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Same. I have no idea what or where I posted/commented, but someone saw it and said I should check FDS out. Good tip. Sure, a couple times I've seen something on here and thought "hey whoooa that is just... Men are human too" but most if not all the time it's great advice and women supporting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:30 PM
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My ex claimed that he was very empathic. I just stared at this man whos emotional range was suppressed onto a teaspoon. A man who's emotional labour was non-existent. At that point, him claiming he's so empathetic must mean he actually did notice my struggles and did nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:30 PM
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Definitely dodged a bullet and found an actual worthy life partner. Some days I look at him and think "how could I ever wanted to marry the other guy??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:27 AM
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Like, it might be PUA advice, which is awful, but I also noticed that the more I saw someone (girl or boy) the less I'd text them because I'd mentally checked out on the medium of texting when talking in person was sooo much better. Still, not a fan at all of people doing this to me. Makes me feel like I did something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:45 AM
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I let my ex convince me that an open relationship is completely normal and that I was "closed minded" if I didn't give it a try. I should have trusted my gut about myself. I knew it wasn't for me. He broke me down though. I don't regret my actions because you can't change the past, but I am disgusted at myself. I see myself as a strong, independent woman but somehow I let myself be manipulated into doing something I never wanted to do. I'm now out and found a very HVM and married him, but that l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:14 AM
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I thought this guy want talking about himself and his boyfriend and how his family was still considering him single despite living with his bf for 20 years, etc. Oooops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:54 AM
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Damn I had no idea he was Australian!... But makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:28 PM
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That's awful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:26 PM
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God, I've come across this attitude of "wHy DoN't WoMeN sPeAk Up AbOuT mEn'S rIgHtS?!?1!!“ sooo much in the past week. See my comment history. They don't seem to get that we don't have to?? The response is always" but feminism says they support men so where is the support?" and I can't even?? Like, do they not see and dumb the question is? Where are men supporting men against toxic masculinity? Oh right, being put down by other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:10 PM
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Wasn't it so far this year?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:31 PM
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I can't remember where or what I commented on, but someone then reached out to me a recommended this sub. I think I was autobanned twice due to following conflicting subs but leaving those subs to stay here was 100% worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:24 PM
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I haven't read the article, but based on your response, it seems to be something like "FDS seems to be about empowering women. But what about men? Let's ask them what they think" It's just ridiculous and almost proof of why we need this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:29 AM
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Oh I should get on that! That'd be great! I'm always tweeting constantly during an episode xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:20 PM
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I actually quite enjoy the German version of this show with Heidi Klum, but there are definitely times I'm like "wtf would they do that??" like a couple of weeks ago they did a "naked walk". They all had nude underwear and nipple pads on and were covered in soapy studs and made to walk but like... What's the point? A model, models. Haha wears the clothes or the product. This was nothing but to show off the bodies of these barely legal girls. That's where I don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:23 PM
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... Fuck. I was definitely like that. In fact, I think this is the big appeal of the enemies-to-lovers trope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:11 PM
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Haha no, actually live in Germany! Which one would have been your ex? Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:03 AM
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Oh geeze this happened to me. I was in an open relationship (so much regret) and hooked up with this other guy, Daniel. We were going on dates every week and it was super nice. He knew my circumstances and everything was above board. Then, I finally and happily ended my open relationship and let Daniel know as a courtesy. Yeeeah that went well. Suddenly he was just super busy and couldn't meet up that week. I straight up told him if he didn't want to meet any more just to tell me right then. Nop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:38 PM
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Plot twist, I was on a date with a guy and he walked behind me the whole time. Like he was a security guard or something. Legit ruined my time exploring Naples, ItalyI did ask him wtf he was doing and I don't remember his response now but damn. Overall, great free accommodation in another city AND I didn't have to put out for it (not that I was planning on using my body for it). God damn depressing seeing a single man living in a 3 story house and using only the living room. He was Navy and bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:18 AM
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The sad part is all the red flags where there but people were too blue pilled to notice, thinking that by trying to work harder on marriage would fix the problems when it only pushes them away. What do you mean by "too blue pilled"? Look, people suck. We're selfish and often only don't think about expanding consequences from our actions. When it comes to cheating, we seem to collectively think it's a rare thing that only bad people do. That's false. I strongly recommend the book The State of Aff…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/21 12:11 PM
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I find this article to say it best: a man can be giving the eulogy at his own grandmother's funeral, and if there is a girl in the front row showing cleavage, he will be imagining himself pressing those boobs in his face, with his own dead grandmother not five feet away. When that happens, when we get that boner at the funeral, we get mad at the girl showing the cleavage. Because we, ourselves, our own rational personality that knows right from wrong and appropriate from inappropriate, knows thi…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 06:41 PM
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This is really something you should get professional help for. Obviously talking it out with your partner is good, but I think the best way would be therapy (if you can get it). In my personal experience as a woman with an average to low sex drive, nothing would turn me off more than my partner begging for sex or sulking after it was denied. It made me feel like I was gatekeeping an intimate activity and just made me regard the man as pathetic and looking down on your partner is never a good thi…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/21 11:13 AM
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Bridgerton
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:27 AM
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Firstly, what's pair bonding? Secondly, the amount of sex is honestly different couple to couple. It's common in long relationship for sex to wane (from both sides or one side), but not in everyone. It depends on both people in the relationship. For some, having sex once a week is good, others, everyday, other every month, etc. I'm sure there's some scientific answer but yeah, all different.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/20 10:48 PM
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I couldn't fucking even with this story. Because it's AITA, it could be fake, but doesn't even matter. PRINTED HER FACE OM JUMPERS omg. I hate how people think adding "it's just a joke" at the end of something harmful would make it all OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:06 AM
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Did we read the same article?? It definitely does not "glorify" circumcision but explains it in a way to shoe that there is simply no comparison to FGM. Is circumcision then good? No. But it's negatives are nothing like the negatives with FGM. And that's the point of that section in the article.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 09:40 AM
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I think Buzzfeed did a skit on this that was exactly how you're saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:33 AM
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They also tested the desirability hypothesis, the idea that women like to feel desired in such a way that men "lose control" over how attractive she is on which they found moderate support. This is where I'd put my money. In the context of a safe and loving relationship, such fantasies would be meeting this need.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 03:49 PM
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Disclaimer: while I do know the theory, my scientific language is lacking so please excuse/correct the terminology. Truth: receptors to such hormones as serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine, etc can become "over used" and as such the brain will compensate, resulting in more of the required hormone for the desire effect. However, what they didn't say is that after time without the increased amount of hormone, the brain "relaxes" again and the desired "high" can be achieved again. Simple simple simple ex…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/20 11:28 AM
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67 good
/r/ExRedPill29/07/20 11:08 AM
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So to check I'm understanding this, are you hooking up with other girls while seeing this girl? Also the timeline of when you guys started being serious and when she hooked up with the engaged guy is pretty important here. However going by what you've said, it was either very early on when you guys started to see each other or just before. I can't make a judgement without this fact. Also, each to their own, but why are you guys avoiding sex with each other? And why if you love this girl so much …
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 08:35 AM
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"social isolated" is an excused you've used a lot, but maybe you have to realise that you're views on social interactions between men and women are horrible and people would probably notice right off the bat and avoid further interactions. You can keep blaming other people, specifically women, for your social views. You've stopped talking to women who decide that just want to be friends with you? So you damit that you were only their for sex and actually didn't care about them? Gross.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 06:33 AM
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So just being friends is... Bad...?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 06:30 AM
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It would be more difficult in my opinion because, depending on how long you've been friends, its very possible that you have just been labelled as a friend and asking her for sex randomly would be strange. However, doesn't mean you can't try it as maybe they would be open for a change in the friendship. Also, upon rejection should that be the case, if you decide to then stop being her friend because you didn't get sex, it's just a gross manipulation of that girl. As I and others have already sai…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 06:28 AM
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Even more difficult because I'd say these are social cues to pick up on throughout the friendship. But still, I guess approach it with first a question of if she even considers you as such a possibility for a sexual partner. But prepare for a backlash and being put in the "friendzone". But I'm confused. If you've known this woman for a while, why do you just want to use her for sex?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 07:27 PM
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I don't mean to be rude, but do you have autism or aspergers? I only ask because your responses come across as someone who has problems with social cues and interactions. If so, that would indeed make this whole thing much harder for you for sure. But to respond to what you've said. I don't know how many times it needs to be stated but all girls aren't the same. Different communities and cultures have different expections and for sure there's a large prejudice against women exploring their sexua…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 05:47 PM
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As I said, there is nothing wrong with paying for it. I guess I'm just taking issue with your approach in this of viewing women as a way to get sex, not as a way to enjoy a partnership with sex in it. But alright. To get sex, you need to be an interesting person. You use apps for hooking up and be straight forward about what you want when the question comes up "so what are you looking for?" if it really is only sex you want, then say it. Something like "I'm just looking for hook ups" or "I'm not…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 01:17 PM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with going to sex workers. A problem I see in your post is more that you seem to be looking at women as sex vending machines. Are you supposed to just straight up ask a girl for sex? I didn't know why girls talked to me and wondered how I could escalate my relationships and interactions with them to sex. Som how do you go about asking a girl for sex? If you are only looking to have sex, then a prostitute would suit that need. But if you're looking for anythi…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 01:04 PM
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Beautiful
/r/ExRedPill15/05/20 10:21 PM
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That's what I said to him. You gotta start somewhere. Actually, I found it really good as it was a lot of learning and he didn't come in thinking he knows what to do. Helped a lot with communication.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 03:33 PM
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I had my now fiancee pull me aside before we started dating and shamefully admit to me that he was a virgin at age 24 and would "understand" if I chose not to pursue a relationship with me. I was gobsmacked. Like, are there people who would turn you away because of this??
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 03:13 PM
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Everything you've written here comes across as "I don't see women as people but holders of sex and they're not giving it to me". Your comment about just wanting to fuck/peg someone hot is terrible and when I read it I know exactly why you haven't had any luck.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 03:37 PM
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So basically what I'm reading here is all scientific evidence which, sure, can't disregard. But mate. Romance, sex, personal connection. It's not everything you read in a book. Knowing these facts isn't really helpful for actually getting out there and experiencing it. I guess you just have to first know what you want. If you just want sex, no idea, but being interesting in the girl would help instead of acting not interested. Same with wanting a relationship. God, it's really hard to advise bec…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/19 07:50 PM
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Whoa that's gotta be so strange to find a story about yourself like that. And for all the pain he caused... I think at least he's starting to come around to the fact all he learnt may not be correct. Thanks for sharing!
/r/ExRedPill25/11/19 07:41 AM
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Maybe. In that case it's not what she would think but what you'd think of yourself. But maybe you're also putting too much weight on it. It's just sex
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 08:16 PM
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If your future wife is put off by it, it's not a good sign of that relationship to begin with. Also, stop thinking so far ahead. Future girlfriend would be the stage to share that piece of information.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 08:04 PM
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You seem to be strongly tying your self worth to your ability to sleep with women and your failure to do so is "inexcusable". By who? Like, honestly, who cares? Do people look at you strange because you haven't got a lot of sexual experience? No, because people don't care. Just by going on what you've written, the change in women suddenly starting to talk to you could be down to a couple of things: You started to look to take care of yourself (e.g washing your hair). I would say in general, if y…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 09:44 PM
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This is amazing advice!
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 08:36 PM
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What a great deal of baloney. You disgrace females by hating on males. I 100% agree with you that women have been through some tough shit and still are. However, taking it out on every male is just a simple solution to a complex problem. Saying you "forgive" someone because you know they'll suffer is a terrible way to look at things and is not forgiveness at all!
/r/ExRedPill07/03/17 11:11 AM
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Personally after reading your post and all the comments, I think you should move on. Don't look at it as giving up although I know it may seem like that. You have noticed this as a giant red flag and that's a good thing. If it was just a political view then I would say "learn to deal with it" (so some extent) but you've said it's turned into him being disrespectful towards you and not being open to talking and having compassion. I really think it's best for you emotionally, mentally, and spiritu…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/17 10:44 AM
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