| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 177 | They know....they do know! | LEVEL UP | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 51 | Mature/Older FDS Sister's | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:34 PM | |
| 45 | Relevant and from the Horse's Mouth | LEVEL UP | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 44 | Thoughts.... | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:14 PM | |
| 36 | The Goal! | FDS HUMOR | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 15 | Monday musing - Watching and Cringing | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:18 PM |
| 3 | HVW | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:33 AM | |
| 1 | This needs to be a mood! | MOOD FOR LIFE | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What are you all reading currently? | LEVEL UP | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | sliding standards | SEEKING ADVICE | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | My Youtuber Fav | LEVEL UP | Jelly_Lover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:58 AM |
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| 10 | When you go on bumble to make some powerful women your bestiesI've used it but really, really wish you could add more to the bios and that there were more filters. Also lot of bios seem somewhat basic and generic? 'I want a girl squad, love boozy brunches, RuPaul's drag race /Reality TV etc blahdy blah' then there's the obligatory listing of 3 alcoholic drinks in with their 'likes' as though drinking is an aspirational hobby. I'm in the UK, any one have any alternative recommendations? Edit 1: typo's and removal of random words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:53 PM |
| 13 | Make him work for sex, not just before you have sex the first time after commitment, but all through the relationship!Believe me as soon as the AI bots become 'self aware' they'll not want to deal with that shit either. Full on mutiny will occur. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 7 | So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!!Jesus wept... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Where are all my girlfriends now who used the tell me to get a man asap, because "how are you going to survive without a man?"Yes makes need think of the character from U.K. TV programme fonejacker, George Agdgdgwngo: video below - too funny. https://youtu.be/R9biM_ZfIdo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 8 | FDS isn’t about menHappy belated birthday 👑💐🍕🐾 I chuckled at your post as I read 'dog eating pizza' and thought: hmm that's amazing, a dog that ears pizza! Anyway great post, hope you continued to have a wonderful day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Don't worry, he's very attentive, buys her gifts and is not all abusive. The woman is risking her health, going through all the pain, but "oh no, what about my dick? :(("How pitiful. 🤮🤮🤮🤮 I'm picturing this woman with her fingers stuck in each ear, yelling 🗣️: 'I can't hear you!!'. Life 'got real' from the moment they committed to each other with exclusivity, promises of marriage and etc. However he is acting like she's gotta to pay him in p***y pounds in order for him to function, be nice and loving in the relationship. That is sexual coercion. That is abuse. Anyway he'll 1000% cheat (if he isn't doing that already) and blame her for driving him to it. He'll cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | r/MGTOW gleefully plotting to replace women with machines.Have none of them watched Ex Machina??...haha, even she, the AI, leaves the scrotes in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Actually Being Protected vs "Gentleman Behaviors" aka False Protection1000% this comment. See how quickly the caring and protective facade drops the minute sex is of the table. The switch from protector to indifference or even abuse in some cases is lightning fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | LVM masquerading as HVM...never trust 'em ladies!Sea, swamp same thing lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Some pickmeishas are too far gone... Speechless.https://giphy.com/gifs/gtfo-mad-Kn7MBqwehC8Mw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 3 | "if a chick doesn't want you, rape her"Spoken like a true psychopath. Shudder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What are you all reading currently?*bumping for insight! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Guy wouldn’t post selfies, his instagram had no pics??It's great tarot confirms what your gut is trying to tell you but, with love and respect, you don't need signs from cards in order to take action - continue to trust yourself, your observations and your intuition. They'll rarely steer you wrong. If it feels wrong, block delete and move right on quickly, don't wait to see where the cards may fall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | This was posted by a woman & I’m tired of movements that are positive for us being hijacked by Pickmeishas who just have to point out that mEn mAtTeR tOoIt's the ultimate 'FU' saying, so I've heard. Love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:37 PM |
| 10 | Has it always been this way?Jason Momoa, Alexander Skarsgard Absolutely - yummy! Stephen Colbert...he gives me secret sex freak vibes if honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | OLD profileHe has a car? In central London? Bougie! Just kidding! Wishing you a great date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 20 | Girlfriend pranks boyfriend by leaving porn open on his laptop, while knowing he also watches porn. The way he reacts shows that men know how that it’s wrong to be placed in second place sexually.What a bloody loser! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Advise for a friend? Related to a post I saw earlier.👆This.. She's sick/anxious/stressed because of the abuse and coercion she's experiencing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | FDS youtubers? who do you watch that supports FDS teachingsYes it is. She's very monotone but also funny. She's FDS-ish... Still asks men in dates and etc so but quite there but very much about LOA manifestation, minimalism and levelling up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:06 AM |
| 6 | Why 50-50 men make undesirable partners: The hidden ugliness of the 'equality' mindsetThis is a fantastic post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:45 PM |
| 49 | I’m so lucky to have my mom (FDS’er by nature). My LV husband keeps using the ‘pity poor little me’ move and this is what my mom wrote me this morning.You are a 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do with this guy of questionable value..nip it in the bud?Short response: He definitely sounds like 'hard pass' material sorry. Longer response: Ok firstly Europe - there's an issue with far right parties and politics growing in Europe (basically all countries within the Economic Union (EU) so in this case you don't know for sure what anyone's worldview is now. So you really have to be comfortable with understanding a person's actual politics and beliefs before going down the road to relationship building. Especially with the international nuance of in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | When emotional labor follows us into the bedroom. A passage from “Rage Becomes Her”🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Got a parking ticket and a not interestedYou've described a LVM, not sure if the 'no job, no money, no direction' info came to light during the date or before? If during the date, then vet harder and earlier to save wasting your time. If before the date, next him and try to focus on going on date with potential HVMs not those who are clearly not and tell you so beforehand. But as the saying goes fall down 7, stand up 8. If nothing else, it was an opportunity to learn about what is right for you and whether the non negotiable list you h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Wow, they are truly disgusting. We haven’t spoke in 3 years. Old me would’ve thought “Aw I was on his mind”. Nope, she’s dead now.Low quality = Low effort. LVM don't place stock in admin/self organisation either (unless cheating) so I doubt they save numbers for any other reason than bet-hedging or sheer laziness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Don’t let them fool youHaha yes - love that term! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 66 | Don’t let them fool youIt's known as 'cocklodging' in the UK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Male incompetence is not cute 🤢This is too true... please don't ask me how I know! 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion💐💐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 27 | I’d rather grow old and alone with 30 cars than to know my husband settled for me.The face of a dying toadstool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 3 | The other side I guess (Not an excuse! I just found it interesting information) Thoughts??Agreed. Narcissist looking for kibbles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:04 AM |
| 3 | How rare is this! I don't mean to applaud a fish for swimming, but it's so rare to find someone praising the fact that they're married on twitter. Don't date guys who act like marriage is a ball and chain or make you have to nag for commitment. You get what you settle for!Written like a true narcissist. She had a 'use/function' - she's a house wife appliance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:55 AM |
| 9 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?Just to be clear, it's the girl's MOTHER who posted this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 7 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?I just peeped urghh nope, avoid her Instagram, she's obviously very, very ill. you will be too after seeing her random posts of tissues covered in blood by her toilet and alarmist messages. The daughter needs a new home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | "The Way I Are" Is probably one of the most Anti-FDS songs out there...And a LVW too! Apparently he's LV for real..... 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:32 AM |
| 6 | as a black woman does anyone else feel like white men treat you better than other men do?Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | sliding standardsThis is a month late but thank you for your thoughtful comment. I know I had 'high standards' but let them erode along with my boundaries very early as I was 'happy to be picked'.... Working on operation clean sheet right now so thank you, this community has been fantastically helpful and insightful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.Thank you so much for the award, really made me smile today! Thanks for being such a great community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:18 PM |
| 12 | Biggest libfem pickme TV characters?Oh gosh the Gilmore girls....the worst! I know it's the thing but watching it feels like someone is fast forwarding >>> the sound. Also really 'hate the child having to be the grown up' angle, whilst her mother fumbles and floats through life. Really can't like that show. Also some additions for fellow UK peeps: - Any female character in Eastenders; - TOWIE/Made in Chelsea - Big Brother - the whole concept is 'pick me' lol - Downtown Abbey - period appropriate I know but I have a theory....BBC p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:16 PM |
| 31 | Biggest libfem pickme TV characters?Big Bang Theory - an incels showreel tbh really disliked the programme. Scrubs Brooklyn 99 - although it's very enjoyable! Gina is they only one to (kind of) display an FDS mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:25 AM |
| 25 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.Because they are shapeshifters.... Same shit, different bodies but same outcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 61 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.When scrotes attack! Like the animal/wildlife TV shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Devastated over narcissistic ex, months after D-day How do u move on, please share your tips♥️ chump lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:41 PM |
| 16 | I cackled. Somebody come get their uncle.Even his hairline is looking for more value! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I breakup with my boyfriend?Please, please leave this relationship. It doesn't and won't get any better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Of course LVM don’t want to seek help — they’ve been brought up thinking that they’re great!What an amazing post, thank you so much Cheating isn't about having a crappy time therefore needing to 'feel good' about oneself. As Chump Lady says, it is fully about a lack of moral character and a huge dose of entitlement. Not every LVM male who cheats should have easy access to the 'poor mental health' get out of jail card. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 06:40 PM |
| 8 | I’m choking-Because he's a gay Pickmeisha battling us women, 'the competition' for straight males. Also isn't it funny that the stereotypical image of the male gay community is that the guys are known to take care of themselves (hygiene, fashion etc). Meaning men will put the work in.....to attract other men...whom they obviously don't hate....but women? Nah you can enjoy muh penis....a smelly, unwashed chipolatas... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | I’m choking-Some don't wash, periodt. Also from the UK with full on Jamaican parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 7 | WHAT THE FAt this point, maybe the AI revolution isn't such a bad idea.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:38 PM |
| 14 | I have no wordsSo the scrote wants to take food from his very own babies mouth just so that he can get his rocks off? Hmmmmm! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 35 | I have no words!!! Shows men truly don't give a shit about women, including their own family members!!!Socially distancing is acceptable because of corona but I'd be literally, physically and mentally distancing him out of my life for good. He may share familial genes but he is an ultimate scrote. I am so sorry this happened to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What guys on online dating really mean by causal is essentially is fuck buddy.Interesting....how would they know having a non-bio like that gets swiped on? Maybe experience from the gay apps? Any port in the storm.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | All compliments are not created equal.This post is a thunder bolt shot of clarity I didn't know I needed. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Name a film you used to love but now makes you cringe because of the glaring toxicity it's encouraging or trying to market as drama/romance.Anything with Tom Hanks...aka "the nice guy". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 9 | Girl please don't🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:56 PM |
| 9 | Hard pass🎶Barb the builder... Barb the builder....Can we fix him?... No blinking way! 🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Name a film you used to love but now makes you cringe because of the glaring toxicity it's encouraging or trying to market as drama/romance.So sad 😐😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 8 | Name a film you used to love but now makes you cringe because of the glaring toxicity it's encouraging or trying to market as drama/romance.I watched 'Think Like A Man' recently with Taraji P Henson....started okay then....💣 ... Basically settle for a LVM as long as he cooks you breakfast in bed and knows a few wine labels 😳. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 15 | Name a film you used to love but now makes you cringe because of the glaring toxicity it's encouraging or trying to market as drama/romance.Do you think Samantha reflected 'some' FDS principles. Like when she broke up with Smith? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 10 | I’m soooooo annoyedI'm picking up a recurrent theme in the replies to some of the 'what next?' situation posts on here.... For LVMs: no response is generally the response. There's no obligation to spell out our emotions, strategies and thoughts in literal words for them to digest and then go on to ignore anyway....let silence be your answer. Move of you need to, just live your life. We all know plenty of guys do this when the shoe is on the other foot. 👻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Saw this on r/cringe - anyone who gets married at first sight certainly can't expect a happy marriage, but his level of deception and gaslighting shown is horrendous. All because he can't admit who he is even to himself.This guy needs an asylum, he has dead eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 6 | I mean... She's not wrongI don't even share beds anymore, let alone blankets. Mine, mine precious sleep is mine lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | At least this scrote is directDiscovered - the missing link between man and lizard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 12 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedThis thread is killing me tonight, love the expanding FDS vocabulary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 5 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:24 AM |
| 8 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedI've literally never, ever seen a tube of ground beef.... And I'm from England! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:23 AM |
| 15 | Stop Sexualizing yourself💐 Best of luck to you. You've got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Red flag! Get your red flag here!Cabbage looking mofo - what a cheek! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Pick me behaviour encouraging songsYes that is a really great idea. A LVM / Pick Me and HVM song list post. I have got some already - oldies but goodies! Pick Me Track 1: Somebody Else's guy by Jocelyn Brown - a classic but yep pining over an ex-guy who is with someone else.. Pick Me Track 2: Through the Fire by Chaka Khan - begging to be given a 'chance' by a emotionally unavailable man (aka a LVM) Pick Me Track 3: Shame by Evelyn 'Champagne' King - Loving a cheating LVM....to the despair of her mother! x [Edit: Spelling!] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:33 PM |
| 13 | Couldn’t have said it ANY better.Just a suggestion, I'd get that looked into (if you haven't already of course). We are so conditioned to accept excruciating pain and are experience dismissal health professionals that we find out too late that they were symptoms of other things. Speaking from experience and now 15 years later (with wasted potential child rearing years) cue Hysterectomy in 3, 2, 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Kanye West would 'be at peace' with Kim Kardashian divorcing himShe does but maybe she needs FDS too, the whole Kardashian family life is about living the Pickmeisha dream with LVM m/billionaires with hood rat mentality. It's harsh to say but well.......they can do better and they need to do better....for their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:00 PM |
| 27 | Kanye West would 'be at peace' with Kim Kardashian divorcing himWow, just wow! Poor North growing up with a narcissist father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | You gotta know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em. DUMP HIS ASS!He's a grubby leach....no accountability yet all the entitlement.....put those trainers on and run for the hills would be my advice to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Trying to put FDS into practice. Critique me, ladies!he egg don't swim to the sperm, buddy, especially if that sperm is weak as fuck! I love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:59 PM |
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