JellyJuggy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Cold Approach I could write a whole book on it. I don't think I could outright say men have it worse than women overall cause each gender has their own particular struggles. However when it comes to relationships and sex, intersexual dynamics have far more societal consequences than people think. Men certainly have it worse in the dating market. That's a fact. And so many women have very little sympathy for the bottom 80% of men who are struggling to even get one girl to give them the time of day. Here's some…	/r/seduction	04/06/21 08:55 PM
1	Cold Approach Imagine feeling unsafe in a public mall. Use common sense. If a man truly had bad intentions to hurt somebody, he wouldn’t be doing it where there are hundreds of witnesses. The worst thing that could happen is that the guy is a little creepy (aka unattractive or socially inept). Ohhh NoOoO. Yeah most women live life on easy mode and are completely unaware of how coddled they are. Men have to work on becoming more attractive and confident in social situations. As a man, you simply can’t afford t…	/r/seduction	03/06/21 07:16 PM
12	Cold Approach You're the definition of solipsism. Absolutely zero idea on what most men must go through to get even remotely the same level of dating options that the average female gets. Just because you would feel uncomfortable being approached in a mall doesn't mean all women do. You feel unsafe? Grow up. You're in a fucking mall with a bunch of other people walking around including security guards. All you have to do is say you're not interested and move on and it would literally have no effect on your da…	/r/seduction	23/05/21 12:37 AM
1	About hit and run Yeah I totally get that. In my experience, the feeling of not knowing what to say or running out of things to say comes from being in a stifled and constricted state. You're so caught up in not saying the "wrong" thing that subconsciously your brain essentially goes, "fuck it, I'm not gonna say anything at all." Funny enough, what you say is least important when it comes to talking to women and people in general. There are 4 layers of communication which are from least to most important: What yo…	/r/seduction	22/05/21 10:44 PM
9	About hit and run First of all, wtf is a hit and run approach? I assume by hit and run you mean brief interactions shorter than 2 minutes. Any time you open a girl, that is technically by definition considered an approach regardless of the length of interaction. When getting over approach anxiety, thinking in terms of quantity isn't a bad idea. However, I would say that you are avoiding rejection by doing these hit n run approaches. Just my opinion, but you should be playing to win every time. You're basically ju…	/r/seduction	22/05/21 07:43 PM
1	The number one trait you need to get laid. Is there something wrong with a woman who chooses to depend on their man financially? You seem to be implying that.	/r/seduction	22/05/21 05:51 PM
3	The number one trait you need to get laid. Yes and no. Money is just one of many factors which contribute to your attractiveness, but it's not the whole picture. Money will simply get you on her radar of potential suitable candidates but doesn't guarantee sexual attraction. However, it does work as a multiplier for a guy who is confident and already has experience with women, therefore significantly boosting his attractiveness. In contrast, men with money who are inexperienced or insecure will cause her to put you in the "provider" categ…	/r/seduction	22/05/21 05:41 PM
3	Why do I want this so badly? It's hard to change conditioned patterns of thinking and behaving, especially if they've been ingrained since an early age. Honestly this would need to be approached from multiple angles. First and foremost, if you're not seeing a therapist already, I would highly recommend it as there might be some unresolved conflict stemming from your childhood. One thing you can start doing is incorporating meditation into your routine as well. A lot of these problems exist in the mind as unconscious program…	/r/seduction	16/12/20 11:59 AM
6	Why do I want this so badly? I'm in a similar boat as you, but have made progress with this mindset. I would say caring about what others think and craving female companionship is totally normal. What's even more normal is that you recognize this need within yourself and don't seem to be coming from a place of entitlement which is a good sign. I couldn't give you an honest answer as there are too many variables to consider involving your psychology and upbringing. I would ask yourself, what is it that you are afraid of in p…	/r/seduction	16/12/20 10:04 AM
2	Show a woman the best time when you are with her and keep it short in between True but that's why both men and women should be realistic about what they think they deserve too. Some men think that they shouldn't have to put in any time or effort to keep a woman because she should be happy with whatever he gives her, which I think is bs. At the same time, some women can also have unhealthy expectations about how much attention they should be getting. Personally, she won't be seeing any good morning texts from me because my ass just woke up and I've got too many things to t…	/r/seduction	16/12/20 07:45 AM
1	How do I get guys to become/ stay interested in me? Fucking A+ post man. I'd give you a thousand upvotes if I could. This is exactly what I would say to any woman who wants a man to fall in love with her. Shallow as it is, which both genders are in different ways, a woman with genuine desire for a man will do almost anything to please him and that makes her incredibly sexy. Someone might say, "well shouldn't it go both ways?" And the answer is yes and no. A physically attractive woman is by default, genuinely desirable. But what makes men happy a…	/r/seduction	16/12/20 01:15 AM
2	Why do I get a lot of number but only few dates ? Sorry to break it to you but life is one giant game and everyone plays it, which is fine provided you are playing by basic rules of respect. We're all trying to figure out what the controls are and how the game mechanics work so that we can level up and fight more powerful monsters. Some people understand how the game works intuitively and don't have to make a conscious effort to figure it out. Though that would seem to be a minority nowadays. You can choose to opt out of the game, but you'll fo…	/r/seduction	15/12/20 11:17 PM