JeffroTk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How to talk to girls		JeffroTk	/r/seduction	08/02/12 01:52 AM

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5	Any opinions on RSD Tylars pick-up strategy? Most of what he does is just him being himself. What he's teaching is to just be yourself and embrace that, if that's the funny guy great, if it's the serious guy great	/r/seduction	05/06/16 05:18 PM
3	Girl asked for my number and then rejected me? Man these aren't hard and fast rules, there's never a black and white point of when you should buy her dinner. I personally don't like spending a lot of money so I come up with other ideas. My favorite is making us lattes at my place and taking her to a free local skating rink. Ends up costing me about $1 and is way more fun and intimate than dinner. I honestly think dinner is one of the worst dates, find a cool local spot and go for drinks instead. We have a speak easy bar in my city - which ba…	/r/seduction	17/04/15 11:02 PM
1	Frame keeps shifting This is a very common thing, and it's funny how you'll see it acted out in people when you've been studying seduction for a while. What tends to happen is people try to identify with the person who is the leader of a group (is giving the most value). Tyler from RSD gave a good example from his own life: He never smoked weed, but the "cool" group of kids in his school did so whenever he hung out with them he would try to talk about the different types of weed etc. He did this just to try and rela…	/r/seduction	12/12/13 03:54 PM
2	Caught being Greedy, And Paid the Ultimate Price This is completely right, you had the wrong takeaway. As soon as you lied to the girl and tried to apologize for doing nothing wrong you lost all value, your mindset should be that meeting lots of new women is normal/natural for you. Please don't stop talking to other girls because you think you have one hooked, this is the easiest way to lose attraction	/r/seduction	12/12/13 03:07 AM
1	Frame keeps shifting You don't seem strong enough in your identity. You're reacting to other people and there is no quick fix. Until you develop your own values, what you consider important, and start projecting those regardless of outside influence you will continue to have the problem you described. It's extremely common, especially among people who are "people pleasers" and it's part of your social conditioning. Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of and has the simple fix of acting out of your own intentions and no…	/r/seduction	11/12/13 10:45 PM
2	Got the pickup skills; additionally, a reputation. Seddit, help. According to your writeup and responses the problem isn't your reputation it's how you're handling the relationship. It seems you have no problem attracting women and sleeping with them once, so it must be how you're handling the situation afterwards. There's not a lot of information in your post but how much are you texting the girls? Are you texting them first or are they texting you? Are you two hanging out and doing fun things or just having sex? Are they all from within the same social circ…	/r/seduction	11/12/13 09:57 PM
2	Balancing non-neediness and faithfulness in a monogamous relationship? You're changing how you act around girls because you don't have the prospect of hooking up with them. Obviously you shouldn't be out grinding on girls but otherwise the way you act should be no different whether you are in or out of a relationship. I also have a girlfriend right now but I'm still just as social with or without her there. When I'm at the bar I still dance like an idiot, spin random girls around, and talk with them at the bar. A good example of this is my girlfriend went to the ba…	/r/seduction	11/12/13 09:50 PM
1	Txt game, felt low energy from chick, stopped sending her messages HappyJerk is right, I personally only ever text when I am making plans with someone "Hey lets get drinks Thursday night..." I believe it was TofuTofu that said for every text you send her, attraction for you goes down by 10% (arbitrary number but it stresses the importance of showing non neediness). It's nearly impossible to build attraction through texting and no matter how many witty texts you send it's going to come off as try hard and outcome dependant. Also try working on your grammar, Engl…	/r/seduction	11/12/13 09:34 PM
5	Getting the kiss? The best advice I've ever gotten on seddit is simply: shut up and kiss her. Don't wait for the perfect moment, don't ask for her approval just shut up and kiss her.	/r/seduction	27/07/12 07:23 PM