, short cave troll with halitosis, you're going to find some girl. Shit, even the Honey Boo Boo lady found a man to give her babies. Work on yourself first or get some fucking therapy. The reality is girls should be a supplement to your life, not the thing that makes you "worth it" or "not pathetic".
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:35 PM
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How? No girl wants to sleep with me ever. I'm not worthy most likely. This is why girls won't sleep with you. If you think this, she picks up on it. Girls are fucking emotional mind readers, man. We only pick up on DANGER, SEX, and SAFETY when it comes to how we hold ourselves, but women sense everything because they've evolved to be that way for years. They're picking up on your lack of self esteem and your desperation, which is why they're flaking so hard.
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:26 PM
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Not so much. A REALLY bad (eating her mouth, too much tongue too soon, sucking instead of kissing, etc.) first kiss is a turn-off, but unless you have really bad breath or do any of the aforementioned stuff, you're fine. Just make sure to use your hand a lot. You can be horrible with you mouth, but if you know how to use your hands, you'll be golden. SAME FOR YOU GIRLS, LEARN TO USE YOUR FUCKING HANDS!
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:23 PM
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Try the same thing without saying "this is weird", because now you've set her up to to think "wow, this is weird". Another fantastic day game opener is "Hey".
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:20 PM
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I'm not saying eye contact is the whole reason it played out how it did. I'm saying it is a powerful tool and had I not used it in that moment, it wouldn't have led to where it did. It helped set up that I'm interested in more than just friendly chit-chat, which is what kino usually does. It can change situation really quickly, sexual or not. It helped here to turn the tone towards intimacy which I capitalized on later.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:37 AM
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What?
/r/seduction01/04/17 09:31 PM
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Practice makes perfect. You will only get better by getting out and doing it. You need to learn your own game, which is something this sub doesn't push a lot; every guy is different. For me, I'm a tall light-skinned Latino, so playing mysterious and strong suits me. My bud is your typical jacked white fratbro, his style is to be the center of attention, ballsy ego guy. Everybody is different. You follow those basic pillars and whatnot, then tweak them. Don't copy from this sub, just get the gene…
/r/seduction31/03/17 04:12 AM
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A girl will warm up quicker to a fit guy than a greasy slob, that's just human nature for both sexes. Even if their game is the same, the fit guy will get her quicker, where grease boy has to work for it. Women put confidence > status > personality > looks. Those are your big 4, with looks being lowest of the group, but you'd be foolish to neglect it. I cant really answer your question well but I can say imagine a girl who is super hot and another who is average, but all else is the same about t…
/r/seduction31/03/17 03:58 AM
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PM me more about Tampa Bay. I'm moving there this Summer for 2 months and definitely wanna keep dancing.
/r/seduction31/03/17 03:55 AM
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Dude, chill. No, game does not change according to body unless you are a male model 1% type guy. All having a nicer body will do is make it easier for you. Much MUCH easier considering you're a walking skeleton right now.
/r/seduction31/03/17 03:44 AM
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Big difference? Yes. Returns are marginal after a certain size, but girls will always pick a fit dude if given the option. We're still animals and fit = attractive. Looks won't decide the outcome, but they will certainly help your case.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:14 PM
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Use text to set up dates or to lightly tease (doubling as reaffirmation) before the date, that's it.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:45 AM
1

Fuck yes. Most fit girls at 5'7" would be around your weight or even a bit heavier if she lifts. You really need to put on some weight and work out.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:44 AM
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Yes. Usually videos on her are kinda ehhh, but for a beginner's quick explanation, he is pretty on-point.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:15 AM
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Thank you! Don't blame shortcomings on social media. 99% of the time it's your own fault. Get out there and approach for results. A 7+ will be MUCH more receptive to the guy who has the balls to go talk to her at a park vs the guy who wants to fuck on Tinder.
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:43 PM
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Online dating is great, but as a suplement. Make approaching (cold or not) your main game and let Tinder be an added for a few extra catches. You will ALWAYS see more success in-person vs an app based on looks.
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:41 PM
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If you're single not by choice anyway. I'd rather have 3+ girls to cycle through rather than just 1, at least until o meet that 1 who makes me feel better than the other 2+ combined. OP has great points, but many guys here are going to say "it's not my fault, it's society", which is not entirely true. It is harder now, yes, but; guys need to realize when it's their own fault for shortcomings and not just blame whatever is an easy target. I help people make friends and pick up guys/girla, but I n…
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:38 PM
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Either go after different types of guys or just grow a backbone. It's weird you're supposedly finding this many guys who are like that unless they fit the type of men you want in life. The thing about dating is the ball is 100% in woman's court to decide who/what she accepts. Men court and women decide yes/no. If you're getting dudes like this, say no, and move on. If it's happening repeatedly, then go after a different type of guy.
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:55 AM
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How is this awkward? Just talk to the poor girl... She's probably confused right now as to why you haven't and is beginning to process "he doesn't like me", since that is the message you are sending her now by not talking to her more seriously.
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:18 PM
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Basically what /u/letsgetrandy said. For me, it depends on the situation. If it's still in the "getting to know you" phase, I tend to lightly belittle her. Not in a NEGGING B/C I'M DA ALPHA way, but in a playful way (I'm a great cook! Yeah, I bet you whip up a mean Kraft Mac n Cheese). I also do it to gauge her reactions. See if she has a sense of humor, if she has backbone, if she gets offended easily, etc. You really have to gauge the girl, but most will react well if you do treat her like a b…
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:14 PM
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That's why you start slowly. If she's grinding her ass on you, of course you can grab it. If she's just touching her leg against yours, then start touching her arm and such and build your way up. I go to a heavily female school with many of your Tumblrina/SJW/RadFem types, so this is actually more common here than anywhere else. Does it happen? Sure, but if you read a situation properly, you'll be fine. I've touched a lot of girls and only ever had 1 be really weird about it.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:51 PM
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You're joking, but this actually works well a good amount of the time.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:44 PM
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If it's a means of you living, don't get involved in work. Ever. Keep the spark alive so if either of you leave, you can make something of it then. While you 2 are working together, not matter positions, DO NOT get involved. 9/10 times it's way more trouble than it's worth. If you're at some BS job you don't care about, then go ahead. Plus, when word gets out, it's hella annoying. Especially if you're just hooking up with coworkers...
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:40 PM
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Do both for best results. Tinder should be a supplement, not a primary method of meeting girls.
/r/seduction27/02/17 10:32 PM
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Your bit on approach anxiety is right on. I always tell guys to just go have fun; that's the point of it. See where things go. Don't get all asshurt if she says no, the point is to have fun!
/r/seduction25/02/17 02:33 AM
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Yeah. I tend to do coffee because it's a great place to get to know a girl. I've also invited girls to free dance lessons, events going on around town/on-campus, going hiking, etc. It really depends on your relationship beforehand. If I hardly know the girl, then I'm going to go for the coffee date 9/10 times. If I know her somewhat, I'll decide from there. I met this girl on my school's transit system one time who had a sticker on her laptop for a flamenco dance company in town. I enjoy dancing…
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:52 PM
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A LITTLE BITCH WITH LIPSTICK ON IS STILL A LITTLE BITCH. Nah, this is some 3rd-world shit right here. I came from this background and trust me; you don't want a woman to be with you just because you're educated. You present the value and you get the women. You're not presenting value, so you don't get the women. It's that simple.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:38 PM
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/u/wannabemanwhore What a guy.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:36 PM
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It depends on what you want. All the broke bitches go to Safeway and Walgreens, the saavy business women who are freaks in bed go to Costco, and the cougars go to Target. What you really need to do is go to Trader Joe's. There you get all the bored housewives who are dime-pieces, rich, and bored. Go make their whole week, if ya nameen.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:35 PM
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Local park or coffee. Either always go over really well. Another is school-sanctioned events. I find the park is usually the best result. I don't like spending money on girls, so I usually go the coffee -> park -> [potential bar] -> close route. If she sparks my interest enough, I'll pay for her coffee. I never pay for her drinks unless she buys me one first. I went on a date a little over a week ago and we got coffee, then went to a local hipster faire thing (I'm by no means hipster; in fact I …
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:32 PM
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There is no right/wrong answer. I never date friends of CLOSE friends nor any family members of friends. The majority of the girls I date are usually friends of friends (but like I said, not CLOSE friends) considering I'm still in college and that's just the nature of the beast. I have had a handful of girls at work want to date me, but I don't shit where I eat, so that's off too. Aside from that, it may be some girl I met in class that I cliqued with, some girl I met while recruiting, or a girl…
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:27 PM
2

You know, I see a lot of made-up shit on this sub, but this never struck me as made-up. On that note, did you end up seeing her again?
/r/seduction24/02/17 09:42 PM
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...what
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:53 AM
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Fellas! FELLAS!! I did it! I got my semen sample!
/r/seduction02/02/17 10:45 PM
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Too late for frame and game. You've been together a while, just don't be a clown. If you have shown neediness, then oh well. From here on out show your independence, but don't be an asshat like you are in these comments and don't try going all "alpha overdrive" on her to "make up" for it. You can be soft with a girl and that's fine, just don't be clinging on to her everywhere you go.
/r/seduction09/01/17 04:48 PM
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One way to find out; go talk to her. If you avoided eye-contact with her and ignored her, she may have taken that as rejection and put you aside. Avoiding/ignoring a girl is the same thing as saying no, just in a more hurtful way. You may still be on the edge of the rope wither her, so to speak. Either way, you stand more to lose by not talking to her than just going to say hello.
/r/seduction09/01/17 04:42 PM
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She is the kind that wont have sex without an emotional connection though.... If you don't want to be with this girl, then don't be selfish and hookup with her knowing she will be hurt by it. Look at how much her ex hurt her. Not only that, but this could totally blow up in your face and be more trouble than it's worth. If you're not genuinely interested in her and she's not looking for a FWB/hookup thing, then drop her. Don't be an asshole. Be upfront with your intentions for her as you guys go…
/r/seduction09/01/17 04:38 PM
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some people just don't click Something more people need to realize. You're not in it to impress her on that first date, you're in it to screen her. It's a 2-sided affair. If you don't mesh, then don't force it.
/r/seduction09/01/17 12:33 AM
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The point of life is 2-fold. 1 is to reproduce and continue the species. 2 is to find out our origins and answer all the "why/what/how" questions we may have. So fuck it, bro; just do whatever makes you happy. It's too soon for us to answer 2, so do 1 and then just have fun before you die.
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:53 PM
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The only downside to them is that they tend to be more prudish at first, since they have an image to defend. That and I find most of them haven't been with more than a few guys, so they lack experience. When it comes to a relationship, they tend to be extremely loyal and nice, though. I'm not sure why that is, but everything I see is how the 8-10s tend to be extremely loyal (and in my experience, this has been true) when compared to other girls.
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:27 PM
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That's really a broad question. What may be interesting to you is boring to me. For instance, I really couldn't care less about big, lavish trips you took to foreign countries. Many find that interesting, I find it really boring. Girls are no different. What may be interesting to one is not to another. You need to do what you find fun/interesting that isn't extreme. For instance, I really enjoy dancing. Most girls can't/won't dance except grinding on dudes. I like salsa/bachata/tango, which is h…
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:24 PM
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After reading your comments and outlook on life, I totally get why you're unsuccessful. You're really toxic and pretty pathetic. Reevaluate your life, read the sidebar for beginning, and decide what makes you happy in life besides pussy. Girls will never make you better, trust me. I hit an all-time low post high school and filled it with girls. That did zero for me. Girls are an enhancement to your life, but you need to find what makes you want to wake up every morning. Once you find that, pursu…
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:20 PM
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Easiest way is to just get 2 girls who know each other really well and are open with each other. Get them both to like you. Watch them subconsciously fight over you. Wait a bit, slowly open on both at the same time, then watch it unfold. Can't speak for the bi/swinger society though. Never dabbled in that.
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:14 PM
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*9s and 10 are much nicer when you approach them than less attractive girls. In fact i've never spoken to one that was rude, whereas i've met tons of 1-8s that were obnoxious. This is 100% true. I have far better luck with the really hot girls than the average. I'm guessing since many guys will look at Norma Jean and say "I can bag her", so she feels she has more options, whereas the hotter girls either get weirdos, the occasional average dude, or the douche-bros.
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:12 PM
2

Well, would you date that fat gross girl? If not, what makes you any different from "those shallow girls"?
/r/seduction29/12/16 05:38 PM
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I totally believed this happened. I just feel like he is totally misreading the situation. He sounds like the awkward/random "nice guys" who are "really good with girls" that you met in high school who eventually turn in to the hardcore Red-Pillers you see once they realize women don't like the way they act.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:19 PM
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Idk bro, your responses really aren't helping at all. I hope it pans out for you, honestly, but understand that you may need to tone it down a few notches or you might not be able to get a lot of the girls you pine after.
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:09 PM
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Nobody? Okay. I'll say it; this sound pretty weird. Dude, you did a great job talking to her. No lie, you did what a lot of guys won't. You just need to mellow out some. This sounds really awkward/cringey. It sounds like you threw way too much at her at once. Flip the script real quick. If some random chick came up to you and started spewing shit about herself, adding your # AND FB, asking for hugs, asking if you get asked out, etc., you'd think she's weird and not want to date her. You might ad…
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:38 PM
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She's not acting masculine, in fact someone ignoring you to avoid you instead of confronting you or telling you no is a classic female move. Regardless, just hit her up in a week. If nothing, just move on and remember this for next time. We all learn by doing shit like this.
/r/seduction30/11/16 09:14 PM
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Next time don't bring it up. Just set up another date with her. Not only does it show you're insecure about it, but she probably feels bad she couldn't get you hard; like she's not pretty enough. Give her a week, text her seeing if she wants to meet up. If not, just move on.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:38 PM
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Also kino guys too. Easiest way to internalize it is by doing it to your dude friends. More people should realize this. A lot of kino used on girls works the same on guys, just in a non-sexual way. You may grab a bud's shoulder roughly to tell him something important or reinforce something good he did. For a girl, grab her shoulder gently, but firmly, and deliver a good message. For guys, you may hit their stomach to get their attention. For girls, a normal touch of the stomach to get their atte…
/r/seduction29/11/16 12:32 AM
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I'm going to echo everything except take a couple steps back. If step 2 is not received well, go back to step 1. Only go a couple steps back if step 2 way oversteps boundaries (due to your clumsiness or an honest mistake), then go back to step 0. An example of the latter would be you touch her elbow, you touch her back, you kiss her cheek, you get overly excited and grab her boobs. She recoils hard. Go back to touching her elbow and rebuild. An example of the former would be you do elbow -> back…
/r/seduction29/11/16 12:22 AM
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Other guys may give you differing opinions, but I say drop her, 99%. It sounds to me like she is push-pulling you and using you where she can. This just sounds unhealthy and she probably knows she can keep you looped around her finger. Either flip the script or if you can't just cut her out of your life. I suggest the latter.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:00 PM
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A better question would be why this has over 150 upvotes.
/r/seduction05/11/16 05:03 AM
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It doesn't hurt at all, but use Tinder as a supplement, not a method. Real life is 1000x easier, but Tinder can get you an extra date or 2 every other week with just using it 2-3 times a week. So instead of getting 4 dates a week, you now get 5, stuff like that. Tinder is also meant to not be taken seriously at all. Just have fun with it.
/r/seduction24/10/16 05:40 PM
1

That article is really solid. How'd you happen upon it?
/r/seduction21/10/16 03:05 PM
1

I'm an academic too, that doesn't effect anything. Go out and party, go to games, go to popular cafes, etc. Anywhere you'd expect to see girls in a comforting, open environment. You need to put yourself out there if you want anything. When you get more confidence, you can learn to just approach girls you see and like, but that comes later.
/r/seduction19/10/16 01:08 AM
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Don't. Sleep. With. Coworkers. Unless you don't give 2 shits about this job, just don't fucking do it. It seldom ends well and even if it does, there will still be a bit of spite between you 2. Don't shit where you eat, my friend. At most, keep her as an "office GF" unless you're okay with running in to potential issues at work. But, since your asked, it seems that she likes you. She's not being maternal, she's looking out for you. No mistaking she likes you. If you're sure you want this, try as…
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:27 PM
1

I've never heard of this one. I've locked eyes before with her during pauses to create tension, but never excessively long. How does that work out for you?
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:17 PM
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Seconding /u/Corncore on atmosphere. Girls are all the same. If anything, party girls and nerds are the 2 who love sex the most. You just need to better yourself and instead of trying to get laid, try to get dates, and make connections. When you genuinely have fun with a girl, sex will usually follow. Being English should help you a ton, just make sure you look good. Go do things to meet girls and have fun! She'll pick up if you're desperate/trying hard for sex. Don't be that guy.
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:13 PM
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Honestly, you sound needy and too forceful. She probably sense you were pressing for sex, hence her rejecting your neck massage after a while. She was tired, you should have respected that, instead you tried too hard. Call it a wash and learn a lesson from this. Try hanging with her again, but don't expect results. Better luck next time.
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:08 PM
1

Salsa dancing is also great. This is also a great skill to have. Go even if you don't have a date to take, lads!
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:05 PM
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she works with me Don't. Date. Coworkers. Period. Don't do it. As a male, you will lose if anything goes bad. At the very least, you'll end up with one less friendly coworker. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:46 PM
1

Seconding this. At a bar/club, you can just go hit on a girl. Chances are, that's what she's there for. During the day, just go talk to her and see how it flows. If she seems receptive, ask. She'll be much more likely to be closed off if you just blatantly ask her out, but if you build a little rapport first, you'll be much better off.
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:41 PM
1

Some people just can't pull of a direct approach like that. It's usually do to a preconceived notion they have in their head (I'm wondering if that's you given the "I'm an awesome guy" line you gave us) or, on rarer occasion, they just give off a weird vibe. What may work is just asking for directions to some place but tailor it towards her. If she looks a bit geeky/hipster, ask her where the best hipster coffee shop nearby is, and go from there. Just make sure to put in that you're interested i…
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:28 PM
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Guy, girl, elder, young, we all enjoy basic interactions. It's bred in to us. When you talk to a random guy/girl, regardless of intention, their response will mostly be similar to yours. Now you see what it's like to be on the other end, start talking to people. You can meet a lot of really awesome randoms this way.
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:25 PM
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Tinder is worth trying, just not as your main source. Getting a girl in-person is 100x easier than Tinder, but Tinder can offer you a free date here and there. It's a good way to supplement your dating life, if anything.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:27 PM
5

tinder Such a great app
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:20 PM
1

I wish my first time had that effect on me :( or any time having sex, for that matter.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:20 PM
1

Seconding this. One of my coworkers did it and it started with him and 6 other people. When I got invited by him, it was at about 15 people. When I went there, the entire bloc was basically shut down and the party was spilling in to the street because friends invited friends invited friends. All for Halloween. Be the catalyst for what you want and if you want it bad enough, it will pan out.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:18 PM
5

Took the words right out of my mouth. There's a difference between not giving a fuck and being an asshat.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:06 PM
5

So the lesson was that I got pretty damn lucky. Exactly. Girls will say repeatedly that they can't get pregnant while not using protection and you can bet your ass that's not true. Just use a condom every time. Save unprotected sex for your gf, not some girl you hook up with.
/r/seduction17/10/16 08:57 PM
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Depends on the girl. I'd say once a week is about right. I've had as little as once a month and as much as 4 times a week. The norm is right around 1 a week. I don't think frequency matters as much as the scenario (do you have a life? Are you fun? Etc) and how you 2 are together.
/r/seduction17/10/16 03:41 PM
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100000%
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:28 AM
2

Drinks, coffee, yogurt/ice cream, walks are the best and easiest dates to go on imo.
/r/seduction23/09/16 08:44 PM
2

But on second thought i didn't fail, i learned. Mmhmm. With EVERYTHING in life; failure isn't bad, it's just a way you didn't succeed. Learn from it.
/r/seduction23/09/16 07:55 PM
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Oh, if it's not finalized, then yeah; fuck em. Don't play by their games. I thought you were saying the extra friend thing as in she got back to you and said "let's chill". If not, don't waste time if she doesn't get back to you.
/r/seduction22/09/16 10:47 PM
1

2's company and 3's a party? Who knows. Could be any number of things. Maybe her friend wants to see you. Maybe they just want more people. Maybe maybe maybe. Go out and find out, but if it's more of this same shit, just drop them both. Definitely give up on the one girl you like, though. It doesn't seem to be reciprocated and she has you on backlog.
/r/seduction22/09/16 10:09 PM
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It sounds to me like you're the second pick in her book. She's not interested, I'd drop it. She will want to go out with you if there isn't anyone else to go with. That's my take from it, anyway. I wouldn't call them attention whores, they're just out to have fun, and you're a fallback it sounds like.
/r/seduction22/09/16 07:44 PM
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As I stated above; just make small talk with random people. That will remedy it. Getting a convo to flow w/ a girl is the same as small talk w/ a stranger. You do that initial little bs chat to set yourself up, then you deliver while showing her your intentions. That's all there is to it. Making observations is a great way to start. For instance, girl walks up, Sublime shirt, low-cuts, and Converse. "Hey, I just noticed your shirt and had to talk to you, my name is Pyroslice." "Haha thanks, I'm …
/r/seduction22/09/16 07:36 PM
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This is 100% true, but how you spin it can really put you way ahead or way behind people. If you put it as in you prefer to be alone so you can meet new people and be confident in it, it'll put you in a really good scope. If you say it awkwardly about how you like to be alone or just seem disturbed by someone remarking it in that way, then you'll be seen as the weird dude with no friends. It's all in how you present it.
/r/seduction22/09/16 07:07 PM
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Work on small talk with random people then, such as at the mall. It really is just as easily said as done. Either that or you're just a hella boring person and need to get some hobbies or something that will better you overall.
/r/seduction22/09/16 07:02 PM
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Just create conversation. That's all there is to it. To continue from where you are, observe something in the environment that can be expounded upon. Deliver it. It's small talk that will eventually break in to something more meaningful. The first minute of a convo on a cold/random approach is usually awkward, but after that it will pick up if you set it up to. Just don't show its awkward outwardly or the convo will likely die.
/r/seduction22/09/16 02:18 PM
1

Stop enabling this type of shitty behavior... End this.
/r/seduction19/09/16 11:43 PM
1

Don't shit in the pot you eat out of, my friend.
/r/seduction19/09/16 05:31 PM
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Going off what he said, 90% of social interaction, ESPECIALLY sexual, is done through body language. Openness, "eyefucking", proximity. These all set the tone. Think about what you say during initiation with a girl. Chances are you can't remember. Being able to talk helps your case, but like he said; words don't matter at that point. She's human, just like you. Have fun and don't think about it. Closing yourself off will fuck you more than not having much to say ever will.
/r/seduction19/09/16 04:51 PM
2

Why you 2 taking addy before potentially hooking up, anyway? Never heard of that.
/r/seduction19/09/16 04:36 PM
2

Don't try hard and don't ask her to let you know when she's free. Just set a date/time and she either says yes/no. If that doesn't work, then talk it out with her. Leaving the ball in her court will fail more often than not, though, unless she REALLY likes you or wants to just fuck you. Think about it. When you ask a girl where she wants to eat, 9/10 times it's "idk". You tell her to decide. What happens? She doesn't. You end up deciding. Same principal here.
/r/seduction18/09/16 04:59 PM
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Be real; many of the posts here have plugs for books they're trying to sell. The advertising for this sub is insane. I also wonder how often it actually works...
/r/seduction15/09/16 05:03 PM
1

Guy friends rarely talk about it, but it comes up. It's more related to the workplace where you have to watch your every move given some girl can ruin your career if she feels like it. Seen it happen plenty of times. It's something in your head, but nothing that scares you; you just know it exists and is a potential problem.
/r/seduction03/09/16 09:53 PM
1

Sounds like she's kidding to me, my dude. The reality is the potential for it happening will always be a thought. Most guys don't and most women won't, but remember; she's working with THOUSANDS of years of previous human instinct plus the fact she knows it will be hard to fight back just given the physical differences. It's kind of a nagging thought for her, much like we get nagging thoughts of lawsuits tailored specifically towards men. Yes, they happen. Will it happen to you? Not likely unles…
/r/seduction03/09/16 01:36 PM
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2 things. Fake it till you make it. Do it soon. Girls usually decide within the first meeting if they'd date you or not. Factors can change, but generally speaking, the sooner the better. Worse case scenario, she says no, and that's that.
/r/seduction28/08/16 06:59 PM
1

Easily possible. Most "alphas" I meet are also good dudes, just the asshats tend to stick out more by calling attention to themselves. Literaly all you do is be confident/strong/charismatic while being a normal, decent human being. You and a jerk will pull a girl with the same ease, but most times, you'll keep her longer, have a healthier relationship (whatever kind it may be), and you both usually end up better by the end of it. Please note, I'm not saying be a nice guy as in bend over backward…
/r/seduction27/08/16 03:22 PM
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Because jerks/douches generally excude traits women find attractive; strength, self-assuredness, confidence, and charisma. The thing is they usually don't keep their women long or their women are unhappy. The nice guy who has all these traits will keep his girls and leave them better than he found them. They find his traits attractive, not him being a dick.
/r/seduction26/08/16 11:35 PM
1

9/10 girls who post "no hookups" are usually looking for hookups. It's like when you're with a girl and she says "we're not having sex" or "I don't fuck on the first date"; that's true an extremely small % of the time. I'd still stay away though. It's a coin flip on how many of those "no hookups" are crazy.
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:05 PM
1

As a Latino who is a 7.5 at my absolute best, I can tell you the whole "8+hot+white" thing helps, but is definitely not the only way like many on here preach. It has to be something you're doing. Has to.
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:03 PM
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Seconding this. I tend to wait for date 3, especially considering if 1 or 2 go bad, do you really want to drive her home? Now you're stuck with her longer which is especially bad if she's crazy.
/r/seduction29/07/16 05:16 PM
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What I want to know is how do you not let rude rejections affect your confidence in approaching in the future? Don't give a shit, that's how. At the end of the day, who is she? How does she effect your everyday life? Chances are you'll never see her again, so just move on; it doesn't matter. I know this will sound cliche, but it's true; most girls who act like that don't get guys, then go post on FB asking why guys don't like them. The guys they deem "worthy" more often than not will choose to N…
/r/seduction17/07/16 10:37 PM
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Touch her in sensual spots. I'm not saying dive in to her pussy/chest, but touch behind her ear, hold her head with your thumb/index, part her hair, touch her neck, her sides, etc. It seems like something that would be obvious af, but you'd be surprised at how most guys just don't touch their girls when they're kissing. Same goes for you girls who lurk here too, be sure to touch us more. Most of you sit back kind of idle and I remember the kisses from the girls who touched me more than I ever re…
/r/seduction17/07/16 12:32 AM
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Keep talking to her and being her friend, bro. Just make sure, since she now knows you like her, to not let her dick you around. Don't show that it hurt or that you still think of her as a potential dating material. Just be her friend and nothing more. Who knows, down the line she could hook you up with her 9.5 friend or maybe she becomes single and wants to give you a shot. Got nothing to lose so long as you don't let her control you now. Be her friend and talk to her, but do NOT let yourself g…
/r/seduction10/07/16 05:37 PM
1

Totally agree, except nice guys do exist, but they don't finish last like all the people here say. Dudes with no spines finish last. Nice guys who are confident in themselves, willing to say no to her shit, and willing to guide the people around him will always finish first. You don't have to be an asshole to win women which is an annoying theme people here seem to follow. Women like the traits the stereotpyical "asshole" has; confidence, self-assurance, charisma, leadership, etc. If you have th…
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:42 PM
1

.7. Make eye contact, never look down Except if you're trying to create a little sexual tension and just want to check her out real quick. Don't look straight down, but let your eyes slowly wander down here, then back up to her eyes.
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:08 PM
1

Agree with everything except CICO and #5. Dude is giving solid advice, OP.
/r/seduction05/07/16 04:36 PM
3

Idk bro, I gave it an upvote because it made me laugh how fucking pathetic it was.
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:11 AM
3

Agreed. Light though, no more than a handful of texts. If she doesn't reciprocate much or you have force the convo, then just use it for logistics.
/r/seduction01/06/16 03:58 PM
4

What a weird technique. Thanks for the read though, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction31/05/16 07:54 PM
5

Won't load on my phone. Wtf is "the cube"?
/r/seduction31/05/16 07:14 PM
2

Idk about top 10%, he seems like an average dude to me, just with a tad more ambition. He's not the average advice-seeking lurker in this sub, though. Granted, I'm making that judgement off of 1 article.
/r/seduction31/05/16 07:05 PM
3

Go out only to have fun. That's how things happen. Work too hard towards one goal (sex) and she'll pick up on it; major turn off, guy or girl.
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:09 PM
2

Piggybacking off this, all of my best pickups ever have been going out just to enjoy myself. The comment above is extremely true. Just go get drinks with buds or go to a party and watch how things naturally unfold. Girls, much like us guys, pick up on people with motives. If yours doesn't match hers, things will fail most of the time.
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:01 PM
1

It's blatantly clear he wants validation, especially after typing that response out, but the people saying this is false are foolish. There are many girls like this and his story is not far-fetched at all.
/r/seduction31/05/16 05:39 PM
2

Quick question. I've always gone solo or I'm a bud's wingman to run interference. How is it having someone else be the wingman? I always feel like I'd rather do it on my own.
/r/seduction31/05/16 05:37 PM
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This is basic 101 human nature stuff, boys. Soak it up if you don't get it yet. 99% of girls will respond positively to touch of you're not a creep about it.
/r/seduction31/05/16 05:24 PM
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Loving the wit, man. Video was fun to watch.
/r/seduction21/05/16 06:55 PM
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To be fair, society raised not only them to be this way, but men to cater to them. I never really understood this rhetoric until I moved to a primarily "white suburban" area. In my culture, women are taught to be independent, but loyal to the one man they devote themselves to. Men are taught to be strong, self-sufficient, and not afraid of challenge. If a man When I moved to suburbia for college 3 years ago, I was impressed at A) how easy it is to get white girls since the dudes tend to be all P…
/r/seduction20/05/16 10:17 PM
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As a 22 y/o, I agree. I can only take so many "amazing stories" about drinking parties or your dog... Girls tend to lack depth, but is it really their fault or societies' fault for raising them to leech off of men and have almost zero ambition? Granted, I will be generalizing with what's following this... Interestingly enough, I find this a problem primarily with fully American/Americanized girls. I'm of Brazilian decent and grew up primarily around Latinos where it's either girls are taught to …
/r/seduction20/05/16 06:52 PM
1

Well 1) NEVER approach ANYONE from behind and 2) that's a pretty unreasonable reaction from her if all you did was tap her on the shoulder. Sure you didn't creep up on her or hit her hard or something?
/r/seduction20/05/16 12:19 AM
2

I've never heard of it.
/r/seduction16/05/16 06:10 PM
2

Miss Sunshine?
/r/seduction16/05/16 04:57 PM
1

Seconded. OP did this to himself. Once he graduates, nobody will care. Shit, they'll probably forget by next year.
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:27 PM
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Or just get over it. It's not the end if the world and there are dozens of other girls just like "her" for you to find.
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:25 PM
1

Depends on what you mean by good guys. Girls like a self-made, confident man. Girls like adventure and fun (don't we all...) and who's more likely to provide that: the 9-5 professional who doesn't do anything fun, or the "bad guys" who have nothing but time and no restraints on their hand. You can imagine. It works both ways. You want a pretty girl who is fun and nice. She wants a confident, cute guy who likes to have fun. Be that guy and you'll get that girl. /u/NotADemon_AMA hit it pretty well…
/r/seduction27/04/16 07:54 PM
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Good deal bro, nice to see such a smooth approach. Nevermind, you're just here to pick up ad rev... Nice, shameless plugs. One thing though... How to become lucky with women No such thing as luck. You do or you don't and that's what makes the difference here.
/r/seduction23/04/16 11:03 PM
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I'm surprised to see ambition so low. Seems to be a top 5 to every girl I've ever met.
/r/seduction19/04/16 09:57 PM
2

Here's a good tutorial and inspirational video on how to handle it man. Take it all in and remember it. Enjoy!
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:47 PM
9

ohhhh hodor me hardarrrr
/r/seduction03/04/16 10:46 PM
12

/thread It's not "seduction's" fault, it's just OP fucked up and is trying to get positive feedback to feel better. You hit it just right.
/r/seduction29/03/16 10:58 PM
1

Yeah, I just read it. Sounds like every girl around 20 y/o tbh. Either way, the story sounded either fake or like he exaggerated some to make it sound better. Either way, not what I was expecting from some basically kissless virgin.
/r/seduction22/03/16 11:22 PM
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I hate how "nice guy" is the term for dudes who act overly friendly or lack confidence around girls/with their own sexuality. Nice guys don't get friendzoned. Guys with no confidence and who place too much value on the girl get friendzoned. Nice guys who are also confident and willing to escalate will get laid more than any of the "stereotypical d-bag jerks" everyone goes on and on about.
/r/seduction22/03/16 10:47 PM
1

I prefer a firm, open-palm smack on the ass.
/r/seduction22/03/16 10:43 PM
1

I agree, but it doesn't mean failure yet. Setting up rapport and intention first will make it pretty solid for a date after, but if none, I'd say he's got a 50/50 shot at flake.
/r/seduction22/03/16 10:35 PM
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Take this to heart OP. Funny thing is, the quickest way to get a "hot girl" is to treat her like she's anybody else. A lot of them get that ego of "why isn't he treating me special, I'll show him". Trust us. Stop with this feeling they're above you shit or you'll never land one. Guys and girls can sense that and as I dude I'd sense you have low self-esteem. Now imagine a girl who acts on emotions far more than a guy does. She KNOWS you feel insecure and it's not sexy to her. At all.
/r/seduction21/03/16 10:03 PM
1

Most guys are sitting around a computer hoping a girl will kiss them instead of being out front drafting her with your happy pheromones as you dominate a stiff 10k hike or other high energy activity. Okay, this made me laugh. Great description.
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:34 PM
2

Mall, campus (assuming you're college aged), nature trails, basically anywhere people go to just kind of relax. The mall is always a great one. I recently moved to a more Southern city and find it's common for girls to just hang out around lakes or parks (like nature/beauty parks, not kid parks) who are highly receptive.
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:30 PM
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For any girls in the sub, please note; this works both ways. Can't tell you how many times I've had a girl be upfront about her feelings and it I tend to feel closer to girls who are much more open, even if they only end up being FWBs.
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:27 PM
1

Coffee Dates and walks/parks/nature trails are the ultimate first date. I'm more partial to coffee myself. You hit it right on the head honestly. I never thought of hummus though, usually go for something more simple... Might have to try that one.
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:26 PM
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Well, not all girls are receptive to this approach for one, especially at work. Also, your approach and how you handled her was really weird. I could totally see her getting further creeped out by it. You should have let it go as soon as she tried to disengage, instead of pushing harder, that just made her feel like a target and she acted accordingly.
/r/seduction14/03/16 04:21 PM
1

9/10 calling her out on it will work. I don't mean being an asshole/needy towards her, but just let her know you're on to what she is doing and you're not afraid to leave if she keeps it up. If you want, say how it's disrespectful or how you don't have time to feel used. Just deliver it in a way that says "if it continues to happen, I'll have zero problem dropping you." Most girls will do this at some point in a relationship. I'm not sure why, but the vast majority of the time calling her out on…
/r/seduction08/03/16 11:23 PM
10

Haha, now you've got your number, what is your top priority? What?
/r/seduction16/01/16 09:57 PM
13

Let me get your number rq, we can study later. Get number. "Study later."
/r/seduction16/01/16 09:08 PM
1

I know that most people say texting should only be used to set up meetings, but what was I to do? Should I have just kept radio silence for a month and pick up when we get back? No, but don't text her too often. Enough to keep her interest and show her you're thinking about her, but not obsessing over her. Just a casual what's up, can't wait to see/fuck you again will suffice. Fast forwarded a month and I have probably lessened some attraction due to over texting. And there was a lot of texting.…
/r/seduction05/01/16 12:33 AM
1

You live in the South by any chance? I moved to the South recently for college and girls are either DTF 24/7 or want families when they're still children themselves.
/r/seduction05/01/16 12:28 AM
3

Until he becomes the beta bucks, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:02 PM
1

I'm 6'6", honestly if you feel awkward, work out. I'd imagine you're lanky, which can be awkward. Besides that, height works to our advantage.
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:27 PM
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Because when they are honest with guys the guy starts bitching, challenging them, complaining, trying to "fix" whatever issue, get offended, and so on. Sounds like you have guys and girls mixed up.
/r/seduction23/12/15 10:42 PM
2

Bro, it was casual ONS sex, she doesn't owe you shit, it was implied. You tried to reach out to her to see if she wanted more, her version of rejecting you is ignoring it. Send her one more text (ONE) later if you really want to, and if she doesn't reply, just drop it.
/r/seduction23/12/15 10:40 PM
2

Is that even really a thing? I hear it often but only experienced it once from some nasty white-trash girl and it felt like she was just projecting her insecurities out to me and validating them with her having cock in her life. I hear that scenario so often on Reddit it sounds like a normal occurrence. I've never experienced that, so idk if its a joke/ circlejerk or not.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 08:31 PM
2

He shoulda known better though, we've been learning this since 13. He just needs to understand how lucky he got.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 08:19 PM
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lol how did this get up to 50 karma? A 17 y/o telling us all the power of a wingman, wow.
/r/seduction21/12/15 02:19 AM
3

Never shit jizz in the pot you eat out of, man.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:30 PM
3

My FWB now is one of the few who could answer those and totally took my interest. She's got everything going for her and is gonna make some dude happy someday.
/r/seduction16/12/15 07:27 PM
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This isn't about "just being yourself," it's about "creating the best damn you that you can be." Agreed. OP's not really on the right track here. At the end of the day you won't care how many girls you have, how much money you have, etc., you'll care about WHAT you are. You can be rich and drowning in everything you want, but if you're still a piece of shit, you'll feel it. Look at how many wealthy people hate themselves. Having money IS important, but if you can't be the best man you possibly c…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:18 AM
1

I love questions like these, too bad 9/10 girls will be caught in the headlights when you ask them these, especially the passions one.
/r/seduction15/12/15 11:56 PM
2

Yeah, just gotta stick with them. They can be a handful at time, but Latinas are hands-down the best. I've gotten a couple shitty PMs about my post, but it is true in MY experience. White girls tend to be bratty and self-important. It's NOT because they are WHITE, but because that is how they were raised. The same goes for blacks or any highly "Americanized" female of any race.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 11:45 PM
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2 things. Be careful bro, sounds like she's got trapping you on her mind. The cheating bit sounded like it was in reference to you, not her bf. She was throwing it out as bait to see if you'd bite. 2nd... Sex God Method style. wtf is that?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 05:39 PM
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It's quite interesting, honestly. I am a first generation American, born of Brazilian decent. I primarily grew up around Latinas or like-minded white girls (lived in a primarily Latino area) and while born in the US, my influences were primarily traditional roles, with a touch of "Americanism" if you will. They expected the man to be the leader, were seldom rude/ungrateful, loyal, and never acted out. If they pushed you, you were not only encouraged, but it was expected of you to push back. I mo…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 05:08 PM
4

Stop living in your head by making things happen.
/r/seduction26/11/15 05:38 PM
1

First date? Yeah, keep it simple and spontaneous. Go get coffee, chat for a bit, then go for walk, go to the park, chat, and keep letting it flow. She wants to know you're fun.
/r/seduction09/11/15 09:26 PM
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If you have to ask that, then I feel sorry for any girls you trick. Be careful not to cross the wrong one, bud.
/r/seduction04/11/15 04:49 PM
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If I hook up with her, will she expect us to start dating? Maybe? It depends on the girls. That's pretty typical of high schoolers to think. If you don't want a relationship with her, just fucking tell her. It's that simple. Tell her what you want. She's either going to say yes or no. I'd say tell her you're not looking for a relationship but you 2 should go do something together. Make sure she understands you're not looking for anything. Then, it's up to her if she's comfortable with it or not.…
/r/seduction04/11/15 02:22 AM
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330 upvotes and a gilding off of a advertisement? Not bad, OP. Idk if that speaks volumes of you or of this sub...
/r/seduction28/10/15 06:18 PM
2

He is trying to sell you stuff. I bet he had a lot of success of this post too.
/r/seduction28/10/15 06:16 PM
1

Get a good stylist and have him/her recommend a good, not flashy hairstyle. Try it and see where it goes.
/r/seduction26/10/15 04:53 PM
1

It certainly does, I even threw in working out. This guide was mostly for social and approach confidence, though.
/r/seduction26/10/15 04:06 PM
2

Gym. Better clothes. Nice haircut. Cologne. Oh shit, you're not ugly anymore! Seriously though, 85% of your looks are controllable by you.
/r/seduction26/10/15 04:05 PM
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I speak 3 languages and I still have no idea what half of that shit is haha. My FWB buys me coffee there a lot and I just let her order me whatever because idek what's going on.
/r/seduction26/10/15 04:04 PM
2

Gotta give her the mandangalang on a chilly Friday night. Invite her in to "keep her warm". Entice her with shitty Fetty Wap music. She'll be so wet she'll do anything. 10/10, I guarantee.
/r/seduction26/10/15 02:02 PM
3

Being a younger guy myself (21) I can easily market this towards my peers. That was the intention of this post. I can also relate to them when they need help. Totally different having a 35y/o game master write a guide vs a 21 college student who is right there with you.
/r/seduction26/10/15 01:59 PM
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Depends. A lot of girls will do this, usually because they are shy or don't want to come off as creepy. Try making eye contact with her again and gauge her reaction. If she looks interested, go talk to her.
/r/seduction26/10/15 02:19 AM
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No problem, man. Thought I'd just share it since it seems to work well for my buds and a lot of people liked it when I posted a shorter version last night.
/r/seduction26/10/15 12:47 AM
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Thanks man. Just trying to keep it simple, because it honestly is simple. It's a mindset. It won't work if you don't work for it. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction25/10/15 11:43 PM
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Lmao no, I agree somewhat. I don't think it's creepy (although I always thought it meant Hot Bitch, not babe) given that it's the internet and it's easier to type "HB7" than "she's a 7/10". That said, in real life, I'd never say HB7. I'd just say "she was like a 7 or 8".
/r/seduction25/10/15 11:23 PM
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haven't the courage to cold approach at the bar. Work on your confidence before you start cold approaching. It's literally as easy as this though. She's sitting at the bar, chatting with the tender. Clearly she's there to meet a guy. She's hot, guys aren't approaching her. You go up, sit next to her, order a drink. From here you can just talk to her, say you're interested in her, or just ask for advice on drinks from this bar. Anything to make small talk. Never offer to buy her a drink right off…
/r/seduction25/10/15 11:17 PM
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One thing I find is I never know what to say some people are natural talkers and can talk about anything and everything how do I improve the content of my conversations and what to actually casually talk about. As I said in the guide, talk to everyone. Everybody is so different and you can learn so much from them. Eventually you will learn to just hold small talk. It's really not a big deal, but the only way you'll get good at it is by practicing. When you're talking to strangers you learn how t…
/r/seduction25/10/15 10:47 PM
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I'm 21 so not many. I've been picking up girls regularly for maybe 4 or 5 years. I won't be as seasoned as a 28 or 35 year old, but I have an understanding of the fundamentals that a lot of new people in this sub seem to not quite get and I can deliver it because they're often times my age.
/r/seduction25/10/15 09:58 PM
25

Blogging? No, I'm not really in to that kind of thing. Is it even still popular?
/r/seduction25/10/15 09:20 PM
2

Please refer to here. I said that to her joking around, she used to always tell me what was wrong if I said something of the sort. That's why I didn't say anything like "oh you used to be X way with me" after that. As we started talking, I realized more just how serious it is. Her BF tends to exaggerate things like crazy, so I figured the once-a-week sex thing was an exaggeration. Turns out it wasn't. Like I said above, I'm staying out of it. I offered my piece to both of them which was talk it …
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:33 PM
1

I know this is a joke post, but real talk, my bud is 5'1" and has a small cock yet gets laid more than anyone else I know. His girls always come back for more, too. Dude is the most confident guy I know and can pick up women way out of his league looks-wise. So all you SDP people out there being angry, don't sweat it so much haha
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:29 PM
1

give the community something to take away from your post. I did, be confident. There's no other trick to it. I gave a scenario where being confident made a difference, then times friends have said it. People on here ask for people to post actual scenarios where confidence applied. I could post another [FR] where I went to the bar or was walking to class, approached HB9, and #-close, or give a scenario to show how confidence effected the girl in the long-term. Sorry you didn't enjoy it man. If yo…
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:25 PM
5

She did discuss it with him afterwards. I told her she needs to talk to him if she wants things to get better. Sadly, this is a pretty typical relationship dynamic to see. I told her to just tell him what is the reason she doesn't want as much sex with him and told her to LISTEN to what he says. Idk how it's going for them because I haven't asked and neither one of them have said. I just hope they actually talked shit out. Don't get her wrong, she does love him. She's just a 23 year old college …
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:19 PM
3

Okay, so let's say you're talking to a girl you want to ask out. You 2 have been talking for a bit and the convo has hit its end point. You have a few options. You can get her number, let the convo die and leave, or hope to see her again. You are really nervous, so you're thinking about just leaving. Don't do that. Commit to it. You like her, right? You want to see her again? Swallow your nerves, look her in the eye, and ask her. "Hey, let's get coffee sometime." If you're too nervous for that t…
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:13 PM
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but it's hard for me to hold a conversation without seeming awkward Only because you think it is. You can start just by making eye contact with everyone. Nod at them or say hello. It's a start. Do this until you can do this with anyone from an old man to an HB10. Eye contact at first, then build up to saying hello and smiling. You'll realize people will 99/100 times react positively to it. Honestly, high school sucks ass. The kids are rude af, annoying, and it's just a bullshit time. Out of high…
/r/seduction25/10/15 05:05 AM
3

Most people hate neediness. It shows a lack of independence. Man or woman, we both agree that it's not sexy.
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:51 AM
2

Guess you're not savage enough for the savage club...
/r/seduction25/10/15 04:22 AM
18

Uhh... Not quite. I'm not advocating being a woman-hating guy with no confidence. Most of the people posting just seem bitter than they're not getting laid enough. Interesting sub, though... Some people are RIGHT on point and the others are just way fucking out there.
/r/seduction25/10/15 03:33 AM
1

Depends. Did you bring your savagry and a 6pack of Corona?
/r/seduction25/10/15 03:33 AM
5

Yeah, the relationship is what you make of it. Most people just let the women run everything. It's supposed to be 50/50. The only thing the woman should be running is decorations and feminine things that I'm fucking terrible at haha. In all seriousness though, there's a reason guys who are confident and don't take shit with women are so successful with them. It's what they want.
/r/seduction25/10/15 02:42 AM
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained my friend :) You never "fail" or are "rejected", you just learn new ways that do not lead to success. Every time that happens, you're just that more likely for success next time around because you know what to do.
/r/seduction25/10/15 02:37 AM
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No, they're only like that if you let them be that way. Women crave higher social status. They'll always try to be in a seat of power. You just can't let them. I can't tell you how many FWBs/GFs I've had where they all said my hottest traits were confidence, being a leader, and not taking shit from them. Seriously, "not taking their shit" is something I've heard multiple times as "hot". Women will constantly push to see if you have any weakness. Ever mad a woman REALLY mad? What does she do?? Sh…
/r/seduction25/10/15 02:31 AM
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I guess that's just the weak side of me making excuses for why I haven't done great things with my life. The sooner you accept you're making excuses, the sooner you can change. Building confidence is a journey, not a sprint. Many people lose sight of that and go in to an even deeper slump when it "doesn't work for them". You are 100% correct in saying "some guys just have it". That is true. Some people are just "born with a lot of money". Everyone else has to work for it. Treat confidence the sa…
/r/seduction25/10/15 02:11 AM
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It's just really hard for certain guys to be confident. See, I never understood this sentiment until I moved to a Southern city. I'm of Brazilian decent (first generation US-born citizen, WHOOO!!!) and grew up in Miami. In my culture and in Miami's men are taught to be go-getters and not afraid of things. The only thing holding you back IS YOU. Men who can't handle themselves, their women, or their problems are weak. Pretty black-and-white thing. Of course, you have those who fake confidence, bu…
/r/seduction25/10/15 12:44 AM
12

I hope so. I see SO MANY relationships where the girls stay with the guy because "he's a good BF/husband/father" and it's like they're making excuses, where the reality is they'd rather have security and a man they know won't leave. I brought the unhappy relationship thing up to her during our conversation and she basically put it like I fulfilled her sexual desires and made her feel like a woman, but he fulfills making her feel like a queen and providing for her. To me that just sounds like she…
/r/seduction25/10/15 12:32 AM
25

Alpha AF
/r/seduction24/10/15 10:24 PM
3

I'm still stuck at We kept walking and talking, found a water fountain with place to sit. She told me "I know a magic trick" - "Oh really? Show me" I said, "It's called butterfly" - I knew exactly what was happening. "Butterfly?" I asked as she looked at my lips and replied "Stomach butterflies".. And then we kissed. Wat...
/r/seduction20/10/15 08:31 PM
2

Some of this will shock you. Some of the this stuff comes out of the mouths of the sweetest looking girls. Especially the quiet "innocent" ones. They tend to be the biggest sex-loving freaks on the planet. Great post, OP. This is something I think a lot of guys looking for casual relationships don't realize. The only sad part is, more often than not, she'll end up catching feelings, but that's a post for another day.
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:45 PM
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Thank you, you're so sweet. You know, you look like the type of girl who likes to get coffee this weekend. or, more simple. Thank you, I appreciate it. You're cute too, what's your name (ignore nametag). Small talk. Get number. It was great meeting you!
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:36 PM
18

Soooo what 99% of the posts on her recommends. Seems about right. Not gonna lie though, people REALLY underestimate the wrist touching.
/r/seduction15/09/15 12:05 AM
2

Try to relax and just loosen up your face some.
/r/seduction05/09/15 04:38 PM
8

they are still girls inside Gross...
/r/seduction28/07/15 10:55 PM
5

Usually just go for a 3-5 second one to gauge how they respond. Once you pull away, pay attention to how she responds, then go for the second. I've had one-and-done kisses. I've had closed mouth leading to a lot more closed mouth. I've had closed leading to making out. I've had closed leading to her trying to fuck. It just depends on the girl. I try to get it to lead to making out if possible, but not fucking if I'm honestly interested in her. I know I'll get crucified on here for saying that, b…
/r/seduction24/07/15 12:29 AM
3

heartily recommended by 90% of reddit. It may just be the subs I'm on, but I've never heard that recommendation. Why would you ask someone to kiss them? That's just weird...
/r/seduction24/07/15 12:24 AM
1

In the end I don't really give a shit who won Because you know she won. If I were you, I'd call this one a wash. Hot/cute girls are a dime a dozen. FWBs are easy, but you can't be "chasing" after them. They want you to do that. It gives them power. Most females with power either treat you like shit or get bored of you quickly. One of the easiest ways to win over a girl (besides confidence/charm/etc.) is to treat her like anyone else. Give the hot girl the same attention you would a nasty girl. T…
/r/seduction19/07/15 07:09 PM
1

First off cut that shit talk, you're not as cool as you think. I say let her come to you. If she's making these "plays" as you say it, then she wants to see if you're worth being with. You going after her is going to hand over the power of the "relationship" to her. You don't want that, especially not with a girl like this. Stick with it and wait for text while dealing with other girls, right? Yes. Don't "wait for her text" like a little bitch though. Assume no text is coming and if one does, th…
/r/seduction19/07/15 06:52 PM
1

I know. I was responding as an extension of OP laughing at "looks don't matter". They don't in the long run. Not only do we all turn ugly eventually, but looks just help create opening attraction.
/r/seduction16/07/15 03:08 AM
1

Not only is he negative AF but he's also a little bitch. Makes sense why he's acting the way he is.
/r/seduction15/07/15 06:26 PM
2

Looks make opening easier. Status and personality seal the deal. My friend always says "a man can look like a seadog but if he can smooth talk he can get anyone". There's a lot of truth in her words.
/r/seduction15/07/15 06:24 PM
2

The Librarians know. They're the keepers of game. The Library is like a sexcatorium.
/r/seduction29/06/15 10:19 PM
5

This is pretty vague... No to me? No to sex? No to going out? What?
/r/seduction28/06/15 06:19 PM
3

Going out makes it easier to pick up sleazier girls for the most part. Seems like the most quality girls I've ever picked up were those I just saw at an event, the library, walking to class, at a club function, etc.
/r/seduction28/06/15 06:18 PM
7

Well, keep that up and you won't need to be posting to /r/nofap anymore bud. You'll have someone else to do it for you.
/r/seduction28/06/15 04:09 PM
2

Just like with any female. Treat her like anyone else.
/r/seduction28/06/15 04:07 PM
11

I go to a school that's like that too, it's interesting, all the females are either trying extra hard to find guys or are hardcore feminists since they can't compete with the prettier girls.
/r/seduction25/06/15 11:59 PM
3

There was a girl who was engaged, and she told me that after we slept, I felt sorry for the guy. That's fucking brutal. How did that come up? Did she drop it nonchalantly or how did she seem to feel?
/r/seduction25/06/15 11:58 PM
1

Negging?
/r/seduction22/06/15 10:02 PM
1

Most times they will, sometimes they don't, depends on how you deliver it and what type of girl she is. It's supposed to be a teaser and a "well if you're not interested, I have better things to do" type of response.
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:09 PM
3

I never understood why girls play with their hair when they're interested. Is there any reasoning behind it or is it just kind of a thing?
/r/seduction21/06/15 09:55 PM
6

What does IOI mean?
/r/seduction21/06/15 08:19 PM
2

Usually I don't "fall" for girls, but I have met 2 that made me realize I was kinda crushing on em. The one now is my FWB. Something about the way she talks really gets me thinking "damn, she's the coolest chick". She just good at being awesome and ALWAYS has something to talk to about. Never boring and she's the best I've ever had in bed. Plus she buys me dinners and coffee, I really can't complain. This other girl actually had me crushing hard. We shared like every hobby (dancing, cars, fashio…
/r/seduction12/06/15 12:13 AM
9

She wants to see not only if she can get you, but also you have proof now. This new girl you're with proves you're desirable and now she wants you. Ever hung out with a group of girls and been flirty with one? Notice all the others will start being the same and compete for your attention. It's the same idea here.
/r/seduction16/05/15 03:14 PM
8

Am I the only one amazed that she asked him to get food for her AND her friends? She has some serious fucking balls to even ask that question and try to go through with it. On top of that she bailed on your plans, man. Sounds like a loser to me.
/r/seduction07/05/15 03:15 PM
1

No, we can think cause and effect. The effect of his hands-on approach with her will cause him to get suspended/expelled. If her family decide to, they can press charges. Flip the situation and it's okay though, he's a guy. /s
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/15 12:53 AM
19

and then everyone wonders why many men opt to not get married. The sad thing about the Military is how common stories like this are. It happened to bud as well (just they didn't have kids and he had texts with her admitting to lying) and while it put his career on hold, he's back on track. Still, all she got slapped with was 15days in prison. From what I hear though, the AF is after her for using AF resources while he was away and not a direct dependent of him. I'm curious to see how that will g…
/r/PussyPass04/05/15 12:44 AM
54

But if she is punished, that would just deter women from reporting real rapes, amirite?
/r/PussyPass03/05/15 06:35 PM
1

It depends on where you live, but yes, most women are passive. No one can argue that. Just like most men are assertive (or they're supposed to be, seems like men are getting less and less aggressive and women are getting more and more aggressive today).
/r/seduction21/04/15 07:55 PM
1

she is not completely useless to you. She is social proof for getting more girls. She is gifting you with social proof. So take it. Good save, OP. Smooth.
/r/seduction21/04/15 06:33 PM
1

It depends on the girl. Some text first and initiate first, some don't. It's just like approaching. It's generally accepted the guy will approach first, but sometimes the female will approach first instead. With setting up dates, girls love men who take charge and are assertive. In many cases, they want badly to hang out, but they have 2 problems. 1 is they don't want to seem clingy or annoy you. 2 is they want you to do to show you can be the go-getter in the relationship. Of course, it goes fa…
/r/seduction21/04/15 06:22 PM
2

Find the perfect balance of nice guy and "jerk", you'll be golden. Be that nice guy she can turn to, but don't be that nice guy who puts her on a pedestal and is a little bitch around her. Girls gravitate towards guys who are dicks because they all have the traits girls love most (confidence, leadership, high self-esteem, etc.), but they always kind of hate them for being dicks all the time. Keep those traits and be a good guy and a girl will never leave.
/r/seduction12/04/15 08:05 PM
1

Look man, I appreciate you going in to it, but I've been doing this for a while now. It works everywhere else I am, just not amongst Southern girls. I'm beginning to think it's just the town I'm in though, because everyone here is angry and rude all the time, yet I've been to smaller Southern towns that aren't like this, in fact everyone is usually extremely polite there.
/r/seduction03/03/15 07:54 PM
1

I'm Brazilian decent(light skin, so basically white with the right clothes/haircut) born in US.
/r/seduction03/03/15 05:11 PM
1

I do that all the time yet they respond negatively even to that. Like I said, I don't quite understand.
/r/seduction03/03/15 05:09 PM
1

The problem is they make up 95% of my uni, so it's hard to deal. I have a hard time just talking to them, they're so.... different.
/r/seduction03/03/15 04:43 AM
1

Anywhere. College. Bar. Grocery store. Aren't really any limits.
/r/seduction03/03/15 04:42 AM
1

Honestly, just man up and tell her it'd a date from the start. Quit being afraid, when you give uncertainty she senses it and it's a quick way to get her to lose interest.
/r/seduction02/03/15 09:22 PM
5

You get her pussy wet, that's how you break out of the friend zone. Fuck that jealousy manipulative shit. Couldn't have said it better myself. OP's main problem is he's overanalyzing the whole situation. He's getting caught up in games and "what-ifs" and making himself nervous. Be loose, fun, get in her comfort zone, then like /u/youngpua says, escalate.
/r/seduction28/02/15 06:53 PM
1

Understandable. I know I'm probably looking back with rose-colored glasses, but I just remember this sub being a lot more of the leadership role, mostly answering questions BEFORE they were asked, now it just feels like it gets flooded with a lot of dumb posts. As long as you guys are willing to work with it though, I'll be here to do my part. I can honestly say the quality has improved over the past 2 months, so that's a really great sign.
/r/seduction20/02/15 07:59 PM
1

Yeah, I hear ya. I'm just glad you guys are working on it. It's sad when I, as a 21 year old, can give advice to guys who are "26 year old virgin too scared to talk to female, why so pathetic, I'm so lonely ?" sob stories that really seem to encompass this sub now. What I do love about this sub is the GOOD advice gets highly upvoted quickly, even if it's common sense stuff, it's there for people to read and hopefully take the load off of those sob posts. I'll give the sorting bit a shot, didn't …
/r/seduction20/02/15 07:49 PM
1

It did pretty damn well in /r/askmen So, I don't come to this sub often anymore since half the time it's guys asking why they're so pathetic and can't get laid, what's the accepted rediquette for this sub now? I used to browse here a lot 1-2 years ago, but it seems so different now. Less FR/Advice, more people asking the same questions repeatedly or bragging about how they got to kiss a girl who was DTF basically the whole time.
/r/seduction20/02/15 07:34 PM
1

Nah, it's all good. I just wanted people to post stories, that's all. I'm not looking for advice on anything, just sharing a story and wanting to hear similar stories. I'll post it to /r/askmen or something.
/r/seduction20/02/15 02:04 AM
1

This isn't supposed to be a one-up thread, it's just something for fun, like when you talk with buds... So I take it you removed it?
/r/seduction20/02/15 01:12 AM
1

I don't know about unnatural. I normally break eye contact by looking to the right or looking a bit up (usually at the hair) subconsciously. Never really thought about it meaning anything though, just that down is never good.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:50 PM
2

Ever. Even outside of seduction, it looks like you're giving up power to the person. I began to notice as I went to uni and are at business events, you can always tell the firms hierarchy by how they hold themselves and how they make/break eye contact. It's really interesting.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:48 PM
2

Exactly. She's a bitch. She probably doesn't get many guys talking to her. Now you know she's that way and won't be wondering "what if" later. Also this post is a bit much, not all of us are afraid...
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:40 PM
3

While this is true, maybe she's not pretty/interesting enough for a sugar daddy. Maybe "Mr. Average Money" will do, since that's all she can get. Average is A LOT in college. That said, if OP feels he's being taken advantage of, he should stop buying her things and see how she acts then. He's probably over-analyzing or insecure (as his post leads me to believe) and this will either confirm or deny his insecurities.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:38 PM
2

I only read the title and I could tell it was because he putting her on a pedestal. Reading this just made me sad.
/r/seduction18/01/15 03:49 AM
0

When they stuff their bras improperly and one boob looks bigger than the other or you can see whatever she used to stuff it poking out... That and fake ass. That's just tasteless and false advertising, ladies!
/r/seduction21/12/14 05:28 AM
2

I wish I was half as happy as a lot of posters here when they lost their virginity.
/r/seduction18/12/14 10:06 PM
1

Rich girls are like picking up any other girl, honestly. The less you treat them like they're special, the more they'll want you to see them as special. Same goes for overly hot girls. They'll be more standoffish and self-centered off the bat but if you treat them like any other girl, you'll see that by the end of the night, they'll be coming on to you stronger than "normal" girls. There's usually no real trick to it, just treat them like any other girl.
/r/seduction15/12/14 03:58 AM
1

I have the same exact problem. It seems that a majority of girls my age prefer to converse over text which is weird to me, but just use text to a minimum. Use it to say quick things or set up a date and that's it. Save the flirting and game and all that for in-person. Text should just be a convenient way to make plans.
/r/seduction25/11/14 11:14 PM
1

RIP
/r/seduction11/11/14 09:22 PM
1

I take it this is a response to the guy yesterday who says he has to lecture/insult people who ask him if he's smart because he's a PoliSci major?
/r/seduction11/11/14 04:30 PM
16

Same thing at my Uni, that's why OP's post had me taken aback a bit haha
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:09 PM
5

Well judging by that question I can kind of see why she may talk to you that way... If she says"so you're smart" you can respond by saying "yeah, something like that" or "maybe you can find out someday/maybe you can find out over coffee". You don't need to lecture someone or be an asshole when they ask you if you are smart according to your major.... I'm in Accounting and have a 4.0, I get asked if I'm really smart a lot, never once have I felt the need to be so rude about it. How/what you can p…
/r/seduction10/11/14 08:45 PM
5

Sounds like she's either asking a question to continue the conversation, minor shit test (more rare though), or she's trying to tell you you look/sound nerdy without being mean about. It's really hard to say without being there to see her response, but it seems like you're looking way too far in to it. Women love smart men because being smart generally means you'll make money, which they love.
/r/seduction10/11/14 08:36 PM
11

His game so dirty, condoms don't help!
/r/seduction26/10/14 12:41 AM
1

Then am I really an asshole :)
/r/seduction25/10/14 09:33 PM
2

Then get to it and quit acting Beta. It's all mental, the more you act like a bitch, the more you gonna be a bitch. The thing is, like confidence, it's all mental; fake it till you make it and quit crying here.
/r/seduction25/10/14 06:23 PM
4

No, you're making you Beta. If anything being Alpha is more about personality and presence. Looks are just icing on the cake. I have a little gap, nowhere near enough to warrant braces or any corrections, but enough that I NOTICE. Who cares? Like /u/Indianbro said; stop trying to look for validation. Make your own way.
/r/seduction25/10/14 05:48 PM
6

Quoting the other guy as a joke.
/r/seduction29/08/14 01:49 AM
19

Blah blah blah too much detail. Just kiss her. Make sure to touch her lots. Make her feel attractive. The fact you've only kissed this girl once and she is your only kiss is probably why you're bad at it. Just practice with her. Instead of acting weird/nervous about it, ask her how she enjoys to be kissed; what she likes. Then try it, when you ask her "like that?" she'll let you know if that's right and at the same time you get your practice in. If you're too good for that and want to be Mr. Stu…
/r/seduction28/08/14 11:57 PM
8

Lesson learned from Tinder: Those pick up lines are even more fun to drop in person.
/r/seduction28/08/14 09:53 PM
10

3 main lessons from Tinder: Learn how to smooth talk women Be attractive/well kept Don't be unattractive
/r/seduction28/08/14 08:51 PM
18

This dude hit it. Hard. Society already views Indian males as beta because most of the ones we run in to are fucking betas; that's why it's a stereotype. If you want to not be perceived as a beta, don't be one. Just as /u/BespokeAndSmoke said, change your attitude.
/r/seduction21/08/14 12:32 AM
1

That and if you buy her expensive stuff from day 1 she'll expect it a lot. Get to know her for her before you start buying her things.
/r/seduction16/08/14 07:12 PM
6

True but not ALL single moms are like that. He has no idea if she's crazy or entrapping or after more child support or what her goals could be, so he should just play it safe my dude. Better safe than sorry. I'm voting on she's probably just as you said and only in it for fun but we can't be sure of that at all.
/r/seduction11/08/14 06:01 PM
15

If she's single with a kid, that's not a deal-breaker, but be careful in case she tries to trick you in to anything. NEVER have unprotected sex with her, no matter how much she asks or says "she's on the pill", not only is that irresponsible, but it could be what she told the last guy she had her kid with...
/r/seduction11/08/14 05:33 PM
1

I'm the complete opposite. Care to help a dude out? Especially with text.
/r/seduction06/07/14 01:22 AM
1

Just gonna throw out there, if you're sitting next to a girl, hand on her thigh with fingers on her inner thigh(not for long though, like a quick tease, don't make it creepy) is an amazing opening kino. You'll get great responses 9/10 times.
/r/seduction05/07/14 05:54 PM
5

Best advice in the thread.
/r/seduction05/07/14 04:31 AM
2

Speaking on the flip side of things, as a latino male i prefer latinas naturally (more in common, etc.) however I don't discard other races. If she is confident, sweet, blah blah then I'll like her. The same will apply in your case. Be confident, approach, and get things done. People naturally gravitate towards others that are similar to them, that is true. That being said, if you want something go take it. Just because you're white doesn't mean you can't get an Asian girl, it just means you hav…
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:33 PM
2

I left a year ago actually. The store owner told me "we don't like your kind around here" after lying to me about my schedule so I'd "skip work". Place was the worst job ever and is currently failing.
/r/seduction12/06/14 04:30 PM
3

You will get paid to shit and you will like it. Idk man, my last job made us clock out to use the toilet. Nobody ever pays me to shit :(
/r/seduction11/06/14 05:02 PM
39

Plenty. Often times you can be flirting and they're loving it, getting turned on, etc. and you not even know simply because, as you said, they don't add anything to the conversation. Later you find out that they were loving it the whole time but either don't know how to flirt well or just aren't comfortable flirting back. My current fwb is that way. She's a little sex freak but she can't flirt to save her life, some girls are just like that. Of course others just may not be interested.
/r/seduction27/05/14 12:01 AM
1

Damn... Don't think I've ever seen Seddit act like this before.
/r/seduction01/05/14 03:44 AM
11

Exactly. If it crossed her mind in a light encounter and you hardly know her, she can and likely will, use that as a weapon against you in the future. Red flag there OP, duck out.
/r/seduction10/04/14 07:54 PM
-1

Hae bby ;*
/r/seduction10/04/14 07:24 PM
3

Bom trabalho yo
/r/seduction14/03/14 10:26 PM
1

What is PUA?
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:07 PM
45

Run.
/r/seduction28/01/14 11:43 PM
7

Exactly. It feels weird to "flirt" over text to me so I imagine she feels the same. Sexting is different tho ; )
/r/seduction27/01/14 07:54 PM
6

Soap. Use soap. Dove men care will leave it clean AND shining!
/r/seduction12/01/14 07:01 PM
2

What is AA, approach anxiety?
/r/seduction23/12/13 04:27 AM
1

Reverse the questions on them and answer then walk away.
/r/seduction05/12/13 02:14 AM
3

They want you to be a man and take it. Don't act eagerly tho or you'll look desperate and don't wait too long or they'll lose interest. Play it smart and above all be confident.
/r/seduction28/10/13 09:12 PM
2

Maybe I can... ahem Quit texting them, you're only going to hurt yourself Plus it makes you look needy, which is a big turn off. She's obviously not interested, so let it be.
/r/seduction31/08/13 08:09 PM
2

Hey you do comedy shows so you must be a funny guy, tell me a funny joke.
/r/seduction24/08/13 06:10 AM
1

"I like the fact that you're in control, it makes me feel secure" "I like that you keep me in line, I need a man who does that" Need to stay confident and strong if you want any woman to follow you and have her want to continue doing so.
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:38 PM
8

It seems to be women who are more open are hornier(or sluttier?). When it comes to relationships tho, it seems like the better you are at pleasuring the woman, the hornier she is. Seems like every girl has an inner sex freak waiting to be brought out. But also think, its not socially acceptable for a woman to crave sex, as proven by what I said in my first sentence. The female now is becoming increasingly more powerful in society, and can begin repressing those sexual urges less without being/fe…
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:56 AM
2

Local drink joints, local events/festivals. The pool is actually a really good one, dances, even big charity events open to the public. You can find girls anywhere really. Beach and pools/coffee shops would be your best bet!
/r/seduction23/05/13 03:56 AM
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