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I think I said this in another comment but in my own personal experience I'm the one doing most of the work, and ofc its different depending on the couple but sex really should be about making your partner feel good, and in a good relationship that dynamic will be mutually pleasurable
/r/MensRights09/07/26 01:33 PM
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well its just a theory, but for example, if a guy has a girlfriend that expects everything to be done for her in the bed and blames him for stuff like struggling to get an erection, which is a common problem, then he might already assume that his next girlfriend will act a similar way
/r/MensRights07/07/26 03:41 PM
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Oh for sure, I think a lot of the broader assumptions and generalisations when it comes to relationships stem from one or two bad experiences
/r/MensRights07/07/26 02:47 PM
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yeah sex should be fun, but the way its being described here it sounds much more like an unpleasant challenge to make the woman enjoy herself. thats just bs
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:48 AM
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Lol I imagine that's where the idea comes that sex should just be a woman laying there doing nothing while a guy does all the fucking, it sounds so lifeless
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:45 AM
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Yeah I think that's a good point actually. Trying to shift any blame from women is both hurtful to men and treats women like children who can't take accountability. And yeah like you mention, I'm sure its been said a million billion times, but communication is always the solution for problems like these, whether it's the man's fault or the woman's fault.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:44 AM
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Lol I dont think a single one of my partners regularly had any of those aspects in bed, and while I'm sure its different for person to person, in my experience I've always enjoyed sex most when I'm focusing on just giving the guy pleasure, which is kinda what it's supposed to be right? I think thats evidence enough that the expectations put on men are just bullshit
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:41 AM
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Its definitely a double standard. Idk where its originated from, but it's definitely gross. There are many double standards like that in modern media nowadays though, especially in films and tv.
/r/MensRights06/07/26 07:41 PM
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wishing you the best with your mental health!
/r/MensRights12/06/26 04:25 PM
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